I am in 7th grade and really shy and dont talk much. I switched schools 2 years ago and still havent made a single new friend. I want to move back but probably cant because it is a private school that costs a lot of money. Everyone at my new school treats me like I am very shy and talks really slowly and awkwardly and is way too nice which I personally think is kinda demeaning. Everyone at my old school is super nice and has normal conversations with me. There is a girl at my old school who I really want to be friends with ( not in a relationship) because I think we share a lot in common but I have only seen her twice in the past two years and for very brief amounts of time. I used to be very good friends with her but we kinda just stopped being friends. I had gone to my old school for 7 years and loved all of it but my new school has been a nightmare. When I first started going to my new school I was very upset and ended up seeing a therapist in school. School seemed to get better but I think I was just forgetting how good my old school was. Today I went to a bar Mitzvah and many people from my old school were there, including the female I mentioned earlier. I would say that was probably the best day I have had in years because everyone missed me and treated me like a normal person. There are a lot of people from my old school that I still havent seen since I left and would like to get in touch with.

Well my friend couldn't show up to my sleepover tonight but she said more than likely tommorrow she will

I ended our friendship a year ago. I'd known him for 8 years and the same issue that we'd had came up again for the 4th time. It all revolved around this incident that happened (long story) about 4 yrs into our friendship and because we were young we never knew how to fully resolve the situation. Which then led to a lack of trust and communication issues. The problem is that I understood this to be the case a year ago when this problem came up so I tried to get to the root of it. He refused to communicate with me. I was mad about the whole situation and basically told him that if we couldn't solve our issues at that point then I wasn't trying again. He didn't say a word so, while I was the one who walked away from the friendship, he was the one who actually bailed on it. It's now been a year without zero contact. I haven't even seen him out anywhere. I wish things were different because we were really good friends for a long time and I do care about him but I'm conflicted about whether I should reach out or not. I feel like if our friendship should resume it should come from him since he was the one who bailed but at the same time I've heard varying stories of his perception of what happened and his feelings might have been really hurt which was why he wouldn't talk to me. I don't know what I did to hurt his feelings but I feel like if that's the case and he does want to possibly revive the friendship then he's probably waiting for me to initiate it. I'm just confused!

My girlfriend has a male best friend that she goes to raves with. They have been going even before I met her. They share a room. She tells me that he is just a friend and that they have two beds. Every time I am with her and her male friend. They play around alot. It makes me feel uncomfortable a little. They drink at these raves. To add to this. I am in the miltary and on the other side of the world. If I was with her she would take me and he would have is own room, but since I am not there. They share a room to save money. They have done this a few times while I am not with her. Either just them two or more people with two rooms. Should I be worried.

Soo my friends from high school are all doing their own thing now. We don't all hang out anymore. (We are all in college now btw) They have hanging out with new people partying, going to concerts and more things. But they never invite me anymore. It's been upsetting me. I have been feeling lonely and it's hard to make new friends. Also I think they haven't been inviting me out because I'm shy and I keep to myself a lot. Should I be upset that they don't invite me out with them or should I just let it go? I am a girl by the way.

You see, I don't really care about my friends. I only hang out with them because it makes me feel more popular because they're even bigger losers than myself

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I come from a very strict family. So strict, I'm extremely worried that my social abilities are stunted. I'm mainly worried about this for college (which I'm about to go into). Growing up, my parents never let me do anything. All clubs I was ever interested in had to be approved by them. As a result, I hardly joined clubs (though, not for lack of trying). There were a lot of morning clubs that they never wanted to wake up to drive me to. And now, since I've been applying for scholarships and colleges and stuff, I can't put anything for leadership positions because I was never able to join anything. Also, I understand that everyone is nervous on the first day and are worried about making friends. But, I've got really bad social anxiety. I've worked on it throughout high school (and have made pretty good friends), but meeting new people has always been like pulling teeth. Then, because of my parents being so strict, I was never able to maintain a friendship relationship. Like, my parents never let me go "hang out" or go to my friends' birthday parties or Halloween parties and anything else my friends would invite me to. I was never allowed to do anything with my closest of friends outside of school. And, every day I regret would could have been a stronger and closer relationship. So, on the topic of making friends, I've never really gotten past the developmental stage and started to maintain friendship (since I was never able to learn how). I wouldn't know how to maintain a long-term friendship since I've had no experience. I desperately want friends but I have no idea how to keep them (if that makes any sense). Also, there's the topic of responsibility. I try ot be responsible, but it's like my parents were always trying to be responsible for me. I would try to do things on my own and then they have to supervise and watch me as I do it. Then, they complain that I have no character. But, I've tried, but they never let me do anything on my own. Also, they always watch what I'm doing on the computer. They have all these apps that they've installed in order to watch what I'm doing in real time. I've never been able to do anything for myself. So, once I get to college, I don't know what I'm going to do. I want to be free so badly, I want to learn how to do things, I want to maintain friendships, I want to do so many things, but I've never been able to learn how to do these things. I guess I went on a bit a venting spree, but does anyone out there have any advice. I just honestly feel like I'm going to crash and burn.

This year will make 6 years this incident happened..I had got into a fist fight with some girl (who I didn't know)..one of the girls bumped my friend without saying excuse me..my friend turned around and said "excuse you"..the girl turned around looked then rolled her eyes..this dude..told my friend they was talking about her..and that's when the argument started..they got the fighting..the girl friend jumped in..so it was two of them on my friend..so me being loyal..thinking this is what friends suppose to do..I jumped in to help my friend..we was downtown..alot of VCU (university) kids was out..the fight was over..we walked away..then the VCU police pulled up on us..so the third girl that was with them had to call the police..and they took us to the office..talked to us..they lied..and we got locked up..the girls also was college students..of a different race (mexican)..so we believed that's why the VCU police believed VCU students and not us..I had to serve 15 days 5 time served of weekend time..I had a plea deal..only because everybody was scaring me..saying they was gone make me serve the whole 12 months..because of their race and I'm black..I've never been in trouble before or after..now I want to do security..most jobs say you can't have no serious misdemeanor conviction..is assault a serious misdemeanor?

I truly enjoy my alone time but sometimes I worry it's bad. I'm a 16 year old girl who has a lot of friends but I tend to prefer being home and doing my own thing than out with them. I do go out with my friends on occasion, but for the most part I'll say I'm busy and skip out on hanging with them. I also rarely answer my text messages. I absolutely don't mind this one bit, though. I love being alone, as I find it very peaceful. I also love spending time with my family so I do enjoy being home versus going out. Am I weird for this?

She said 5-10$ went missing from her wallet and she s trying to say when I woke up it was in a different place than she left it but I don t even remember seeing her wallet and I would never steal in the first place I don t have that in me. But her dad is an alcoholic and on new years he used money that he said he would get for bottles for my friend instead to stay out all night drinking.

So I have two friends, H and C. H is my best friend. We're much closer, but we've had some problems lately so I don't know if that has to do with it. She always seems to find something that I do wrong. And whatever I do is not something that should hurt her feelings. It's a joke. But we always make up. But she's face times C everyday, and never face times me. We talk regularly, and we're always being funny with each other. But why does she never wanna FaceTime me, but always does with C? I am much closer with H. We have more inside jokes and we get over our fights quickly. We laugh at everything. We hang out more. But I still don't get it. I know this sounds ridiculous but I wanna know why!?

Okay, so my mom died about a year ago and I've been living alone with my dad. I'm 19 years old. Now there's this old bum who used to be friends with my dad but my mom hated him and never liked him in her house. But ever since she died, he's been coming back to our house every single day and I'm getting sick and tired of it. He's filthy and nosy, he stinks, and he sits on our nice furniture and puts his nasty hands all over our plates and silverware. I feel like I can't use anything in my house anymore because I hate germs. He comes to our house almost every day of the week to "visit" my dad. He doesn't even wash his hands, and he asks people for food and asks how much money they make. I don't trust him and I don't like associating with him. Whenever he's at the house, I hate him so much that I have to stay in my room to keep away from him. He's mostly harmless and doesn't attack anyone, but he's disgusting. Even my dad says that he hates the guy but no matter how many times I talk to him, he just doesn't want to tell this guy to leave. He just sits there and tolerates it while I'm holding back an impulse to beat this guy up with a cooking skillet. Is there any legal ways to keep this guy away from my house? I want him to be gone for good, without having to be rude or getting myself sent to prison.

We both have the same lipstick, we both live in separate rooms but in the same apartment, and we both have similar items. Now she's telling me that she stoled her lipstick after months of her complaining to her parents that she 'lost' it. Her parents don't believe her & always tell her to look for it, but 3 weeks ago, I accidentally brought the same exact one without realizing it. For the past few days, she didn't know until yesterday when I invited her over to spend the night. She found out and yelled at me then left. I am so furious. Now she keeps blaming me and texting me long paragraphs how "it was special to her" and **** like that. I even told her that I brought the lipstick that looked exactly like hers by accident because she has told me years ago promising me to not buy the same items (or identical ones) so we won't be confused. I never broke that promise. Now I'm ashamed and upset. It was all an accident AND I NEVER ******* STOLED ANYTHING FROM HER BECAUSE SHE IS MY SPECIAL FRIEND! I wore mine and she thinks it is hers. She lost hers I guess or what the **** but I don't understand why she'd blame me. She knows I'm straight. Still then, she likes me more than friends. Last year I broke her heart cus I told her I was interested in boys. I think she still remembers that & is even more upset than ever or she's just messing with me becuz she likes me. -_- help? We're both 14 years old but she is older than me by a month. I sure hope she doesn't call the cops. I think the being straight thing got to her head and made her like this becus when I told her I was straight, she lost contact with me, unfollowed me on Instagram and then stopped meeting me until I cheered her up one day couple months ago (2015) I apologized and told her I supported her..stuff like that..then she gave me hints she still likes me. Idk how to explain this to her or what the **** I should do.

For the past month or two, I haven't been up to doing anything except for laying in bed. My friends keep asking if I want to hang out, but I never do. I'm not to worried, but I'm tired of being bitchy to people.

this girl that's two grades lower than me used to be my best friend ever since we were little and she started stealing stuff so i told her to never come to my house again but my dad had business with her family and she still chose to come over and harass me. but eventually my mom and dad saw the messages she had sent me and told them not to come over anymore and then i blocked them on Facebook and i thought it was over. no. they started making fake accounts and texting me from different phone numbers pretending to be one of my friends and they keep accusing me and my mother of saying we are going to kill them. they are trying to act like the victims and i really don't know what to do. i've had break downs so much bc of them and i just want it to stop. what should i do? please help if you can. btw this has been happening for about 3 years and i cant get a new number bc i have a contract but they know my parents phone numbers too and they also have a contract

How to get her to stop crying? It's been 2 hours. I, as an older sister, tried almost everything, but none seem to work. Please help? My mom called her friend's mom and they already left. We were walking at the park earlier then she did that horrible thing. What can we do? We're still at the park, but now we don't know what we can do. Help? Not always covered, pearlmar.

I work at a warehouse with my mom. Once I dropped something off where he was at and he said it's fine just leave it here and he didn't look at me but my mom said when I left he started grinning acting funny laughing then stopped when he saw how she noticed. Another day I came to work alone I was near the area he works and he's laughing with his friends,later I see him arrive with a friend with food walking forwards and I'm coming from the side and he's staring in my direction and I felt wierd I am sure no one was in back of me, then he looked away then stared my way again and I was so nervous I tried to not stare back. Couldn't talk to him since he was busy all over the place. But when I was about to clock out he was talking to the manager that was right next to me and I happend to look back real quick and look at him and he looked at me and we both made eye contact at the same time for two seconds then he looked back at the manager not smiling.i felt wierd it was like we ignored and stared at each other the whole time we were there XD my mom said it's cuz he has a bigger position and he's busy but I'm prob the only girl he notices n looks at

For the past couple of months my life has been nothing but constant stress, work overload and loneliness. I was not part of a "group" but I had a small amount of friends (who werent friends with eachother) that I would hang out with individually since they were parts of different groups. I am currently a sophomore in high school, and turning 16 in a month, I thought it would be fun to have a small thing with my friends. While planning I realized that 3 of the 4 friends put in zero percent effort to even talk to me at times and I am always the one to call or text them first. Not that the whole texting thing really matters, but it's just the fact that a friendship shouldnt just be one person making an effort. The last friend of mine talks to me more, but I am always still the one to put in effort and she never asks to hangout. She is mainly with her group of friends that she hangs out with and puts way before me. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not looking to be put in front of everyone else in her eyes, it's just that I long for a friend that puts in equal effort with me. I'm not very close with my family, being that my family is divorced, my mom focuses on her boyfriend and I am not close with my dad anymore after he cheated on my mom. The only thing that I feel I am living for right now is maintaining my 4.8 Gpa that I have worked VERY hard to maintain. But the stress from school combined with the social anxiety that I have developed is making my life unbearable. I have breakdowns at least once per week due to school&having no friends is really affecting me. I have contemplated suicide very often in the past month because the stress is breaking me down. Academics are very important to me and I really want to be able to get into my dream college which is across the country from me, so I figured school could serve as a distraction from all the other social problems in my life. But, I found that it only adds to the stress, and is making my life unendurable.

Well I talk to this person over Kik but that's the only way we communicate but my friend had to leave but they said they will come on tommorrow and then they said they had to go I'll try to get on at some point what does that mean

Im 13 and I don't have friends and its tiring now. I'm tired of pretending to be in a group and them avoiding me. I'm tired of eating lunch alone. I'm tired of being on my phone cause nobody will talk to me. I talk to everyone at school and they still don't talk to me . I tried everything. I went to the school counselor and I don't think she gets it or understands . I also noticed something. When I do make a friend it's always 1 friend. Then I lose them. Even when I talk to them I can't get them back . Also I cry every friday. Does it mean something? I want a group of friends and I don't think that'll ever happen. I joined lots of activities and sports and that didn't help. When I talk to people they just ignore me . I never have anyone to hang out with and nobody ever texts me . What do I do now?

I've known my friend since elementary school. Her mom was always kind of a ***** if you ask me. On one hand she put her down in little ways a LOT ( like when she got her first boyfriend her mom told her he'd probably just use her for sex?!) or telling her everyone was comparing her to the fat neighbor lady when my friend wasn't even fat!! But she was also very controlling. My friend kinda started to rebell at age 18 and got pregnant. So her mom kicked her out telling her since my friend thought she was so grown she could take care of herself.So she's staying w me and my family for now and shes just great! She's just a sweet person amd it's a shame her mom bullied her so much. But here's the kicker...since my friends baby's father is coming around and they are trying to work things out, he mom is calling all the time telling my friend she's 'selfish' and shouldn't him like that around her baby ( cuz he did dissapear for a while) but good grief weather they work out or not... How can her mother who kicked her out sit there and tell my friend how to raise her own kid or live her own life now?! My friend is so mentally beat down by this woman and so kind hearted she is scared to stand up to her! And she won't let me say anything cuz she says then her mom will just make things worse for her!

So morning I was running late for class so I packed my **** up & took my roommates notebooks instead of mine! When i opened it in class it was like a diary, talking about how much he likes me & stuff, he said he likes to see me naked & that he wants to rub my feet again (I don't know if or when he did this) it's so ******..he seems pretty normal so I don't know how to tell him, I wanna bash his ****** brains in talkin bout getting off to seeing me get dressed after my shower at night..

Isn't doing anything for you means like paying your bills, etc...

I live in Tennessee as of now and my parents are planning on us moving to Montana. Im 13 years old and its not like "you wont even remember Tennessee". My whole life was made in Tennessee for 13 years and now they just want to take those memories away. All my friends, everything. I dont want to move but their basically forcing me. I mean I ll have to make new friends, go to a new school and honestly I dont think I can make new friends. Right now, Im thinking of just killing myself before we move. Me being dead is basically the same as me being in Montana away from all my friends. What should I do?

Okay, please answer the question. Don't tell me I'm wrong for what I did, I know. So me and two of my friends are going on vacation soon. One of my friends and me aren't exactly friends anymore, I said something very horrible about her and she found out. She's not talking to me and is telling everyone how horrible of a friend I am. She's saying she's not coming on vacation. I think she should considering my other friends mother paid over 2000$ for us to come. The problem is I want to be her friend again, I'm not sure what to do. I apologized and sent her a paragraph, she didn't answer. It dosnt look any good right now, one of my friends is having people over tonight and I'm not going because I'm scared of what she and my other friends will say. What do I do?

Is Sikozu from Far scape dead? Yes she dies in a comic. Is it suprising that Sikozu betrays Scorpius? Yes because it shows no clues that she is the spy. What is Sikozu? A Kalish boiloid, yep you heard me. Are Sikozu and Scorpius really a couple? No closer then Natira and Scorpius, but I never really see them loving each other also she was faking it all she was a spy they would have made a good couple though. Probably a long time. Will the Scarrans rise up again and start another war? Probably. Is it hard to write a Far scape fan fiction? Yes I have a good ending and middle but I can't find a beginning that fits the rest. Do I love Far scape? Yes. Who is my Favorite character? Scorpius duh! My two other favorites? Pilot and Sikozu ( not in the really I just like her hair in the peacekeeper wars and her clothes other times). Is that all for now? Yes.

READ FULL DESCRIPTION My friend has done many things to irritate me, and straight up harass me. I don't want to stop being friends with him, I just think I should stop being such great friends with him. Pretty much here are some real examples of stuff he does, and the way he acts. -he flakes out on me last second when I really needed his help with studying he thinks it's funny to straight start fights, no kidding, like FIST fights -talks about bizarre things like porn too loudly in weird places -rubs it in my face when he beats me in a video game -runs to our other friend to talk behind my back -he is stupidly dramatic -criticizes me for being "too nice" - he is unforgiving for the most part -i told him secrets about who i like, and he dropped hints about it to our other friends, RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY FACE -he doesn't understand when he's gone too far until he gets hurt -he openly told me that his mom thinks he should get new friends(i wonder how that makes me feel) -he said that I don't like someone IN FRONT OF THAT PERSON -invites himself over to people's houses -owes me 11 dollars, i don't really care about that though -he then lied to our friend that I didn't get him his birthday present even when I gave him my money to buy it, (he pocketed the money then blamed me) Once again, i'm not MAD at him. I just think that he is someone I should stay away from, does anyone else agree? ALSO he started a fight with me and I told him to "GET OFF ME MAN!" and then I started to punch him in the stomach because he was punching me in the head. He then pushed me and as I was staggering pulled my hair SO hard i thought it was gunna rip out of my head. 5 SECONDS LATER I was on the ground clutching my head trying not to cry, he then asked me "Oh, oh. umm. dude are you okay?" HOW DID HE NOT UNDERSTAND I DIDN'T WANT TO FIGHT HIM?!

Her and her BF have been ticking me off lately; they ve been together for 3 years, and are currently in a LDR (they re both in College, he s 1 older, and 9 hours away). He comes up on weekends; the last time he came up was 2 weeks ago, and I was kicked out for 2 days (I ve been kicked out multiple times). Now, they ve started arguing, to the point where I m not allowed into my room for up to an hour (One time, when I tried to go back in to get ready to go out, before I could turn the knob she rudely goes Can I have some time , so I left). Now, tonight, she was planning on going out with everyone; instead, she s going to stay in talking to him, since they re no longer arguing. The problem is, I ve been in bed all day with a runny nose and sore throat; I told my friend that if I m feeling better I ll go out. Instead of being okay with that, my roommate goes, It s not that bad, you just have a runny nose , almost as if she wants me to go out even though I feel bad, all so that she can talk to her BF alone. Add onto that the fact that her BF might be coming up for Valentines Day (I ll most likely be kicked out for longer than normal), and I m just frustrated. Even my friends are telling me that I give her too much time (I ll be kicked out of the room, even when they aren t having sex, because they also want alone time). I feel bad bringing this all up to her, because they re in a LDR, so I know it s hard on her, but I just feel annoyed about all of this. What can I do?

It's very annoying that I have feelings for him. Will telling him help me stop? HELP ME PLEASE

So next year (I will be in 8th grade) I am going to have to share a bus stop with my neighbor who is a boy. I am sometimes over at their house to hang out with his older sister (who I don t really talk to) but I try to act nice to him even though he is kinda annoying (btw whenever I say I want to do something with a friend my parents always say "why don t you go next door and hang out with ____" but he is no offense kinda weird and not my type of person to hang out with). Also I know some of you will say get out your phone and pretend to do something. Well 1. I do have a phone and might do that but he has a flip phone so he can t do much and I don t want to be rude and 2. He is (again no offense) a chatterbox and it can get annoying sometimes. Please tell me what to do (also getting driven to school is not an option)

He says"I'm gonna stay out until you give me an apology"...."I'm not gonna take you out tonight if you don't drop the attitude". He has his friends and I have mine. My friends don't like him because he is socially overbearing. His friends don't like me because I am socially reclusive. We don't do well going out together because he says that I embarrass him with my blunt honesty with people. For instance, if we are having dinner and the pasta is too oily I will say something. But he gets embarrassed easy and would want me to just keep quiet and order something else. He would pay for groceries over his budget because he would be embarrassed to take food off the belt and put it back when I will take food out of the bag and have them take it off the ticket if it is over my budget. It is Saturday and we had decided to do something as a family. But a friend of hic text and invited him and the kids over to their house. I am not invited, I am never invited. Because He has gone over there and while he was there we have argued. Almost every time he is there. He has gone over there and talked **** about me, as husbands do. But when he goes over there and says to me"I'm going just to watch the game" but stays gone I call and ***** about the time. As I am yelling at him about the difference between Game and Games he is holding the phone up saying"See what I got to deal with". The wife of the friend does not want me at her house because she says that she doesn't want any drama. But with my friends that don't like him it is different. My friends say things like"If Eric is gong then I'm not going" ....Then you're not going because that's my husband and he comes first friends are side pieces. Granted he did what he normally does and pissed everyone off with his attitude. One person even got out of the truck on the highway and threatened to walk. He thinks that I owe him an apology because I yelled at him and we go through this every week when he goes over their house.

Is that true? I mean, I know I'm a shy person, I don't talk a lot, I act normally in society and when I meet someone, he/she is sometimes clumsy or bad to me. Did this happened already to you? Why some people make fun of me? Only, because I'm shy? I don't receive respect.

It seems like buddies dislike me because of some reason that I don't know of, so I'm trying to figure out what it is. Tell me everything. No homo AT ALL!

Ok so I don't have the biggest butt and my best friend does. She makes fun of me and once we were talking about big hips and butts and she's like "you have neither." I got upset. Then another time we were joking around and she said "I have a gluteus maximus and you have a gluteus minimus." Sometimes she wears jeans that are a little tight and tucks in her shirt and I feel like she does it to make her butt look big. The other day I was standing a few feet away behind her while she talked to someone else and I don't know what they said and she started moving her hips very dramatically and showing off her butt to me. My behind is one of my biggest insecurities and she likes to make fun of that. Am I overreacting? What should I do?

Tuesday, Wen., and Thursday she didn't come to school because she told everyone before she left that she was sick. Well she wasn't! She admitted to everyone in school that she LIED about being sick!? I don't like the way she acts like that. What should I do please be honest!

Okey i was in school the other day and i have two friends who always find a way to tickle me. That day it was our recess and we were the last ones leaving the room when 1 of them grab me by the arms and the other closes the door and leaves us three inside. He then pulled my pants down and I started screaming and the one holding me told me if i did not shut up i would regret it, cause he was going to tell the class that i was a whore. The other started rubbing my v... with his fingers and was trying to finger me. The one in the back was pressing his penis against my ***. They stopped when one of my friends outside was looking for me and I yelled, they kicked me and left me on the floor and they went outside. My friend enter the class and saw me in the floor and he sat with me while i said nothing, but he was looking weird to my panties so i pulled my pants up and i went to my sit before the class begun. What should i do? should i talk to the teacher? but i am afraid they tell everyone i am a whore... Pd: The day after they started unhooking my bra, and also ticlking me in my breasts pinching my nipples from time to time. Then the friend who was looking from me that day sit next to me en classes the day i wore skirt, and he started touching my legs pulling the skirt up and that way he could see my pantiea bits. He rubbed my camel toe and i wet; so he put his hand inside my panties and started fingering me till i moan and beg him to stop. The worst thing is that i think i enjoyed that

Not out fear but sometimes that does not go to well. Shes kind of violent and although I dont fear for my life lol I think we should stop being friends because he sticks up for our friendship and it seems to be a huge problem dor them... Give me your cents!!!

I don't know what to do with my life. I'm 26. In high school I had a nice life,I had a wonderful girlfriend,a couple of great friends and I was a member of the theater club. After High School I wanted to serve my country and I joined the USMC. I was deployed in Afghanistan in feb 09. After I came back,luckily without being crippled it had all changed. My girlfriend left me,my friends are gone and I'm alone. I'm crying right now.I was happy with the life I had,I joined the Marines to make a difference,people thank me for my service but truth is that all of the people who I cared about are gone. My then girlfriend is getting married,and the 3 friends I had in high school 2 haved moved away,one joined the army when I joined the Corps,he was aswell deployed in Afghanistan,he didn't make it back. I just found a job in my town library but I'm not happy with my life. What shall I do?

Does Dames & games sports bar & grill accept 18yr ? Me and a couple friends are going to take a friend for his birthday

Okay so it's can't be my friends background like military or something. But my friend doesn't say goodbye she just bows slightly and walk away, is there some weird psychological thing as to why she always does this?

I get really attached to a specific person and get upset with them if we drift a little or if other things are going on and they don t seem to want to see me as much. I get offended and feel maybe abandoned? Like I can t accept if things have changed and act as if there is no hope for our friendship and I get mad at them? It s as if I have like borderline personality disorder or something. It s happend to 2 close friends. Idk why I feel this way,

I'm a guy in my late teens. Almost two years ago, I started walking around my neighborhood for exercise. I've always walked alone, I don't have any friends or a girlfriend to walk with, which would probably make it a lot more tolerable and fun. Recently, I barely walk anymore. I just can't stand walking by myself with loud noisy cars. I'm even questioning if walking is that good for me. If it's even worth it. I kept walking because I thought maybe one day I could meet someone in my neighborhood to walk with. But after almost two years, I know I'm the only teenager who walks. What do you think?

I wanna know what situation would work well, for meeting someone.

I used to be friends with a guy. At the beginning of the year, we started drifting apart and, eventually, we just stopped talking. He barely talked to me or to any of my friends because he was trying to become "popular". He started talking in our backs. I stopped saying "Hi" to him, even when he said "Hi". We were bitchy towards each other. Anyways, today, he wanted to talk to me. I figured out that I should hear him out. We talked. He says he wants us to be friends again. However, he wants to forget about everything that happened in the last two months. I don t think we are ever going to go back to who we used to be. I don t know if his friendship is worth the trouble that comes along with it. Trouble is the last thing I need in the middle of mid-term exams week. What should I do?

Through an unfortunate chain of events I now live with my best friend and his family. His family is loud, rude, obnoxious, and the like. For reasons which are too complicated to go into, I cannot leave out with him when he goes to get away from his obnoxious family at the small business office he obtained recently. Is he being an a**hole by leaving me to deal with his family an their crap while he chills out and plays video games at the office? If I have to deal with his family's bullcrap then so should he. If the situation were reversed I would not do the same to him. And yes, I am in the process of trying to find my own place.

The new semester began a week ago, and their roommate from last semester moved out... Since the new semester began my next door neighbor/dormmate's boyfriend has essentially moved in and they have sex every single day, repeatdly all day long. The walls are thin and I can hear everything. It's not fair that I can't concentrate on my work, sleep or even eat in peace until 12am, 1amish when they finally stop f***ing. When I'm in my room I always have to throw on my earphones and blast music just to block them out and I'm sick of it. He isnt supposed to live here. What do I do?

So, for some time these 'friends' of mine have asked few times a month if i would be their driver for the night (drive them to bar and pick them up back home) and they would pay me. But i haven't felt like staying up all night, or in a mood to do so and frequently have said something like "sorry, not to day but maybe next time" etc, but nothing is stopping me to go and drive the night. . I feel guilty because of this, and obligated to help them out in this matter, even if i know they will get someone else to do the driving. I just feel like i always have to help friends out, and i wish nothing in return. It is a favor, after all. They aren't my closest friend circle, but friends anyway, and i usually don't see them anywhere else. Which is why i maybe shouldn't feel guilty. But i do. Should i?

A while ago I was threatened by Zach, the boyfriend of my best friend Brooke. Zach pulled a knife on me and demanded that I stay away from Brooke. IDK the guy is insecure about their relationship. Problem is I'm a guy too and Zach feels threatened that I might take Brooke away from him. Of course I swore she and I only have a very good friendship, but of course he doesn't believe me. So I've been avoiding Brooke and we don't hang out anymore. Apparently Brooke knows nothing of what happened because since then she's been trying to contact me. Texts, emails, calls, I avoid them all for fear of Zach. Sometimes she tries looking for me, and when I ignored her Brooke breaks into tears. I mean she is desperate and worried about me. I don't know what to do. Most people would just let friendships die, but Brooke really wants to hang out again and it hurts every time I say no, or ignore her. Why is my friend desperate to reach out to me? How should I deal with the boyfriend thing? (we're 21 btw) If I trying anything Zach swears he'll hunt me down.

I just move to a new city. The city I move to is pretty small compare to where I lived before. I grew up in a city with nearly a million people, now I live in a city with 50,000 people. I am having a tough time meeting new people. Everyone I work with are much older than me so no luck there. I tried looking at some meet ups but found non that I have an interest in. Any Ideas?

They called all the new kids down to a room in the first floor and I remember that they said 7th and 8th grade students can use their phones during recess and lunch. Today at outside recess I was doing my science project and I had to do some research.We were outside so I used my phone. A recess person (new to job) told me my phone was confiscated. I knew that I had to give it to him cause I could have a detention so I gave it to him. At the end of the day my friend went with me to the office so we could get my phone since I couldn't speak (I was crying really hard). Another student in my class got her phone taken away too because she was texting in in the hallway. We asked the principle for our phone back and she said we have to get it back on Monday and she said "I will not accept student's texting in the hallway" My friend and I tried explaining that I was in recess but she didn't listen. They were irritated so I went outside and called someone to pick me up since I take the bus and they left already. A few minutes later my other classmate said she got her phone back because the principle said she was trying to scare use for a minute and was trying to teach us that we could only use our phones during lunch and recess. When we went back in all the administrators went home already so I couldn't get my phone back and I didn't even get a chance to explain. I also got grounded my my mom and she didn't even let me explain what was going on either. Is this legal?

Thrghout my whle life I was a vry hpy child & had probs/obstacles to overcome lke any other. My father never shwd any affection twds me, I've only hrd him say ILY once. But it nvr fazed me bec my mom tk the responsibility for being bth parents due to my father jst nvr bein there for me. My mom has dne way mre than I actually deserved. I'm staring to see I'm turning out just as stubborn as my father. I've always bn a popular guy and I rlly lke being the cntr of attention. People r just naturally attracted twds me. Mybe it's bec I'm a Leo/Virgo Cusp idk. In HS I was jst sort of a rebel doin wtvr I felt like and nbdy cn tell me other wise. I got into playin sports and smokin weed. Life was going good until I got my hrt brkn my senior yr and tht led to one thing worse after another. My confidence just dropped way down & evn worse till this day I'm a 20 year old virgin. Not bec I'm ugly or weird wch I'm definitely not but bec I just nvr fnd the right grl to get with. I've dne everything else fyi don't get it twisted. I wnt to community college & met my best friend, somehow we clicked easily. It seems like ppl think I'm a mean person when Im actually not I just have to rlly get to knw u. But now I'm starting to notice every time I meet new ppl I just get rlly freaked out nervous and end up saying the wrong thing or nothing at all. Especially at parties until I get drunk then I start being the center of attention again. I'm so confused & need advice why I'm this way? Please help..

In this case I've fallen for my best friend and she lives 4 hours away.

When a guy will take lift me up to see if he can carry me, he will lift me and then when he brings me down, he slowly brings me down as soon as his chest touches my chest. He seems to want to hold on to that touch/feeling. I have noticed also that one time he hugged me and I wanted him to let go of me cause I wasn't sure he wanted a relationship or anything, and his eyes were closed when I saw his face. And someone else was in the room looking at us. I shrugged cause I didn't know why he was doing this. Well, he then sighs and rubs his chest against my chest and starts breathing hard still with eyes closed. It did make me breathe hard the moment I heard him, but I was thinking what is this going on? He just kept hugging me and not letting go for another 5 minutes or so. When I asked him about this months later, he brought up... "Dry humpers!!" Why did he do that and touch/rub me that way? He is married by the way. So tell me? Don't judge me, just tell me what he is doing, he obviously is not going all the way for sex with me. ??