It's all MINORITIES. It's a college for people wanting to go into the medical field and the tuition is not cheap so IDK how they even afford. I guess all the white folks are WASTING their time going to school for 6 or 7 years when I can become a medical coder making $18 an hour in 9 months of school with an externship and job placement. Coventional or community colleges don't do that so screw em.

My boyfriend has been in recovery for 6 years. I m proud of him for staying sober and of course want him to continue. But for the majority of every day I barely see him. He works then the rest of his time he spends at several meetings a day. He rarely comes home before 9pm. We are moving in to a house together and I m preparing to change a lot of aspects of my life and my daughter s life for him, yet I feel like I m very neglected and ignored because he wants to go to multiple meetings a day. I m beginning to think he s developed like an addiction to AA. I don t feel like I m much a priority at all..and this is causing me to really rethink our relationship long term. Is it selfish of me to think or feel like this? Should he be making some time for me and my daughter more regularly? I just feel so lost, please help!

Like why didn't they have enough from the latest marriages???

I'm not sure if this is my problem or if I need help or what .. But I feel hurt . After having our baby I've lost touch with All my friends , all my hobbies, my career , everything ... My baby comes first . I want to spend every second with her I don't want to find a babysitter and do my old hobbies . This is what's important to me . What hurts so badly is that nothing has changed for my husband . Before I had my baby he would take me with him to go snowmobiling or hunting or fishing .. But now that I'm stuck at home all day everyday with an 8 month old and now pregnant again he knows we can't take her to do those things or me so he leaves me every weekend to go hang out with his friends . Snowmobile , fish , hunt , whatever the season is . It just sucks knowing he knows I have no friends anymore and am in full time mommy mode ... And he thinks he needs a break to get away after working all week . I'm non stop and get to be home 24/7 . I love what I do but why am I so hurt . I feel like he's not in this with me . He's more important than me ... Is he selfish or am I a horrible wife being mad when he takes off all the time . Ugh help does he not want to hang out with me ??? What do I do .

So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. So I packed up my bags and told him I was going to my parents for a week to reevaluate things.... As I was walking out the door he started to cry and said don't leave I don't want to be alone....

I am a 22 year old female and looking for the best homeless shelter. I can afford $50 dollars a week to stay. Also one that will let me have my prescription Xanax for my anxiety. I live in the Huntsville Alabama area. Is this Salvation Army a good alternative if I have. No where else to go? I know they're anti gay but that's not a problem and I'm a Christian. Can anyone tell me what it's like? And can I stay 24/7 until I get a job like the downtown rescue mission? I cannot go there because they won't let me have my bipolar medication. Please be honest when answering. Thanks.

I lay in bed as I gaze toward the roof. I writhed with intense torment in my stomach. Mother had beat me again and it's fair going to continue being that way. She's done it to me for quite a while and I've gotten use to it. Why haven't I called the police? Since she undermined to execute me if I somehow happened to tell. I would not like to go for broke. Be that as it may, I've been arranging out things such as fleeing. In any case, what am i considering? I'm simply not sufficiently striking to ponder the boulevards like that. Also, I question anybody would need me, I mean, my mother even despises me, she doesn't love me so why might a complete more unusual feel the inverse. "YOU WORTHLESS PIECE OF ****!!!" She cries from downstairs. I wouldn't cry since I'm use to it, this is just the same old thing but, it's a far from new. Yet, in the event that i were to contrast my existence with somebody's happy life. I think I might as well cry. Mother walks in on me laying in bed. Clutching my stomach and my stuff creature, soft. Since soft felt like my just companion and also Jesus Christ. Mother didn't have faith in Jesus Christ so perhaps that is the reason she's never gotten any favors. She's done terrible stuff like take, lie, she's smoke weed and god comprehends what else she's finished. "Dealin' with you I'm going to be late for work you asshole" she shouts. I yowl as yet holding firmly on to Fluffy.

About a month ago, I was promised a ferret for Christmas. I got all the money I needed to get one and my parents said they would hold on to my money so I wouldn't loose it. I found the perfect ferret and asked my parents when we could go get it. They said next Sunday. When Sunday rolled around, they said the car can't make it 30 minutes away when their work is 30 minutes away and they go there every day. They said next Sunday definitly because we can use your sisters car. Another Sunday rolled around and my dad went into work,freely, just to do some work so he wouldn't have to do it on Monday and because of this they swore to me I would get it. Even though I was mad because he could leave work freely because it is a Sunday and just go back to work after we get the ferret. 2 days ago was Thursday. We agreed on Thursday because he got payed on Wednsday and it fully goes through on on Thursday.My sister couldn't make it with the car because she had to go to collage. So they said tomorrow. And yeaterday (Friday) my dad said next Wednsday because we payed the bills and we don't have enough money for a ferret. MY MONEY. I know for a fact they didn't pay the bills because we pay all of them on the first of the month. Do they just don't want me to get a ferret? It's my money I got from all my friends and cousins,so Why won't they just give me my money back?? Do you think the reasons for me to be angry are justified?

My roommate is the type of person who isn't social, he comes home from work & goes in his room, watches movies. He won't confront me on issues, he complains to my girlfriend. He complains when i buy stuff online, all my bills are paid for. He complains when my girlfriend buys mine/her groceries (i give her money). I NEVER eat his food unless he states that i can. he complains about my dog saying i neglect it, i pay for his vet bills, take him out before/after work. (puppy is only 5 months)

I've been talking to this guy for the pass two weeks we met through a friend and DAMN he's so boring he doesnt know how to keep the convo going and when i ask him stuff about himself he only sends one word answers like "yes" and "no" he never calls me and he always wants me to text him first cause he likes to know he's not bothering me but i honestly forget to text him first cause he's so f**kin boring and he's 23 and still lives with his mom should i just stop talking to him? lol We haven't even met in person yet my friend told me to add him on Facebook cause he thought i was hot and we've only been texting back and forth but honestly i don't even have any excitement to meet him since he's SOOO DAMN BORING

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my parents just came home from shopping. they bought shoes. 3 pairs for my dad, 5 for my mom. THEY SPENT 1900 DOLLARS for them. not exaggerating. i need a new phone. i've had mine for 2 years and a half and it's an unknown brand that sucks. this is my first smartphone and it's really slow, it has some problems that i don't even know where they come from, it discharges really fast(i changed my battery less than 2 months ago) and the charging slot is almost completely out of any use. i have to position the charger weird ways to keep the phone charging. i've been wanting an iphone 6s since November bc i cracked my screen. i am not irresponsible with my phone, it just happened and i was really sorry for it. i paid myself for the repair, which was more than the phone's price at the moment, and almost the same amount of money i needed for the iphone(i had most of the money for the new phone but didn't have enough to pay the full price). i could add that i have 4 pairs of shoes in total right now and my parents separately have more than 20. the most expensive thing i've ever asked for was a macbook air, that i bought with my own money for my birthday. a quarter of it was paid by my dad.we aren't a rich family,neither a poor one. my dad and my sister recently went to his home-country and they bought A LOT of expensive stuff to be precise. when he came home i told him my phone was dying and he said that he's broke and he can't pay for a new phone now. that was 2 w ago. what can i do? pretty hard to get a job when you're not old enough to even get an illegal job. also, my friends don't have the latest phones. most of them bought the latest and best generation phones a few years ago and they work just fine. why don't i see my friends complaining on their iphone 5, 5c, 5s or samsung galaxy s4? because they are good phones. that they bought when they were released. nobody i know has an iphone 6s. i don't want to brag about it. i want to have a phone that will last. i can't get a job. my country is not america where all you find is lawns that have to be mowed and where they pay you to recycle. if i want to get money for recycling it works like that: 1 kg of paper is worth exactly 0,02 usd. so i can't do anything to get paid. because i would rather work my *** off to get whatever little shits i want. and this year i have a huge exam coming so the last thing i want to do is get a part-time job, along with all of the tutoring and private classes.

At the beach where we go in the summer there is a man I have begun to have feelings for. I see him around now in the school year and he stops by from time to time like he is attracted to me. I feel for him and his two kids but I realize I am getting thoughts like "if I could I would go to him" so I have broke off all contact with the man and just told him I was awkward socializing with someone of the opposite sex. He said okay and he understood and I do love the man but I am married and have been and love my husband also. So should I tell my husband this?

If so, then why doesn't insane mean mentally unstable, and crazy mean unusual? Semantics should be a category on yahoo...

So every time I see my extended family they get on my nerves. It's usually on holidays and they are big drinkers. Now even though I'm 21 gonna be 22 soon I don't drink anymore. I realized when I was younger I carried the addiction gene, never actually got addicted but after a while I could see myself becoming an alcoholic so I promised myself never to drink again. Well they don't understand that, they keep pushing it on me even when I've said no hundreds of times. What do I do? I feel the only option is to stop seeing them. They keep making comments on how I only am drinking water while everyone else is drinking beer or wine.

well i'm 14 and i'm turning 15 on june i started watching anime when i was 11 and i loved it so much!!!! and now i dont have much time watching anime because of school homeworks and studies. and my family had so much problems. and my mom keeps telling me that anime is bulshiet and that i grew up for that stuff. but she never listened to me especially now. i try to speak with her but she doesnt understand me. no one does! so now i stopped telling my problems to anyone. because i know that no one will understands me. so yesterday i listened to some naruto openings and memories bumped into my head and i started crying very hard. i missed my childhood, my good memories and anime was a part of that and anime used to teach me how to not be alone in this world and always to move on.

To make a long story short I sent nudes when I was 13. I was in the 7th grade and I had a thing with an 8th grader, but we weren't technically dating. He had asked for nudes so I gave them to him. 3 years later (recently) me and my friends were talking about the first time sending nudes and they were all shocked when I said 13. They thought it was too young. So I want to know how old you were when you first sent nudes and if it was kind of slutty of me to send nudes at 13 in your opinion

I m a girl, married to a girl. Her best friend since this summer is also a woman. My wife is into women (exclusively me) & her bff is into guys. Bff wants a 50s housewife lifestyle, & told me once that she s jealous that I stay home & cook & clean while my wife works (I ve got tons of health issues that justify that). So a few months ago she asked my wife to go to this conference with her that s going on this weekend. My wife saw it as a great marketing venue, & agreed. I thought it would be okay. I had messed up my leg pretty bad right before then, & didn t want to go. Bff told her they had to buy the the $100 tickets then because they were selling out... So she did. Then things started to get strange between me & the bff. She came over one day while I was really sick, and complained because I was gassy...in my house. Another time she came over & bitched because i laugh too loud. I began avoiding her, & let my wife know that she s her friend, not mine. So the conference starts Sat morning, & is 4 hours away from our home. Bff tells her they need to share a hotel room to save money (which I get) but then only gets 1 bed! She said they claim it was all that was left. &, they needed to leave Friday morning, so they could get a good nights sleep. Well, instead of going to the hotel, she begs my wife to go check out bars & as of 11pm, they still had 1 more to see before they could go to the hotel. Also, when I found out my wife was leaving Friday morning instead of Friday evening like I thought (which would've made more sense), I planned a romantic night before she left. I had everything set up, & within an hour of her getting home & me surprising her with our romantic evening, bff calls & says she's having boy problems again (she has them everyday) & she's on her way over. Also, when I found out my wife was leaving Friday morning instead of Friday evening like I thought (which would've made more sense), I planned a romantic night before she left. I had everything set up, & within an hour of her getting home & me surprising her with our romantic evening, bff calls & says she's having boy problems again (she has them everyday) & she's on her way over. Then while sitting on my couch she retells the same drama stories over & over! She was over for 3 hours last night... Finally leaving when she realized it was time for bed. Is it just me, or is she trying to take this friendship to another level? I trust my wife completely, but she can be naive when it comes to this stuff. So, they didn't get to the hotel until almost 3 am, I'm really pissed off at her bff. I feel like she took her out partying all night so she could loosen up her inhibitions. My wife & I rarely drink, & my wife said she Frank soda all night while bff was drinking.

This is a question for childless singles. Would you marry someone who had two young children that weren't yours and who had financial debt if you were childless and financially stable and debt free?

I'm a 21 year old Sourh Asian female, living in America. My parents won't let me move out until I'm married because they think Ill become a slut if I'm on my own, and that's a disgrace to the family in our culture, but I have a strong desire to move our, be independent, and lead my own life. i cannot do that living under my parents roof, being treated like a child, I have a plan of how to afford studio apartment near me. Should I move out against my parents will? I'm a 21 year old Sourh Asian female, living in America. My parents won't let me move out until I'm married because they think Ill become a slut if I'm on my own, and that's a disgrace to the family in our culture, but I have a strong desire to move our, be independent, and lead my own life. i cannot do that living under my parents roof, being treated like a child, I have a plan of how to afford studio apartment near me. Should I move out against my parents will?

My friend and her husband have been married for a couple years and just recently, a male friend of her husband started renting a room from them. My friend and her husband were living on the downstairs floor, but decided to give the new guy a different room on the downstairs floor. My friend and her husband said they moved to the upstairs floor because it would be kind of awkward being on the same floor as another guy. I don't really get it, do you think that that would be an awkward situation? Why? Has it to do with sex life or what? Please explain. And sorry, I know this is kind of a long, detailed question, but I really wanna know. Thanks

Every time we go out in public I notice my wife eyeing black men, especially big muscular ones with extra dark chocolatey skin that glistens in the sunlight. It makes me feel uncomfortable and I've told her to stop but she denies that she looks at them and told me I'm crazy. Its gotten to the point that I don't even feel comfortable being out in public with her because I know she will be looking at black men and making me feel awkward. What can I do?

I guess my question comes out of frustration since I'm still only 20 and have a long way to go. I work 2 jobs totaling about 75-80 hours a week. I also go to school full time and pass with a B or higher every term. Is there a reason why I'm doing this does hard work really pay off? LOL sorry I just need some motivation and insight on this.

It could be something you've done or something you even plan on doing in the future. Maybe some good news you've gotten recently, quotes, ect. ANYTHING that brought a smile to your face or somebody else's. Let's shed some light here :)

here's this girl that goes to my school that I liked for like the last 1-2 weeks.She's really beautiful , and a nice girl. And lately I've been strongly attracted to her so I went with my move today and things didn't go so well. Here's what I thought gave me a chance to be successful. One day before practice I was on my way to my car. And I heard chatters so I looked back and the girl and her friend were looking at me. They were a little far away to speak but I looked down and out of a habit I licked my lips, then I heard her say" he licked his lips, because he knows were talking about him". So still to this day I wonder what they were saying , initially I thought it was good but after today not so much.. Other hints were we always randomly make eye contact wheither it's me looking around then I look at her finding her looking at me and looking away when I make contact with her. So back to the base of the conclusion, I actually dropped my balls today and talked to her. Here's how the conversation went, first I approached her left side first saying hey hey and saying my name and asking her 'her name. then I said oh cool.. well *** Ive been seeing you around school or w/e and I think you're beautiful. then she smiled and said thanks. and I said could I get your number to know you better. Then she said No. then I said do you have a boyfriend or a mate she said kinda and some other stuff I cant remember then I said are you gon tell me when yall over with (not exact words) then I proceeded to ask why can't i have your number then she said she said i dont really know you. then i said well I want to get to know you.. then I added if im not your type i can understand and then she said I didn't say that. Then I don't remember what I said before I walked off I probably didn't say anything cause I kinda felt played, but is this girl worth giving another shot? and what did I do wrong if I did do something wrong?

Me and ex husband have a 2 year old. He is an alcoholic and completely ruined our marriage. He ended up leaving and abandoning us because I told him to get help or this won't work. He got physically verbally abusive when drinking. He just can't seem to stop or see he has a problem. I got restraining order because he threatened to kill me and take our daughter. I don't let him see her because of the WAY too many times I've witnessed him neglect our kids needs. I'd come home from work to find him passed out and she would be alone. Sometimes outside alone. So I cannot trust him alone with her. But I'm being called spiteful for keeping her away.

What do they look out for in a spouse? Obviously, specifics will vary based on the family's goals. So I am looking for more of a general answer in regard to the question.

I found out yesterday that my grandmother passed away the night before. She was 71 years old and suffered a stroke ten years ago. At that time I went into foster care (my father is unknown, mother in prison). Foster care arranged a twice monthly visit for me with Grandmother and those were torture. At first she would recognize me and try to speak, but I couldn't understand her and she'd get very frustrated. As time went by, she stopped recognizing me, and when I aged out of foster care, for the two years I lived in the area, I'd try to stop by the nursing home once a week to see her. I'd talk to her and she would smile or scowl and sometimes just turn her back to me. Anyway, I took a job last winter in a different city and I had not seen her since. I felt that maybe some weekend I should drive back, but it's a 3 hour drive one way what good would it do? Especially if she rolled on her side with her back to me the whole time. I didn't feel particularly guilty. Then I get a call that she passed away. My attitude was "okay. It had to happen sometime." I haven't shed a tear for her passing. I haven't been depressed or prostrate with grief. My grandmother raised me until I was 10 years old. I loved her. She was a great caregiver, until she had a stroke and the state took over. Why aren't I sad? This can't be normal. I feel like I'm a defective human being devoid of some necessary emotional component.

Last week she threw a tennis racket at me and a half eaten apple, i just don't know what to do and need so help or advice?

It's not our fault hurting the unpopular losers is so much fun to do.

So my grandmother died yesterday. We didn't really get a chance to have a relationship because she was so sick and she lives halfway across the world. I always wanted to call her and just tell her that i love her or ask her questions, but i never could because we were either too busy or we didn't want to disturb her. My mom told me that every time she called she asked how i was and it just breaks my heart because I never got to ask her how she was or tell her that even though we can't talk much, i love her so much. It seems like everyone else isn't as sad about it (except for my dad, he's trying to smile a lot but you can tell how upset he is) This is the third grandparent that died and now I only have one grandmother left. This was the only grandparent that I have ever talked to, so now if she dies I have no idea what I'm going to do. And what sucks is that I couldn't see her or talk to her before she died. I had to hear about it over the phone. It doesn't feel like she's gone just still really really far away. I don't know why I'm sop upset about this even though I didn't really get to know her like I wish I could. So how long do you think it'll take before I get over this? Every second I feel like crying. I don't want to forget my grandma. I just want to finally accept the fact that she isn't suffering from her sickness anymore, but I can't. She may be in a better place, but now it isn't such a great place for the rest of us down here.