Family: Question: I'm 15 years old, how can i get a job and pay for my own things?

Question: I'm 15 years old, how can i get a job and pay for my own things?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 01:22 PM PST

is there any place that hires 15 year olds, i live in Maryland. I'm tired of my mom always taking my phone away. i know it's her phone because i am living underneath her roof. but how can i get a job and pay for my own expenses. i'll be turning 16 in six months, is there any places that hires 15 year olds in the state of Maryland.

Question: Will i ever be happy? 26 3 kids?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 01:18 PM PST

my first 2 kids i was with their father since 6 grade . He ended up abusing drugs i was a single mom and got full costudy of them my little one is 9 months i feel like my life is over .. me n his father was together for 3 yrs until i found out he had a child we didn t know about i now feel i cant rust no one he barley is involved im working full-time n go straight to the kids ... i feel like i will ever be happy or find someone ... its an everyday struggle raising 3 kids on my own why would anyone one even look at me?i just feel like my family will never be complete and sad of hw things turned out

Question: My adopted friend's parents...?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 01:12 PM PST

Time to explain... I recently got a new friend in high school, we both have very similar interests. We both get along very well at school. Let's get to the point here: His adopted parents are Christians and absolute assholes, he's been with them for almost 10 years, and they basically control his life when he's home. When he has online homework, he can't do it at home, he can't even go on his own school computer whenever he feels like it. Their religion is apparently based on what he's allowed to do at home, which is basically... nothing. We are both into anime as well, though his parents do not like that either. They told him he can't be a real Christian if he watches anime. And... how exactly do you compare those two ? You don't, you just don't. Let me also mention he has bought things with his OWN money, and whatever he bought, his parents just take it away from him. And since he's bought things with his own money, and for some reason that means his parents don't trust him... ? I really feel bad for him, I really do. There's literally nothing I can do about it, I just want him to be with adopted parents that actually love him and care for him. Not hardcore Christian parents who don't let their kid do anything. Any thoughts ?

Question: Should I kick my daughter out of her bedroom for house guests?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 01:04 PM PST

My daughter is 22 and is coming home from college for the summer to work an internship in our area. We have our bedroom, her bedroom, and one guest bedroom, as well as a pull out couch in the living room. A few times over the summer we will have family coming to stay with us along with their children and will need more room for them to sleep than one guest room. She has expressed discontent with sleeping on the pull out couch and not having privacy in the living room. Is it fair for us to kick her out of the bedroom when we have company?

Question: Pranks, getting caught, mom calling me a ****** piece of ****? Help!!!!!?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 01:02 PM PST

So I was doing a fun little prank a few minutes ago and call the house phone from my own phone but my mom found out that it was me (I only called 2 times) and she said "give me your phone you ****** piece of ****" in a hurtful yelling tone of voice. I gave her my phone and am using my brothers phone to ask this question right now. Please help me!

Question: I CAN'T TAKE THIS SH! ANYMORE?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:59 PM PST

What do you do when you're stuck living at home and your older sister is driving you insane? She just turned twenty-fckn-eight, she is a selfish b!ch that literally DOES NOT SPEAK TO HER FAMILY unless she needs something (usually goes to our dad cause he's too giving). I am not exaggerating, she has completely stopped talking to EVERYONE else (me, my mom, my other sister who lives out of town, relatives, including our poor grandmothers who have been sending her bday cards and what not, SHE DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THEM. How sad and pathetic is this? My parents have tried talking with her to ask if anything's wrong, what's her response? "GET OUT OF MY ROOM" like a fcking little brat! Holy crap I cannot take living with her any longer, and if you can't tell my frustration is through the roof, I WANT TO JUST PUNCH HER IN THE FACE SO BADLY RIGHT NOW. This has been going on for over 2 damn years and it's taking a toll on my mental and physical health. I have social anxiety and depression, so I can't just leave the house whenever I'd like to. This just adds more fuel to the fire since that means I have to be stuck in this damn house with her practically 24/7!! I repeat: FOR MORE THAN 2 YEARS THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON. I AM GOING INSANE. I can continue but holy s#!t just talking about this is making me rage. I need a miracle, can anybody help even the slightest bit!? Of course I'd move out myself if I could! I don't have anyone I can just move in with :'(

Question: Funny father daughter dance songs for a wedding?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:59 PM PST

I am trying to plan my father daughter dance my real dad isnt in the picture and i have only known my step dad for about 2 years so we are not that close but I still want to do something fun! Any ideas for a funny dance song? thanks in advance!

Question: Do you think he wants to make an effort with our daughter or it s just his mother talking.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:42 PM PST

after I had my daughter her father was there for the birth but then he got weird. Like we lived together he never helped never even held her or looked at our daughter. Only time he did was in front of friends. He complained about helping one Sunday in two months taking her . Like instead of spending the day with her just stoped her off at his mothers. Instead of picking our daughter up he went to his friends got drunk. He didn t help me pay for anything for her. Now after we split he says wants to see her he s never even held her??? His mother drives him nuts asking about are daughter but I moved and live far away so flying backs a pain.

Question: I'm blamed for everything!?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:38 PM PST

So my dog was on the couch barking and I tell her to get down and she does but instead of just that she growls at my other dog. Apparently it's my fault she did this and now I'm in trouble?!!

Question: I m in high school and I love wearing transparent, tight fitting leggings / yoga pants w/ a cute little thong . But my mom hates it?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:37 PM PST

I really love to wear see through, tight fitting leggings / yoga pants with a cute little thong and a short crop top ,sometimes without a bra. I really like the look I think it s very cute and sexy. I love the attention and comments that I receive from boys and older men. I usually dress like this ever day. My mother doesn t like it and thinks it s trashy. But my step father doesn t mind ,I think he really likes it too. My step dad usually goes out with me dressed this way, we go shopping he buys me cute clothes, transparent leggings, short skirts, tights,crop top and cute sexy underwear. He likes me to try them on for him. But my mother is old fashioned and doesn t like me wearing that kind of clothes. Do you agree with my mother, is it trashy? or do you think it s cute and sexy?

Question: My parents don't want to believe my brother sexually abused me.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:28 PM PST

When I was 15 I finally told my parents that my brother sexually abused me for years from age 6 to 14. They told me we could work things out because we were a family. When I was 18 I moved out. I tried for years to have a relationship with them including my brother. I feared that if I told them I didn't want to be around him anymore, they would shut me out. I finally had to tell them because I couldn't stand being around him. They shut me out for almost two years. Finally, we started talking again because they had a falling out with him. They still don't talk about the abuse. My dad actually said that IF it did happen, that is was water under the bridge. I struggle with this every day.

Question: Can someone help me? Please I just want your thought on this?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:27 PM PST

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with donas son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back, my breakdowns. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter who was my age 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving & caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, says she's proud of me, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" & that I miss her Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much it was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

Question: I have a nephew,who has a mental illness homeless..44 yrs old...is father responsible for burial?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:08 PM PST

I have a nephew,who has a mental illness..He is homeless,..He has a father,but the father has never pd child support or helped in any way..He was married when the child was born...Is the father responsible to bury him,when he dies?

Question: My family is so messed up and its ruining my life?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 11:53 AM PST

Im 17 y/o girl (junior in high school) and i absolutely hate my family. the only person i like is my dad but i even have some problems with him. His problem is that he doesnt do anything. If he thinks somethings wrong he wont speak up he cant even defend himself. Hes not a coward so i dont know why. My mom is the opposite. She attacks me literally every minute of every day. Shes is very very verbally abusive and even sometimes physically abusive (my dad sees it and does nothing). She worships my sister (she literally tells my sister that she worships the ground she walks on) and she had told ME that she wishes i was never born. My sister used to be good, but shes changed. She has become fake and lies about things all the time. However, she is five years younger and still prettier, more popular, more liked, smarter, and more talented than ive ever been. There is NOTHING that i can do better than her. My thing used to be art and i would always be praised for it but shes taken even that from me because she is even better than i was at her age. This family is destroying me and i know that I will be going to college in a year but i dont know if i can handle it for even that long. It had made me depressed, extremely lonely, and i even blame them for damaging me so much that i cant seem to make friendships anymore because i have serious trust issues and am incredibly anxious all the time and afraid to speak. My mom attacks me for nearly everything i say.

Question: Girls mature question help?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 11:46 AM PST

got in shape (lost weight & gained muscles) and bought a 80k bmw car because i deserve it. I went to a grocery store and in the parking lot i saw a stunning blonde on talking on her phone just standing on the entrance. She started looking at me as soon as i pulled up on the parking lot. I then got out of my car and she was still starring at me. I then walked inside the store and i looked back to see if she was still standing there and she was STILL STARRING. I got done with my shopping and was at the cashier booth and she was still starring!. She then left and i left too. I'm 23 and she was at least 50. Point is do you think she liked what she saw? i ask only because next time it happens i will make a move but before i do i thought i asked this for future ref.

Question: Am I wrong to feel that I should not have been born? This isn't one of those I wish I had never been born things, it's a little different.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 11:23 AM PST

I was one of the younger kids in a very large family. Our parents have both died in the last few months, well into their eighties. At the funerals, I noticed how often they were praised for having so many children, and under the circumstances, i even joined in the accolades. I did of course love my parents. But secretly, I've always resented this a bit, and felt them to be irresponsible. My parents did work hard, and never collected government assistance. However, my dad never made much money, we really just scraped by. We only had a house because my dad inherited it from his parents, this caused a lot of resentment in the extended family which continues even now. Only my oldest brother was sent to college. Of the rest of us, only I eventually got a degree, and that was later in life. I believe that it would have been better for them to have stopped at two or three children, which means that I would not have been born. It's all water under the bridge now I realize, I just feel guilty or maybe ungrateful about feeling this way. What's your opinion?

Question: Living in mom's basement over age X = loser?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 11:15 AM PST

Why do people always associate adults living in their parents houses losers? Also, why do they always use the term parent's basement? Like saving $2,000 a month in rent and putting it in the bank is being a loser? Why? Like living in an apartment where you just call the super to fix everything and buying food and toilet paper makes you more independent? Please. Why does it look that way? For the past thousands of years until relatively recently it was completely normal for a family to live in one dwelling. Why is living with your parents seen as lazy? Why is saving $25,000 a year worth less than not looking lazy to people who dont even know you?

Question: I think I am in love with my brother who is really biologically my 1st cousin. Do I tell him? Is it normal?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:40 AM PST

Look I dont want to hear the Its wrong and I shouldn't. Be asking this of a bunch of strangers. i get all that but he is 10yrs older then I am and we have been close until his oldest daughter was born now I havent even seen him in person since his daughter was 2 he now has 3kids not married and is in jail for a year. And it seems like everytime i plan to visit him well surprise visit since he dont live that far it seems like hes always in jail. all i want to know is it normal to have these feelings? Is it alraight to tell him about them? Please dont be rude im just looking for answers thats all

Question: Please give me your opinion about what I plan to do for my mother in law.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:40 AM PST

I was visiting my husband's mother and I ask her to see his baby pictures. She gave me her family picture album to look at. In it was pictures of her being crowned Miss YYY (the name of our state) 22 years ago. Was she ever beautiful them as she is now. She had never told me about this and neither had my husband. None of her friends know about it either. It was quite an honor so I asked my husband why she never told anyone about it. He said she was embarrassed that she could not fit in the dresses she wore when she was crowned Miss YYY. She had a gorgeous figure then and now. It turns out she is only 1 dress size larger now than when she was 20. What a remarkable feat for a woman in her 40s that had 3 children. She has a birthday soon and I would like to give her a party to celebrate her birthday and being crowned Mis YYY and invite all her friends. I think they would like to know and would be very happy for the honor she has received. However the LAST thing I want to do is cause her any embarrassment. Gals, please give me your thoughts on how and if I should proceed with this. I will not do this if she does not want me to. I will ask her permission before I do it. Would you be embarrassed for your friends to know you were crowned Miss YYY 22 years ago. THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE.

Question: My step-brother's cousin is what to me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:40 AM PST

so yeah this girl is the cousin of my step brother so what is she to me?

Question: What to do if dad says he care about you but isn't there for you?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:34 AM PST

I'm an adult and live with parents. Don't say move out because if i could i would. And that wouldn't solve the dysfunctional family. Dad has threaten to kill me despite me telling him i felt he didn't care care about me. He didn't apologize and this does't help my anxiety. This has also intervened with work. I'm helpful and try and do what i can. Helpful answers not just somebody that is gonna answer move out as if i could i would.

Question: I don't think my dad is going to let me go to my aunties funeral. What should I do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:26 AM PST

My auntie has just recently died and her funeral is coming up soon and my dad hates my mum's side if the family and the funeral Is on a school day so I really don't think he is going to let . Me go

Question: What to do dad says he care about me but he isn't there for me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:25 AM PST

I'm an adult and live with parents. Dad has threaten to kill me despite me telling him i feel he didn't care about me. He didn't apologize and this doesn't help my anxiety. Don't answer move out because if i could i would. This dysfunctional family has intervened with work and has not helped my anxiety. Helpful answers if i could move out i would.

Question: Is it abnormal that I don't like spending time with my family?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:14 AM PST

I just don't like spending time with them, They are just acquaintances to me. Well I'm stuck with them so nothing I can do here. I value my me time (alone time) too much. The only people I honestly would sacrifice some of my alone time for are my friends and my future gf/potential wife.

Question: Tell me how can i stay rigid?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:13 AM PST

i'm 15. i've decided i'm not marrying.my parents force me to wear what they wish. i can n't have my own haircut. so i've decided i'm going to do it when i'm independent. according to what i read in my religion i cann't be forced to marry by my parents.but i'm from a conservative family and society. nothing works here. i tried to talk to mom and she said she won't educate me if i had this plan. according to me if a girl is forced she should marry a person who is physically impaired and if she wants a child she can adopt. i'm thinking how to stay rigid on my point. i don't think i could ever marry. it's creepy. and i was shocked when i heard about some planning going on.

Question: Im 15 and i think my family abuses me but i am afraid to tell anyone because no one wants to foster a 15 year old idk what to do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:10 AM PST

my sister & my twin brother gang up on me & beat me and punch me till i bleed.my dad throws things at me and tells me he wants to give me to another family and that there is no way i can be his kid. he punches and kicks me and he even told me that he beat me enough that he should be arrested for it

Question: What do i do if i think my father verbally and physically abuses me. when I was a kid he would push me and my brother into stuff and kick us?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 10:00 AM PST

Like when i was a kid he would push me and my brothers into things and punch us and he would make us pull our pants down and he would get a belt or a switch and hit us really hard, but only if we did something like if our room was messy. and since i have gotten older it has gotten worse he throws things at me and cusses and tells me that there is no way i can be related to him. He has not "spanked" us in quite some times but now its gotten worse with verbal. he still hits us though. he says that he wants to give me to another family. and i really want to got because my twin and my sister hate me. they hit me because i am bigger than they are and they know i don't react they make fun of my reading habits. and they gang up on me and make fun of me. my dad even said that he has beaten me so much he should get arrested for it. but we only get beat when we did something wrong but in my opinion the punishment is over excessive. i did something today that i know i am going to get into trouble for. it might turn into a huge abuse stage idk. its hard to tell what side of him you will get. i just don't know what to do please help.

Question: Should FAMILY help out raise your kids and pay expenses. OR THIS MOM AND DAD sole responsibility?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 09:57 AM PST

RAISING A KID is not just something MOM AND DAD SHOULD DO. however, in the usa, the family has indeed declined. The families are less stable and together. The result is if mom and dad dont raise the kids, nobody will or foster parent. The high rate of abortions was also caused by MOM AND DAD potential that nobody will be able to help if they fall on job and luck. when family help out raise kids, teach them, support, and show love, it makes kids happy. less development if only mom and dad

Question: What would you do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 09:09 AM PST

Me and my boyfriend have fell in love and had sex already. We just found out that we might be cousins. His moms dad has a brother and moms dads last name is that same as his moms dads last name. His moms dad has a lot of brothers and he is from the same place as my mom dad. My boyfriend has heard my moms dads full name before. My mom only met her dad a couple of time whenever she was younger so she only knows a little bit about him... His full name and where he is from. So this means that my mom and my boyfriends mom might be first cousins. So if that is the case then what are me and him classified as?

Question: What are the consequences of running away from home?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 09:08 AM PST

im not even running away from my house, its my aunts house. my mom sent me here and I hate it and them. I have a place to go and its my dad. would my dad or I get in trouble if I run away to him? im 16 and will be turning 18 in a little less than 2 years. what would they do to me if I ran away to live with my dad?

Question: Super close to getting out of homelessness, but one obstacle in the way?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 09:05 AM PST

I m a 20 year old girl who works part time at a grocery store and has recently just started college. My parents and I have been without a home for about 5 years now. We live in an extended stay hotel. We can afford a place to rent but it s just the issue with my parents credit: it s very very bad. As for me, I have no credit built up. Recently we ve gotten the apartment and we can move in a few days, one of my parents is pretty much making it sound like they might not help us with paying off the deposit. I m really nervous because this is our only chance and this parent is mentally abusive (I don t use that word lightly) and controlling. This is our only real chance. What should I do if they say no to helping me and my other parent?

Question: How make my adult sister leave my mother???????????

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 08:58 AM PST

me and my mother do not get along and she's hurting my sister my brother is 25 years old never had a job because my mother brainwashed him with nonsense and now she's making my sister the same way my sister is 20 years old I know is too late my brother but I still have it chance to save my sister my mother is not a good person.I want my sister to have a life to go to school get a job.it's just everytime I try to approach my sister my mom would always say negative stuff about meand does my sister doesn't take any of my advice what can I do to make my sister snap out of it I don't want her to end up the same way like my brother

Question: Does my dad have a right to ask for my address if he isn't going to help pay my rent?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 08:41 AM PST

I'm going off to college now and I'm going to move near the college. My dad didn't agree with this and wanted me to live with a family member whose house is still a THREE HOUR drive to school, so he won't help me with ANY costs. I know it sounds cold to not let your parents know where you live but if he refuses to help me get through college because it's his way or the highway, then why should I let him know where I live if im going to be struggling by my self? Am I wrong or do I have some right here?

Question: How do I get my 16 yr nephew to go to school?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 08:23 AM PST

My younger sister is currently incarcerated. He has severe entitlement issues and ungrateful. He treats my mother and I just like his mother does. He has damaged property. So f***king rude who should be beat! Please help!

Question: Why do kids think their parents are the strongest ppl in the world?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 08:11 AM PST

Yesterday I was teasing a little boy I don't know, he threaten me to call his mother if I don't stop. I am 6'3 swimmer, did he really think his mother can do anything with me

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:53 AM PST

my gf dumped me and i was totally depressed. Instead of falling into alcohol and drugs i did the opposite. I got in shape (lost weight & gained muscles) and bought a new 80k bmw car because i deserved it. I went to a grocery store and in the parking lot i saw a stunning blonde on talking on her phone just standing on the entrance. She started looking at me as soon as i pulled up on the parking lot. I then got out of my car and she was still starring at me. I then walked inside the store and i looked back to see if she was still standing there and she was STILL STARRING. I got done with my shopping and was at the cashier booth and she was still starring!. She then left and i left too. I'm 23 and she was at least 50. Point is do you think she liked what she saw? i ask only because next time it happens i will make a move but before i do i thought i asked this for future ref....

Question: What causes a person to be malicious, selfish, stingy, evil, and unfriendly like my aunt???!!! Is it abuse, self hatred, low self esteem?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:48 AM PST

My aunt from Kuwait hates all my relatives from Lebanon (uncle's bros and sis and me his niece. I was 13 last time I saw her). She is insecure, unattractive short with small breasts and STINGY!!! For her 7 yo girls BD, she didnt buy her a cake, just hummus. Me and my sis ate hummus with bread on this 7 yo girl's Birthday. My aunt doesnt care about her family, when her twin died she married my uncle against her parents' wishes and she just sent her parents a card and a flower. Her heart is hard and she doesnt love her mom because she didnt speak to her mom for 19 years.. I suppose maybe she suffered abuse in her family because her family was poor and she doesnt speak to her own mom. Was the mom mean to her??!! I suppose if a mom was loving to her daughter and kisses her and boosts her self esteem she would have been speaking to her mom, but she isnt. Also, I noticed that she gave me and my sis two bracelets the same color and she said "I got the same type of bracelet so u guys wont fight".. I was little fat, and when I announced I was on diet she got jealous, she wanted me to stay fat. What I noticed that one time I was sitting next to her, and she seemed angry and at unease, and she just said "WOW, you are so fluffy!!" And she made the sign language for fat people. She is sadistic and evil, because she teaches her 7 yo child to call me fat and put me down. Update: , I noticed that she gave me and my sis two bracelets the same color and she said "I got the same type of bracelet so u guys wont fight". Why would she think that sisters (children) would fight over materials unless she suffered that experience in her family with her own sisters.

Question: Husband has been running out for a very long. He was also abusive. Now I see my son going down that path. What do I do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:36 AM PST

First off, I'm aware that staying with this man was detrimental to my kids. I stayed out of fear of being homeless and destitute. He provided a very good living. I have 3 kids. One is 28, one is 21 and the other is 17. My two oldest kids are good kids. They have been a rock of support for me during this last bout of trouble. Tgey aren't talking to their dad right now. He left me with no money and has now stopped paying the mortgage on our home. Anyways, my 17 year old had started having problems some time ago. He's become angry and abusive. He's gotten into physical altercations with his dad as well. He son recently got angry with me for expecting him to abide by the rules and he cursed me out, kicked stuff over and punched his wall. He left to stay with his dad. I got wind of my son bullying another kid at school. It was brought to my attention by the kid being harrassed and bullied. I called the school and reported it to them. I knew my son woukd lie and deny the claims... Now my son isn't speaking to me. He will not respond to my text messages either. I love my son. I want him to be a good person. I know staying with their dad all these years was not good for my kids, but there's nothing I can do about that now, but move forward from here. What do I need to do?

Question: How to Approach Finding Living-Parent's Suicide Note?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:36 AM PST

I'm 16, I collected most of our families old hard drives and long story short, I found a document file my mother wrote back in 08' saying her goodbyes to my brothers and sisters and how shes sorry she couldnt do it anymore. She is still alive today, and the reasoning for her writing the letter most definitely stemmed from the loss of a song (my brother) back in 07'. Again, to keep this short, Im 16, that messes my mental track up a bit as expected, but, my question is, do I tell any of my siblings? I feel i need this off my chest and it almost feels like they have a right to know this existed as a way to empathize with how she is as a person and what shes been through. Or do I spare them the burden of knowing their mother wrote a flipping suicide note that never went through. Do i keep this to myself? Do I delete the file as one friend told me to do (she was the only other person in this world that knew about it until now, writing this). Im at a loss for what to do, and im so torn as to what the right course of action is. I need an outside party's opinion, i literally dont know where else to post this. So Im sorry if this seems like a huge depressive-dump on those who are reading this... Son* not loss of song...

Question: Help my mother is in denial?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:26 AM PST

I'm convinved my mother is getting a lot of plastic surgery. She won't admit it but I'm constantly seeing her in medical bandages and coming out looking oddly different. It started with a "big car accident" when I was 13, her face And chest were all wrapped up and suddenly her nose was thinner and lips weirdly Fuller like she got punched in the face at first. and oh ya her boobs her suddenly full again. She claimed she got a new bra and they had to get surgery under her arm pits from the car accident. somehow her car was fixed the next day too! I never actually saw the car smashed. When my friend got her breasts done she looked like my mom is bandages 10 years ago. She honestly looks different she claims it's because of her diet but she still eats the same stuff...my dad never wants to talk to me about it, he always changes the subject. Just recently she was in another "accident" involving a treadmill apparently she fell so hard needed surgery and now her bum is huge and round like a basketball. How can I get my mom to admit she doesn't get into car accidents every year....

Question: How do I fix my issues with my parents?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:26 AM PST

My father told me this morning to close the truck's door and I left it open because I didn't hear what he said. Then he got angry and said go inside,so I slammed something on his hand,stayed in the truck and I slammed the door when I got out,kicked the door,and kicked a bench in the garage because I was angry. My mother told me that I have to miss school because she thinks that the trouble will follow me to school even though I feel sure that I'm going to be fine at school. My parents don't trust me. My mother kept saying that she wants me to visit a doctor and then my Father said call the doctor. I yelled at him and my mother because they didn't trust me. I want to go to school and I shouldn't miss school today because I have fun there and a test to take.They think that something else is going on,but I was fine until this morning. School helps me feel better because I'm away from trouble at home with my parents,but they think I'm sick. Now I have no one on my side to understand how I felt and fell now.

Question: Can I change my last name at 14?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:24 AM PST

ok my mom and dad divorced and i'm with my mom and my dads last names history and all the people on his side of the family including him are known nuts around here. we're gona move to the city beside him instead of u know the same city but still, they're everywhere. so could I use my moms last name? is there a way I could even possibly officially change it to hers? information would help thx

Question: How can I gain custody of my younger siblings (North Dakota)?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 07:16 AM PST

I'm 18 and would like to gain custody of my younger brothers (6 and 11). My parents neglect them so I've been taking care of them since I was 12. They also abuse them but I don't want to go to the police because if I do that then I will lose them. Does anyone know how I can gain custody over them?

Question: Should grown kids be paying rent while living with us?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 06:41 AM PST

My step son who is 24 has been living with us for the past 4 years,he works full time and makes around $32,000 per year. He has a GF who stays here about nights out of the week. He pays nothing towards any of the bills and never brings in any groceries. Him and his GF got out clubbing and go out to eat about 2-3 times per week. If my husband and I order in we order enough for everyone. This man has only one bill which is his cell phone of about $65 per month and $481 in child support. My other step son is 21 and has an income from the National Guard, he has a truck payment, cell phone payment and vehicle insurance. He pays nothing either for living with us. Other than what he gets from the service he has no job, he refuses to work for minimum wage or fast food. He quit college. I feel these men should be contributing in some way financially. My husband feels the opposite. I have told him if my daughter moved back home and was working she would be paying us something. He doesn't even want to discuss this matter. We are now struggling financially because my husband lost his job and his unemployment has ran out. He starts another job but will be only making $10 per hour he was making between $25-30 per hour. So my question is should these grown men contribute to living with us?

Question: Hi my name Ana im 13 years old but will be 14 in June this year?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 06:17 AM PST

i have a half sister who will be two this year we have the same dads. Both of my half sister Reagan' parents are bad people her mom is 25 and would rather be having fun then with her own child. our dad will be 35 this year he wants the same as her mom but just dosent want a baby what are my rights to her can i adopt her legally when i'm 18 she already calls me mom most of the time and hates going with either parent but they bribe her with food or toys

Question: I need a gift for my 1-year old cousin. He likes any type of toys. But I am not sure what to get him? Please help!?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 05:57 AM PST

I spend a lot of time with him, so I know what he likes. But it seems like he has everything!! I was thinking something that does not cost to much, but also something that will last him

Question: My Parents don't trust me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 05:11 AM PST

So I'm 14 years old, and a 9th grader in high school. One day my mother found something on my phone which made her assume I'm gay, and she yelled at me for that but Im not. Usually after school I hangout with my friends or go to their houses, I tell my parents but they don't believe me. Even my brother knows I go with my friends but they still don't believe me, and now my parents are yelling at me to not go anywhere after school and go straight home, they are telling ,me that they are going to spy on me and watch where I'm going and that I can't talk to any friends anymore

Question: My mother and sister are never think they may be wrong?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 04:57 AM PST

My mother and sister are two peas in a pod. They do what they want to do when they want to do it and they do not see that it causes great distress to those around them. For example they want to pack up and move they just do it. They do not think that they have just taken their children away from the family and friends they have and they do whatever they need to live the ""high life". They get bored very easily and often use money they don't have to take vacations and expect help to reclaim ground on their bills. Even when they come to visit us it is less about visiting and more about having a free hotel room at our home. It makes me feel so insignificant. I may see them one time a year and when they are here they are just here to sleep, wake up and go do what they would like to do. They never call unless they need something and I addressed this issue with them around Christmas when they came down. I have not heard from them since. I asked why they come for their own pleasure and not to actually see anyone? Why can they take a dozen vacations a year but can only manage to come see me once if that? They got angry and stormed off. I do not know what to do about this. I just want to be part of a family what should I do?

Question: I need a stress reliever?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 04:39 AM PST

I m becoming more and more aggressive to my family to points where I have no care about them. I sound like your teenage cry baby but I m serious, I can t help but lose my sh*t around them, for instance I punched my brother with all my strength from anger on his arm and he started crying because I m getting yelled at to clean the room when Its always his mess. I don t like seeing him Sad but he lives like a prince like I m the slave around the house cause it s always my name being called to do everything! It s so bad that the parrot calls me cause he learned it from everyone yelling my name. When my parents are in serious trouble I show not a single care I go on with my life like nothing, the younger ones I treat bad like how my parents treated me but I just can t help it, bottling up the emotion is worse I just lose it after a while. And with the older ones I just so not a single care for them. I don t wanna grow up so mean like my parents. I need a stress relive, I ve considered a narcotic but I know I ll be killed if my family catches me. But the stress is so bad it s making me ugly every moment

Question: If paternity testing was added to the list of routine prenatal tests, then how would women feel about the procedure?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 04:34 AM PST

There are many types of tests that are conducted during routine prenatal testing. HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases, anemia, diabetes and hepatitis b are a few of the routine tests. Paternity testing would provide half of a child's TRUE medical history by identifying the biological father as well. Why would any woman (or man) object to the true identity of a child's biological father and the resulting TRUE medical history? Thanks for your response.

Question: Does my sister love me or want incest. Is that bad?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 04:15 AM PST

She recently started having her period at 14 and we're 11 years apart. She's bedridden because they hurt so badly and listens to her classical music to relax in the dark. She put baby oil on her tummy and took her shirt off and asked if I could gently rub her belly where the pain was. I did, but only once. Is that thoughtful or incestuous? She was still wearing a bra.

Question: Can someone please help me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:58 AM PST

I'm a 16 yr old boy and as embarrassing as it is to ask, am I too old to find a ,"father figure"? I have a dad, but he always treats me and my ma like **** and threatens us. No one would ever know how bad it gets because of how well he hides it when people are over. My ears wills literally ache for days from the constant screaming and anger. Whenever he is nice, it's because he wants something from us, wether it's money or help with his job. He says he cares and he loves me, but all I remember from growing up, is him yelling at us, picking on me, calling me names like, "p***y" or " little b***h", and always putting me down. As I got older it started getting worse, because around when I was 12, we started getting in physical fights that my mom always has to break up, and that's not even the half of it... I breakdown whenever I'm sober, which is a couple times a week. I feel so helpless and alone. I feel like I'm supposed to be growing into this tough, confident man, but I'm not ready, all I want is to be is loved, but I have no one. I have my mother, which I love with all of my heart, but, it's not the same... I feel like I'm just whiney and I need to get over it, and I really want to, but I can't. I hate myself for it. Im so embarrassed by it, especially after I mentioned to my friend some things and they laughed and said I had daddy issues. But all of that aside, am I too old to find a father figure? I just feel like no one cares, and I have no one to go to... I don't have anyone I can go to and tell, and I don't want to get the police involved.. But how do I go about finding a father figure? No one even knows my situation

Question: Is it bad that I forced myself to cry at my brother s funeral?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:30 AM PST

I rarely saw my brother since he moved out, got married, and joined the military when I was young - I didn t get to know much about him. Regardless I just felt like it was wrong for me to not cry. It would make me look bad if I, his own sister, didn t cry at his funeral. Now when I think of him time to time I have genuine tears. It s like I accepted and realized he is gone and I m no longer in denial. But I still forced tears on his burial day. I can t help but feel guilt and regret. This has been bothering me for almost four years.

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:21 AM PST

So my gf dumped me and i was totally depressed. Instead of falling into alcohol and drugs i did the opposite. I got in shape (lost weight & gained muscles) and bought a new 80k bmw car because i deserved it. I went to a grocery store and in the parking lot i saw a stunning blonde on talking on her phone just standing on the entrance. She started looking at me as soon as i pulled up on the parking lot. I then got out of my car and she was still starring at me. I then walked inside the store and i looked back to see if she was still standing there and she was STILL STARRING. I got done with my shopping and was at the cashier booth and she was still starring!. She then left and i left too. I'm 23 and she was at least 50. Point is do you think she liked what she saw? i ask only because next time it happens i will make a move but before i do i thought i asked this for future ref.

Question: Do you like doing SPA? How often do you do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2016 12:07 AM PST

I like doing SPA very much. I would rather do it every evening before going to bed. To convenient to do it, I bought a hot tub-homax. The bubbles going down and up makes me comfortable and cozy and relax my nerve. But my husband suggesta me that I should do it too often, otherwise it will do a little harm to skin. I can't agree with him. Do you liek doing SPA?? How often do you do ??

Question: My autistic brother masturbates in the same room as me? Help?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:37 PM PST

Alright so for the time being im living in a room with my mom and 2 brothers. Now my younger brother (13) is autistic, it s not too severe but you can kind of tell. Anyways, he has been sat down and had the sex talk with teachers, our parents and his aid. But I don t think its really worked?? I ve heard him countless times doing his thing while laying down next to my other brother and im constantly telling him to sleep.. But honestly that doesn t even stop him because I hear him again a couple minutes later. Sometimes I just leave the room but I feel weird going back in to sleep?? Anyways what should I do? I talked to my parents about this and they ve tried talking to him about it but he hasn t fully processed this. Any advice? I am a 21 year old girl.

Question: How can two people stay married forever?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:26 PM PST

I mean "happily" married together

Question: Is my friend mad at me?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 10:45 PM PST

I let her stay at my house for 2 weeks, i wasn't sure how long she needed to stay, but I couldnt take it no more..so I lied and told her my parents were coming in town and that she needs to find a hotel to stay..The reason why I kicked her out was because she doesnt do her dishes, and I checked under her bed and she left dish plates and yougurt that she had done eat under the bed...-_- Then the sink was dirty because i think she dyes her hair and she didn't clean it up..I let her stay for free.. because her mom kicked her out with her two year old son...(her parents are mean to her btw) and she went to breakup with the baby daddy...and she had no where to go but the hotel..so I let her stay at my place until she was stable enough to get an apartment.. I told her to get food stamps but one week she woke up late and she was off the WHOLE DAY, the next week she was off and I told her if she was going, she told me she needed her sons social and birth certificate, she had 2 WEEKS to go online...then thats when I got mad because im trying to help her but it seems she feels so comfortable at my place...and thats when I kicked her out...and I text her the 3rd week when she was at a hotel...I told her if she got the SNAP yet she gave me no response and its been 3 days I havent recieved a text... is she mad because I kicked her out? I think she knows I am lied about my parents coming over...but she is an adult 23, and knows better not to put dish plates or foods on the floor...

Question: I'm getting what I want, so why am i not happy?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 10:35 PM PST

I've been wanting my mom and stepdad to get a divorce for a long time. But, now that they are I can't help but feel unhappy. Don't get me wrong I hate my stepdad but, my mom is so forlorn. I feel almost guilty. Not that it's my fault that they're calling it quits but, I know that I'm a big contributing factor to the divorce. Since me and my step dad don't get along and we fight constantly my mom wanted to get me out of the situation and I know it's the best thing for me and her but I still feel unhappy like I'm robbing my mother of her joy. So if I'm getting what I want why am I not happy? Should I convince my mom to stay with him even though it's not the best thing for her either?