... and that she didn't really love me before either. she said i have not done anything wrong to her and im very nice but she just doesnt love me, and when i ask her then why just **** with a guy and have a baby if u dont love? and she said she loved me before but after that she doesnt love me. I have been so good to her.. i bough her about 3,000 $ worth of jewlery. (i work walmart and home depot). i bought her 2 very nice purses and some other stuff.. why is the world like this?? what did i do to deserve this? what should I do? please help me i have a son with her, i have never been as low in life as i am now emotionally. Please advice me what to do.

I have a feminization fetish and i really enjoy being feminine in bed with my wife. My wife is ok with it now that she understands it. But where did this come from? It all started in my late 40's. I am 54 now.

I mean because most men marry a woman who looks like their mother. But does it happen to marry a woman who looks like their sister?

Youll wrote a thorough but succint answer. The next user takes your idea and wrote blocks and blocks. Im not either. But fair is fair Noticed* Write*

I have been married for years, and I admit I got married too young and too soon. Now, I'm not incredibly happy in my marriage, and I see so many girls all around me that I wish I could go out on dates with, as I miss "the chase" and the first few months of dating. I fantasize all the time, in particular about my massage therapist. I tell myself I would never cheat on my wife, but I feel like if a particular girl I was hung up on, like my massage therapist, approached me, I may give into weakness. I don't know how to overcome wrestling with this. I'm 28. Thoughts?

we had been having issues in the past year, she has been using up more of her money lately and has not been helping with any of the bills. she also been not showing up for work and calling in sick, she had did this many times. and now today is what really crossed the line! she went missing for 2 days and to find out, she is in jail. she was arrested for felony possession of methamphetamine, and soliciting a male prostitute in a sting operation! i am outraged and don't know what to do!?? she is still and jail and i still don't know if i should bail her out? i i never knew she had a meth habit, but what should i do? .

My fiancé wants to start firefighting and if he gets the job he will end up firefighting right after we get married. We re Christians and haven t been living together, nor have either of us lived alone before. I don t know what I m supposed to do by myself in an entirely new place by myself while my new husband is gone right after we get married. Any advice? How do I cope with living by myself and not seeing someone I ve been waiting to be with only to have him be gone for days on end when we finally get married? Please no rude answers.

I have Asperger's so I am harder then my sister and my parents are divorcing and I think it is partly my fault for being harder. They said they were protecting is from being sensitive to their fighting and I am the sensitive one not my sister. Why do parents have to do this and how can I stop feeling like it is my fault or should I be sorry and guilty?

My wife works and pretty much cleans, buy groceries, etc. We dont have kids. What kinda bothers me is that there are times when she dont cook because she is too tired from work. Is it wrong to expect her to do all the cooking.

My newborn daughter was taken from the hospital by CPS (because we were homeless at the time of birth, and they didn't know if the baby was going to a safe home). we just had our court date today, and unexpectedly the social workers brought to the judges attention that I had been married before and said it looked like my divorce didn't go through and I was only separated, and they wanted me to prove my divorce by bringing the divorce decree. My previous marriage was in a far away county, the ex husband refused to cooperate at the time of divorce, So I had to have a divorce by publication. I have tried to call the court in that county and they are unable to find the divorce decree, and now I am starting to question that maybe the divorce process never finished. I am now married to my current husband. My husbands attorney said this would not be a deal breaker if I was unable or refused to provide the divorce decree, but I am still sweating bullets until our next court date. Is this going to be a major issue in getting my daughter back? How should I respond if they try to use this against me? Any ideas on how the attorney might bypass this? and is this something that could be a deal breaker about getting my daughter back? (The least of my concerns is bigamy, I am primarily concerned if this fiasco will stop us from getting our child back!) Anyone have any information on this?

$450,000/yr, 6 foot 1, 8 % fat, sometimes fly to vegas for a weekend of top tier hookers and gambling to blow off stress, and none of my furniture or house decor is excessive nor expensive

So I got arrange married to this girl that I never met so after living with her for 2yr one day she told me that she had boyfriend before our marriage and she wanted to married some how it didn't workout for them , but since she have been married to me she told me that she love me and she just want tell the truth about her past , I don't know why but her past keep hurting my feeling but she love me and we have I child now , she pray to her God front of me and said she never had sex with her boyfriend can anyone tell me how can i move foreword with her and forget aviuy about her past thank you sorry for my bad English

In the last six months, he has found it okay to miss work atleast three days a month and he works Monday-Friday so he has weekends off. He doesn't get paid for sick time, and honestly we can't keep affording this laziness. Please help?

For example, my friend got recently married. He and his new bride had me over for supper one day. She had made a smoothie, and offered some to him. He would not touch it until he got a separate glass. My take on the matter is, the two share so much more in bed, so why would a glass that his wife had drunk from bother him?

When he wants to have sex 6+ a day. Do you think that this is something a wife not should, but has to do for her husband? Just as important as making dinner, or cleaning the dishes?

I love my husband very much this is my 3rd marriage and finally picked a great man. It is his wnd marriage and know he loves me too. We have only been married a couple years ww both are in early 50's. Recently my 2nd ex husband passed away. I posted some pictures and comments on facebook. My husband said spme of the picture/comments i made were disrespectfull to him and our marriage. That he got texts and messages regarding them and how they sounded and looked like i was with or has wanted to be with exhusband and other such things. So i told him i would take them down and i did. Well it didnt stop there that night he slept in guest room. Which i told him when we married i would never sleep apart unlessone of us was seriously ill. This lead to me telling him to get over it be a adult stop pouting. It went downhill from there and now told me to get out by end of weekend he says that he suffered years with his ex and not doing that again. He was married to his ex for 24 years and she was abusive. I lovr him so much and want to fix this. Also i have nowhere to go because it not just me but aldo have a adult special needs daughter so we both are out. When we got married he spent lot of money converting a bedroom in his house for her. Also.i have had some medical issues in last 6 months so now changed to a part time job making very little.

Anybody else feel the same? An arranged massage sounds nice.. But people don't do that where I live.

I haven't been married long but my wife sent me a text message asking for a divorce. This isn't the first time she has asked. She has left and gone home to her parents house before. And threatened to several other times. Talking to her on the phone makes me feel sick and gives me anxiety. She won't talk to me about what's wrong and doesn't want to go to counseling. I talked to some of my buddies about what's going on and they all say I don't seem happy. I don't want to disappoint my parents or be alone, she always tells her parents I'm the problem so they don't like me very much. I thought when we got married that she loved me but problems started right away and it wasn't that we just weren't use to living together because we already lived together. She never spends time with me anymore we are almost always in different rooms. I always do and buy whatever she says but if I want to do something or get something the answer is no. Or she is mad the entire time and refuses to talk. I basically want to know if I should keep trying to please her or file for divorce like she asked. I have tried to ask her what's wrong but she just ignores my question. She said our home is my place and calls her parents house home. A buddy told me not to put up with her immature behavior. I am starting to question if she ever considered us really married, she never says us or we its always me and him I just almost feel like I'm living with a roommate or even a stranger It's just all so confusing one minute she was sending me messages I can't repeat on here then its I want a divorce Its been about a month and things don't seem to be getting better. Her parents think I kicked her out and made me take her back so we could work on our relationship. But she won't talk to me about it I just don't know what to do I don't want to file for divorce but I don't know when she is going to or how long she plans to keep threating me with it so I do what she wants. Her parents won't listen to me. They believe her. Besides she is on the lease so she has a right to be here for now. I can't make her leave and give her nothing I'm not that kind of person. I guess if she decides to leave for good I will take her off the lease I'm just waiting to see what happens

My husband never gets jealous.ever. To the point where he said he wouldn't mind if I had other males over when he was working. I get hit on a lot, over the Internet, and in person, and he doesn't even flinch. He said he would stay with me if I cheated on him. I never would, but it's just strange to me.. I'm a mildly jealous person, i don't mind him looking but would never accept any of these things if it were the other way around. I feel as if he just either doesn't care or wants to be able to have the freedom himself.. Am I over reacting?

My ex-wife has primary custody of our adopted son. She is remarried with 2 other babies. She is asking me to pay for babysitting so she can take my son to all of his doctor's appointments. She doesn't work, but her husband (the father of the 2 babies) works from home. Does she have a case if I am paying child support, insurance costs, half the medical bills? She also gets a check from the state because our son was adopted out of foster care. He also goes to school full-time and all these doctor's appointments are maybe once a week at the most. We have been divorced for several years and there is no spousal support.

1 year ago this month my husband had an affair. Today I handed him divorce papers with 3 sentences: 1. I will never forgive you 2. I will never forget 3 I will never get over it. Was I wrong?

My husband is very loving and caring. I was a virgin when I got married. and he was too. We both love each other and have been only with each other. Married for 12 years and two kids now, I want to try new things in bed with him. It wasn't until recently I started taking charge of initiating with him. I have started to have strong sexual urges. we have discussed this. He is very hesitant to try wild ideas in bed. Any suggestions please.

Please read! Let's say in mid-40s, all the kids have left for college or just going to college and the parents are left alone and feel empty nest. It can become awkward between a couple when the kids leave the house and they are left by themselves. Is it ok for them to restart another family? Is it ok for a couple to start having kids again at around 40s? Well, people do say that 40 is the new 30....so it's rare to find people who are in their 40s that are out of energy nowadays! We absolutely love kids and would love to be parents! Joining social clubs is fine...but not as fun as being parents!

We have been together married for 12. We have 2 kids . We have only had sex with each other and she wants to experience the "excitement" of being with someone different. She says that she loves me and doesnt want to hide anything and only wants to do it one time with no strings attached. I dont want to get a divorce, but I cant just sit and wait for her to have sex with another man. She encourages me to have sex one time as well and then we can talk about it and know what its like to be with someone else. I have explained my point of view, that I only want her and how it hurts me that she needs to experience another man once in her life. She doesnt want to seperate or divorce or have an emotional attachment to another person, but I feel that I wouldn't be able to look at her the same way afterward. We have considered counseling, but she insists that it wont change her mind.

im getting divoece and my husband is asking for spousal support. he is accusing me of taking 20,000 worth of jewelry and he wants half of it. but i didnt take any jewelry. he doesnt have any proof that i have it. what can i do. can i still be charged for it or asked to give him half. because i dont have any of it

When we first started dating I loved giving him oral sex . It was my absolute favorite thing to do. I did it so well. I could do it all day and night thats how much I enjoyed it. I wanted to do it never did he ever have to ask me.. or say to im horny.. Over the last couple of month his demand to give him oral sex has increased which is nothing. Theres some days where I've felt too sick or where I just wanted to hang out with him and all he wanted me to do is just suck his penis (even when I tell him those things) .He tells me if you dont want to do it then dont. (He really means i really want you too do it but dont want to force you ) Im his wife and my duty is on to him so I have to put his needs before mine. I give him oral sex anyways . If i dont he'll make it a big deal like man I guess I have to release tonight (masturbate) and its wrong to let your husband masturbate and I feel bad. and he knows i'll feel bad. I grow uninterested and thats horrible. Im not sure how to be interested. I havent talked to him about it. I just want to do it and be done with it. Help.

He works out a lot and hes never worked out with a female before. I ve told him that I didn t feel comfortable with the idea and in the end I just ended up agreeing that I was overreacting the first time around. Hes worked out with her again and the same feeling of unease came back. We don t see eye to eye about it. He reassures me that its not a big deal and it eventually turns into a argument where we both bring up the past.

My heart literally hurts. I didn't know it was possible to miss someome so much. Everyone says give it some time and I'm trying. I can feel okay one minute and the next I can't stop crying. It's awful. It's a roller coaster I can't get off. I wonder if I'm strong enough for this? Anyone who can share a story or how you get through it would be apprecited. Thank you

(first, keep in mind, we want to move out of state in 3months) example: I asked my husband what he wanted me to do with the hamburger. he said, "burgers, but can we buy buns? I'm tired of eating whacky things" me, "OK, but what do you mean whacky things" him, " like i haven't had a decent meal in over a week, like something is always off!" me, " OK, fine but I'm still eating wheat bread on mine." Him, " you know you are a 30 year old WOMAN, you have to have a dish by now! what are you going to do when we move?! these people are going to want something from your home and your not going to have any thing for them!" OK it is the last statement. I feel it in my gut that it was wrong for him to tell me how i should be by now. yes understand the other if hes tired of my whacky meals. But this statement makes me feel like he doesn't love me for who i am and that he is trying to mold me to this "perfect Suzy homemaker wife" let me tell ya, i try. hey at least i cook. I also try to eat healthy. what is this called i tried to explain to him that there is a better way to go about this. Or HELP me if you think i am lacking. HELP me instead of belittling me that i am less of a 30 year old woman because i cant make complete meals. And i can make a mean lasagna from scratch! he is always doing this to me! He is always telling me how to be and doesnt understand that anything is wrong with it.

I just recently found out my husband has had an affair for a little over a year. Everything was good up until I found out and he became really distant. He doesn t show me any affection and we haven t had sex since I found out. Yes I get the hello and good bye kisses and love you and he still calls me babe or baby. I told him I forgive him and I ve tried to initiate sex with him but he refused. He keeps telling me they re just friends. She sent me some of the stuff he had recently messaged her and I confronted him about it. He said its just words. She s across the ocean and why does it matter cause I m here and she s not. He can t give me an answer on anything. Only thing he says is he s content with me. I ve asked him if he was attracted to me and he said yes and no. The no part is because I don t dress like a female anymore and I need to be more healthy. He says I m just boring. I asked him if he would ever have sex with me and he said maybe maybe not. I asked him if he still loves me and he says yes. I need advice on how I can change this. I m trying to change and be strong. I want him to see I m not going anywhere. It also bothers me that he won't stop messaging her. I'm trying to do the forgive and forget thing. I'm acting like I don't care even though I do. It kills me and I just want him to get over her. She tells him she's been going out on dates and seeing a therapist. Therapist isn't that good if she still answers him.

I am a woman who loves having sex with my boyfriend. Granted, because of my bipolar disorder, it s been a bit difficult to maintain a consistent sex life, but I m currently undergoing treatment and even just the hope I ve been given has improved our sex life a ton. However on almost every tv show, wives seem to hate sex. For example on Scrubs, a wife who hated basketball confessed that the only reason she watched a basketball game was because her husband made her choose between watching the game or having sex. Why is it like this? Are my feelings towards sex going to change? I don t want them to, because I love it, and him, so much. Can anybody tell me what it s going to be like?

My brother in law has access to our accounts he has been living with us since he's homeless. He just turned 21 a week ago I found out he has been using our checking account and he's been spending a lot of money. It was my wife's idea to give him access we both trusted him we are almost in debt I want to tell my wife but I don't want to come between her abs her brother what should I do?

My husband is a great guy. Very sweet and caring and would die for me and our three sons. He's given up everything already to make the family happy and I'll forever be thankful. Well, all that aside, I met this "bad boy" if you will, at work about a month ago. It's funny because I work at the DMV and he came in trying to get his first license at 29 so he doesn't seem to fall into the mold of society. He walks to his own drum and I love that about him. Not to mention, he's so care free and fun! I'm a 39 year old woman and my husband is 44 so as you can see, my youth is borderline gone and my husband is basically all dried up sexually. He's too busy being a father- we had kids at a late age - to take care of my "carnal appetite" (and I have a HUGE appetite). I've only slept with this new man twice and let me tell you, it's all I think about. Luckily when my husband catches me smiling to myself I can make him believe I'm thinking about him. Sounds terrible I know! Anyway, my husband makes plenty of money so he can easily take care of our sons. He also has two sisters who would gladly pitch in if he asked. And my new man doesn't even have a job at the moment so as you can see, money is no desire of mine. I'll always love my husband but I'm just not that into him anymore. Should I just keep cheating in case this guy isn't who I think he is? I mean what if my husband comes around and realizes that the "junk" between his legs is still functional? Or should I just run away?

Last time there was an awful, long and terrible period of amnosity and bitterness but eventually she took me back as long as I never cheated again. If I was on the brink of being exposed for being unfaithful for a second time (although the circumstances are slightly different), can I expect the period of hostilities to be shorter?

tried comforting her....what do you do when she keeps telling you she wants to die, they were together 50 years...with no family and you see how she is, can't blame her, what should I say to her...she has been to the Dr. but he can only do so much....

We are married for 25 years. He is extremely kind to me, but he is cheating. Chatting, texting and talking to other women using his phone. He even text them when we are watching TV. I checked his phone. He does love chat too with them. I told him to stop, but he changed his phone password. I see him as a liar now who is kind to me but backstabbing me. I don't see it fair but what should I do?

Will my future husband lose interest? I know they say keep things exciting but role playing does NOT turn me on

a man takes his wife / gf and her two female friends to a bar. the wife / GF g gets drunk. She and her 2 friends decide to all spend the night together. the man drives them to one of the woman's home. his wife / GF immediately passes out drunk on the sofa. It wasnt late yet, he and one of the other woman we're not drunk. So they decided to go out and get a bite to eat. his wife / gf was passed out, they saw no reason to wake her and tell her about their new plans...... in NORMAL social groups, of people free of any menta al / emotional issues, no drug addictions, etc., is the behavior between the man and his wife/gf's female friend considered normal and socially acceptable?

So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. So I packed up my bags and told him I was going to my parents for a week to reevaluate things.... As I was walking out the door he started to cry and said don't leave I don't want to be alone....he then said that he'd get help but he doesn't want to go to a rehab facility for his drug and alcoholism. While I held him I couldn't help but think how overwhelmed I am... Should he go to a group or does he need to go to a clinic?

I've been with my husband for 6 years. He's a great man but he always makes these fat jokes with me. I'm 5'6" and weigh 128 pounds. I know I'm not overweight by any means. I grew up overweight when I was younger so I've always had self esteem issues about my weight. My husband is a very skinny man with an incredible metabolism so he's never experienced weight shaming. Tonight, I told him he can't gain weight because he eats too healthy and he told me "I'm gonna keep eating like this, you stay fat". He always makes these jokes and I constantly tell him how it makes me feel but he never changes. What do I do?

My ex wife of now a year I'm 27 she 36 together for four years a year ago she got pregnant. Won't say who the father is or admit to even having the baby past year she been wanting me to pay 150 a month and 300 for a broken down van who she later coned a guy I'm living with to have me sell it to give it back to her and pay him sex she hell bent on getting revenge cause of this pregnancy she had. Due to the possible open relationship via year ago I watched her had sex with this married guy. But still not sure who baby is she recently changed her cell number. She also hell bent on sleeping with married guys as well. Prostitution. So she hell bent on ruining my reputation and had this guy stole stuff to give to her for sex. What do I do? How can I get her number? Cell number been changed.