Use logic and don t try convincing me that love exists. I know chemical love exists What is the difference between a relationship and a companionship/or friendship? Is there any difference? Is there any logical reason to have a relationship? Exclude the factor of having children or passing on your genetics

After 4 months of dating, my girlfriend asks for space out of nowhere. All of my friends and family are shocked. I haven't talked to her in 5 days but we are still in a relationship on Facebook. So I don't know if we are broken up or not. She said give her a few days. She also said she would text me, which she hasn't... So what should I do? Do I wait it out? Do I move on? Do I wait for her to contact me?

I recently confirmed my married boss is having an affair with my co-worker (my manager I report to). I don't know why, but this has had a very negative affect on me. I can feel myself resenting them and taking them both less seriously. The job is a pretty decent one and I love my other co-weorkers, but I don't think I can ever be okay with the affair ethically. Is this a valid reason to leave this job? Or should I suck it up and let it go? Please help! Please note I do not particularly like this job and they pay me considerably low, and I have no religious beliefs whatsoever pertaining to the matter. Purely my morals.

This is going to be pretty long so I apologize in advance. This is an issue related to my school. There s an English teacher that I really like and respect. I look forward to her classes everyday and I m pretty good at the subject so I m guessing she sees me as a good student too. We had to submit an activity for internal marking. Im not going to lie I procrastinated, and left it till the last moment. Actually days went past the deadline date and she didn t notice. One day when when she asked the class I panicked and told her I didn t submit it. She did get pretty angry at me but later she excused me as it was my first time. This month again we were asked to do an activity and was told to submit it after the winter break. I actually did the entire thing but was absent on the first few days of classes. Unfortunately I came to school on the date of subimssion and me being the absent minded idiot I am, left it at home. She got super angry. The next day I went to give the activity to her but she refused and said she would give me zero as I turned it in late. I got pretty upset and as a result I had to raise my voice a bit (I have a tendency to be loud) she got even more offended and told me off for disrespecting a teacher. She complained to my class teacher and I got yelled at by her too. I was asked to apologize to her and I did and she did say that it was fine but I still feel upset about it. What do you think I should do?

hi my girlfriend lives in the Phillipines . I am going to see her in April but I have a problem she sent me a video of her smiling and doing kissy faces and blowing kisses at me . I know it's just a clip but it was very hard to watch without feeling anxious or blushing. how do I fix this. i have no problem looking at still pictures

I was born in Russia but I have lived in the US for the past 9 years. I am now finishing high school and going on to college. I would love to move to Russia after I get a college degree. What degree would you recommend I pursue to be the most successful that I can be? I was thinking that my backup could always be to teach English. Maybe becoming a tech person would be smart so I could work for some American company. What do you think? Please do not criticize my desicion, that's not what my question is about.

We have had fights throughout our relationship based around other women. I never have hard evidence that he has cheated, but there have been numerous times I caught him messaging other women asking them to call him. His PTSD (which he found out he had through the VA) leaves him feeling worthless and insecure. He has learned through meetings that many men with PTSD feel worthless and the attention of another women will somehow make them feel like they have worth again. Yes he gets attention from me, it's not that. But for me, I'm sick of it. My trust for him has diminished, but he is telling me nothing like it will happen again because now he understands why it was happenening and what to look out for and that he realizes it is not normal. If you do not have PTSD or are close with someone that has it, please do not respond. No offense. So my question is, when people realize they have ptsd and know the signs for it, are they able to suppress it?? Serious answers only please

Ex boyfriend said he wanted to give us another shot. Her performed well in many ways. I spent the holidays with him and his family. All the sudden out communication got worse after he went to dinner with friends. He had planned a foreign trip with me and made future plans. All the sudden he is distance. I expressed my feelings about us not working. He agreed adding that he loved me but our personalities are too different. This is bull crap because I am the mother of his child. We have known each other for 4 years and have a 2 year old. Why does it take me to have to say it s not working first? I felt he led me on yet he was the one running his mouth and planning. How and the hell can you take me out etc. Yet you don t like me? So that trust is basically gone and done. He was the one saying I have faith in have been thinking this over and it s gonna work. Then 2 months later this is where we are at. Then he blamed me saying he was confused about love and lust. But he loves me as the mother. How does it take 4 years to obviously know our personalities dobt match? Sounds like he s looking for perfection or possibly seeing someone else. His last words were, let s try to continue bring good parents. Why would my mommy duties stop? My daughter will always be my daughter. What are your experiences with losers like him?

I am 13 and live in Pakistan. I am doing a job of Ad Posting. I have made 3600$. I need to go to L.A to meet Peyton List. The problem is, how should I meet her? I mean, I need to ask her a photo with me she kissing me on the face, not on the lips. She is so beautiful! I can't resist it. I am giving her those items if I will go. beats powerbeats2 HTC Re Camera Bobbi's Runway Beauty Secrets Pinch Provisions Minimergency® Kit For Her - Bubbly Is that enough for her to take a photo with her like this? Can I go to her home and ask and give for photos and gifts? No rude answers. I know you will help me. 2 questions are above.

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I'm going to work sometime this week at a warehouse. My mom used to work there and the guy I liked talked to her sometimes but now I'm going to work on my own and I'm going to try talking to him more but the thing is a lot of the times I'll be working on the other side but only a few times I'll b working where he works so what can I do to talk to him? I'll ask him for help and start convos from there but what other things can I do? I really like this guy I don't really have many friends and don't get to see any guys I go to an all girls college. I want to b his close friend.

Would you marry a woman who had two kids and her ex (their father) is still actively involved in their lives and comes over and hangs out with his kids a lot at her place and they are good friends still? What if she had a lot of debt and was struggling with bills and you paid for everything every time you go out and she also sometimes sends you to the store to get stuff but never reimburses you? Would you marry her?

I literally can't stop thinking about all the terrible stuff I have done it just pops up at the most random times its torture really.. :/ how can I just...not think about it do you get what I'm saying?..

Alright so, I m actually super affectionate. Like REALLY affectionate. And I love sex, but once it comes to kissing.. I just hate it. Honestly it kinda makes me feel like I m getting raped. I don t even know why. Which is odd since I loooove sex. .. It kinda scares me. It doesn t make me feel good.

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My baby s dad left me right when I told him I was pregnant because he had already decided prior he wanted to persue this other female. My whole pregnancy has been back and forth drama with him so I decided to change my number and not deal with the stress. But then I found out the sex of my baby and contacted him to share the news. He fed me all these "what if s" about his choice and our future but I stayed strong. Until his new chick decides to post things about me calling me desperate for my payhetic family. So I coulnt resist telling her what the truth really was and how I dont want him. But since then she has sent me another message threatening me refering to my child as a mf load and said if I dont want her around to think twice before having my baby. I never responded just forwarded to him but he did nothing and doesnt care. Since then I blocked her yet somehow today she gets my email address from snoopinf in his phone I beleive and sends yet another message to me. Im so sick of all this and its the worse experience ever to top it off Im having his child! He doesnt defend me and I just wish he would leave this crazy chick alone so I can try to be civil! She says I trapped him and I keep thinking that if he s telling her these lies why should I go out of my way to contact him later when I m giving birth!? And how am I suppose to handle her!?

I never had any siblings so I was excited when I met her thinking ooh, maybe we'll get to bond like sisters but so far no luck.. I'm feeling a bit like she hates me based on some of these issues: 1. She hasn't added me to her FB yet her entire family (all her cousins, aunts, uncles and my brother are added). 2. She has an instagram in which she posts photos of herself daily. 3. I asked for her phone number and we exchanged, she seemed happy about it and it is the right number yet I text'd her twice on two different days and never got a reply back so gave up on that. 4. She IS interactive with everyone but me. I see videos on her FB via my fiance's and I see her dancing with friends, shouting random silly things and filming her family making jokes.. 5. When I'm trying to make conversation with her, she never asks me anything and answers with a simple yes and no. She's 18, I'm 24. What do you think? Any sort of suggestions? It would be nice to get to know her and I've tried to ask all sorts of things but usually just get a smile with a yes or a no.

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So over Christmas, I was talking to my family and I was telling a story about trying to teach my mom how to use Facebook. She is a teacher and very smart, but sometimes it's somewhat comical that she has problems with technology. I was explaining the story, to my cousins and someone said " maybe you can be tech support for aunt so and so then" and I responded with " well it would be pretty sad if I was tech support"...then another cousin responded with " yeah"..this really hurt my feelings because I was just making fun of myself and I'm not normally tech savy, just with some things..but the way my cousin responded seems really insulting. I don't know if she was teasing, it was a different cousin that responded with "yeah"

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So I got this new job at the bar downtown and i have been talking to this guy that goes there for about 2 weeks now. We'll we hung out last night and we had a couple drinks. We got kind of tipsy and he ended up fingering me. When he slipped in I was drunk and it felt amazing, but the texture of his fingers were a little off. I ended up cumming, and after he pulled his fingers out, I noticed in the dim light that he had small bumps on his hands. I did some research today and I think they are hand warts... What do I do?! Y

Im in eighth grade, 14 years old, super tall, and a girl. I have a "crush" on this boy (who happens to be taller than me-which is a plus) and I want to tell him. But he hangs out with these girls who i don't get along with and iim afraid they'll convince him I'm just not worth it. How do i tell him? Should I?

Hay un chico de mi colegio que me lleva llamando la atención un tiempo. Resulta que este año comencé a notar que él me miraba (las típicas miraditas en las que uno acaba apartando la vista) A parte de las miradas, sus amigos lo empujaron para que se chocara conmigo en un pasillo y siempre que paso cerca suya él me mira. Hace unos meses coincidimos en una fiesta, él comenzó a mirarme (se dió cuenta de que iba un poco borracha) y yo le devolví la mirada, así que se acercó y estuvimos hablando un rato (la primera vez que hablé con él) pero no somos "amigos" así que no hemos vuelto a hablar. La semana pasada coincidimos en una fiesta (a mí me gusta un poco así que siempre estoy pendiente de si me mira o no) y mi amiga me dijo que lo había visto mirarme y apartar la mirada. A la vuelta de esa fiesta nos encontramos a este chico con el hermano mayor de mi amiga, y resulta que el hermano comenzó a llamar a mi amiga para que fuésemos con ellos. Y de repente el chico del que hablo gritó mi nombre para que me acercara. No fuimos pero eso me puso muy felíz. Al día siguiente mi amiga me dijo que si este chico había gritado mi nombre era porque "queria follarme" (ella habla así) Total, que hay una especia de tensión entre nosotros, como si los dos nos gustásemos pero como no somos amigos no hablamos (excepto en las fiestas). Me da miedo que solo me mire pero que no quiera nada conmigo y me esté ilusionando para nada. Según lo que acabo de contar ¿creéis que le gusto? ¿qué debería hacer?

About two months ago I went out with two friends (one male one female) they offered me alcohol (I only drink on occasion but I felt like letting loose because schools been overwhelming) im not sure how much I drank because the next thing I remember is the guy being on me while my friend sat there and a bit of blurred things, then sitting in a bathroom crying saying "this is a bad dream it has to be" I must ve blacked out because after that I remember throwing up on the street while my friend drove me home. Today I told my boyfriend and I don t know if it ll change things between us but I needed to tell someone, every time I tell the girl who was there she makes me feel awful and like I shouldn t have expected her to at least look after me a bit (I know logically it s all my fault since I put myself in the situation , yet it s torn a huge hole in my life, im no longer able to focus at school and I generally feel numb) am I wrong for feeling like I was taken advantage of? Is it okay I told my boyfriend? How do you get past something like this? I m sorry for the run on sentences im on my phone.

I'm 13 and I've been doing Tae-Kwon-Do for 4 years now. I never wanted to start in the first place, but I was forced to go. I strongly dislike TKD (almost HATE it) but whenever I go there I have to act like I like it when I really don't. My parents know I don't like it but they say it's so I can defend myself. I have been doing this for 4 years now, and being a 2nd degree black belt, I think I know how to defend myself. I know I wont be as good at it if I quit but as I said before, I strongly dislike it. I have tried learning to like it but I just can't. My hobby is gaming and I have loved it since I started playing but my parents despise it. They gave me an option to stop going, but if I accept I will lose everything, My Xbox, Laptop, phone, and DS, along with every game I own and I'll never get them back. My mom goes to TKD with me (not my dad) and my mom is crazy about it. She did it when she was little and she stopped going and now she regrets stopping. My dad understands that I don't like it but he insists that I continue. I am positive I won't regret stopping. My mom wants me to start working there when I turn 14 (10$ p/h). I don't think the master and the instructors there are bad (they're pretty good actually) it's not them that makes it bad, and there is nothing wrong with the place itself, it's just I really dislike TKD. Please write something that my parents could read (they will understand more if someone else told them) I would say more but I reached word limit.

My name is also shorted to flo and i really dislike them both , i feel like they don't suit me at all i was wondering if felicity was really close enough to my original name that i could ask people to call me that instead i also liked flossie or florie but i don't know if there too immature ?

We met 3 weeks ago and havnt talked 3 days total through out knowing eachother. he said he likes me and wants a relationship and wants to get to know me better he's attractive and talks to lots of girls. He invited me over to his house on Christmas Eve to watch movies and we fell asleep cuddling all night. He wants to invite me again so we can watch a movie (no we didn't hook up) I said don't u want to do something else other then me coming over and watching a movie he said yeah we can go on adventures. So how do I know if he's being serious or just playing me

I was seeing a guy and it ended randomly (he just stopped contacting me, then I found out he had a girlfriend a while after) and without closure. In fact we never talked about what our relationship was the whole time ( DEFINITELY wasn't just friends ..lol). Couple years on and Im STILL thinking about it. I never used to initiate anything with him, it was always him texting and making moves, because I didn't want him to think I was too interested (I realise this was dumb now) But I was never sure if he actually liked me for real or not? I was saved in his phone as 'link 1'. He would always try to go further with me everytime we met up. When I was with his friends, I always had to sit on the back seat and his friend in the front. Then again he told his mum about me and always wanted me to meet her and he wanted to meet my mum? There were so many mixed signals that I just held back for fear of looking stupid. I still have strong feelings for him and I feel pathetic for having feelings for someone who may never have really cared about me anyway. He asked me out over text earlier on in our 'relationship' and I assumed it was his friend on his phone so I kind of dismissed it. I think about this a lot and wonder if it really was him and kind of regret not asking him about it in person cause I probably would've said yes.... I just have so much regret and I'm wondering if I've just fallen for the charm of a player. it's makin me miserable.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I'm 20 and he's 21. I went looking through some of his messages and I found out he had sex with my friend once 5 months into the relationship. I saw in the message that they both said they regretted doing it and would never do it again and they don't want me to find out. Should I confront him and her about it or let it slide?

Okay..I'm a 15 year old girl. And this is very hard for me to talk about..to anyone..even family, since I think I was 13 I have been masterbating to porn online. I know porn is very very bad. I just don't know how to masterbate without it. I don't know what to do. I don't do this all the time. Maybe one or twice a week. I honestly feel terrible. Should I try and stop with both all together and wait till I'm older and possibly married for sexual things? Because I've tried to stop watching the porn, because I know what it does to someone..but I don't feel..exited enough without it. I can't talk to anyone. I would appreciate some kind advice. Thanks. (:

Does it make you feel uncomfortable when your girlfriend/boyfriend spends time with their ex? Say they have kids together and they hang out often together with the kids, have lunches and dinners together with the kids and you are not invited nor told about these until afterwards. What if they discuss things frequently that don't involve their kids? What if they hang out at your girlfriend/boyfriends place to spend time with the kids while you are working and they do not tell you about it until afterwards? Would this make you feel uncomfortable or would you just suck it up?

I'm mixed and my husband is a typical white man, I'm tired of him. We have four young kids. He's so annoying all the time. He leaves the cabinets open and leaves the milk out and when I point it out he just laughs it off. I'm 27 and he's 29 and very immature. I'm pregnant again and we are both quite happy because we wanted a big family. The baby wasn't planned and I don't like being pregnant. I usually feel ill and I gain so much weight and feel so unattractive. I feel tired of my husband always telling his silly jokes. He works long hours and always wants to talk about how tired he is when he comes home from work. At the company Christmas party I met some of his co workers and there's a new woman there. She's very thin and blond. She just gave me bad vibes like a woman trying to steal your husband. I'm worried he might cheat because I'm tired of him and don't want to be intimate so often. As much as I dislike him he's still my husband and I don't want to ruin my family. What do I do?

As of now, I don't have too many friends. Whenever I try to make friends or even talk to people, they seem to just blank out/ignore me, or completely change the subject. And this even occurs with my family members... Sometimes I can be a bit lengthy when I talk, but this even happens when I just say something brief or try to talk to someone. Most people seem annoyed with me. Do you think they just don't like me? Do I have a problem fitting in? I honestly feel like something is wrong with me in my mind or manner that causes this problem...

That seems to be how the internet works.