I am and adult now, But I grew up being ignored especially by my mother, she only gave me attention when I got sick, when I was not, I could be crying in front of her I she wont ever ask why I was crying. she was pretty cold and never showed any affection. On the contrary she was the type the beat her kids whenever they did something "wrong". I have lots of resentment towards her now. I want to heal from that awful experience of being ignored by her. How do you heal this?, I want to let go and feel I do not need her attention anymore. Now as an adult we have a "normal" relationship I talk to her on the phone, she sounds caring and thoughtful, but still the scars of her treatment still hurt in my mind.

Okay so a friend of mine had some bad situations recently. One morning, he got a video sent to him by some unknown persson. The video showed his wife, sitting on the floor (with her shirt on but pants removed and kept aside) and a guy just standing in front of her (seemed as if he was putting his cloths on or something). My friend told me, that his wife could be seen in the video cleaning the maskara and talking to that guy. Now upon asking her, she said it was just an accident. Her friend took her to his apartment, and tried to have sex with her. He forcefully removed her pants though, but she didn't let him do that. Now the question arises, if it was not by will, then how someone could sit semi naked in front of a guy (who tried to rape her) calmly and talking. The video was shot for more than half a minute and there was no wordiness on her face. Infact, when she finished the talks, she pulled her pants and put on. Now any one can figure this out if she lied to my friend whatever she said or did they really have sex? and she just cheated on my friend. Please help! You guys would agree with me, if a girl feels she's being assaulted, she would simply never act in that way. Instead, she (my friends wife) should have stood up, cried and taken a corner to make herself safe. Rather than showing her calf and talking to that asshole in a comfort zone.

Ok lets get the reccord strait she is nice and most the times a good friend. However lately she has started puberty (she is a late starter) Her dad has always only let her take a shower every other day. her dad also doesnt like hairbrushes so she never brushes her hair only uses a comb but she does have a brush somewhere over the rainbow. She has braces as well and didnt ever brush her teeth before and still doesnt. (her breath always kills me) Her house has no soap not even shampoo because their dad takes it until shower nights. she is also not allowed to shave anything until she moves out and is only allowed to shave her arm pits during basketball season Now before you tell me Im to overly concerned. I am doing this for my own good her good and mine and her other friends good. this is also not a form of abuse where I live and cannot tell you the state because she is on yahoo. so if there is anything I can do Now the shower thing Im not sure it really is an issue because her siblings are allowed to shower whenever they want. and she has told me before that she hadnt showered in 3 weeks one time

In my English class we have to write a 14 line sonnet about any subject and have one other student in the class read it. The girl that I have liked since about 8th grade (I am in 10th grade right now, don't judge me I am very shy) is in the same class, and I have been considering writing the poem about her and having her read it. Also I don't know her very well. How do you guys/girls think she will react? Do you think this is a good idea?

They tell me to be patient and that the right one's out there and "You never know" or whatnot, but I know that since I'm in grad school in a foreign country, that right now I have to do whatever it takes to pass since we have to write papers and a couple seminar papers and pass a foreign language test, and dating only makes it more complicated. And I'm just so tired of them telling me that. And I try to tell them that self-respecting ladies don't want to date broke guys, even if those broke guys are nice guys. And if you're in such loser-hood, you've got to dig yourself out and do whatever it takes to make it in this economy. Now don't get me wrong I treat all ladies with respect and I kinda see some really cute ladies around on my campus but I'm smart enough to recognize that none of them would ever work out with me or at least probably can sense I like them and so keep me friendzoned which I'm perfectly fine with since I don't have to commit. They fear I'll be lonely and miserable and sad and regretting it, but I honestly don't care since you can still have good friendships and do fun stuff you want to do rather than be tied down. I think my family deep down is praying and begging secretly that I'll find someone here but I know it'll never happen and besides I'm not interested.

I'm already 18 and my prom is in May and my parents are refusing to let me go. They're very strict and never let me go anywhere I am so serious no where at all even if I offer for them to come with me. I want to go because it's senior year and it's one of my last chances to have a good time with my classmates. How do I go when they won't let me help?

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This is in Marriage and Divorce I've noticed this situation in my own home as s child somewhat and I'm older its happened to myself and on the internet. Maybe difficult to explain but it seems like stalkerish/arrogance Not sure what their problem is, its like lost time Explain how casual stalking is abusive

So I like this guy who goes to my University. I know him for a little over a year, I think he likes me too, because he is always putting is arms around me, he blushes every time we talk, when we hug he lets his hand linger on my shoulders. I don t know what to do...should I tell him how I feel about him? I don t know what to do!

23 (female) No friends, no love life and has been depressed my whole life. My family has painted me to be the one with the issues. I have endured so much pain and abuse (not physically, but extreme emotional abuse). I've been told no one will ever love me or like me. I've been trying to get away. I'm finally moving out of state... and has plans to cut them off. Not because I hate, but because I need to heal from a lot of pain. My older brother is threatening to ruin my life and spread rumors. How do I just move away and never look back? I'm scared and don't want other family or other people to think the lies are true. He also told me that a man will wound up beating me and almost killing me before one ever love me. I'm not ugly, guys hit on me all the time... I just shy away because I don't feel good for no man or anyone. I'm not slow, clingy or the desperate type... But my family think I ain't worth anything and so do I How do I make it? I want to die man.

My sister Amy whose 16 was in school last week. And a guy (17) went up and grabbed under her skirt, grasping her bum. He grabbed all around UNDER her underwear, & between her legs! (not his first assault too)! Amy turned round and kicked him hard, in the groin! She had heavy shoes on (like steel) as she's a goth. The guy fell down and cried. A teacher intervened. BOTH got suspended, but HE wouldn't return to school soon anyway, due to his injuries! Amy kicked him SO hard, with such hard shoes. Mainly at the base of his penis. He was too embarassed or macho to go right to the doctor, but he actually had a lot of damage to the tissue of his penis! By the time he went to the hospital it was too late, so he seriously had to have his entire penis removed!!! They re-routed his urethra so he could still pee (like a girl), but he lost his penis forever! Meaning no sex now! Despite this, the parents have actually managed to come to an agreement about this matter though, & police agreed not to get involved. But: 1. Do you think she did the right thing? 2. Are you happy or sad that he lost his penis (and WHY)? 3. Will he feel pleasure with girls now? Or ever "bust a nut"? 4. What do you think about him having to pee like a girl? And feel like one now!? 5. Amy's girl friends are gonna leave him an anonymous message (in his locker). What do you think they should write on it?... & what special "presents" should they leave him (since he's basically feminine down there now)? .

I mean where do these guys usually hang out and what type of women are they attracted to? I'd really wanna date one but i imagine they have very high standards and i don't know anything about finance/maths I'm looking for a miracle I'm really attracted to this image of power and status, i always found such guys charming Lawyers and engineers are also welcome Anonymous you don't know me in person or you don't know anything about my socio-economical situation or education. I use abbreviations most of the time because it is more convenient for me. I may not know anything about maths and science but there is also arts&humanities on this word. Literature, philosophy and art. Maybe the capitalist market doesn't regard literary graduates as useful, but no matter what you think words and ideas can change the world. I take your answer as a huge insult. If I wall street guys are as shallow and cynical as you, then no thanks I can do better *it is more convenient to me *there are also arts&humanities on this world

My brother has a friend whom of which is in the process of getting a divorce. His friend through some means no longer has the phone number of his current wife. My brother has his wife's phone number since being he is also her friend as well. Being stuck in the middle of a crumbling marriage, naturally the husband is trying to get his wife's number from my brother. My brother is non compliant because he doesn't want to be in the middle of it all. Question: does my brother legally in any technicality, have to give the phone number that is being asked from him.

We got close quickly then had some rocky patches. Things are good now and I can see a future with him. I have joked about marriage before and he made it clear he doesn't want that. I joked about it again during a romantic evening last night and he got mad at me. I cried and he said if I want marriage then I should find someone else. He doesn't want marriage , with anyone because he thinks it's a waste of money. I said I want commitment and security but he said he is committed to me and doesn't need marriage to prove it. He says he wants kids with me still. I feel like he's afraid of commitment. His parents divorced. I would like marriage but I don't want to leave him. I dont know what to do. I'm 23 and he's 28

Why does my guy friend keeps on looking at my girlfriend while he is talking to me? She was also looking at him. He seemed upset when he found out I was going out with her as I didn't tell him. He has a girlfriend though. He sent my girlfriend friend request too.

A boss(Multi millionare,Beautiful wife and kid) whom i work under was nice with me and later told he likes me.He offered me a job .I wanted a job very badly.I started to like him.He wants to have affair with me.He told he wont leave his wife.He tried to be physical with me..I refused later .I got fired from the job.He threw me out of the company.I never liked him before.He made me like him so much.Now im in a difficult position .I am not able to forget him.Without a heart he never commited to marry me also at the same time he threw me out.I like him still now.I wasted two years for him.Now Im without job and very much depressing..Its hurting me very much.why does he have to do that to me..I was never interested in the beginning.please help me.

I'm 15-years-old. Chinese (with round eyes). and Black hair. I have pimples which I have been working hard to get rid of but they're not entirely gone. I watched a video by Connie Talbot, her hair tutorial video, and she looked so pretty, I wish I had clear skin and looked like her. Some people look at me like I'm (different) and not in a good way. Older kids in my school say that she (Connie) is beautiful and unique but I'm (different) [meant in a bad way] and couldn't be as pretty as her even if I didn't have pimples. How do I feel more confident in myself? ***I'm a girl!!***

I recently had surgery in October. At my appointment where I got the pin removed out of my wrist my doctor and I made small talk, I saw he had the same exact phone as me in the same color so I mentioned it (he was taking pictures of my wrist - I have a deformity so he reconstructed my wrist)! Anyways, while we were talking he always kept constant eye contact and smiling non stop. He said my case was the hardest of 2015, and he smiled saying "you were a challenge". Lol anyways, He complimented me on my appearance. I recently cut my hair to an a line bob. I hadn t seen him personally for 3 months and he remembered how long my hair was before. And he noticed I dyed my hair a different color red (not much of a difference either, just a tad brighter)! He then asks how I been and I told him my boyfriend cheated on me with a female co worker, my doctor looks me dead in the eyes and says in the most kindest way "you should of left him" and I agreed, I should of because I can t trust him now. As I was getting ready to leave he says "come give me a hug" his arms where already out. So I hugged him. The only time he didn t keep eye contact was when he was looking at my X-rays and pulling the pin out.

Physically, emotionally; what your thoughts are in the moment, etc. The more descriptive, the better. Thank you very much.

a girl that doesn't dress overboard or use makeup, likes video games, likes action movies, plays sports, is adventurous. vs. a maybe prettier girl that worries about the way she's dressing and makeup, hates video games, has watched every disney animated movie a thousand times and likes romantic movies, and is afraid to get her hands dirty. guys usually say they prefer the 1st one, but when they can choose between the 1st and the 2nd, they go with the 2nd girl. So, HONESTLY, which type do you prefer and why?

My middle school is doing Peter Pan, but I am just mad as to why I'm not a good part. As sort of a disclaimer, I don't mean to come off as rude or anything, because these things are true. So I am currently casted as Jukes the pirate. The role doesn't have any lines, it doesn't have any good singing parts, and I am a better actress than what they gave me this part for. One of the directors' daughters is the lead, WENDY, a seventh grade girl. I mean, I kind of expected it, but in previous years, all the directors talked about was letting eighth graders be leads since they would be leaving. Now that that director's daughters have left and won't be in the plays anymore, I guess she's been drifting off to what she said and is being hypocritical. As for the new male director, the one whose daughter is Wendy, it just so happens that all her seventh grade peers have "good" roles, too. This year, only around 15 eighth graders joined, but most of them got lead parts, such as Mr. and Mrs. Darling, Peter Pan, etc. I didn't try out to be Peter Pan, but I know I can sing as well as act better than more than half of the people who auditioned. Isn't it fishy that the director's daughter and all her friends are main roles. Also, sixth graders have main roles, CAPTAIN HOOK, MERMAIDS, FAIRIES. I am just a pirate in Captain Hook's crew who comes in st the last minute of the show. Is having no part in the play when I know my full potential worth it? It's $150 to join the drama club, too? Help!

Okay, I don t absolutely know where to start but I just have to let this out. I am in a long distant relationship, we have different religion and beliefs and we love eachother so much. But these factors are not my main problem focus. It s Marriage. I am afraid of marriage so much that you can t imagine how I am so afraid with it. I hate devorce and to be honest a role as a Women, I am not into cooking and all that stuff. I don t want to get into relationship but what can I do ? I am already so much hooked into this relationship. I want to live on my own, have a small apartment, cook on my own at any time, day no commitment just living with my life and work. I am still 18 but seeing my parents, like how women should do like this or like that. I felt so much pressure with my dad saying I should do this because I m a girl. I am so sorry but I have to say this in my mouth BUT It is so fuc**** annoying. I felt so unpround of myself. I love my parents so much but being with them made me feel so stubborn in the family. For sure I don t live like a queen in house, I move . I hate being lazy. I have studies going on which my dad would not even dare to help me. My dad hates muslim, somalians my bf is a muslim. I have so much things going on with my live that I want to get out. I love my boyfriend so much, he means a lot to me , he is my first. But marriage is not something for me. Not that I can think of. Should I let him go? Please help.

If a girl gets an abortion and still with the guy, is the guy still a father in some sort way? Or a baby's dad? ...

We are both attracted to each other, is there anything bad that could happen? Because we lost our virginitys to each other and after that he said its not good for us. Just wondering if its health issues or something? And yes I know its really weird.

At 15, you say to yourself, by 18 I will find someone. At 18, you say, by 21 I will find someone. At 21, you say by 24 I will find someone. At 24. you are still alone. Alone, and developed as a loner, with no understanding of how to function in a relationship. At what point do you abandon ever finding someone, and use your loneliness as an advantage in life?

I've never actually been bullied before or made fun of. I have a lot of friends and I fit in fine. There were these group of boys who are a year older than me and they started liking my Instagram pictures and laughing while I was in the same room as them. I thought they were just messing around with me because they were bored. A month later the same thing happened with the same group of boys. I then started noticing them starring at me a lot along with their other friends who are girls. One of them threw a bottle cap at my lunch table and one of the girls turned around and laughed. i was really confused on the whole situation at first because they only did these things when I was in the cafeteria. I saw them in the halls all the time and they just ignored me. until today one of the girls looked at me and laughed. then another girl purposely walked into me and my friend when we were in the hallway. I just really don't understand why because I have a lot of friends. I'm not popular but I'm not a loser ethier. I'm not over weight, I wear the rightamount of makeup, people tell me I'm pretty and I think I'm pretty.I just don't get it.

I like this guy at work at a warehouse I used to work at with my mother. I don't know him but I would always see him around and my mother would talk to him a lot. Tommorrow we are however stopping by there for a while to talk to the manager and hopefully maybe look for the guy really fast n talk to him n try to get his fb or number. Ik it sounds lame but since we don't really know each other my mom will b the one to ask him..any advice? I genuinely want to be his friend and get to know him I go to an all girls college and job i don't really meet to many guys I like and I really like him there's nothing to lose if you try I'm not a bad person

I never come in first place, I don't support the team , I cant take directions and my socks are never clean.....teachers dated me , my parents hated me, I was always in a fight ,cause I can't do nothing right...

cuz he already has a phone and he really cant because there was an icloud account and we didnt know the pw.in able to download apps we have to put the pw and we didnt know.so when my phone broke I just thought Id use the spare one and figure out how to unlock it somehow.So I asked him b4 I even tried to fix it,can I have the phonehe said yeah idc his exact wordsso I went home from after school and did research.It took me from 5 till 1 in the morning to unlock the phone.I noticed the phone was on 13℅ &I didnt have a charger.I ran to quickchek and bought acharger and that was $20.the next day he saw me using it.&I remember him saying that when I get a phone he will take back the iPhone&I saidWhy would I buy a phone if you already gave this to meyou cant take it back you Gave it to me he said yeah I can.I got sooo mad like wtf.he said he was gonna sell it.like he shouldve told me that before he even gave it to me.& i bought 2cases for that phone.we had an argument 1 time&he took MY iPhone and locked it.he changed my password and forgot it.I was soooo mad.and I went to get it reset and all my **** got deleted.we argued again and he said "gimme MY phone"BROO I threw that **** to his face.like I was so heated everything just went black.I cried and he thinks its about the phoneits not even about that.its about how selfish he isLike I m his girlfriend for ***** sake,hes so materialisti hed rathersell the phone than text me or let me have a phoneam I wrong for being mad is he selfish

(hint: parents were too late to extract me a birth certificate)

So I recently bought a farm with lots of goats but no chickens. Can I exchange the babies for some birds?

My husband's brother (and best friend) passed away in April 2015 from cancer. They shared a love for sports like football and basketball. Fast forward months later, and now my husband is constantly texting his late brother's wife about football and basketball games, scores, fantasy leagues, you name it. I get that they both connect about sports, but it makes me feel awkward. Sports on TV aren't my favorite, but I'm trying to be a more supportive partner by watching stuff with him. So now when I'm sitting right next to my husband, asking him a question about whatever game we're watching, he's sometimes distracted by texting back and forth. It drives me INSANE when I'm sitting RIGHT THERE! I did look at his phone one day because I was thinking, "Okay, Anita, you have nothing to be jealous of." And to my surprise, the texts were really tame--from him. She texts him a lot and instigates a lot of the conversations. The other thing: we were talking about going to a Laker's game all together in February, but I wasn't sure if I was able to go. I made a comment that it'd be weird if just he and my sis-in-law would still go if it was just the two of them. He gave me the strangest look and said, "It's weird that you think it's weird." Umm, excuse me? I think it's weird that you're defending your relationship with HER to your WIFE! Is this a healthy bond? Shouldn't he try to connect with me instead? Is this just the grief talking?

Me and my fiancé have been together for 3 years and he recently proposed to me a couple months ago in November. I can honestly say that there are way more good times than bad in our relationship and I can not see myself with anyone else but we argue about the same things OVER and OVER again which is usually about the way he does things in his home. We don t live together as of now yet ( I want to move in closer to the date we get married) and he feels as though I can t have a say so in certain things because I don t pay any bills at the moment and I don t live there. For example, if it s daytime, he doesn t want me turning on any lights but to open the blinds which I find plain ridiculous. I have to basically get dressed and eat in the dark and this drives me crazy because we continually argue about this. He says he doesnt want his electric bill to get higher smh. I feel this is unfair and situations like this stress me out. I want to go to a counselor now but he says he wants to go closer to our wedding date. It s many situations like this. Everything is the opposite of what I say and it really makes me sick. Pls someone help !!!!