I barely have good friends, and when I get some, they later find others and see me less and less. Everyone has a problem with me: they don t sit near me, talk to me, when I didn t do nothing but just exist. I m pretty, so it s not cause I m ugly. I act nice, and also introverted. Everyone hates me so much that they gossip, and ignore me. They scare away new students from meeting me as well. Just today, my counselor was letting everyone but me do college applications. She underestimates me way too much, and it makes me so mad. I CAN become someone important someday. In front of the whole class, she was like, "don t worry about college!", and everyone got quiet wondering why she was doing that to me. Nobody even defended for me, or anything. Every girl is jealous of me, and every guy thinks I m weird. There s a few that actually like me for me. By the way, I m in 8th grade, and just wish i could become homeschooled to avoid future incidents like those. I can t stand haters, and I definately don t need them in my life. Literally everyone at my school is a hater in some way. I feel like the only good spot in an entire rotten apple.

So my friend starting commenting on this guys picture with my name, and it started going a little far. Then this random girl tells me that thirsty hoes shouldn't be on the picture and to leave. I already stopped commenting, and then my friend says "@me yeah stop" and then she tells me that she said that because she wanted to be friends with her with her for a long time, and that she was fire. I don't know how to feel about that.

I have lived a tough life.. Bullying, domestic abuse, and worst of all: no one loves me or supported me when I wasn't doing well. Everyone only accepted me when I looked good or bad good grades. When I was 8, I stopped being a pretty girl, and turned ugly for some reason. Idk, facial proportions have changed, my new teeth have grown in crooked, and my hair color changed. Kids bullied me for being ugly verbally/physically. I also had ADHD as a child, and my parents hit me for not being able to learn well enough in school. They shoved me into shitty camps during the summer where the staff would say "what is wrong with her?" Right in front of me. After years of bullying, I couldn't leave the house without makeup for 3 years. Grades were all F's. It was VERY hard for me to talk to new people and I had SEVERE social anxiety. I want to tell you something about 2 days in my life. First day: I was 14. I had no friends. It is Mother's Day and I told her she is my only friend. We started to get ready for church. I put on my large amount of makeup. My father criticizes me for having a short skirt. After arguing he pushes me onto the floor and throws a few things around the room. In church, a guy approaches me to talk. I am shy, and have not much to say. He even points that out. We leave church and for the rest of the day, my parents just ***** at each other. Day 2: I am 19. Things have changed. I don't EVER wear makeup and I am able to get A's and B's mostly. But I have lost all Sense of shyness. I can talk in front of large groups and make class speeches without ANY anxiety at all. I have lost all sense of shame. Previoous to this day I have gotten into verbal arguments in public and thrown things. Previously, I've bullied people verbally. Previously, I've abused three people physcially. At this moment, I have a boyfriend. I am slightly stronger than him. One day, he pissed me off becuase he doesn't like my side b*tch ( I'm bisexual) and he wants me to get rid of her. The argument gets very intense and heated. I push him onto the couch and put my hands around his neck while being on top. After a little , I start to think about what's going to happen to me and release him. I felt pleasure having his life in my hands. It's the only power I've ever had. GET THIS: I WISH I WASNT LIKE THIS!! He was extremely ashamed of what happened and didn't tell anyone. He went back to me in a couple weeks. I didn't out my hands on him anymore, but we argued all the time. I re- -alize that I am incapable of having a good relationship. I CANNOT HAVE THINGS NOT GO MY WAY BECUASE MY LIFE WAS SO SOUR AND BAD!!! Wish I wasnt like this! Also, I have hit my best friend in an argument. When she refused to answer my calls, I texted her pictures of her partying and her Turkish uncles' and dads facebook threatening to send the pics to her so thy murder her. I am very lucky to have my ex still be a close friend and to have this girl back in my life. They are good and deep people. My questions: How do I stop being aggressive? How do I become a good person again? How do I stop being broken? How do I have a good relationship again? Am I damaged permanently? Why don't I feel empathy anymore? Am I becoming a sociopath? Is it even possible to become a sociopath after age 17-19? I really hope not. I don't want to end my life in a bad way. Sorry for the spelling mistakes! I was quickly typing on my smartphone, and I was very emotional. Also, my phone is on autocorrect, so small words that are mispelled are corrected to other, incorrect small words.

she'd bring him to our hangouts and we'd never have girls day out or anything because of her boyfriend. wouldn't call her best friend since she always make me deal with her problems although she says she doesn't care when in the end she does since she makes me fight for her. My best friend got in a fight with my other best friend and now she wants me to ditch that girl's *** bc of their feud. thats not a best friend is it? should i tell her the truth, if so what should i say/

I'm 18 I don't start college until the end of this year I can't see my friends from high school no more and it's hard for me to find a job. I have had bad anxiety to talk to people all my life but now I'm not as nervous anymore. Now I am able to talk to people more but the only problem now is I have no where to meet people and no money. It would b nice to have a bf too and there's this guy I like at a warehouse but it's going to be a while since I will b able to work there again or maybe not at all. I never have felt so lonely in my life. I want friends and a bf. I'm tired of hanging out with my mom or dad 24/7. I feel very Lonley and I have no one to talk to or laugh with. I'm very sad in my life rn.

So at the youth group at my church, five of my friends and I sit together for dinner. The friends are 4 girls, three of them 12 and one 13. There's also a boy, and he's my age - 13. However, he sometimes asks us if he can swear and the girls and I all say "Please no!" How do I cope with this? Is it too authoritative of us to go ahead and just say no? Should I talk to my friend or my youth group leaders? I would like to remain calm, mind you. I don't want answers that suggest wreaking vengeance upon him. I meant that I would like to remain kind, and calm too, I suppose!

So I have this really great group of friends but you see we all go to different high schools and only one of them goes to the high school I do. So we sit with this other group from our grade school but I don't really share things in common with them or don't always agree with what they talk about. We don't really hang out on the weekends either. Me and this girl along with another girl don't enjoy sitting with this group and we want to switch tables to this other group of about probably 9 girls. One of my friends has already switched lunches with them but she can easily get on people's nerves. They apparently don't want her to sit with them but of course they're nice to her and everything because they're nice people. So me and my other friend are afraid to switch tables. I think I'm generally a nice person and ik my friend is nice so I'm sure they wouldn't mind but I wouldn't want it to be awkward, like we are intruding on their group. I have classes with a few of the girls so I talk to them in class and the other girls I've talked to but not all the time. So please help me! I'm stuck and I don't know how to do it but I don't wanna be stuck with these same girls my whole high school career but I also don't wanna put an awkward situation on the other group of nice girls I wanna hang out with!

How deep should I avoid diving into the deep web? Ive seen the creepypasta stories about some dangerous experiences from hacking your personal info so how reliable are those stories? Part of me believes they are lies but a friend once told me that he had a friend whos hard disk was burned after seeing some secret government files. Any way what should I avoid doing in the deep web?

I was really depressed for a long time but I started to get really better because I had made new friends and I felt really popular all of a sudden but today was my birthday and not even my new friends old friends or family acknowledged it. I feel so **** because I've remembered how little I matter and I feel so irrelevant and unloved and I just feel really depressed again

I've always been an isolated person, one that doesn't really like social media but one that has the intent to be aware of events. I am that guy that has a couple friends and is known around the school, but doesn't really do much for himself. But I've always hunted for some sort of popularity. Not just being known. Im the person that has a bit of acne, doesn't really play sports, kinda fat, and doesn't attend school events. Could all of these be factors in my popularity? I know highschool is a crummy time and everyone says that you shouldn't bother. But I would LOVE to make my time at highschool worth it.

When I was a lot younger, I had 2 super good friends. They were right around my age, but they moved away in around 2011. I had known them since at least 2008, and we would hang out at least every day. My question is, I recently found one of their accounts on Instagram, should I request to follow him, to say hello? Thanks.

I don't know why I'm like this but I hate it about myself. I am very shy and pretty much unemotional most of the time. I have no friends and everyone at school thinks I'm the most boring person on earth. When I did have friends, they avoided me and talked to others and looked like they were about to fall asleep when we were talking. I can't keep up conversations or show my emotions too much. I want to be fun, I want to know what it feels like to be fun and outgoing and enjoy school like the rest of my peers. Of course I know it's about learning- in fact I overwork myself and my grades are in good shape but I would also like a good social life. I try to not be boring and shy. I try to make comments and actually smile, join in the conversation but I feel awkward. Plus even if I do everyone ignores me. I've been told I am cold, a bore, buzzkill, weird, shy, you name it, people have called me all of that. I'm SICK of it but it almost feels like it's my nature. Why the heck am I so boring and how can I be more fun and talkative?

My best friend and I have known each other for about 6 years now, and things just suddenly became awkward with us. Last week was winter break and she left to Puerto Rico to see her family and hang out, so we obviously couldn't talk that much. And now, that winter break is over, we talk again and it's gotten so extremely awkward. We have like a mini conversation about something and she can say "Oh" and Ill reply "Yeah" and that's it. I know it was the fact that we couldnt talk for over 2 weeks, but I just need help trying to mend out relationship because she's literally one of the two people that make me feel happy about myself. Please help?

This is a scenario I've never thought I would ever encounter. I am forced to choose between two very close friends. Me and my best friend have been like sisters for years. But one day, we met a guy in an online game who was going to change her life completely. They instantly started to develop romantic feelings for each other and I was really happy that my best friend has found the right person. However, because we 3 were always playing together, he started to grow on me - NOT ROMANTICALLY - but he became a close friend of mine, who I really value. I feel nothing for him and I have no intention of "stealing" him from my best friend, we simply go on well. They eventually broke up, but however, she is still really jealous and she started to refuse to talk to both of us. I hated the fact that they were not together anymore and I tried to get them back together but I only made things worse. He clearly told me he loves her, but he also told her that he will never break the friendship with me just because of her jealousy.Now I feel really miserable and guilty and don't know if I should stick to him or her. What to do?

I have these two really bitchy girls in my grade. They send rude things to me and my friends and talk crap about me all the time. What should I do?

We are in our teens. Some of us were closer to each other than others, but it's brought us all together. I would like to know some fun things we could do together, or things that will helps us all to cope together.

Today was my first day back from winter break (I missed the first 2 days because I broke my arm). I realized how much I hate everyone. My parents always ask about friends and who I sit with at lunch. I always get super anxious because I don t have that many good friends. My brother and sister always have friends over, and I feel like such a loser when I see them all having fun. And on top of that - I m a swimmer. This was supposed to be my best season of my life. I was so pumped for championships. Now I m in an arm cast for 6 weeks with 2 plates and 6 screws in my arm. I ve been feeling really depressed lately and my first day back at school didn t make anything better. I m not feeling suicidal, but I really need help. I m too scared to tell my parents or anyone else, so this is where I came. Thank you to whoever answers!

My best gal friend since pre-school really disappointed me this year when my enemy, a gay boy who talked so much **** about her and hardly knew her, broke apart our friendship. She hangs out with him constantly, and only contacted me when she needed things. I have lots of jackets, and she texted me to ask if she could borrow some to "Stay warm" after she doesn't respond to me in person or text. Her family stped talking to ours after the gay boy took her,and give him rides. All my pictures disappear off her iG and FB one day when she's hanging out with him. Yesterday, we were sitting in class and she stood up, fell to the ground and her mouth foamed.the teacher screamed she's having a seizure. I rushed to a room next door and got help. When first responders came (including the principal) I gave the principal her moms # and frantically called her dad. I ran to the office and met up with my mom and had an anxiety attack. The principal came in and told my mom and I that I was "A true hero" and "Saved my friends life by knowing what to do". I did what I did because I have a heart. I posted a paragraph and pic on social media to pray for her. She called me and said she was ok. Then she had to go because the gay boy was calling her. I texted her and asked if she saw the post. She said "Going to it now, gonna leave a comment!!". Nothing for 2 days. Yet, she responds to EVERYONE ELSES. Its just our friendship disappeared so quickly. WHY?

Hello so I'm 18.5 yrs old and my brother is 15 turning 16 in a couple days. The thing is that he's always bossing me around calling me a dummie and that i don't know how to do anything. He's always telling at me. He's Basically the man of the house. For some reason he gets along better with my other sister but why is he so mean to me ?? I don't do nothing to him Any advice help plz

I moved from England to Denmark in Dec 2012. I had a lot of friends I could rely on. When I moved here I started at a school and it took me a really long time to make friends because I couldn't speak the language very well. I did make some friends but never felt like I fit in. A couple years go by and then they changed our classes around, which ruined everything. Long story short, I eventually moved schools in April 2015 because I was getting bullied and I had nobody to talk to. I would not say a word at all & just follow around this group of girls who I had nothing in common with. So I join this new school and I'm really nervous because I get anxious whenever I meet people & especially if I'm speaking a language I'm not completely fluent in. I'm "friends" with the majority of the girls in my grade, because I'm actually quite outgoing once you get to know me. (Denmark has not got a lot of people so it's not like the US or UK). It took a couple of months though & everything seemed to be fine, until I got this loneliness feeling again. It comes and goes but I always end up thinking things over. I have still to this day, not had a single best friend or close friend since I moved. I have never really clicked with someone. I have nobody I can talk to freely, (both because of the language and because I have nobody). I always have to take the initiative when making plans, which is hard when I don't have many to "choose from". All I want is one person I can call a true friend.

I am 15 years old and asian/white. Lately my parents are getting more and more at me over bery little things. They used to do this but not this over the top. By example, lets say something small like i forgot to eat breakfast my dad gets mad over that and then he adds more to it saying cause im not waking up early enough and because of that i wont be a good student/athlete and so on and so on. I dont know why he does that. He adds things to something small and makes it a huge deal. He threaten to change my school cause I was skyping my girlfriend and a few of my other friends a little late after 10 and He said that he is going to switch school so i dont have a girlfriend or friends. Him saying that made me very very mad but i hold it in. If this keeps happening i will snap. I make All A s and i m in all honor/ap classes. I never do anything major that gets me in trouble just some forgetting of things or staying up late and I actually been better than I was in middle school cause I used to always get suspended. My parents still go over the top and make it a huge deal. It is really making me depress how they are suddenly always mad at me over little things like i am a burden to them.

I am im 8th grade, there is a school "roast" page on instagram about people in our school, and people sumbit roast about eachother.... today my friend took a snapchat of me eating a subway sandwich, and one of my "friends" screenshotted it... he than sumbited the picture of me captioning "this ***** always be sucking dick"(not the first time he as done something to this) i was texting my friend saying who screenshotyed the pic , since u can see who screenshoted it on snapchat , and he said the kids name, he is in my class l... i started to text him and he started calling me a pussy and that i should kill myself, i than said i wanted to fight him tmr , and he continued to call me a pussy , can i be the one to get in trouble, and not him ?

i'm in eight grade and this is my last year going to my school and were going to different high schools. as of January 6 2016 we've only know each other for about 141 days 4 months and 19 days and i'm sad that i'm lose him he is my best est friend i ever had i also don't want to lose any of my other friends and i honestly i don't know what to do please help!!!! please don't think i'm weird because of this but i keep record of the longest amount of time i'm friends with them the longest is 201 days and i wanna break it can anyone relate to that? well thank you for all the answers

I do notice a lot of times whenever someone is shunning me or acting rude towards me none of their friends would question their behavior.

This fat ugly girl and her other friend always make comments about me when I walk behind them in the hallway. But they speak in whispers and don't say my name. Everytime she comes around the people we both talk to she doesn't say anything to me. She's quiet as ever. I don't know what to do honesty. Also an associate of her and me (so called friend) said jokingly that he was going to start bullying me. I don't fight unless someone touches me but what tf am I suppose to do.??😩

My best friend and I were close until this year. Our conversation limit to over text only, and we couldn't find anything to talk about face to face. We got into arguments, and the major one was when she texted me, saying that her trust in me has wavered, and I exploded on her.But things healed. She became close to another guy this year, and our group of friends got together and realized the guy was trying to take advantage of her. We created a group chat and explained everything to her, but she was acting innocent, claiming nothing can go wrong between the two of them. I lost my patience and called her out for being boys thirsty, and left the chat. She later apologized, but my other friends felt like something else was wrong, and I was the problem. She later confessed that sometimes I am too dominant over her, always criticizing (even if I want the best) and doing well in school. I accepted my fault and apologized to her, for the sake of all our friends,but nothing is the same. Now, I'm not speaking to her anymore, it felt natural for me. I want to peacefully let our friendship go and be at peace, for all of these dramas were affecting me greatly. What I don't get is how can a friendship leads into this? I don't know if I was the bad guy here? I can tell that she must be troubled at my actions too because she was to call me in class, but stops and called my other friend. Does any of you have any ideas how she might feel? And should I continue moving on with my life?

I have two friends who are very good friends with me and my best friend and they all of a sudden ignored her a few months ago. Lets call these two friends Jake and Jack, they are very good friends with me and friends with my best friend Fry as well is with many other people we know. So online they've gotten into many fights in the past, especially with Jake and one time, in October I believe, they got into a very nasty one to the point where Jake told her not to talk to him the next day. Well Fry eventually apologized and they seemed to be doing fine but eventually they just started to ignore her. Both of them. I concluded the reason why was because they don't want her to spread their personal stuff since they have a lot of stuff going on at home currently and as they are very secretive they would die if anyone knew. Another thing is they are very egoistical and don't want to be embarrassed by her because in the school she is pretty hated. Now I understand the first reason to why they did that, though it was not the best way to handle it. I did ask Jake once but he avoided the question as did his brother Jack. I discussed with my other friend who knows all of them and he said we should talk about it to Jack during class and I've decided to personally ask Jake. I think it was a bit harsh to all of a sudden ignore her, they should of at least told her that they were going to cut ties, formally,elucidate why and exit. What should I do? If I cant what do you advise for them?

I've heard so many times that people talk about me all the time. My friends will tell me that I'm being talked about. Usually it's people I don't even talk to or associate with. There's also girls that just seem to dislike me a lot for no reason. Ya know I'm just at school, minding my own business.

Im 17 shes 24. ive always liked her even since we were kids. We always used to play together shes my sisters best friend and the only friend of hers like i actually like. Tho i only get to see her when my sisters around but we've texted a few times. But im a shy person i always get super nervous when shes around and end up either being mean or really arkward. I think she likes me back ever since i grew got taller and my body looks manly she has been commenting about how attractive i am now and being more nice to me. How to get over shyness and approach her?

So I started a new high school 4 months ago, and I really have tried to make friends, I start all conversations first and say hi and I'm really friendly to everyone. Though I am a little shy and do sometimes only ask questions bc I'm holding back my true personality (goofy as heck haha) I've made some friends but not ones who ask me to hang out with them. There are cliques and they are impenetrable I also try texting some girls from school and they always give one word replies or don't reply at all. It makes makes me a little frustrated but I'm a junior so it's only one year, but I'd still like to have a few close friends. Im a 17yo girl btw

Honestly I've been struggling with this problem for a while but I can't find any advice for this situation. So for almost 4 years now I've been hanging out with my husbands best friend's girlfriends. It was great at first but it's starting to get to a point where I really just want to cut these girls off but I can't because if I do than il still have to see them from time to time and I'm the type of person if I cut someone off I don't want to have anything to do with them anymore. So please if you have experience with this please help. I don't want to be in this toxic friendship anymore.

It seems that nobody likes me at school and I have no idea why. I feel depressed and sad. I'm 15 and in the 9th grade btw and im a boy. I'm a quiet person and shy, and that could be a reason people hate me but idk. Kids are always hitting me and testing me by glaring at me or stealing my stuff to get a reaction out of me. I'm a nice person I don't call people names or anything. I only have like 2 close friends and that's all. But everyone is always picking on me or ignoring me mostly the popular kids. I don't think it's my looks because I've been told I'm good looking and I like the way I look and wouldn't want to change it. But I seriously don't know why people hate me so much. Alot of the time people will hit me or slap me and it's really annoying and it hurts. When Im looking for somewhere to sit on the bus and I sit by someone they either groan or roll their eyes, and if I manage to get my own seat first nobody will sit by me so I'm the only person sitting by themselves on the bus. I'm so done right now because i have NO CLUE why people treat me like this. I make YouTube videos alot and I managed to get over 1K subscribers and I play games alot so people often call me a dork or nerd and will go on my channel just to dislike all my videos and test me. I don't know why they do this and I only have a few friends that I can trust.

I was looking at this situation in yahoo, but it seems to only happen to other ppl with older men. Thankfully, mine is my age. But its really annoying. So i live in a conduminium (not trying to spell correctly) of like 12 houses. From what ive seen, everyones a little kid there except 3 guys who are my age, 13. I have never even talked to them, and they have never talked to me. I never go outside, and always am home. However, when i do go outside for some reason, they are there playing basketball or something. They literally stop, and stare. My mom has noticed this and complimented me on this, but i dont like it. Adding to that, when i go walk my dog and go past them, they have whistled in the past. AND I WAS WEARING SWEAT PANTS. Im not even that pretty, dont wear makeup or am anything much special for them to stare. I really dont understand this and its getting really annoying to me and i want it to stop. 1. What does this mean? 2. Why do they do this? 3. What should i do? Its might be happening for almost a year.

Hey guys, I have this question that has been pounding in my mind forever. I don t make friend very easily because not many people like that I always say people what I think of them and find me a bit mean. But when I make friends they always reveal themselves being unreliable people. It happened 3 times now with 3 different group of people: we have a plan to go out and people start cancelling 10 min before we are supposed to meet and that annoys me so much that I usually decide to stop talking to them. This happened also on Christmas day, when had a place booked for 20 and only 6 showed up. I know there is other people that don t care too much about this kind of thing but I do and I don t know anymore how to handle this kind of situation because everytime I make new friends they do something that annoys me very much.

I'm 13 and I've just started going to Youth Group last year and I don't like it. I have a friend who is also 13 and goes with me, she seems to enjoy but I feel uncomfortable. All the other kids are older 14-18 and it's so awkward being the youngest one there. Please help! Why am I afraid??

So there is a group of three of us, all been friends since the age of 16 we are all 29 this year but I have been friends with one of the girls since we were 4 so we had what I thought was a pretty solid friendship. One of the girls had a little boy he is now 4 and when she had the baby obviously things changed slightly but we still all got together just the same as we used to just it normally happened in the day time and baby came along but he was just a great addition to our group. Now last year both friends had a baby so baby number 2 for one of them and a 1st for the other and since they have had the babies I feel so left out, I have battled in for 8 months now thinking it was just me and I just felt left out because I don't have my own baby and coversations always seem to be about sleeping patterns teething etc but I didn't mind that I have a pretty young nephew who I absolutely adore so I could relate to the conversations. However after being worried about one of the girls who hadn't replied to any of my mags for a couple of days I spoke to the other girl to see if she had heard from her, only to find out they had made plans to catch up next week the night before yet I hadn't been invited along I can't help but feel left out but I don't know how to tell them this is how I feel without hurting them, I don't want to come across as not being happy for them with their new families or that I am jealous etc especially if I am just over reacting! I don't judge the way they look, I sympathise with their needs etc and it's not that I feel left out of the conversations its now that they are actually going out for coffee or lunch on a regular basis without even inviting me along and what hurts more is that I wouldnt have even found out about it if I hadn't have been so worried about one of them!

I was involved this guy, and the girl who he ended things with me over followed me on instagram the night he broke the news to me. I felt like she was trying to rub it in my face and I was really angry at the time. It''s been a few months since then and both the guy and the girl and me are all dating different people, I had a hard time getting over him though and I feel bad for being hateful towards her (besides blocking her I called her a ***** and a slut behind her back, I know she knows) so in a act of acceptance/forgiveness I want to refollow her (because I know she knew I blocked her, I heard her talking to people about it) and since then I've also noticed she follows many of my friends, so I don't think she was trying to rub it in my face but even if she was I'm completely over it. do you think it would be weird to follow her again? I was hoping either she'd see it for what it was (as close to an apology as I'd ever be willing to give) or she's forgotten about it already (she moves on from one relationship to the next) : me and the guy were never dating, just talking. also, I've never spoken to this girl in real life before, although we are both very aware of each other, haha

Me and my friends in a class with me will no longer have class with me next semester,so I feel bad now because I will miss them very badly. I think I will like my new class,which is physical education,but it will feel bad to not be in class with my friends. I may not even see them anywhere else. It makes me feel even worse because I won't even be able to see them outside of that class more than likely. I feel sad now before the second semester has even started because I have to think about it. How can someone feel better when they miss their friends and have no way of even seeing them or being around them anymore?

I need advice. My best friend wants me to go on a trip with her in Dec '16. It's a place that i do want to go to but she's putting a lot of pressure on me. She has also suggested that i apply for the school that she transferred to (i would have but they don't have my major so what would be the point?) She pesters me about doing these things with her and it's not that i don't like being with her but these are long term plans; These things affect other parts of my life that I had already planned out for myself. I have to make/save money for that trip but i still live with my parents so i need that money to move out (she knows how much i want to move out of state). I was going to go to another school that actually had my major. I love her and all but we can't do everything together. She even suggests that we live together and move from country to country every year because she wants to travel. I like traveling but that's not going to work for me. I like order and routine. When she makes these suggestions, it seems like she doesn't take into account what my future plans are or what i have planned out (like i will follow all of her suggestions blindly). I would tell her flat out but I feel like she's going to resent me. I have my own life plans and goals that I want to achieve and the steps i need to make to reach them but it doesn't line up with hers. I've always been a push-over and just want control over my life and be able to turn her suggestions down without feeling guilty.

We were playing online in holidays and it was 4 am I guess it was very late I don't know what time it was. My friend's mom comes behind him, finds out he is playing and then slaps him at this point our whole team is just laughing including me. She picked up the mic and asked to us give our parents phone numbers and if they knew we were playing late night. We just left the game and one of my friends recorded the whole thing and we are still teasing him about that. Me and my other friends, our parents don't really care anymore so we're free in this matter of punishments. its not like I haven't had that happen to me many times but I didn't let my friends hear that I always fought and they just gave up I don't really care anymore they don't really care anymore so its fine.

There's a tight group of 7ish of us one day 5 decided to go against us 2 so of course i was mad. I decided to go rant off to my best friend a friend that i thought would never ever ever betray me, ever. But she is friends with fried #1 I didn't know they were that close but i guess they are. anyway i completely went off i ranted and said some terrible things about #1 like things that are bad beyond bad, i may have lied about some stuff too. Do you think it was my bestfriend bc she is like the only person i told or the only person i remember i told. How can i fix this she turned 6 of them against me i am friendless, and i feel so bad i only said those things when i was mad never meant any of it but i know shes gonna hit me with the u cant take back words i just know. She said she "done" with me what to do now? How did friend #1 find out?

ust feel like i'm a waste.. undesirable and not good enough for any girl Girls never give me a chance. Finally had my first gf last year, and she used me ... why cant anyone decent come around. Just sucks especially when all of my friends are in relationships, and I am not And before anyone says I lack self-confidence, I do have confidence.. but ever since I broke up with my gf last December 2014, I feel like im not same person. I'm in grad school and in a program where most of the students are international... and to top it off almost no girls at alll :/

I have been in this group of friends for 2 years now, but I'm starting to think they're not real friends. I am close with some of them but even though I'm close with them they have never invited me over to their house but friends they are not as close with come to their house a lot. I've invited them over before but they never have invited me back. I get invited to large group activities with the whole group but never to anything small. I'm starting to feel like they don't want me to be their friend even though they approach me at school. They talk about their plans in the past with each other and tell me stories about them. Are they being rude on purpose? Or do they not invite me as often because I have a lot of other friend groups I hang out with?

Im so embarressed and i feel so terrible for not telling anyone. Im 15. And never had a boyfriend and im really shy. I went to a good friends sweet 16 party and we all ended up crashing at her house in tents in her garden. Loads of people came. They all started playing spin the bottle and stuff, i got really nervous since i have social anxiety so i went into a tent earlier. Her brother (my close friend) came in and asked if i was okay. Then 2 of my friends came in. They kind of just all went on their phones until everyone was in their tents (tents of 4). My 2 friends were asleep and i was laying down. I then felt a hand on my shoulder and it went up to my breast.. I froze. i always imagined if i was in this situatiuon i would do something but i just froze. Then he started touching himself and rubbing my thigh until he went up to my... Yeahhh I didn't know what to do he started rubbing up against me and i still was frozen there. Eventually i think he came ( i heard him hold his breath and breath heavily after). He got up and left, then came back and fell asleep and i left the tent to go into the tent next to us. This is my fault. I wore a vest top. I was asking for it, if you put the burger near the dogs mouth he will grab it. I shouldve been smarter. Is this even rape, or am i over reacting. He goes past me everyday acting as if we are still friends. Im so so embarressed and idk what to do. This was 2 months ago. How could my friends brother did this to me?

So i met my best friend about a year ago and she meant everything to me (she still does) and I meant everything to her. But when the holiday started (it s 5 weeks long) I went away over seas because my family lived there. I was gone for two weeks but while I was gone my best friend also left on holiday for 2 weeks. When I came back I had to wait another week for her to come back but while she was there, her former best friend was there too and they spent a lot of time together. I was very jealous. We spoke everyday while her and I were gone. Once she came back I asked her if I could see her but she was always busy. I ve been asking her for a week and she said was with her former best friend. They ve been seeing each other for 3 days in a row and it really upset me. I then got to the point where i asked if she was replacing me and she said no I m not I haven t seen her since last year June (because her former bf is in a different school), but she didn t she saw her when she was gone. Anyway long story short she said that I m still her best friend and that she still loves me. But I m still unsure about this

I'm thirteen and I feel as though my life is boring and I don't experience anything due to my age. I have a good amount of friends and i'm not an outcast or anything, it just feels like my life is pointless as of right now and the friends I do have aren't extremely close with me. I don't mean to sound like I think of myself as superior to people of my age, but they seem to have a different outlook on life to me. I know this is cliche but I feel like I am too mature for my age (mentally and physically) and want to do the things someone older than me would be able to do, but is out of my grasp. I don't know how to explain it but I feel trapped in my routine. It is literally just Home>School>Shopping and so on. There's not much to do where I live, and the only thing the other girls do is talk about other girls and care about popularity (don't get me wrong, i'm far from an introvert or a self righteous nerd who thinks they're superior to the 'popular girls'). I want to take someone into my life who is willing to let me take them places, but it seems like the people around me have the ambitions of a potato. During the holidays all I did was sleep all day because I don't like doing stuff on my own. And yes i'm aware I sound like a tryhard but i'm actually that annoying girl at the back of your class.

I m in tenth grade and joined a new school halfway through. I ve never had trouble making friends in the past but these kids have their friends and don t seem interested in making a new one at app. I have tried reaching out to people but I get shutdown every time lol. I play hockey and football atm so I am doing stuff but I just can t seem to make friends. I was pretty upset abt it but now I m kinda just like **** it whatever. I guess my question is 3 days in am I screwed if nobody gives a **** or is it normal to have no friends? Thanks guys Btw not to brag but I d like to think I m not bad looking and have always had attention from girls so i think I m approachable and stuff

...to find something SO hilarious that you end up in an endless fit of laughter, lose control over your body, and start crying? Please use details as I've never experienced this before, only see others do it.