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- Question: My friends think my mother is pretty. Is this okay or should I ask them to stop? All but one friend say it in res[ectful ways?
- Question: Các bạn giúp tôi bài tập ? 6 Competeh the conversation.Use can't must or might . Alan .What kind of animal do you think this is ?
- Question: I need help i hurt a friend?
- Question: Is it worth trying to fix this friendship?
- Question: What does it mean when a person ask if they can reason with you?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: Guy friend say miss u.is it more than friend?
- Question: How can I make my friend feel more appreciated?
- Question: What am I to someone?
- Question: Should famous people let other people get in their way just because they are being mean?
- Question: Whats a way to help me not be so pressured?
- Question: Guys, is my guy friend just bored of me or am I just overthinking things?
- Question: I stopped being friends with my guy friend now he won't leave me alone? Please help me?
- Question: How can you tell if a friend is fake and what does a fake friend act like?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: Why is it that my friends are jealous of me?
- Question: I had a friend in kansas, i moved to florida nd he moved to new york.. i have his old number but i forgot his last name... how do i find him?
- Question: How to distance myself from someone who thinks we're friends?
- Question: Ideas for a 15 year old girls birthday party?
- Question: I wanted to start a girl band but the girls aren t serious about it and see it as a joke.Where can I find serious/nice girl band members?
- Question: Fake friends?
- Question: Why did he say this to me?
- Question: How can I be closer to my friends?
- Question: How to get parents to allow me to have a party?
- Question: Don't have friends to go to winter ball with?? (HELP!!)?
- Question: My friend is very depressed, what do I do?
- Question: I have friends that don t like the same things as me!! Help my friends don t have the same common interest!!?
- Question: I have a lot of friends but not a friend group.?
- Question: I m a second semester sophomore in college and I still get homesick. Is this normal?
- Question: Straight people, how would you feel if someone of the same sex had a crush on you?
- Question: How to resolve a fight?
- Question: My friend thinks I'm copying her?
- Question: Who should i stay friends with?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy does this?
- Question: Why do I make my guy friend uncomfortable?
- Question: Who's bigger in this?
- Question: I can't connect with anyone?
- Question: What to do about strict parents?
- Question: How can I stop getting excluded by my friends, especially with after school activities?
- Question: What should I do ?
- Question: How to do more stuff with friends?
- Question: Which is worse, fake friends or no friends?
- Question: How do I get invited to highschool parties?
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- Question: An old friend of mine doesn't understand why he isn't invited places since he doesn't have good hygiene.?
- Question: Parties and parents help?
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- Question: My best friend (family friend) became my worst enemy and I have to see them in school constantly?!?
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- Question: I know this might be a weird question to ask,but when my friend talks to me or text me she always addresses me with Hey Friend?
- Question: Why some people always have a hard time making friends while for others, it's easy?
- Question: My mom doesn't like my friends and she doesn't like me being around them. What do I do?
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| Question: Should I reach out to him? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 05:13 PM PST Sorry this is so vague lol. I can't really explain the entirety of the situation without writing a novel. I've known this guy for almost 8 years now. We were best friends for the first 2 years or so and then miscommunications happened and we fell out a bit. It hasn't been the same since then up until a year ago when I cut off communication completely. It wasn't all bad - I feel like a lot of it stemmed from not really knowing how to properly deal with things or getting to the root of our issues. I'd always felt like, over the years, he never tried to fix our friendship and would, at times, just flat-out refuse to talk to me about them. It happened again about a year ago and I decided to completely remove/block him from my life. Recently I found out that he pretty much hates me and thinks I'm a fake friend. It really hurt my feelings because I'd always tried to be a good friend to him. I've been thinking about the entire situation since then and I guess because I'm not as emotionally involved, I can see clearly where things were not communicated properly and how the led to trust issues which led to more problems and etc., so now I can understand why he did things he did and why he now feels that way about me. I don't think I would want to be friends with him again because I feel like too much has happened between us but I hate that he feels that way about me/our friendship now so I've been wondering if maybe I should try to reach out to clear the air. What do you guys think? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 05:02 PM PST "Respectful ways" I meant to say at the end there. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:51 PM PST Meg .I'm not sure. It has pass, so tin1... might ...be s kind of cat. Alan .It doesn't have may stooped, so it 2...be a tiger .Do you think it 3.. Be aleppard ? Meg Ues, it4...be a leopard because it has spots.But it looks smaller . Åland. Let's see .What does it say I'm the sign?It's a cheetah . Meg. Oh, really ? Interesting ! I've never seen a cheetah before . 7 Read the conversation in Activity 6 agian .Wrote similar conversations .Uss the pictures and the information below A Crocodile : has a thin Jose, is light brown Alligator : has a wide nose, is gray- black B Turtle: loves in the water,hands flat she'll Tortoise : lives on land, has a round she'll Alan. What kind of animal do you think this is Meg. I'm not sure .It 1.doesn't have a thin nose ,so it 2..be a 3... Do you think it 4...be an 5... . Alan.Yes, it 6...be an 7...because it 8... Meg. What kind of animal do you think this it ? Alan .I'm not sure .It ..doesn't live in the water, so it 10...be a 11...Do you think it 12..be a 13...? Meg.Yes, it 14...be a 15... because it 16... |
| Question: I need help i hurt a friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:48 PM PST i made serrval trolls acount on her twitcth and a mean blog but i was kidding but the gulit killed me so i adimted to her and she dead slient when i talk to a server |
| Question: Is it worth trying to fix this friendship? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:43 PM PST I had this female friend I met second semester freshman year. She was definitely a great friend, but things went south sophomore year. There were things she did. Although I unnecessarily overreacted to some of them, other times I was unhappy. She never appreciated me as an individual. Anytime we wanted to hangout, she always wanted me to bring other people. She would focus her attention on those people, and pretend that I don't exist. She always gave me the "busy" card, and I questioned if I was important in her life. I began to treat her poorly, and I shouldn't have. However, she still continued treating me the same way. It was like back and forth. We tried to reconcile twice but it didn't make a difference. What irritated me was she was telling my friends about my behavior, and I would find out from them about it. If you have a problem with me, it's better to tell me than tell everyone else. Her 2 best friends confronted me about it. They were supporting her and thought her actions were justified because of my poor behavior. I appreciated them telling me, but I didn't like how she had to use my friends to speak on her behalf. Right now her friends told me that she considers me an "acquaintance." She is studying abroad this semester, so I won't see her for a while. I was so stuck up on her imperfections that I totally forget why it's she is a good friend. Friendship isn't about that. I should have addressed these issues earlier. Is there anything worth trying with myself? |
| Question: What does it mean when a person ask if they can reason with you? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:42 PM PST |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:40 PM PST Ok so today at school I felt like I was on the center of attention during gym. We were playing basketball and I was playing it the wrong way. I felt embarrased because I felt people looking my way. I even told the people that I was playing with last time that I played basketball and they believed me. They said they don't believe me now and they think I'm a liar because we were playing a game together and I didn't know what I was doing. I don't know what happened because I couldn't shoot and the ball kept going the wrong way and I was playing better last time by myself shooting hoops.I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Guy friend say miss u.is it more than friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:30 PM PST |
| Question: How can I make my friend feel more appreciated? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:29 PM PST recently ive noticed that whenever my friend feels like hes not being talked to, he immediately goes on his phone. hes a really good friend, one of my best actually, but i always feel bad because i dont know what to say to him to converse, besides "hey whats up" and ask about his day. i notice that when hes with other friends he never has his phone out because hes actively engaging with them, but whenever hes with me we eventually stop talking and revert to our phones. how do i avoid this? |
| Question: What am I to someone? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:19 PM PST So me and this girl used to be best friends but we aren't anymore. We aren't friends. We aren't strangers. We aren't enemies, and we aren't acquaintances but she wants a specific word for what we are. Any ideas? |
| Question: Should famous people let other people get in their way just because they are being mean? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:15 PM PST My friend is well known, but she is wanting to think bad about herself thanks to others. I have told her things, but she says other. I need to know what to tell her. Please help. |
| Question: Whats a way to help me not be so pressured? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:12 PM PST Okay so my "friend" keeps pressuring me to send her this picture and I dont want to because its for our project and she wants to do all of it and then all of sudden she wants me to do all of it and she is leaving annoying messages to me. Then my parents are getting a divorce, I have one bad grade, exams are coming up, David Bowie just died, and im a wreck. Btw i know people have it way worse so no mean comments |
| Question: Guys, is my guy friend just bored of me or am I just overthinking things? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:11 PM PST I have a guy friend of over 3.5 years now, & we became friends through work--he was my boss for years. After I left, we were still always good friends. He's married & no, I don't have intention to "steal" him. (I know some of you might accuse me of that right off the bat). We're just friends. We would talk every other day with short simple text conversation. We were always a part of each others lives in some way for about a year. Ever since July, he's been more distant & we haven't been contacting one another every other day like we used to. No, his wife hasn't told him to stop talking to me, & even if she did, he wouldn't listen--He's that type. He think it's okay to be friends with a female while married so I know he isn't distancing himself because of guilt or anything. I decided to ask a few times why he's been distant, & he's said that he's been busy & that just because we haven't talked to each other as much doesn't mean I should question the friendship & he said, "Things aren't always the same forever, things change. Would it make sense if our friendship was the same and NEVER changed?" I don't get it! We didn't fight, we didn't end on a bad note, nothing! He even said that he doesn't have feelings for me because, "Where I am in my life right now, there can't be any feelings. I've cut out feelings from things like this." I just don't know if this is normal at all. Is this normal, men? Or am I just overthinking this? |
| Question: I stopped being friends with my guy friend now he won't leave me alone? Please help me? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 04:06 PM PST Ok, I'm 14 and in 8th grade thanks for taking time reading this but I missed school cuz I didn't want to see him. We were super close but sometimes he would be a jerk once he choked me and hit me. So I cut it off recently I left him 2015 everyone said we should date but I was tired of him calling me names and then apologize. So now he tries to talk to me constantly text me. Everyone says I'm being rude but I'm not cuz he made me sad. He constantly says he's sorry and sorry for making me upset and blah blah. I was doing a handshake with my other guy friend in the class took before class well he came over pushed him down and said don't touch my girl. I got so ducking pissed and said were not even friends so stfu and go on. I'm not the confrontation type I'm like 5;3 short compared to most guys. What do I do? People say I'm overreacting please help me. He won't leave me alone and it scares me how he pushed my friend. |
| Question: How can you tell if a friend is fake and what does a fake friend act like? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:48 PM PST |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:44 PM PST Ok so at school there is a girl I don't like and I think she doesn't like me. She said that I should go out with some boy that I have no interest in and is unattractive to me and is not my type.Then the people who I follow around said that we will make cute couples which made me feel uncomfortable because I think he is unattractive and I have no interest in him and he is not my type. They always bring him up and say that we make cute couples when they talk about who and who make cute couples and they know I'm not interested in him. Then the girl that doesn't like me said that he won't ask me out because he thinks that I have more facial hair then him. Which is not true because I don't have facial hairs that look like a guy on my face. I don't even like the boy and wouldn't want him to ask me out. Then I lied and said I have a boyfriend then she said where with a disgusted face like she doesn't believe me. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Why is it that my friends are jealous of me? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:33 PM PST I'm honestly not conceited at all. I'm not a know it all either. I'm very shy and quiet. (extremely shy) When I make friends and later on when we get closer everything turns horrible. They get mad at me for no reason. And ignore me. I've recently began to be more outgoing because I felt like it was my moment to shine like a door had opened for me and it did (im so happy now you guys!)and after that -oh , I was bullied for many years too. But still, that was the main reason I was bullied (jealousy) because my "best friend" came up to me and admitted it and apologized (no longer friends) I have a new best friend. And we've already gotten into so many fights and she's the more confident and bubbly one. I'm always so sweet and caring and last year she admitted she didn't want me to do better than her and that she was jealous. I just don't understand!! What is it that makes people be jealous of me?! /: It gets me sad, and when I talk to people I am cautious not to make them feel that way. I don't know. I just loose friends because jealousy yet I never done anything wrong. I'm just a shy girl who's finally seeing life. And taking risks. I don't know what's wrong with me. |
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| Question: How to distance myself from someone who thinks we're friends? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:30 PM PST There's this girl in choir who's a year older than me. I am in varsity as an underclassmen and the underclassmen typically have a "choir mom/dad" who is older. We talked some at the beginning of the year and I thought she was nice enough, but didn't want to pursue a close friendship with her. Apparently she did, because she pronounced herself my "choir mom" before I really knew who she was. I was a little disappointed that it wasn't another person who I feel I know better/have more in common with, but what could I do? Then she starts talking to me about things that are more edgy that I have been brought up to avoid and that I want no part of (sex before marriage, illegal drugs, drinking underage, etc.). She goes into great detail which makes me really uncomfortable and I hate hearing about it. As I got to know her, I realize she really ISN'T nice and is only nice to the people she likes. It also is really annoying when she tells everyone within earshot how much she "loves" me and how I say "bad" things (complain about our choir director). She thinks we're twins or something because I am sassy/tease people in a joking way towards the ones I'm comfortable with (like my real friends in choir). Anyway, my question is: how can I distance myself from her? She really annoys me and I have no interest in being friends with her. I was raised to be kind to everyone, but how can I be kind and still keep my distance? We sing the same voice part and sit in the same general area in choir. |
| Question: Ideas for a 15 year old girls birthday party? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:29 PM PST |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:27 PM PST *Middle school ^Have parents permission;) |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:21 PM PST Ok so I don't want to say I was in the " popular " crowd because i hate that, so instead I'm going to say we are the ones with school spirit because it's true. We made a group chat at the beginning of the year, and it was me and my homeboy who started it. I felt bad for this one kid because he wasn't in the loop so I added him. It doesn't hurt to be nice. Well at the beginning he was all cool and all, until around December he started to try to disclude people from our group. I found out that he made another chat and only included some people " favorites " and it hurts that they disclude me from stuff now when im the reason they talk. And they do stuff without telling us know and it pissed me off and I'm debating on telling him in an adult way that hes fake basically, what are your thoughts? |
| Question: Why did he say this to me? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:18 PM PST Months ago I drunkly hooked up with my sisters bf, we did things but didn't have sex, and I haven't spoken to him since. My sister found out, broke up with him and was upset with me. But now she's now talking to me. Her ex bf and I have mutual friends who are closer to him than me. Most all of them still talk / hang out with me even after what happened. So I asked this one mutual guy friend if he wanted to hang, he said he spoke to my sisters ex bf (his friend), and he told me he doesn't feel comfortable hanging out with me now. Why would he feel uncomfortable? |
| Question: How can I be closer to my friends? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:15 PM PST There's three of us including me, we know each other from Grade 1 and when we got to grade 8 friend #1 stopped school for a year. Then in 9th grade he came back but friend #2 moved houses and went to another school. I'm still in contact with him but it sometimes gets a little awkward when I'm alone with friend #1 cause like for some reason I can't think of anything to chat about. Can anyone help cause it's like now we're on friends cause we know each other for long. A lot of the time I feel friend 1 and 2 leave me out of quite a bit of stuff, I'm not exactly sure why. |
| Question: How to get parents to allow me to have a party? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:04 PM PST So a few months ago I had a party with 40-50 people with alcohol (I'm 15) and so everyone said it was fun and everything. I want to have one again but with 30 people and I asked my parents and they said no because there was drinking and the house was a mess. I told them the people who did the damage were not invited and I'll make sure everyone is under control and nothing gets messed up. I also told them that they know about 15 of the people coming but they still won't budge. What do you think I can say or do to get them to let me? I've been getting really good grades in school and have a good relationship with them. |
| Question: Don't have friends to go to winter ball with?? (HELP!!)? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 03:01 PM PST So basically in about 2 weeks (January 30th) is my school's winter ball. I'm a freshman, and I haven't really made any friends this year (I'm a girl.)I snapchat this girl and talk to her on snapchat, but not really in person and I don't sit with her at lunch.. I know that i most probably won't have a date (unless a miracle happens). But I really want to go to winter ball. I went to all the dances in middle school, but i went to high school only knowing 2 people & they already have friends. Help! I have social anxiety so it's been hard to make friends and I went to the same school for 9 years so I've never really had to make friends from nothing. I don't think I could go alone because I physically couldn't make myself go alone. I also just really want to make friends in the long run. Any tips to make friends with people in this short span of time?? |
| Question: My friend is very depressed, what do I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:44 PM PST I have worked helping her through so much, trying to see whats up. But she won t budge, and tell me. She shuts me out, when I m the only one who tries to help her. I don t understand, please help! |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:30 PM PST I don t know how it happened but for a whole semester I have gained 5 friends all who share the same interest except me. They like Nintendo and video game classics, but me on the other hand likes to be a daredevi, and skate. If you have ever seen jackass that s literally the friendship that would be perfect for me, and I don t think there is very much people out there to share that common interest. I have no idea what to do, and I forgot to mention I get all anxious trying to meet new people in high school all my friends for my whole life have come up to me being my friend. I really need help what should I do?! |
| Question: I have a lot of friends but not a friend group.? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:27 PM PST I have many good friends...but from many different places. I'm in college and would love a group of friends. Sure I always have someone to hang out with, but it's not a group. Is this normal? Am I missing out by not having a group? |
| Question: I m a second semester sophomore in college and I still get homesick. Is this normal? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:25 PM PST I ve made a lot of friends in college...but only 1 or 2 of them are super close friends. At home I have a lot of close friends and I m very close with my family. I go to a school 6 hours from my home..so it s not that close. I sometimes feel lonely at school because I don t like to go out and party but I feel like that s the way a lot of people make big groups of friends. |
| Question: Straight people, how would you feel if someone of the same sex had a crush on you? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:21 PM PST What if it was your best friend? What would you do/ say about it? Would the situation make you uncomfortable? |
| Question: How to resolve a fight? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:15 PM PST I was at the mall with a friend on Friday and she texted her friend who asked her why I was with hr and she said "oh they just saw me and tagged along" which isn't true since she invited me. It got really awkward after that but whatever. Today I talked to the friend she was texting and explained it: she didn't want them to get jealous that she wasn't with them and she invited me blah blah blah. Today she accused me of lying since I invited her, which I didn't. She started bitching out for no reason, I said she was being fake, she got mad. I know it's so stupid and overdramatic but I wanna be her friend. How do I resolve this without apologizing because it is not my fault |
| Question: My friend thinks I'm copying her? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:13 PM PST My friend thinks I'm copying her and it's really starting to tick me off. I've loved film/photography/music for all of my life. I've wanted to do it since I was young and it's the only thing I can really see myself doing in the future, the thing is, my friend also loves it. she recently bought herself an expensive camera, and since I loved photography and film I told her I liked it. She didn't really care, until one day she asked what I wanted to do with my life and I told her film/music. She got passively angry with me and said I was just "copying" her and that she's been loving it longer than I have. I want to be her friend, but I feel like she thinks I'm copying her and I also feel like she'll succeed way better in it then me. Please help. |
| Question: Who should i stay friends with? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:11 PM PST Im 15 and I've had these close friends for a year and i sit with them during lunch but they sometimes make me feed bad and dumb and overpower me a lot and one of my other friends (S) who was in the friend group left because she didn't like them anymore but me and S were still close friends too. Recently i got really close with S's best friend (L) and we get along really well and have so much fun together. The thing is they smoke weed and i smoked with them last week twice for the first time. They didn't pressure me into it and even if i stopped they wouldn't stop being friends with me. My other friend (D) who I've been close with for a few years hates L and told me she won't be friends with me as long as I'm her friend and L wants me to sit with her at lunch cuz she has no one else and i really like her and she's a much better friend than my other friends. What should I do? If i stay friends with L ill lose all my other friends, but i reallyy like her too tho |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy does this? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:06 PM PST This guy I know randomly crawled up to where I was sitting in class and he started trying to touch and blow on my leg I'm just wondering why he might have done this. He teases me a lot too so something like this is expected. |
| Question: Why do I make my guy friend uncomfortable? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 02:02 PM PST Months ago I drunkly hooked up with my sisters bf, we did things but didn't have sex, and I haven't spoken to him since. My sister found out, broke up with him and was upset with me. But now she's now talking to me. Her ex bf and I have mutual friends who are closer to him than me. Most all of them still talk / hang out with me even after what happened. So I asked this one mutual guy friend if he wanted to hang, he said he spoke to my sisters ex bf (his friend), and he told me he doesn't feel comfortable hanging out with me now. Why would he feel uncomfortable? |
| Question: Who's bigger in this? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:46 PM PST Who's bigger? |
| Question: I can't connect with anyone? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:40 PM PST I feel like I can't get that deep, fun connection with anyone to where you both love always being around each other.... I've had that feeling a few times but it just doesn't happen anymore.. |
| Question: What to do about strict parents? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:38 PM PST My parents don't seem to understand that I can make my own decisions. I am 15, but I have young birthday for my grade. Most of my friends are 16, some 17. I guess i would be considered in the "popular" crowd. I enjoy social things, and my parents don't like when I go out with friends or go to parties. They are very strict about alcohol, even if it little amounts and in safe places. I am perfectly capable of making my own decisions and I am smart. How can i get my parents to back off? |
| Question: How can I stop getting excluded by my friends, especially with after school activities? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:32 PM PST I think that I'm usually seen as a 'secondary' friend- so when one of my friends has a fight or problem with another one they will come to me. For 2-3 days they will act like a best friend, however then they will go back to that original friend. This means that I very rarely ever get invited on after school things, and this makes me upset and a little depressed. I have tried to set up my own events- going to the cinema, bowling etc, but no-one is interested. I'm really getting fed up, as when anyone is struggling with schoolwork or has a problem I'm always prepared to help them, but I never get anything back in return. I'm not asking for them to spend 24 hours a day with me, but I would like a little more involvement with them as I think that if I can solidify some friendships it will really help with my self-esteem and confidence. What can I do? And am I the only one to of had this? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:25 PM PST So my sister had this guy that I knew in her class last semester and I didn't take that class, and they became friends , but I'm not a big fan of him, well now my sister realized why , he's a complete a**hole. Today we start school and this time I will be in the same class with both, but they are not friends anymore , and he owes her a good amount of money , and he knows I can be a bit of a b***h. So all I want to know is that if I should directly message him and tell him to pay my sister ? Or just not get in it ? But the reason I'm asking it's because it's my family, and I'm not afraid of confrontation , so should I message him or let my sister handle it ? |
| Question: How to do more stuff with friends? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:25 PM PST Gonna keep it short: - Playing on pc 4+ hours a day (Becuz no friends outside school) - Don't have a lot of money So my question is how does one like me, in secondary school do more stuff outside with friends? I'm sick of only playing with internet friends (w/ voicechat and a lot of games and fun). |
| Question: Which is worse, fake friends or no friends? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:21 PM PST |
| Question: How do I get invited to highschool parties? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 01:21 PM PST Hi! I'm homeschooled and I've never been to one of those high school parties you see in films. My friends have small gatherings sometimes, and I go to those, but I really want to go to a big house party. What do I do? Thanks a bunch : ) |
| Question: How can I quit being rude? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST Honestly, I'm a nice person - I just have the worst sense of humor. Usually, when I consider someone a friend, I'll be a little mean to them, but I'm only joking around. The thing is, I don't really know when to stop and I can go a little too far. Most of the time, people don't understand that it's only for fun. Now I'd never make fun of someone's appearance, really insult them or bully them - most of the time, I just complain about the person to teachers, etc. when he or she is around, (I'd never do it behind his or her back, because again, then it wouldn't be a joke) but I really think it's obvious I'm not serious most of the time. It seems like nobody gets it, though. I tried this kind of joking around with my best friend's friend and ever since, she's been asking me why I hate him and every time we're about to hang out, she asks me if I don't mind if he comes, too. I think I'm slowly making this guy that stands up for me every time a teacher picks up on me hate me, which I can understand. Every morning, I tell myself I'll keep my mouth shut, but I just never do. What do I do? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:57 PM PST SO an old friend of mine I hadn't seen in about ten years, well he used to be thin and cared about his hygiene. Now its sad cause he doesn't care anymore and he also is extremely overweight. I caught up with him on Facebook and he said he would meet me at a little quiet dark bar which I found odd but I agreed. We met up there and he had pizza stains on his shirt, hair was unkept, and he had dog hair all over his clothes. He looked like he hadn't showered in days. Ever since then he hasn't been invited out and doesn't see what the big deal is if he shows up looking the way he did in front of me. |
| Question: Parties and parents help? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:53 PM PST hi! I am 15 and my parents are kind of strict. They do not like me to attend parties, but sometimes let me. They are usually small parties with a few friends and there is sometimes alcohol. My friends are nice and good friends, and my parents don't seem to understand that. they are very snoopy and always stalk me on social media. Is there any way I can get them to loosen up? |
| Question: Should I still be her friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:52 PM PST I've been best friends with this girl since the first day of kindergarten and we never had a fight. We know each other so well and can talk across the classroom with just facial expressions. But recently... she's changed, I think. She's started to become a drama queen and crave attention from any boy. The rest of my friends talk behind her back about how she's bullying herself by creating a fake account on Instagram. Then she created another one to make herself a fake boyfriend. Now she's talking about suicide and she talks to me about her cutting (she doesn't use a knife; only a pencil) like someone talks about the weather. Some people already told the guidance counselor and she was no help at all. I'm so worried for her, but I don't know if I should still be her friend. Help? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:51 PM PST So this Ex friend of mine used to have been my best friend since kindergarten or 1st grade. Our families were best friends. But over this summer and spring I reunited with who was my best friend in 4th and 5th grade. My best friend was literally trying get me and trouble and telling her mom. Now, I've never really liked her mom in the first place because she is so nosy and a little rude to me. Plus the mom would always say how my best friend is so jealous of my clothes and shoes. Anyways in the summer it was one day at the pool and I was hanging out with my new best friend. Anyways my other best friend at the time was trying to ignore us so she could get me in trouble. Then stuff just happened and her mom started saying bad stuff. Anyways long story short now I have deal with her constantly because she literally joined my lunch table to annoy us and tries to sit next to me, but I really hate her. There's so much tension. Don't tell me that I should try to make up with her because it can't happen. She tipped me too far over the edge. Anyways how do I deal with her always being around me?! Thanks Also my best friend says she is inviting her to her bat Mitzvah because she thinks it would help relieve tension but this would not help at all because nothing can ever be the same after the things she said to me. How do I tell my friend that she shouldn't invite her (she is not even friends with her?!) |
| Question: Friend is ignoring me? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:46 PM PST My best friend, lets call her H, is ignoring me. She didn't do this before and didnt ignore me. I was off sick from school for a few days, and she wont even talk to me...She did talk to me in the morning and at lunch but at the rest of the day she ditched me and ignored me. I have other friends who is friends with her. They don't talk to me alot but we do friend stuff together..I want the attention of H but I am really shy.. |
| Question: How should I handle my friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:46 PM PST So my friend, we get along really well and have many funny moments together, but he is really hot-tempered(like me) so when we get in a fight, neither of us are willing to back down. Like today, I found a pencil in Spanish class and I walked into History class and was using it, he accused me of stealing his pencil and snatched it out of my hands. I explained to him how I found the pencil on the ground in spanish(and he doesn't take Spanish so it wouldn't be his) and he told me I was lying... I'm not upset about the pencil but I'm upset that he won't listen to me and always believes he's right. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:33 PM PST There is a group chat for all of us in AP and literally everybody but me is in it. Everybody wants me in except for two people (that is 2 out of 50 btw) and as soon as I get added, they kick me out and everybody hates them for it, but don't want to kick them in fear of getting in trouble. What do I do, make another group chat? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:26 PM PST It's like Hey Friend, How you doing Friend, What's going on Friend? Like has this ever happened to any of you guys before? Why add the friend after each sentence or in conversation, were good so why keep saying over and over? |
| Question: Why some people always have a hard time making friends while for others, it's easy? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST |
| Question: My mom doesn't like my friends and she doesn't like me being around them. What do I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:10 PM PST My mom is really big on my future like college and things like that. She constantly tells me that I shouldn't be friends with them because "they don't have a future" and "they aren't going anywhere." I think this is bullshit because they are some of the greatest people I have ever met. She claims that she doesn't want me dropping to their level (which I don't understand). I have been friends with one of the girls for 16 years. My mom and my friends mom were also best friends until my mom got divorced and started dating someone else. She dropped all of her old friends all of a sudden and I'm being punished for it. She never had a problem with her until her boyfriend started to say things about our friendship. I have been friends with the other girl since I was about 12ish years old but we have been getting closer recently. She apparently doesn't meet my mom's standards either. She always says that she isn't "classy" and puts her down because of how she grew up. My mother actually told me that she would rather me be friends with the people who constantly talk **** on me behind by back than with these two girls. I have absolutely no idea what to do. |
| Question: Why is my friend mad? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 12:01 PM PST A few years ago , I had a situation where I lent my ex boyfriend money and I had to sue him to get the money back. Since then I haven't lent any money out. My friend keeps asking me to borrowing money, large sums to that. The other day she claims she needed a down payment to get an apartment she found on her section 8 voucher. I personally wasn't buying her Section 8 story, plus if she is struggling now, how is she going to pay back the money. Needless to say, I said no and now she is all other social media sites throwing shade. I have lent her money in the past but, she's one of those people who are really nice to you when she needs something and very nasty when ask for it back. I have deleted all of her contact information but, I'm confused on why is she so mad? I have mad it clear I do not loan out money. She wanted to borrow $3000 for a security deposit for an apartment. Plus my other friend who is on Section 8 told me her story is a lie. I don't understand her. |
| Question: How do I go about enjoying life or is it luck? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:56 AM PST I am a 21 year old female and I've no idea how to enjoy my life. I'm done with college and I haven't found a job yet. I'm going to stores, and applying online but all I get is rejections. Sometimes up to 3 months later. I have no friends to actually hang out with, or even talk to. I do make an effort but nothing comes of it. I live with my grandmother and earn my keep cleaning and running errands. I help my neighbors, and I earn a nice little chunk of money helping people out with errands they're too busy to get done. In the end, I end up spending some days in the bookstore, where I end up buying books but not making one random friend. Or walking around a mall just so I can say I got out of the house. Not a bit of fun to be enjoyed anywhere... I don't like to hang out in too many busy places, and I'm really not one to travel too far from home. So those exciting trips young people tend to take, just isn't happening for me. I've gotten to the point where I can't even enjoy my video games because I'm so irritated. So, exactly how does one go about enjoying life? Or is it just luck that some people just do and others don't? I also do go to a lot of places young people hang out like, bars and stuff. I can't drink. Not-go to bars. |
| Question: Is something mentally wrong with me? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:56 AM PST I ask because recently my fiancé pointed out to me that I'm not a good person. What happened was on the way to work I saw a co-worker drive passed me and mentioned to her how he's kind of an old guy who tries VERY often to be funny and he's not plus he tells the same joke OVER and OVER which annoys me. She said I'm mean and should appreciate he's at least trying to make people laugh. I still said it's annoying which made her say I'm not a good person and need to be more compassionate. I don't see anything wrong with refusing to give pity laughs. She asks every blue moon why I act towards others the way I do and I say it's because I was bullied age 8-15 because I stuttered severely and was quite. I got pantsed or however you spell that a few times, pushed into a locker, held down on the gym floor and was spit on, punched in the head from behind and one day I hit a kid back who was hitting me for months and his mom cussed me out. People have never been nice towards so I don't really care for others. Plus a few years ago I told her years ago I've always wondered how it would feel to kill someone but Im pretty sure that was due to all the anger I used to have built up. So anyway, she says I should be more compassionate but I disagree. Even if I wanted to, I don't know how to be more compassionate. Ive been doing research to find what's wrong with me and it came down to anti-social PD and narsissictic PD, turns out I have neither. So what could be wrong with me? |
| Question: Has my best friend abandoned me?Please answer? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:55 AM PST Im a guy shes a girl. For a year, we facetimed and message and we both opened up to eachother very much. However, when she statted coming to my school, she was very distant. She always seemed in a rush or like she didnt want to take to me, she would just go talk to her friends instead. However in messaging and facetime she seemed like she was my bestfriend but not in person. I saw how she would always hangout with her other friends, but when i asked her to hangout she seemed like she didnt want to, excuses like shes busy or i fail to make plans or its different becuase her other friend is her bestfriend. I told her how i felt and she said that she promises she cares about me and all this crap. We later got in a huge argument and i finally told her that im done talking to her and im gonna go focus on my real friends. Its the fact that we were friends for two years. 6 months in my old school. A year online, and 6 months of this bs. Should i move on? Is it because im a guy? Im hurt because she told me all this nice things, and trust me its not very often people say these things to me because im a shy person. Did i expect too much? Should i just accept the fact that i will never have a close real friend ? |
| Question: Should I stop listening to a band because it reminds me of my ex-friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST So- basically there was a band that both me and my ex-friend were in love with called Red. Being that it was her favorite band every time I hear a song from my playlist by Red I get really depressed over it. I just hate it because I liked the band so much but every time I hear a song from them I am just reminded of her which ruins the enjoyment of the song for me. So - my question remains should I stop listening to Red because it reminds me of her? I mean, it sounds like such a sad reasoning to dislike a band but it's like I'm getting stabbed in the heart every time I hear a song from them. :( I don't know- any reply would be nice as I'm at a lost on if I should just delete the band from my playlist completely at the moment. |
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