Family: Question: I am working as a cam model for myfreecams, but I need a cover up for my family.?

Question: I am working as a cam model for myfreecams, but I need a cover up for my family.?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 01:03 PM PST

I am currently working as a cam model and loving it! I make good money to pay for rent and living expenses. Although, my family does not know and they are beginning to wonder how I make so much money from home. For the sake of respect, I do not want to tell my older relatives what I do. Any ideas as to what I should tell them my job is?

Question: Please tell me what you think about this situation(a fight between partners)?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 01:02 PM PST

I live with my partner and we've been together for 2 and a half years. We just recently bought a blender and my partner used it yesterday and I washed it today when I was doing dishes(I'm the one who stays home longer so I always do dishes). After washing the blender, I placed the pieces on countertop so that they can be dried(I like to dry everything before I reassemble because I'm afraid it gets molded). Then I had to cook our breakfast on the countertop so I moved the pieces of the blender by the window except the 'blade assembly'. After breakfast, my partner got up to make smoothie using the blender. And after few minutes, my partner started yelling at me. Milk was spilled all over because she/he thought the blender was completely assembled. I said "I was still drying the blender and you should have checked if everything was in place before using it when I obviously washed it an hour ago". My partner kept raising voice, yelling, so I started yelling too. She/he started cursing at me and calling me using a cursing word. I was shocked she/he called me that so I started doing the same. I don't think she/he remembers calling me with the cursing word because after few minutes, she/he started asking why I was cursing. So we had a rather violent fight where a lot of cursing words and yelling were involved. What do you think of this situation? Was I that 'stupid' and 'wrong' to let the blender dry and as my partner said, 'make it look like it was perfectly reassembled'?

Question: Have any men ever adopted their wife's surname instead of the usual other way around?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 12:53 PM PST

Question: I think my brother could be gay?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 12:52 PM PST

He's 14 now. He seems pretty normal. He plays football and swims a lot. But he doesn't talk about girls much at all. Most of the singers he's into are young male singers. Also, he has this same boy over to do homework and play video games a lot, or goes to his house. And right before he comes over, my brother will tidy up his hair and put on deodorant, and mouthwash and stuff. And yesterday when his friend was over to study/game, I was upstairs, and all of a sudden I realized it was really quiet. I thought his friend had gone home. So I came down to make sure my brother had tidied everything up. His friend was still there. They weren't really doing anything. They didn't see me. But they were sitting really close and might have pulled away from each other. I don't know, but I think they might have been kissing. I don't know what to do. I think my brother might be gay. What do I do if he is?? Should I be okay with it? I've never been faced with something like this. How should I deal with him? Should I tell him he can't have his friend over anymore? Or let them keep hanging out? I'm pretty much in charge of him since I live at home, pay rent, and my parents work all the time and travel.

Question: Forgetting.....?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 12:30 PM PST

I am 14 years old. All my life my dad has been verbally and physically abusing my brother and I. My mom and dad separated 2 years ago, and since then it hasn't happened again but I am thinking and stressing about it more now then ever. My mom never knew about this until resonantly because she would go away at the weekends (for work and my sisters sports) and leave me and my bro alone with him. I have been to counselling and therapy but it's not helping :( Any ideas on how to forgot an ever lasting nightmare!?

Question: Can my restrained ex have me evicted from residence?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 12:24 PM PST

we live in san jose- apt is owned by a private company- the office manager has known for years that i have been here and has allowed it.despite my daughter and i not being on the lease can i be served with a 3 day?

Question: Daughter wants to date?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:59 AM PST

She's 12. Now, maybe I'm just old fashioned, but, back in my day, dating was a 14+ activity. I don't know what started this or put this seed in her head, but she told me she was going to start dating. Being a responsible dad I said absolutely not, no way, you're too young. Now she says she hates me, is never speaking to me again, and can't wait to move out. Do I maybe allow the dating on 2nd thought?

Question: Kids vs Mommy?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST

We need help. Our parents dropped us off at mommy's house (our parents friend, but we call her mommy even though she is our parents friend). We have to stay here until Saturday afternoon, well now until Sunday night. And She has not been feeling okay this morning and we don't know what to do. Her voice is scratchy, she has been putting an ice pack on her head, she keeps taking small medicine, and we don t know what to do. She keeps getting out of bed when we tell her to rest. She's taking her nap now and we don't know what to do for her. Can anybody help us? The question is supposed be How can we take care of mommy?

Question: Where should I go? (PLEASE ANSWER)?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:47 AM PST

In a little bit my dad is gonna be on lunch break and he is gonna take me with him since I did my first final exam ever. I am a freshmen in high school. what restaurant should my dad take me to? Mc Donalds, KFC, Burger King, In-n Out, The Habbit, etc. please let me know. my dad has a great income on his job since he told me that. what restaurant should he take me go? I just noticed there was a typo, instead of go, I meant to write to?

Question: I can't take living with my family.?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:39 AM PST

I'm a 17 guy I know every teen says this but really. I'm sick of fist fights, alcohol, strict rules against the only good child, and how my siblings get money when they just spend it on loans. I'm not allowed to work a job. My mom and dad don't work so we don't have money. Lol it sounds so dumb if I ask to get a job my mom says no then I say ok then buy me what I need and am met with no. (Me and my dad haven't spoken since I was in 6th grade although he lives with us and that won't change if I have any say about it). My mom lends her friends and her other kids all way older then me money. I'm the youngest by 7 years and I know that's dumb. All my siblings do is take out loans. As someone who wants to make money in business I can tell you their quote on quote plan is retarded. When I ask how I will pay for college since my mom moved me across the country away from my full ride scholarships (no they aren't here they where from a program in Saint Louis) to one of the worst schools in my state she says that's what loans are for..... I am sick of this. I was thinking at 16 it's legal to change your name so I would change mine and just leave if not I guess theirs alway the cowards way out.... Whatever I'll prob go with the ladder

Question: Is this heartless?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:36 AM PST

My elderly aunt is terribly bullying my dad(her brother) for working for her because her younger sister wants his job. He has never wronged her in any way. But yet she is a afraid of firing him because she doesn't want her relatives to comment behind her back saying that shes a bad sister for firing her own brother.

Question: How do I manage my household with a baby and a toddler?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:32 AM PST

Lately my 4 year old step son has been extremely needy. He went on a hunger strike for a few days, and I practically had to force feed him. Now he is following me everywhere (which I usually like) but he is fussing over everything, breaking things, and he won't let me rest for a moment when I finally get the baby to sleep. I totally understand the sibling rivalry, I do. I have 4 siblings myself. I have tried to explain to him that daddy and I still love him very much. I try to include him in housework and baby stuff, but he is still so fussy. It doesn't help that he got sick and I had to keep him and the baby separated for a few days.What do I do? I am so exhausted! I don't know what else to do! What am I doing wrong?

Question: What is my mother's second cousins grandchild in relation to me?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 11:22 AM PST

Question: My parents want me to move out?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:55 AM PST

I m nineteen and currently have no job and my parents want me to move out. They re basically wanting me to go to the streets since I have no source of income or anyone to help me in that situation. Everydays a constant battle with them since they argue that. i don t help them pay any bills, that I m lazy,good for nothing. And sometimes I do feel like leaving their house but feel like things will probably get better. Besides everything I am on the autism spectrum and it makes it hard for me to interact efficiently to work in a job.

Question: Please help me with my relationship with my mother and my life.?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:45 AM PST

My mother went to college for fashion design. She had a career in that field for a long time... but then she was caught shop lifting. She's tried getting a professional job, but she couldn't. So, she decided it would be a good idea to become a full time nanny through one of those nanny sites (The DIY ones, like craigslist.) . When she first told me, my brother and my father, she said it was a way to make a lot of money and "SPEND MORE TIME WITH THE FAMILY". My father is on disability and had 12 surgeries in the last 13 years. He constantly has terrible headaches. My mother now works 7 days a week and comes home every night at 11:00pm - 2:30am. She leaves at 6:30 in the morning. My brother and I never get to see her, even on weekends. On the rare times I DO see her, sometimes she stops by to eat dinner (she brings the baby she nannies for with her as they usually are out all day shopping anyway), she treats the baby like her own and hardly pays attention to us.. doesn't engage in conversation... I know I sound like a little brat, but from the time I was 3 up until I was about 7, she was having an affair while my father was going through all his surgeries. My grandmother practically raised me as some nights my mother never came home and when she did I was asleep. My brother is online homeschooled, so he is pretty much locked away every single say from morning to night, so we don't really talk unless we are having a meal. My father doesn't feel good. I am also online homeschooled, so I have no friends and no interaction what so ever. I pretty much take care of my parent's house all day. I am a 15 year old girl and I feel like I am wasting my life away... My mom promised me last week that she'd come home early tonight so we could talk and watch a movie. I was looking forward to it all week and now she says she has to work until 12:00 am. What should I do? I feel miserable and am on the verge of breaking down!! And it's not even like she HAS to work! My parents are doing pretty well...She goes to the mall with the baby she nannies for and I always see new clothing in the wash.. I just want us to be close!

Question: Do I cut contact with my cousin?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:42 AM PST

Idk where to start, I've known her my whole life, she even used to babysit me when I was like 3. But she's always been so annoying like she's such a diva. She believes she's the center of the universe & tbh she's an over grown 17 year old. At 37 she expects everyone to care about her life & feels because she wants to go to an expensive nightclub the whole fam has to as well. She's such a hypocrite for a Christian, she got engaged to this guy after dating him for a month & than she divorced him because she was finally considered legal. And she flirts w/ me all the time & im at fault too. She's got a giant butt which she uses to get boy toys. I saw denim booty shorts & a condom in her SUV when I rode in it once. We've flirted a lot & I know she's my cousin but I can't resist her like she's annoying but she turns me on. I know it's morally wrong but I invited her to my apartment for "Netflix & chill" & we did it. I hate to say I did that but I did, I enjoyed it but it feels wrong. Like she doesn't want to grow up she twerks right in front of me & sends me videos of her in a pole dancing class. It's not right she's my cousin, that's not a good look professionally. If I get married I doubt I'd invite her. I'm 18 btw, if we weren't related I'd sleep w/ her everyday but idk man

Question: Do you think my wife will cheat with old work friend? She left sent items open and I found these. Since kids she has lost interest in sex...?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:34 AM PST

Question: How do I finish what my grandfather started?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:33 AM PST

Question: Is there a name for a person that is not related to the family, in any language, that acts as a second parent to the child?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST

Question: Can inhaling Dog Pee and Poop cause you health issues?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:09 AM PST

I live in a small apartment and sleep in the living room. My grandmother has a room and my aunt and uncle have a room. My aunt and uncle have 2 dogs and a cat. They never clean the cat box, and their room is dirty. They have clothes all over the place and trash and it smells because they let their dogs piss and **** in their room. They never take them outside. I never go in their room but I m having a hard time breathing, having bad headaches, and I m always nauseous. Could it be caused from all of that?

Question: Adopting my nice ?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:07 AM PST

I recently lost my twin brother & its really hard,its like a part of me has gone.He lost his wife during childbirth,leaving him with their daughter.The girl is 3 yrs now & she was at our parents home during the time my brother passing(accident).My parents were just broken & my mom was taken in the room by dad,as he didnt want her to cry infront nor tell of the child what happened coz it could tauramatize her.I returned to my home state the next day to meet my parents & niece.My neice jumped up,hugging me saying,"hi daddy,where have you been?"I was about to burst out crying but for the girl,I held in my tears & didn't want to make her cry,that her dad is not coming back.She still believes I'm her dad,she knows she has an uncle,but thinks I'm in another state.His funeral took place,we didn't get our necie & kept her home with a babysitter.I came to a hard decision with my parents & the parents of my late sis-in-law that I would adopt my neice & raise her in my brother's place & I will 'be' my brother for her.Its coz I love her,I can't bear to see a girl who lost her mom as a baby,still so young,now having to know that her only other parent has died.As for the uncle,I will avoid talking about myself to her,to the point where she grows up forgetting about him(that's actually me)& I would even change my first name to my brother's,put away photos of us together & relocate with the girl to a new place.I just want her to be happy,but I'm very depressed & torn,must I really do this???

Question: I hate living with people? Am I a bad person?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 10:02 AM PST

I am 14 and I'm tired with living with other people in the same house. I hate the noise because my family is loud and obnoxious. I love them but... I can't explain ugh. I live with 5 people, My mom, dad, grandpa, sister, and brother. We have 3 bedrooms but my siblings sleep in the basement (they are 9 and 4, idk why they just like the basement) but they still always come to my room and play and make it messy! I am super introverted and I am also super clean. I don't mind it when it's just my mom because she's not that loud because she's usually talking to someone on the phone. I also don't mind it when my brother is away in his OWN room. Am I a bad person? I feel very stressed in loud environments, I have anxiety and depression. My parents are super strict too so they won't let me go out and relax. What should I do? My mom gets mad when I close the door or use the laptop too much. My parents are from Pakistan but I was born in America and Pakistani parents don't like the idea of kids moving out. My parents will let me move out but probably not at age 18. I don't want to hurt their feelings. Please no racist answers. Oh and my dad wants to call HIS parents over to live with us!! I probably won't be able to make my own rules even after age 18.

Question: Question about relationship?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 09:39 AM PST

My current boyfriend is having an issue getting my my last relationship, as well as a small situation that followed it. Since I can first remember, my dad was abusive to my mother. Mentally and physically, constantly. This is pretty much all I remember from my childhood. My mother being sent away in ambulances, having people who I always stayed with when this happened, I had hiding spots in the house for when my dad got angry, etc. It was a mess. I also believe he sexually abused me when I was younger. He attempted to shoot and kill my family once, and my parents divorce happened because he tried killing my mother. For two years, I wasn't allowed to see him. After that, I had to. I was forced to. Until I was around 12/13 (and I stopped seeing him), he made me sleep in his bed with him. I had to be EXACTLY who he wanted me to be. Honestly, I hated him. But I couldn't let him see that. I had to fit the mold of what he wanted me to be. I couldn't share my opinions, unless they were the same as his. I couldn't act how I wanted, unless it was what he wanted. I felt trapped. I hated going there; I was so scared. After I stopped seeing him, I got in a relationship with a guy. He was the EXACT same way my dad was. He was very controlling, mean, abusive, etc. He didn't actually care about me, but he pretended to. When we weren't together, he'd text me and tell me how much he loved me, etc., but when we were together he'd completely ignore me unless THE REST OF THIS QUESTION IS IN THE COMMENTS, PLEASE READ IT ALL

Question: Would this be disability abuse? Read comment below.?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 09:31 AM PST

My mom is taking my social security and only gives me $85 a month. She criticizes erythema I do, say, who I am with, and wear. I feel like that I am in shell in my life. She even get mad when she has to take somewhere when she knows that I can't drive and take the bus. I am over 18 years old and disabled.

Question: How do you get an overprotective mother to let me go and let you live your life?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST

I am over 18 years old and disabled. I am having problems with my mom where she is not letting me go and let me live my life. She thinks that I am going to do something wrong. I understand that I am not perfect, but she don't let me be the person I want to be. Please help me!

Question: My stepmother keeps her distance from me but tries to take advantage of my sister. Why is that?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 09:14 AM PST

So my stepmother takes advantage of my sisters niceness. For example she invited people without asking my sister if it was ok to her wedding. What does my sister do? Doesn't say anything and greets them with a smile. Then I on the other hand, my stepmother has not invited one person to my wedding. There have been times where I told my stepmother to **** herself and back the **** off. Therefore she never tries to pull her **** she pulls with my sister.

Question: How do you shut someone up when they are trying to find fault in you even if it is your mom?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 09:07 AM PST

I was talking to my mom and she tried to find fault in me eating poorly. She criticize me and told me that I would gain my weight back and I told her that I am not going to gain my weight back. I am over 18 and disabled. What to do?

Question: Did we do something wrong with my daughter's tutor?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:57 AM PST

I got a note from the school that my 16 year old daughter Lisa was failing math and they recommended a tutor to help her. They sent a list of tutors home with Lisa and I started calling them. All of the tutors were very expensive. Being a single mom, I just could not afford them. I knew a family friend that I thought knew enough math to tutor her and I hoped he would be a lot cheaper. His name was Bill and he was a college senior. I called Bill and asked him if he would tutor Lisa and he agreed to do if for free. He was a great guy for doing this for her. He did tutor Lisa for 3 months. When Lisa got her grade card, she got an A in math. We were both VERY HAPPY and asked Bill go come over so we could tell him the GREAT NEWS. When we told him Lisa's math grade he said that is wonderful news. Lisa told Bill she had to thank him for his help so she kissed him. After she was through kissing him Bill turned to me and said "your turn". I was so excited I kissed him also. We all had a good laugh and a group hug. Bill said "if you need any more help with school subjects, just call me". Some of my friends that I told about this told me what we did was not appropriate and that Bill would get the wrong idea. My take on this is that if Bill was happy and my daughter and I were happy, there is no problem. We were just having fun. What do you think? Did we do something wrong?

Question: Did I do the right thing for my younger sisters?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:54 AM PST

I am an 19 year old guy with 2 younger sisters. I like them a lot and try to protect them as much as I can. I also like to have my buddies at my house just to hang out. With the hot weather my sisters don't wear much clothes around the house. I told then they had to put on more clothes when my buddies were around. They ask me why? I told my sisters they guys get erections when they see women without many clothes on. They said what is an erection. I believe in truthfully answering all their questions so I told them what an erection was. They ask me if I would show them one and I declined to do that. They ask me if I ever got an erection from seeing them without much clothes. I told them no and explained what incest was. I told them people do not normally get sexually turned on by siblings. Did I do the right thing by educating them on these subjects. Don't they teach this stuff in sex education at school?

Question: How should I feel about what my mom is doing with my friends?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:44 AM PST

My problem started when I invited some of my high school friends for a sleep over at my house. These girls bonded with my mom who is a doctor mostly because they could ask her questions about their body and mostly about their reproductive system. Mom gave them correct information and corrected MANY errors in their thinking about their bodies. This info really opened their eyes and hopefully made for less teenage pregnancies. These girls told their friends about the sleep over and several other girls ask if I would have another sleep over and invite them. I did this and had the same result. They all wanted to talk to my mom about their bodies. I did this 4 times. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I feel a little bit unusual about sharing my mom with these girls. Mom is always available to answer their questions as she has seen the tragic consequences of bad information on teen girls lives. Should I be proud that my mom is available to give these girls the facts of life. Why is it they feel so free to talk to my mom with their questions and will not talk to their parents.

Question: Parents reaction to smoking weed?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:39 AM PST

I'm a senior in high school and my parents are always telling their friends how good of a kid I am. I get good grades in school and got accepted to every college I applied to. I also work about 20 hours a week. It isn't much but my parents are always proud to tell their friends I'm working and stuff. So I got curious about a month ago and bought some wax and a hash pen (weed). I tried it two or three times and it didn't really do anything for me, so I planned on getting rid of it the next day (would be this morning). My dad smelled it (I packed everything I had into the pen so I could throw away the container), and flipped ****. He said that I would lose my car, that I will have to quit my job (no notice), that I would lose my phone and computer for the rest of the semester, and that I couldn't leave the house except for school for the rest of the semester. I tried to tell him that I didn't smoke more than three times and was planning to get rid of it, but he refused to talk. So I told my mom what was going on and she was disappointed in me, but did think that my dad was overreacting (she did smoke pot at my age). The worst of it all is that this morning I left for school and said "bye dad, I love you". And he just replied with "sure". What do you guys think? Obviously I deserve some consequence, but do you think my dad is overreacting? Sorry for the long explanation. I'm not about being a stoner or anything guys. I tried it a few times, it didn't interest me, so I was going to get rid of it.

Question: How do I talk to my husband about this?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:39 AM PST

I have heard a lot of stories about mother in law problems from my married friends but mine is just the opposite. My husbands mother Mary is my best friend. To start with she produced the man I married. I just adore her. I recently had surgery and could not stay by myself for a week. She came and stayed with me for a week and took care of me so my husband did not have to take a week off work which we could not afford. She cooked and cleaned and took care of everything. I am now fully recovered thanks a lot to her great care. Her meals were to die for. We go shopping/looking about once a week and it is something we both greatly enjoy. She recently told me that she would like to start dating again and hopefully get married. Her problem is she did not think her son, my husband would approve. She is a very young looking 40+ woman. When some people see us together they think we are sisters. A great compliment for her. I told her the truth which is she is a beautiful woman and would make any guy a trophy wife. She will not have any trouble finding a guy that would want to marry her. She has a gorgeous figure. I wish mine was that good. I told her if male companionship would make her happy, she should do it NOW. She ask me to talk to my husband to see how he would feel if she remarried. Someone please give me some advice on how approach this subject with my husband.

Question: Is what my brother did a normal thing for a guy to do?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:36 AM PST

My 13 year old brother and I were in the back seat of our parents car going on a trip. I felt sleepy and laid down with my head on his lap. Soon something big was poking me in the back of the head. I got up and looked at my brother. Oh My God. He had a b0ner. He was VERY EMBARRASSED and started to apologize immediately. I really felt bad about the problem I had caused him. I told him no need to apologize. Wanting to make him feel better, I said you have something to be proud of. He said what is that? I told him he was hung like a horse. He smiled and said thanks sis. I feel a lot better now. You are the greatest sister ever. Please tell me if you think I handled this situation in a good way. Is there a better way than what I did. Gals, what would you have done? Is my brother getting a b0ner a normal thing for a guy that age to do?

Question: Is it weird to send a mom gift after birth and not dad?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:34 AM PST

My nephew was born today and I sent my sister-in-law a personalized necklace with the birthstone and baby's initial. Is it bad that I sent her this gift and sent nothing to the new Dad?

Question: Should I invite my mother to my graduation?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:29 AM PST

I am graduating college in May and I really don't want my mother to come. Throughout my life she has been really evil towards me and has tried every method to hurt me. And lately I feel like she has been working over time. I live with her unfortunately and she has been saying things like in June Im moving. Meaning youll be homeless. It doesn't bother me because I am working on moving so hopefully by June I'll be gone. I haven't mentioned this to anyone because I want it to be a surprise. I won't have to be threatened with homelessness. I really am tired of her,I feel like she's jealous of me. She and my older sister are working together in trying to drive me insane. My friends even notice this, Now I feel like my mother shouldn't be invited to such a big accomplishment in my life. What should I do?

Question: Why did Hillary call Monica Lewinsky a "Narcissistic Loony tune" after her husband raped her but now says all women are to be believed?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:06 AM PST

Question: Should I end my friendship?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 08:01 AM PST

My mom used to work with this girl's mom. I'm almost 19 & she's 16 but it's hard to find female friends close to my age. After her mon got a traveling job she changed. She decided she wanted to stay at our house instead of her dad's when her mom's out of state because we have WiFi. So she told her mom we said it's OK & showed up with some suitcases. She's been here 2 months! A couple weeks ago I was working with some horses near where her dad lives so I took her with me since I thought she'd wanna see him. Everything went great til she threw a fit because her dad didn't wanna get ice cream (he's diabetic). I had to throw away the shirt I was wearing because the stain from the punch she threw all over the car never came out. When she turned that attitude on me I told her I was leaving & then told her she wasn't coming with me when she started to pack her stuff. When I loaded my stuff & got in, she got in my passenger seat to talk but she just yelled & yelled so I told her to get out of my car & then I left. On my way home she called & told me I needed to come back & take her to my mom so i told her she was fine art her dad's. Then she said to come back so we could talk & I said no do she called me a chickensh*t & started to throw a tantrum. Now or mom's are fighting because she called her mom & told her I left her on the side of the road. She's a liar, manipulative & throw tantrums to get her way. I'm so sick of it.

Question: Does She Still Have To Pay Child Support?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:57 AM PST

My mother owes my father $17,000 in child support. they recently went to court about it and he was demanding his money. My brother 15 and my baby sister 3 who he does not pay child support for live with my mother and my younger brothers 13 and 17 live with my father and they are living just fine they have nice clothing and shoes and he has a couple cars. My mother on the other hand struggles a bit. She works 2 jobs 7 days a week and is able to get by and pay the bills and keep food on the table. And also buy my baby sister the clothing she needs. She even buys food and clothing and shoes for my brothers who live with my father. My father is very ill in the hospital and the doctors think these may be his last days. My brothers will more than likely want to live with my mother if that is to happen. Will she still have to pay the owed child support? Even if she was to have custody of them?

Question: Why did he trick me?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:26 AM PST

I got in a fight with my husband because everytime I wanna see my family he makes a huge deal. But with his family I'm always with him and he thinks it's ok. I had enough of it so I left. For the past month he's been coming to my mom's 3 4 times a week. Begging me to come back so I gave in. He promised me all these things like I can go to my family no issue anytime. As soon as I moved bk he went bk to his old ways. After I told his I'm getting my stuff and the dust settled he went bk to the person I tried to escape. I feel my life with out him I was so happy and full of life now I'm back to always fighting and being sad. I don't know what to do if I go back to my mom house she will look at me like I'm an idiot if I stay I feel depressed. What do I do

Question: I'm 18 and I want to move out?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:25 AM PST

I pay for everything except my phone bill and house bills because I live under my parent's roof. My mom checks my bank accounts and gets mad at me for getting bad grades. I currently have b's in my ap classes. My mom is mad because I don't have straight a's. I can't focus because i take care of my little sister most of the time. I have a boyfriend and my mom said she will keep us apart if i get b's on my report card. I'm so scared because of my grades. She even sets a curfew to see my boyfriend. I cant even leave the house because i have watch my little sister. My mom thinks i am still a child even though i pay for everything I want and need. I want to get out of my parent's phone plan but my mother wont let me. I am going to do it anyway. I'm going to college in a few months and plan to move out. Any advice? I also fulfill my mom's responsibilities such as paying for my brother's school etc. i literally am independent now except for the fact that im still on their phone plan and i live with them and they pay for my insurance. I want to get my own insurance too but my mom wont let me because she wants me to be under her. But i dont see the point because even though im under their insurance and stuff, i pay for it. So basically its just under their name. Please I need advice.

Question: I'm 18. I want to move out?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:17 AM PST

Question: I got a C, and my dad is pissed at me. What do I do?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:15 AM PST

I am a freshman in high school and the first semester has just came to an end. First quarter I did OK. I got A's and B's. Lowest grade was a regular B. My dad is so strict with my grades that he disapproves of me even getting an A-. So, to put it bluntly, he was pretty mad last quarter. Now, its the end of 2nd quarter (first semester), and, more or less, my grades are the same (A's and B's), except for my Honors English grade, which is a C. Now, honestly, It is a C because I was focusing specifically on my Algebra grade most of the quarter, and I did kind of slack off on English. My dad just saw my grades, and he freaked out. He screamed at me, saying, and I quote, "YOU SHOULD BE SPENDING EVERY LAST DAMN SECOND OF YOUR FREE TIME READING YOUR TEXTBOOKS FROM START TO FINISH, AND THEN RE READING THEM, AND WHEN NOT THAT, MEMORIZING EVERYTHING SO YOU SAY IT IN YOUR SLEEP! AND YOU EXPECT ME TO LET YOU PLAY THE XBOX!?!?!" So, he grounded me from my Xbox One (which honestly, I spend at MOST three hours a week on), and just stormed off to work. I said sorry for that C, but he ignored me. What can I do? How do I calm him down? No, my family and I are white, not asian.

Question: Adopting my neice ?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 07:08 AM PST

Hello, things are really not good. I recently lost my twin brother and its really hard, a part of me has gone. He lost his wife during childbirth, leaving him with their daughter. The girl is 3 years old now and she was at our parents home during the time my brother passed away (accident). My parents were just broken and my mom was taken in the room by dad, as he didnt want her to cry infront nor tell of the child what happened coz it could tauramatize her. I returned to my home state the next day to meet my parents and niece. My neice jumped up at me saying, "hi daddy, where have you been?" I swear I was about to burst out crying but for the girls sake I held in my tears and didn't want to make her cry, that her dad is not coming back. I played along as her dad uptil this point, she does know she has an uncle, but still thinks I'm in another state. His funeral took place, we didn't get our necie and kept her home with a babysitter. I came to a hard decision with my parents and even the parents of my late sister-in-law's that I would adopt my neice and raise her in my brother's place and I will 'be' my brother for her. Its because I love her, I can't bear to see a girl who lost her mom as a baby, still so young now having to know that her only other parent has died. As for the uncle, I will tell her that there have been 'problems' and uncle is unable to speak to me or her, to the point where she grows up forgetting about him (that's actually me). Should I really do this ???

Question: How to get spousal support on family decisions when their instinctual inclination is to impede and not have their comfort zone affected?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:59 AM PST

Question: How can I get my parents to take me somewhere when it's a snow day?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:53 AM PST

okay, so it's not snowing at the moment and I was thinking about leaving really soon because the roads are really clear. but, later on it's supposed to snow a crap load and they aren't willing to pick me up... I don't wanna be stuck at home all day doing nothing but staring at the wall, so please help. best answer gets 10 points!!

Question: Just got into an argument with parents that fight constantly?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:49 AM PST

They've been fighting and arguing for years. It's ruined holidays, vacations, birthdays, and many more special events. It has put me and my siblings through hell and they continue to expose us to their arguing daily. After awhile, a person gets absolutely fed up with their life being interrupted by grown adults who act like children and won't make a change in their lives, such as divorce. There's more to the story, but right now, I feel awful because today was the day I was going to finally visit a college that I've been dreaming of going to. And first thing that wakes me up in the morning is their arguing... Who wants to start their day off like that? I wanted this to be a peaceful fun and exciting day, and this happens. I was beyond furious. So, after several times of me yelling at them to stop and get going to we can leave, they wouldn't listen. Mom kept crying, dad kept yelling. Well, I flipped out. I kicked a hole through the door. I pushed my dad which knocked into my mom and pushed her onto the floor, hurting her back. I feel terrible. I don't know what got into me but I couldn't control it whatsoever. I feel awful.

Question: I caught my little bro?!?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:42 AM PST

I caught my little bro having sex. He's 11!!! Should I tell my mom or let it go. ( I'm only 13)

Question: How do I get separate therapy?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:15 AM PST

Me and my twin sister are 14 years old and in foster care and we were ordered by the court to go to therapy. I can't tell the therapist anything. My sister will tell everyone at school. I tell her not to but she doesn't listen. I want separate therapy so everything is kept confidential. How do I get that? Also, my sister tells everyone why we are in foster care, what's happening with the court, attorneys names, etc. it's no ones business. If my foster parents can't tell anyone, why should she? I tell her to stop but she doesn't listen and gets angry at me.

Question: My friends mother sent a bad message to me and my mom saw it when i was sleeping and sent one back what do i do?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 06:08 AM PST

Her mom: This better be the last time i see you talking to my daughter dont look for me you dont know who i am. My mom started saying stuff like to not theaten me and that she dosnt know who see is blah blah I didnt go to school cause of it and we sit right next to eachother in a lot of classes HELPPPPPP!!!!!!

Question: My brother is seriously CRAZY !! Help !!?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 05:36 AM PST

I cant believe what I just encountered !! My younger brother "25"years !!! Is now officially crazy ... He just got home so angry cuz sis didnt hear her phone when he called " for something he was doing for her " anyways he was shouting , slaming doors and stepping with his shoes everywhere ...I kept my mouth shut really and didnt wanna butt in and sis also was speaking so calmly but he never calmed and felt like a boss here !! Till he stepped so much inside the room with his dirty shoes so I said "stop commin here with ur shoes " so he was like shut up and ur not gonna lick the ground and realy overly aggitated me ..the crazy thing is that lastly he shouted one shout like a crazy drunk man that even reached the ground floor and when I looked in his face he was YELLOW and looked at me like a totall crazy !!! i was so scared though I never showed him but believe me ...he can hurt someone with that look !!! God what should I do !!??? Hes crazy !!! Well if another scene like this happens again I swear he might hurt me !!! And my father is not here actually !! Hes away working in a distante place so I will worry him if I tell him am I !? What should I do !? Hes gone now but basically am now sure hes not sane !! Not when hes angry :(

Question: I'm 15, turning 16 in may. I live in NJ. How can I get emancipated and custody of my younger sister?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 05:17 AM PST

Okay. So I've had a really terrible life. It started off with my mom and me moving in with my grandmom because my poppop died. So in 2009 my grandmom started getting dementia really bad and she didn't realize that she was giving money away to everyone, so we couldn't afford to pay gas and electric, so I was placed with my neighbor(my foster parent) for about a year. Then she slapped me so my mom took me and we moved into my boyfriends house at the time for three years. He used to beat me and my mom started becoming an alcoholic so I had to take care of myself. And my boyfriends uncle murdered my 3 dogs. I'm sorry this is all jumbled but I've had a really bad life. I was homeless for 8 months and my mom used to abuse me, doesn't anymore. But I know I can take care of myself so I want to get out of here. And also, my younger sister. Well, not by blood, its a really complicated story but I promised her a while back that I would get custody of her when I'm able to and I dont wanna break that promise, she lives with her mother who she hates. She's 13, and she wants to leave her place too. I just need advice please help!!?

Question: My parents are separating?!?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 05:14 AM PST

So my parents are having an argument about my dad s drinking problem, and suddenly my dad leaves to go stay with a realitive an I don t like how my mom is blaming everything on him because of the alcohol. And now she considers herself seperated and telling everything on the phone to her cousin, ba mouthing my dad , when i can t even talk to my best friend about because "our business stays in this house" bull. And I ve been crying and praying to God everyday. But I really need guidance of what to do because I m becoming depressed . And both of them tell me to not worry bout what's going on , but it's really hard to

Question: My mother said she hates me and she's fed up of me, she meant it, I'm 15 years old, what should I do? ( she hit me but its legal in out city?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 04:34 AM PST

Question: Adopting my neice ?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 04:18 AM PST

Hello, things are really not good. I recently lost my twin brother and its really hard, a part of me has gone. He lost his wife during childbirth, leaving him with their daughter. The girl is 3 years old now and she was at our parents home during the time my brother passed away (accident). My parents were just broken and my mom was taken in the room by dad, as he didnt want her to cry infront npr tell of the child what happened coz it could tauramatize her. I returned to my home state the next day to meet my parents and niece. My neice jumped up at me saying, "hi daddy, where have you been?" I swear I was about to burst out crying but for the girls sake I held in my tears and didn't want to make her cry, that her dad is not coming back. I played along as her dad uptil this point, she does know she has an uncle, but still thinks I'm in another state. His funeral took place, we didn't get our necie and kept her home with a babysitter. I came to a hard decision with my parents that I would adopt my neice and raise her in my brother's place and I will 'be' my brother for her. Its because I love her, I can't bear to see a girl so young having to know that her father has died. Should I really go for this ???

Question: What to find my son?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 03:42 AM PST

Question: Since my parents are divorced I worry my mother's siblings think less of me because I am her exes son, is this likely the case?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 03:38 AM PST

Her family has a history of assuming the worst in children of family enemies like a lady that was rude to my grandmother I was not allowed to play with the kids of unless at school.

Question: All my Dad does is drink all the time. Does this mean he no longer loves us?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 03:36 AM PST

My mother when she fights with him tells him "you don't love me and your two children anymore you just choose your fuc..ng alcohol." Yet, when I ask her if he loves us she tells us yes and what he is doing is out of his control but he just has to become aware of it. So does he love me or has he stopped loving me since his alcoholism makes him only love alcohol? He has always drank too much but the past five years it has become severe after my sister's car crash death five and a half years ago.

Question: I really need help please?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 03:31 AM PST

My parents want me to become a doctor but I don't want to. I live a Muslim household where it's not allowed for girls to travel anywhere alone, and all the universities here are business related. So basically I have no way out. And the only university I'm going to is a medical one in Russia, where my brother is studying rn. But I seriously don't want to be a doctor. I don't care about it at all! My parents dont understand how I feel because they're both doctors, and they always say "either become a doctor,  or nothing" And that puts so much pressure on me because I'm finishing grade 12 in 5 months,  and then I have to travel to Russia. I know studying medicine would make me miserable af since I don't give a damn about it. My mom thinks I'm spoiled for wanting anything other than being a doctor, but honestly, I just value my happiness over money. Being a doctor in the future would bring me so much emotional agony that I don't want to deal with. I don't want to become some thing that does not interest me. I'm a very creative person. And I want my job to be creativity related. You get me? I don't know, I'm just having mental breakdowns thinking about all this from time to time. I don't know what I want to do with my life.

Question: My father basically wants me to throw away my books?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 03:12 AM PST

I'm crying like crazy. Through my teenage years, I would save money to buy books, and I used my pocket money, because I didn't have a job. Now I am 20, and I'm a university student. I still get an "allowance" and I usually spend it on books (my mom buys me clothes). I have more than 400 books in my collection. The problem is my father. He rarely enters my room, but when he does, he usually complains that I have too many books, and that I bought them with his money. He often uses this sentence: "Libraries are there for a reason, and yet you're spending money to buy books, who does that"... Well anyway, last night he told me that he didn't want to give me an allowance anymore (including money for food and bills; I don't pay rent because the flat is ours). I was like wtf, he HAS the money and makes more than an average person does, but he's quite cautious, I'd say. He told me that I had to sell all of my books if I wanted to keep living in another city, and to give the money to him. I said no, and he said that those books were useless and that if I wanted to keep studying, I would have to do it. I don't understand why he is like this. I mean, he's always been that way, too cautious and selfish (won't even spend on my clothes, and I have what to wear only thanks to my mom). What can I do? I can't find a job and move out; first, in my country there are no student loans; jobs are freaking IMPOSSIBLE to find if you don't have a degree, and my classes last from 11 AM to 6 PM. Well, I didn't choose to be born, he did. If he doesn't want to pay for my education, why did he raise me? In my country at least, everyone lives off their parents' money until they graduate from college and it's normal. What kind of a parent doesn't want to help their child out, even though they can help? Trust me, he's always been like this. He demanded 70 percent of my sister's money (that she had earned!) to pay back for what he had spend on her, and she doesn't talk to him anymore. I have no choice, I'm looking for a solution here... for help, experience, anything. I mean, if all else fails, I'm leaving school, packing my stuff (including books!) and starting to work on a low income, but at least I'd be independent..

Question: Doctor shamed my mom for her clothes?

Posted: 22 Jan 2016 02:57 AM PST

Around 2 weeks ago i had a seizure and later i stopped breathing and my heart stopped. I dont have health insurance, neither does my family and we all got serious health issues. I need some exams but we cant afford them, the cheapest of them cost 20 euros, so even though its not easy for us( we are very poor), we went to a private clinic to get it done coz my parents are worried sick. Most people there were dressed nicely. You can tell by looking at me and my family that we are poor by our clothes. The doctor who was supposed to do my exam was looking at me as if he was looking at trash or something. And then my mom came to ask when the results will be ready and he looked at her with the most disgusted look ever and told her to step out and that he'll tell us when later. My mom never cares for things like that, but his whole attitude was so shaming, she went to the administration to complain. To where she also got looked at as if she were a piece of trash or mockingly. Why are people like this? Its not our fault we are poor. We have been working hard all our lives, we never had it easy. This happened in greece by the way. A country where most people are poor now. How do i deal with this? I also suffer from sever depression and i cant handle it. severe* very funny.**** off pathetic troll