I love a girl & she says she love me too But she tells me she will leave me if i couldnt marry her within 2 years While i need minimum 4 years to complete education & to get job + My father tells me to marry another girl , who is rich + at foreign What should i do ? Should be with my love who will leave me within 2 years ? or Agree to my father s proposal ?

Hubby and I never had sex in marriage and we don't even do romantic stuff together anymore :( I'm still waiting for hubby to have sex with me and do romantic stuff with me . I want a great marriage with hubby but hubby just wants to study for a career and get a job .. He's 26. I told hubby he can still do that while we are married but no . All we do is sit in bed together , make out , cuddle, watch tv and do errands together. That's it! I ask hubby to go for a walk with me but no :( he rether figure out his life . I'm part of his life :( After hubby and I get anulled I'm gonna get my own place and in gonna be heartbroken. Wouldn't it be funny if we decide to go back to bf badge ? I love being his wife but I don't get treated like one . I love hubby soo much !! I can't leave him :( Should I just let go ?

Me and my husband have been married a little over a year now. I have been getting baby fever for the last few months now. When I initially told my husband he shrugged it off saying let's enjoy ourselves childless. I thought eventually he would be more accepting to having babies but the more I bring it up the more he doesn't want them. Today we were in the car and I was taking my birth control and made a comment how happy I would be if I didn't have to take them anymore. My husband then starts saying how when you have kids your sex life goes out the window. It really irritated me because my husband has an extremely high sex drive, so to know the fear of us no longer having a sex life is holding him back is really insensitive and selfish. I told my husband how I felt and he got mad and started yelling at me saying "Lynn I'm sick of your ****, I'm sick of your baby bullshit F*** it if you want a baby then fine" my husband was saying all this pointing in my face and a little statement turned into a huge argument. I told my husband I didn't want kids by some one so selfish and disgusting then he snatched the pills and threw them out the window. He was acting like a complete asshole. We haven't really spoken since. I feel like maybe I triggered his anger and I feel sort of bad. Does it sound like I was too pushy . Is he right for feeling that way. I love my husband and I want to make him happy. Any advice on what I should do.

Husband wants to get a divorce but none of our states 7 grounds are applicable because of the time restrictions on them and either is the no fault divorce. But he still doesn't want to be married anymore, about to have life threatening surgery in 5 days for his baby

So I've been with my husband for five years now, and we've been married for a little over a year. Three years into our relationship, we got pregnant with twins and it changed everything. We always planned to get married but us having our two kids kinda rushed it. My husband has a high sex drive so he usually want to have sex with me at least twice a day. However, since having our wonderful daughters we had to have sex even way less. We had to start working more hours because we didn't plan to have kids at the moment and them being twins is pretty costly. It's really stressfull working so many hours a week and then coming home to crying babies. In addition to that, we couldn't afford to hire a sitter to have concurrent work schedules so my husband works at night while I work in the day so there's always someone at home with the baby. So what little time both my husband and I get to spend at home together we're usually both tired. However, he still wants sex a lot and I honestly don't usually have the energy to have sex with him. Before getting pregnant we'd have sex at least 6 times a week but since giving birth I don't think we've had sex more ten times. I try to have sex with him as much as possible but it's just so hard to, our sex is really great and I knew it could relieve stress but I'm so tired, I honestly don't know how he has the energy to get in the mood so often. Whenever I turn him down, he usually gets pretty upset and I want to keep my husband and our relationship as happy as possible. I know that sex is an important part of a relationship and so many relationship have ended because they were in the same situation as we are and I really don't want to lose my husband. However, it's so hard balancing being a mom and a wife. I know it's very frustrating for him and I hate that look on his face when I tell him no. What should I do, this is just so stressful to deal with?

Say things got bad in your relationship and you took a break, and during that break your SO slept with someone else. Would you want to know?

I grew up in usa. And went to get married in pakistan. I found this guy on shaadi dot com. I had only talked w him on skype and started liking him for something as big as a marriage. We only had a month to plan a trip everyone had prepared for wesding when i went to pakistan only to find out his family is soo stupid. They did not even make wari clothes or didnt gi e amy gifts to me. Even my husbands sisters didnt give any gifts. I spent a fortune onthese retards. Now im married happy w husband but thought of that makes me upset. I had always wondered what my clothes wari would look like etc. now im back in usa and never going back. What do u guys think about it those of u who know the concept behind wari. I really want to twll my husband he thinks his family is god.

Why do so many people cheat? If they are not happy with their wives or husband, then why stay with that person then lie to make their partner think that everything is going swell? Why lie and say everything is going good when to that one unhappy person who is not happy say so? Why get on a public online source where their partner has no idea they are bashing them? Why not just tell the truth?

A couple of weeks before Christmas, my wife found out that her mother had died in early November. However, she had been in a crazy mood since Thanksgiving. At first I thought it was due to the busy season at her job, but she is still very "lazy" at home and is still unable to pull herself out of bed in the mornings. Our relationship moved very, very quickly. That's partly due to me. I pushed things along by making the moves, but she went along with it. Never once did she ask me to slow down. Now we are going on 3rd year together (we got married after 5 months). We have received a lot of criticism for moving so quickly and getting married right away. She says she's happy, but I just don't know anymore. We have 2 very active toddlers who are into anything and everything. Our 15 month old who hasn't started walking is climbing up onto things. I don't understand how her job could be so stressful and demanding. And yes, I have gotten a lot of slack from her about it. Just because she sits in an office most of the day, doesn't mean it isn't stressful is what she's said on numerous occasions. Lately I've been thinking that I was intended to be the rebound guy, but since we had kids right away, maybe she feels stuck with me. Either that, or she's pregnant AGAIN despite being on the pill (which didn't work the first time), which would explain a few other things (women stuff). But she also says that stress can wreck havoc on a women's body and cause mood swings, crazed hormones, etc. I realized I forgot to include an important detail....we met exactly 1 year after she her divorce was finalized. We really haven't spoken much about our pasts, which is fine. We both wanted to have a family. The only difference is that I was looking to finally settle down...I was a bit of a player before we met, but she was okay with that. She has said it's the past. I just don't think she had planned on things moving so quickly. She says she is happy.

Spare no feelings--be honest that's why I'm here. My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She doesn't know why. Last time we had sex she cried and felt bad and didn't know why she cried. HOWEVER, she also told me the last time we had sex she felt me in her but it just felt "ehh" and wanted to stop. This makes me feel like I have a little p*nis to be blunt. I'm about 7 inches when fully aroused, never measured girth. We rarely have foreplay and I never eat her. This isn't because I don't want to it's because everything I try tickles her including eating her so she makes me stop. We are both frustrated but very much in love. No idea what to do. I feel this is a problem I have to solve or find suggestions and solutions. Don't say divorce, we gotta work thru this. She's 22 I'm 24 married 1 yr baby on the way.

We have been together for 3 and 1/2 years and he knows I have Borderline PD. He wanted me to turn on the heater but I sweat and get hot flashes more easily and I didn't want hot air blowing on me. I don't want him to leave me nor do I want to leave him but I insulted his $10 an hour job and he called me a few bad names. Why should I have to sleep on the couch when it's MY house? I don't think I get anything in a common law marriage In TX?

Although my abuser has moved on with his life and I pray his new wife never endures what I did, what is there to say for me? I feel like I have inherited a sentence for life with the scars I must bare. He smiled as he got away with it all as if I was nothing. Will there ever be justice? I was physically and sexually assaulted and I don't know how to forgive myself yet along forgive him. I can't believe he got away with it and I will never see justice at all.

I just found some young girls erotic photos on my husband s laptop. They look like 13 or 14 year-old and they were wearing bikini or something short and posing really inappropriately. Those pictures were stored with other naughty pictures, but other ones were adult females . I was so shocked and asked him about it, and he said he didn t look those photos after saving them and he doesn t know why he saved those. But I can t trust him. It disgusts me. Is he pedophile? I am so scared.

Hey yall, i recently got married to my husband nearly a year ago. We have been together for 6 years 3 children 5, 4 and 2. Our marriage was never based on love and neither was our relationship, we met got pregnant right away and ever since has been soley based on the kids. About 1 month ago his brother was released from prison and was staying with us. One thing lead to another and me and his brother have started to have feelings for each other. My husband had to move back to another state because of financial reasons, and i am left here with his brother and my children. The plan is for me to move back to be with my husband but I feel so strong and care about his brother. What should I do?

My husbands not being intimate with me lately and I've been really sexual frustrated..It's like we're arguing over nothing every day, he's even sleeping on the couch ON HIS OWN..he hasn't came to me for sex in days.. I feel like he's not interested or entertained with someone else.. I haven't masturbated in a while because I think it's a sin and I've been doing good at not doing it (please don't insult my beliefs) ... I don't belive in cheating and I will never cheat on my husband just because our relationship is having trouble but I honestly don't know what to do... I have the urge of playing with myself but my beliefs are in the back of my head.

It wasnt like this before and lately she doesn't even have time for me. She's always busy with her coursework or her job and when I try to start something it never gets very far. We still have sex, but really only when she makes time for me or is (rarely) in the mood. I've asked a female friend and she said that she may not be that into me anymore or be cheating. What could be the signs of either? I mean I have changed much since we've got together, so could she be cheating on me??

My husband is a great guy. I love him so much and he treats me right. The only issue we have is that he never wants to travel away from our city. I have to talk him into it every time - and then once we are there, he has a great time! It's pretty annoying to feel like I'm dragging him out only for him to be like "hey, this is pretty good, you were right!" I am trying to talk him into going to Monterey, CA for spring break this year. We live in the Pac NW, so it's about a day's drive down give or take. I think he would really like it there, and I know I would. If we can't go this year, I would still want to go SOMEWHERE new. I work too, and I would pay for the whole dang trip if he would just say yes. How would you deal with this?

Iv got a couple things on my bucket list that I cant do while Im married and it looks like I wont be able to achieve them before about 33. any replies would be greatly appreciated.

i got married but we both never stayed together in one house, i used to visit her during my holidays .... meanwhile she become pregnant then i was asking her to come and stay with me to start out life.... she says her carrier is main she cannot come now to me...... what to do ? now she is not even talking to me and no idea where is she ,..... she left her old place and moved some other place for her job..... i lost my interest to live with this kind of girl.... how do i come out it please help me