Family: Question: I turned 18 last week but my parents are still treating me like a child.?

Question: I turned 18 last week but my parents are still treating me like a child.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:37 PM PST

They tell me I still have to be home by 11 on school nights, wont disable the parental controls on my PS4, tell me I cant bring porn into the house etc. Why are they still treating me like a child? Cant wait until I graduate in June. Im moving out so I can do whatever the hell I want.

Question: I walked in on my sister having sexual intercourse with some guy what to do?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:37 PM PST

im a younger brother and accidently walked in on my sister and some dude. they didnt realize i saw them because i wasnt supposed to be home. i heard loud moans and peeked inside and was tramatized. i left and went to a friends house. what should i do

Question: What can I do to stop my future sister-in-law's childish and dishonest rumors about me?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:33 PM PST

(Names have been changed) I am happily engaged to a wonderful woman (let's call her Jo). She gets along very well with my family and I get along well with the majority of her family also, but her sister (let's call her Dolores) has hated me from before I even met her. I have come to accept that I may never win Dolores over, but recently, I have been made aware of rumors that she has been spreading about me. I'm not sure when it started, but it was likely at the beginning of my relationship with Jo. Some examples (too many to list them all): - When Jo and I went out to dinner with Jo's old friend, the bill, which I had repeatedly offered to pay, was about $100. Dolores heard that we went out to dinner and by the time she told her mother, somehow the story morphed into me forcing Jo to buy me an $80 dinner. - When Jo was sick with a cold, soon after we moved in together, I asked if she wanted me to pick up anything for her or take her to a doctor. She said she was okay, her temperature was normal, and we had cold medicine and soup at home, so I took her at her word. Dolores found out Jo was sick and twisted the whole story; it was suddenly pneumonia and I was refusing her medicine and wouldn't take her to the doctor. The lies are affecting Jo's extended family's feeling towards me to a certain degree, which is why I pay them any mind at all. It's also destroying Jo and Dolores' relationship. How should I handle these rumors?

Question: Why shouldn't i commit suicide? please convince me?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:23 PM PST

i am 21 years old. i live in saudi arabia. i am a WOMEN, Girl, FEMALE! who lives is SA! i am forced to be a muslim forced to wear black abaya and hijab i am gay and not allowed to love. i am forced to live with my parents. oh my parents... We depend in my mom's semi-low salary to supports us, i have 3 other ssisters and i'm the eldest. my father is a drunk unemployed asshole, he hit us and humiliate us. and we don't have anyone we can call to take him or take us away from him. my mom cannot get devorced because he threatened that he will take us, all of us (me and my sisters) to live with him. and the law and ******* islam support him. i am a college student who has no friends, self-consioused. i lost interest in everything i used to love, movies, books, and eating. my life is college, home - home college there is no other options since i live here in saudi arabia. The only thing that will maybeee make me a feel alittle less miserable is smoking, and i can't do it because if my dad smelled it he may break my neck. now could someone please give me one reason why i shouldn't do it????

Question: Living with parents is ruining my life?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:22 PM PST

I'm 21 and i had to move back in with my parents in July. Ever since then, I've been really sick. I'm pretty sure i'm allergic to their dog, and i have had a sore throat and chronic sinusitis since i've been here. Having that has caused me to have really bad anxiety. LIke before i left college i have felt like this too, but its so much worse now. My boyfriend lives in arizona, and i want to live with him. Is this a good enough reason to ask him? I can't live here anymore I'm miserable and i don't know what to do I only have about 1,500 saved up. And we've been together for a little over a year

Question: Why does my brother annoy me so ******* much?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:10 PM PST

Today I went to be visit my grandparents & for my misfortune, he was there. He opened the door for me & as soon as I walk in, the first thing he says is "are you feeling Okay? there's seriously something wrong with you!" & I'm like "what are you talking about?" then he goes "Your sleeves are all rolled up & it's freezing outside" & I'm like "No, I'm Okay" it was 33 degrees & sunny but my house & my grandparents house are a street far from each other (I'm serious) so then he goes tell my aunt about how I'm crazy for having my sleeves rolled up & that I look stupid as **** (I was dong the dishes and forgot to roll them back down) & then everyone starts talking crap at me saying that I look ridiculous, that I have to use my brain & then I faced my brother & told him "This is the reason why we don't get along. I've told you before to not tell me what to do PLENTY of times & now you humiliate me in front of others" & my aunt got irritated at me so I said "I'm getting the **** out of this *****" & so I did & my aunt said "may got be with you!" in a sarcastic way & I said "He will be." & went home. Like seriously, all this ******* mess cuz of accidently having my sleeves rolled up & he went and told them on purpose to humiliate me & make me look stupid. I know it sounds dumb but its far more serious in real life. God* I'm not being dramatic, he actually snitched on me also besides trying to humiliate me. It's something about him, you could see it in his eyes. It happens quite often & today I'm not taking this BS. Hell No, I'm not letting anybody degrade me. Not anymore. There were plenty of different ways for him to tell me that & he chose the most destructive one. I'm keeping my distance & not going to my grandparents house any more. My grandpa's ******* dying & as soon as I walk in, my motives are to check in how he's doing not to talk about me or make a big deal about some stupid **** but yeah, then again, the spotlight turned towards me. Once again. He knows I have a poisonous tongue yet still tries to corner me. The other day he was asking me if I have an elbow deformity because I move one more than the other one when I walk. I know it sounds like he deliberately tries to hurt me or annoy me & it most likely is like that.

Question: HAVE any of your close relatives died. have you gotten over everything or still hurt?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:08 PM PST

Question: I think I should leave my husband.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:05 PM PST

I'm 3 months pregnate with our first child we have been together two years, turns out he's been sexting online watching porn flirting with girls but claims to never have had sex with any of them, either way I don't care it's all the same thing to me, I'm thinking because he was a Vergin when we got married that now he's acting out sexually. Anyways I just see him as a lying cheating pice of **** and I hate him, I hate him so much I even dislike the baby inside me as ashamed as I am to say that, as far as disliking my unborn child I know I'll get over that. But I don't think I can get over what he's done to me. I would have never married him if I knew he would be like this, I'm thinking I should just leave him and try to move on but having a kid makes things a bit harder. I feel really played, he told me about it all after I got pregnate. I feel he did all this to trap me because I'm a really really good wife and he wants to have me and be a single kid , I feel like I need to just let him go so he can go screw up his life and party like some looser, but I'm pregnate.... Idk what to do...

Question: Silent husband or coward?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 01:01 PM PST

My husband and I have been separated. We were on good terms to reconciliation. I found out last month on December 26th that he has been telling lies to my mother about me and sharing very personal details about my life to her...things you confide in your spouse about. I was devastated. I asked him about why he did that and he basically went silent. I haven t been able to speak to him directly since December 26. He has blocked my number and the only way I can communicate is through email, but he doesn t respond. About 3 1/2 weeks ago I stopped by his house to see what was going on. He wouldn t come to the door. I actually saw him walk past the door. About a week and a half ago he did respond to an email. He basically wants me to back to him, but then it got vague. I wanted us to talk in person, but he became silent again. Absolutely no contact. I am not sure what to do at this point. I am a christian, but this is...no it has worn my emotions down.

Question: Is my mom losing it for thinking like this?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:48 PM PST

My mother is staying at our house for a few day while her home has some remodeling work done on it. My husband and I are enjoying every minute of her stay. She has a great personality and is joy to be around. Working gals, can you imagine how it feels to have bacon and eggs and home made biscuits ready for you when you get up in the morning. And then have a hot home made meal ready for you when you get home from work. At the dinner table one night, I reminded my husband to lock the bath room door when he takes a shower, something he normally does not do. I said to mom "Wouldn't you be embarrassed if you open the bath room door and my husband was getting out of the shower. She said "Yes, I would". There was a long pause then with a BIG LAUGH she said "Unless he was really hung". Mom and my husband had a BIG LAUGH about that. OH MY GOD. I almost fell out of my chair. My mom must be losing it. I did not know she even knew what it meant for a guy to be hung. Should a 44 year old mother even be thinking in terms of guys being hung?

Question: Mom asks me to do everything for her?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:31 PM PST

Don't take "everything" seriously. She just asks me to do a bunch of stuff for her, when she is completely capable of doing it herself. I can be doing homework and her playing her games on her iPad and she asks me "go ask dad to come here" All she has to do is stand up and walk to the door. I have to take a break from doing more important stuff to walk downstairs and tell dad to come here. Another example: I was trying to take a nap (and she knew it) and she asked me to go get her a package of Ramen Noodles. All she had to do was walk downstairs to grab it. Not that hard. Am I taking this the right way? Or is what she is doing just fine? Also please don't say "respect her, she pays for everything for you" This is false. My mom has a job at a school (not a teacher) and is getting minimum wage. She goes out and buys her stuff like iPad games or something. My dad is working everyday for almost a whole day making a decent amount of money (3k a month i think, but dont take my word for it). He buys the family things we need and pays the bills. All my mom does is watch Netflix, plays on her iPad, and does homework. And for her homework, she barely does it. She tries to find a way to make my sister do it. My sister tries to explain to her what she needs to do (for hw) but her response is almost always "I can't comprehend well." or "I didn't understand a thing you said" when my sister explains it very clearly. What can I do to help this?

Question: Can a single female without children, who made about 13,000 this year get any kind of government assistance? Such as hud or food stamps?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:27 PM PST

Question: My 15 year old son hates my mother. What is wrong?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:22 PM PST

I am 34 and have a 15 year old son. He is smart, good looking, doing well in school, and generally does not give me too much trouble. Mostly the issues are around him doing his chores. In a recent exchange I feel he crossed the line. He was not washing the dishes as he should. As my mother spent the holidays with us and recently left, I said "You see how my mom was helping me?" I was surprised about his response. "She stinks up the car and takes uo space!". This obviously upsets me a lot, my mother is an older (77 year old) woman that lives out of the country. As she is older I fear she won't be with us much longer and ask her to visit us as much as possible. She comes 2 months during the summer and 1 during the winter. When she comes she gives my older son and his brothers money so they can buy things, and tries to help me around the house. My son thinks she does not know how to do anything. What is wrong and what can I do?

Question: My mom said I sit too much and I need to move around more but there's nothing to do around here?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:16 PM PST

Obviously, I know that I sit too much. I try to move around as much as possible, around the house, but she says that when she was a kid they rarely sat down for as long as i do. The thing is, I don't have any friends in the area, I'd go outside if I had friends around here, but all of my friends live a long distance away, either in another city or in a completely different state. Obviously, I know, that I'm 13 and I need to move around more. but there's really not much to do around here. My mom says that it scares her that I sit around so much. What should I do? (PS: I'm not overweight/obese.)

Question: Who do you believe?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:16 PM PST

If a boy and a girl were physically fistfighting, who do you think won the fight based on the end results : Girl-the one on top. Gave the boy a small bump on his head. Boy-the one on the bottom. Gave the girl a small bloody mouth from her braces. So who do you think won the fight based on the end results and explain why??? FYI-The girl did not put the boy on the gro. He just so happens to be on the bottom.

Question: Am I being emotionally abused? If not/so what do I do? 10 points *RANT*?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST

For a while I've been apart of the Yahoo answer's community and I've seen many questions similar to this. I would first like to state that I am a 16 year old girl. I am really upset with my home life. My mom tends to take out when her and stepdad fight on me. She'll start pointing out all my flaws (even if I'm in my room) and call it "the truth." It really hurts and even at school people have noticed my anxiety and hyper-self awareness. Teachers use to tease me about sweating really bad when they called on me or just going blank faced even though I knew the answer. I really honestly do try to avoid any form of negative confrontation with mother but even if I try to leave the situation she continues to follow me. One time I was in my room and for no reason she had came in telling me all these horrible things and repeatedly I kept saying "I don't want to fight" to which she tried to take my iPhone away and when I refused to give it to her she pulled my hair. Sometimes if I disagree with her or am "mouthy" she'll slap me across the face. One time she wanted me to hit her and I refused to which she started swearing and left. (This was the same day as the iPhone incident.) I know I'm not perfect, heck, I'm not even close. I really don't like staying after school as late as I can and lying to my teachers about "not knowing which bus is mine" in order to avoid my home life. I don't like feeling so uncomfortable at home I stay in my room for up to 12 hours a day... :( So for my questions: Have you been in a similar situation? Do you have a solution on what to do? Am I being emotionally tormented? Am I being over dramatic? Thank you for helping me guys, I really appreciate it, this has made me socially very sad for the last few years. (gotten much worse in 2015)

Question: My best friend passed away 2 days ago, and the amount of support has been great. Recently, his sister has asked for help on rent.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:10 PM PST

He had 3 brothers and 3 sisters and came from somewhat of a broken family with the parents split and the sisters living else where. This particular sister I've been told always asks for money from the family. She like everyone took his death really hard. I'm not that close with her, but I do sympathize. I want to help, but not be a bank. Any suggestions?

Question: IPHONES SUCK!!!?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:07 PM PST

I AM SO SICK OF YOU APPLE FANS THINKING APPLE IS THE BEST, they are not! IVE HAD AN IPHONE 6 PLUS AND RETURNED IT FOR A SAMSUNG GALAXY NOTE 5. APPLE RELEASES THE DAME DAMN PHONE EVERY YEAR!!! IPHONE 6 and 6s ARE THE SAME CRAP!!! THEY CHANGE NOTHING!!! AND YOU PEOPLE STILL BUY THEIR 1000 DOLLAR CRAP!!! THEN THEY HAVE AN OVERPRICED APPLE PENCIL FOR 100 DOLLARS THAT CRAP IS WORTH 5 dollars!!! THEN THEIR APPLE WATCH IS THE SAME PRICE AS THE IPHONE!!! And it sucks !!!! I LIKE MY SAMSUNG PHONE BETTER IT HAS A BETTER CAMERA, BETTER SCREEN, BETTER EVERYTHING J HOPE ALL OF YOU APPLE FANS DIE!! WHOS WITH ME? APPLE IS STEALING MONEY!!!!

Question: Can I get my mom arrested for making baked apples for dessert?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:04 PM PST

Before you dismiss my question and call me names, u should know she promised to make chocolate trifle which is my favorite dessert. And we only have a real dessert like once a week and that was supposed to be today, cuz we had dinner at home instead of my grandmas like we usually do. So once a week, and I discover she didn't make trifle. She made baked apples. How is that even a dessert? It's just a stupid apple with dried fruit and syrup inside. And apples lose all the sweetness when they get cooked! She said its cuz she tryna get my sister to eat healthy things. That's BS. She just was too lazy to make the trifle I bet. And I was so annoyed and my parents wouldn't even let me express my annoyance. They was like, stop throwing raisins bkah blah. My counselor says u should expess emotions in healthy ways and that it what I was doing. But instead I got toad to go to my room. My dad just always has to butt in, when it's between me and my mom. And I said that to him and he replied that it's his wife. Well shes MY mom. Mom beats wife every time. They are all so annoying. How am I suppose to concentrate in my test at school tomorrow when I am thinking about the trifle I want both parents arrested, not just my mom, I changed my mind. And my dad was bullyinf me, saying I was complaining about being treated like a kid the other day, and saying how mature I am. and now I'm whining about a baked apple. Well I will get him for this

Question: Domestic violence, my parents?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 12:02 PM PST

5 years ago my dad had acted out against my mom and he was sent to Jail for a good time not over a year, just a few months. He can't live with us now, but soon after a year pass my parents were back together and no one question it because this isn't one of those story where the father is abusive and hits on instincts. We were all even surprise it happened, however last night we all went to this party at 12 I called it a night and decided to take both my kid brother (9) and his friend home with me. My sister (17) and my friend (22) stayed behind to be the designated driver for all of our drunk parents. Well around 4 in the morning it seems that when they called it a night my mom didn't want to leave and so my dad dragged her out and without watching the steps she fell, and my dad hit her, the neighbor was already getting antsy about the noise so she called the cops with that reason. My dad is currently over at my uncles and my mom is home perfectly fine no bruises or crying, but I'm here worried sick that maybe something serious will happened, or what might happen, are the cops going to take action? My sister will become an officer soon and she has explain to me that in a domestic call, someone HAS to be arrested, and theres times that if the one who threw the punch isn't there they WILL search for him, my dad wasn't there when the cops arrived so....seeing as he's with our uncles does it mean nothing will happen to him?

Question: My friend doest want to live with her dad?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:57 AM PST

Her mom and dad are divorced. They live several states away. My friend and her 2 sisters live with her dad. The dad has recently went into a relationship that has many arguments. Since the girlfriend has taken his attention away from the daughters. My friend is the youngest of them and gets the most anger from her dad. My friend got into an argument with her dad and now he won t let her go anywhere, she won t even go down stairs to get food. She is 13. Are there any ways she can leaver her dad? He won t give her mom the papers for my friend to go live with her. I just want to make sure there isn t anything. He just won t let her go, I know she ll be states away but her dad just doesn t really pay attention to her, they always fight. His girlfriend takes all the attention even though they argue.

Question: How can I get my husband off his butt and do things with me?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:56 AM PST

He is a very good husband– he has a full time job, works hard, helps with cleaning and cooking, but then the rest of the time he watches tv or plays video games. I get that he needs personal space, as do I, but sometimes I want to go do things and my friends aren't available and he will NEVER do them with me. He complains that he doesn't have friends, and doesn't have a social life, but he won't come with me to work parties, take cooking or pottery classes, do sports...anything! It's starting to piss me off because I don't want to waste my life in front of a screen (oh important detail: he doesn't like it when I'm gone for too long - aka wants me to stay home and hang out with him watching tv). What do I do? I want my life to go somewhere, but I also want my husband to be part of it?

Question: How should I reply when my mother gets sarcastic that I have a relationship with my step-mother (my father died)?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST

I keep in touch with my step-mother and my mother resents that. I do more with my mother then my step-mother. On Christmas I saw my mother the entire day except one hour, went to my step-mother's for appetizers. Yet, my mother was very agitated and were I still a kid she'd ground me from going. How do I respond to my mother's reactions. I am 29.

Question: I stole money from my sister and should I return it to her or since it was $10 just let it go? It was back at Christmas break?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:43 AM PST

Question: Might my father think of me as the 2nd tier son? Read below?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:42 AM PST

I live with my mother and am 20. Growing up my parents divorced when I was a baby and my father remarried 4 years later. My father is remarried now with 3 kids ages 14, 12, and 8. He sees them daily and sees me two or three times a year for a week at a time. So I fear that while he likes me okay, I may be the son who is his son but not as close or active of family as his other three kids. Thus, a 2nd tier son. I have told him this and he says its not the case and I've thought it for years. My mother used to say when he remarried he is favoring the new wife over me. So am I a 2nd rate kid whom he loves but not as much as his own children? How can I get past this? Talking to him hasn't worked and it has become an obsession of mine.

Question: What are the reasons my father might adhere to my step-mother always and only socialize with who she wants him to?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:38 AM PST

She is bitter and so there are people he would like but he has to avoid for his bitter wife.

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Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:37 AM PST

Question: My father criticizes my sister for setting herself up to have panic attacks, can she help this though? Is my father wrong?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:37 AM PST

Question: How to become independent from my family without losing them?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:33 AM PST

As my father won't allow it - yet. And he is very controlling and will NEVER have his authority questioned.

Question: Do you have to love family?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:27 AM PST

I've noticed that if someone starts complaining about a family member hurting them someones always replies 'But you have to love family'. But do you have to? Like you you have a family member that only shows up a couple times in your life and thats to F you over do you have to love them? Are you horrible if you don't?

Question: Over controlling family What should I do? HELP?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:22 AM PST

I live in a house full of boys (my dad and my 2 older brothers) I'm a 13 year old girl, my mom passed away when I was 4. My oldest brother is 17 2nd oldest is 16 Then it's me I'm 13 I feel like I have 3 parents and not 1: *I can get grounded by all of them *All of them need to approve of what I'm wearing *All of them can take my phone away! *every time I get a bad grade they lecture me! *One of them he's to check my phone every night *my brothers always make comments about how I need to listen to what they say or they are going to ground me. * In our Family we have to say yes sir no sir when an adult talking( sign own respect ) the thing is my dad asked me to say sir when I'm talking to them because it sounds like I'm "disrespecting" them The thing is that when one of them gets in trouble I can't make comments like they do.... I tried talking to my dad about it but he said he doesn't want to hear anything because he Is authority of the house, and he makes all the rules. How can I make this stop? But I'm sick of all this I feel like I don't have siblings I have 3 people watching over me! Like I hate that it's not a normal family! I can't just come up to my brother or dad and be like:"I'm bored let's do some thing" Because that just how it goes on in my family!

Question: Is it normal to cut ties with close family members?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:09 AM PST

I have this close cousin and we talk a lot to each other about our problems and stuff . She takes selfies with me and posts them on facebook, sometimes whatsapp. But she is too conservative for my liking. She doesn't support my career choice of becoming a tattoo artist. There are times when I would lie to her about my career choice. She doesn't like me getting tattoos and hates my style in music. She once told me that my music was satanic.Once she made a rude remark on how different my accent was. When it was the wedding of my other cousin, she decided to get drunk and make a whole scene. I kept my cool for so long despite all that she has done. So I deleted her off my facebook, instagram and I didn't give her my new phone number. I did this at a random time and I made this decision to cut ties with family who constantly p*ss me off. Is it normal to cut ties with close family members?

Question: What should I ask for for my 17th birthday?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:07 AM PST

I don't want to sound spoiled or anything and Im grateful for everything I have. I have a job so I do buy myself stuff I want too. I already bought myself a new wallet, and I have purses (my aunt manages a bag store), i bought myself my phone two years ago and there isn't anything wrong with it so I don't need a new one nor do I want a new one, i also have a car (note: my 'mommy and daddy' did not buy me a new car it was my grandmothers car). I had this problem around Christmas not knowing what I want but I really do not know. I don't like getting cash because I end up buying stupid things. I kind of just want ideas thrown out at me, thank you!

Question: My friends get mad whenever my parents won't drive us places?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:05 AM PST

Wherever me and my friends want to go somewhere they always expect my dad to drive and whenever he can't they get mad at me. Is it my fault? I feel bad making my dad drive us places all the time when the other parents never do.

Question: Immmmmmm soooo boredddddddddddd?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 11:01 AM PST

Question: How do I ask my family to let me relax without sounding lazy or getting screamed at.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:55 AM PST

I work all the time. When I am not working which is rare I am doing stuff for school. I rarely find time to just be at home. Recently my aunt moved in she is quite old. I feel like everything is on me. Every 5 seconds there is something else. Get tissues, move dogs to different chairs, change were this glass is setting I don't like it. This would be fine but then I do a regular amount of work for my father cleaning and doing house work and between my job and those two I am always so tired. I can't find 5 seconds. Even when I had the flue two weeks ago they constantly had me working. If I object they blow up and scream. Even when I do all this work they call me lazy and a loser. I am so tired physically and mentally these two have drained me. Even writing this I was interrupted three times. All I wan't is maybe a hour to chill every few days or so. How can I manage this without getting attacked?

Question: I make excuses/lie not go to work ? Need opinions to stop me from lying ...?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:53 AM PST

I am going to graduate this summer and already have secured an internship at a Hospital. The problem is my other part time job at this restaurant that my uncle owns. I never get payed on time, it always has to be 20 days after. And If i don't ask for my pay, he doesn't even bother to give me the pay. If I don't ask, he won't pay me like ever! He makes me come extra days, makes me stay longer, he fired the dish washer and makes me do the dishes, however, I only get paid for being a bartender. Then on my free days he makes me come to work. There are no if's or I can't, I just HAVE TO COME ON MY FREE DAYS, he persuades me for his own cause. My cousin (His son) gets free days and yet I have to come to work on his free days, even though I am the one WHO has to study for my exams while he has to go to a dinner. So recently I have been making excuses to go to work, I lie about being sick or something that can't make me go to work. So both my uncle and his son threaten me that they will find someone else If I don't want to work there anymore. I said yes a 1000 times, I don't care, I can't ruin my studies over this. Even when I am at work, his dad is so sarcastic towards me, he kinds of insults my Family, insults my Brother (makes fun of his hair, the way he dresses up). Such an awful place to work. I really don't want to lie about Things, but when they force me to come to work, I can't concentrate on anything... Is lying to things such as this bad after all ?

Question: My parents won't even let me summit a job application to hot topic or any where and they always tell me no and I'm 24 years old women?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:48 AM PST

i filled it out my self and I'm not allowed to make decisions and cops have told me to listen to my parents and I'm not a minor i have thoughts of sadness and suicidal thoughts and i feel hopeless and lost and I'm always scolded i don't know what to do and i fail college twice one in 2013 and the other 2014

Question: Older mothers (48-60) can you explain my Mother s behavior?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST

For the past couple years my Mom has been extremely hurtful and takes every opportunity to discredit and condemn me. She was previously supportive and encouraging. My friend planned a baby shower for me. She quickly declined being sure to add that it wasn t her crowd. She had previously stated I didn t deserve one. She is constantly texting, how I wasted my education, my life is subpar, and how I am irresponsible. I ve even received texts where she says I am disgusting and not worth her time. She stopped inviting us to family holidays. We spent them alone this year. I am really hurt. Last year she even went as far as cutting communication for 6 month. I was adopted from foster care in the early 2000s. I earned my B.S., M.A. and am a certified teacher. I do not ask for money or help. She has offered, like when I recently moved, but turns around and makes me feel bad. I had money to give her for gas for her truck, but she refused. I m an unwed single parent. As a teacher, my kids attend my school, so childcare isn t needed. I have been in 3 long term relationships that ended horrible. I know now that I am a bad judge of character with men, but have been single and able to support my children and I on my salary. Mom is Catholic and has also been invoking a lot of those beliefs in her arguments. My life is not that bad and my kids do well in school. They are proficient on tests and have 3.0 & 3.5 GPAs. What exactly is causing this type of hostility in an older woman?

Question: I am being rejected by my own family can this be the reason I'm not Successful because IM in a unhappy home?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:24 AM PST

I just turn 24 years old this month and to tell you I am not happy with my life. I hate my job and the home I come to,I come to an unhappy home where there's no love in the house Nobody say These words I love you , how was your day, happy birthday.Instead I get push away every time I come in da room where all my family is having fun in da next room. I lock myself in my own room and the only fun I have is being by myself. Im the only person in da house that is working n trying to get my GED but sometimes I feel like this house is hold me from my Success.Everyone problems because my problems I'm always Arguing with my mother I pay the full amount of rent n I don't get Company but my sister do n she don't pay sh!t nobody talk to me n I be put as the bad guy. My birthday pass n No one said happy birthday no cake no ice cream. I try playing or making my family Laugh But they get Serious.I go to work Angry N some I fell like crying I hate my job I don't see myself Cleaning After someone n doing other people work I see myself doing better WHAT CAN I DO To BE SUCCESSFUL IN MY LIFE PLEASE HELP ME

Question: My dad stares at my butt?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:07 AM PST

I'll be 16 in March and he always stares at my butt. He doesn't go out of his way to look at it, but if I'm talking to him and I turn around to go somewhere else I can see him staring at it in the reflection, or if I'm walking up the stairs he stares, or if I bend over. Or like one time I was walking down the stairs and he was like "Are you wearing a bra? It doesn't look supportive enough." He really isn't a creepy dad. Like he gives me privacy and all that but I feel like he's just way too straightforward and doesn't realize that there's a line and he always crosses it with what he says or does. So, I'm not asking how to get him to stop, i'm asking why he does it.

Question: Is this normal or am I a sick guy?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 10:03 AM PST

I am a high school guy with a 26 year old step mom. She is the best mom any guy can have. I just love and adore her. Beside being my mom, she is my best friend. I can share stuff with her that I would not tell any other person in the world. She always is there helping me when I need help. We are very close. Most school days she will come into my room in her shorty nightgown and wake me up to get ready for school. She is so beautiful and has a figure to die for that it takes effort on my part NOT TO GET A B0NER. If I got a b0ner, that would be the MOST EMBARRASSING thing that could ever happen to me and would be SO WRONG. Guys, any tips on how I can keep from getting a b0ner in this situation? It is bad enough that sometimes I wake up with a b0ner anyway. Guys does that ever happen to you? Is that normal?

Question: Is my husband being rude to my sister?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST

My younger sister that I am VERY CLOSE to is staying at my husband's and my house for a month while her home is being remolded. She likes to go around the house in a loose fitting robe and nothing else on. Everything is visible. My husband has asked me several times to ask her to wear some more clothes when he is around. I would hate to tell my sister how to dress. When I ask him why, he said he did not want to get in trouble with me but men will usually get a b0ner when they see ANY girl almost nude. He said they can not help it. It is just the way men are. Guys, is that true? Shouldn't he be able to control himself and not get a b0ner. Now when my sister comes in with just her robe on my husband leaves the room. I think my husband is being rude doing this. Is he?

Question: Help: I hate my grandmother so much?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:50 AM PST

'm 16 and I really don't like my grandmother on my mum's side because she basically chose her husband over our family for over 20 years. Up until about last year I saw her about twice a year (if that) but recently she broke up with her husband and is now at my house at least once a week. I find it insulting because if you weren't bothered before why bother now? I know I should forgive her but it's easier said than done. I miss my other grandmother who unfortunately died of cancer 4 years ago. Help?

Question: Why is my mother so insensitive to my feelings?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:45 AM PST

My mom and dad have separated recently and it's been a big emotional problem for me. It's only been two months and she is already moving on to other men. It offended me a lot. We were supposed to move out into a bigger, nicer house but her moving into her own place will ruin that. It's too expensive for my dad to pay on his own. (Around $4,000) I've been open with her about my feelings but she seems to not care in the slightest. She also called me selfish which kind of hurt my feelings quite a bit. I'm her only son and I think that she uses that as an excuse for this all. Like I'm not a significant enough reason for her to stay. I feel like just as things were starting to get better for me they ruin it all. If it matters, I'm 15. Is there anything I'm missing here? What do you think the reason for her inconsideration is?

Question: I feel like I can t talk to my mom anymore?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:36 AM PST

I m 17 years old, and home schooled. Needless to say, I m around my mother all day everyday. I really regret agreeing to be home schooled. It s like I signed up for being babied for life. I m 18 in two months so I am starting to feel more grown up, wanting to venture out, ect. My mom, however, treats me like I m twelve. I became over weight because i just didn t care. I m locked up, I m trying to deal with being treated twelve, and feeling like I should be on my own. I am thankful for my mom. I just wish I could talk to her. I started going to the gym and invited a friend. It took me forever to convince my mom to let me go. Then I started letting her go. Now her threats are taking my friend and leaving me. She somehow got my 17 yr old friends number and likes to text her all the time. This is doesn t even bother me that much. Now all my mom talks about is school and the gym. I m doing a lot in school and it is NEVER good enough. I do it on the weekends, nights, days. It just doesn t matter. I went to the doctor at 9am. The doctor is an hour away. My mom woke me up at 7. She fussed at me for taking almost an hour to get ready instead of doing school. Last night she made me stay up until 3am so I could teach her how to work my Facebook. This morning at 6 I got a call from her saying get up I need to take a test.

Question: I need help!?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST

So I m 14 years old and my parents are always fighting with me they think I m stupid and they always doubt me and they always think I m deaf because I don t hear what the teacher is saying even though I m sitting right in the front. They threaten to hit me alot and they think I m 4 years old because they think I can t do anything they call me ******** useless. I ve gotten to the point where I want to commit suicide or runaway my house. I just can not handle them anymore.

Question: Am I being molested?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:18 AM PST

So I haven't told anyone about this, I feel like nobody would believe me. Am I over reacting? My dad wakes up around 5 am sometimes 4 am and leaves for work at 7, he usually wakes me around 6:45. I have a memory of a few weeks ago that my dad was "waking me up" he was touching my boobs I didn't know if it was a dream or not. The last week or so my dad has being coming in to wake me up but he's touching my boobs and tries to look down my pants. I feel disgusting and I can't stand being near him now. I think he's being doing it for longer but I just don't remeber. I pretend to be asleep and then wake up and he slowly goes out of my room. I keep waking up not in the middle of the night being afraid he's there. Please help am I overreacting. I'm only 15 btw

Question: I feel unwanted in my family because I'm quiet?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:16 AM PST

I'm a 17 year old girl and when I was in 6th grade, I started getting picked on by a lot of kids in my class. Everyone said I was creepy or weird because I was really shy and didn't talk much. I didn't have any friends and I started to withdraw from my family. I got pretty depressed, gained a lot of weight (got up to 230 pounds) and I would just stay in my room and stopped going to family activities and stuff. After a couple years, my family pretty much just stopped trying to get me to go places with them because they know I would just say no, and on rare occasions when I do go out with them, I just sit there and hardly say anything. My mom used to tell me how I embarrass her because I don't talk and I don't have any friends. I don't know why, I just never feel up to doing anything anymore, even simple things like talking. I would rather just be alone in my room, listening to music. I understand why they don't want me around anymore, but it just sucks because I feel like I lost my family and it's my fault because I push everyone away. I don't know, I just don't belong anywhere. everywhere I go, I'm the the fat quiet girl that doesn't fit in with anyone, and it's all my fault. I did this to myself and I don't think I can fix it. I isolated myself and I have nobody. I just want to go back to first grade and be that happy outgoing kid I was before. Sometimes I feel like it would be easier if I wasn't here. Any advice?

Question: Why do my siblings talk about my mom all the time?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:16 AM PST

So my mom is/was an acholic and her and my dad are divorced. Now we live my dad. I'm still upset about the subject and my siblings know it but whether I'm in the room or not they talk bad about my mom all the time. Why it's not funny and they just talk about all the BAD times and laugh about it but it makes me upset.

Question: Why do i hate my mom?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 09:10 AM PST

I have this hatered towards my mom but im not sure why. I just get mad out of no where and take it out on her. And were always fighting. My parents are seperated but i dont act like that with my dad. They seperated cause she found out she was gay and she didnt tell me. I figured out when i was in the 4th grade. Is cause of that? I just wanna know what you think or why im like this. Just anything.

Question: How can I get my parents to give me some privacy?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:59 AM PST

I'm in high school, I'm a girl, and I get 0 privacy in my home. They won't let me lock my bedroom door, they constantly barge into my room like they're trying to catch me doing something wrong. I can't even lock the door to change my clothes. I've been walked in on naked getting ready to get in the shower. And when it comes to technology the lack of privacy gets worse. They read all my conversations on Facebook and Google hangouts. I was talking to my bf about how in the future (about 10 years from now) I want to have kids and they read that conversation while I slept so this morning I wake up and I get lectured about not having kids. They read my conversations all the time and I'm sick of it. I haven't done a thing that should make them not trust me. I'm making all a's taking honors classes, I volunteer to do community service, I don't even cuss. I go to Church more than they do and they don't trust me and I don't understand what I possibly could have done to earn this disrespect from them. How can I get them to give me more privacy?

Question: What should my sister do after being hit by my grandma?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:58 AM PST

Im asking this to get opinions. My sister is 22 and at home working to pay off college. Thing is my grandma is mad with the world and decided to talk to my sister about helping her clean. She is 62 an moves around doing everything, never asking for help, bc we do get upset if we are busy. My sister then explained to her that my 40 year old uncle is the cause for many unclean dishes and trash. But my grandma don't ask him to clean, and got mad at my sister and got in her face while she was talking and thought my sister was putting her finger in her face, she then began to try to fight and beat her up. Thing is my grandma tries t bet everyone up, government workers, my widowed 40 year old cousin, all for nothing. Saying everyone is disrespecting her. My sister is on the brink to move out, saying this cannot keep happening, she is a grown women. My grandma is right, no one should disrespect her, but she provoke people, lye ,spit in food,and yell about nothing, and HATES to admit she is wrong. My sister is 22 next week and I say she should stay out her way, because life is hard and she says she is leaving,. WHAT WOULD YOU DO? my sister is not a guest, she lived at the house since age 6

Question: Does anybody in your family have a massive coin collector and/or a rare collector coin?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:53 AM PST

Question: My mom is never home and when she is she's mad.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:52 AM PST

My mom is never home she doesn't even have a job. She's always at her friends house she thinks just because she is just around the corner she can be gone all day long and sometimes she doesn't even come back I remember she was gone for around 2 days and only came back for some clothes. When she is home she's mad and drunk. I'm 15 and don't know what to do. My mom doesn't even let me go anywhere one of my friends lives down the street and she says that they might kill me or rape me and some other stupid stuff..

Question: Which phone looks nicer?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:52 AM PST

First or second one?

Question: I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone.?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:49 AM PST

I have been feeling like this all my life. I have two brothers and I am the middle child, both of them are smart and athletic. When I was younger, I wasn't smart, I was more on the dumb side and one time, I had to go to summer school. I had a struggle with math and my dad made my two brothers help me and when I didn't get it, they would just yell at me. One time I refused their help and my older brother told all of his friends one of my secrets ( I'm not going to say it because it is very, very embarrissing). My older brother would tell my mistakes to his friends and they would laugh at me. When I was younger, I was very immature and made lots of mistakes. This is my third year in Honors English and I try to get good grades in order to prove to my brothers that I am smart as them. I have acne scars and many people like to point that out and say " eww" or some other rude comment. And when I find out a guy likes me, I just get all insecure like " please don't like me, I'm ugly". I was also bullied alot. There are times when I wish I would kill myself.

Question: Why is my dad so annoying?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:32 AM PST

I have 6 midterms next week and really need to study, and I helped shovel the snow for THREE HOURS (not paid), and then this other kid 3 years older than me without midterms shovels for 10 minutes and he yells at me saying I'm lazy. He always compares me to kids better than me, saying how I'm lazy, or stupid, or ugly, or grossly skinny, or pimply, and saying how why I can't be like other kids. He thinks I'll get better with all these insults and criticisms, but in reality I'm just becoming more insecure, lower self esteem, to the point where I've felt suicidal at times. I told my parents about this but they said I'm lying to get attention. I try my hardest to do everything, even if its my first time, and he expects me to be perfect, so when I make a mistake, for example, if I first try something, he'll yell at me and demoralize. He's probably mad at himself, too, after all, I was an accident, and to him, probably not a good one

Question: I need help again?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:18 AM PST

So my brother got engaged and ever since then his fiancee has been really mean to me telling me what i can and can't post on fb. She has also nothing but mean to me (which is really weird because she's been nice to me b4 my brother proposed to her she was nice like i've been saying) My parents are telling me to let it go, and that its "Water under the bridge" but when i do she does the same thing. How do i tell her that she hurts me, without the threat of breaking them up? (because that is basically what she does when I post something "offensive" on FB) because i really don't want to be the one who breaks them up. Also this is coming at a rough time because im going thru a separation, and their drama towards me is making it worse on me. One more thing i should mention is that fact that she said when she comes over that i can't be in the house, even tho its my parents house and she has no control, but if i don't they might break up because she is the only one with a car in their relationship (she lives in Topeka, and its about a 2-3 hour trip) , and i know how it is not seeing the person will break them up too. The last thing is that they aren't just being me to me, but she is also mean to her twin sister too, how is that fair? Just please don't judge because i'm asking a lot of questions about this, i just never had to deal with someone like this before and it a really tight situation.

Question: Is this ok to do to a child?

Posted: 24 Jan 2016 08:12 AM PST

Me and my sister were in a fight, she grabbed my pressure points and threw me to the ground and kicked me leaving my legs more purple than white, I kicked back and broke her beats on accident. She calls my mom and claims out of nowhere i just decided to kick her and break her headphones, my mom screams at me and says I have to buy her a new pair and move on with my dad who absolutely hates me. My mom has also threatened to put me through a wall for crying after she hits me