He has his kids over on the weekends and I stay upstairs with my mom and we watch movies and shows I've dvr'd during the week. I feel like this is the time I get to hang out with my mom and this is the time for him to spend with his kids since he doesn't see them but 2 days a week. I think it makes sense. I've came down a handful of times in that year and watched a movie and/or played a video game with his kids but I'm just not interested in kid stuff. The thought of watching animated movies, shows sounds like torture. I feel like I don't have to force myself to do that because I'm not a parent. With no experience in this area I ask, am I supposed to create a relationship/connection with my boyfriend's kids or is it fine for me to do my own thing? No need to make any rude remarks. I've haven't been around kids since I was a kid, so I have no idea about any of this stuff. Your advice will give me something to think about but it shouldn't hurt to read. Thanks for having tact I appreciate it.

Apparently I do pretty much everything wrong when it cones to males in fact i dont know what it feels like to be actually cherished admired and treated resoectfed fully by one. Theu havent given me a committment or much, at all. I am 30. I dont feel this is my fault, i guess only i attempt to support myself And suggest I can be caretaker as well. Its llike my kindness can be Not needed to others. The more negativity now the more less I suppose I will do. Just my thougyts though..correct me... Don't actually be needy, but "need" a man...it's an extreme contradiction. If I need something I am also simultaneously being needy. Maybe it is more context I can understand more deeply. Answers are appreciated. ...typos..*

so Im dealing with a situation with my mother and its the cause of my depression. So for the past 10 years off and on my mother and sister have lived with me for various reasons, either it is because my mother lost her job, or she got into a fight with her roommates ,the only time they have not lived with me was from 2009-2013, and in 2014, I actually put apartment in my name for the both of them to live, really affordable 650.00 a month, but neighbors complaned about them so much, the apartment manager wanted them out, so my sister came and lived with me, and my mother moved to mississippi for five months, but she could not find a job, so I drove from Texas to Mississippi to move her here to find work, keep in mind this is my second time moving her, the first time I moved her a year prior from Oklahoma to Texas in 2013..so they have both lived with me for about a year,and I have paid the bulk of the bills, even after I lost my job,so when I gave them a deadline to move back in sepetmber and I seen they werent going to move coupled with the fact that I am not able to find a job here in texas, I decided I will leave and restart my life, I have lost everything my savings, my happiness, Im 35 and I feel like I have waisted my youth..I sleep on the couch for all these years, while giving them my room, and helping them with transportation, they had no car, so i would drive them back and forth to work, lending them money, yet my mother does the evilest things my mother does the evilest things, such as throwing away my college degrees, throwing her clothes and shoes on my couch when I have told her explicitly to not throw her clothes and shoes on my couch, and actually telling me several times to my face she cannot stand me because all i care about is money, and when I ask her how she cant even give me a staight up answer, and she tells me my younger brother hates me too, and I dont know why he feels that way I have helped him so many times a few months ago, I told her I made honors in my Master Degree Program and I was invited to join an honors society and she basically made me feel terrible about my accomplishment, she told me I shouldntt join because it will not help me in any way, and thats all Im about is status and money, and started questioning me about joining some other organization that helps people and all this stuff, like she never congrautulated me at alll I ve also had childhood pictures come up lost and missing and when I asked her about them she said someone stole them out of a garage , and these were pictures my grandmother sent me before she passed away..she also through away my college degrees, also my sorority membership letter 10 years ago I left my apartment to her and my sister, and when I came back to get these things she just threw them away..and she has told me verbatim she really doesnt like me at all for no reason, i cry about it

I am looking for something, and i need help finding it. i am the better half of 22 years old and have always been a "dont like something then fix it" type of person. today i dont like something. i dont like my life right now. I work for the government. everyone says it has nice perks and they take care of you. but, they also pay you minimum just like everyone else who works for somebody or something. so in my day and age this life that i am living got's to go. i want to be free and today is the day i start. I like making money that is something that i like to do and the thing with that is i like having money more. i am not asking you how to make a lot of money as i already know exactly how to do it. i am asking for help with the right tools that fits the type of money that i am seeking and unfortunately my age and life experience lacks where as my intelligence does not to adequately apply a very specific type of skill that when applied correctly will obtain a certain amount of principal profited income that i am desperately seeking. so i need your help. i need something that nobody wants to do that requires a skill that when good at you can apply to make a good amount of money with. the requirements for the intelligence that i am seeking is listed here below. 1.) it can not be obtained by purchasing from someone else and reselling. 2.) it can not require WORKING FOR another person, group or political power. 3.) it is something that all needs but no one wants to do it. also think logically don't place down things like being a garbage man. be creative and use that brain of yours that have manage to survive all these years on this planet.

I ve been dating my BF for 5 months and with my ex I could *** but with him I haven t ONCE NOT EVEN ONCE NOT EVEN A TINY BIT please help me, I know I m not the problem because my ex made me *** but my ex was slightly larger in dick size.. Is that why? Please help me out, I love him, he s the one I wanna marry but it isn t fair.. I mean of course the guy is gonna *** more than the girl but can I at least once??? Help help help

It's only been about a month since my husband passed away. I just received a vicious letter from his ex-girlfriend telling me my husband & her were having an affair when I was working. I don't know if it's true or not, and it's very upsetting. Is there anything I can do?

I have been with my husband for 29 yrs, we have been separated before and during the separation we have had other relationships... I love him I want to be here with him but some of his habits are well a huge turn off...He doesn't seem to pay any attention to me except when he wants me to do something for him, or for sex, which is always about what he wants, sex isn't about us it is about him..... He says he loves me and wants to be with me but I think he is keeping secrets and lying to me.. We seem to fight more and he just dismisses me and goes about his business, I don't go around him when he is with his friends because on more than one occasion when ever I walk up everyone shuts up! I am not a bitchie wife and I am nice to everyone...

When they both know that they're both just using each other for ungodly sex and there is no love.and no marriage. They they allow it??why lower your self to such low standards??

everything i view an adult video i see women on a man's chest doing what a man conventionally does to a woman's chest in bed .... was this always happening or is this a new thing ? im referring to homemade couples videos ... i dont watch the other acting stuff

But he promised her he would pay half but when the day came he sold her out, didn't show up, didn't call. Then when she asked for the money, he used her family as an excuse as to why he wouldn't pay that they never treated him right. But the reason they badgered him was because he sold out for the abortion and because he sold her out in many other ways before that for example, never bought her anything, took her for granted, and flaked many times to hang out with friends mostly. Is this man a selfish coward or did he have a legimate reason to not pay half for his responsibility?

As suggested in the title. Would you? I'm a BFA major (computer animation) and have been getting many mixed emotions from my mother lately towards my target of study. Even when talking to STEM or med majors about what I do I can't help but feel looked down upon. I work really hard and have done many internships, gotten awards, and jobs relating to what I do but apparently none of that matters unless the average salary of my field is 80k+. I hate the idea that the only time I can feel great about what I do if I were to be surrounded by other artsy fellows. Why can't everyone find the beauty and awesomeness in every field??????

Given you alot pain emotionally? After they apologize they keep hurting you. Someone that made you have the best dreams. You felt real happiness for the first time in your life, minutes later they take everything making you feel worthless and betrayed. Would you trust this person?

Bueno veran, yo tengo 15 años y soy un chico, aún no se que soy si hetero,homo o bisexual, pero me encanta mi padrastro, yo le visto sus nalgas y a veces lo veo en calzoncillos cuando sale del baño y se me para rapido, e tenido sueños húmedos con el, se ve que tiene una polla riquisima, le tengo unas ganas, no se si decirle y que despues le cuente a mi madre, no se que hacer, soy virgen, que opinan, debería decirle?

All my friends are handsome, strong (or not) and rich (or not) womanisers. I am an ugly man. Yesterday and today I talked to my two German friends in German and they came out to me that they're womanizing. I was surprised and said to one of them: Me: Oh my Force! I can not believe I have many womanising friends. Sigh! Fortunately, I was never a womaniser. Womaniser: One day you will be so. :-) Me: (LOL) No, I will not be. I do not wish to be a womaniser. Women like just handsome, strong and rich men. Womaniser: I am neither one nor the other, no matter what you look like, everyone gets one. Me: (LOL) This is nonsense. I showed every woman your photo and they said that you are handsome. What did you tell me, is only a silly philosophy that womaniser invented to console the ugly men. I have never seen an ugly womaniser. I am not stupid. I know women better. Womaniser: Then it is also nonsense. :-( Me: (LOL) Then ask each woman if she would kiss an ugly man. "I am not ugly and a womaniser", "There are ugly womanisers", "There are many ugly men with beautiful girlfriends", etc. come from a fool philosophy of handsome and rich womanisers, invented just to comfort the ugly men. Am I right?

Okay, so i'm a 24 y.old female and have never been in a relationship.. No normal decent-looking guy at my own age was ever interested in me. I only get 50-70 y.old guys hitting on me (but they would hit on any woman so this isn't an accomplishment) and obese guys. I am well-educated, polite,kind but also a bit shy and introverted but overall i think i'm a nice person so i don't know what the problem is. I''ve been trying to find out whether i'm ugly by posting pics and asking on reddit, asking friends of mine but i never found the answer. Some people say i'm ugly, others that i'm average with potential, others a bit over average and others pretty but i must be ugly if guys don't look me. I even tried to create a profile on a dating site (a bad one, i don't want to mention its name) but got no likes there... I see 15 or 16 y.old kids with boyfriends so what's the problem with me? Is it the way I speak? Do you guess sth like that from my question? People have been telling me, one day you'll meet that one person for you but i'm old now and ''prince charming" never came

She and I have developed a very close friendship. She actually says I am more like a daughter to her. She means so much to me.

I am 14 years old and i really want to please my self...I watch porn sometimes and when I do I feel very happy so sometimes I just take my shirt and bra off and play with my boobs...but I always feel guilty afterwards! why!?!

He rotates between subway, McDonald's, Burger King, and the pizza shops for our 3 kids while at the same time complaining about the amount of money being spent on fast food every day. And when he's not feeding our kids fast food he is giving them frozen pizza. The only things he purchased from the grocery store are chips, sodas and cookies. He never buys real groceries because he says that the ingredients cost too much. I even explained to him that although you have to buy the ingredients it will still last a lot longer than getting fast food every day of the week. I have to fight with him everytime we go to the grocery store cause he only wants to get junk. He only buys orange juice once a month because he said it cost too much and it doesn't last that long. It lasts about two days but there's 5 people in our house so it's understandable why things wouldn't last as long. He doesn't buy cereal or milk because he said it doesn't last long. He said he doesn't buy paper towels because it doesn't last long. He said he was going to stop buying eggs too because we run through them fast. I show him grocery ads, coupons, recipes wnd everything else. He said that he was going to stop eating out so much this year but he refuses to make a change. We are in debt now and only getting poorer. They have been cutting back my hours bad at work and i didn't make a lot of money before. I work in retail. I barely have enough lunch money these days. Paying bills has my bank account wiped out

He stares at me a lot (holds a gaze) and he talks to me (small talk) though not as much lately. He sits by me often and seems to brighten up when he sees me. Other times, he seems to ignore me and even seem kind of mad. I tried talking to him last week and he didn't talk much. Now he has blocked me from facbook chat. It seems like he suddenly has no interest. ???

Miren, yo tengo una novia y estamos hace 3 años, ella y yo no somos muy normales que digamos, ninguno de los dos puede vivir sin el otro y yo de verdad me moriria sin ella.. Pero bueno, en resumen, nos tenemos que ver a escndidas proque los padres no quieren que tenga novio y bueno, (ella tiene 14 y yo 15) pero queremos seguir juntos asi que es re dificil vernos asi que ta, es enserio que nos amamos, sino no nos esforzariamos tanto por seguir juntos. Y cuando nos vemos, lo que ella hace es decirle a los padres que va a salir con las amigas y bueno, ellos la acompañan a su casa asi ven que no se va a juntar conmigo y bueno, despues yo voy a la casa de su amiga y nos vemos... Para mi ella es perfecta, completamente perfecta, y yo para ella soy perfecto, pero yo a todas sus amugas les gusto, a todas, y aveces me siento muuy atraido por ellas, y me pongo enviodioso cuando una de ellas miran otro chico, aunque yo ya tenga novia y esa novia sea su amiga! Nose, me siento culpable por estar atraido por sus amigas.. No se que deberia hacer.. Ayuda!!

I need help! I met started talking to this guy online about 2 years ago. He lives in a different state, but we had kind of a "online relationship" I guess you could say. He is only about 2 hours away from me but he would NOT meet me, even after asking over 100 times! He would send me pictures videos and talk to me on the phone but just would not meet me. I got tired of it so I told him I wanted to just be friends. He freaked out! He has been stalking me since! He has looked me up on ALL of my social media. He literally sends me over 100 messages a day. He has threatened me, called me names, etc. He even found my family on social media! He messaged my sister, he stalks my mother and father as well. I use a texting app to talk to my friends (and used to talk to him on there) so he makes a new user name every day and messages me the most horrible things. He just DOES NOT STOP! I have ignored him but I am afraid if I do he will do something I do not like. As of today I found out that he found my address through google! I guess he looked up my families names and found it. He sent me a message on the messenger app I have and said "is this still your address..." which I did not even give him! This is really starting to freak me out, and I am not sure if there's anything I can do since he is in a different state. What do I do!? I've ignored him, but he seriously finds me on EVERYTHING I am on. I feel like I have to disappear from social media and hide in my house.

I don't know how to describe it. We've never met. Every time I see him i feel like there's some force that wants us to meet. The circumstances of us meeting would be very difficult which is why i havent tried. I've never felt this way before. A stranger has never captivated me so much. Months have gone by and I thought it would go away but it hasn't, Does this mean anything? Am I just infatuated? I feel like it's something deeper. .

I went to his house. He told me his daughter had been in his bathroom (she has her own bathroom with a tub just a bit smaller, he has a big hot tub like tub) and that he bought her bubbles and Epsom salts, then said, I took a bath in there too! You should try the Epsom salts I bought. So I go in and there are two female swim suits hanging in there. His daughter may have fit them she is my size, adult size but there were TWO and also his daughter wouldn't have worn a swim suit and there wouldn't have been two. He cheated on me previously. I didn't say anything about it. Whats the point. He would deny it and put it on me. I just said I had to go home and left. I haven't talked to him since last night when it happened. What do you think?

I'm 17 now and my mom recently told me that my dad told her to abort me. I can't believe he said that! It started around 1997 when my mom found out that she was pregnant, and she told my dad but he told her to abort me because it was time to have a baby. I can't forgive my dad after I found out about this. Should I leave the house or what should I do? I don't wanna talk to him or see him ever again. Mia, my parents fight all the time. My dad still doesn't like me that much and I don't respect him back. Telling someone to abort in such a cruel way, is the worst thing in the world. My dad even kicked my mom in the stomach. Also, my mom is very, very tired of my dad and we are about to leave the house! If you want to know more about this story, ask me! Don't tell me things that you don't know! Now, Jolene, my dad is not a really good father. He starts the fights between him and my mom, he tries to hit my mom with something in front of me, and he calls my mom vile names like *****. Jolene, I loved my dad a little bit before my mom told me this, but now I can't love him anymore. There's no going back in time!!!

Her mouth is magic when she did it when I was sleeping by surprise.

i met a guy who lives around my neighborhood and seemed to like the same things as myself so we decided to exchange numbers and maybe hang out as friends later on....thing is he kept texting so much! If I wouldn't text back he would send another random text or text in the am (2am-4am) he kept asking to hang out and I said I'd be fine with that till the text started creeping me out so one day when he asked again, I just lied and told him "sorry, I'm hanging out with my bf today" that's when he came out with "I didn't know you had a bf, now I'm confused as to why you gave me your number" and I straight up told him from the beginning that I only wanted friends because I don't have that many since I'm either always at work or locked up in my house...so he came out with that he understood the friendship part, but what's the point if we can't hang out (I never texted after this) I blocked his number and yet he keeps texting and just recently he sent a nude out of nowhere! Idk if I should keep ignoring him, or confront him...that nude disgusted me...especially because he said he understood I only wanted friends and he also just wanted friends too...so why would he do that, and why does someone keep texting so much if the person hasn't replied in 3 weeks! It's been 3 weeks without me saying anything and he keeps texting!

Sure it feels great and all but after all but at the end you get so miserable and sad over having sex that it's pointless. Love in the other hand can last forever. I agree that it's a reproducing thing. Exactly. It just is not right to have sex only. Ofcourse you got to love that person, sure. But I just see many people being brainwashed by porn that it just makes you want to simply have sex and that sex is all on your mind. People are again failing to understand that. I feel disgusted by it a bit.. Don't get me wrong but I just don't like fooling around with multiple partners one after the another. It is sickening. It's making me feel emotionless to just think about it. Sex is like an empty thing. The feeling is physiqal but you lose that lust right after having sex and realise that what you are actually doing is just banging your meat with another person... I fibd that disgusting. Sorry. I'm not ugly or anything. But still.. I don't want my future wife/girlfriend to know that my meat and flesh have been hitting many bodies/sexual partners. I would feel very unworthy of love.. I think it would destroy my life, honestly. If you know what I mean.. I feel like I'm the only one feeling that way?? I DID NOT MEAN THAT I WOULD NEVER HAVE SEX. I WILL ONLY HAVE SEX WITH A PERSON I TRULY LOVE. WOULD YOU NOT? THAT'S THE QUESTION. SORRY..

If I suggested to my male cousin to share a hotel room for our vacation trip? It is much cheaper and they've twin beds there, so I saw nothing wrong with wanting to share a room with a male cousin or even a brother. AM I a pervert? He felt a little uncomfortable, but will agree because of the cash. What do you think?

I noticed that good-looking men (as in naturally attractive faces) TEND to love preaching, especially on youtube where they can get fawning attention from women and men for their looks. Not necessarily religious preaching. There are cults and similar for almost anything.

My son (9 months old) had bronchitis about two weeks ago and my husband and I took him to the hospital. They gave me a medicine called steroids and another one (ibuprofen). He was doing ok until this past week on Wednesday my cousin gave me a ride to the hospital again because she was worried that he could t breathe. (She is also my sister in law). I told her there was nothing to worry about but she took him anyway.. I didn't go inside because I didn't want to go. I stayed with her babies. but she told me that the doctor told her that he was going to be again on the medicine called steroids and another one was given so I can rent a nebulizer for him to breathe. He was doing fine the rest of the week until yesterday when I went to see my mother in law. She held him and told me she was worried about him not breathing right. That he was wheezing. I wasn't about to pay a lot anymore for those BS hospital bills. She made me and my husband take him to the hospital again. I told her that he was fine.. All the doctor did was put him on the oxygen again and now we're in a room since yesterday and it's all her fault that we didn't even get to go out to the movies like we planned. And my cousin also was telling me to take him because he could get worse. I haven't answered their calls but I don't know if I should tell them to **** off or something cause it's my baby. (He was a preemie)

My husband and I found out that his ex wife has went and created a gofundme account for his son. Writing up a very sad story about my step son's childhood migraines.Yes he does have migraines and those are no fun and can be very very painful. However the story is written as if he were just dying from them. It was very shocking to us. Ok now that you know what she is asking and a general idea of her statement let me add this tid bit .....She posts picture of him on hiking trips in the mountains and concerts he has attended with he newest tattoos visible ect... in her campaign. Also he is 9 and she leaves him home alone for 12 hours or more. He constantly sits for hours and hours and hours in front of the x box.( probably why he has headaches).It is just sad This gofundme campaign has gotten completely out of control. She isn't the only one to abuse it.. my word what is this world coming to? Do people not have standards anymore? Dignity?morals?Child Abusers/child neglect are getting away with too much.Too many parents abusing their privileges as the custodial parent. It's so sad. Not mention all the other horrible things going on in this world and here in our country.Share your thoughts and stories. She never mentions my husband as she exclaims she is a single mother with no help. Of course completely false as my husband barley gets half a pay check for paying child support and yes she fails to mention that as well.She is asking for money to pay the co pays for his Dr visits

This is a guy that is very handsome, and has shown interest in the past but stopped before anything could happen. This is a guy that I m never alone with, his wife is alway with him at all times.