VIOLENCE,GREED,UNEMPLOYMENT AND SCARITY. I know I am depressed but, yeah country in the world seems to have more competition, more aggressive, less happy people. I am becoming more miserable as the day goes by because, of this selfish disgusting greedy attitude.

Back in 1996 i fell badly in love with a young teacher i just turned 13 at the time so maybe it was admiration more than love, he was 24. He noticed my gazes and left a letter for me ( remember no facebook or mobile at the time) and we started meeting up and few weeks later we started hooking up at his house and i remember pursing the subject and wanting to try, he was against it at first but gave in, we slept together maybe 7 times when i fell pregnant. I was bit chubby so i didn't notice at first until i really started noticed my belly and the discomfort in that area and in my chest i told him, he told me check a doctor pretending to be my older brother who told me i was very pregnant and past due of abortion. I was scared, angry and very desperate. I ended up telling my parents i was raped by a stranger ( to save my teacher) my parents took me to Spain where i gave birth under X left the baby and went home. I stopped seeing the teacher, changed of school but i could never forget my sweet little girl, when she held my hand i couldn't breast feed her i was crying, i changed my mind i wanted my baby back with me but my parents wouldn't accept it. So now 20 years later i get a call from my former teacher, he was reculant. He told me he really can't go on like this, he needs to see the baby. He didn't have children after that and now has big problems and sees a psy he couldn't get over what happened he thanked me for covering up for him and wished that i didn't that way he'd have had to assume his responsibility and take the baby. I am taking the plane tomorrow to Spain with him and a hired investigater. I don't blame my parents they did what they thought was right, i am 33 year old divorcee, mother of a 3 year old boy. I am ready to spend my fortune to find her and hug her!

Okay, so i'm a 25 y.old female and have never been in a relationship.. No normal decent-looking guy at my own age was ever interested in me. I only get 50-70 y.old guys hitting on me (but they would hit on any woman so this isn't an accomplishment) and obese guys. I am well-educated, polite,kind but also a bit shy and introverted but overall i think i'm a nice person so i don't know what the problem is. I''ve been trying to find out whether i'm ugly by posting pics and asking on reddit, asking friends of mine but i never found the answer. Some people say i'm ugly, others that i'm average with potential, others a bit over average and others pretty but i must be ugly if guys don't look me. I even tried to create a profile on a dating site (a bad one, i don't want to mention its name) but got no likes there... I see 15 or 16 y.old kids with boyfriends so what's the problem with me? Is it the way I speak? Do you guess sth like that from my question? People have been telling me, one day you'll meet that one person for you but i'm old now and ''prince charming" never came Maybe i should just accept my fate and date an old guy even if he's 80? @Moe: I'm not unemployed I work at a microbiology lab Actually I am not yet 25, I will be 24 in December, but it is interested how I asking the same question 1 hour ago changed the answers from polite to very strict. I also got considerably very fewer answers. For some reason there is a philosophy that all 25 y.olds are old people, should be settled by then, otherwise they are losers and withdraw from life I never said I am perfect. I am far from it. I just never hurt anyone, don't insult anyone nor bother anyone; I try to help others and be kind to everyone. Obviously time counts down against me.. It's fun how the answers changed from "you are still young and have a lot of time" to "you urgently need to find a solution" and "pity party"

When my Mum gets frustrated and tells me something when she's frustrated, I want to help her, but she won't let me, so I get defensive and get all snappy and angry. I don't mean to, I just don't like being shouted at or feel bad for a mistake. What can I do to control it better? Please, help me!! Thank you

We have a cabin and we always loved when our parents would let us cousins sleep in the big room so we could stay up and talk. Well my brother, my cousin, & I were in the room and were up for awhile. I was in 9th grade (so was my cousin)-I was super innocent. There was a bunk bed and a double bed. We were talking on the double but I asked for them to get off cause I was tired. My cousin wouldn't leave and my brother was sound asleep. He came close & got in bed w/me. He started pulling down my pants& underwear & started fingering me.He continued to say he loved me, started kissing me & forcing my hand down his pants. he told me that if I don't be quiet that our parents would come in and he'd make sure It looked like my fault. He said we would both benefit from experimenting on each other and that we weren't biological so it wouldn't matter. He started pulling his pants down& touching my leg w/ his penis-he wanted sex,but I said no! instead he humped me (grind idk) hard -moaned while touching my boobs &kissing me. After about an hour I finally was persistent & he got annoyed &left me alone. Before all this happened he used to ask what bra size & telling me about his penis. I need help knowing did he abuse me/moleste or what? I talked to my therapist about it but I haven't given deep details in fear of telling my parents. Should I explain everything honestly? My therapist is open about sex & doesn't care about that stuff, but I'm embarrassed to give details. Help!!

I'm 18 years old. I'm dating an older guy (23). I am attracted to him in most every way. At the beginning of our relationship he tried to have sex, but I stopped him and told him I didn't want to. I could tell he was really disappointed, but he respected it. More recently though I've been wanting it. The other day we were making out. I felt a strong sexual desire. I could feel his penis up against me and I wanted to feel it inside me. I really wanted to see him naked. I haven't done it with him mostly because I feel guilty about it. I was brought up in a very traditional Asian household. I was told I should never have sex until I'm married. It hasn't been a problem for me until now. I always felt like wanting sex before marriage made you a dirty girl and most girls didn't want it. I feel kind of guilty now because I really want it, but I feel guilty about it. I also always thought it was just the guys who wanted it. I feel really torn and guilty about it. I really want it, but I feel like I shouldn't. My guilt rises as my sexual tension rises. I need to sort this out in myself. Please someone give me advice! One other thing, I do think that I feel a bit worried because I'm completely going against my parents on this. Not only would they not like my sexual desires, but they wouldn't like that I'm dating a non-Asian. They really only want me to date asian guys. I haven't told my parents yet. How can I not be worried and let the cat out of the bag? I don't want it all the time, but there are moments (mostly when we're alone) when I want it so bad. It makes me feel kind of like a slut though, which is why I haven't done it.

O sono malata? Ho tanti problemi di autostima , sono molto gelosa, possessiva, ansiosa e voglio sempre conferme ! Quando stavamo insieme non usciva nemmeno più con gli amici pur di stare con me! Oggi mi sembra solo un sogno dopo due anni ma è successo davvero , eravamo pappa e ciccia! È tornato varie volte e stavolta è tornato dopo mesi e mesi nella speranza ennesima che io fossi cambiata e non lo assillassi più :( ma ecco lì che appena l'ho sentito Volevo vederlo, sono andata in ansia e lui subito freddo non mi rispondeva capendo che poi ero sempre la stessa . È convinto che io sia esaurita ma io no... Semplicemente non è adatto a me, non mi capisce , non mi ha capita , questo non vuol dire che qualcun altro non mi capirà... Anche se al momento sono sola e nessuno mi sopporta ma dettagli no? :/

I work today Thurs 7pm-7am, Fri 7pm-7am, Sat 11pm-7am, Sun 7pm-7am Not just night shifts...I switch between nights and days so sleeping never works.

My sister is getting married in fall of this year, and if I do well on my ASVAB I would go into the navy and I would more than likely be away at bootcamp, so therefore I would miss her cermonony. Technically, she is already married, but she never had the actual service nor the huge celebration. My mom also isn t very keen on me going into the military before college because she doesn t understand just how hefty college funds are. It seems like my family is turning against me, when all I m really trying to do is figure everything out. Clearly they are not supportive. What should I do? BEFORE YOU SUGGEST THESE THINGS: (Can t get any scholarships, financial aid won t be enough, and GPA is too low for any college ROTC program)

When I was 14 I dated this guy that was 17 and I lost my virginity to him. He told me he was a virgin too. We dated 4 years ago and I've always wondered if he cheated on me because one night he told me there were these girls that were flirting with him and then 2 hours later he stopped texting me for 2 and a half hours from 8 to almost 10;30. Then I questioned him but he said he didn't cheat. This was 3 weeks before we met and had sex. I don't know why I didn't break up with him. They reason why I care is because I wanted to lose my virginity to a virgin and plus if he had sex with someone that night then when I had sex with him it was like having sex with whoever he had sex with, right? We did it unprotected. I know it's been a long time ago but I've always wondered. Do you think he cheated that night?

I've been dating my girlfriend for awhile now. We have been considering getting engaged however, I'm very uncomfortable around her family. There is an overwhelming amount of fighting that goes on in her home. Her mother appears to have an anxiety disorder. She can be very rude at times she doesn't know how to communicate effectively. Her father I believe has a drinking problem. He has an attitude of "don't f-ck with me" he pulled me aside one time & told me if I ever hurt his daughter he would murder me. The way her parents speak to her has angered me on occasion & ive wanted to say something however my fear of her father attacking me has forced me to keep my mouth shut. On one occasion I went there for Christmas & her father got so angry at a comment my girlfriend made he threw a plate across the room & it shattered. My girlfriend has told me she's very embarrassed to bring people around her family & recognizes the dysfunction surrounding her family. I'm concerned about our future children & if I want them in this type of toxic environment. I am concerned about my personal comfort level with her family. Should I reconsider an engagement? My parents have spoken to me about it & have told me when I marry I marry into that persons family as well.

Alright so there is this girl i like in my english class and yesterday she told met that she talk to her boyfriend about "us talking" and i also just got a girlfriend and she got really mad at me then my girlfriend well now ex girlfriend was cheating on me and she got really upset when she found out i had a gf because she was going to be all surprise surprise about it but i had a gf. and i tried to tell her that i was sorry and that if i could have another chance but I NEED HELP!!!!!

Please state your age if speaking from personal experience.

I heard through the grape vine that Italian men are very well-endowed and are great lovers. I'm afraid to ask my boyfriend this question because he is Italian-American. Is it true that Italian men are very well-endowed?

Mrs. Duggar, had 19 kids and all of them are hers.

Hey guys um I need your help. So basically I had a new piano teacher today and I went to my first lesson so I walked In and she said we needed to talk she asked me why I was reluctant as I was the last one to contact her. I started crying because I didn't had a bad day and I'd been holding up for so long I feel awful like I can't even control my emotions and bad like I'm so childish and almost silly so I asked her if I was the only one that she talked to and she was like well you're the only one who cried... After the lesson this is what I sent her: "Hey ma'am um I'd like to apologize again for breaking down in our period 😉 I've managed to pick myself up and I'm ready to start from scratch. And I'd like to thank you for having that conversation with me .. I really appreciated it ❤️❤️😌" And she sent a smiley face... What should I do? I feel awful for some reason 😣

How do I start? I don't know what to do or say to my son about my daughter I law! She had me miss my appointment to check my heart last month because her son was sick. Now her 15 month old has pneumonia and her 4 year old has bronchitis and doesn't want to get her *** up to take me to my appointment. The deal is: I'm mad because these 8 years that she's been with my son, she's been taking me to the doctor and ordering my medicines. My wife is also mad because we think she's making up an excuse to not take us. I have an appointment at 6 am tomorrow and she's telling us that the kids' pediatrician told her not to take them out because the weather is bad. I don't see it raining or very cold right now. I'm just so pissed off because she's not even responsible and my son already got onto her saying that if she doesn't want to take us that she won't be welcome at our house anymore. My other daughter in law who doesn't drive because she's scared, can't take us because she has a really small 9 month old and doesn't want him to get sick. What can I do to make her take me?! Please some advice?

The panic attacks are getting worse.

Sometimes I just can't do anything and lay around on my bed when it gets to me. Now, I can't even finish my dinner sometimes. I used to be the most hardworking student, and now I'm not. I need something to motivate me, while I'm dealing with my grief. I certainly don't want to fail. ***Someone died, I've been this way for almost a year now. I struggled through last semester, with minimum interest in my studies. Now its not. **My own family doesn't know about it. in college. I will tell my professor and email him later. Its a new semester and I don't want to be perceived as someone unproductive or lazy.

I going to get my girlfriend some news bras and a few others things, I told her I was going to get a couple news things for me to crossdress in, seeing what the world thinks I should get? This is what I have now 1 pair of high heels Couple bras 4 pairs of pantyhose (but get some new ones couple of them are rip) Make up my own shade Mini skirt Top 4 dresses(pink,black,green, and Hawaii blue) Let me know what you think I should get?

Okay so I have this mirror in my house that is one miror but it splits into 3. So one is straight at me and the other on my left and right. So sometime I look into the right one and see my left side of my face. So if I'm not wrong that's how other people see you because they see you reverse!. So when I do that I can notice my eyebrow very uneven and looks horrible! When I ask my mom she says it's even but I honestly don't believe her cause she has horrible eyesight and probably doesn't want me to worry! So is the miror thingy really how people see me?

I am telling the truth. My name is Christopher Gordon, and I'm 14. I'm from California, but I know live in Las Vegas. So, what happen? See, I had an incident in my life that involved in sex at a young age. When I was 7 or 8. One of my teen friends decided to show me sex, but I ended up I guess finding out of was gay. This is not the problem. The problem is that I stated giving guys oral, and to proove to you that I am not lying. I gave oral to a kid around my age at the time, I forgot his name. Then my friend Aaron, hasani, my own cousin Jr. And the boy who did this to me and his cousin. My mind has been corrupted and I try coping with it for years and I just have these gay, sick, and horrible urges. I had my own nephew and few months ago around before Halloween do oral on me, and I did it on him. Reminder I am 14 and this happened before my birthday. It's bad, and only got worst as he told his mom. Now I will try to answer my own question to finish this story off and hoply someone can talk to me through email and help

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

I just found out my fiancé has been cheating on me. It started after we had our daughter who is now 6 months old. Is there a way I can pay to or look up the texts messages?

If I feel concerned about someone's life, or the consequences of actions, and I tell them I worry about what might happen to them and try to help them stop it, does that mean I'm protecting them from harm? Am I being protective? Is there any difference between being protective and protecting someone because you care?

we've known eachother for nearly ten years now. I guess we always knew that we loved eachother in a way that was more than platonic, and we've told one another this many times. it's weird because our love isn't entirely platonic - whenever she walks in the room my heart flutters, and I could look at her for hours and be amazed by her beauty. all the little things that she does makes me fall in love with her more and more. I genuinely believe she's my soulmate. but the thing is, I can't ever imagine myself in a sexual situation with her. it's so weird. I can't even imagine kissing her because it grosses me out. I'm not gay and she has a boyfriend, so it definitely doesn't add up. can someone please explain this to me? how can I love someone and not be sexually attracted to them?

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

I think I realized I'm in love with a man I grew up knowing, but I'm in a loving long term relationship and have a baby with my fiancé. I'd never dream of leaving. I'm happy to have my little family. Is this possible? Or am I just dwelling on my childhood friend's feelings?

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

As a kid, my girlfriend had neglectant parents, she watched her older brother off himself, and she has been put in life or death situations multiple times, so she gets bad nightmares. She sees a therapist once a week, but it doesn't help much. What can I do to help calm her down during and after the nightmare?

He is a little shy&out going at the same time...I been told that he most likely likes me because the way he behaves around me. He stared&smiles at me a lot especially when either if I pass by him or if he pass by me. But at my register line (I'm a cashier & he is an bagger) I smiled at him&said hello. He asked "Why are you looking at me like that. Do u hate hate I know you do?!! He said it serious to e not joking He mentioned " Because others said....Never mind nobody likes me. He looked sad. I told him no that he is very nice&sweet person! Yesterday I told him not to be afraid to text me since he always apologizes for not texting me and make excuses 1 was reasonable and the 2nd one not reasonable lol

I have never had a bf I go to an all girls college i worked at a warehouse for a little bit thru an agency and I started liking this guy. He seemed like a cool nice funny guy and we had only spoken once and I was going to talk to him again but I haven't been able to work thru the agency in a month but my mom has a friend from fb who works there and the only thing I can do is have her friend give the guy my number or fb or both. I feel like that's the only thing I can do but I feel bad because I wanted to talk to him at work and be his friend and get to know him but I prob won't be able to go there anymore. If I do it...when is the right time to do it? Today? next week?

My husband s ex-wife is remarried with kids with her current husband. She planned on dropping off her son (not my husband s child) to our house before I got home and offered my sitter more money. ALL without discussing this with us. My sitter informed me when I got home yesterday. I told her that no, this made me uncomfortable and that she should have asked us first since it is our home, and no because I would be watching her son for a few hours when the sitter went home and I wasn't ok with that. This morning my husband and I got a really strange email from her saying she is stretched thin and hurt we wouldn't help her, and so on. I told her that it wasn't a good day for us to watch her son, and left it at that. She often is manipulative, argumentative, and rude. Her husband works from home and could have easily watched his son, or she could have hired another sitter. I guess I am upset that she didn't ask us if she could drop her son off at our house, and upset because she threatens to sue us for this and that and I didn't want to be responsible for her son.

My buddy's sister got married to this guy who had the most unfriendly demeanour overall to anyone, I think her parents mistook it as a "dry personality" but the guy was a total control freak and I could sense it and my friend could sense it too, like a radar for danger, the day they got married, he was standing outside the church and I caught him looking pissed off and I thought "why is he angry he just married someone" then a few months passed and they had a kid and I heard he held my friend (his wife) up by the throat, off the ground, because he didn't want to do, well, anything, but work and then attacked her dad who, while annoying, does have common sense. Meanwhile I am telling my friend (of the sister) my thoughts of this and he agrees, what sends someone over the edge like that?

He seems to get mad/upset when I do tell him. He assumes I have some sort of interest. Is his behavior acceptable?

I suggested a crusade. What do you think?

Ok so my dad was married 4 years ago to a woman on a social website. They knew eachother for a couple of weeks! Before he got engaged to her. At the time i was 11 and had no clue but only thing I knew was she had a drinking problem. I dad was at work she would take me a while drunk to the store. Me get to the point anyways that relationship ended four years later now today I m 15 years old. April 2015 he met another woman on the Internet. Know what nine months later they get engaged again. Is I don t like her and I don t have a specific reason I think he s getting married to fast compared to what happened last time. Already expecting to live the gather and a big happy family in the house she wants me and my dad to move in her apartment so they can save up. Don t want to live with a woman and her Son who I think is extremely annoying. Recently my dad said don t me saying I can do anything I want and he think i want to move in with them but he doesn t know that I really don t want to but the thing is I don t want to tell him i dont want to move in with them. He would be pissed off because he wants to and they would start arguing and I don t want to look like the bad guy here. One year ago we had no clue who the hell she was they met even a year ago and already want to get married. I never knew such a middle aged woman is so desperate to marry a man. Be honest I think there are mostly in lust not love. But should I tell them I don t want to move in or not.

This is going to make me sound completely insane but i just really want to do this without fear. idk if me thinking this is the cause of bad luck is like a coping mechanism or what but it seems like its true. I started dating my boyfriend/best friend 4 months ago and i stopped masturbating and we still get into small arguments and stuff but we have had an extremely healthy relationship so far. I gave into temptation and masturbated last night and when i got to school he wasnt there and i got really sick out of nowhere and had to go home. He's only texted me once today. and now im just paranoid that this is the start of the bad luck and i wish i could just take it all back. please tell me this is all in my head