Checking my case online and it shows the non custodial parent was submitted to the offset program . It says this 3 times on there however for every time it states that it's on a different date what does that mean ?

My crush did a double take when he saw me come into the store today . I haven't been there in weeks. Do you think that's a good sign? We also stared at each other for a few seconds without breaking eye contact then smiled (both ) before breaking the eye contact.

I am taking the ACT in April and it is my dad's week then. It is really loud at my dad's so I really want to stay at my mom's that night. I asked my mom and she was fine with it. I would ask my dad but I asked him a while ago about something like this and he threatened to disown me. I don't want to pay for an attorney. What should I do? Also I am 17 if that helps. Thank you so much!!!

My speration is going on 2 year.the frist year of speration was when it happens it was in February 2014 I love her my wife and thought it was a for a little time to be apart and later make up i said some hurtfull thing to her becuase I was hurting an a little time later she meet a guy in March 2014 and texting she was very secretive about it she then she throw it in my face in making me jealous about talking to someone she move out in April I beg her and got on my knees not to leave she did I gave it a year I fail in try to make it work that year counseling nothing work she was just tired of me and my selfis ways i tried so hard to be thean she wanted the following year she got more serious in talking to the guy. I did what I could to show her I still love her and I wanted to save our marriage by end of 2015 I found they where together and are in a relationship my question is did she leave me for someone else and quite her marriage? Or is just me making a excuse ? I know I m not over her when I should but it so hard cuz we have 1 child together trust me I ve tried dating and going out and talking to other women Im lost

How do I tell my parents? I already dropped out of college, I had a football scholarship. To join the Army. I feel they will be dissapointed in me. My parents good people it just seems like alot to disclose. K is already 13 weeks, she's a beautiful caramel skinned black goddess. I never dated a black woman before. I'm Irish/white. She's pregnant with my babies, and I'm going to Marry her. While I was at AIT training for the Army. I was using Tinder. I met my now Fiance. During the weekends I got day passes, and she would stay at a hotel near the base a few times a month. She lived an hour away. Fast forward, we are in Love. I loved her before I even met her. We have twins on the way and we are getting married next month. When I come home on leave, I'm overseas at the moment. Happy and Wonderful?? I love K but It's not like I wanted to have kids now. At first she wanted an abortion. I was happy about that. Then she changed her mind so I'm sticking with her and supporting her because I love her. I'm happy about being a dad now, but I'm still scared to tell my parents.

I take my pills at 11, and go to bed. Or so I thought. My husband told me 3 nights ago I ran out to Mcdonalds. My son told me that 2 nights ago I broke a lamp over something that happened on a TV show! My husband said that last night I was redecorating my bedroom. Whats wrong with me?

I have been seperated from my husband for 11 years. He left me and moved in with his sister. I asked him numerous times to get togeather and sign divorce papers and he always avoided me. I moved on and out of state. I never had the money for a lawyer but I really want to be divorced and done associated with him . I was told by a lawyer in my state of TN that I had to go through MI where he lives if I want a lawyer. My question is, do I have to go through the courts there too? Or can I file with my local court. I want to get the paperwork myself and run the ad in the paper etc etc...i know all that but also what if he doesnt respond to the paperwork? Does that mean I can t get divorced or will I have to file paperwork with the court at the same time, so the judge would know he isn t responding? I kno he wont bc he is just like that...

We have been married for 2 years and he used to be really angry, grumpy, moody, and just a plain old jerk...sorry, but he was borderline abusive. One day he started taking anxiety meds and pretty soon he was the man I married. He was loving, kind, nice, and I could have an actual conversation with him. But the past few days have been like he was when he wasn't on meds. I know he's taking them and it takes a long time to get out of your system completely. But what gives?! He's rude, demeaning, doesn't acknowledge me when I come home, says that I am overly sensitive, etc. I am now giving him some space because I feel like that might be what he wants...he's definitely pushing me away. Should I confront him about this, or just wait and see what happens? In the past when I confronted him he would get really angry and that just seemed to make things worse. For example: He told me to stop talking harshly to his daughter. In front of her and the other kids. I was telling her that I wasn't in charge of her stuff (she is 12) and that I had asked her to take care of her lunchbox. Later that night I asked him if he could please not question me in front of the kids. I told him the rest of the story and he said "you're being too sensitive. I said it quiet. And let me know if you want to argue about this because I will go and do something else." I rarely argue or bring something up, and if I do I try and not nag or demean him. But I needed to say something.

My husband always says we're going on a date night but it turns out going out to eat, him being on his phone, and him talking about himself! Is it wrong if I tell him I want a real date?

If that happens then I'll fail (although not because Im cheating with the person she thinks-someone else entirely). However could I attribute any failure to the drug modafinil (it affects heart rate), thus circumventing the need for divorce?

Your wedding, engagement or while dating? You can add a moment for each time if you like. I'm just curious for no special reason. My most memorable moment while dating is our first tongue kiss. Engagement was almost broke his rule of no sex before marriage & during our wedding was how he made up after the worst fight we'd ever had.

Im what might be regarded as a 'high flier'. At my firm and indeed with most of my peers, most execs are married (usually it helps with promotion prospects), and I'd say 90 percent cheat. It just seem normal. Are the only faithful men those who have limited opportunity in regards to sexual conquest?

My husband and I have been married for three years. I knew going into this marriage he had debts from losing his job. The longer we are together the more debt I realize he had as creditors keep popping up demanding their money. He says he doesn t remember some of them and that s why it wasn t taken care of. We keep out money primarily in an account in my name for this reason. Recently we discovered another debt that we will be taken care of. I really want us to buy a house and this is holding us back. He never likes to talk about it because he s ashamed but my gosh. I feel like he s not taking care of it like he should and this is a never ending cycle. I suggest getting financial help and he doesn t seem interested. He fails to tell me things occasionally regarding him opening a credit card or creditors that show up and it bothers me. I talk to him when I can I just don t know what else to do... I love him to pieces, just need some advice.

And when I ask she says they are like brother and sister. They been together since childhood so she cant leave them. A few days ago I found out she liked a cute boy's profile picture on facebook. The notice came on my account that she liked this. She has many friends on facebook. When I ask who they are she says they are my family / my cousins. So I becomes quiet. Something tells me she dont love me. I am a below average looking guy. I dont look good. Nor I have a six pack or mussles. Instead in tention I eat a lot and got belly fat now. How can I know the truth. One thing I figured out that before our marriage there was a guy she was about to run away with on our marriage day. Her closest friend text her once discussing about this and while she was away I read this message in her mobile. And then I asked her mom about this and she said there was someone but her mother handled that and he is not a threat any more. What if on her facebook account that guy is her friend and she hides this from me and says he is her cousin? I found her once chatting on yahoo messanger while I was asleep with some aged man. Then I spanked her. Later she was sent to a hill station with my brother's family and kids for relaxation by my parents. (Counceling). We have two daughters. I am jobless. Her uncles are at good posts in government agencies. But she says they are not her faher so she cant ask them for a favour relaing my life, to give me a job. She says do something on your own. Her father is dead. So noone can help me. She also belongs to a poor family. Her sisters all moved to her mother's home from their husband's. I often points at this but she says your sisters are also here. But I know her mother is silently distributing her property among other siblings instead of her. What if she is not her mother's child and she was an adopted child. Her birth certificate was also not present in govt. record. Then I helped creating one. Its a long story.

I started truck driving about a year ago i needed something better for my wife we have two kids boy his 5 and a girl ready to turn 2 Well my wife cheated on me 3 months ago and she just told me 3 days ago ... She did it with her cousin thats living with her parents that guy is 18 just came in from mexico his a american citizen but since her mom wasn t they went back right after he was born and now that he turn 18 came along and asked my inlaws for help to get his paper ready and took him in ..My wife would give him rides to get birth certificate ss# id and many things more ... Well at the time i was okay with it its her cousin id never had any idea of what my wife and him were doing ... Until that morning 3 days ago she went on her knees and started telling me everything ... I just got my clothes n my stuff hugged my kids and left i didnt even look at her i didnt want to ..all i had in my head was her telling me what she what she had done... When i calmed down i called the guy and told him to leave by the next time that i came home or i was going to go take my wife to her parents and make both of them confess... Well he started crying and asking for forgiveness that he doesn t jave a place to go and today he told that my father in law wouldn t let him leave becuase my father inlaw is responsible for him ( the inlaws dont have a clue of whats going on ) now my wife is vegging for me not to tell her parents for the fear of making her look bad and loosing all of their support

ok long story cut short i was in a relationship with a married man i was 18 he was 40 he had 2 kids who were 15 and 10 st the time anyway the father thankfully left his wife for to live with me but didnt yet had a divorce with her for 10 months the women came unstable she was doing stupid things so my husband could go back to her but he refused she became an alcoholic and a drug addict and later died. that meant no divorce was need unfortunately he had to look after the kids. its been 1 year and its been hell on earth. my husbands business isn't doing so well which means money is coming in slow. the kids are a pain they used to go to boarding school but now they dont because of "grief" the youngest one is OK but the older one is something else. she seems to hate me and thinks im the reason her mother was a crackhead. i felt sorry for her mother i even told her father to choose as this wasn't far on either her or me he chose me because she was a **** wife. i received death threats from the women she ws a maniac anyway i just need advice on how to look after the kids

I think they both are awesome and would get me going, but nothing is sexier than a woman who acts like she wants the D. Many men have women who have rejected the D, so there's that perpetual uncertainty that she doesn't want the D so we never try to offer her the D since in the past she took a lot of effort to get in the mood; but if she acted like she wanted the D, even if she was in pajamas, this would make her the sexiest woman alive in my opinion. But I can see how a woman who is dressed to a 10 could sexually arouse a man too. Nothing strokes a man's ego more than knowing that he made the best choice by seeing his wife at her best. I know some of you may feel like talking about sex being a mutually organic thing but don't give me that crap. Many women put pursuing sex and initiating in men's laps, so there's nothing mutual about that if you still make men do all the work. That's why women wanting the D is so hot though, it's the woman instigating to men; otherwise, the best way to attract a man for sex is to look your hottest and hope you look appetizing for him to sexually devour. Sure, other men can ask a question about sex in M&D but I can't. Is it because I'm a dude and you hate men or is it because it's me and you hate me? ***If this question lands in a section other than Marriage & Divorce - if you are level 7 can you move it back - thank you in advance.***

We have lived in our home a year now. Every week, the trash people come the same day. I always remind my husband the night before "please put the trash cans out, tomorrow's trash day". He will say "Ok" or "if I remember". He is a truck driver and often leaves really early for work. I am soon to have a baby any day now and cant really push those bins to the curb like I used to be able to. Today, we missed the recycle man because of his "forgetting" to put them out. I put the bins out, but it was too late. We have this same argument every single week about him not remembering. We agreed that the inside stuff (cleaning, cooking, everything but repairs) is my job and the outside stuff is his. His parents have the same policy and suggested it to us. How can I get him to remember when trash day is and to stop slacking off? He has to walk BY the bins in the garage upon walking out the door to the driveway before work. The same is also true for cleaning the litter box (which my dr has said is NOT OK) for a pregnant lady to do. The cats often pee and poop in our laundry because their bins are not cleaned. Oh great, now we are going to get the ones who defend his behavior. Lovely.

As opposed to just shacking up forever. Why did you want to take that vow and enter into that legal contract? Please be brutally honest. Was it for religious reasons? Health insurance benefits? To prove to the world you really loved each other?

My best friend and his wife are both 26 and have been together for just over a year, married for about 6 months now. I don't think either was ready to be married but when she asked him after dating for 4 months he agreed because it made her happy. Fast forward to present day and they don't spend hardly any time together, she literally just walks in a different room when he tries to talk to her about stuff. The only time she wants to be with him is when he takes her shopping. She has maxed out all of his credit cards and gets mad if she can't buy whatever she wants. To the point of threatening divorce several times and actually packing a bag and leaving him the day after Christmas and going to her mom for a week. He doesn't have a high income and can't spend how she wants to spend. He has a medical condition that he stopped taking meds for because he just can't afford them after trying to make her happy. I saw what happened the day after Christmas she walked in the door mad saying he didn't love her. He sat down and told her that they needed to talk so she went in to the bedroom and started watching YouTube Disney videos like normal when she came out a while later he said he was done and to find someone to draw up the divorce papers she had asked for several times. She ignored that and got her drink and went back into the bedroom. I asked him if he was serious and he said yes. He told her he was canceling her bank card so she left. This isn't all there problems She is also very immature won't clean up after herself, wash her laundry, or even cook for herself. He finally gave up cleaning there apartment a couple months ago now there's dirty dishes a clothing piled everywhere. She lied to her parents about why she came to stay with them. Saying he kicked her out. So they came to his work and made a scene. So now she is back living with him. He has forgotten how upset he was that night she still won't talk to him most of the time she just wants to spend He keeps saying he doesn't want to hurt her, that he has never broken up with anyone. He always just sticks it out in the relationships until they leave him no matter how unhappy he is. I'm not sure if this matters but I'm not a guy friend of his I'm a female friend. He's been acting different around me saying that he would rather hang out with me then sit by himself

Let me start by saying this is NOT trust issue, more of a financial issue. We both have lots of hobbies we do with our friends. He has plenty of opportunities to play golf, fish and hunt with his friends, and I shop, have lunch and do movies with my friends. But our vacation time from work, and budget really only allows for one nice trip a year. We've always done this together. This year his dad has asked him to go on a fishing trip to Key West (coincidentally, the place WE were talking about going this year) It would be a guys trip and not something I was invited to or would want to go on. I can tell he's torn about it, and I don't want to be "that wife" who says he can't go. But the time and money he would spend on the trip really would cut into whatever he and I would do together this year. I don't want to go on a girls weekend while he's there and forgo a trip together this year. That would suck. How would you handle this? I've tried 5 times to put this in "marriage and divorce" but yahoo keeps putting it back in Cancun for some reason.

Will a husband who has been cheating off and on for six years ever change. I have been married for six years, and we have split up so many times in those six years that I can't even remember how many times it has been. He always says he's changed and I love him so much that I take him back but at some point things go back to the way they were. I'm tired of doing this with him but I do still love him. We are not together at this time but we are remaining friendly with each other. He just told me last night that I am a wonderful woman and a great wife and I should never lose myself. He said he will be there for me through everything and we will be connected for life. I feel like the way he grew up is why he does the things that he does. His mom abandoned him and his siblings and they didn't see her for a long time even though she still lived in town. His dad was horrible and basically just let them live with him. He didn't take are of them. They had to take care of themselves while there father spent all the money on himself. I told him he needs counseling but I don't think he will ever get help. His mom is somewhat back in his life but he doesn't want to talk to her about his childhood. He rarely talks to anyone in his family. I feel bad for him but the way he has treated me is not ok. I want to let go but at the same time I don't want to let go. Will he ever change? Should I just let go and move on?

I only knew this guy for four months before me got married. His whole life revolves around me. He s so upset when he can t see me. I m only 19. I want to get through school and live with my parents. I don t want to live with him because he just got a job and I don t think he s financially capable. I also feel too young to go live with him. But, he s so upset when I can t go be with him and he s always trying to see me when I just want to be on my own. When I tell him that I just want to date, he ll blame everything on himself, stop eating, and be so depressed. He loves me wayyyy too much and I don t know how to get out of it!

You know how devastating for a wife that her man is f*cking other woman behind her back, I've been there as well as my friends. Your heart is crushing into pieces, you don't know anymore how can you able to trust your man again, after you gave all your trust and selfless love. As for side piece, there are many single men out there, why married men? If these other women won't open their doors for these wayward men, these cheaters will end up masturbating or watching porn; no married women will be devastated, more marriage will be saved. Men who have problems and unmet needs should discuss these to their wives. Cheating won't solve anything, it will only aggravate the problems. For married men who can't help to cheat, it's better for you to wear "chastity belt". Alienation of affection/compartmentalization/emotional affair is one of the hardest affairs to deal with. @sheloves_dablues: are you one of the home-wreckers? your opinion says your IQ is below Imbecile's IQ. I hope it doesn't happen to you. Many "other women" are already cognizant that their men are married, they are nastier and threaten the wives, they still chase the married men. Not all men are cheaters, for those men who can't commit, they shouldn't get married, instead, hire a housemaid to do your household chores and cook for you then you can have any woman you like. @UnderValued: Many "other women" are less attractive than the wives. (source: media, friends, colleagues, etc.) @UnderValued: Many "other women" are less attractive than the wives. (sources: media, friends, colleagues, etc.)

This is a german guy, who already meets other girls gaze but never flirts openly. I don't know if that counts for something. What do you think?

We've been together for 8 years, since high school, he's my best friend. I love him with all my being. & We have two toddlers. & I'm absolutely crushed that recently I decided to snoop through his phone & found some emails responding to male for male ads on Craigslist. The dates of the emails occurred when we got in a fight & he went to stay with his brother in law. There were several, in one he asked to meet for a bj, but seems like the guy didn't respond. In another he says "I already sent a pic, now you". & in another "hey sexy" . I'm sick to my stomach. I am not ok with this at all. I have confronted him & we've had a very serious talk. He said that he "doesn't know what he was thinking" & he did it because he was curious because "everyone" says gay guys give awesome bjs. He said he is not gay, but I can't get these horrible thoughts out of my head. He said he cannot imagine life without me, & begged me to give us another chance. He promises he never acted or ever met with anyone. & he actually would never go through with it. My trust is broken, my heart is shattered. Im scared he might be struggling to admit even to himself he is atleast bi. I'm confused, I need advice. I told him we can try again, if he never does this again. But there are demons in my head that won't let me shake this.

Ex wife treats me like carp and has always put other priorities in front of me, noeshebstrugglung financial and can't pay her car note and guess who phone she's blowing up.

My husband and I have been married for 14 years. We had 1 by 1, gotten custody of his children over the years. Their birth mother was mentally unstable. The last was his now 17 year old daughter. She has lived w/ us for the past 4 years. Throw into that we lost my 16 year old step son 3 years ago to suicide. Over the past few years the control and jealousy my step daughter exhibits is crushing. She was not always like this. It has gradually evolved to this over the last two years. She manipulates her father to get what she wants. I'm no longer to be included in anything that pertains to "her" and she is a total ***** to me. Her father chooses to ignore it. Both of his children (also includes 22 YO son who lives at home) are too privileged (now that my children are gone) to do anything. Asking them to do anything would make them "unhappy" and "miserable." IMO, his guilt over losing our other son clouds his judgment & responsibilities as a parent. He doesn't stand up for me. Instead, he goes about making excuses to them for me behind my back. We've been in therapy; discussed it. It's come to the conclusion that he's point blank told me his children come first, they were here before me. I am at the point where I no longer think I can continue this life for another 1 ½ years until she moves out. I'm not even sure we can fix the problem. I don't think I can live w/ the current situation. I'm starting to feel resentment. How do you deal w/ jealousy and guilt?

me and my husband been having a rough patch in life... i honestly need a break but i cant tell him that without making it seem so bad i dont want a divorce just a break... we each have 1 child from our previous relationship.... im just going threw alot... i need a break or advice on what i cna do i have tried talking to him and he doesnt really listen to me i need advice

We have limited vacation days and vacation funds, but we always take a nice (not luxurious) vacation a year together. This year we were planning on going to a Florida Key, or St. Croix. His Dad has invited him to go to Key West for a fishing trip but it would pretty much deplete his vacation days at work and budget. I can tell wants to go, but doesn't want to blow all his time and funds and not be able to do something with me. And me going is not an option, I love his Dad but that would be too much togetherness for me, and isn't really what they had in mind. I'm really upset about it and I can tell my husband is torn. (they haven't finalized anything yet). Any suggestions? I LOVE to travel and don't get many opportunities, I think people are missing the point. It's not that I don't trust him, it's that we don't have enough vacation time or money for separate vacations AND one together. And I really enjoy our vacation together every year. AND we were basically planning the very vacation his dad is proposing they do together.

I tried to take some of the advice of previous replies to my question about a sexless marriage. To be fair, I started turning my drive back towards my wife. We talked briefly about our issues. I tried to make a move on her tonight but she turned me down for the second night in a row by claiming she doesn't have the mood. Said she cannot match my stamina, can't satisfy me, we can try again in the morning (unlikely) and proceeded to assist me. Peoblem #2: I gave her the 30th birthday present of a gold necklace and earrings set. Admittedly the flower design was small. But I didn't expect her to not even thank me and just proceed to say she doesn't like it and carry on at her aunty in Chinese about it. She saw I was upset and said she still appreciates the thought but then she tried to lecture me about how her personality suits larger designs like big flowers or flowing designs etc. I told her she can exchange it for what she really likes in the store. These past two days we have been away on holidays. The positive thing is that she is showing signs of commitment to me, taking care of me (eg. helping me when I was drunk on the first night from her colleagues challenging me), wanting to go swimming with me, coming home earlier tonight to spend time with me and just wanting to hug me (but I was too much in the mood for that). Why isn't she more in the mood with me? Problem #3: I woke up to find her sleeping head to toe again. It has been a while but sometimes she will do this to me so I wake up to a pair of feet. I don't know what prompts this kind of behaviour. I was so insulted that I came outside to lie on the lounge. I am wondering just what exactly is wrong because she was acting strange this evening. Wanting to hug me without sex and then sleeping head to toe. Reading up on sleeping positions for those in the first five years of marriage, sleeping with distance implies a purposeful lack of affection. She often wants big space to me. I don't get it because she turns down my efforts to turn her on and then after I'm done, starts to act in ways that make me feel like she wasn't taken care of. I am confused because it is like she wants to be away ftom the marriage but this evening she left the gathering earlier to be with me...

Traditional marriages create balance between the feminine and masculine personality traits. Rather than confuse women to take on both feminine and masculine traits, and expect men to do the same, why not just accept that traditional feminine roles are still valid in the 21st century just as much as traditional masculine roles? Please Note: This question goes to both women AND men who advocate for traditional marriages to be condemned in light of a more progressive/modern marriage. By no means is this question saying one gender/sex is superior to the other, and by no means is this questions stating that I hate men or women; this question is just asking why the war against traditionalism when traditionalism is what kept families together for centuries? I've been asked a million times on here why the divorce rate is up if traditional families is the way to go and my answer has been the same: "Because you believe traditional families are the problem". Meanwhile, progressive families are the new norm and NO ONE IS HAPPIER. Actually, there has been a sharp increase in prescription drug use now that there's all the uncertainty about the stability of a person's relationship. Suicide rates are up too, especially among men (who by the way have no advocates in this generation due to the war on masculinity). So again, why do you think traditionalism is so bad? http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2014/12/22/less-than-half-of-u-s-kids-today-live-in-a-traditional-family/ My main gripe is the fact that women aren't just trying to tweak the traditional narrative, they are trying to completely dismiss it and say it isn't relevant any more. Women can't be held accountable for acting like a lady or acting like a woman, but men are still being held accountable for gentleman like behavior and acting like a man. This progressive marriage isn't progress, it's lopsided to benefit the woman and creates TRUE inequality. And these men are stupid and allow it!!! To those who keep getting my questions and answers reported, you are losing influence because I'm winning appeals since there's nothing wrong with my answers or my questions; so if you don't want to completely lose your influence, I'd recommend you stop blocking my masculinist questions and just follow the Question and Answer format! This question requires a legitimate answer, whether you like my values/beliefs or not, they are valid just like yours. Stop wasting my time reporting my stuff.

A SAHM/Wife , No friends of mine live in the same state. I used to always be busy but all the kids are now old enough to be in school. I love my husband and my marriage and my Step kids come on the weekends. Really though I'm growing resentful of being the only one who cleans up after them and yes my Husband does it too. We are both sick of it. I'd work but I'm disabled due to anxiety , back problems and migraines. I thought I wasn't cut out for this job because I feel so miserable doing this after 17 years, but I think I'm just really bored and unappreciated . It's become the same crap different day routine and I'm starting to hate it.

My wife and I are currently recovering from infidelity after she cheated on me with one of her friends. I am finding it hard to believe anything that comes out of her mouth. She doesn't talk to the other guy anymore and its currently been bothering me because there are two sides to every story even if she isn't lying about something. Would talking to him help with closure maybe on both ends? Obviously I have animosity toward this person in particular so it will be hard for me but how would I even open the conversation? I kinda feel like this a challenge to contact him and see if I can handle it. Ultimately is this just the wrong thing to do, or a movement in the right direction?

They have been married 27 years. Details ... The Wife: She pressured the husband into marriage after they'd had sex. She felt so guilty about sleeping with him outside of marriage, that she said the only way she could live with herself would be to marry him (she's religious). She did not think much about if the marriage itself was a bad idea. The Husband: He agreed to marry her, but became very resentful because he felt pressured into it. As a result, he cheated on her many times over the years. Most of the affairs were both sexual and emotional. He regretted his marriage from the beginning, and didn't feel much guilt about the cheating. Who is more at fault for this unhappy marriage?

I'm 26 years female.. its been a yr i got married, i loved a married man even before my marriage and cos of that i avoided marriage, cos of my parent health ,finally i agreed for marriage.. now someone said to my lover's wife about our relationship, now she said me to go out of office (he is the owner) but i cant live without him.. he is in big trouble cos of his wife..so he scared to do anythn further..i cannot live widout him.. i need him back..pls help me

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Why do me come on to married woman and say they want to make them "theirs" Why aren't they worried if she can be "taken" then she can get taken again? What are your thoughts...

My husband is the kind of man who leaves the house messy and I am forever nagging due to this. Yesterday when I got back from work, I see his luggages that had not been cleared over our living hall. I went to take a shower and I saw him sitting in the hall, on his phone. I told him to clear his things before he comes to bed today. Of course being the person he is, he came to bed 30 mins after and did NOT tidy it up. We got into a heated argument and I pushed him down the bed around 5 times using my legs so he would go clean up first. I was tired of telling him the same thing again and again like he was a child. And this is not the first time he retaliates just cause I asked him to. Furthermore, I always asked him in a good tone. It s only when Ive asked 3 or more times, that I get mad at him. Anyways the argument got worse and he slapped me over on my face. A hard one. I was so mad and I know for a fact I did not deserve that. I lost my cool and I went all out to hit him back but he overpowered. What followed was a 10 mins of chaotic screaming from me and throwing things before I kicked him out of our bedroom and I slept alone. Today morning I left to work before he did. He never called or apologised. I called him from work to tell him I cannot live this way and he says you have slapped me before. Just because I have slapped him, does it justify what he did? I don t slap hard like a man, and that slap was also due to an argument that came on cause I repeated the same issue more than 5 times and he still did not care. please let me know what I should do. should I tell this to my parents? his parents? we are married and I am afraid I will hurt my family too.

In February of 2015, I ended what I thought was a very happy 14 year marriage. I told him in the very beginning of our relationship, that if he ever lied to me, cheated on me or hit me, I would be gone. NO exceptions. Well my soon to be ex-husband had been cheating on me on and off for a few years (he later confessed). The ONLY way I found out he was cheating, was when I contracted an STD from him. About 3 days after I found out about the STD, I moved out and I took our kids with me. I hired a lawyer, and I filed for a divorce. For the past 11 months, my soon to be ex-husband, has been begging me for a second chance. I've already told him, that I won't take him back. He destroyed my trust, and he broke my heart. I will never trust him again. It was HIS choice to cheat, and ruin our marriage. The only thing that I want from my soon to be ex-husband is for him to continue to be a good father to our children, and to be a cooperative co-parent. Also to be cordial, and respectful. Other than that, I want nothing else from him. @ Ace Shorty, I gave him all of the sex that he wanted. I mean it was 3-4 times a week. I ALWAYS put my marriage and our relationship first, because that is what I believed. I have no clue why cheated, and I don't care anymore. @ Charles, you've got to be out of your ever loving mind! I am not a glutton for punishment. He could give me HIV if I stayed with him. No thank you, were all better off this way.

I'm soo hurt cause I still wanna be with him . We been together to 10years and have two beautiful girls. Our oldest is 9 and my second is 3 months. How do I overcome soo much hurt? How do I overcome the hurt of not being able to see my babies every day? How do overcome the hurt of seeing my husband with someone else or the sadness every time I see him when I drop of my babies with him for his visitation?I feel like a complete failure cause I couldn't keep my family together. I feel soo upset with myself that I have let him hurt me for soo long and that I allow him to make feel that I'm not good enough. Pls help