Everyone says it's normal, but I still don't believe so. I have fallen for a 40 year old married woman while I'm in high school only at the age of 17. I cannot get her off my mind. And it sucks that's all I think about? Why me

A friend called me four months ago saying she and her children were living in a homeless shelter, without hesitation I told her to come stay with us. She has three children and they are the most disrespectful kids ever. She has had me babysit without even asking, cleaning up after her and her kids (she sometimes helps). My husband is constantly complaining about this. Now she has her friend and the three kids staying in one room. When I told her that since she s never paid rent my husband wants her to keep the common areas clean she freaked out saying I was shady and that she is not a maid (most of the mess he is asking her to clean is from her kids). She thinks the cleaning is my responsibility since I am a stay at home mom and she works. How do I get her to see things from our point of veiw and vise versa, because I truely do not understand her behavior after four months of living rent free and a free personal nanny to the worst kids ever.

About 3 years ago my boyfriend went to a party and I didn't think anything of it because I trusted him. Just about a month ago I started hearing rumors that there was this gay guy there and he was grinding on my boyfriend and then my boyfriend went into a room and gave him anal sex. I've heard this from several DIFFERENT people and I don't know what to think or do. I keep asking my boyfriend about it and he says he didn't do it and that's not true and he would never cheat on me. I just don't know, I feel sick thinking he may have cheated on me and had sex with someone else, even if it was a guy because my boyfriend is bisexual. I can't stand cheaters. I feel lost and really sad. I've been with him for 5 years. what do I do? does it seem like he's lying? I'm 19 and he's 20

As far as I can tell, we both still love each other a lot. He broke up with me after three years of dating because we had been doing long distance for a year and would have 3 and a half more to go because I just started medical school. He is very needy and needed someone physically there for him, and he said he couldn't do long distance for this long. He was crying the whole time. I don't know if he's seeing anyone else or not, but we have been broken up for three months and had been "no contact" for one month. He claimed he wanted to still be friends, but he would be very inconsistent and would only respond sometimes. Most of the time, he would just stop talking to me. I recently tried talking to him again after no contact, and at first he didn't respond but I kept pressing him about why he wasn't responding. He said he "felt like we were picking at a scab and neither one of us could heal" and "it just brings back a lot of feelings." He said, "it just hurts still for him as he knows it does for me too." But, he said he was "sorry he hadn't been responding, he just didn't know what to say, but he wanted to be friends." If I bring up getting back together, he won't respond. He's been responding more and more when its just friendly talk, but sometimes he'll just stop. Says he doesn't want to cut off communication forever but is not ready for more frequent communication. Will he ever want to get back together? EDIT: He just got laid off. Is it insensitive to ask him to look for a job near me? He says he's going to look around for more jobs in the area where he is for now since he just got settled and there are opportunities in the industry there. Says he has a lot to figure out.

I am 25, my husband is 35. He has just admitted this morning that he has cheated on me back in 2014 while we were in a long distance relationship. We started dating in 2013, moved together in 2014 and we have been married since January 2015. He begged for me to stay and said it was a one night stand with an older woman, i don't know what to think or what to feel, I am under shock. I love him but I feel betrayed. I don't feel I can trust him anymore and I don't desire him. I want this marriage to work but what should I do? To whoever moves my question into nonrelevant categories, STOP for gods sake! This question is about my husband & marriage, so it belongs to the Marriage & Divorce category! @ The retarded troll asshole that kept moving my question from the 'Marriage & Divorce' catogory at least 10 times after every each time I have put it back there: **** you!!

Not long ago my bf who is 35 asked me to do him a favor and call a gir l he described as a friend to give her the address of a lawyer she had an appoinment with.He wanted ME to do it because her husband is a jealous and somehow a violent man and has even been in jail,,, he has even called my boyfriend consistently at midnight to tell him to not contact his girlfriend anymore.,I find all of these quite weird to be honest,What doe YOU think is going on here???

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. Was it bad of me to cry more, How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? (Me & my mom are very close, there s nothing my mom lacks) I just want your opinion?

I have this habit of just pulling away from people when I notice that we're getting really close. I just tend feel a bit overwhelmed about the development of the relationship whether it be a friendship or otherwise. I do not understand why I do this, it's a very consistent habit of mine actually.

She friend zoned me and I told her Im leaving because I dont want to sit around and tossed to the side while the girl I liker (her) dates other guy. I told her she can hit me up if she ever changes her mind. Keep in mind she obsessively texts me. I never start the conversation

The guy ive been dating for about 6months now just told me he is in love with me and another women, he met the other womem a month before he met me, then he met me and stopped communicating with her well just recently they started talking again and i started to feel him getting distant so i just bluntly asked him is there another women he said yes. We have only been dating so we are technically single and i gave off no clue that i wanted to be in a relationship with him so he didnt see any harm in seeing her from time to time...over the course of 6 months i fell in love with him and i recently told him, and i told him i want a relationship he said well there is this other women i love also, he said he loves us both in differnt ways.Well both of us are in love with him and we both put our foot down and said choose. He said he isnt going to see either of us because he needs time to think about his decision, he said he loves me but isnt in love with me, he said he is in love with her..so its been 1 day since ive been waiting on his choice. Why is the decision so hard? Will he be happy choosing one over the other knowing hes hurting someone he loves with his choice? Do i sit around and wait? Or do i remove myself from the situation bc i love him so much im willing to sacrafice my happiness for his if he truely wants to be with the other women bc he feels like she is the one..do i fight for his love by telling him reasons why he should choose me? What is the best thing to do?

During gym class, the girls would play basketball. We usually play rough, but I was known to be the craziest player. So, I would unintentionally hit this girl named Breanna in my class. I would hit her face or step on her foot and she would usually get very mad at me. When the ball started rolling away, Breanna and I quickly raced towards that ball until we pushed each other near the boys locker room and started hitting each other's hands and I hitting her hand in one arm while still holding on to the ball in my other arm. She was on the top, I was on the bottom. She called me a ***** and we continued to hit each other's hands until our gym teacher, Mrs. Mondello told us to break it up. She yelled "This isn't basketball!" to us. After, I went to the bathroom cause my eye started to hurt afterwards so I put water on it. As I was walking to lunch, some boy told me if I was okay, so I'm guessing he probably saw all of that. My friend Ashley also said that we looked like we were gonna push each other into the boys locker room. So was this counted as a fight between her and I??

I snore when I sleep. But only in small intervals. And I've tried so many remedies, and finally found that raising my head helps reduce my snoring. But because of my snoring before, my current roommates want me to move out. I met with someone today to see if she would be willing to let me transfer to her room, but after I mentioned that I snore, she didn't want me anymore. How can I transfer to another room if everyone rejects me as soon as I say that I snore? :(

Okay, so I've been seeing my therapist for a while now, she's honestly like my second mother. It's not an inapprppriate relationship either- shes a personal friend of my mothers, so it's not like a random person that I barely know. She means the world to me, and I know I can tell her anything. We hug each other often, and sometimes (on rare occasion) when I cry, she comes over to me, sits next to me, and holds me. I feel safe with her, so I know it's okay to tell her anything. But, recently, I have been sexually active, and I think she's onto me (not in a sexual way!!!). The last time I was with her, we talked about a lot- one of the things being that I told her I had friends with benifits; she then asked me, "Well, you're not having sex, are you?" I told her no, and went really red and chuckled in the nervousness. I want to tell, but if I do, will she have to tell my mother? Because I'm not 18 yet? Please don't judge me.

My hubs wanted to take us, me and our one and two year olds, to six flags with his family. I'm also pregnant. He of course wants me to come but I was thinking I would have to stay behind for multiple reasons. His mother tends to aggravate me sometimes, and I wouldn't really get help looking after the kids. Everyone would want to be on the rides while I would obviously have to stay behind with my one year old. My two year old would be able to go on the kiddie rides. But I did bring up that it might end up being a better idea for me to stay home with our one year old. But I would also like to go because I don't get to be out much anymore. I always have to end up staying home with the kids. We can't even afford a babysitter and my family can't look after them due to certain reasons. And the reason my hubs brought up going to Six Flags was because his brother brought up that he would want to go after finding out my hubs has free passes. He got those passes before we found out I was pregnant. And I feel like don't know what to do. I would like to be outside but what of staying home is thw better option? He gets to be outside if he wants even if its to do errands for me but he also gets to step outside and be with his friend if he wanted but I don't get to have that since my friends I used to have didn't want to be my friends anymore after my first pregnancy. My days are literally nothing but staying home with the kids and waiting for him to get back. need to know... Would it be selfish of me to just ask him to stay with me? I tend to feel like just because I'm pregnant or have to take care of the kids doesn't mean I should keep him from having fun. But at the same time I can't help but feel that maybe my situation might be a bit unfair. What should I do?

I have an older cousin who asked me to dance for him for his birthday in front of him and his friends. He is 20 now and I am 16. He asked me to do a strptease for him and I agreed. I got a little excited and got carried away because I like one of his friends. I ended up dancing nude and doing other things to myself on camera. Then they all had sex with me. I only wanted to have sex with the one I liked but I couldnt stop them all. He recorded everything. That was 2 weeks ago and since then he keeps telling me nasty things and he keeps touching me in places that he shouldn't be. I've asked him to stop but he won't. I dont want to report them to anyone because my cousin would get in trouble. I just need advice on how to get him to stop treating me like a whore. I'm over the sex but I hope he doesn't put the video online somewhere because then I would have to report it.... what should I do?

My Girlfriend Says she won't work or go to school because she has too much on her plate. We have been together for about two years, she also has a 3 year old who I can say I have been taking care of. As soon as she's had a job, she says its shitty, yet she wants to move out and start a life. I tell her we need to work together and help each other out by working, but then gets extremely mad for saying she needs a job. Then she says I dont understand and that I criticize her. Anyone, advice??

Whenever I have an issue to address with my roommate, I always tell him, yo we gotta talk, I tell him what I would prefer and let him respond if he's find with it or whatnot. On the flipside, when my roommate has an issue to address with me, he lets it boil for a very long time, and then tells me. For example, for the last couple months I've been doing my dishes weekly but he's telling me this has got to stop, and dishes have to by done by the moment, as in: eat from a plate and wash it right after. I'm fine with doing regular dish cleaning but it's annoying to think that he won't tell me what bothers him as it does, rather than let it build up (and this is not the only thing). A second concern I have is lack allowing response. As in if he has something to address, he does so right as he is leaving to somewhere. He'll be like, yo roommate, from now on I need you to do this, ok see ya. So if it's something we have to compromise on, I have to rebring it up later when he gets back. Lastly, he's quite unwilling to compromise. For example, I would like the thermostat at 74 deg and he'd like 68. So I'm saying ok how about right down the middle, 71? And he's like na. So I say how about 70? And he says ok. So whenever I put the heat on, I set it to 70 but he will periodically turn it off and the house temperature drops (one time at an extreme to 64 which I realized when I woke up middle of the night freezing). I actually got a cold from that event and now he lets me leave the temperature set to 70 without turning it off. But I'm thinking why did I have to get sick for us to settle on our already agreed temperature. And I didn't bring this topic(s) back up with him. @StarSwinger-Yes this is shared rent of equal payments.

I'm female, we were childhood best friends, and he's like my brother, I care a lot about him. He's 22, and I'm 21. He's always getting himself into trouble, and I'm always protecting him. He protected me before from physical fights with guys/girls. He's a strong young man, and he does have a girlfriend. He got his girlfriend pregnant at 19, and I was there for him 24/7. He cried to me, and his girlfriend did the same. I took care of their baby for 3 months because they were getting into arguments and abusing their child by not feeding him, so I took him for 3 months until they calmed down. I fed his baby, gave him baths, loved him, and tried my best to wake up in the nights for him. Now he's acting like I'm not there, he yells at me a lot. He loaned me $300 two days ago, and now he wants it back quick. I WILL give him back his money, but I need to earn it first, I don't have enough right now. I spend almost $900 on his baby, buying him diapers, formula, baby carrier, and all that stuff. He's always talking to me in a rude way. What's wrong with him?

He is so handsome and intelligent. But now I found out hes married Im kind of butthurt. Why? i had no chance with him anyway.