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- Question: Im 12 and i've lived in america for 3 years and americanized a lot, im going back for vacation, afraid of what people back home will think?
- Question: Why does my best friend's little brother dislike me?
- Question: What birthday present I can give to my best friend??
- Question: Why does he keep talking about it ???
- Question: I need a friend.?
- Question: Ok chicas como siempre solo hare uno 8 NO MAS y no aqui en el GRUPO, DEMEN TIEMPO DE SUBIRLA AL GRUPO, JAJAJAJAJAJA?
- Question: How do I not sound awkward when I talk to people?
- Question: Friend copying me/ stealing my identity?
- Question: Do you guys like having a non sexual friendship with a woman?
- Question: Have you ever lost 3 friends (not to death) in one month and you didn't do anything wrong?
- Question: Is it wrong to wish molestation on these kinds of bullies (see below)?
- Question: I Pooped in school!?
- Question: How to help my friend?
- Question: Did I betray my best friend?
- Question: I hate socializing, what is wrong with me?
- Question: All friends forgot my birthday?
- Question: My friend constantly put me down and calls me a slut even though I am not. It is really hurtful. Why do you think she is doing this?
- Question: Did i do something wrong? Everyone suddenly shauned me out of nowhere?
- Question: Apologies: Written vs. Verbal?
- Question: Ahow to politely uninvite someone? u?
- Question: Why do all people think guys cant punch girls?
- Question: Why is everyone justifying this teen girl who wanted to kill?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: I can't believe I lost a friend over a fart....?
- Question: How do I deal with a friend picking sides during a break up?
- Question: I NEED IMMEDIATE HELP?
- Question: How to make new friends when visiting a new country?
- Question: Am I a loser just because study all the time and have no time to hang out?
- Question: Were we ever really friends??
- Question: My best friend ignores me for a mutual friend?
- Question: Just friends or flirting?
- Question: Should I tell my friends that what they did to my sister was offensive?
- Question: Do I end this friendship?
- Question: So my sugar gliders bark a lot at night and it bothers people that stay at my house.?
- Question: Real friend or nah ?
- Question: My life suck I want to give up...should I?
- Question: Should I completely STOP talking to my cousins?
- Question: Friend thinks I'm jealous?
- Question: Did I do the right thing any ideas ??
- Question: When should I ask a new friend to hang out again after hanging out for the first time?
- Question: Sooo should I CUSS her out or nahhh?!?
- Question: Do I have anybody?
- Question: Girls say I'm a "threat to their popularity"?
- Question: 1526 hanthron rd. Winston winson nc.?
- Question: Can I get in trouble at school for this?
- Question: My best friend won t talk to me, should I let her go?
- Question: Was this friendship? or what?
- Question: I think my bestfriend is gay for me?
- Question: Friend actimg weird?
- Question: Does my friend Tara love me?
- Question: Does an age gap make a difference?
- Question: Why does he always say things he doesn't mean?
- Question: Is being the bigger person actually worth it?
- Question: GOT7 new fan help?
- Question: Let friend commit suicide. Does it matter?
- Question: I really need help! My bestfriend is ignoring me for a guy I hate, and I'm feeling really alone?
- Question: Is my best friend taking advantage of me?? What do I do in a situation like this?? Please advice!!?
- Question: How come girls never find me attractive? Really tired of hearing "you'll meet someone one day"?
- Question: Should my cousin be mad that I didn't invite her step son to my wedding?
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 05:01 PM PST cat lover? I'm UPSET about this cus she told me she wasn't but yesterday she txted me xplaining everything n telling me she was sorry for lying to me! Today she txted me asking me if we r still friends but I ignored her txts , now I have 20 txt messages from her!? What do i do? I'm frickin MAD at her , she never broke my trust & now she has. Should I still be friends with that ***********************? |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:53 PM PST i changed because i wanted to fit in in america and because i had to improve my english to be normal. im not a fake, but i had to fit in and become american and im pretty american now. but back home everybody loathes westerners, and they'll think i'm a complete wannabe especially because my parents didn't change at all but i did. my best friends think i should just not talk to anyone there to avoid embarrassment, but i want to talk cause i have best friends there too...and what's the point of spending 1000s of dollars going, if i don't do anything there. btw i don't want mean comments against them or me or anyone, it's my home country, they're my friends. Sce but that's the problem. they shouldn't criticize me, but they're going to criticize me. how do i be okay there if they're going to criticize and be mean? & i wish the haters didn't have to matter, but they do. anything smart i can tell to people who call me wannabe/fake? |
| Question: Why does my best friend's little brother dislike me? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:46 PM PST He's 6 years younger then us. As kids we got along ok i heard he even had a mini crush on me. Now a teenagers he doesn't talk to me and everytime I come over to greet him he seems disgusted of my presence like never looks me in the eye in a hurry to go away and sometimes really rude yet sometimes does nice things for me. Should I know this behavior since he's a teenager or confront my friend about the rudeness? |
| Question: What birthday present I can give to my best friend?? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:43 PM PST What can be the best? He is a 21 years old boy (just like me) |
| Question: Why does he keep talking about it ??? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:38 PM PST My friend Nolan keeps talking about Me ASKING him out to my friends I've never asked him out yet what does this mean ??? And I'm a guy who's 15 years old he's 16 |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:25 PM PST I nned a friend like everyone has, i friend that i can be with and talkt to, i have been alone for too long what can i do? Btw. i am not like other at my age(17) i'am obsessed with order and cleanliness, i Wear shirts and ties everyday( just a boring guy) |
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| Question: How do I not sound awkward when I talk to people? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:17 PM PST I'm a 14 year old and I have social Anxitey and I'm going to be meeting some new friends soon. I'm scared though because idk what to say or do without feeling awkward. i haven't had a friend in the last 2 and a half years and I'm homeschooled. What should I do my parents tell me to be myself but I feel that may go down the drain. I play a lot of video games and i love a walk into the woods (don't have one where i live). What do i do? |
| Question: Friend copying me/ stealing my identity? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 04:04 PM PST I know who i am as a person, and im quite confident in that. im not a very confident person, so i take pride in what makes me different and let that do the talking. By this i mean i have quite an alternative sense of style, like differnt music etc. Anyway i have this friend and shes the opposite. She still hasnt found her place yet and jumps onto anything she can to fit in and get people to like her. she lies about ger interests etc. Anyway, she wont stop copying me. and believe me, im not saying this to make myself sound like im the best in the world, ive alot of self esteem issues and to be honest i hate everything about me apart from my music taste. I just dont know what to do- shes confident and prettier than me and just attracts boys- and she uses things that i like to get them to like her. In other words, she does me better than me and attracts the people that are genuinely interested in the things i like, and pretends she is too. Im quiter than her and it just feels like shes stealing my identity and attracting the people who perhaps i should be attracting.. I dont know- has anyone else been in a similar situation? how do you deal with it? |
| Question: Do you guys like having a non sexual friendship with a woman? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:54 PM PST |
| Question: Have you ever lost 3 friends (not to death) in one month and you didn't do anything wrong? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:51 PM PST I have lost 3 friends this month, pretty much through no fault of my own. One said he no longer wanted to talk to me because I didn't have a job and he's been on me for two years about getting a job. Really that's none of his business. Then I had a friend say I disrespected him. All I did was fart next to him and then laugh when I tried to apologize. He took the laugh as a disrespect. Then I lost a friend who I was attracted to because she's having an affair with a married man and I called her on it. Yes, it does suck to be me. |
| Question: Is it wrong to wish molestation on these kinds of bullies (see below)? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:51 PM PST Bullies who target "different" people but refuse to bully posers (aka people who believe everything the mainstream media tells them, think that popular things are always good ("if something is popular, it must be good"), value popularity over everything, and refuse to go against the popular crowd or think for themselves just to fit in and be popular). |
| Question: I Pooped in school!? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:50 PM PST Ok hey guys I need you to take me very seriously because i NEED HELP! So it all started when we were in the cafetiria AND IM SO MAD!!!!!!!!!!!! UGHHHHHHHHH My STUPIDEST FRIEND EVER SAID " LAKIE ILL GIVE YOU 20 dollars if you pour all my lunch into a milk carton and Drink I was like NOO!!! so then she splashes in my mouth leaving some weird stuff ALL ON MY CLOTHES SHE IS SO STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WAS SO MAD!!!! AND EMBERRESED AND EVERYONE WAS LAUGHING AT THE COOL PEOPLE TABLE AND ONE GIRL WAS LOOKING AT ME AND I JUST FEEL RELLY MAD AT THEM THEY ARE STUPID!!!! AND SHE RUINED MY CLOTHES AND EVERYONE WAS BEING STUPID!!! AND SHES ALWAYS SAYING " OMG LAKELYN YOUR 12 AND WE ARE 13 BECAUSE WERE LIKE TEENAGERS!" And im MAD AND NOW EVERYONE HATES ME I DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS WELL I DO JUST NOT VERY CLOSE FRIENDS EVERYONE WAS LIKE OMG SHES SO GROSS EWWWWWWW SUDENLY I FELT IT!!!!! I JUST HAD DIEARAH INFRONT OF THE WHOLE 6TH GRADE NOW IM UNPOPULAR BECAUSE I JUST SHARTED INFRONT OF EVERY ONE AND OMGGGGGG FIRST I STARTED CRYING (THANKS FRIENDS) AND I POOPED AND IT STICKY ON MY BOOTIE CHEEKS OMG!!!!!!!!!!! AND THEY RORED WITH LAUGHTER AND THIS MEANIE-POO NAMED ALEAH DREDMAYER (WHO IS 13) SAID THAT I AM THE (BAD WORD) MONSTER I HATE HER I WANT TO KICK HER IN HER BIG BUTTCHIN AND SLAP HER!!! HELP ME I DONT EVER WANNA GO TO SCHOOL!!!!!!! :( |
| Question: How to help my friend? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:37 PM PST Ok so I have this one really close friend, I'm a freshman in high school and she is a sophomore. She is a camp friend so we live in different states. She is really obsessed about her grades! All she does is go on quizlet and quiz herself, she is sleep deprived, and spends hours every night on hw and studying!! She says she is always really stressed and all she thinks about 24-7 is her grades!! I'm so worried about her and I can't physically be there! The worst part is that in her snapchats she always says things like "I wanna die" or "please kill me" or "i hate my life" or "can life be over now?" Or "life isn't worth living". She said suicide feels like it would solve her problems but she would never actually do it. But what if she's lying??!! I can't have anything happen to her!! She so amazing and she deserves to be happy but she isn't!? Please tell me what to do to help! I love her so much!!:( |
| Question: Did I betray my best friend? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:27 PM PST Ok so I had a guy I used to be friends with, and back in October of last year we had a falling out. What happened was I got mad at him because we were supposed to move in with some other friends and he told us last minute that he wouldn't be able to do it. I got a little too angry and overreacted and it almost came to blows. We argued and things got really bad that night. I apologized to him that night and told him how sorry I was for getting angry. I knew I shouldn't have gotten angry at him the way I did. I was wrong. Which is why I apologized. We squashed it that night. Or so I thought. I thought that everything was good again until he just disappeared on me for like a week. When he did finally hit me up he said that he didn't want to be friends anymore and what I did that night really pissed him off. I was confused because I was under the impression that we were ok now. I have anger issues and I get mad very easily and sometimes I just explode but that was the very first time I have ever gotten mad at him in our friendship. It made me think like did I really mess up that bad or did he just not value our friendship enough to keep it going. It's not like we had problems before that because we didn't. It was just that one thing. I was pissed to be honest but I knew I had to blame myself for things. Still to this day I'm pissed off about it and in my heart I don't want to be angry anymore I just want to let it go. Forgive, forget and move on with my life. Me and 3 other friends including him were supposed to move in. After me and him stopped being friends everybody else stopped being friends with me too. The kind of people they were is that everybody only liked him. They only wanted to hang out if it was with him only and I hated that about hanging out with them but I can't shake this feeling like something is missing from my life now. I gess they were fake friends because they all stopped talking to me. I still only talk to one person from the |
| Question: I hate socializing, what is wrong with me? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:24 PM PST I'm not necessarily shy, I just don't like talking to people. I'm even like this with my family and friends. I don't really think I'm depressed either. It sort of just came out of nowhere. In high school I was real shy so I kept to myself. Then in the first 2 years of college I was really outgoing and loved conversing with people. I was always out with somewhere with someone, weather it be shooting darts, arcade, restaurant, or college parties. Then around the beginning of junior year I started slowly getting quiet again. Now I'm 23 and I hate going to social events because I hate having conversations with people. At work I'm kind of the oddball because I keep to myself and real quiet. My friends always wanna hangout and sometimes I do and it's weird. They even notice I'm different. I went to a party for the first time since last year and everyone was like wtf because I was so quiet. I used to be real outgoing and obnoxious. what happened? |
| Question: All friends forgot my birthday? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:21 PM PST Every single year I make an effort to say happy birthday to them all, buy them presents and go out with them when they invite me out. Today is my 21st birthday and not one person out of my friends wished me a happy birthday. Only 3 people did. My mum, my sister and my dad. I've been suffering with depression recently and today has just made me feel a lot worse. I invited my friends over for pizza and movies and nobody showed up so I stayed in and watched them alone. I feel so upset. What can I do to make myself feel better? |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:17 PM PST So I have this friend who I have been friends with all of my life. My whole life she has been a good friend and never was negative or condescending towards me until the last few months where everything changed. Out of nowhere she started speaking condescendingly to me and calling me offensive names to my face and behind my back. She in particular likes to call me a slut or a whore. This confuses me because I have only had sex with 2 men so far at age 25. I do however flirt with lots of guys when I am drunk ( although I never act that way sober) and in general I get a lot of male attention since I am a model. I think I am very humble as the attention always comes as a surprise and I do not act like I am above my friend or anyone else. I don't understand why she would be bothered by me harmlessly flirting with men. I always compliment her and try to bring her up but her behavior towards me is the opposite. It's also worth mentioning the irony is that she has had sex with upwards of 20 men.. If we are including "hookups" that number goes up to 30, and 2 girls. She has made jokes lately about my "slutiness" and saying I am at risk to get raped or get an std. I have never had an std but I know for a fact that she has slept with someone who has herpes. I have not told her that information yet. This behavior is highly insulting and makes me feel bad about myself, even though I know her accusations are false. Why do you think my friend is behaving this way ? |
| Question: Did i do something wrong? Everyone suddenly shauned me out of nowhere? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:17 PM PST So today i was in our park with my BFF she is a girl same age as me (17 if that matters). We were fighting a bit and she punched me in stomach then i punched her in face and randomly ppl runned to me and said that im an asshole and like pulled her away from me, we were both just confused and staring at each other like O.O what was that? |
| Question: Apologies: Written vs. Verbal? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:10 PM PST I said something very mean to someone I care about. But I have social anxiety, and I'm terrible at apologizing in person. I could make a much better apology by writing it. Would it be better to do a bad verbal apology, or a good written apology? The thing I said was so mean, that it needs more than a simple apology. |
| Question: Ahow to politely uninvite someone? u? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 03:06 PM PST on a whim I recently asked a new friend to come untrue on a trip with me that I do not want them to come on anymore and I feel rude taking the offer off the table but I figured since were new friends I would rather have one of my best friends come with me and I don t know how to politely tell the new friend that they can t come I feel really mean bc ive already guven them the info about it but i dont even know if they can come or not yet? Me and my bff were on bad terms when I asked her and i just???? what is a nice way to uninvite someone? if someone were to do this you how would you want them to do it *onto not untrue |
| Question: Why do all people think guys cant punch girls? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:56 PM PST Well today earlier me and my best friend (he is a guy, we are both 17) were going through park, nothing unusual, and were joking and talking bla bla. Basically we talked a spicy theme and i gave him like a armbump in stomach and he gave me a lefthook in face. Nothing unusual, our humor is kinda.... violenter then it should be XD we often fight. So basically nothing horrible i punched him he punched me back, since it was in face i was bleeding a bit from mouth, nothing big just like a line. But then someone just like grabbed him, and all others just rushed to us like DONT TOUCH HER ASSHOLE, YOU CANT DO THAT BLA BLA. I was just gazing my eyes out like wtf.... they saw me punch him they saw him punch me we were both laughing but suddenly it felt like he was a public enemy no.1 .... i had my head full of this like 3 hours so maybe someone on yahoo can explain closer.... like dafuq not cool, i think it is cool since i dont mind bleeding. Sometimes he bleeds and i dont. As i said our fun is sometimes more violent then it should be we fight a lot and i dont mean like argue or push, i mean like once i broke his arm and he broke my leg while we were fighting. But evrytime we just laugh it off. Im just surprised when you see 2 friends in park fighting and both are laughing that you think its an assault (you know, most people dont laugh through assaults) maybe ur right Groovy..... i dunno i like my friend so when he suggested the fighting games cca year ago i was like k if you think its fun.... and thats how is started. Just dont see a problem he is having fun and we are doing something together, not a problem HAHAHAHAHA thats hilarious danny, what are the odds rite?? hahha, yea i dont know too, apearantly ppl tought you were assaulting me or something..... like... yea im laughing my *** out while someone assaults me makes sence |
| Question: Why is everyone justifying this teen girl who wanted to kill? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:43 PM PST So I mentioned this event in other questions but recently I've read more news about the whole case. Basically two teens are being charged as adults at my high school because they had detailed maps and had been planning and practicing to shoot up e school. But they were arrested and stopped. Now some friends of one of the girls keep trying to justify the whole thing. Apparently she had a "really rough life" and crap like that. One friend said "She's not a monster. She just had a difficult life so she was a bit confused." And that friend knows how that girl had detailed maps and practiced shooting and showed no remorse at all and how she said she'd try again if she were released. Is that really just some "confused girl with a tough life?" Really? I know many people with very crappy lives. Like, some people I know have PTSD, hateful parents, anxiety and depression, suffered from sexual abuse.... And they said "OH SHE WAS CRYING FOR HELP FOR MONTHS AND DIDNT GET IT" and she DID get help. She was getting therapy and counseling and treatment at a mental hospital and said herself that she faked her progress. Yeah I am pretty sure she DID get help. Why the heck are these people defending a girl who is using her confusion and supposedly rough life to justify KILLING PEOPLE?! Most of which would be victims she may not even know. If my friend did something like this, of course it would be hard but I would never justify it. I just feel upset. People could have died cause of her... |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:33 PM PST Okay. So tonight is a big school dance but my friends and I decided not to go. Instead, we are going to a party and I am sleeping over at one of their houses. I am new friends with these people it's like the first time I am really hanging out with them. NOW, My OTHER friend who is also not going to the school dance, knows I'm hanging out with these people tonight and she just texted me saying "I have no one to hang out with tonight :(" SHOULD I INVITE HER? IM NOT EVEN VERY GOOD FRIENDS WITH THESE PEOPLE SO I FEEL LIKE THAT WOULD BE WIERD IF I WAS LIKE "CAN I BRING MY OTHER FRIEND TO YOUR HOUSE" And I feel like she would just not fit in with us because she is not like us at all. I feel so bad if she is just going to be sitting at home alone the night of the big school dance. Please help 😓 |
| Question: I can't believe I lost a friend over a fart....? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:27 PM PST I sh*t you not! I was sitting next to my friend before an AA meeting and I farted. He got all pissed off and moved to another table. Later I apologized...well I tried to apologize, but I couldn't say, " I'm sorry I farted on you.", with a straight face. The next week at the same meeting he said he wanted to talk to me. He basically told me that I disrespected him and he no longer wanted to be friends. After 5 1/2 years of being friends he wants to end it over a fvcking fart! WTF? |
| Question: How do I deal with a friend picking sides during a break up? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:14 PM PST He is bipolar and manipulative. I sent the friend texts of what he was saying. She was saying 'I hate him. He's crazy. Call the cops" and her husband was saying "I'm going to beat him down". But today they checked in on facebook all eating lunch together. How am I supposed to feel about this? |
| Question: I NEED IMMEDIATE HELP? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 02:08 PM PST I m hanging out with three of my friends tonight, we are going to a party and hanging out at one of their houses. My OTHER friend, who I know but my three friends don t just texted me saying "I have no one to hang out with tonight :(" I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO |
| Question: How to make new friends when visiting a new country? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:47 PM PST So when you get there you find someone to hang out with and tell you about good places to go and alike. |
| Question: Am I a loser just because study all the time and have no time to hang out? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:47 PM PST I have a group of friends at school who I used to hang out with all the time I'm a junior rn and I'm taking 2 ap classes outside of school, so I have like no time to do anything this year my friends always end up hanging out, skyping each other, texting, etc w/o me all the time -- I mean they still invite me to go places with them but had to decline many times because I'm so busy I get depressed sometimes because I feel like a loser bc everyone else seems to have a better social life than i do and on top of that i'm EXTREMELY socially awkward at times |
| Question: Were we ever really friends?? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:36 PM PST Ok so I had a guy I used to be friends with, and back in October of last year we had a falling out. What happened was I got mad at him because we were supposed to move in with some other friends and he told us last minute that he wouldn't be able to do it. I got a little too angry and overreacted and it almost came to blows. We argued and things got really bad that night. I apologized to him that night and told him how sorry I was for getting angry. I knew I shouldn't have gotten angry at him the way I did. I was wrong. Which is why I apologized. We squashed it that night. Or so I thought. I thought that everything was good again until he just disappeared on me for like a week. When he did finally hit me up he said that he didn't want to be friends anymore and what I did that night really pissed him off. I was confused because I was under the impression that we were ok now. I have anger issues and I get mad very easily and sometimes I just explode but that was the very first time I have ever gotten mad at him in our friendship. It made me think like did I really mess up that bad or did he just not value our friendship enough to keep it going. It's not like we had problems before that because we didn't. It was just that one thing. I was pissed to be honest but I knew I had to blame myself for things. Still to this day I'm pissed off about it and in my heart I don't want to be angry anymore I just want to let it go. Forgive, forget and move on with my life. Me and 3 other friends including him were supposed to move in. After me and him stopped being friends everybody else stopped being friends with me too. The kind of people they were is that everybody only liked him. They only wanted to hang out if it was with him only and I hated that about hanging out with them but I can't shake this feeling like something is missing from my life now. I gess they were fake friends because they all stopped talking to me. I still only talk to one person from them |
| Question: My best friend ignores me for a mutual friend? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:27 PM PST My bff(4 years) started to ignore me for a mutual friend of ours, who does the same. Whenever we're talking, they'll just talk to each other, even if they were the ones to come up to me? The mutual friend would often give snarky answers and my bff would just laugh. I usually am the first to always say hi to them in class or go up to them, since before they would call me over but now I have to do it myself. But now I stopped because I'm not a person to chase after people, and now I have to text first or talk to them directly to even have a conversation. Like recently: My bff was over my house and we all were in a big group convo, and we saw a movie and were hanging out. In the convo we were talking about the movie and saying how funny it was and then the mutual friend face-timed my bff. It was fine at first because we were all talking but then she started talking only to my bff and my bff was soon ignoring me in my own house? Thankfully my mom was taking her home and decided to do it then. But they were just talking about how they should hang out later and that my bff should go over there later. And my bff has recently changed. Like she just turned 16, but has started to become different than her normal self. She's really smart and pretty, but our mutual friend who's is also 16, I'm 15, have started to talk to guys who don't even live in our state or country and she even added guys from my snapchat that send me d-pic after I showed her and blocked them.... What should I do |
| Question: Just friends or flirting? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:21 PM PST I get that the made up word of frenemy is friend + enemy and understand the meaning of it. However if a guy calls you a frenemy regarding something silly such rivals with favorite pro sports teams, would you think that he is being flirty or just a tease as a friend? |
| Question: Should I tell my friends that what they did to my sister was offensive? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:17 PM PST I have a twin sister, and we're super close. We've always gone to the same school, same grade, and we've been basically best friends with each other when no one else was there for us. I'm basically protective over her. We're freshman in high school, and I've noticed that my sister has been more self conscious. She thinks she's fat, she's gone to a trainer, tried different diets, etc. She has pictures on her that she printed out from a document she made for this year, and they're pictures of skinny people,and her goals to accomplish this year. We invited our two friends over for a sleepover at our house, after a party, and they stayed upstairs in my sisters room for the night. We have the same two friends, and we've known them for 3 years, and so it's not like we're all new friends. At the time, I was in my room, but, apparently when our friends walked into my sisters room, they went over to her picture wall and started making fun of the pics. She told them to stop, but they just kept laughing and looking at the pictures. Some insight on our two friends, they're naturally flat stomached. Like they have never had to go through the struggle of having to maintain a healthy weight. They can just eat whatever unhealthy food they want, and won't gain a pound from it. So maybe it's because they never have had to go through the struggle, and have never seen how hard it is to stay positive and happy when you don't feel that a lot. Should I tell them that this was offensive ? |
| Question: Do I end this friendship? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:02 PM PST We argue all of the time. Seriously. She ruins my days and apparently I ruin hers. We've been friends for 2 years. What do I do? |
| Question: So my sugar gliders bark a lot at night and it bothers people that stay at my house.? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 01:02 PM PST Ok so they bark a lot at night and it doesn't bother me and my sister but it bothers others that stay at our house. One of my ex friends even took my female out shook her and called her a b word when she was smaller while i was sleeping. (this chik is obvy not aloud at our house anymore ) if all of us want to sleep with out me or Astrid having to get up and mess with them at night whats the best way to keep them quiet they have every thing they need including toys and dont say they dont bark, cackle ( crabbing ), or make any other noise because they do trust me |
| Question: Real friend or nah ? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:55 PM PST I knew this guy for 4 years now he's one of my best friends. we usually share secrets and all that stuff but when I stay with him with group of friends he be making fun of me and I hate that and lately when I've done a surgery and didnt go to school he was the first to ask. I'm really confused if he is a real friend or not |
| Question: My life suck I want to give up...should I? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:48 PM PST My life is a mess. Nothing is going right I just want to live normally like normal human being. I'm stupid, loser, worthless, weird, didfferent, sad and everything is bad. I can't do anything right even the simplest thing. I'm friendless, I tried a lot to have a friend but evetytime I get dumped or hated. Everybody hates me because I'm flawed. Everything is wrong with me. Help me please I'm done and i don't know what to do |
| Question: Should I completely STOP talking to my cousins? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:46 PM PST Im trying to improve my life...by that I mean getting over my depression & my anxiety, i wanna meet new people, meet girls, find a career and just be happier in general. And I feel the only way to do that would be to separate myself/break all ties with my 2 cousins. They are my "1st" cousins, so we are close (in blood). They are all around my age (early 20s). And these guys are very popular and everyone wants to be around them, girls go CRAZY over them. They get good jobs because they have "connections". They live pretty successful lives and when Im around them (family gatherings) they have cocky attitudes and they LOVE bragging/telling stories about how great their lives are, the good times they had on vacation, the threesomes they had with women, hooking up with cougars, and how they think they have bright futures. They are very self centered. I feel when Im around them, my depression gets worse and it kills me inside because ill never get to experience the fun that they are having. Being around them just reminds me how Im an ugly piece of **** loser who will probably never get laid again & go no where in life. And although they wouldn't say it, I truly believe they secretly wish the worst for me. (Cause we used to compete ALOT as younger kids). Ill admit, im jealous cause im not as happy/successful/good-looking as them...and it brings me down. Would it be a smart idea to totally disconnect myself from them? |
| Question: Friend thinks I'm jealous? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:41 PM PST So I'm in high school and my friend has a lot of crushes. She often talks about how they always talk to her and look at her. When she tells me about these little situations, she insists that I am jealous of her, because I don't always talk to my crush. The thing that bothers me is that it is so important to her to be friends with boys, and everytime a boy says hi or talks to her, she believes they like her. I honestly feel like she has low self esteem and needs attention sometimes. When I tell her I'm not jealous, she doesn't believe me. How do I tell her politely that I am not jealous of her, so she'll stop bothering me? |
| Question: Did I do the right thing any ideas ?? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:41 PM PST so theres a guy who i take transit to school with at times. he doesnt say much and most conversations consist of me doing most of the talking, so he is quiet around me. sometimes he even goes out of his way to avoid me then other times he comes to me on his own and or smiles and sits with me. well i havent seen him much this term but the first day i did he walked passed me and then turned all the way around to say hi as he was walking off with his friend. then the second time i saw him we were on the same train i think he may have looked at me but i didnt do anything as he was with his friends. when we got off i stood to the side and turned to say hi to him, but apparently i dropped something and as he was walking off with his friend he told me i dropped something and was pointing at it so that opportunity was missed. then yesterday i was waiting for my train and in the distant i could see him coming i turned my face and didnt look his way cause i wasnt sure if he was interested in talking to me. i went in the train and he went in with his friends, i looked at him once and he was talking to them so i didnt look again. then i got out before he got up (he was talking to a girl). i believe he was walking behind me, but when i got to our usual spot he wasnt there so he must have gone somewhere else. did i do the right thing, i just didnt want to bother him because im not sure if hes interested in talking to me since he gets quiet ps we both are 22 |
| Question: When should I ask a new friend to hang out again after hanging out for the first time? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:40 PM PST Yesterday I hung out with a co worker outside of work for the first time. our conversation was rather stop and go the whole time but I had fun hanging with her regardless. When we parted ways, she gave me a one handed hug and said see you sunday (we normally work together on sundays). But when I told her i wasn't working sunday, she look disappointed and said "later" instead. Should I text her back in a few days to tell her that we hang out again or wait for her to text me? By the way, we are both introverted and quiet people. |
| Question: Sooo should I CUSS her out or nahhh?!? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:33 PM PST So met this girl online and we instantly became friends I kind of saw her as a older sister and she was really cool but over time we learned more about each other and she told me she had a little sister and she told me she went on a date with this guy and she even showed me a picture of him, but one day my friend was searching up someone on fb and I came across the girls profile and I did a little lurking on her page and found out the girl she showed me was her husband and the girl she said was her little sister was her daughter so she basically lied to me... And I want to let her know that I know she lied but I don't want her to think I'm a complete stalker because I looked on her fb page and found out the truth so what should I do?!? PLEASE HELP! |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:32 PM PST I am senior in high school going to college next year. Right now I could say I have at least 4 good friends probably only 1 who I am really close to. Still this friend, who I believe is my best friend especially in middle school, I only see a couple times now and text me a couple times since we go different high schools. He's the most comfortable I talk to we both like basketball and football and both like the same sports teams. We used to play COD and NBA 2K everyday in middle school. The other 3 friends go to different schools and yeah we do a lot like sleepovers, hang outs, and stuff like that but I only see them like 3 times a month. In school I could say I have been close to 2 people, but one of them moved and the other one IDK I'm just awkward with still. I mean we talk about football and other small stuff but I can't be comfortable enough. I try to be positive in myself and know I have to step up to be more social as I am a quiet kid but I always lose confidence in myself. As I look through my teenage years, I feel disappointed in myself on why I am like this, people are nice to me but I ruin it for myself by being an awkward idiot even though I don't want to. I want to change myself especially in college where I want to start fresh and I want to do clubs, go to parties, and like meet girls. I am always ashamed to even think or say this to myself, but i feel like I have nobody. |
| Question: Girls say I'm a "threat to their popularity"? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:23 PM PST I recently moved across the country, I've gotten to start all over. New school, new town, new drama. My very first day at school, all the popular girls called me "slut" "bitchy" "easy" and it doesn't make any sense because I didn't say a word to anyone, dressed modestly, nothing out of the blue. All the guys immediately eyed me, commented on my hair (I'm blonde and there's like zero blondes at my school) called me hot, said I had a nice butt, things like that. Even the most popular guy, who already had a girlfriend, was saying things about the "hot new girl" so of course all the girls were gonna hate me from the beginning. Fast forward 6 months and I'm friends with almost everyone. All the girls warmed up to me, and some of them follow me around like little slaves. But they talk a lot of **** too. Some of the girls in the popular group say they hate going out to the mall with me or being around me in school because I "steal the attention" and they get pushed out of the spotlight. It may sound cocky, but I like the new life I've built for myself. But these girls are so fun, and remind me of the friends I miss back home, so i want them to like me! How can I get them to look past the whole popular thing? |
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| Question: Can I get in trouble at school for this? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:12 PM PST My friend told me in private that she likes to masturbate, so next week I told her I did too. Then she told the whole lunch table in front of me(this was at lunch). The next day I asked her about it(lunch), and my friend overheard and started yelling. She's my "best friend", but now I don't think so. She said she was going to tell the teachers what I do, knowing she, and a whole bunch of other girls, and all the guys in our grade do it. I said it's not fair, since I didn't tell her and didn't want her to know. What do I do? Can I get in trouble? (I go to a large private school)? |
| Question: My best friend won t talk to me, should I let her go? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 12:10 PM PST My best friend and I have been friends for over a year, and she isn t talking to me anymore. If she does, she texts me 1 or 2 sentences then disappears. And she leaves me on read. I ve told her I wanted to talk more but she doesn t listen. She s been doing this for weeks and I was wondering if I should just let her go already. |
| Question: Was this friendship? or what? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:57 AM PST Ok so I had a guy I used to be friends with, and back in October of last year we had a falling out. What happened was I got mad at him because we were supposed to move in with some other friends and he told us last minute that he wouldn't be able to do it. I got a little too angry and overreacted and it almost came to blows. We argued and things got really bad that night. I apologized to him that night and told him how sorry I was for getting angry. I knew I shouldn't have gotten angry at him the way I did. I was wrong. Which is why I apologized. We squashed it that night. Or so I thought. I thought that everything was good again until he just disappeared on me for like a week. When he did finally hit me up he said that he didn't want to be friends anymore and what I did that night really pissed him off. I was confused because I was under the impression that we were ok now. I have anger issues and I get mad very easily and sometimes I just explode but that was the very first time I have ever gotten mad at him in our friendship. It made me think like did I really mess up that bad or did he just not value our friendship enough to keep it going. It's not like we had problems before that because we didn't. It was just that one thing. I was pissed to be honest but I knew I had to blame myself for things. Still to this day I'm pissed off about it and in my heart I don't want to be angry anymore I just want to let it go. Forgive, forget and move on with my life. Me and 3 other friends including him were supposed to move in. After me and him stopped being friends everybody else stopped being friends with me too. The kind of people they were is that everybody only liked him. They only wanted to hang out if it was with him only and I hated that about hanging out with them but I can't shake this feeling like something is missing from my life now. I guess they were fake friends because they all stopped talking to me. I still only talk to one person from them |
| Question: I think my bestfriend is gay for me? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:53 AM PST We're both 9th grade girls & so a couple monthes ago my bestfriend said she liked one of our friends whos gay and she looks very similiar to me. i brought it up last week she got mad and said she doesnt remember that. Also she said a while back she thinks she bi and she said this week she wasnt. She said she really likes boobs and ***. But ig who doesnt. But also when i spent the night i was changing into my pjs and i was in my underwear and she went under the covers and didnt wanna look at me. Is that normal? She also always touches my boobs in some way. Is she lesbian or am exaggerating? |
| Question: Friend actimg weird? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST so my "friend" who ive known since the 2nd grade, (going to high school this year) has been acting very different since the start of middle school. I understand in middle school you grow apart & make new friends but she changed everythinggggg. She changes the way she talks with specific ppl, shes a thousand times louder when theres a whole bunch of ppl around, and she's always trying to get attention. A few months ago when i didnt have my phone she was saying how she was gonna invite me to her bday and i even planned on getting her a really nice gift! But the week of her bday she never spoke to me, the next week after her bday she asked me what happened to the gift i was gonna give her. I was so angry, like why would i give you a gift if you didn't even invite me to ur bday party? That would make me look desperate! She also boy crazy. She had a bf for 1 year and after she broke up with him she went out with someone the next week. I feel like she only dates ppl so she can say she has someone. Im worried bc we're going to High school this year and im moving away. I dont wanna hear abt something crazy she did just for other ppl. Im thinking of cutting her off and telling her how i feel before i move in the summer. What do you think i should say? |
| Question: Does my friend Tara love me? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:49 AM PST She cares about me she says I'm special to her. She looks out for me. She worries about me. She doesn't want me to be unhappy. |
| Question: Does an age gap make a difference? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:41 AM PST I've been seeing this a woman that's older than me, by almost 7 years. I've never been with a woman more than a year older than me or even seen a couple were the woman was older. I'm 23 and 29, turn 30 in February. I actually met her 6 years ago and have been crazy never stop thinking about her since then. So, Do age differences really matter? Apart from having children, are age gaps really a factor? |
| Question: Why does he always say things he doesn't mean? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:36 AM PST I have a friend who is a guy, and he is constantly saying things he doesnt mean. For instance, he is very religious and I KNOW he respects his religion and follows it strictly, but then he goes around making REALLY dirty jokes about things like temple. He also always makes fun of his best friend's parents' divorce. He laughs HYSTERICALLY at anything sad that people usually find depressing. He's not dumb. He is a very smart, thoughtful person. In fact, he always, after making such jokes or laughing hysterically, says something along the lines of "Why did i just do that?" or "I'm sorry i dont know why I found that so funny." So hes not serious, and regrets it, but can't help himself from making disgusting comments or making fun of things that are not meant to make fun of. Once, I remember he said that he gets mad easily and can't help it. He has never gotten violent. Does anyone understand what causes this? He has a good family and is not by any means poor or struggling. |
| Question: Is being the bigger person actually worth it? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:33 AM PST there are these bullies (my ex best friends) who are constantly making fun of me and i dont talk back to them because i just really dont feel like starting a huge fight. but its so irritating when they get away with it because they feel like they can just keep doing it. I've tried being the bigger person and just ignoring it but seriously i just want to stab them. |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:28 AM PST Okay this isn't about me,I have been a IGOT7 since Just Right but my friend Rosa is a new fan. Okay so I showed her 'A' and 'Girl Girl Girl'.She loves them! I told her the name of the group and she said "How much members?!" I was like 'wait....what?'I told her there's seven and then she said,"No way! Usually in KPOP there's x 14!"Oh...my god. I told her again there's even members.And then she said,"No.Theres 14! Because seven times two is 14.Seven of the members are in one part of the mv and the other seven is in a different part." I....need help. |
| Question: Let friend commit suicide. Does it matter? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:24 AM PST Years ago I was aware of the signs that my friend was contemplating suicide, and eventually he ended it all with a bullet to the head. His life really wasn't going anywhere, he had no ambitions, no girlfriend, no money, nothing. My friend ended up living on the streets after bumming off his more successful sister. I honestly thought it was good that he killed himself, so I never said anything to anyone. He avoided anymore suffering he was bringing onto himself and others. |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:22 AM PST So it's sorta a long story, but this new guy came to our schools while ago. My bestfriend and him and I were all friends. But, he had asked my bestfriend out, and she had said no. Also, he had sent me screenshots of their text messages. She was calling him "hot, sexy, baby" and I didn't know she liked him like that. I've never told her about the screenshots. After she rejected him, he wasn't friends with us anymore. But, he has started talking to us again recently. One day he made a horrible accusation about my sister, (which we later found out he made up). I think it's understandable that I didn't want have anything to do with him again. But, my bestfriend is always texting him, and I told her I don't like him, but she says that his parents are really mean to him, and she just wants to talk to him. So, I invited her to a hockey game, (just her) and she brought another friend and HIM!! They were flirting the whole night, and she was just ignoring me the whole time. (That's not the first time she's done that either.) I'm feeling really left out and alone, what do I do? |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 11:01 AM PST So my best friend has been have boy trouble and now I absolutely would lift the world for her if I had too, weve been best friends since freshman year been through some tough times but always got through em, I was always just too afraid to let her go even tho sometimes I should have, because I care about her and would do anything for her. Last year she dated my crush and I talked to this guy, she knew I liked him even tho we didnt date and we stopped talking she never told me and they had been talking for 2 months, I found out by a picture.. Then "liked it" and she texted me and told me and I was heart broken crying crying but I forgave her bc if she was happy I wasnt gonna stop her, she promised it wouldnt affect our friendship but it did somewhat when that time happened.. Anyway Ive been there for her, text her these long long messages, telling her what she needs and wants to hear from boys, how much I love her and will be there for her, shes beautiful and I tell her she needs to see it.. Anyway she will say thank you I appreciate it, ok thats fine I promised you since day 1 I will always be there for u, but she never ever texts me anymore, we havent hung out in months alone or had a sleepover alone in months, only hung out on group dates or parties, I always ask her to hang out but shes "busy" idk she says she loves me and cares and thanks me so much but it hurts me bc like I dont want to lose her but like sometimes I just want more effort and appreciation.. Is that wrong |
| Posted: 23 Jan 2016 10:43 AM PST Only had one gf in my life.. currently 24 years old. I have a great future ahead of me, as will be completing my masters degree this spring and basically have a job lined up. I think im a nice and funny guy, but yet girls never seem to like me or find me attractive. I'm 6'3 and weigh 250lbs, but I am trying to lose weight. Am I just fat or what? |
| Question: Should my cousin be mad that I didn't invite her step son to my wedding? Posted: 23 Jan 2016 10:31 AM PST My out of state cousin is mad that I didn't invite her 21 year old step son who lives on his own and who I don't have a relationship with at all. Is it rude on her part to call and complain and say I don't care about her, or is it rude of me to leave him off? |
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