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- Question: I'm afraid to talk to my ex bestfriend. please help !?
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- Question: My friends dick is small and his mom his hot. should I make a move?
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- Question: Being left out of most things?
- Question: Does this lady have the right to make ground rules at me and my roommate's house?
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- Question: My friend is being really petty to me and everyone thinks she's being immature?
- Question: My mom saw my girlfriends boobs exposed should I pull her bra up or make my mom angry?
- Question: Best friend troubles?
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- Question: What's the name of this porn movie? I'm searching it for years and can't find it. :P?
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| Question: I'm afraid to talk to my ex bestfriend. please help !? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 05:00 PM PST so I used to be friends with this girl in 6th grade. we were so close that people thought we were sisters. we stopped being friends because I did something I shouldn't have. I was young and stupid. I have learned from my mistakes and I really want to become friends again. she doesn't dislike me anymore so that's good but im deadly afraid to approach her. I keep on thinking that she will reject me or something along those guidelines. I can't really get over her because I've never met someone like her and we go to the same school and have all the same classes so i see her everyday. how can I get rid of his fear and approach her ? |
| Question: Should my girlfriend walk around my house with her boobs out or should I pull her bra up? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:54 PM PST |
| Question: My friends dick is small and his mom his hot. should I make a move? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:51 PM PST ok so I'm 16. I saw my friend with a full erection in the bathroom and it was probably a little over 2 inches. This means his dad has a small dick too. his mom is an Italian milf with big wobs. should i go for it? |
| Question: Anyone want to be friends on Minecraft?!? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:46 PM PST My friend and I want to add a forth member to our group. We are both girls around the age of 12. Must be 11-14 have Skype and be okay with swearing. Amexa and I both love older music and Amexa is very fun and silly, I m super excited over nothing always up for fun and we are both introverted. Want to be our friend say your age name and Skype username down below! Gender doesn t matter! |
| Question: Can this lady do this? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:44 PM PST I'm 22 and my roommate is 36 and we are in a program for people who have disabilities. Well this lady that is a supervisor said that she is gonna make some ground rules for the house. My mom is my legal guardian and she says no. Cos I'm the one who pays the rent. So,does she have the right to make ground rules for the house? I feel she doesn't and feel the same way my mom does. @Silver I agree with you 100%! |
| Question: My friend is mad at me, i need advice? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:44 PM PST she's been ignoring my texts and dismissing me at school, so i'm not really sure what's up. the only idea i have is that we are in a school group together, and both the third member and myself were going to miss class. so my best friend asked me to send her pics of our notes for the project. i texted the third member and they sent me the notes as soon as they got home from work, and then i sent the notes to my best friend as soon as it happened. but, after is sent the notes, my best friend had few questions so i just sent her the cell phone number of the third member, and my best friend started asking me when i got her #. I thought that my best friend was upset with me for not sending her the third member's # as soon as i got it, but she only asked me to send her the notes... and she texted me the day after. just... i don't know what's going on. i texted her a couple days after her silent treatment and said "hey, are you ok? did i do something?" i need advice... |
| Question: Girls after you finish breastfeeding do you pull your bra up or let other people see? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:44 PM PST |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:39 PM PST I have two friends, who were friends before i joined the group, for a couple of months before/close to a year. Anyway, we all became very good friends and have a lot in common. However, I sometimes feel really left out and like i saw my friend snap chat my other friend like lets have a sleepover 'just us', and then didn't really let me know what was happening. I sometimes feel really lonely when this happens, or when they don't contact me for a couple of hours because they're together. I do have other friends but i really value and love their friendship. I can tell sometimes one of them will get jealous because i'm spending time with the other, even though one of them has a boyfriend. Also they text all the time, but never ever text me, only occasionally, once i saw on my friends phone, 'i do love lou but i want it to just be me and you', it really hurt me. I feel a bit worthless when they do things like that I dunno what to do, sometimes shall i just not contact them or what? |
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| Question: Being left out of most things? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:33 PM PST I'm 23. I have 3 groups of friends . Group 1 is age 14 to 16. I grew up with the ones bro but quickly befriended them. Been friends for 10 years. Met the other girls later on but everyone's nice and good kids. The other group is divided into 2. Sometimes they all hang other times not. 18 and 19 uesrs old is 2 gurls. The other 2 are 20 and 21. I can go months without talking to group 1. I haven't visited her in a while. She has school so it's difficult to make plans. The 18 and 19 are fun to hang with. US 3 together is a hoot. We always cause trouble.they have boyfriends and they still will make time. We always go to haunted things and go out to eat. The last I've been friends with for 5 years.went to school and became close. We always hang together even after achool. I became closer with a friend of hers out of school and we al hanged together fine. Then things began to head down hill. One had a drug boyfriend and she won't leave him. She broke up with him lots of times but always goes back. The other fell for druggie friend. We watch movies or series together and I cook for them. When they need me I'd drop everything for them. But things just haven't imprived. feel left out.. I want a friend who we csn communicate daily, have fun, and have things in common, or be couch potato together.. the new friend I appreciate more I hate this feeling like I'm not good enough.... |
| Question: Does this lady have the right to make ground rules at me and my roommate's house? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 04:00 PM PST I'm 22 and my roommate is 36 and we are in a program for people who have disabilities. Well this lady that is a supervisor said that she is gonna make some ground rules for the house. My mom is my legal guardian and she says no. Cos I'm the one who pays the rent. So,does she have the right to make ground rules for the house? I feel she doesn't and feel the same way my mom does. |
| Question: I made a horrible mistake, and feel bad. What should I do? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 03:56 PM PST My friend started tagging my name on this guy's picture where he was in it with another girl, and she said "are you mad?" And then I commented "No, she's a side hoe" meaning it as a joke. I deleted my comment quickly afterwards, and then the girl's friend commented and said "No thirsty hoes on the picture" and then my friend basically turned her back on me and said "Yeah @me" Then the guy told us to both get off of his picture, and for me to leave him alone. He deleted the picture a few days later. Then a week later, I see all of them and some other people. Then I heard the friend was like "look that's the girl who commented on the picture" and then she started yelling "Look at her weave, does she not know what a Brazilian weave is?" And she did that to get my attention. Then when I was walking away my friend calls them over, and I apologized to them telling them that it didn't mean anything. Then the friend was all like that's stranger danger to be commenting on random people's pictures, and then she said have a great day and that was the end of it. Then after we left, my friend tells me she wants to be friends with them because they're fire and popular, and said that they were honest and she doesn't like our squad because they're snakes. Which made me upset, but like I'm ashamed that I even commented that even though I apologized. I've never said something like that before. How do I forget about it? And I plan on not seeing them again, because they always hangout there. |
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| Question: My friend is being really petty to me and everyone thinks she's being immature? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 03:16 PM PST My friend (A) has been giving me comments about ny art, my career, my life plan, and my future education plan for the past few months. A while back I had a fight with another friend (B) but we made up because we were both being stupid about it and A had nothing to do with it but took it WAY more personally than she should have and wanted to isolate me from the group for 2 weeks. She lashed out at one of my classmates for defending me and constantly talked bad about me behind my back. Later B and I were talking and I found out A said they were treating me badly because they were jealous of how often I talked with B even though A had every chance to talk to B but never put time aside for B. A also seems to have made a comment about my relationship saying I was going too fast. I haven't even kissed my partner yet and A brags about how her and her partner were banging within a few days of dating. She tried to give me "advice" which consisted of her telling me being an artist doesn't pay well, that I wouldn't and shouldn't be an art major, and basically took a dump on my already low self esteem while she has no idea what my job is, because she never listens to me, and got am opinion from one of her online friends who doesn't know me at all. Everyone in our group thinks she's being petty and immature while she doesn't see it at all. She claims to be happy with how her life is but happy people don't do stuff like this to others. |
| Question: My mom saw my girlfriends boobs exposed should I pull her bra up or make my mom angry? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 03:00 PM PST |
| Question: Best friend troubles? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:55 PM PST (I will be using fake names for privacy purposes) Background: So my cousin Sandra and I have been best friends since, well, basically birth. We are both 15 and girls. I am a sophomore in high school and she is a freshmen. Sandra lives about an hour away so I only see her when she visits on school breaks. Last summer, Sandra came to visit. We went to the beach and ran into my two best guy friends, Lucas and Alex. (Sandra had never met them before.) We decided that the four of us would hang out for the day and so we did and we had fun. Sandra and the boys exchanged numbers and all that jazz and then she went back home. So then, this Christmas break, Sandra came to visit again and we went to California together with my family. However, the whole time, she was texting Lucas. She wouldn't even talk to me since she was so absorbed in her phone and talking to him. I would say, "Hey, wanna go...?" And she would reply, "No. I'm texting Lucas." So the whole trip, I just hung out with my brother. She and I used to Skype call every night. A few days after we got back from the trip, I asked if she was ready to Skype, but she kept coming up with excuses not to. She then started reading my texts and not replying. Last night, I messaged her and asked what the deal was. (Why she had been ignoring me). She went on to tell me that I was no longer her best friend and that Lucas was. She said that I don't "understand her," and that I "don't even know who she is anymore." What should I do? |
| Question: Is it normal for one twin to be more mature then the other? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:49 PM PST They are in middle school. One has great leadership qualities, and the other is not always the most socially mature. They're fraternal. I feel like I show favorites though, because since the one shows his maturity and demonstrates those leadership skills I feel like he is given more opportunity to do so. |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:48 PM PST So, this girl has been my best friends for a couple of years now. She's always been very admiring of me, but lately it's been getting out of control. When I dyed my hair, she became obsessed with dying her hair. (We're teenagers). I once told her I wanted a certain tattoo, and she became determined to get it too. Whatever musical instrument I take up, she also learns. She takes all her fashion cues from me (when I bought a plaid shirt, she bought six the next week). Any books or music I express interest in is her new favorite. It's not just that, either. She is constantly complaining about her body and how she wishes she could look more like me in every aspect, from boob size to hand width. I wish I was exaggerating. The problem has worsened though. She claims she's in love with me on and off, but she is also interested in our other female friends, regardless of age or sexuality. It seems she is attracted to guys, but wants to BECOME any lady object or her affection rather then be WITH them. I don't want to break her heart or anything, but it's exhausting to spend hours and hours listening to her complain about her body, her home life, basically anything. My friend thinks I'm SO PERFECT, I'm incapable of having any of my own problems. My phone goes off constantly with calls and texts from her that I don't have the willpower to answer. And the crush thing is, frankly, awkward and upsetting, considering she insists on reminding me every day. What should I do? |
| Question: Should I tell my friend? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:30 PM PST My friend is a vegetarian and I recently discovered that the Bean Burritos at Taco Bueno contain beef extract and I don't think she knows that. She gets them every time we go to Bueno and I feel really bad but I don't want her to freak out. She's never really expressed how much she doesn't like to eat meat. I just know she was raised NOT eating meat and just continued eating that way. Should I tell her and risk upsetting her or should I just avoid going there with her again? |
| Question: How do I get a pen pal? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:22 PM PST I'm a 13 year old girl and I really want a pen pal. I don't want to email someone, I want to actually write letters. I would preferably want it to be a boy, but it doesn't really matter. I also want them to be my same age. How do I get a pen pal? |
| Question: What's the name of this porn movie? I'm searching it for years and can't find it. :P? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:19 PM PST This'll be quite long. I remember a guy with his friend playing video games in a sofa that's how it started. They played for some time then the one guy went off the sofa and (i put this parenthesis because im'not sure if that happened, anyway i think he first went to his friend's mom room to sniff to her pants) and then went to the shower where he found his friend's mom naked taking shower and i think she was playing with her ** too :p , and he peeped through the hole of the door because the door was a little opened. He was watching for some time surprised but then his friend's mom realized he was looking and then when he realized it too he immediately run and went back to play video games with his friend again. His friend's mom got up from the water with a smile and got out of the shower feeling horny :P , and she went to the sofa where the guy was playing video games with her son, but in the next moment she caught him and drove him to her room while he was obviously surprised. I think she was wearing a bathrobe and then she took him inside the room where he previously sniffed her pants and closed the door of the room behind. I remember it being from those big doors i can't remember exactly it's been years. And well he sit for a little time on the bed and then she kissed him and oh well you know the rest. I remember it being a Brazzers. Well i know this is idiotic but i'm looking for this for AGES and can't find it anywhere so if anyone knows... That milf had brown hair. |
| Question: How would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend has a crush on your friend? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 02:03 PM PST Boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We've never cheated on each other and any fight we have is normally silly and we eventually laugh about it and get over it within minutes. I've recently become friends with a really pretty 19 year old girl that A LOT of guys drool over. My boyfriend happens to be one. I could tell by how he flirtatiously joked around with her, how he stared at her (the same way he looked at me in the early stages of our relationship), etc. He finally admitted to me that he was attracted to her and feels bad about it and he didn't get a crush on her on purpose. A crush is a crush though. How would you feel if it were you? I like her and we have fun together but it also destroys my self-confidence knowing how my boyfriend feels. A lot of guys seem to feel this way, actually. When I say she's pretty, I mean super pretty, as in model gorgeous. And I'm...not. |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 01:22 PM PST Estuve para apoyarlo en todo momento, incluso cuando tuvo un flechazo, me emocioné por él, le di consejos, pero ella dejó que el pagara todo cuando salieron, se le declara, ella lo deja en hold. Cuando fue mi cumpleaños, por separado la invitamos, ella me dijo que no podía venir porque había llegado un tío y en ese momento a mi mejor amigo le dijo que estaba enferma.Sin pensar en nada, le dije que realmente él tenía sentimientos por ella, que le dijera que si, si quería algo y que le dijera que no, si no sentía nada. Ella me dijo que son cosas de dos, a lo que respondo que entiendo eso, pero es mi mejor amigo y no quiero verlo sufrir, ya que ella no le había dicho nada cuando se le declaró. Ella lo dejó mal, nunca lo vi llorar de esa manera. Mi mejor amigo la superó, entonces, cuando estuve mal por raspar una materia, me consoló por 2 horas, llamándome a mi casa. Empecé y voy por la mitad de mi último año de carrera y cada vez que nos vemos (Todos lo sábados para estudiar, ya que él está haciendo la reválida en otra universidad en la misma ciudad), noto que me mira como maravillado y fascinado, cuando le pregunto "¿Qué pasa?", me responde "Nada". Él siempre me apoya, aconseja, se preocupa y me divierte, salimos , echamos broma, mi familia lo acepta, su familia me adora, a veces me invita, otras veces yo le invito, a veces pagamos mitad y mitad. ¿Son ideas mías o mi mejor amigo está enamorado de mi y no me declara por miedo? Mi problema es: Estoy enamorada de él. ¿Qué hago? |
| Question: Email Adredss Ideas? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 01:18 PM PST I'm really girly, but don't want an obnoxious name like me last one GirlyMakeupLover12. It's was kind of awkward. 😕 My name is Yasmin, and I want 12 at the end of it. I'm laugh and smile a lot too, and am really energetic. Thank you! 😊 |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 01:03 PM PST My friend and I attended the same high school. The difference between us is she has 2 permanent disabilities. She got bullied all the time by so many different students in high school for it. I observed this a lot and I was afraid to stand up because I feared getting bullied next so I hid. She would get punched, slapped, slammed against walls, yelled at, called "retarded", have rumors spread around about her, and called fat a$$ because she was slightly overweight, along with being called ugly because she wore casual clothes. And no guy wanted to date her. Well our 10 year high school reunion was just the other week. I arrived there before she did (I hadn't seen her in around a year). Coincidentally many of the people who arrived were the people who bullied her in the past. She ended up arriving in a limousine car (which caught a lot of their attention), she was even taller than she was in high school, lost a massive amount of weight, was wearing extremely expensive clothing with lots of jewelry, and apparently was married because her husband was right beside her. Her personality had changed a lot though. As soon as she approached everyone, she smiled and said something aloud like "hello there friends! The lovely people who made my life hell years ago. The reasons I was sent to therapy and the hospital after depression and massive bruise marks. Good times. I missed you all!" What's your opinion on this? |
| Question: Birthday party help!!!!!??? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 01:00 PM PST Basically I'm in high school and one of my sorta not really friends is having a party tomorrow at this resturaunt and I am only friends with one person who is going and everyone who is going doesn't really know me and I haven't talked to them that much so I feel like it is gonna be really awkward cuz everyone is friends there and my only friend who is going is probably going to talk to everyone and I don't know what to do and I can't cancel cuz I already said yes HELP?!?! |
| Question: HOW TO HANG OUT WITH NEW PEOPLE? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:57 PM PST I'm a girl in freshman year. I barely have any friends and I feel like ok missing out on the whole high school experience. I hang out with 2 people and I'm not even that close to them. They are rude, weird, annoying, geeks kinda, and they dress and act like 5th graders. I need new friends. The thing is I don't really know how to make new friends and start hanging out with them. There's a few girls in some of my classes that I want to be friends with but I don't know how to be. Like what do I do? How do I start talking to them without it being awkward. How do I go up to them. How do I get them to like me? How do I become close to them? And how do I join there group and start hanging out with them. Please answer these questions honestly and give me real answer. My goal is to start making new friends on Tuesday so ANSWER QUICKLY |
| Question: Why is my bestfriend acting different all of a sudden? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:54 PM PST We're both guys and we've been through many years of ups and downs but now that he's had his gf for a year or so she made him different and she gets jealous when me and him hang out and like I don't see why bc he hang out with her way more then me and now he just acts like he doesn't even care about us being friends or not. She's honestly has made him lose all his real friends besides me he really has no one else that he talks too or hang out with. So what if they break up, what then of course I'm going to be the only one there for him. We're both in high school and I just don't know what to do, should I just ignore it or what? |
| Question: My friend who used to be my best friend thinks I'm boy crazy? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:43 PM PST |
| Question: Which sister do you like the best Kourtney, Kim or Khloe? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:36 PM PST |
| Question: Should I be honest or should I tell my friend an excuse? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:34 PM PST Hi everyone! Hi friends! My friend wanted to go to this one concert that's coming up in 2 weeks. She told me how she was low on money and broke. She wanted to get us seats that are under 80$. I told her ok. Yesterday the tickets were availiable online and she bought tickets that costed 200$ tickets seats. She spent about 400$ and i will have to pay her back 200$. Thing is that I do not want to go anymore since she bought the tickets without telling me the prices...I thought she wanted really cheap tickets....but 200$? wow......... What should I tell her? I don't want to go..............I don't want too waste that much money based on a concert that will only play for 2 hrs.... Please give me advice what to say to her so it wont hurt her feelings. I want to stay a good friend ...without hurting her Yeah..I agree with you down there...to the person who answered my question. Thank you She told me she only wanted cheap seats and told me three times about cheap seats only too. But she bought the expensive seats without telling me ahead and now I don't want to go with her and pay her back..I need a good way not to hurt her feelings and she can still refund the tickets for cheaper seats |
| Question: Should I cut every contact with her? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:29 PM PST So I am currently 9th grade now and 14. In 5 months I will finish elementary school and go to high school. And there is this friend she is 13 and goes to the same class as I do and she lives next to me. I have known her for 13 years and I she is a good friend but recently she started being a horrible friend. I got a lot of drama about my ex till the point when he even threaten to beat me up, choke, kill me when he sees me. And she is like his best friend that I hate, not because i hate him, it is because she is a horrible person when she is with him. My friend told me she heard her talking with him and saying the worst stuff ever about me, i know it is the truth. once she gave me her phone and i was just looking at stuff and then i saw her messages with him saying i am a attention whore and calling me names. If she was my real friend she wouldn't do that. She wants to go out now and hang out with me. And whatever anyone says about my ex she tells him. Like his own personal slave. I went out with her and a friend and she said she wants to buy something to eat in a store and asked us to come with her. My friend went to her, and I said I will wait and she said "yea whores wait" I was shocked that she said that to my face, and my friend too. Later she apologised. She shouldn't have said that. And now she is like planing on hanging out together when we go to high school. I don't want to because even if she wont be friends with my ex anymore, I could never forget what she did. |
| Question: Why complain and then bring your kid? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:17 PM PST I have 3 girlfriends who have children. Two are married and one is a single mom. The two that are married, constantly complain about not having enough free time away from the hubby and kids. They always want to hang out and when we do, end up bringing the kids with them every single time only to have the kids misbehave while we are out and have to cut our hang out time short. Then later on they again complain about needing to have time to themselves......but why?? Why complain about this and then turn around and bring your kid out?? My girlfriend who is a single mom, never does this. When she says it, she means it. She finds babysitters and never brings her kid out when we hang out.......so what's the deal with the married friends??? Do they complain because its the thing for married women with children to do? @Starfish...whoa there...heavy on the projection are you? You stated...."or a friend who instead of being understanding"......And this is my reason for asking the question in the first place. To obtain some understanding. @Vivienne...Thanks. I didn't know if they were complaining because they hear other mothers/wives do it and just copy the behavior or what. |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 12:10 PM PST A uns dois anos atras eu fazia teatro com um garoto muito lindo que eu gostava ( gosto até hoje, na verdade) e tenho quase certeza que ele gostava de mim tambem. Mas nquela época eu era muito timida pra falar com ele então só trocavamos olhares.E o curso de teatro nos separou de sala no ano seguinte, pois eu tinha só 12 anos e ele tinha 13 e nunca mais nos vimos. Esses dias eu acabei descobrindo o face dele e ele continua igualzinho. mas eu mudei pra caramba, pois estou muito menos timida e mais engracada, além de muitas pessoas acharem que eu estou bonita e eu queria poder mostrar esse meu lado para ele (sei que ele pensa em mim as vezes) entao eu pensei em criar uma conta no facebook (já que eu nao tenho) principalmente pra falar com ele. eu queria saber como eu devo iniciar a conversa, o que eu devo falar pra puxar assunto e o que eu devo fazer e queria saber se ele não acharia estranho eu falar com ele do nada? |
| Question: HELP I m struggling with coworkers..? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:55 AM PST I m 23 and no matter where I work or what I do I CAN T get along with coworkers, more specifically female coworkers. I try to keep to myself, I try to be nice, I try not to ruffle feathers in the workplace but something always happens for the worst. Like when I m the newbie girls will try to get me fired. That s why I try to be nice, why hate someone who is nice but people tell me that makes me look weak and that I have to act like a ***** so I don t get walked on. Even my fiance knows I don t really have "lady balls" but like I said I hate causing rifts at work but being nice isn t helping. It puts me in people s crosshairs. I ve been at my current workplace for 2 months and already a girl I ve never worked with before got scheduled with me and she ratted me out to the boss for a minor misdemeanor but she s the only one. Then I realized no matter how nice you are some people will still turn on you |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:34 AM PST Okay, so in a few years I'm going to be moving in with my friends. Sounds great, right? Well one of those friends I kind of don't really talk to that much because he's a straight guy and I'm gay (and I can feel the awkwardness but I might be over reacting) . He's totally cool with it but I feel like our other friend is like keeping us together and without her there it would feel so awkward (I've known the guy friend since I was in 4th) so how can I pass that awkward hump? |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:32 AM PST Nothing happens to me I have friends that say they love me but when i ask them a question they don't answer or wanna to get rid of me 1second friend........second later nothing my life is boring no one cares about me even i respect them what should i do? |
| Question: I envy my FORMER best friend? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:29 AM PST I'll try to keep this short: Me and this friend (let's call him Jack) have known each other for almost 8 years now, like, we were best friends ever since the elementary school!\ So, why am I calling him a FORMER best friend? Well, ever since High School started 2 years ago, we barely stopped talking to each other. He's got plenty of new friends, so he probably never thinks about me. Another question pops up, why do I envy him? 1) He's very popular on FB, Instagram and stuff, while I barely get any likes. 2) He has TONS of friends, and he goes out all the time - while I only have a couple of friends, and most of the time I'm just staying home. 3) He has had 8 girlfriends so far, while I only had 2, and it was almost 2 years ago since my last relationship. He also gets a lot of compliments about his look, while people barely notice what I'm wearing. So, how can I stop this feeling? This jealousy is KILLING ME. Sorry, I made a grammar mistake - we STOPPED talking to each other, not barely stopped. |
| Question: My friend calls me "master", and it makes me really uncomfortable...? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:29 AM PST I'm white, and my friend is black... Whenever I tell him to do something, instead of like where most people would say, "Ok Dad" in a sarcastic way, he says "Ok Master" in a sarcastic way I really don't like when he does this. What should I do about it? |
| Question: Why every one want friends !!!!!!? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:11 AM PST i just damn suprised and cant get it when some ppl wanna be popular or have many friends... i think that the main object and goal of the life is to have sweet girl friend do sex with..i never cared to have friends at school or collge . just wanted gf.. why i would be excited to have mnay males like me...god made us as a + and - |
| Question: Any psychologists or counselors? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 11:09 AM PST I find that I often do things that I don't really want to do to make other people like me. For example, my college roommate said that she was going out to a party last night and I saw that as an opportunity to become better friends with her so I went with her. I was uncomfortable the entire time. I started thinking about how I would rather be watching Netflix in bed relaxing. Another reason I went was because my roommate is better friends with this other girl on my dorm hall. I knew that that girl would never go out to party so I saw it as an opportunity to have an experience with my roommate that this other girl wouldn't have. I get really jealous and upset that my roommate isn't best friends with me, but someone else. I wonder why she doesn't talk to me as much as her. Is it because I'm not as pretty as the other girl or because I'm more shy than her? I just need someone's advice about why I feel this way and what to do. |
| Question: New phone case... Gay? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:58 AM PST I hate people who judge u when they see something of urs and well unfortunately that's my family.. I got a gift from a friend for Chrismas and its a pikachu iPhone 6 case. I love it but I'm afraid I'll get judged : / I use my phone all the time and I don't know if I wanna wear the case or not. Any advice ? I hate being judged and yes I know I will be the rest of my life |
| Question: I care for others more than myself. Is this bad? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:57 AM PST So, recently, I ve discovered something interesting about myself. I care about my friends, and even strangers, more than myself. I do love myself, but it seems like I put others before myself. I love spoiling my friends, and even strangers I ve just befriended, with my time, gifts. My friend once told me that this may be a defensive mechanism because I m afraid of being alone. Which now that I think about it, I am afraid of being alone. I make sure to choose my friends carefully, but for some reason I feel like I may lose them, and I don t want that... How should I go about taking care of myself mental health and my physical self better? Why do I put people before myself? |
| Question: How do I stop disappointing my parents? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:53 AM PST I m in 3 advanced classes and a bunch of extra curriculars all to try to please them. I do pretty well in school, have good friends, never get in trouble when I m not at home and I try as hard as possible to be good but I never am. I am moody sometimes but no matter what I do I end up getting in trouble for it. It has gotten to the point where I don t talk to them unless absolutely necessary or if I do try to talk to them it only last a few minutes because I end up in an argument with them. Any time I try to talk to them or do what they say I get in trouble. Every time I try to talk to them I end up feeling like a disappointment and now I m really self conscious about everything I do and I feel like that just makes them more angry. How do I stop disappointing them? |
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| Question: This makes no sense at all? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:42 AM PST When two friends are arguing and one of them wants to be the one to have humility and end the stupid argument but the other one just won't get off their high horse and thinks they are right about everything why do they think that if they drop the argument and quit being hard headed that they're "kissing their friend's ***"? |
| Question: I m having a friend round to sleep soon, and it might sound stupid but I need advice? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:26 AM PST I don t know where we could both sleep? I don t want both of us to sleep in a single bed? Any ideas? It s my first sleepover at my house so any other ideas on things we could do thats not sexual? ( We re 15 year old girls). But the main question is about the sleeping arrangements please answer??? |
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| Question: Can 2 14 year old stay overnight at a hotel without a parent, but they check you in? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:24 AM PST In the summer me and a friend are going to Anime Expo and my mom said she'll pay for a hotel room for both of us. But we're both 14. My friend's cousin is also coming with us and she's an adult. If my mom books us a room (me and my friend) can my friend's cousin check us in and then she (the cousin) leave? Because my mom won't pay for the cousin's room. I hope that makes sense. So what I'm asking is: 1. Do we need an adult at all times or can we just be alone at the hotel without adult supervision? 2. can my mom book us a room and another adult check us in? I also feel bad that the cousin won't be getting a room unless she pays and my friend is totally okay with being in a hotel room but she thinks we need someone over 18 with us. Can you help me? |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:16 AM PST I told her this "Thanks Tina I get so scared sometimes and I even cry. but it's good to talk" and she said "yes always talk" |
| Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:15 AM PST My twin and I are having a sleepover with my friend and last night I was just asking my mom if we can do something fun and of course like she always does she glared at me and said to stop. I didn t even do anything wrong. Then she kept saying to stop. It was embarrassing me in front of my friend because she then said that 5 more times and then she said that one of us should give up our bed for my friend to sleep in. The way she said it made me angry. I suggested the idea that we can all sleep on the floor and she just glared at me again with this hate in her eyes. I just ran upstairs and I went to bed. Now it s morning and I m still in my room while they have been downstairs for 3 hours without me. To make matters worse, after I went upstairs my mom started texting me to go to bed. Now I m just sitting in my room scared to go out to see what else my mom is going to do to me. |
| Question: How do I start talking to my old friends again? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 10:13 AM PST my neighbor and I have been best friends up until high school. I sat with them at lunch 9th grade but stopped getting calls. I used to be overweight and I have been traumatized by humiliation. I used to get teased all the time. I started to play basketball everyday. I lost all my weight in 8th grade but I have been awkward around them because I was so self conscious. I'm in 10th now and I'm not awkward anymore. I've healed myself mentally and my personality is back. I literally just saw all of my old friends while I was outside playing football with my little brother. They said Hi and they always do but that's really it. I didn't care for a good amount of time I thought to myself "okay whatever if they are just gonna ditch me I don't care good for them. I don't need them or there ****. Screw them." Until my brother saw that I was angry. ( I was really angry not because they said hi and went inside, but because I wanted to punt the football and my brother was giving me ****) so my brother came and gave me a hug and was like "why don't they invite you anymore? Its okay you dont need them. I'm sorry." And that made me think for a while do now I'm kind of depressed again and am feeling sick. You might not understand how I am feeling. These guys were like brothers to me. We were all family friends. These guys are popular in my school. It sucks for me a lot. It feel like I was at the top but John Cena came out of nowhere and body slammed me. |
| Question: Did I do he right thing to save my job? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:58 AM PST Where I work the company owner, my boss brought in his new wife and introduced her to us employees. Our boss John is in his 40s and his new wife is in her 20s, my age. A few days later he ask me if I thought his wife was cute. I said, "I had not give it much thought but yes she is cute". It became known at the office that John was very jealous of his wife with other men. One day John ask me if I would like to "fool around with his wife". Wanting to not get involved with his personal life and wanting to keep my job I said "I would not fool around with any man's wife". He said "then you are the person to train my wife to use the company's computer system so she can help me with the business. I did not want to do that but I had no choice to do it if I wanted to keep my job. I did train her but it took a long time. After the training she told me "I owe you big time. Please let me take you to lunch to say thank you for being patient with me during the training". I told her I could only do that if her husband John came with us. She said he is very busy and probably could not find the time to join us for lunch. I told her a thank you lunch was not necessary. My thoughts were that a lunch with her without him would put my job on the line. Do you think I made the right decision about this or was I worried for nothing? |
| Question: What can I tell my friends I was doing in the back seat of my car? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST I was at a restaurant waiting to be seated for lunch with 2 of my female co workers. Walking out of the restaurant was this gorgeous woman. She had a figure to die for. 36G would be my guess. She was showing a lot of cleavage. She came over to me and gave me a hug and said "It is great to see you again George. How have you been"? We just talked for a few minutes and then we were seated in the restaurant. Just before we parted, she gave me her card and said "let's have lunch some time to catch up on old times". The last thing she said was "We sure had fun in the back seat of your car when we were in high school didn't we"? My co workers immediately said who was that beautiful woman. I told them it was an old high school girlfriend from 15 years ago. They wanted to know what I was doing in the back seat of my car with her. Can someone suggest a answer to their question that would not make me look bad? I think everyone reading this knows what I was doing in the back seat of my car but I can't tell them that. I thought I might tell them we were reading the bible. Do you think they would believe that? |
| Question: Why are young girls so hard on themselves? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:41 AM PST I remember back in elementary school, in the 5th grade I used to deprive myself of food whenever I did something wrong. (Like if I cried over something petty, I wouldn't allow myself a meal or if I answered a question wrong in class, I would lie to my parents about not being hungry for dinner) as a way of killing two birds with one stone. To rid of my flaws and become skinny. (even tho I was the skinniest one in the class) Also my little sister who's in elementary school came home and told me about her friend that would go throw up her food after she eats everyday and went to the hospital a few times but countinues doing it. What is with society? Even though I exprienced it, I still don't know why people put so much pressure on young kids to look and feel a certain way |
| Question: Why do the people i care about leave me but the ones i dont stay? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:38 AM PST all of my best friends and friends just leave even though i was always paying attention and caring to much but hey didnt care even the one that did care left but the people i hate most will no leave like what is so wrong with me all the perfect things go and then all im left with this hatred and anger |
| Question: Why do girls love to start drama? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:38 AM PST I'm in 11th grade and this 10th grader girl was always trying to start drama with me because her friends don't like me and one of her friends is dating my ex . One of my guy friends was hanging out with her and he told me that he brought me up and she started saying that I'm ugly I'm skinny and I'm a b*tch but first of all she is way skinner than me and I'm way prettier than she is not be to conceited but it's true . She threatened me one time in class and would always give me dirty looks and she talked sh*t about me in class so I went to my counselor and switched because I didn't want to deal with her unnecessary drama so I guess they called her up to the office and she started writing about me on Twitter saying "this stupid b*tch snitched on me with her b*tch ***" but she doesn't even know me lol and In middle school girls always tried to jump me I got followed home one time |
| Question: Friends: was this friend rude? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:31 AM PST You had a box of sweaters that you were washing. You placed the box of sweaters on your side, marked it. Last time your friend shrunk your sweaters so you wanted to make sure you washed them yourself. The friend snatched the box and washed them anyway, you wrestled with the friend and they started to cry. The friend yelks, "I will wash what I want. Im not wasting detergent. We wash in one load." |
| Question: My friend won't return the things I lent to her.? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:27 AM PST Long story on this one, but there's been drama going on with her for about 2 years that I've decided to no longer be a part of. However, I have lent this friend multiple books and a television to use in her college dorm (She dropped out this semester, though) I messaged her this morning, asking to pick up my things on Monday. She instantly blocked me. How do I go about getting my things back? I have more ways to message her, but don't want to be accused of harassing her. Our friendship is over, so yes, the dollar value of the items is more important than the relationship at this point. |
| Question: My coworker suddenly doesn't like me anymore? Posted: 17 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST Hi all. I have a coworker, Abby. We were never close and to me, she has a bit of an attitude and gossip issue but I always made an effort to get to know her even outside of work sometimes. I'm always very polite and helpful. Things started to get weird now that we got a new coworker. Abby immediately didn't like her and said this girl is going to me for too many things and has poor performance. I do my best to refer the new girl to Abby so she doesn't feel that way. Abby was being oddly friendly to me, then really took a dive about a month ago with me. Abby has been incredibly rude to the new girl, ignores her when she asks friendly questions, etc. And now she had started to be short with me too. I asked her small talk questions and get a one word answer then I hear Abby out in the hallway chatting it up with my other coworkers. Funnily enough, she doesn't try to gossip around me anymore so that's how I knew something was wrong! I thought about bringing it up to my boss but the management style is dysfunctional/avoidant plus Abby is his favorite. This really kind of hurt my feelings, and I'm bewildered how she can not like me when I always go out of my way to be nice and helpful. Im never, ever rude and always sweet. I thought it was because I get along with the new girl and try my best to make her feel welcome because Abby ignores her. I don't want to quit and I can't go to my boss. Do you have any ideas on why the behavior happened and how I can feel less hurt? Thanks! |
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