Family: Question: I'm 13 and my mums still really overprotective she won't even let me wear a dress because it's so "inappropriate" when it isn't?

Question: I'm 13 and my mums still really overprotective she won't even let me wear a dress because it's so "inappropriate" when it isn't?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:41 PM PST

Question: My brother changed his name legally to Joe because kids made fun of him when he was a child and said "Fay is gay". I have never said this to?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:34 PM PST

his face because he has an explosive temper but I think the whole thing is very silly and childish so I have been calling him "Crowd pleaser Joe", since he is so insecure about his name that he felt the need to change his name. My mother says agrees it is silly for him to change his name but says calling him "Crowd pleaser Joe" is wrong. What do you think?

Question: Moving to Denmark?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:32 PM PST

I'm moving to a different country and I'm only 13. I'm going to an international school there and I'm scared if any of this would ruin my education. There only two more years till my GCSEs and I'm scared if I ruin everything by movin get to Denmark. I also have to leave my dad alone and he will come with us later. I will miss my dad. I have to go with my mum and my siblings which would be alright I guess. Pls help and give me advise. Would this ruin my education? How to not worry about my dad? And is this Denmark as bad as people think it is? Sorry if I wrote a lot xxx

Question: Would i like snow tubing?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:27 PM PST

okay so my school is going snow tubing in like two weeks. i wasnt allowed to go last year because i was only in 6th grade (12). now im in 7th (13) and REALLY want to go. all of my friends are going and i think it would be fun. the omly problem is i dont like roller coasters that go super fast. it makes me sick and dizzy. would tubing be the same way? we are going to seven springs if that makes a difference. im fine with driving in cars(they dont makes me sick) and as a kid use to go down hills on snow. oh and any way i can convince my mom? she is sorta kinda willing to let me go

Question: Parents are still treating me as a child! HELP!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:25 PM PST

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years; I'm 24 (will be 25 soon) he's 26( will be 27 soon as well in 2months). I appreciate my boyfriend so much for putting up with my dad for many years but he has reached his breaking point. It started when all my boyfriend wanted me to do was drive with him to the next state to see his mom because she had surgery and took pills that made her relapse after being clean for many years. All my boyfriend needed from me was emotional support because no on else planned on helping. My dad had the nerve to say,"she can't go, I don't know what my daughter can do for u". So he had to do everything by himself. I had recently helped my boyfriend get a car as a co-signer...its been almost 5months since he had the car. He's been making payments on time and everything however my dad wants me to get off of the loan. I feel that it is partially my fault for my dad to continue to be treated like a kid because he has took care of all my problems if it was big or small...maybe not all but some. But even when I try to do adult things like even spend the night with my boyfriend, I can't or be out too late with friends. He would constantly call or text asking when am I coming home or who am I with. As of right now I am still living at home but I am so fed up I am ready to move out in 2months or so. I clearly care about my parents but I don't think I'm being treated as a 24 almost 25 year old should.

Question: Should I call CPS on my brother?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:50 AM PST

My brother is a racist Libertarian that takes his children to church and teaches them there is a made up god man in the sky! I was simply explaining to his kids that god is a fairy tale, much like Santa, and he got very angry with me and told me I could never talk to them about atheism again! He wants to keep the children from learning the truth which is a form of child abuse so I think I should call CPS and possibly the police.

Question: Hi my sister is doing drugs she is 14 and she smokes and is in care I don't know what to do I don't want her to throw her life away .??

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:44 AM PST

Question: What if your parents are rich and drive new Mercedes but won't buy you a car & you have to ride the bus with all the ghetto people?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:39 AM PST

Question: How to get my mother off my back when it comes to my 6 yr old? We been fighting and my daughter comment on how she doesn't like it.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:31 AM PST

My Boyfriend and i just moved into my parents house 5 month ago with our 6 yr old daughter. We both have jobs, pay rent, buy our own groceries, and im in the middle of finishing my last year in college, we cant afford our own place. Everything was going smooth for the most part, but lately my mom been nagging at me. When I ask my daughter to tidy up her room by putting away her toys and pick up she scolds me for not helping her, yet im the one who dusts the furniture and makes the bed. When i get my daughter to take a bath and on the day i do step out of the bathroom while I go grab something or finish up something she of she goes off on me for leaving her and how i should be the one to bathe her and I do. i even sit on the toilet seat until shes done help her dry off and she dresses herself. When shes watching Tv my mom expects me to sit on the couch to watch her watch Tv. I cant even be on my cellphone without making a comment about how im neglecting my child. If Im in the middle of a conversation and i ask my daughter to wait patiently till im done, I have my mom yelling at me to pay attention to her. She always refers to her as a baby. She nag on how my boyfriend doesn't help me enough with my daughter when that far from the truth. He pick her up from school on a daily bases, helps her with her homework while im at school, plays and does activities with her and even takes her to her ballet classes. All she "see" is him napping (works late shifts) and playing video games.

Question: I feel really bad. Idont know why.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:01 AM PST

I feel empty and useless. Im usually the kind that forgives. By that i mean i hold things that bother me inside me and then explode sometime later not in anger but in tears. Im not a kid. Im a 20 yearold man. My family dont understand me. They are really nice but the only thing they say is to "cheer up u dont have anyproblems to feel down". This may seem dumb but today i exploded intears (i usually hide but my sister noticed and tried to cheer me up) because i promised my dad to pass every lessons in this semester. Well i didnt and im really sensetive about promising specially to my dad since i dont want to disappoint him..this was just an example. Idont know what to do. Im not going to kill myself cause it wont solve any problems and it would really hurt my family. I dont know i feel really bad. I feel useless..what should i do? I usually hide my sadnss by video games.they make me feel better

Question: I hate my sisters boyfriend!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:00 AM PST

I don't even know, just something about him just ANNOYS me, like, they went out, then broke up, and now they're ACTING like they're going out, but saying they're not. I'll be in the middle of talking to my sister - Jenny - and then her "boyfriend" - Jack - will just come up and grab her and walk away like he's way more important than me and he's always skipping class to see her and it's like, what the f*ck, because he sucks up to the teacher and acts like the class favorite but goes and skips her class. Jack is like depressed or something and like acts all poor or something and my sister is SO annoying and acts like he's all innocent and crap but like what the hell. I have no other siblings and no one to vent to. Omg. And my parents are always drunk and sh*t and so they wouldn't care. What the HELL

Question: What would you say/do if your 24 year old daughter was in a relationship with a 42 year old man?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 10:44 AM PST

I'm trying to understand my mother.. I moved in to my own house at 18, I've been in a relationship with him for 4 years. I understand that it would take some getting used to, with the age difference, and he is also American (I'm not sure why, but Americans don't seem to have a good rep in my country), but it has been 4 years, and it is getting very serious. Yet, she is still horrible to him. On Christmas for example, we drove 2 hours to her house and she slammed the door in our faces because she didn't want him in her house. She calls us 'disgusting'. None of my family, even those who have never met him want anything to do with us. Even my sister who I was very close to has ignored me for nearly 3 years now. At first I did understand it, I knew it would take time to adjust but its now at the point where every single one of my family members have cut all ties with me. They say until I finish him, they won't speak to me. So it is basically "him or family". I really love him more than anything, and we are happy with or without my family there I just don't understand why they would take it this far?

Question: What to do with controlling parent?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 10:27 AM PST

I am 23 years old. I have a full time job and in my last semester in college. I lived at home until I was 22 years old. But I moved in with my boyfriend. They did not like this. They are very religious and say I'm living in sin. Besides that they hate my boyfriend. They have come to him many times and called and texted him to tell him not talk to me and to break up with me. They even barged in to his house while he was not there and tried to get my stuff. I had to beg them to leave. They will drive by the house to see if my car is there and everything. They do not like him cause he is an atheist. Also cause he got a divorce. He also has bi polar. Yes me and him do have fights but its never nothing serious. And he does everything he can to make me happy. He is a good boyfriend. He had no issue with my parents until they started acting like this. My mom even called him and the first thing she said was do you believe in god? Not even a hello or introduced herself. Right now she is texting me all these hurtful things. And it sucks cause she is my parent. She wants me to move back home and break up with that person. But I don't want to do that. When I just dated him they pull into the drive and demand I leave. They even forced me into their car and wouldn't let me get out. My mom threw my phone in the toilet once. I one time forgot to log out of my Facebook account and she read my message. I just don't know what to do. I would appreciate any advice

Question: Major college dilemma?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 10:16 AM PST

Background: I'm 21 year old guy, and I'm in my 3rd year of an engineering degree and looking for an internship for the summer. So I have an interview with a company that has a office in my home town and in my states largest city which is a 3 hour drive. I have lived in my hometown since I was born and I'm very tired of it. My college town is small and very boring. (I go to a DII school). I would absolutely love to be on internship in my states largest city. However, here's the big problem. My parents are selling the house this summer and they will desperately need my help moving. I really don't want to spend another summer living at home. I have lost contact with most of my friends from high school and being at home is really boring. I want to move to a big city and experience life in a way that I haven't before. So what should I do? Should I try to get an internship in my hometown and help my family move, or should I move to the big city and start a new life for a few months. (I have about 1.5 years left of college).

Question: My parents hates my fiance. How can I fix their relationship?!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 10:12 AM PST

My parents hates my fiance. How can I fix their relationship?! Everytime I even talk about him to my parents, they shut me out, or yell at me.

Question: My older brother hits me, and my parents doesnt do anything about it?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 10:09 AM PST

He is 24 and has hit me a lot of times. He has mental problems, doesnt do anything and still lives here at home. He has been to prison before, and is very violent and has anger issues. Im a 17 year old shy girl, I never wanna cause problems. He could hit me for no good reason. It would be too ridiculous if I told you why.. Everytime it happens my parents always protect me from him, before I get bruises. So that way, I never got any proof, except one time where I bled out of my head, and I went to the doctor, and told him, but he just laughed, and said 'Thats just normal sibling problems'. My brother mostly hits me in the head with his fist, or kick me on my stomach. But the one thing my parents keep saying to me is.. 'If it happens ONE more time, were gonna do this and that...' and it does happen again, and they always keep saying that. When I ask when he is gonna move out, they keep in a few months, but it never happens. Ive told my teacher before, she told my citys municipality and they got us in to some counseling with my parents, but it never helped, and the family counceler suddenly blamed me and made me the problem, he said I should go be more active and find a job So I now have a job and its great, but I can never feel free at home, because of my older brother. I have done anything I can. The police doesnt care If i dont have any proof, and I cant live like this anymore..

Question: How do you deal with judgmental family members when you are vegan?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:57 AM PST

I became vegan in Febuary 2015. I had a lot of time to mentally prepare myself for the backlash of my family when they found out about it. Of course I told my parents my grandparents and everyone I usually see at least once a week and they took it hard, but now accept and understand it. I knew the holidays were coming up and I would see more family members, aunts and uncles, cousins, etc, and they would give me crap about how veganism isnt normal,blah, blah, blah, so I got mentally prepared for it. I knew that I would show up to Thanksgiving and Christmas and not say anything or bring it up unless asked. I wouldnt make any comments about the turkey, or the ham. I would eat my own food and pray that no one would notice the lack of meat and dairy in my plate, but as you could guess, they did notice. The converstation got way out of hand the more i tried to defend myself. No matter what I would say, slander got thrown back at me. I tried explaining that it was my choice and that i wasnt judging anyone, i just wanted to enjoy my food, but it didnt stop. We are now done with the holidays, and i have two uncles who are pissed at me because now their children dont want to eat meat. An aunt who refuses to talk to me because her and her husband are sport hunters and they will not have a family member who is against that. I can usually take the chritizism from strangers, but from my own family? Please do not answer if you have anything negative to say. I need legit advice. Sorry for the spelling errors. I was in a hurry to get this post up before my lunch hour. Lol

Question: Can anyone help me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:55 AM PST

my father Betray my mom ....and my mom she's sad and always crying ...and i just sit behind her... but my heart is broken I'm so sad for my mom and i hate my father i went to be dead but I'm a Weak I can't do anything >> please help me and tell me what can i do ?

Question: Some one took my birth certificate, now I use a copy and my dad changed my last name, advise?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:52 AM PST

When I was 6 years old someone, either my aunty, or someone in the house took my birth certificate.. It was last year that we got a copy when i was 16, i am 17 now.. I'm angry because my dad changed my original birth certificate to have his last name.. then we lost it now the copy we have has my mom's last name and my social security has my dad.. What can i do right now? I don't want my father's last name. I'd like to keep my mom's

Question: Should I still try to do nice things for him?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:46 AM PST

My older brother is basically a narcissist; if that makes any sense. He's very ungrateful, thinks he's always right, and that the world revolves around him. Anyway, I had won this bacon shirt from some site. When they contacted me about a size I said either a men's L or M would be fine. I figured I would give it to one of my brothers because they may like it. I got it today and they sent me a L. When I went to give it to my older brother he flat out said "I don't want that." He more or less thought it was stupid. It's not just this, over Christmas he was super ungrateful for his gifts and what not. He would come right out and state that he didn't like something. He does it all the time. Is it worth it to continue to try to do things like mentioned above? It's coming to a point where I don't want to try anymore because he's so ungrateful.

Question: Is it normal to 'forget' your passions during and after tough times?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:41 AM PST

I cant go into detail much but 2 months ago I was diagnosed with anxiety. id get panic attacks, racing thoughts and the likes. its been getting better, but I cant help but notice that ever since then, I stopped being involved with my passion to read. even now when I try to read my favourite novel its as though the passion in me died, like im trying to ignite damp wood, its confusing and frustrating...Will my passion ever come back, should I give it time?

Question: Am I overreacting to this sexual assault?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:41 AM PST

When I was 18, I was kicked out of my parents home. I went to live with a friend of friend. The night I met the friend's boyfriend. It was myself, the friend, my older brother and I. I was sitting on couch across from the boyfriend. I was laying on my side. I have a bigger chest, and of course when you have a bigger chest you kind of forget its there. And I noticed he was staring at me and my chest. So I sat up and covered myself up with covers. The friend and the boyfriend went up stairs. And my older brother left. I was downstairs on the couch. I took my bra because I have contact dermatitis. Basically meaning if something comes in contact with my skin it could possibly cause a rash. I lay on the couch on my stomach and cover myself with covers. A few hours I wake up, on my back with my shirt pulled up and him squeezing my breast. He realized I was awake and he ran outside. I turned onto my stomach and covered my head with covers and cried. When he came back in and run upstairs, I ran out of the house. It's been a year and a half, and I'm still not over it. I had a tank top on that night.

Question: How can I get my mother off my back when it comes to my 6 year old?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:40 AM PST

Question: My step-dad abuses my mother , please help me.?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:28 AM PST

From the first day my mom hanged out with this dude i knew things weren't going to be good , and i mean it. Long story short , my mom and dad broke up since i was a little kid , and my mother never had a boyfriend since. Last year , my mom meet this guy who seemed nice at first sight , but after a few months with him in our house i literally wanted to torture him. He is abusing my mom everyday and treats her like a b#tch , calls her names , curses at her and gets mad for the stupidest things. I do think he has major anger problems and he should be checked , hell i'd even stomp on his head . I can't do anything right now because we don't have much money , this bastard stole it all. If we were to move now we wouldn't have any money even for food. Another fact that annoys me of this guy is that he tries so hard to "make me feel good" when he really doesn't care about me at all. He always treats me like some kind of special person , but just sneak disses me everytime something happens. Examples are here: "My "son" is such a idiot , he doesn't know much stuff" "My "son" doesn't respect me" etc etc. And i don't see why i should respect him , i don't see why i should respect a random dude that abusses my mom , the one that gave me birth. If i had a chance , i would kill this dude with my bare hands but you know , i can't I am 15 and this is slowly driving me into depression , seeing my mom get verbally abused everyday. What can i do?

Question: My parents don't care about my concerns?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:17 AM PST

I am a 16 year old (turning 17 tomorrow) and i have been insanely depressed about a lot of things lately. We recently moved and i lost some of my best friends that i have known for almost a decade, and my life hasn't been the same without them. I am also at risk of being held back at school, and i would get made fun of a lot. No words in the dictionary could describe how stressed out I've been over this. As soon as i open my eyes in the morning, all the way till i close my eyes at night, i am always thinking about the life i once had, and the awful future i might get. When i try to talk to my parents, they just get angry and tell me that i should stop being so stressed in life, and just thinking about negative thoughts isn't gonna get me anywhere, I'm not the only one with problems etc. Sometimes, i can barely mumble any words because I'm crying so hard to my parents telling them how stressed i am, and as soon as i leave to go back in my room, they carry on talking to each other or doing whatever like it never happened. If i can't talk to my own family, who can i talk to? I even told my parents that i have thought about suicide , and they pretty much just said don't do that, and 2 minutes later, acted like i never said it. The place i live in is really bad, no where near as good as the one i used to live in. I can't make friends here. I asked my parents about me seeing a doctor, and they never took me seriously. What can i do? I can't describe how sick I'm feeling everyday

Question: Am I spoiling my child? My husbands family is a large family, so they (grandparents), Who also support some grandkids, buy fairly?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:17 AM PST

inexpensive gifts, toys,etc. One reason is the parents, will not work and they rely on my husbands parents to support them and their children. I know thing s they do, such as paying rent, or cell phone bills. While parents party, smoke, drink their money away. I work and I keep a paycheck coming in. Over Christmas, one of my brother's sisters made the comment, about my child. What do you get a kid who has everything? I was livid. I don't buy her everything, but she is an only child. & She is 2. NOw I am feeling guilty about throwing a birthday party for her soon. I don't want to "Over do " it in their eyes. But, she's my kid? Do I invite that family? Ignore them and do my own thing? Should I feel guilty? oops...My HUSABAND'S sister

Question: My mom wont let me move out at 24?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:08 AM PST

My mom got divorced 2 times and is basically a misanthrope. she doesnt trust anyone so she has no friends. She gets mad when i talk about moving out. She says "So you don't plan on taking care of your own mother?! The one who raised and protected you?" Then that puts me in a guilt trip. I want a life of my own and I don't think it's fair that she choses to not make any new friends or find a boyfriend and then makes me fill those roles and take care of her. I am going to leave her this year, but should i tell her not just leave in the middle of the night?

Question: Do women rape men?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 09:05 AM PST

You keep on hearing all these stories about women getting raped and all that, but not once have I heard a story about a man getting raped by a woman. Does it happen or what? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0

Question: Would you tell your mother how you feel?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:26 AM PST

I am a married adult. I live about 8 hours from my mom who is remarried. We have had a strained time for years and argue often. She has told me I push her away and she doesn't feel apart of my life. Her husband has a large family that my mom puts a lot of effort into. Almost every time my husband and I and kids visit we watch them clean and cook for his family to come over and while they are there I don't see or talk to her because she is busy talking to all of them, many of whom live nearby, min away. When she visits us we spend all our time with her and her husband if he comes, take them out to dinner, do things etc. When I visit her there is very little time with her. I just moved to new area a few months ago and it took her a month to call me and I don't know why. This Christmas I called and she was rushed because her husbands family was coming over and I told her she could call me back. She never did because she was busy with them. Would you tell your mom how you feel or is that too hurtful to tell mom you feel she is too busy for you? Or would you just keep quiet about it? How would you handle the relationship?

Question: Who's wrong? Me or my dad?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:25 AM PST

I'm an 18 year old girl and living with my parents. The problem is my dad constantly barges into my room without knocking. When I lock my door he he gets mad and thinks I'm hiding something. When I ask him to knock he says that it's his house and he can come into any room whenever he wants. I'm a teenage girl and I just want enough privacy to change my clothes without being scared I'll be walked in on. I've never been caught doing drugs or having sex in my room so I don't see why he won't trust me. He does it at least 3 times a day. I can't move out just yet, I'm still saving up. Who's wrong here, be honest I don't care if you don't agree with me.

Question: Is the man supposed to love the woman more in a relationship/marriage?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:24 AM PST

my friends, family, and church family is saying that this is so. If it's true, why? in a relationship, is the man supposed to love the woman more than she loves him?

Question: What are the rights of my sons father? (New York State)?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:17 AM PST

I am 15 & pregnant and my babys father is insisting on being involved in his sons life (hes also 15) Hes not a good guy at all hes always doing bad things with his friends. He does drugs and drinks, hes gotten arrested and had to go to court so many times and he had to fight with our school in order to come back because they kicked him out, he cuts class all the time and gets horrible grades. This isnt the person he used to be at all. He used to be the complete opposite. He fights with me all the time because he won t give his rights up to his son because he wants to be his dad but hes not willing to grow up and make the sacrifices for it. I just dont see him being a good role model to my son and a good father. This might all sound so mean and Im not trying to be because I really do love him and I wish he was who he used to be but he isnt, and I cant let him hurt my son the way hes hurt me. His priorities arent straight. So my question is that I want to take him to court and fight for full custody of our son.. I dont want him to be able to my son until he is mature enough and grown up and ready to be a dad. Could I prove him unfit to be a father? Do you think I have a good case against him? What do you think the courts would do or say or who they would agree with? What are his rights? Things like that. Please help me and don t be rude. I m trying to do what s best for me and my son.

Question: How to convince mother to let me quit softball to start working?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:09 AM PST

I've been playing for 8 long years and I'm not a sophomore and I've told her I wanted to quit for over 2 years. I play in highschool and I have a select team. I've never been that good and always playing the easiest positions. She is trying to get me to play in college and get a scholarship but I know i am really not good enough. She is trying to teach me to not give up and thinks i give up on everything that gets hard (of course I disagree). I told her I was willing to get my first job, get into piano lessons and join a club but she doesn't want me to because she knows all of it will get in the way of softball. She doesn't care about spending the money for softball and it sucks because it isn't being spent on something I enjoy. She thinks I never work hard at anything and doesn't believe that I will stick with something to replace softball. I am willing to start working and gaining money for college. This is my last chance to quit because it's almost the start of the season. I'm willing to do anything to quit now.

Question: Is it okay for my grandma to hit me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 08:08 AM PST

Whenever she gets angry at me she pushes me or grabs me sometimes pulls my hair and stuff like that but she's not my actual legal guardian me and my mum live with her so it's it okay for her to do that?

Question: Girls be dead honest?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:51 AM PST

My ex left me because she said she outgrew me (we'd fight a lot) & said she didn't even know about me anymore but will like to stay friends . To be honest she was the best gf i ever had. Not to mention really beautiful (idk if i'll ever find someone like her). She also had a friend that'll tell her bad stuff about me as in "he's a bum leave him". Once i heard about this friend i went off on her friend. I called her a bietch etc. After my ex said how she felt i asked her if she has dated around and she said nothing serious yes. I then admitted i slept with an old ex while on our last break up since i wanted to know if she was seeing/slept with someone & she never mentioned she slept around. I guess she got jealous and said "only one girl? is that all hot stuff ". Needless to say my gf said to f off and to never bother again. It's been 8 months since we talked. The other day we bumped into e/o and she flicked me off and sped away in her car. Honestly i'm going crazy w/o her. I miss her lots. What should i do & do you think she got jealous or was hurt?????...

Question: What's wrong with me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:49 AM PST

Why is it that when I'm in school or just with my friends in general, I'm really just genuinely happy,but when I'm at home with my family I'm constantly fighting with them and locking myself in my room and just crying a lot?

Question: Why does everything bad happen at once?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:48 AM PST

My father died last month, my husband's hours at work were cut a few months ago and are getting cut again, our break line broke on our car, my glasses were broke yesterday and today my cell phone broke. Oh, and a leaking faucet which double my water bill. I feel like I'm going to scream! We're honest; hard working people, but I just don't understand why all this has to happen at once.

Question: Are these people called moderators?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:42 AM PST

These are people from a program that aim to make others a part of such social group or way of thinking, and this may involve getting hairstyle ideas and dance moves. They may also be around the city. They aim to make males metrosexual. I just need to know what they're called because these people are conspiring against me by getting each of their attendants to shun, ostracize and see me as a contemptible person throughout the state due to them believing in some lies that were escalating for the last 6 years. My parents had also permanently blacklisted me from ever attending since I missed out when took my teen siblings and violent 27-year-old macho brother to such event. My 27-year-old immature, unemployed brother also took photos of me and published lies about me that were consistent with what he does or has as traits, just to blacklist me. I'm non-rebellious, non-violent and non-condescending. My identity was always close to metrosexuality. I'm blacklisted from something that suits me perfectly.

Question: Is it weird that my boyfriend is jealous of my brother?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:42 AM PST

I don't know why, but my boyfriend seems abnormally jealous of my brother. It's so bizarre. Every time we're all in the same room and my brother either talks to me or initiates any type of physical contact with me my boyfriend gets really pissed, starts swearing at my brother and then slams the door and leaves. Like, what's his deal? This is my biological brother for crying out loud, nothing's going to happen. And then when I follow after him he keeps on saying that I shouldn't let me brother touch me and that I should just go and move in with him instead. Is he crazy? First of all I'm underage and second of all I don't understand what his problem with my brother is. He REALLY doesn't want him near me. It's not just me who thinks this is weird right? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0

Question: My daughter keeps on calling my sister "mom." what's that about?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:29 AM PST

I've never understood my daughter, ever since she was 13 all we do is fight about EVERYTHING. I say something very simple to her like "could you please put your plate in the sink" and then she actually smashes the plate on the floor, swears at me and leaves. I've caught her smoking, having sex and drinking multiple times, and whenever I confront it always ends up in a screaming match and then she just smashes something into the wall and leaves. But now she keeps on calling me by my name and whenever she sees my sister she calls her "mom." She actually keeps on telling me I'm not her mother like she genuinely believes it. Do you think this is another way of her acting out or should I be worried? Thank you for reading -Lisa ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0

Question: My parents are difficult?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 07:15 AM PST

So, I posted this question about a month ago but didn't get the answers I desired so here I go again. I recently just turned 20, the age that you become a man, and my parents have shown no willingness to treat me as an adult. They ask me to do laundry, wash dishes, and clean the WHOLE house. Even the basement and attic. They've kicked me out a million times for stupid things. I sat them down and told them that I wish to be treated as a superior and they mocked me. That's actually the reason that I have to make my own dinner now. I don't think they love me anymore. They always talk about college for me and when i'm going but I do not wish to go. I was planning on staying at home until they died so I could inherit the place. I'm been really frustrated lately and have even thought of homicide. I feel really close to it too. Should I move out-which I REALLY don't want to do- or should I make them accept me? I have a sneaking suspicion that my mom is actually a narcissist.

Question: Got in to it with my dad this smorning, he hit me an I stayed home form skool!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:52 AM PST

Me an my dad is always fighting! He calls me a lazy werthless slob just cause I have failed my skool 2 years in a row an I failed all 7 of my classes this term an cause I don't bath ever day an I don't brush my teeth! I am 16 years old I know what I'm doing! We had a huge fight this smorning! I was laying in bed, I had a long night playing Wii U last night an dad was like "get up an get ready for skool" an I'm like "I will, I just need to rest my eyes" but I accident fell back a sleep. I missed the bus an he came in an just blowed up, like it was a big huge deal. He ripped off the covars an started cussin an said I was a lazy werthless slob an accused me of not showering in 2 weeks it has only been 9 days so w/e lets just lie about it dad. Then he starts bringing up brushing my teeth an I just don't have time for that kind of stuff. He said my room smells like rotten food an poop an then made a big deal cause I have lots of dishes laying a round in hear an clothes on the floor an stuff. Big deal. THEN he started on skool, cause I am a freshmen I should be a junior but I failed 2 times an will prolly fail this year cause I am failing every class, he is like "how do you fail gym class" an I started to get mad cause he just don't understand! THEN he called me a looser! He said I was stupid an that I should of been in retarted classes! That finally pushed me ovar the edge. I bit my arm real hard an made it bleed an then I called him a stupid cuntlicking fagit an he hit me! Then he took my N64 an my TV out of my room while I was layin on the bed bawling! He said the only things I will be a loud to have in my room is my bed, my dresser an clothes an my computer for skool work! I said he was a mean old witch an he hit me again! He said when I'm 18 he is throwing me out of the house! I was like "I don't care, fagit, I am going to be a WWE superstar an a country music singer an a private detective an when I'm famous I will tell every one on TV that your a fagit!" So now dad is at work an I am sitting hear typing this. He is a FAGIT.

Question: Would you call this stealing or borrowing?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:47 AM PST

when my bro lived with the family he would "borrow" money with out my permission. (we shared a safe that only me and my bro knew the combination) after he took the money he would tell me he "borrowed". at first I didn't mind it but then I got tired of it and put the money somewhere else. he got mad abit. then he moved out and hes still in debt to me. he hasn't paid me back in 4 years. what do u think?

Question: Why is my mum against me?!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:28 AM PST

My mum is always with my brother. He does something to annoy me and my mum tells at me to stop telling my brother to stop it. I then do the same thing back to him and when he tells ME to stop it, she yells at me to not annoy him. Also,I get 100% on my tests hoping to make her proud but she just says "Whatever." when I tell her my grade. The one time I get a 96, she yells at me like crazy calling me a failure in life. My brother then gets a 53% and all she says it "try better next time"

Question: How do I convince my mom to let me quit softball?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:22 AM PST

I've been playing for 8 long years and I'm not a sophomore and I've told her I wanted to quit for over 2 years. I play in highschool and I have a select team. I've never been that good and always playing the easiest positions. She is trying to get me to play in college and get a scholarship but I know i am really not good enough. She is trying to teach me to not give up and thinks i give up on everything that gets hard (of course I disagree). I told her I was willing to get my first job, get into piano lessons and join a club but she doesn't want me to because she knows all of it will get in the way of softball. She doesn't care about spending the money for softball and it sucks because it isn't being spent on something I enjoy. Again, she thinks I never work hard at anything and doesn't believe that I will stick with something to replace softball. This is my last chance to quit because it's almost the start of the season. I'm willing to do anything to quit now.

Question: Family: Should I send my son to college or buy a couple thousand lotto tickets?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:15 AM PST

Looks like it's loan time for Jimmy...

Question: Would it be out of line to wear this in front of my 28 year old son and his buddies out on the lake on boat?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:12 AM PST

His buddies all say I should.

Question: Would you tell your mother if her partner kept putting his hands on you?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 06:06 AM PST

Say if he kept slapping, and grabbing your butt and when you sit down for dinner he rubs his hands on your thighs really close to your lady part. Or is it really just nothing ?

Question: Brother has been dry for 5 years.He was ok as a person and now he s sober he s rude, bad-tempered etc. Is it to do with stopping drinking?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 05:47 AM PST

Question: Is father name is family name or grandfather name is the family name (last) Please provide examples I just wanna know about last name?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 05:41 AM PST

Question: Is it normal/ok not to care much about your family?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 05:30 AM PST

I feel the same amount of love and care for my family as I would a stranger.. If a house was on fire, and I had to pick between a family member (my mother, or sister etc) or a complete stranger, I really wouldn't care which one.. I don't know why. I just don't really love any of them except my neice

Question: I'm 15 and I think I'm depressed?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:08 AM PST

Everything has stress in my daily life. My mother is always on top of me and my grades and our relationship has really has diminished A LOT. She thinks I'm stupid and I know that because she's told me that. My father thinks I'm stupid too, he's told me that as well. I go to high school and I have friends but trying to make more friends has proven difficult; people read and don't reply and my friends from middle school don't go here. My grades suck, because I'm lazy and dumb, and when I actually try I still do bad because, my idiocity. I don't know what I'm doing with my life right now. I've contemplated taking up smoking, or just hooking up with people just To feel or do something. I'm just so bored and unhappy and I need to fill this void in my heart now before it's too late.

Question: Worried that I am no longer a virgin?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:07 AM PST

Hi I am a 18 year old girl. I really like this guy I am dating and the other day we hooked up in his car for around an hour. At one point, when I was straddling him while we kissed he started to thrust for a bit and then stopped. Why did he do this? Does this sound how mean I'm not a virgin anymore? we we're fulled clothed in jeans when this happened

Question: MY COUSIN IS ABUSING ME ?!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:06 AM PST

I have aunt and cousin. My cousin is 11 (girl).And I'm 14 (boy) She is always abusing me and saying rude words to me. Sometimes scratching me with her dirty nails. I can't stand her anymore. They come in my father's house from time to time to be more exactly EVERY FUKING WEEKEND- That little brat has no respect for me, and even my father sometimes...Yeah their parent's divorced when she was 10 months old and she lives with her mom in my granddad's house... Sometimes i want to smack her face so hard that she will cry and scream, but i am afraid of my mother and my father. My mother is hardly ever on my side when we (my "cousin" and I ) arguing but I don't blame it on my mother I love her no doubt... It's so unfairly you see she can beat me and I must not fight back... It's so unfairly, Sometimes i cry whole night because it is so unfairly cause she is so slim and short and she can beat the **** out of me and me (1.65m 50kg ) must not defend myself... How can I convince my mom and dad that i need to stand up for myself? So my problem is this: She is rude, churlish and has no respect for me even if I'm older than her, she is beating me because i sad no for something she wants and she is really annoying for no f*cking reason. If i'm ignorant she is upset, if I say something she is upset, but if I "accidentally" say NO for something she wants she will beat the hell out of me and scratch me even sometimes hit me with her legs .... :/ I'm so depressed help me...

Question: Is my family being sexist and unfair?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:56 AM PST

My older brother is a big fan of the outdoors. He goes outside every so often and spends hours playing soccer. Now, once he was leaving the house and I asked my dad if I could go outside too, and he said no. When I asked why, he said, word for word, "because you are a girl." I was so angered and saddened by this I went crying to my mother and asked her if she actually agreed with what he said. She, too, said I was big girl now and wasn't allowed to go outside. Wtf does that even mean? Eventually my dad explained to me there were too many sexual assault going on in the news which I think is completely irrelevant because when I wasn't 'too old' to go outside he'd never let me play with my friends for more than ten minutes and only within the perimeter of my block, versus my brother who could literally bike all the way to china if he asked. My friends have even stopped knocking on my door asking me to come out because my parents dont let me outside anymore. I dont know who's right in this, can someone help me please?

Question: Why does my mum feel like she needs to repeat everything she says?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:43 AM PST

My mum feels the need to repeat everything she says. When she says something, I always reply instantly. But she repeats the same sentence to me 2 or 3 times, even though I knew what she said. She claims it's because "I never listen" or "I'm forgetful". I always listen to her, and I'm never forgetful. Why does she feel like she needs to repeat everything she says? She acts like I never listen to her.

Question: Should a stepmother force her way into a hospital to see her stepkid?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:38 AM PST

My parents are divorced. I'm the oldest of 6 between the ages of 8-16. My 8 year old brother has been really sick the last couple of years and he's in the hospital for surgery now. Our dad has been remarried for the last year. None of us like our stepmother. The younger kids only see him every other weekend because of her. The three of us who are older only see him when he picks them up or when he spends time with us. My brother asked my mom and me not to let our stepmother in his hospital room. My mom passed on the message, but my dad sent me a text last night to say my stepmother has said she will make sure she comes in, whether we like it or not. Should she be doing this when he's sick? Shouldn't our dad tell her not to upset my brother? She's not a nice woman. She always talks bad about people. This is why those of us who are old enough pulled away from our dad. He used to be the best dad in the world. But he puts his wife first. And it's hurt us all in so many ways. I've moved on to the point where I can enjoy his company when he's alone. There is a good chance the rest of the visitation will be removed next month since there have been some hateful emails from our stepmother to us.

Question: Why is my sister like this?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:04 AM PST

I'm 18 and my sister is 21. Whenever someone we know mourns the loss of someone famous, she doesn't mind and pays tribute with them. But when I mourn the loss of someone famous, my sister gets p*ssed off and angry with me. She claims I don't know them when I do. For example, when Cilla Black died last year, she got all p*ssed off when I mourned her death. She said I don't know her well enough to mourn her, even when I've listened to a lot of her music and watched her on TV a lot. When I showed proof I know her, my sister called me an "arrogant, boastful scum" and walked away. This is the same for other celebrities such as Christopher Lee, Leonard Nimoy, Lemmy, Wes Craven and most recently David Bowie. I don't get why she's like this. It's like she's saying it's a bad thing for me to mourn famous people, or any people for that matter. Why is she like this?

Question: Should we kick out our son?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:28 AM PST

My son is eighteen, still lives at home, and me and my husband are very angry because he obviously strongly dislikes us. He doesn't talk to us, doesn't so anything in the house, and is paying less rent each month. He has a huge issue with our daughter (who is 27) staying over at our house occasionally with my young granddaughter because he thinks she should be paying rent like he does (but she can't, she has no job and is a single mother. So her situation is more difficult than his. We look after her daughter a lot to give her a break). My son is unjustifiably angry about this and has threatened to pay no rent until we stop "coddling" his sister. We should take a holiday, take our daughter with us, and leave him to pay for the house. Our daughter was staying yesterday and my son came home from work and argued and got angry with us, to the point of swearing. Should we just kick him out?

Question: *** sa te conving ca eu sunt iti dau web sa vezi ?

Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:56 AM PST