If you be an active person and do everything but have few extra weights, can that make your partner wants divorce? Or there are other problems in marriage?

Okay. Here's the rundown: Me and my Husband have been married for several years now and have had a normal sex life up until a few months go when he confessed to me that he is tired of normal sexual intercourse. He conveyed to me that he now wants me to tie him up and tickle him. At first, I didn't mind because I was open to try something new, as long as he didn't want to tickle me. So I did that for a couple weeks and he expresses to me that he "he wants me to tickle him until he passes out or vomits". I was a little frightened and worried by this as I'm afraid he has something mentally wrong with him and he needs help. I do not mind to do it at all but there is nothing in it for me (Not that I'm being selfish, it's just I haven't had anything done to me in months) and wanting to be tortured I find to be a series problem. Any help? He is a man so maybe it's normal. I'm just a little weirded out by it and don't want our kids finding out. Ugh.

I m currently going through a divorce/dissolution. My husband and I bought a house two years after we were married, and though I am not on the mortgage, I am listed as the survivor/owner on the auditor s website (So I AM on the deed, I think that s what that means) My father told me that means he has to buy me out. Is that true, since I m not on the mortgage? I m from Ohio, if that helps any. Googling hasn t helped much.

My husband and I have been married for almost a year, and we've started to discuss the possibility of trying to have a baby. He adores kids, and I honestly thought he'd be the first out of the two of us to have "baby fever," but I recently surprised us both by bringing up the subject. Now, so far I have gotten us both books on Baby's First Year, and What to Expect when Expecting, as well as an informative book just for dads-to-be. However, as interested as he sounds, there's more personal concerns that I don't know how to help him with. He's worried (rightfully so) that he will not have as much time to himself with a baby, and that our lives will be different. I've tried to ease his worry, but he has not wavered. We've also been spending more time with our niece and nephew. Do you have any advice on how to keep the baby conversation rolling, without sounding pushy?

My kids are grown now and I only stayed with him for their sake. But it was a mistake. He is a police officer in our town and is friends with many people in the court and friends with some of the cops. He helped his lawyer out of a dwi years ago and also years ago I found a bag that he went away with, with conforms in it. How to I get divorced from this man if he refuses to sign the papers. We are a laughing stock in the town because he told everyone we are getting divorced 10 years ago but now just wants to stay married for money reasons ?

against you by saying the same thing isnt he the wrong person for me. After that he was disrespecting me so i just splashed wate on him and he hit me behind the head. He called me a bicth and took my phone. He also went on twitter and bashed me by talking crap about me. We been married for 2 years.

Say things got bad in your relationship and you took a break, and during that break your SO slept with someone else. Would you want to know?

If you say no how can you be so sure he wouldn't How do you know if he would be able to suppress his primitive biological and evolutionary instincts I've read of very sane men who are professionals and business's men high class men still kill their wives over infidelity and cuckholdry And commit suicide sometimes over it too Ex: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-129800/Girls-frantic-999-father-kills-cheating-wife.html Do women realize the man they cheat with is also in danger too http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/11341782/Husband-used-GPS-app-to-catch-his-wife-cheating-then-killed-her-in-front-of-their-children.html http://now8news.com/crazed-man-murders-ex-fiance-feeds-her-ground-beef-remains-to-her-parents-at-bbq/

Especially to prevent women from commiting paternity fraud Like they show kids in high school videos of what happens when you cheat in your marriage and have an affair And there are videos of husbands going crazy killing their wife and her lover and the children who's not his burning down the House Then commiting suicide or running off etc Or vice versa cause that does happen a lot you read about it in news all the time The caption on the video goes " don't cheat on him cause you never know what he'll do to you when he finds out " Infidelity it ruins lives don't do it don't be that kind of girl I target women because statistically they cheat more but the effects are more devastating when women cheat because they can end up dead for it and it's common Men are more likely to kill out of rage and jealousy then women are

I grew up in usa. And went to get married in pakistan. I found this guy on shaadi dot com. I had only talked w him on skype and started liking him for something as big as a marriage. We only had a month to plan a trip everyone had prepared for wesding when i went to pakistan only to find out his family is soo stupid. They did not even make wari clothes or didnt gi e amy gifts to me. Even my husbands sisters didnt give any gifts. I spent a fortune onthese retards. Now im married happy w husband but thought of that makes me upset. I had always wondered what my clothes wari would look like etc. now im back in usa and never going back. What do u guys think about it those of u who know the concept behind wari. I really want to twll my husband he thinks his family is god.

You can answer male or female, just indicate to whom you're talking about. There's no "Etiquette" to showing love. Stop moving it there. I just asked this question because some of you in marriage & divorce believe firmly that there's a "right way" to show love and I wanted to know what it was. By the way, my 5 love languages is "affection" and "physical touch". The two things I get neglected the most. Probably because if you neglect the person something they want then they are easier to control.

I don't mind him watching porn however when it is interfering in our relations - once every other week or once a month just isn't enough for me. I know that I am still attractive. I have talked about this with him - several times, not being naggy - but have even come to him in tears. It has done nothing. I recently met someone, the first person since I met my husband that I had feelings for. I told the man that I found him very attractive, but that I was married and faithful. I also sat my hubby down and we talked for a long time. I told him that I would have to move out because I would never cheat on him, and felt so guilty about the way I feel. He agreed to drop the porn to a minimum and assured me that there was nothing that I needed to do - that it was his issue. I still have feelings for this other person, but have told him we are trying to work all out. He is a person who lives pretty far away from us - that I am grateful for......what to do though....the porn issue has not stopped.

He also asked me to message the guy and pretend I want to have an affair with him.

Im planning on getting divorced with my husband because he is so inresponsible and dont even come see his daughter. We have a 6 month r and well i dont want to put child support since he doesnt last in a job and i dont like him around her since he does drugs. I was told even if i dont want the court could still do it. Oh and in an estimate how much does getting divorced cost?

These were cards with hand written notes in them, kind of like a diary, of how much I still loved her. They were very sentimental and was a piece of me. But last night, during a fight she created to make a point that she was in charge of me (she's not), she ripped up each and every one of them, then announced that I made her do that in front of me and the kids. I've spoke to her very minimally since then, only arguing through text because there's only so much I can take without feeling the need to defend my identity/ego. The only thing I did was pull all of the cards out of the trash so I can show her what her anger did on Valentine's Day when she gets yet another card with a specialized note inside it. She told me we can stop fighting when I apologize to her but she is going to make my life hell until she's vindicated. Meanwhile, the thing I need to apologize for is hours after the thing she did to provoke me so I feel no need to apologize when she's the one who treated me poorly to get that reaction in the first place (self full-filling prophecy). Her last text to me today was that my pride will be the end of the relationship (I have to apologize or else basically). I replied to her and told her that we both were wrong and I'm not going to give her the ego boost of apologizing without getting one in return for her STARTING the argument in the first place. I plan on standing my ground and not being a pushover, but I can't help but feel I should be doing something else... I understand this was a gift to her and she can do what she wants with them, but ripping them up then making a statement in front of the kids to represent her anger for me and her being "less deceived by my feelings for her" is a personal attack on me. She basically said to me that those cards were lies and if I really loved her then I would kiss her butt, even if she started the fight, and even if we would have never argued if she wasn't a huge drama queen. Not a pride issue, I can give her what she wants, but this doesn't put an end to her creating drama and then expecting an apology after I start to behave in a way that could be perceived as a threat. That's like going to McDonald's, asking for a Big Mac, expecting them to spit in your food, open the burger, not find spit but accuse them of it, and then ask for a manager when they get sassy back. That is basically what happened. So what started all this was she was complaining back on Sunday and I told her to stop spewing negative crap. We fought a little and she felt entitled to complaining to me about her problems since I was her husband and I should be willing to hear ALL her drama. The fight ended that day. While on the way home yesterday, I asked for her to be my teammate and not just life partner so we can tag team the kids for once and she said "stop complaining and spewing your negative crap" to get back at me.

Why do so many people cheat? If they are not happy with their wives or husband, then why stay with that person then lie to make their partner think that everything is going swell? Why lie and say everything is going good when to that one unhappy person who is not happy say so? Why get on a public online source where their partner has no idea they are bashing them? Why not just tell the truth?

My wife came clean to me today that a few years back she had "HPV" a sexually transmitted disease that causes cervical cancer in women. She told me a Pap smear came up with unusual possibly cancerous cells. She her doctors insisted it was gone after being checked every year since & there was no need to tell future partners. I've always been told I was the ONLY man she had unprotected sex with but I'm starting to wonder. I'm really upset that she waited until 3 months after our wedding to tell me this information! I feel "lied" to & like this is information I deserved to know about prior to us getting married. I can't seem to look at her the same anymore. I'm constantly asking myself what else is she lying to me about? What should I do? Should I already be considering a divorce? Without trust I feel like our marriage is failed already

A couple of weeks before Christmas, my wife found out that her mother had died in early November. However, she had been in a crazy mood since Thanksgiving. At first I thought it was due to the busy season at her job, but she is still very "lazy" at home and is still unable to pull herself out of bed in the mornings. Our relationship moved very, very quickly. That's partly due to me. I pushed things along by making the moves, but she went along with it. Never once did she ask me to slow down. Now we are going on 3rd year together (we got married after 5 months). We have received a lot of criticism for moving so quickly and getting married right away. She says she's happy, but I just don't know anymore. We have 2 very active toddlers who are into anything and everything. Our 15 month old who hasn't started walking is climbing up onto things. I don't understand how her job could be so stressful and demanding. And yes, I have gotten a lot of slack from her about it. Just because she sits in an office most of the day, doesn't mean it isn't stressful is what she's said on numerous occasions. Lately I've been thinking that I was intended to be the rebound guy, but since we had kids right away, maybe she feels stuck with me. Either that, or she's pregnant AGAIN despite being on the pill (which didn't work the first time), which would explain a few other things (women stuff). But she also says that stress can wreck havoc on a women's body and cause mood swings, crazed hormones, etc. I realized I forgot to include an important detail....we met exactly 1 year after she her divorce was finalized. We really haven't spoken much about our pasts, which is fine. We both wanted to have a family. The only difference is that I was looking to finally settle down...I was a bit of a player before we met, but she was okay with that. She has said it's the past. I just don't think she had planned on things moving so quickly. She says she is happy.

She's a teacher, and i don't like this job, Well, there are many reasons why i don't like her job at all, because my wife is really good looking, and she's teaching teenagers, and i know how teens are, cause i was once a teen as well, i know they'll keep looking at her in class, and doing things, etc... i didn't say i don't trust my wife, i really trust her and love her, we've been married for only 4 months, and i already feel jealous, Yes I am jealous, i can't help it, my wife is a friendly person, once you look at her and see her sweet smile, you'll absolutely like her, Besides that, some of her students (male students) come to our home to take additional lessons, and she helps them improve and get better grades, by inviting them to study here, in our house, i don't like that too, These boys look really annoying and i hate the fact that she's with them, and treats them in a nice way, Anyways, i don't like the whole situation, i want it to stop, i don't want any problems with my wife because of her job, I can't tell her to quit her job, cz i imagine her reaction, Is there any way to let her quit her job ? And do something else besides teaching ? Or just stay home, Even going outside by herself makes me worried, she's a beautiful woman, and i'm just some normal guy who doesn't look perfect, I'm afraid she would leave me ?

Spare no feelings--be honest that's why I'm here. My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest and basically she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She doesn't know why. Last time we had sex she cried and felt bad and didn't know why she cried. HOWEVER, she also told me the last time we had sex she felt me in her but it just felt "ehh" and wanted to stop. This makes me feel like I have a little p*nis to be blunt. I'm about 7 inches when fully aroused, never measured girth. We rarely have foreplay and I never eat her. This isn't because I don't want to it's because everything I try tickles her including eating her so she makes me stop. We are both frustrated but very much in love. No idea what to do. I feel this is a problem I have to solve or find suggestions and solutions. Don't say divorce, we gotta work thru this. She's 22 I'm 24 married 1 yr baby on the way.

We have been together for 3 and 1/2 years and he knows I have Borderline PD. He wanted me to turn on the heater but I sweat and get hot flashes more easily and I didn't want hot air blowing on me. I don't want him to leave me nor do I want to leave him but I insulted his $10 an hour job and he called me a few bad names. Why should I have to sleep on the couch when it's MY house? I don't think I get anything in a common law marriage In TX?

Although my abuser has moved on with his life and I pray his new wife never endures what I did, what is there to say for me? I feel like I have inherited a sentence for life with the scars I must bare. He smiled as he got away with it all as if I was nothing. Will there ever be justice? I was physically and sexually assaulted and I don't know how to forgive myself yet along forgive him. I can't believe he got away with it and I will never see justice at all.

It wasnt like this before and lately she doesn't even have time for me. She's always busy with her coursework or her job and when I try to start something it never gets very far. We still have sex, but really only when she makes time for me or is (rarely) in the mood. I've asked a female friend and she said that she may not be that into me anymore or be cheating. What could be the signs of either? I mean I have changed much since we've got together, so could she be cheating on me??

My husband is a great guy. I love him so much and he treats me right. The only issue we have is that he never wants to travel away from our city. I have to talk him into it every time - and then once we are there, he has a great time! It's pretty annoying to feel like I'm dragging him out only for him to be like "hey, this is pretty good, you were right!" I am trying to talk him into going to Monterey, CA for spring break this year. We live in the Pac NW, so it's about a day's drive down give or take. I think he would really like it there, and I know I would. If we can't go this year, I would still want to go SOMEWHERE new. I work too, and I would pay for the whole dang trip if he would just say yes. How would you deal with this?

I m 15 and my boyfriend is 16 he s the best guy in the world. He s never rude to me or disrespectful and everytime I talk to him I go crazy inside because of how much joy talking to him brings me. I can truly be myself around him. We are both catholic and from very conservative catholic families (I actually met him at my church a few years ago). He is the middle child of 9 children and I m the youngest of 5. His siblings and mine are all fully related to us (we don t have any half or step siblings). We have had great marriages modeled in front of us by our parents who have both all stayed married and never gotten divorced. My point is is that we want to get married. We want to have a big family (10 kids or so) and we want to start now or at least get married now. I know every ones like "no ur just gonna get divorced" or "get ur education first" and "you don t really know love ur only in highschool" but I love him and we don t want to wait. our priest would permit it and give his blessing. Please give ur feedback considering everything I said.

Iv got a couple things on my bucket list that I cant do while Im married and it looks like I wont be able to achieve them before about 33. any replies would be greatly appreciated.

i got married but we both never stayed together in one house, i used to visit her during my holidays .... meanwhile she become pregnant then i was asking her to come and stay with me to start out life.... she says her carrier is main she cannot come now to me...... what to do ? now she is not even talking to me and no idea where is she ,..... she left her old place and moved some other place for her job..... i lost my interest to live with this kind of girl.... how do i come out it please help me

Why would he be like that? I typically support and take his side, so why does he value the feelings of others over my own?

What advice would you give someone who has a spouse who always plays victim then retaliates and truly victimizes their partner (me). This is a belief/opinion problem, but they believe their lies.

suspect her husband was doing this and even care ? My wife hardly ever wears the pretty gowns and babydolls I have bought for her and i find it kind of fun to swish about in them every once in awhile

there are no calls between the two of them in the call log, yet she still shows up on suri suggestions. i want to trust him but its too suspicious. help? also, yes i have asked him and he says no. so i just want to know how valid suri's suggestions actually are... if they are actually telling me something or they are at random......if its worth it taking up a serious talk about why she keeps showing up .

My wife graduated as a Nurse Practitioner in Dec. 2014. She took the license exam in Oct. 2015 for the first time and had a perfect score. She is now certified but i do not feel the enthusiasm in her in aggressively looking for Jobs as an NP. She is still working her RN Job and just recently accepted a part-time NP instructor job for a University. This instructor Job is a 3 month contract Job that they renew at the beginning of each Semester. This has been going on since Jan. 2014. I keep telling her to forget about the part-time Jobs and be serious about looking for Full time NP jobs. But she has become a little lazy in that department. What can I do. I periodically check online for NP jobs and send to her to apply. She apparently loves her Nursing Job and being an NP is a step up and still in same field. If you have a family with 2 little babies, yes you are obligated to get a Job in the field. That's why we spent over $30K getting her that Education. As an NP, she will be making twice what she makes now. So she is obligated to get a Job ASAP as an NP and quit working on weekend nights as a Nurse. We need that family time on the weekends since I work weekdays. And by the way, my question keeps being moved around to different categories. This was initially a career question.. now it is moved to marriage and Divorce. UPDATE: I cam home and had a chat with her about 2 hours ago. She agrees with me and have told the university that this semester will be her last semester to teach as she need to focus on her NP Career. She understands how important it is to get a job as an NP soonest as it will affect her later if do not make a decision now. Employers will look at the time span between her passing the license exam and applying for Jobs.