To give a lil background info, a few days before my husbands driving test we were in the car I started joking about what if he didn t pass his driving test we laughed bc of course he was going to pass it (so we thought) he drives forklifts all day and is an awesome driver, way better than me. Well he goes and takes the test and fails. He says it is my fault for joking that he wouldn t pass it and he had that stuck in his head. So he got really upset and hasn t talked to me for 2 days. Who was wrong in this?

Lie and say that the man you married is mentally ill, is an intravenous drug user, lied about being straight before getting married, and you were unable to consummate the marriage?

We've been dating for a year & he tells me he's really in love with me but we've been on a break and I haven't seen him in a month and he recently told me he got me a diamond I told him he could just send me the diamond he got me but he told me he wants to give it to me in person so I asked if he was gonna propose he said its not a ring its some kind of diamond he got for 65 dollars at the mall now I'm like whats the point of even getting this sh!t its not a ring and we were on break cause he got drunk and called me a N*gg*r he's white and I'm black BUT YEA WHAT KIND OF DIAMOND COULD THIS BE AND SHOULD I EVEN TAKE IT???

We don't ever have paper towels at our house because my husband says it goes to fast. He also doesn't buy orange juice because it goes to fast. however, what can you expect with 3 boys in the house. We are a family of five. Orange juice is not going to last for a long time. I would prefer them to drink orange juice instead of sodas but my husband buys sodas religiously. I feel as though he's buying soda every other day. I beg him to stop getting sodas but he still buys it because he said it's only a dollar at dollar tree. These were his words " orange juice is four dollars, a soda is one dollar. I can't afford to keep buying orange juice". he makes quite a bit of money but he wants to eat fast food everyday. It's definitely strange that he's cheap with everything except eating fast food everyday. We don't have groceries in our house except for breakfast type food. And sometimes we don't even have that. He said he might have to stop buying eggs because our 15 year old son will eat 4 eggs in one day. My husband said that everyone needs to limit themselves to only two eggs a day. He said " if y'all eat more than two eggs a day and we run out then that's ok y'all because I'm not buying eggs again until next week". I will make a list of things for him to get at the grocery store that I can cook for myself and the kids and my husband will angry and said that it's too much money for the ingredients. For example, if I'm cooking chicken or steak, he will get the chicken but not get the ingredients i need for the chicken or the vegetables to cook with it because he said its too expensive. I told him the ingredients should last for a while once i stock them up because right now we don't even have the basics. I have a job but it hardly pays a liveable wage. Think of the time of job a teenager would have that needs some pocket change. I've been working here twenty years and it's only getting worse My sister is wealthy, she took me to do groceries a couple of days ago. I came home with about 5 bags of groceries and my husband had this irritated look on his face when i came back home. He said " how did you get all those groceries. you only had "xxx" amount of money. Then He told me that he hoped no one bought it for me

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. I am 20 and he is 19. I graduate college next year when I m 21 and he is 20 (we will be dating 3 years then). If he proposes then I want to to be engaged for at least a year to figure everything out. So that will be 4 years together and I will be 22 and he will be 21, would that be too soon to marry? Statistics say that people who marry under 23 are more prone to divorce and idk if that s too young. I just want to be with him forever and I don t want any thing we can avoid to hinder our relationship. So is that too soon to marry?

She is very caring and loves me but she farts a lot and they are very stinky. Mine are stinkier but she doesn't care. I do. It is very annoying when she farts and it is very hard to love her.

He texted me out of the blue from months of not hearing from him and we got into a text fight because he said "I bought her a house and I will take care of her for the rest of her life because I love her." he knows that really upset me because he knows I wanted to be his wife. His comment has been bothering me a lot and I've almost been on the verge of tears from it. He said it to hurt me and I can't stop thinking about it. :( How can I just let it go? Any advice? I work full time and his new wife just sits at home. That's what he meant by taking care of her. It killed me inside.

My boyfriend lost his job a couple months ago (he got fired) and it's been rough. He got a new job a couple weeks ago but then injured his arm so was out of work again. Then his car broke down. He's completely broke, can't pay his bills and has become very very needy. He wants me with him every day. He wants me to take care of him. If I even want one evening to myself he gets upset and tells me what a horrible night he's having and that he needs me immediately. He tell me he can't cope without me at his house-I try to talk to him on the phone but it's not good enough-he' upset unless I'm at his house. I'm overwhelmed. His arm is sprained but he can do stuff, he's okay. Emotionally he wants to be babied though and he's in a bad mood so much lately. I know he's going through a hard time and I'm trying to be there for him, I really am but it's overwhelming. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

My husband and me have had a lot of problems for awhile now. One issue is he thinks he is superior and I am not putting up with that. He just told me to ask any man if in a marriage, if the wife has a concern about something she can voice her opinion but in the end he has the final say. So who he really thinks that is how marriage works bc this one is heading for divorce.

It was a weekend party with old friends who I studied college with them. Most of them were single while I just married for less than year. my husband wasnt with me in party. we danced drunk and every things so what happened that on guy I used to have a crush on him, so he grabbed my hand and let me sat on his lap thats not all, by the end I found some picture that took while I was sitting on his lap! so I was not full ware by what happened Should I discuss that with my husband and let him now? or keep it secret and try to remove those friends from my social media? please help me

Hello. I am currently in the military station in Alaska. My Girlfriend lives in New York and graduates from university in 3 months. I was wondering if there was a way we could get married online so that way by the time she is graduated I could have everything set up through the military.

My husband has a large family. I have a small family. He is middle class. My family has a lot of issues including mental illness and criminal activity. My dad is trying harder now after being in prison most of my childhood. My husband's family has large events and invited my family. They want to support me but are socially uncomfortable going to these events. My husband's family don't understand that my family are not being rude these events is just way out of thier element. My husband's family thinks my family does not support me. At our wedding my dad and sister got social anxiety and started acting strange. My husband had 180 please at our "small" wedding while I had a handful. This is always stressful explaining why my family won't come to large events or even sometimes birthdays and showers.

So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. At one point he was throwing up so and I tried to pour some of his whiskey out and he pushed me in a drunken rage but then apologized. So I packed up my bags and told him I was going to my parents for a week to reevaluate things.... As I was walking out the door he started to cry and said don't leave I don't want to be alone....I've left for a couple of days to think things over but I am fearful he might harm himself... I need help I don't know how to tell him to go to rehab?

My husband's family and friends hate me. We have been together 6 years but only married for two. They are of higher social status than my family. My husband's mother is oddly involved with his friends more spicfically one of thier wives. This friend's wife had already stated that she had "issues" with me before she met me(we live 5 hours away). When she met me at a large gathering, she employed the other wives to be mean girls to me. Since then (5years ago) the situation has became epically bad at times. Even resulting in her having people who don't know me send my husband messages basically saying that I am white trash so don't knock me up. The issue is her husband is my husband's best friend. There relationship is almost nonexistent at this point. My husband is a great guy however bf I met any of them I think he used to tell them about couple issues we went through. His mom and I have also had difficulties. I have two kids and am divorced all of which my husband's mother was not happy about. Also, my husband is very educated. They have in so many words said that would like him to find a women equally as educated. His mom's mom also told me that I was the largest women he ever dated and all his ex's were smaller. I weigh 135. This has been a surreal situation. Too many crazy events to explain them all.

I am looking for advice from online community. To keep story short, wife isn't interested in intimacy and gets defensive (and yells at me) about the issue. She was more active before the children but after our 2nd child, she never was in the mood. It seems to me she's more interested in motherhood and children than being a wife. She seems there is no problem in the marriage yet she becomes emotionally distant with me (unless we have some situation at home, only then we have a real conversation). I have tried doing a majority of the chores and be involved with the children's lives; all she says is thanks for my hardwork. She rejects date nights and doesn't seem to acknowledge any of my efforts to improve the relationship. Our 2 children are starting to pick up the unhappiness and its mostly me that they seem to question. I have requested for marital counseling but again she gets defensive and says I have issues (and calls me a pig). I live a life where my emotions are bottled up and I am not sure what the right approach would be. I feel that divorcing her and paying for support seems to be a feasible option. What would you recommend as of this point? Thanks! I am not sure how I could be wrong in this. We went through a period of stress where our financial savings took a hit. I was determined to get us out of it and luckily got a promotion. My children is another story, I devote a lot of my time in helping them with their studies (this is still going on). She apparently hardly took notice and went on about her life and her matters. She is close to the children but hardly pays attention to me or the struggles at home. She expects me to tackle it all. The children and I have a healthy relationship, but its her attitude towards me that seem to damage the entire family's happiness. In many cases, she flips out for the smallest thing that I make a mistake. Then I have to deal with the "why can't you do anything right, I have a lousy husband." I keep my mouth shut and listen to her, as I already know the consequences of replying back (learned it the hard way). "Talk to your wife, get an emotional connection throughout the day." = Read it carefully, I HAVE talked to her and she gets defensive.

Why is my wife so dumb? She's always on my case. I just want my beer and sports at night. When I do things for her, I hardly get anything out of it.

Time wasted, money wasted, effort wasted, on someone who only used me for casual sex for a long time. How to get over the resentment and move on ? This experience has me thinking most men are garbage just like him.

I don't mean to sound so pitiful but i wonder why is it that some people have all the luck then others. At times i was told that everyone has their bad moments but it's hard for me to believe that because i know I'm not evil but i'm not perfect either I'm aware of karma and believe that what you do gets back to you well I'm aloner and dont hardly have any friends because i dont want any much drama and any support from any family members because they want to control me and think im weak so i stood away also I'm been trying so hard to stay positive and believe that some good is going to happen well i haven't hardly gotten any luck yet i fasted pray and kept on with my faith and all my situation had gotten worse i haven't move yet,my older 14 year daughter is slow and she's not doing well my husband was rejected to get his residents green card and i have to deal with my step daughter who tries to control my home and family.i was fasting praying for something i really needed and i was rejected for it but yet i could also get problems to bare with but yet my second cousin has it all she's married to a computer engineer he bought her a beautiful huge home he takes her traveling he pleases her in every way and her 3kids has it all why is it that her life is that way and mine's is all crap i didn't ask for the life I'm living in now!

This issue has been happening for many weeks. Can someone explain to me who keeps moving questions around? What's going on? Or do we have some immature trolls on this section? Now this user is moving my question to other sections...how strange! I guess this makes sense, thanks a lot! Someone here really needs help!

On the left is a pic of her now, and on the right is a pic of her when she was a teenager. Right pic is before Justin Beiber and left pic is after Justin Beiber lol Selena Gomez is far from "hideous" you hater lol Here's Selena without makeup https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B6lQASTIEAEMVpb.jpg Even with makeup Selena can take bad pics, so you cannot judge her because of bad pics that were taken of her without makeup, you haters look for any excuse to hate on someone beautiful. @Butterscotch, hater, she's beautiful with or without makeup and you know it, but jealous lol @Kiara Yeah I do think Lupus has something to do with it.

My wife and I have a rocky relationship to say the least. She must have some serious chemical imbalance or something which causes her to be difficult to be around. She's usually angry, controlling, abusive, stressed, rude and snarky. There have been times in the past when she has been very sweet and nice, but that has seldom been the case in years. As a result, I'm iving a life of stress and survival. I've forgotten how to have fun and I miss the excitement of intimacy and sex. Though I love her and want to help her, she refuses to get help when it's available and we don't have health insurance. I find myself more and more attracted to other women and the thought of fooling around with them has me obsessed. Is it really wrong to try to have an enjoyable life? She's not just a random person to me whom I can just throw away, but do I have to sacrifice myself for her? What should I do?

Okay, so I have been in a constant relationship with my bf for years, and we've been living together for a bit over 4 years. I love him dearly and don't see any future with any man except him. When we started dating we were very passionate for each other and over time he seems he isn't the same way. I have had issues with this for quite some time. Like, anytime I ever try to kiss my bf he gets annoyed and then he always just gives me a peck like kids in elementary. He kisses me so fast that I don't even have time to kiss him back. And seems the only time he wants to kiss is when he wants to and not when I do. And same goes for sex he is always turning me down and then expects me to have sex when he wants it. I feel so ignored in those ways and in our normal day lives. He and I both get home from work, and then we eat dinner together and that is the only time spent together until bed, and then I just keep talking cause its nearly our only alone time we have. Once he does get home he goes to his man cave and makes music and I'm very proud of him for that. But I just miss my bf, and I feel so alone and sometimes miserable and worthless. Is that normal? Sometimes I wonder if maybe we shouldn't be together and that I may be happier being single but that isn't what I want.And anytime I have an issue with anything I let him know and he just says something like stop or just doesn't acknowledge what I am saying. Any advice on how to overcome this? Thanks in advance

My wife and I have been having problems for some time... So about a month ago, i was away for work... Well my wife decided to surprise me and found me with another woman... Now, I admit, I was an idiot, and that was my fault and horrible... So we decided to take a break... Well, I returned home about a week later and apologized... Now again, I know I was wrong and selfish, but she never admits to her role in causing problems to our marriage or being selfish herself, like she ain't never done nothing wrong... So I reminded her about that time a few months ago, that she woke up during the night drank up all the milk, and then when I got up to have my frosted flakes there was none left! Then she brought up again that I cheated... So I'm a cheater, but she can just drink up all the milk, like it's nothing. At least I admitted my mistake and took responsibility for it! Until she admits her selfish & wrong ways, I don't know how to fix it... I mean, am I really wrong here?

What type of sick game is he playing? I made an appointment with a Physcologist because I'm so destroyed and distraught. Ever since we found out we were pregnant in such an inconvinient time like we were both still living with parents, working minimum wage, and I was starting school this month so I would'nt be able to finish the last 2 months because of my due date, my Boyfriend told me the abortion is the best route because he wanted to get a promotion first, and our stuff wouldnt fit in his crammed up single bedroom space in his parents house. His parents were very supportive, as I was I, we kept trying to convince him to keep it, but he was so negative and kept saying no. I would show him sonogram pics and he would tell me to abort it that were not ready. My Mom was very unsupportive, so he used that as a leverage for wanting an abortion. I told him it doesnt matter what my family thinks, Id keep it if that means Id have to move in with you. But he was like its not the same without your family support, like why did it matter if we had his family support? So anyway I made the appointment for the abortion. Which it seemed like thats what he originally wanted, I told him the date and time and said he was going to be there. Well the time comes and sold me out for his friends to go drink, (which he does ALOT). So I went to do the abortion alone. 1. because he sold me out for something so important which made me so 2. He told me he didn't want it over and over. So he promised me hed give me half and accompany me because of the anasthesia. Come to find out he sold me out because his friend nedeed a favor. So my Mom took me and she was pissed and started badgering him for selling me out for something so important. In the end, he told me he thought I wasnt going to do it, and is very sad I did. But Im like...what are you talking about? You told me over and over that were not ready and to get an abortion. You even agreed to go to the abortion and sold me o I asked him, "wheres the half money, you owe me? He said hes not going to give me nothing because his family was rude to him. I said what does my parents have to do with us? Youre the one who didnt want it. And I didnt keep it because we werent ready but I was willing more than you to keep it. So now you wanna change the story after it was done? Now hes putting all the responsiblity on me like if he had nothing to do with this. I still haven't gotten no money from him which is half of $380, he acts like he had nothing to do with the decision to abort it, which he was the number 1 reason WHY I DID IT. Why would he tell me no all the time despite his sister, mom, and me trying to convince him all the time. My family wasnt supportive but I didnt care what they thought, I told him that. He even said lets abort it not to make my parents happy but because we werent ready. And now thats it done hes asking me what Id done? Then he admitted, he thought I "wasnt strong enough" to abort it. That no matter how much times he said no, ill kept begging him. Sorry that it is long and messy I typed this real fast before going to work and Im still distraught like I made a terrible choice??

My wife and I have been married for nearly 5 years. Over the years she has brought during several arguments "you haven't made a single sacrifice in his marriage". It always stems back to her moving an hour south (where her family is) to the house we live in today. The other night we were joking about some of our early dates and about how she came down (to my house) at the time. She said "Even then I was making sacrifices". I paused and said I was taken back by that comment and hoped that driving an hour to see me was worth it. That sparked her anger and she said I should not have gotten upset at that comment and I was just overreacting. The next day she apologizes but says "I'm sorry that comment hurt you...but I'm not sorry for saying it". What kind of apology is that? She brought up again how she has made all the "sacrifices" and me none since she moved an hour away from her family... What do you guys think? I'm I overreacting or is she being rude and overreacting? I don't understand apologizing and saying "Well, I'm sorry but I'm not sorry I said it"...That still comes across rude. Thank you

I have been married for three years and reached a hard point with my wife. For a while now we are coming across the problem of - I say something wrong or misunderstood or raise my voice two desibles when expressing a feeling or words taken out of context, even in the most unserious and insignificant of events- my wife can t help but react by shutting down and stay mad over a mishap for days later. Whenever I try to talk the arguments escalates, diverts and prolong. Leaving us usually in the pattern of her feeling doubt in our future and unwilling to listen or bother to talk- instead she gets very narrow sighted with what she sees and caught up in feeling mad or angry about something as silly as me talking over her - which gets magnified to me disrespecting and her walking away from the middle of the outing. I try to talk but she only gets more aggrevated, when I leave her and try later it only starts more arguments because she never addresses the issue then and there yet most of the time react by shutting down and not wanting to talk. The dilemma now is I constantly find myself caring to try to talk or help move on and she can t help but constantly feel a defeatist approach and not believing one can try differently to approach and deal with a problem differently without the constant pattern of failures. I

WHy is it common peole who are neat freaks in life or germophobes, will do stuff during sex like licking buttholes

Six years ago WE AGREE for me paid only health insurance for my daughter, and have her half the time. Year later the ex move with your new husband to Washington from Texas. I kept my daughter 2.5 years, then she to move with her mother for the last two years. Now a junior in High School and stays with her mother, can her mother sue me for child support till she gets out of school??

Say she has a boyfriend, but is still friends with a guy that openly flirts with her and she knows wants to sleep with her?