Family: Question: Is it reasonable for not wanting your son-in-law to live with you and your daughter?

Question: Is it reasonable for not wanting your son-in-law to live with you and your daughter?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:33 PM PST

My future husband and moved out of our apartment, and into my mother's house. My fiancee is ill and is visiting doctors and specialists every other day, but he seems to be improving staying here with me and my mother. Problem is my mom told me she is uncomfortable having him around the house all day, and want's him to move out; she doesn't mind if i stay. Of course, I'll have to go with him... because I am the only one who truly understands his illness and knows how to manage it best. We will most likely move into his dads or my FIL's house. My mom has stated that we are both very nice people and it is solely her problem indeed... her reasoning is that she is uncomfortable and she feels like he invaded her space and privacy. He is sick and doesn't move around much, mainly just sits in one spot on the sofa all day. I hurt that this is how she feels, but I do respect her, after all she is my mother. On the other hand, I know this will be tough for me to watch after my husband, since my work is based right next to my mom's house. Having my husband near me while I work would be ideal until he is well again. Of course my husband is insulted and feels she is being childish. Is he right? And is there another way to approach her and make her feel better about us moving in? I offered to get us all together to talk about this instead of making me the middle person, but nobody seems interested :-/ Thanks Update: we've been living here for about 2.5 weeks, and my mom is getting tired of it.

Question: My parents aren't home yet?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:31 PM PST

They we're supposed to be home more than an hour ago. My brother is with them. I have no credit on my phone and my house phone doesn't seem to be working (would any1 know how to fix it?) I don't want to call the police rn just in case. And my parents haven't called me. - Please help!

Question: How do I stop my brother from spitting??

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:22 PM PST

Lately, my little brother (14) has had a bad habit of spitting on people. It s mostly me, but also my sister and her boyfriend and my boyfriend too! I don t feel comfortable inviting my friends over when he s home, and my parents won t do anything about it!!! How can I get him to stop or get my parents to realize how disrespectful he is being to my sister and I?

Question: How do I tell my husband how much he hurt me?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:15 PM PST

My husband and I have opposing views on some political and social aspects. Long story short, in a recent conversation with him about our government and welfare programs(snap, food stamps, tanf, etc.), he decided it was appropriate and relevant to bring up a few of my family members, who have used these programs. I was not offended by the fact that he pointed this out, but that he called them lazy and stated that the reason they were approved for benefits was because of the fact that they are Mexican-American. He insinuated that if they were white they would not have been approved and that if they weren t so lazy they wouldn t need them. Needless to say, he did not point this out in a nice way. A fight insued, and we have yet to talk about it since he is working. I was hurt that he would talk about my family and about my entire culture this way. I am unsure how to go about approaching this with him for a few reasons. 1. I feel it will be hard for me to approach him about this without getting angry. 2. Our views on welfare differ so much, and I want to point out that I am hurt because he insulted my family and my culture. I do not want this to be about our differing views. 3. I am worried that what he said are his real feelings, so nothing will be resolved when we do talk about it. I need some help in how to approach this...

Question: Should I have eaten his food?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:11 PM PST

My husband and I just celebrated our 5 year anniversary, he has 4 teenage children and i have 2 teenage children. We do not live together because neither of our houses are big enough and financially we are unable to change that situation. Recently i was over at his house and he offered to make me a bean burrito, tortilla, refried beans and shredded cheese. It was very yummy but while on the phone with hime 2 days later he became irritated with me because "i ate all his food", and there was no shredded cheese or refried beans left??? Feeling very very hurt, I'm not sure how to respond. Its been 3 days and i still feel crushed. I didn't know a wife could be in trouble for eating her husbands food.??? Guess next time i wont take him up on his offer to eat anything while st his house???

Question: Does it really sound like I need to be putting on weight?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:10 PM PST

So I see my grandmother about every 3 weeks due to working in the road. The last few times I've gone over to her house she's mentioned how I look like I've lost weight, that I look really skinny. I'm 5'2" and 120. I put on a pair of size 4 jeans the other day that barely sat on my hips, I couldn't find my size 2s to try them on to see but I'm positive I wouldn't be any smaller than a 2. I'm happy when I look in the mirror. She thinks I need to eat more and gain some weight. I'm just small. I'm 26 and people think I'm 16.

Question: How do I deal with my manipulative and controlling father?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:09 PM PST

Question: Would you drive four hours to see your dad?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:01 PM PST

My parents asked me if I was coming to see them for my dad s birthday. Which is two hours away. They have never seemed to care if I was there for birthdays. I have three kids that are in school and I would have to drive there and back on a school night. I recently started being a lot caring to them & now they want me in their life more. I guess I just wonder why I had to do all the work just to get them to act like I am not the black sheep. I feel conflicted on whether to go. I suppose I should want to but I guess I feel hurt that after all these years they now want to include me. What do you think?

Question: Why do people have kids?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 12:56 PM PST

And then treat them like a burden or like unwanted trash? Why not just use a condom? Or have an abortion?

Question: How can I convince my mom she is still beautiful?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 12:52 PM PST

When I got out of high school, I had a hard time finding a job. I finally found a job with good pay and a great boss. One day in his office I saw his high school graduation picture on his wall. I told him that my mom went to the same high school. He asked me her name in school. When I told him, he said "I knew your mom in high school. I can see were you get your good looks. She was the most beautiful girl in the school." WOW was that nice to hear. He asked if I had a picture or my mom now. I said no. He said "I would like to see her again to catch up on old times. Why don't you let me take the two of you to lunch some time. I said "great I would arrange it". It sounded like that would be fun. When I told my mom about this she said she did not want to see anyone she went to high school with. When I ask her why she told me she had gained 10 pounds since she was in high school and didn't feel like she looked good. I told her 10 more pounds in 20 years and after 3 kids did not change her great looks. She still looked great. How can I convince her she is still beautiful and should join us for lunch? Would taking her to get her hair and nails done and helping her buy a new dress make her change her mind? It is always good for your job to make your boss happy don't you think? Moms and others, PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS.

Question: If you had a 16 year old daughter, would you prefer her to get her lip pierced or her belly button pierced?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 12:44 PM PST

And what if she had a boyfriend?

Question: Why is my gym teacher so mean?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:55 AM PST

I just got back from Beijing on Saturday, and it's a 13 hour time difference, and I was sick. On Monday, I had Phys. Ed. and I brought a note saying I should stand out of running and exercises, and my dad meant for me to stand out of all of the gym, but she said "on this note, it only says you can stand out on exercises and running, not volleyball or soccer. And I'm wearing boots, but she lets me sit out. On Wednesday (today), I only slept 2 hours and I was wicked tired and sick, but i still had to go to school. So my mom wrote me a note that I only slept 2 hours because of jet lag and stuff. When I gave the gym teacher the note, she read it and glared at me, and said "Are you serious? So when did you get back? Jetlag doesn't last that long. You've been home for 4 DAYS already and i feel like your just making excuses. This is the last time your parents can hand you a note, the next one will have to be a doctors note." She let me sit out but when I was walking around, she glared at me the whole time. Why does she hate me? Normally it takes more then 4 days to get used to a 13 time hour difference!

Question: Should I give life advice to my younger sister?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:36 AM PST

I graduated college a year ago and have learned a lot that I wish I knew before I started. A lot of my friends who are my age had easy majors/party all the time and made bad decisions and listened to there parents. Almost all of these friends have had a tough time finding a job. I fortunately realized this and got into programming my last year. I also got pretty lucky found a good IT job when I graduated. My parents gave pretty bad career advice to me and I realized this after graduating. My sister is 4 years younger than me and I've tried giving her advice because I want her to not make the same mistakes kids I know made that now can't find a job, got pregnant to young, ect. Whenever I try to give her advice she does not listen or believe what I say. I've told her how all of my friends who majored in English/liberal arts cannot find a job and are now in a lot of debt. Most of them wish they majored in engineering or computers. Whenever I tell her stuff like this she is usually is very rude and disrespectful when I try to be honest with her. She will only listen to my parents and calls me an "asshole or douche" when I try to help her. Should I just realize my sister doesn't respect my advice and quit giving it? If I quit giving advice I won't have to deal with her being disrespectful and our relationship will probably be better even though she will make more mistakes and be worse off.

Question: Can this be counted as mock combat/mock fighting with her?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:31 AM PST

When I was a high school junior, my track and field coach wanted to sign me up for girls fencing. So I signed up for girls fencing. So on the first day of fencing practice, the coach made us practice in the main lobby of the school. He made the girls and I face each other. I was faced up against a girl named Tatiana. Since it was the first day of fencing practice, we didn't use swords yet. We had to fence each other without the swords. So does this count as mock combat/mock fighting with her??? BQ:PLEASE ANSWER: DOES SHE COUNT AS MY OPPONENT???

Question: How can i stop my 2 little brothers from coming into my room?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST

Everytime I'm playing a game, they just come there and start yelling, purely to annoy me, if i even go after them or say anything to them our parents get mad, they dont like it when they come but they are too lazy to care. I've thought about starting to sell their stuff or breaking their toys when they come in for no reason. They are 6 and 7. I'm 14. What am i supposed to do? (I'd be so much happier if they didn't exist)

Question: How can i get my freedom back?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST

2 months back my mom caught me smoking and she hasnt been letting me go out alone since and she wont even give me money, also she didnt do anything to help me with my addiction What do i do?

Question: Sister problems?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:13 AM PST

My parents always said I was mean to my sister until I was 12now I'm 12 (Almost 13) and I'm so kind to her never say a mean word to her or hurt her. She's 8 and so mean to me she had me pined up against her head board, hits my if I do something she doesn't like and I cry lots and she mimics my voice when I cry. I told my parents today and they did nothing they said she's younger than you! They always use that excuse and my dad said give her a taste of her own medicine and I did and ended up getting in lots of trouble. What should I do?

Question: I need to escape this strict life I was raised into?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:12 AM PST

Okay, let me start off by saying this: I love my parents very much. I was raised in a very strict Muslim family, but I didn't mind until about last year. That's when I realised I hated everything religion stood for. But I'm never going to tell my parents that, it's a deathwish. Another thing is I'm questioning my sexuality. If my parents ever found out I was attracted to the same sex, they would probably disown me. Also, my whole life has been a case of moving from town to town when we don't even need to. It's to do with my dad's job, but it isn't necessary. I think you can understand how horrible it is to just get up and leave everything just when you've settled in- my social life has suffered horribly from it. I just stopped bothering to make friends. I hate that I always feel so trapped and I don't know how to leave. I contemplate suicide a lot because as far as I know it's the only way to escape, and I've come extremely close before. It's not like I can talk about these feelings to my family and I have no friends close enough. The thing is I'm smart, and I can get a good job like a doctor or a lawyer, but I'm nowhere without my parents' money for university. Most of all, though, I won't be able to face my parents and tell them. I know they'd be so disappointed in me if I ever told them all this, and like I said before, I love them. I would never, ever bring myself to make my mother cry. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck, and there's nothing I can do about it.

Question: My stingy 15 yr old brother won't let me play his Xbox One. Am 26 by the way, and have my own PS4.But it isn't a big deal.?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 11:08 AM PST

@StephenMcbride I live on my own lol but your right about needing to get a job.

Question: Young cousin molested me and nobody believes me?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:55 AM PST

I visited my family and at some point we were left alone, I was minding my own business and he suddenly grabbed me and put me over his shoulder, I tried to escape but he wouldn't put me down and he started groping my butt with his other hand, I felt so violated and started punching him wherever I could but he just laughed and pulled down my pants, I struggled more and finally he put me down he left running and laughing to his room. My family doesn't believe me, he is only 13 and I'm 18 they don't think he could possibly done something like that, but he is a pervert and he is stronger than I am even though he looks weak, I am now scared of what he can do next.

Question: Not having a father?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:50 AM PST

my mom and dad divorced when i was 5. My mother and i moved to another country when i was 7. Now I'm 18, and I'm starting to notice how people change their perspective on you once they know that you didn't grow up with a dad. Even a boy that I like started to look down on me when i told him that I didn't grow up with my dad. My question is, why is that people do that, and what should i do about it?

Question: Am I crazy?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:49 AM PST

Ive been married for 8 years now and my parents have been hounding us for grandkids the entire time. I just told my mom I was pregnant yesterday and today she tells me that her and my dad are going away for 4 months. Im kind of shocked that she wouldn't want to be home while her only daughter is pregnant with her first grandchild. I don't really have any other family here. Am I crazy to be sad about this?

Question: What to do ?? Should I apologize or should she ?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:45 AM PST

My boyfriends sister which I have had a feeling doesn't like me that much has recently in my eyes started some stuff and its really hurt my feelings I feel like she intentionally tried to break us up and my bf is kind of torn not knowing who to believe wanting to believe both of us. She and her dad came to borrow my car which I had no problem with ( she wants to borrow a car all the time) when she got online she told my bf I was acting weird and I didn't seem to want to let her dad borrow the car. I was mad of course knowing that there was no problems like she was describing. So after 2 hours of her convincing my Bf I had done something wrong I text her mad and asked why the hell she was starting crap, when it wasn't even true. I guess bc I asked her a question she didn't expect me to ask she started being a ***** telling me she can talk to her brother whenever and I better watch myself. She has never acted this way so I assumed she was drinking. I told her I wanted the car back that day which she said no . I told her I would report it stolen if she didn't. I was mad at her not her dad but she convinced her dad that I had called the cops on him. Her dad is like 80 years old and didn't need that stress she tells my bf had I caused her dad to have a heart attack she would have killed me herself.. Really? she started it not me . She called me a ***** and a **** ( I have yet to this day called her any names) and has made it clear to her brother to never bring me around again.

Question: Who gets my child if something happens to me PLEASE READ everything?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:25 AM PST

if something was to happen to me who would have custody of my child. my childs biological father hasnt been in his life since his birth . My boyfriend has been in his life and taking care of him since 6 months and his fsmily has also been there as the best grandparents ever. his biological father isnt on his birth certificate either. how can i make it possible that if somethinf happens my boyfriend and his family will have him. we are planning on getting married maybe within the next 5 years so i know that would make it easier but in the meantime ...??

Question: Everyone is a wimp about David Pelzer.?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:17 AM PST

Everyone acts like what she did was such a big deal, that kid needs to grow some balls and do something about it instead of cry. His mother is an amateur to what I do to my daughters when they don't do their chores, or they disobey.

Question: Nobody supports me?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:14 AM PST

My dream is to become an actress. I've joined a drama class and I had a minor role in a real theater. My drama teacher says that I'm talented but that I need more practice. I'm a senior in HS, and my parents laughed in my face when I told them I want to go to school of performing arts. My dad wants me to study English literature and my mom supports him. The thing is I don't want to and I think it's very unfair of them to try and make important decisions for me. It should be my call, not theirs. Anyway, the thing is that I'm planning to go to an audition for the school of performing arts and if I don't get in, then I'll take a gap year and try again next time. My parents say that I'll end up a low life with no job if I follow through my plan. That I'm just a kid who doesn't know what it wants. Except that I do know and it's not what they've had in mind for me. Nobody in my family supports me or my friends and it really sucks. I'm going to follow my dreams but I'm scared that I'll fail because nobody supports me. What should I do?

Question: Should I consider moving out?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 10:11 AM PST

I am a 23 year old male with a $25 an hour welding job still living with my parents. For the past 2 months my family has been harassing me over my girlfriend who I love just because she gained weight in college. I get harassed daily about it and no matter how much I try and stand up for her and myself they just play it off like I don't know what I'm talking about. It hurts because I'm miserable and I love this girl and don't care that she gained weight but my family does and I'm tired of their jabs. I have a good job and 20k in my savings account. I was thinking on staying at home for another 6 months or so and save up another 10-15k then hit the road. What do you think I should do?

Question: How did my mom know I had been doing this?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:26 AM PST

I was upstairs in my bedroom watching TV when my step mother yelled "Lets go so we will not be late". Trying to stall for time, I said "I'm coming". She said "Don't get it on the sheets. That makes them sticky. Oh My God, she thought I was j - -king off. I did not know she knew I did that. She has a wonderful sense of humor so I hope she was joking. I love and adore her. She is the best mom any guy can have. Does that mean she is OK with it and I don't have to hide from her when I do it in the future? Do I have a cool mom or what? I did not know women knew guys did this. Do all women know about it?

Question: Immediate family causes stress?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST

I've been off to college, moved around quite a bit, and find myself back living with my family (parent and younger siblings). Each time I'm there, I start to feel heightened levels of stress. I'm constantly annoyed in my everyday life. When I leave, I'm relieved - and I instantly know that being there was actually the problem. When I'm gone, and I'm sort of at peace, I miss them - because, of course, their my family and it's almost as if I forget the reason for needing to leave. But then, when I come back around for extended periods of time, I'm stressed, annoyed and reminded of why I need to not be around. It's a terrible cycle. Basically I'm living home to save money right now, but I'm like gosh, is this worth it? *I'm not looking for any sort of advice...just...speak towards whatever may of touched you most. Thanks in advance for the mature responses. It would be difficult to move out right now. I can barely save anything, really - it's all the price of working my way up the ladder in my career field.

Question: Mother lied on daughter to get control of her child? Normal?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:20 AM PST

I know a lady who's mom is a nurse. When she had her 1st child, she and her husband were living with her mom. Her mom wrote up a document to the HR dept of her job (a hospital) and said that her daughter was not fit to be a mother, had postpartum depression, drug or alcohol issues, and mental issues. My friend's mom has a history of trying anything to get out of work and was absent more than she was present at times. My friend happened to have found the document to HR requesting the leave of absence and the mother just played dumb. In actuality, my friend is a church going Christian lady who had none of these issues that her mother lied on her about. The friend of mine and her child are not close because the mother decided from day 1 that she was taking over the child and would not let the couple parent it. The couple are now divorced and the husband blamed the mother for it. So, is this normal behavior? Why would the grandmother make up such vicious lies?

Question: Watching porn with my younger sister?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:14 AM PST

So I had I really weird dream the other night. THIS EVENTS WERE NOTHING MORE THAN A DREAM. It starts with myself watching some porn on a TV and my younger teenage sister walks in the room, surprised to see what's in front of her. She has never seen any sort of sexual behavior like that (at least to my knowledge) but she was super intrigued. Her curiosity got the best of her, and she couldn't seem to keep her eyes away from the screen, she asked if she could keep watching and I agreed, knowing she needed to see it. It continued for a while of myself watching her experience the people make love and herself become more and more turned on becoming more comfortable with me in the room knowing I wouldn't tell anyone. I woke up in the middle of it. What could this dream mean? I have never experienced anything like this before with my sister in real life. As a matter of fact, she's actually really uptight with that kind of stuff. As soon as there is any sort of sex scene on the TV, she feels obligated to turn away or avoid it if possible. Is this dream maybe saying I should try to get her to feel more comfortable with this kind of stuff? She's 2 years younger, but she is mature. What should I do about this, I seriously have no clue???

Question: How Do I Deal With My Mum Having A Stroke?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:05 AM PST

So I'm 15 and my mum had about 3 strokes. I was told she would probably die but fortunately she didn't. I felt as if it wasn't real to begin with but I slowly began to realise that my life was pretty ****** up. My mum is now out of hospital and regularly does therapy. But my mum is constantly depressed and so is my dad. He was forced to quit his job and care for my mum 24 hours a day. we live on benefits because my mum and dad can't work now. And with low income i'm starting to worry. My brother is going through Uni and that is expensive and i'm wondering if there will be enough money for me to go to Uni as well. My mum sometimes has seizures which scare me a lot. I know that they aren't dangerous but when she has one i need to help my dad and that mean i need to watch her while she has a seizure. It's very scary and i know that she will be fine but when she's having a seizure i can't help but think that something is wrong. On top of all this I think i might sometimes have panic attacks because of what has happened. I will randomly feel quite scared, my breathing will increase as well as my heart rate and i feel as if the world isn't real, a bit like a dream. So.... yeah. How do i deal with this. I cant talk to my parents because i wouldnt feel comfortable doing it and i dont think my friends would understand. BTW sorry for this being so long.

Question: My parents are forcing me to go to work...?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 09:00 AM PST

So I'm 17, have a part time job while at college. Anyway I'm supposed to work today and I've come down with an upset stomach, and let's put it this way, I've been shitting liquid for the last few hour's...yeah :-/. So I told my parents and what did they say? "You'll survive". Hold up...not only will I have to keep going to the toilet every 10-15 minutes when I'm there but because I work in a small food shop, I'll be handling food products, some don't even come in packaging so I'll literally be physically spreading whatever I have onto several other peoples food. When I gave this reason to my parents they just said " Well I don't care about anyone else". That's the thing, they've sanctioned me off to stay in my room so I don't spread it yet they're happy enough to let me spread it. Whatever happened to the 48 hour rule? Geez. Is there any way I can convince my parents to let me time off, or should I just he allowed to call anyway (it is my job after al.).

Question: How crazy is your family?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 08:36 AM PST

I want to know if your family is as psycho as mine. My cousin robbed a bank, and my uncle (allegedly) raped a little girl, and possibly sexually assaulted another family member. Please tell me I'm not the only one with a crazy fam!!

Question: Am I having my kids too close in age? Grandma keeps complaining?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 08:30 AM PST

My grandma is in her 90s and is constantly harping on me about how close in age my kids are. My oldest will be 9 this summer (he is from my 1st marriage and I didnt remarry for a while), my 2nd is going to be 3 soon, and we are expecting our 3rd (my husband's 2nd) next month. My grandma had fertility trouble (rh -) and could not carry babies to term. My mom was like a miracle child and she never had anymore. My grandma and her brother were 10 yrs apart and fought until her brother died. Is she correct, my kids are too close in age? She is also telling me not to have anymore. Is this her concern? My 8.5 yr old and 2 yr old fight like cats and dogs.

Question: Why do my parents have such backwards, medieval views?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 08:29 AM PST

For example, about birth control. I'm 20, and the only reason I'm on birth control is because 1) I don't live with my parents anymore, 2) I pay for it and it doesn't go through the insurance, & 3) She doesn't know about it. Even though I am an adult if my mom knew I was on birth control she'd FLIP. She thinks that being on birth control means I'll think I can have sex whenever i want. Even my therapist (which I need because of the issues my parents gave me) thinks that this sounds really ignorant. So why do some people have such backwards, weird views? O & my mom herself is on birth control so shes a bit of a hypocrite.

Question: Should I move away and better my life?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 08:13 AM PST

I'm 16 years old and right now I'm staying at my dad house for a few weeks. I use to live with my grandma but she got sick and lost our apartment. My mother is trying to get herself together and get me homeschooling but I've been waiting for months. My aunt called me and asked me if I wanted to live with her and focus on me. To be honest I don't know. I have depression and anxiety and what if she doesn't understand me? I want the best for me in life but that's me moving out of state and leaving my family. Its like I have no home and that I'm going from my dad house to my cousin every week. I'm graceful that I have a place to lay my head. I always wanted to move back to wear my aunt lives and maybe this is my opportunity to do better. I want to get together because I can't live for no one but myself. Maybe I'll have a better future and accomplish more.

Question: Does anyone else find this odd?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 07:41 AM PST

The other day I went with my family to a house showing. We removed our shoes when we entered. Everyone else wore socks, but I was barefoot as I had worn sandals. When asking us questions in different rooms, the realtor kept saying "Emily, how does that floor feel?" And "Emily, how does that carpet feel?" I later asked her why she kept asking me that, and she said that it was because I was the only one with bare feet instead of wearing socks, thus able to feel the floors and carpets easier to feel the floors/carpets so my opinion was especially important to her. Does anyone else find this odd?

Question: Why does my mum never believe what I say?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 07:22 AM PST

I know it's the typical nagging mum but this is way beyond 'nagging'. Okay so I pluck my eyebrows because they're messy and she doesn't like me doing it because she's all about the 'natural beauty' and so I stopped. Today, I was talking to her and out of nowhere, she was like "You did you eyebrows again?!" which for a fact i didn't and I told her I didn't and she didn't believe me and just started lecturing me about that crap. She always blames things on me and even if I said I didn't do it and for god sake, I have to take the consequences. I'm so sick of this. I get it that she works hard and stuff and I try my best to help her out but c'mon, I'm her only daughter and if it was a white lie, I wouldn't even bother. Can someone tell me why she does this?

Question: What is a 1936 heirloom photo of a brother an sister gothic style 24 karat platedframe came from Chicago picture company its by lm dorsey?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 07:22 AM PST

Question: Is my husband too in love that its unhealthy? I feel my husband puts everything on me that its making both lives miserable.?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 07:02 AM PST

He revolves around me way too much! He wont see his bro, go on an ambulance run ( hes an emt), go hunting- I guess because hes worried about my well being. (we only have one car, but I have many friends and family that would give me a ride if I needed it. i'm from this town i can get a ride. hes the one i should be worried about) he doesn't have to hold my hand 24/7. I don't know how to explain this but it feels wrong and unhealthy. I don't want him to revolve around me. I want us to share and be equal. He puts me too high up there..and i probably don't deserve it. its sweet but annoying. hes trying way too hard to please me. Sometimes i wish he would be a little selfish and do somethings for himself. how do i help him or me? I try very hard to let him know its ok to use the car, visit his bro, go on an emergency run that I will be fine! Hell the other morning he asked me if i wanted him to stay in the bedroom while i got ready??? NO! freaking go in the front room and let me get ready! ? i don't understand? I can pick my own clothes and run my own shower! what do i say or do to help this situation?

Question: Should I let my wife flirt and have sex with teen guys ?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 06:28 AM PST

A little bit freedom may make her happy at the age of 46. And also young guys will not be able to compete with me. She also wants a lesbian experience. SHOULD I LET HER DOL All This.

Question: Why sisters are stupid like ffs?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 06:25 AM PST

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Question: Is this wrong?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 06:02 AM PST

My sister has a boyfriend who is always coming over our house and he eats every time he comes over.... But for the last month and a half or so when he comes over they go to her room then they will leave... But when they come back they always have two boxes of Little Ceasers pizza and they don t never offer anyone in the house any... At first my mom and step dad didn t say anything but now they are getting annoyed.... And the thing is they do this at least 2 to 3 times a week... They also did it when they had chips sometimes he pays for it but sometimes my sisters doesn t.. I just feel like it s rude and disrespectful to come over to someone else s house to eat all the time but when you have something you don t want to offer any to anyone else... I know a lot of people think that it s dumb to get upset over something like this... But if you re always feeding someone that doesn t even live in your house and when they get food they don t ever want to offer you any you d start getting annoyed too and you re only buying groceries for the people that live in the house... And my family is struggling a little bit right now also and my sister knows this but I just feel like this is being selfish... Also when we have dinner and stuff my sister always fixes his food and gives him a lot so then when we go in their majority of the food is gone.... This happened a few times and my mom and step dad got kissed because there was hardly anything left....... PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS

Question: I only can open my heart to my grandma. weird?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 05:42 AM PST

Question: How can I convince my parents to let me travel alone ?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 05:19 AM PST

I have this plan of going to Iceland by myself for a couple of weeks in august, but my parents won't let me. I'm 22 years old and in 2014 I did an organized group trip in Thailand, it was the best thing ever. But now I think I'm ready to take it to the next level and have my own adventure. The only problem is that my parents are very protective and they're not fond of this idea. I understand them but I feel like I have to do this, to challenge myself and gain my independence. Plus I live in Switzerland so it's not that far away... heck I even asked them for a gap year in south america last year, that's gotta be more reasonable than that. I just don't know what to say to make them understand that's it's really important to me and that at some point they will have to let me do my own things. Any advice ?

Question: Brother s friend touched me?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:33 AM PST

Please help me. I m so confused and have been up all night having nightmares. Last night my brother had a few friends over, they re 21/22 and I m 20. We were all hanging out, eating pizza, playing video games, they were drinking, I wasn t. His friend was sitting next to me on the couch, he kept finding excuses to touch me, it seemed innocent, and it didn t bother me. It continued and next he was holding onto my waist and squeezing my thigh. The whole time I wasn t really responding, but I wasn t moving away or verbally declining either. late in the night, I responded by moving my hand slightly underneath his so that he could hold it. then he just took it was to far and starting touching me through my pants, and trying to finger me I wasn t feeling anything at all, so at the time it still seemed innocent. I realized hi was creeped out and it went too far, so I walked into the kitchen to get away. he followed me, saying he should drink some water because he was pretty drunk, after I showed him where the cups were, I quickly went back into the living room sat with my brother and dog to stay safe. I stood up and ran to the bathroom, I stayed in there for a while, to get ready for bed. Then I ran to my room and didn t come back out. I m so embarrassed. I m sure my brother noticed something. I m scared he hates me now. it s my fault because I didn t end it. Im going to try to tell my parents I m just really afraid it was all my fault, and I needSome opinions pleAse.

Question: My mom walks around naked?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:29 AM PST

shes almost always naked around the house but i have shame and she makes me feel very self conscious and just bad about my own body i mean she works out a lot and has a great body and then theres me im worried if i tell her itll make things weird

Question: What is wrong with encouraging my daughter to bully peers who believe everything the media tells them and refuse to think for themselves?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:25 AM PST

This belongs in Polls & Surveys

Question: Am personal question to Pearl L, ONLY?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:24 AM PST

Are you a............mentally retarded ?! just checking up

Question: What is wrong with encouraging my daughter to bully peers who believe everything the media tells them and refuse to think for themselves?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:21 AM PST

This belongs in Polls & Surveys

Question: How do I get vengeance from my cousin?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 04:01 AM PST

I am 16, and I told my 14 year old cousin that I had a crush on her a year ago (we're Muslim, so our family is okay with cousins dating after college)....I haven't heard from her since...I would also call her and her older sister (who is now 19) every day, and so they stopped returning my calls.... I added my 14 year old cousin on Instagram, and she added me back, but then blocked me.I apologized to my 19 year old cousin on facebook, but she still blocked me on google +....I am really, really mad......what should I do?

Question: Stepsister expecting a baby, should I help her?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 03:20 AM PST

My stepsister is 19 and lives with her mom and my dad. She's expecting a baby at the end of February. My dad told me they're struggling to help her out and get things for the baby. My dad has kept me in the loop, so I sort of knew what was coming because, well, because it wouldn't be the first time he's asked me to help out with her. Anyway, things have gone downhill in his house since my stepsister found out she was having a boy. She'd gotten a few pink items that were cheap and had been picking girls names since she first made the discovery. Now they have nothing for a boy and my stepsister complains on a daily basis, according to my dad, about having a boy and her wishing he was a girl, etc. It doesn't surprise me, but here's the reason I'm asking this. My dad came over to my house to see my boys (4 and 1) and started asking me if I'd be willing to give my stepsister all my old baby clothes and furniture that we don't use anymore. He told me it would help her out a lot and that she needs me to be a big sister now, even though we aren't sisters and she hates me (which she says even now through Facebook rants). He also wants me to help her with being a mom and tell her how great having a son can be. I get where he's coming from. He doesn't care for her, but he loves his wife. However, nobody can make her grow up or change her views. People have tried and failed in the past. Should I still help her?

Question: My sister is annoying?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 03:07 AM PST

She's always picking on me pulling my haitr kicking me punching me throwing dangerous objects at me I want to take her and crush her arms sometimes ughhh! She 11 I'm 14:( my mom shouts at me instead of her its not fair

Question: My brother got fired from wal last night ?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 02:36 AM PST

he got fired for calling off too much only 1 day over limit and the limit is 3 days if you call off 3 days in a row its only considerd as 1 this is wal mart for you it says as rule that you must be coached 3 times before you are fired you 4th coaching is the firing my brother was only coached 2 time for the call off reason and they also made up lies saying was coming in too late he starts at 10 pm till 7 am he never was late in all 14 months he worked there I also work there 2 we both are overnight maintenance sorry um I was told I can call the labor law board or should he call wal mart corporate first?

Question: Why did my brother's girlfriend delete me off Facebook?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 02:19 AM PST

She added me but then she deleted me maybe a month or so later. I noticed it because i don't have many friends on Facebook and i didn't see any posts from her. She's still in a relationship with my brother and we've never had an argument. So what could be the reason? I'm a girl btw

Question: My mom refuses to come in visit me! Though I have been visiting her, she won't come see me.?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:45 AM PST

My mom lives 80 miles from me and says, she refuses to drive up in see me because of her health condition. She has a aortic hernia size of it is a 3. She said she has to be near a hospital within 15 miles. She goes to disneyworld at least a few times a month. She does her normal shopping and going out in the area daily. So I had a baby she doesnt come, no birthdays or hoildays. She only sees her grandkids when i drive the hour n half drive. She wants to have the grandkids over for weekends a lot and other visits. My husband works 12 hour shifts, sometimes gone a few days every other week. Is this wrong of me to be upset that she doesnt want to come see me that I have to be the only one who goes and visits. But I get blamed by her that she feels so alone.

Question: Good place to hide cigarettes in your room?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 01:02 AM PST

Well the question is pretty clear. Please no "dont smoke ciggarettes you will die" or insulting me saying "get a job and move out" or "your a bad person for smoking" when im in college, still living with my parent but is paying rent and other bills they need help with, and has a job that i work my *** off in. Just because you judge someone because they smoke doesnt make you a better person then they are.

Question: My sister KISSED me, is this normal?

Posted: 06 Jan 2016 12:57 AM PST

My sister and I have shared an apartment since the death of our father and our mother was never part of the picture. I'm now 19 and she's 23, we both work and share the bills. Recently she's felt very sick as she suffers from Lupus, a debilitating disease. She hasn't been able to attend work or school so I've been doing her math for her and getting doctors notes to excuse her from class. I've cooked her favorite foods and cared for her like a child because I know she's in grave pain. Last night when she got out of the shower, she was wearing a towel and asked me to come here. I did, and she gently grabbed my face and kissed me and said, "I love you, baby brother". It was extremely awkward and after I said I love you too we haven't spoken since. Is she going after me sexually? Is