Family & Relationships: Question: Can someone please define what, " Staying in a womens place " means ? Because this guy kept telling me that I don't stay in a womens place.? |
- Question: Can someone please define what, " Staying in a womens place " means ? Because this guy kept telling me that I don't stay in a womens place.?
- Question: I do not know how to deal with my girlfriends issue, any advice?
- Question: Is it normal?
- Question: Does my boyfriend really like me or is he just comfortable being around me? Read first please?
- Question: Do you think this guy is starting to think of us as more than friends?
- Question: I have a hard time showing emotions, sympathy, affection and stuff like that, is there something wrong with me?
- Question: Some stupid girl in school keeps telling me I need a haircut, what will I day to her?
- Question: My mother's spirit is harassing me again, and same with my father. My father is threatening to kick me out of the house, and my Mother is?
- Question: I crashed into my sister s boyfriend s car last night, What do I say?
- Question: Confundida......Entre Dos Amores?
- Question: I'm in love with by brother in-law.?
- Question: How can I be a trophy wife?
- Question: Girls .... health disaster for sex, relationships?
- Question: Need your opinion?
- Question: Why does my grandmother mentally/emotionally abuse me?
- Question: Me and my aunt lezzed off with each other? Is that as bad as I think it is?
- Question: I don't understand why everyone thinks?
- Question: What s going on with my long distance ex boyfriend ? He has ignored my attempts to get back together but wants to follow me on social media?
- Question: How to make boy love u??
- Question: What are some good deeds i can do?
- Question: My sister is leaving her husband, am I right to just stay out of it and not hate the ex?
- Question: Pregnant with a married mans baby?
- Question: How to kill someone with kindness without letting them run over you?
- Question: Christians please help!?
- Question: Ladies Would U be okay if UR boyfriend called another girl "sweetie" and having conversation with her in a message? While in a RELATIONSHIP?
- Question: How can you tel if a guy is unhappy in his marriage?
- Question: Does his mom like me? Yes or no?
- Question: If a guy tells you that you are luck you get to choose the person you can marry?
- Question: How to make friends at my job? 10 points?
- Question: I need information about Rosendo Herrera resident of Huntignton park he pass away on December 31/2015. on Point Fermin in San Pedro?
- Question: Should i give my son my last name or his mom last name ?
- Question: So who do you believe?
- Question: He randomly texted me?
- Question: Is this normal for a boyfriend ?
- Question: As a mom, why is it legal for me to keep knowledge of my sons real father from him but neglect if I fail to take him to the doctor? Don't?
- Question: Is it against the law for my mom to hit me in new york; I dont just mean like a little punch i mean BEAAAAAAAT (blood involved on occasions)?
- Question: Why am i still in school?
- Question: Under what circumstances would you stay in a shelter?
- Question: What is going on in my daughter's head?
- Question: Why is it so hard to be open with a guy that you care about so much, but all they see is a friend and nothing else? Was I a little too rough?
- Question: Was I wrong?
- Question: Me and my aunt got our freak on with each other last weekend?? Is it as bad as I think?
- Question: Is there really no excuse for abuse?
- Question: Are people born between 1996-1999 still children?
- Question: Younger sister punishment?
Posted: 19 Jan 2016 03:40 PM PST This guy doesn't want me to look or move around his home at all. He doesn't want me to talk, bit on my lip, stare at him, or ask him question. He doesn't want me to ever disagree with him or debate with him. His alas right and anything I think or feel is wrong or stupid. He takes up for eveyone ,but me I'm Ms. Wrong in all situations. |
Question: I do not know how to deal with my girlfriends issue, any advice? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 01:49 PM PST My best friend is in a relationship for many years, but he is a type of guy who flirts with girls. I do not agree with that but still think it is his problem. Today he sent me a picture of some girl he thinks is hot. I just asked who it is. My girlfriend saw it and freaked out, telling me it is unfair towards her that my friend is sending me such things and wants me to tell my friend that he should not do it and that it is not ok. I do not think it is a big deal, as long as i do not start doing the same or checking them out etc. I can not control what others send to me. My girlfriend is 32 and i do not get why is she affected by such things and why she just can not trust me. Is she being immature about it? |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2016 01:17 PM PST I am not his type at all. His exes have been beautiful and thin. I am overweight and just look nothing like the type of girl he usually goes for. Our relationship has always been really questionable because I am not allowed to tell anyone we're dating or talk to him unless I know nobody is around. I don't mind that its like that because people at our high school are assholes and would give us hell if they knew. But because of this I know he is aware that I am not necessarily beautiful. The reason we even started talking is because we are both interested in the same things. He can't let his friends know that he likes anime or draws comics because they will just mock him about it. With me he can show me the things he works on and the stuff he likes knowing I won't judge him. I have had guys ask me out as a dare or guys bet money to see if I'll sleep with them. But my boyfriend and I have been together for six months and we do go out on dates a lot which seems a little far to go for a joke. The reason I don't know what to think about this is because I feel maybe he just likes spending time with me without being physically attracted to me. I feel that maybe he only wants to be friends but felt the only way to get close would be by dating, I never mentioned this to him because I don't want him to think I'm being insecure. What do you think? |
Question: Do you think this guy is starting to think of us as more than friends? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 12:51 PM PST This whole situation started when his girlfriend broke up with him and I had been trying to comfort him and we ended up having sex. The next week he told me he was afraid I would make a big deal about it and that he was glad that I wasn't super clingy and asking for a relationship. Since then our relationship hasn't really changed but we have sex often. If someone at school asks if we're dating we say we're just friends. We hang out a little more often but I wouldn't consider it dates. Just recently though he has been acting different. First of all I don't know if he dates but its never been off the table for us. So I had a date with someone I met during a college prep class and when I told my friend about it he kind of looked pissed off and said I don't give a f*ck about what you do really defensively. Then he called me the next day asking if I was going to go over. I heard his brother in the background ask who he was talking to and he said "my girlfriend". He has only ever referred to me as his friend. I don't know what to think. I think the girlfriend comment could have slipped out by accident. And maybe him getting mad is only because he knows if I start a serious relationship with someone else we will stop having sex. But I also worry that he could be having a change of feelings? I don't want to ask him because if he doesn't have feelings for me he will think I'm asking because I do and it will cause a bunch of drama. |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016 12:30 PM PST Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl. I had a good childhood, nothing bad ever really happened. I mean when I was only two weeks old my dad passed but I don't remember him, so I've never been affected by it, oh&my grandma passed when I was 9, I was very close with herbutI wasn't affected either.Me and my mom talk about my lack of sympathy, affection, emotion,ect now and then. She says I've always been this way of not being able to show emotions very easily, like when I'm excited,example when i receive a gift, of course I'm happy but I have to try really hard to show I am, so that I don't make the person think I don't like it, just trying to avoid an awkward situation. Christmas was a couple weeks ago and my boyfriend came down to visit, and of course he got me something and he knows how I am with things like this but he still kept asking if I really liked it. (Btw he's been my best friend for 6 years now) and this thing i have also has affected our past relationship and i feel like it still does even though I'm giving all I've got to be able to show emotion, he's the only person I've ever had such strong feelings for. I mean I've had a couple small crushes but they didn't last long.i don't know if this will help but I suffer from depression.I just think its so weird on how i turned out because my mom is a very emotional person and I barely show any..any ideas on how to fix this or what it is? If you have question go ahead and ask. I'm happy to answer, to figure out what going on. |
Question: Some stupid girl in school keeps telling me I need a haircut, what will I day to her? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 12:28 PM PST I am currently growing out my hair (I'm a guy) and I recently decided to get rid of my fringe because it was over my eyes and I am wearing my hair parted from now on. Anyways, some girl in my class in continuously telling me to cut it and I don't like it, what will I say to the *****? |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016 12:26 PM PST DEB. Her spirit is inside my mother's real body, and using it as a host. She is bullying me, and I am not her " daughter". Her daughter is Jackie Swearingen, and my father is bullying me as well because they want my " jaguar" car, and want to be Rich! She's doing the " guilt" trip, and saying I'm not helping her. Why would I help her?! She's not my fcking mother. I hate her Son Dennis Swearingen, and I hate her Butterface Daughter Jackie Swearingen. She got mad at me because I picked up my box of sneakers at the front of the door, and brought it into the house. I wanted to open the box to see the shoes, and she started harassing me because I open my box, and stuck the shoes in my room. She wants my " car". Then.. she say's I'm not helping her. After.. I started walking outside to get the grochery's in the trunk of the car. She started swearing at me, and name " calling" at me, so I started " swearing" at her, and name calling at her. She's a Fake, manipulative psycho btch. I didn't ask her to Play " mommy", go inside my mother's body as a host. I am sorry.. But Jason from Sum- 41 doesn't like his butterface " daughter", and her Heart and being a " gold digger", and same with the rest of the " money" hungry people. They have money. I went Grochery shopping because " saint Bernadette's" spirit was inside my real mother's body as a host, and then.. asked me to go shopping with her, and I said yes. She said.. my hair smelt like " gardenia", and it smelt good. I didn't know some nasty btch would push her spirit out of my real mother's body, and use my mother's body as a host. An you're " right", she's a " stranger". Why do I care? If she vanish through the air, and not the last time or the first time. She's still btching right now, and won't let it go. I hate it when people try to be my Mother, and try to give my mother a " stroke", and give me one as " well". How can I balance or be around my " real" mother's spirit if it isn't my " real" mother to begin with. Deb.. is a bully, and an immature old women. She's nasty, and mean- spirited. She is no where like my mother. I wan't nothing to do with her or her family. I guess.. dying is the " only" solution because she won't stop using my mother as a host, and is trying to " kill" me by giving me a high stroke, and thinking because she's arrogant, and holder then me. She believes she has power over me by " age", and bullying some girl.. that is far more prettier then her daughter inside, and out. It obviously drives her " nuts". To do worse, and far.. worse. Since she's " desperate", same with her daughter, her " poor" family. She's worthless, and has to use people.. and hurt innocent people to make a " buck or to". Now.. that's what you call a "loser". A person who has no inner beauty, and is nuts. U can't make people buy you things, give you things. Only spoiled whine, and act like a brat, and crazy. When someone buy's someone something, it's because it's meant for them, and not you. Now my mother is laughing like a nut case, has a Demon inside her. Her voice is Nutty, and evil. Her eye's are black, and red inside it. It's wide, and nuts. I can't deal with this bi-polar attitude. I'm going to have to stay away from her.. until everyone from my past who's astral projecting, and using her body as a host.. DIES! Just leave my mother alone, and let the " bad" spirits " DIE, and same with my " father'. It sad.. that Anthony Boone, and his family are bullies as well. Same with P-r0d. U have to " USE" me to make " MONEY", and use me.. for entertainment. Can't u see people are feeling sorry for me, and are aware of the Domino effect, and you hurting me, and my real families body an using it as a host. Why would you wan't to be my Mother? U should be yourself, and stay in your own body instead of using someone else's body as a host. An to use a body as a " host' because you're a gold digger who's a user bc you want a mansion home, and are a liar, and fake. U have to be around me, think you're me. When clearly.. you're nothing like " me". Just because I have a heart of gold. Doesn't mean you have one 2. People already know you don't have a heart of gold, and that's because you keep " bullying" me, and won't leave me alone. Everyone knows.. you're pestering me, and bothering me. Your goal is to play the helpless victim, and wanting people to suck into your manipulation, and mind games. Trying to make me look bad, and playing the.. Victim" like I'm attacking you. I'm not even talking to you, and I'm not even around you. Now.. you're lying about me, and trying to " use" whatever " b.s" lies about me. U don't even know me.... I guess all I can do is keep quiet, and look at you " nuts". It's clear that.. Jason, and all the stars don't like Deb, anyone from my past. So. I don't know why you're trying to balance with people who " rejected" you. Now you're taking your jealousy, and hatred on me bc it's in balance with me. How about " moving" on, and getting a life and.. stop meddling in my life, trying to destroy me. It's obvious you're weak- willed, and can't move on with life. U keep btching, and trying to kick me out because you think you have " power" over me. Surely". When you die.. you won't have that power, and control over your spirit anymore. You go to the morge, and then you fall into purgatory. You either go to hell or heaven. But.. since you're bullying " Jesus" daughter, and him loving me like a " daughter". It's clear.. that you're obviously going to hell. Since you're not repenting, and still continous trying to bully me over, and over again. I feel so sorry for heartless people. |
Question: I crashed into my sister s boyfriend s car last night, What do I say? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 12:16 PM PST I was backing out of my narrow driveway and he was parked at an angle. I thought I had passed him so I started to accelerate and crashed into his bumper. There was more damage on my car but I m still scared to tell him because we re not that close and I don t know how he ll react. Any advice? |
Question: Confundida......Entre Dos Amores? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 11:46 AM PST Mi marido esta preso hace 3 aƱos y sale en 4 meses, y yo conosi a un hombre que me he enamorado de el. yo le dije la verdad. y el me dijo que hablara con mi marido y resolviera ese problema. en un mes el me ha tratado como ningun hombre nunca lo habia hecho anteriormente, con amor carinos atenciones regalos llamadas, mensajes. PERO. desde que le dije la verdad a mi Marido el a cambiado no me llama, me ignora y estoy muy confundida de el cambio. Estoy desesperada por que el estaba muy enamorado y ahora actua muy indiferente. |
Question: I'm in love with by brother in-law.? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 11:38 AM PST This is long. I'm sorry. My husband and I have been together for 4 years. We got married when we were eighteen because I got pregnant. We hav had our ups and downs but for the past couple months I've felt like I don't love him at all. My little sister and her husband have been married for 3 years. Her husband is everything that I wish mine was. He makes about 3 times more than mine. He's handsom and healthy and he treats my sister so well. He's an amazing father and he even picks up my husband's slack when they visit by helping with our daughter and cleaning our apartment even with a 2 year old son of his own. My sister has told me that he goes down on her all the time and he loves to please. I genuinely have feelings for him when they visit which Is about 3 or 4 times a month. It's to the point where every time I have sex I'm imagining him. Im very seriously considering divorce bUT I don't know what to do about my feelings towards my sisters husband. I know I can never be with him but every time I see him I get the urge to tell him how I feel. What can I do? I don't know how to handle this. |
Question: How can I be a trophy wife? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 11:18 AM PST I won't lie: I'm gorgeous but I need a rich man! I'm getting my masters but where can I get one? Since I'm only 23 I won't date over 34. |
Question: Girls .... health disaster for sex, relationships? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 10:12 AM PST I'm 18 years old, and I recently found out some very bad news. I have a cancerous growth, and will need to have surgery to get it removed. What's worse though is that its in a very sensitive place for a guy, on my manhood (seriously). I talked to the doctors, and it turns out I will need surgery for this, meaning they need to seriously remove my entire male organ! Like, down past the base even, internally. Which means I won't have anything left down there, or even be able to attach an artificial one. Of course I'm very upset about this, but I also have some questions that I feel too embarrassed to ask anyone in the real world. I don't know what all to expect, and please this is serious. I just need truthful answers though, so please girls if you could, answer these questions honestly 1. (Since girls have no male organ).... how exactly do you think I'll have to pee now? (I hope still like a man)? 2. How would you really feel, dating a guy who'd lost his 'manhood'? 3. Do you think you could feel as satisfied in bed, as with a regular guy (& why)? 4. Do you think I can have the same very very good pleasure that I do now?.... And still "bust" from that pleasure? 5. If you were dating a guy who lost his manhood, what would you (honestly) want him to do? Would you secretly want him to let you see other guys sometimes? I mean, if he could totally accept anything.... what would you miss or crave, or want him to do? ... (please, be honest) |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016 09:36 AM PST Due to mother nature destroying their home, I have relatives staying in my home for alot longer than I expected. Do you think it would be right to ask them to share in household expenses such as utilities? |
Question: Why does my grandmother mentally/emotionally abuse me? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 09:24 AM PST im 13 and my grandmother constantly makes fun of me and laughs at me at other times she will yell at me for nothing my dad talked to her about it because he thinks she is a little abusive too but it only made thins worse for me. i have had a "girlfriend" for about 3 months but im afaid to have her come to my house because i will get jumped on or my girlfriend might (shes done the same to my friends in the past). why does she do this? i live with my grandmother by the way |
Question: Me and my aunt lezzed off with each other? Is that as bad as I think it is? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 08:33 AM PST Last weekend me and my aunt who rarely see eachother but talk on the phone a lot and have a very close bond, are like bestfriends stayed the night together I was at her place and we had a quite night in with a few drinks, we ended up getting a little tipsy and well we were laughing and joking then we started to stare at eachother and we leaned in we made out and touched each other up a little bit. I feel sooo bad about it like it was wrong on so many occasions if we were sober it would have never ever happened, we are both one hundred percent straight and are attracted to each other in no way at all what so ever! We have talked since and everything is fine with us I just feel really bad! If it makes a difference I'm 17 and she's 26 and in my country I'm legal to drink and have sex so I'm talking about how bad is it that we actually did that? and how do I fix it?!?!? |
Question: I don't understand why everyone thinks? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 08:16 AM PST I am a troll... I am having some serious problems right now and I really need advice about my pregnancy and my financial situation. I'm not sure how to handle all of this stuff... Thank you for the serious answers because I'm really worried. I'm considering giving the babies up for adoption, but I'm scared. My doctor mentioned a c-section and that looks really painful. All of this is making me feel sick |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016 07:44 AM PST I was in a long distance relationship for 6 months. Even though this was my first long distance relationship it seemed to be working out . My boyfriend at the time stayed an hour away . I don t drive so he was the one who use to always come to see me . He never mentioned that this was a problem or anything . Recently he broke up with . In short he said I didn t understand how much it took for him to come and see me . He deleted me off of Facebook and snap chat . The day after the break up he requested to follow me again on snap. So I accept it . A week and a half later I deleted him off of snap . Less than 5 minutes later he requested to follow me again . However this time I politely ignored it . Why is he still wanting to keep tabs on me if he was the one who wanted the break up ? He made it very clear to me that we was over . Does this mean he is starting to regret his choice to break up with me ? Or he just wants to keep tabs on me ? |
Question: How to make boy love u?? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 06:53 AM PST |
Question: What are some good deeds i can do? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 05:47 AM PST I wanna make someones day today. I dont have much in the way of money so i cant give a waiter or waitress a $500 tip or anything like that but i wanna do something nice for people and spread love. What are somethings that i can do that are small but mean alot? Any recommendations are welcome. |
Question: My sister is leaving her husband, am I right to just stay out of it and not hate the ex? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 05:23 AM PST I completely disagree with her reasons but it is her marriage and none of my business. I have been asked to hate the soon to be ex-husband and love her new boyfriend (she is not even divorced yet). She bad mouths the ex daily including in front of the kids and was mad when I noted she shouldn't cut him down in front of the kids. So am I right not to hate the ex or should I hate him out of loyalty for her. Am I right to stay out of it or should I be taking her side? |
Question: Pregnant with a married mans baby? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 04:57 AM PST Please, just read what I have to say, this is quite difficult for me. I am 19, I have been screwing around with a 29 year old married man for a couple months now (I am aware it is wrong but continue to read). He has been telling me that it is coming to an end with his wife. He has been so unhappy with her for years because apparently all she wants is money and he is in the situation now where he is trying to think how to make it better for himself without her leaching everything from her. So yes he is still living with her. I have recently found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant with his baby.. and I am so scared because his wife sounds like a nut case. She throws knives at him when he is late coming in from being out with his friends and she would probably try and find me if she knew about me. I have no idea what to say to him, I have not dared told him anything because it seems like he is fed as it is without me dropping this bombshell. It is not fair on this child at all. Everything deserves a life and I find it heart breaking. I have had one abortion before and I still haven't gotten over it. I am also on contraception. Please someone help me I'm so scared to tell him, but something has to be done :/ |
Question: How to kill someone with kindness without letting them run over you? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 04:48 AM PST |
Question: Christians please help!? Posted: 19 Jan 2016 03:30 AM PST I decided to separate from my husband by going to a women's shelter because of the constant verbal, emotional and at times physical abuse we were going through. Well i we are in counseling and I told our counselor from the church and he minimized the abuse my husband was throwing out and focused on the fact I didn't attend church with my husband on Sunday and told me that wasn't submission. I keep being told I'm in sin if I separate but I need it so bad. I am so confused its not funny. I need some advice from believers |
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Question: How can you tel if a guy is unhappy in his marriage? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 10:52 PM PST Is it possible that a guy can be married to a girl and still have feelings for annex? If so, how long will these feeling last? He had an a arranged marriage so he wasn't really in love with his wife initially at all. Do you think that will ever change? |
Question: Does his mom like me? Yes or no? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 10:51 PM PST So I went to go visit my bestfriend of 6 yrs family for the first time. Me&him have gotten closer than ever. she was nice we all talked and watched movies. His baby sister loved me, his stepdad is funny. His brother is really cool and his grandma is so sweet. We were all making jokes and laughing and talking about my bestfriend (let's call him A) so A's mom Idk..I guess she liked me but it's hard to tell. I walked in a little shy but they were expecting me they definetly were. She cooked nd it was amazing. There was cake and I got some pastries for us to eat. So A left to BCT not to long ago and me trying to get on her good side and being nice I messaged her on Facebook a week or 2 after I met her wondering how she was and the pregnancy. I just wanted to know how she was feeling didn't want to bother her or bring up A. And she would reply within seconds literally she would read it right away. So right when she said everyone is good as I'm about to reply she brings up A. I don't know if that's good or bad but I'm guessing it's good? We added eachother on Facebook. She likes my post of him that I put up before he left. There's a part of me that says she doesn't like me. But then there's another part that says she does and that I just need to calm down. I feel like she doesn't because one of A's other friends M seems to not like me for no reason. My bestfriend S&C are telling me not to worry that she's just jealous and that his mom likes me but Idk. Why am I feeling like this?? |
Question: If a guy tells you that you are luck you get to choose the person you can marry? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 10:50 PM PST Even if Sex Is out of the question. Does that mean he genuinely isn't happy about his marriage? He told me that I'm lucky because I get to choose who I want to marry (and he repeated this twice). He had an arranged marriage. He wanted to sleep with me. But in the end he was the one who said we shouldn't sleep together and backed out of the whole idea. He kept saying your are lucky you get to choose whome you want to marry. He didn't tell me he was married. Not did I have a clue about it. Does this really mean he is unhappy in his marriage? Did he like me? |
Question: How to make friends at my job? 10 points? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 10:14 PM PST I work at a warehouse it's big and a lot of people of different ages men and women but mostly young guys in there 20s. I see people working but throughout the time they are working they will randomly talk to different people. I have had problems with anxiety and making friends side I was young but not so much anymore. My main problem is what to say to a person while I'm working to try to make friendships. Any advice please thanks. |
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Question: Should i give my son my last name or his mom last name ? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 09:05 PM PST My last name is Voskoboynikov which most people find really hard or should i give him my wife last Hashimoto which seem easier to pronounce |
Question: So who do you believe? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 08:12 PM PST If a boy and a girl were physically fistfighting, who do you think won the fight based on the end results : Girl-the one on top. Gave the boy a small bump on his head. Boy-the one on the bottom. Gave the girl a small bloody mouth from her braces. So who do you think won the fight based on the end results and explain why??? |
Question: He randomly texted me? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 08:11 PM PST I haven't heard from my ex in 7 months. He just randomly texted me saying he found something of mine (a hat) and wanted to know if I wanted it back. Once I said no, he said okay. And that was it. Does it mean anything that he texted me? |
Question: Is this normal for a boyfriend ? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 07:23 PM PST He has never lied to me and dose prove to me that he's tell the truth but lately I only hear from him every weekend, I used to hear from him everyday and then gradually he started to only talk to me on weekends. I know he's busy with school and work. And the thing is that I feel like he's hiding me from being in public with him all because he doesn't want one of his relatives to see me with him. And family doesn't know anything about me even through we've been going out 8 months. He's had bad experiences have his family scaring off his ask girlfriends but I keep telling him that they couldn't scare me away because I love him so much. I know he loves through his actions more than his words but I just don't know what I should do and how I can get him to stop hiding me from his family. Can you help me? Is this normal for a boyfriend? |
Posted: 18 Jan 2016 07:21 PM PST both affect his physical and emotional health negatively? Shouldn't we lock these women up who treat their children as pawns in a game? |
Posted: 18 Jan 2016 07:03 PM PST im 14 |
Question: Why am i still in school? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 06:30 PM PST I am fifteen and a freshmen. A while ago, I just realized that I don t know what I am going do with my life, but I also do. I want to work with communication arts but that doesn t make me wan to do homework or study. In a way I want to but I also don t. Please help me figure this out |
Question: Under what circumstances would you stay in a shelter? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 06:24 PM PST I've been with these people (family) and fighting on and off for 6 years. Each time, I trust them something dark ( secret) comes out. Earlier I just found out more things how they are manipulating me. I want to leave now and don't come back. |
Question: What is going on in my daughter's head? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 06:14 PM PST She was very cheerful when our family was in Ohio, where she grew up. When we moved to New York, however, she started to feel sad about school, friendship,and stuff. I assumed it was just a normal part of growing up, so I comforted and told her a couple of jokes to cheer her up. She did laugh, and bit by bit, she stared to get in her cheerful state of mind again. Then, one day, I randomly bought up the topic about how her school life was going in a conversation. She said she will do her best before she dies and "goes to hell." That part was a little disturbing. I asked why go to hell but not heaven, and she answered that she has to go to hell after she dies because she upset me and "committed a sin." I told her that she didn't upset me and that it was just part of a parent's job. She said that it was acceptable to go to hell, and that mindset made her do her best and life her life to the fullest every second. That was really positive. I didn't know if I should talk to her about this or just leave her in this mindset and she'll eventually forget about it. Maybe it's just me overthinking everything, but I'm kind of serious here. |
Posted: 18 Jan 2016 06:08 PM PST My guy friend and I were hanging out at his condo. He was making dinner while I was sitting on the counter, watching him. I got down and walked up behind him and put my hand on his upper arm and kissed the back of his shoulder. He turned his head and said What you doing baby girl? I said I want you to touch me like you've never touched me before. He turned around after shutting the burner off and said, I find you very attractive and I have such a great physical attraction to you, but if I went to touch you sexually, we'd be crossing the line with one another. I walked into the living room and sat down on the couch. He goes, Don't walk away. I said, Well I'm good at that, obviously. You probably have your phone packed with girls numbers that your ******* and I'm the girl that respects you more than anything and waits for you to make the first move, but no I'm just the friend. We go back and forth for a little while and I said, Well since I'm just a friend, I need to go and just talk to you later on. I went and got in my car and left, but something in the back of my mind was telling me that I shouldn't have left him to let it all out on the table with him on how I felt, but I didn't go back. He called me and said, I don't have my phone packed with girls numbers that I'm *******. The only number I got in my number in my phone is my mothers and yours. I didn't believe him. He proceeded to say, I'm not just throwing myself at girls left and right. I respect the women I am around.. I value women and I value you damn it. I don't look for sex because I'm not interested in it, plus I'm not gay. Then he shut up and said Got anything to say to my face, come out and say it because I have given you ever thing I had to say. I said, Yea. I've been 150% honest with you on everything up to this point, but I can't take it anymore. Then he comes back with, What can't you take anymore. I said, Its so hard being with someone you care about that you find very attractive and want more... with, but they get so scared to want more. I'm done waiting on that with you. I need to move on and find someone that I can move to that next phase with. Then the phone was beeping in my ear, so I hung up. About 20 minutes later, the door bell rang and I opened the door and he was in his black wool coat and I said, What are you doing here? He came in, shut the door, walked upstairs and sat on the couch and he said, I don't want you to go out with anyone. I said well I'm tired of waiting... for you. I want more from us and you just don't so I need to move on and find someone who is wanting to be on that same level with me. He put his hand on my knee and turned his head and I could tell he had a tear in his eye and I said, Listen, I love you and I always have, but I'm not waiting around anymore for you to make that decision because I know it will just be friends between us. I got up and walked in front of him and he grabbed my arm and said, don't give up on me. I said, I already... have and I've tried numerous times. I'm sick and tired of being the good looking friend that you hug and kiss on the forehead, when I want something more and nothing else. I walk into my kitchen and he follows close behind and I said, I'm not asking you for sex, I'm just wanting more than just friends with you. Then I started getting sad and he could tell that it was bothering me, walked over and put his arms around me and said, I got that you weren't, but I understand now what you meant. |
Posted: 18 Jan 2016 06:05 PM PST Today I got "scolded" by my math teacher, & as a kid who never gets in trouble, it really hurt me. I just feel frazzled and confused, because I don't think I was entirely wrong. Last Friday we took a math test and I didn't finish. The teacher asked me if I could come in after school because she didn't want me to wait over the weekend (it's here that I should mention that I have a 504, which is for testing anxiety and allows me more time on tests, it lets me stop and finish them later. She knows this. If I pushed, I could have had the weekend and she couldn't have argued). I told her that I would try and make it after school, but that I had a meeting for yearbook, our deadline was coming up, & I didn't know if I could get out. After school, a friend and I are running all around for yearbook asking people questions, and every time we pass her room I check to see if she's there- no. Yearbook is done, my friend & I are walking out, & peak my head in her room to see if she's still there, she's not. We outside the school & in the parking lot when I see Mrs. Bears walking to her car. I (& I admit this was wrong), cover my face with a folder and say I'm afraid she'll be mad that I missed her. Today I walk into her room to finish. She tells me that I can't do this again and that she saw me in the lot. I explain that I was doing yearbook the entire time, and some kid says that he saw me. She repeats that I can't do it again. I know I was wrong on some levels, but I'm still hurt? |
Question: Me and my aunt got our freak on with each other last weekend?? Is it as bad as I think? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 05:49 PM PST Last weekend me and my aunt who rarely see eachother but talk on the phone a lot and have a very close bond, stayed the night together I was at her place and we had a quite night in with a few drinks, we ended up getting a little tipsy and well we made ourt and felt each other up a little bit. I feel sooo bad about it like it was wrong on so many occasions if we were sober it would have never ever happened, we are both one hundred percent straight and are attracted to each other in no way at all what so ever! We have talked since and everything is fine with us I just feel really bad! If it makes a difference I'm 17 and she's 26 and in my country I'm legal to drink and have sex so I'm talking about how bad is it that we actually did that? and how do I fix it?!?!? |
Question: Is there really no excuse for abuse? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 05:26 PM PST I reported my boyfriend to the police for physical and emotional abuse and a lot of people I know are judging me for that since I made a committment and then did not accept him as a person. I know he is under a lot of pressure and he didn't really have the best time growing up. Should I have been more understanding of his needs and not only my own? |
Question: Are people born between 1996-1999 still children? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 03:44 PM PST I was born in 1996 and I am gonna be 20 in a few months and I was wondering if us 1996-1999 borns are still children? Thanks Katie. Ok thanks Frank |
Question: Younger sister punishment? Posted: 18 Jan 2016 03:13 PM PST I want to punish her by tickling her. Her behavior is horrible. She is 16 and ticklish and she hit in our little sister who is 4 years old, today and i decided to punish her, for it and other bad behaviors. how long should i tickle her?? how can i pin her? how long should i tickle her? where should i tickle her ?(she is more ticklish in feet and less in neck) ? what is the best tool to tickle (feathers, hair brush, teeth brush, fingers, or other)? I talked with her too and nothing changed. I am her olde rbrpther. brother not rbrpther. |
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