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- Question: What do I do with my cheap friend?
- Question: What quiestion can I ask my friend about being at the Grand Canyon?
- Question: Why has my best friend turned into a dum *****?
- Question: Its hard for me to make friends?
- Question: Why do people have bad ideas?
- Question: My friend expects me to giver her food for lunch?
- Question: Would you help someone who clearly envies you?
- Question: Una pregunta para ustedes es la misma chava o son 2 chavas distintas?
- Question: Need help figuring out kid speak?
- Question: How do I live with myself.?
- Question: Becoming a more fun, adventurous person?
- Question: I don't know how to act "normal" in front of him?
- Question: I'm a very outgoing person, but when people say mean things to me, I do nothing. Any suggestions?
- Question: How do I tell someone that I DO NOT accept their apology?
- Question: Does anyone have a story of their redemption?
- Question: I can't handle school, help? (please please answer) :(?
- Question: I just don't feel happy anymore, I'm loosing friends, and things just aren't how they used to be. I'm 15, I should be happy but I don know��?
- Question: I'm a total failure at making friends and relationships, need your help please?
- Question: How to ask mom to get a package from friend. Please help?
- Question: Is it ok to think this if I'm straight?
- Question: My friend is disrespectful and delusional.?
- Question: How do you like what I wrote in my high school journal?
- Question: Friends and younger sister?
- Question: Why do people do this?
- Question: Does holding someone in your arms make you feel good?
- Question: How to proceed with foreign extraction??
- Question: U) Maimon. Hilch. Megilla Uchanucha, c. 4. sect. 12. are these found in the BIBLE?
- Question: I were writing a question and after 400 words power went and they got lost so fuc.k you and fuc.k everything you love you ******** shi.t?
- Question: Is 12 too young to go to a park with a friend or friends?
- Question: I'm a senior in high school and still get bullied?
- Question: How can i not talk so much and not be as obnoxious?
- Question: Should I go to a 18th birthday party?
- Question: Why is everyone always getting mad at me and what do i do about it?
- Question: Is my friend jealous of me?
- Question: Como aceptar la aprovacion de los padres de mi novia?
- Question: Is there something wrong with me or others?
- Question: Has this happened to anyone else?
- Question: Need to leave my roommate?
- Question: In saying Goodbye?
- Question: Will you be my friend?����?
- Question: Why did she remove all?
- Question: My sister is extremely antisocial and considered an "outcast". I feel embarrassed by this?
- Question: I like my "best friend" s crush.?
- Question: Everyone is acting like I don't exist?
- Question: What should you do if your friend wants to be in a relationship with a guy her friend filed a restraining order against him?
- Question: Is it okay for me not to care about what happens to other people?
- Question: How to stop feeling lonely?
- Question: Being more social at a new school?
- Question: Please help, give your opinions and suggestions. what s right to do??
- Question: What to doooo?
- Question: What is the point or purpose of league of legends?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with this girl and should I tell my other friend?
- Question: Why do I feel like none of my friends really want to be friends with me?
- Question: I want to add a friend on Skype, but I can not?
- Question: Does this mean i'm a "nobody"?
- Question: Why did my good friend thats a girl let me sleep with her?!?
- Question: I wrote some bad things about this girl and my friend sent them to her?
- Question: Did I do the right thing by fighting back, when I could have just defended myself ?
- Question: So.. whats up with this..?
- Question: What does it mean if you text someone that you don't want to be friends anymore and they don't reply?
| Question: What do I do with my cheap friend? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 05:04 PM PST He isn't a free loader but rarely goes out, he messages me out of the blue and tries to schedule an event for me and the guys to get together then because other people are involved we plan a bigger event and he backs out because it's always too "expensive" and so it's over rated. It pisses me off, he made poor decision and decided to move out to get his own place which is costing him ton of money. I tried ignoring him and he got too offended then I tried to invite him in a night out with the guys and apparently it's too expensive. He is always complaining/whining about money money money. It's so pathetic, me and him are at the same level of income, I plan and budget my money wisely, and I just don't understand. He's becoming too negative, any ideas? |
| Question: What quiestion can I ask my friend about being at the Grand Canyon? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 05:03 PM PST |
| Question: Why has my best friend turned into a dum *****? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:47 PM PST So my best friend is hanging around with this other girl and she has turned really mean like she's nice to me and her friends but she's so mean to unpopular people why is this? She use to be nice |
| Question: Its hard for me to make friends? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:39 PM PST I'm in 8th grade and I'm a girl and the people at my school are nice. Everyone is nice to me and they all ask why I don't talk. All I want is a friend but when someone talks to me I just don't know how to respond and its not that easy. I always feel so awkward in my school and especially at lunch because everyone has friends but not me. Everyone thinks I'm quiet but once you get to know me I talk a lot. When someone talks to me at school I just get nervouse and my stomach gets butterfly's. Any tips on how to make friends when shy? |
| Question: Why do people have bad ideas? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:36 PM PST So I had this idea about a Batman villain (Like Mr. Freeze, making a team up between him and Captain Cold) being in CW's The Flash but when I told it to my friend, he said it was a bad idea. I eventually found out that most of my classmates had bad ideas too. So why do people have bad ideas? |
| Question: My friend expects me to giver her food for lunch? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:34 PM PST I come home for lunch everyday, and my friend comes with me because the cafeteria is crazy crowded and this way we can still hang out. A few times I made her lunch, like a grilled sandwich when I was having one. She used to bring some food with her, however now she always asks me if I can do a "favor" and make her something as she doesn t bring anything anymore. And if I don t offer, like if im not feeling good, she gets mopey and once even made a comment about how she was hungry to someone else, like it was my fault she didn t prepare a lunch. I don t mind her coming over, and she is always thankful when I give her lunch, but it s getting difficult to supply lunch everyday not mention starting to affect our grocery budget. How do I tell her I m not going to give her lunch everyday? |
| Question: Would you help someone who clearly envies you? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:31 PM PST Back in university, I had a friend (both of us females), who I always used to hang out with each other. We were good friends, and I always was there for her, regardless of the fact that she "never" were there for me. After we graduated, I struggled to find work, worked hard, put myself thru grad school, and now I got the job of my dream. She always would say to others that I succeed because of my family,etc. etc. She even stopped talking to me after I went to grad school because she told a mutual friend that "I forgot her" She distanced herself away from me, although I reached out to her. She now sent me a message after 1.5 years of not talking to me saying that she is looking for a job at a particular organization and she would like that I Help her. She didn't even start her message with a "hello". I decided to help her and connect her with someone i know. The reason I am doing this is because, God has always been there for me and been good to me, and I want to help her for the sake of God. Am I being "dumb here" |
| Question: Una pregunta para ustedes es la misma chava o son 2 chavas distintas? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:28 PM PST La chava la conozco pero no se si sea la de la foto mi amiga es la del lado derecho es ella o no |
| Question: Need help figuring out kid speak? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:14 PM PST Trying to figure out what my nephew wants for Xmas. He said something about action figures of a kid, his friend and their ghost friend. Im assuming this is from some show but no one can figure out what he s talking about. Any help out there? |
| Question: How do I live with myself.? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:06 PM PST I got into a big argument with a very good friend of mine. I said things I shouldn t have, I m not going to repeat them. I was wrong. I just got up to go to the bathroom and I was so angry at myself that I shattered the bathroom window. I can t live with myself for what I said . . . I just can t. |
| Question: Becoming a more fun, adventurous person? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:05 PM PST Hello everyone! So a lot of people tell me I'm quiet, reserved, and my friends joke that I am the most "boring" out of the friend group (which I am lol). It's not that I try to be boring, a lot of times Im quiet because Im not sure what to say, and I do my best to get out and do stuff but I always have a hard time just letting go. I just wanted to ask all you fun, adventurous people out there ;) what are some ways that you can let go and become a more fun person, not for other people but for yourself? I know its a vague question but I hope someone can maybe help me out. Thanks and have an amazing day! |
| Question: I don't know how to act "normal" in front of him? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 04:02 PM PST A couple of years ago, my family and I moved to the other side of the country and this was very heart breaking news for my best friend and I. For the first year we managed to still talk to each other through Skype on a weekly bases and he soon started making excuses not skyping me and would not reply to my texts. During the summer, I went to visit old friends and family. They all told me stories of what he has been doing and it did not sound like him at all, like anyone I wanted see his side of the story. I found out that he was not even in the city so I tracked him down and found out he was working at a camp. I managed to get a job there and tried to surprise him and turns, he does not want anything to do with me. He kept on threatening me when I tried to talk to him and he has pranked me a couple of times but throughout that summer we did have some rare moments where it felt like everything was normal. When camp finished, he did not even say goodbye and I was hurt. Since Christmas is coming up, my parents are going on holiday and my 'former' best friend's family invited me over to spend it with them and I could not say no. This is the first time in 4 months I am seeing him. I do not know how to act. |
| Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:49 PM PST I have a few very close friends, and they usually stick up for me, but when they're not there it's not good. I get timid when confronted most of the time. Just putting that out there. |
| Question: How do I tell someone that I DO NOT accept their apology? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:49 PM PST Someone did something that hurt my feelings and upset me. Even though I told the person why I m upset, I don t think they understand. This person has apologized multiple times but the apologies are crappy. I m tired of trying to explain what they did wrong and I m tired of this person apologizing without know why they are apologizing. It s annoying and I m not ready to just get over it. |
| Question: Does anyone have a story of their redemption? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:46 PM PST I realized recently that I have some bad character traits that make me come off as a kinda shitty person, e.g. I can be self absorbed, I can be very unforgiving, and certain things like that. I talk about myself way too much and can be a bit of a douchebag. I'm not a bad person in general. I think I have some character traits that I don't like having. I'm making an effort to fix that from now on. Does anyone have stories of their "redemption" from their toxic habits? Not religiously or anything. Just a person who realized they became someone they didn't want to be |
| Question: I can't handle school, help? (please please answer) :(? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:28 PM PST I'm in 8th grade, and it seems like I just can't handle school anymore. my grades aren't that great, mostly a/b's and b's which is low for me. I rarely ever used to have missing or late assignments, but now it seems impossible not to. I don't understand math anymore and I'm hopelessly lost in science, I just feel like I'm stupid and a failure, Its hard to get through homework without crying. My social life isn't much better, The group I hang out with is becoming really dysfunctional. The "leader" of the group only talks to this one really mean girl, and two of the girls just agree with whatever they say. so me and one other girl in the group have become very close because she's the only one in the group who doesn't judge me and vice verca. We both like punk rock-ish music (idk if that's really what it is but like sleeping with sirens,fall out boy, ect) others in the group judge us for it, they also make fun of her because she has a hard time spelling, I have like 2 other real friends outside that group, so 3 real friends total but that's about it. I used to feel like people generally liked me but lately I feel like everyone avoids me and thinks im wierd. I don't talk much anymore. My family has started to worry about me because I just feel sad and tired a lot because of school. And to make it all worse I hate the way i look, I feel like im over weight even though I'm technically a normal weight, and I just feel like I'm not attractive or smart or cool. what should I do? |
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| Question: I'm a total failure at making friends and relationships, need your help please? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:20 PM PST Ppl I need your opinions/advice. I m having too much trouble with socialistics. Now I m 19. Lucky that I have a year younger bro who s very social and has much friends, I have the oppurtunity to have some good times with them. But the problem is I find it very hard to make friends on my own, or to some extent impossible. For the background, I grew up in a middle eastern society, Lebanon to be precise. Until 17, I had a relatively normal life since I were in school and friendships were served on a plate. Eventhough I had a difficulty memorizing history and geography lessons, I still topped the whole school since scientific subjects were a piece of cake and literature had me poeting. After school, I left Lebanon to college in the Netherlands. I thought that I would be restarting to a brand new awesome life. Doing mathematics, college was pretty easy, until I started to break down. I have left all my old friendships behind and didn t succeed to make new ones. Everytime I newly met a person they would seem very excited to get to know me, but just for the first few minutes. I wouldn t be able to keep a conversation up, I wouldn t know what to do next, I wouldn t socialize a jackshit. Everytime there would be people having parties without ever inviting me, or two people whome I introduced to each other built friendships leaving me out. They would go gaming and sleep over without inviting me. I barely made friends with one person who befriends EVERYBODY. ---> (to be continued) |
| Question: How to ask mom to get a package from friend. Please help? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:17 PM PST Hey, im 13. Im a boy if it s neccessary. Im from Lithuania and i ve been chating on facebook and talking on skype with a Lithuanian girl who lives in England (Great Britain). And she says she would like to send me a gift for christmas. I could take it from post by myself. But how could I tell my mom that, I don t tell her typically about these internet friends. I dont even tell her about real friends, so how about a gift from an internet friend? Have you got maybe a similar situation or know how to help please? Thenk you :) |
| Question: Is it ok to think this if I'm straight? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 03:05 PM PST I'm only sexually into men and I've always been that way, but there's this girl who's 22. I don't find her "sexy" or "hot." Just adorable and so darn gorgeous. Is it ok to think that about a woman if I'm straight? Please tell me what you think. Thank you. :) |
| Question: My friend is disrespectful and delusional.? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:49 PM PST I have this friend of mine named Greg. He doesn't have much friends and was bullied a lot in high school because he's real nerdy and awkward. But sometimes I can kind of understand why he gets his *** kicked. But the thing is it's like he doesn't realize. An incident happened the other night where he got into this argument with my brother about the military. And my brother is in the army reserves. Greg first started talking **** on the reserves by calling them poser soldiers and stuff. I could tell my brother was getting irritated but Greg kept going on about it. The thing is Greg enlisted in the national guard last year and quit during the first week of basic training, Greg is proud of this also. He always says " I have too much confidence to let someone with a GED talk down to me" (referring to drill sergeants). It's like you try to be nice to this kid but then you realize why people hate him. |
| Question: How do you like what I wrote in my high school journal? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:46 PM PST I was looking at my high school journal and some of the things I wrote made me giggle a little bit, so I'd like to share it with you guys. So what do you think of what I wrote: "FIRST MEETINGS" "I renember first meeting my high school class in freshman year. I actually thought they were alright abd normal at first, until 4 years past and I saw their true colors- wasteful, bitchy, retarded shitheads and *******". "I renember first meeting my friend Ashley. Because she was the new girl in town, I wanted to make her comfortable and be her friend. Then for 3 years, I found out she was, from sophomore year and still is, a talkative, sick, stupid, insane lunatic who needs o shut the f*ck up at times. She's just as annoying as the goddamn Animaniacs. " "I remember first meeting my dance class friend, Valerie. As I walked into the dance studio for the first time as a sophomore, I saw Valerie sitting there. We were awkward seeing each other and talked to each other awkwardly. I thought she was a total b*tch. Until we got to know each other and shes actually very nice'" So what do you think?? |
| Question: Friends and younger sister? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:41 PM PST Does anyone else have this problem? If you want to hang with a group of friends whether it's just because or maybe a birthday, do your parents shove your younger sibling down your throat and say you should invite them. It seems like whenever I want to hang with my friends my mom thinks I'm obligated to invite my sister. First of all I'm 18 almost 19, why does my party pooper 15 year old sister have to be with me when I'm with my friends. My friends offered to get a room for my birthday in a couple weeks and my mom called me names about being a bad sister because I don't want her to come. My sister is lame, doesn't dance, party or anything so I shouldn't have to feel like I should invite her. |
| Question: Why do people do this? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:39 PM PST This teammate said she will edit the final document. In the morning of the due date, I asked how it is going. She never replied. Not even when I texted her at 8pm. So I decided to edit it myself and emailed it to the whole group. That girl then texted me at 10pm that she still want to submit it. 30 minutes later, she wanted to call me about something lol. Why do people disappear and then come back, etc when it is convenient? |
| Question: Does holding someone in your arms make you feel good? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:23 PM PST One time my best friend and I were sitting on the couch watching tv and she put a blanket around us and turned her body around so she would be leaning into my chest and my arms were around her. I don't know, it just made me feel good to have someone in my arms almost like I'm protecting them. It was kind of magical. How do you guys feel when someone is in your arms? |
| Question: How to proceed with foreign extraction?? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:10 PM PST So I was hanging out with a few friends and we decided to play a silly game. We put objects onto a chair and told each other to sit on it blindfolded and guess what the object is. Well, my friend decided it might be funny to try this without any pants on. Now he has an action figure about 7 inches up his anus. How should we go about getting it out? |
| Question: U) Maimon. Hilch. Megilla Uchanucha, c. 4. sect. 12. are these found in the BIBLE? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:06 PM PST |
| Posted: 06 Dec 2015 02:02 PM PST Ppl I need your opinions/advice. I m having too much trouble with socialistics. Now I m 19. Lucky that I have a year younger bro who s very social and has much friends, I have the oppurtunity to have some good times with them. But the problem is I find it very hard to make friends on my own, or to some extent impossible. For the background, I grew up in a middle eastern society, Lebanon to be precise. Until 17, I had a relatively normal life since I were in school and friendships were served on a plate. Eventhough I had a difficulty memorizing history and geography lessons, I still topped the whole school since scientific subjects were a piece of cake and literature had me poeting. After school, I left Lebanon to college in the Netherlands. I thought that I would be restarting to a brand new awesome life. Doing mathematics, college was pretty easy, until I started to break down. I have left all my old friendships behind and didn t succeed to make new ones. Everytime I newly met a person they would seem very excited to get to know me, but just for the first few minutes. I wouldn t be able to keep a conversation up, I wouldn t know what to do next, I wouldn t socialize a jackshit. Everytime there would be people having parties without ever inviting me, two people whom |
| Question: Is 12 too young to go to a park with a friend or friends? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:59 PM PST |
| Question: I'm a senior in high school and still get bullied? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:48 PM PST I'm 17 years old & Ive been through a lot of hardship during my high years just like any other teen has. Ive had my fair share of heartbreaks, losing friends, and dealing with pointless drama. After all Ive been through, for whatever reason this year Im getting bullied by a bunch of kids in my grade. It started at the end of junior year & I just let it slide because the year was almost over. Ive matured a lot throughout the years and maybe that's why it has grown to bother me that these people are still so immature to go out of their way to hurt another. Im not partial to labels but these kids that harass me are considered the "popular" or "well known" crowd. Almost all of them smoke, drinks and parties every weekend. Ive never been friends with any of them so I don't really know why Im the target. Im not sure if it's a jealously thing, or they just think Im a loser but now Ive reached my breaking point. I took my boyfriend to homecoming where they all humiliated me in front of him. I went to my friend's counselor about it & she gave me some terrible advice. I'm a fairly shy person when you first get to know me, but I am a very nice person and I truly care about everyone. I don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to go to school anymore because Im just so embarrassed & I feel like Im constantly the center of everyone's attention (which I hate). If anyone has any advice that doesn't consider me going to an adult or confronting them, id really appreciate it. Thank you |
| Question: How can i not talk so much and not be as obnoxious? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:39 PM PST |
| Question: Should I go to a 18th birthday party? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:34 PM PST I got invited to a friend's birthday party. I guess it is a very big deal because I got a formal invitation calling it a ball and talking about a court. I don't really want to go because I only know the host, and I probably won't talk to her much because she said there will be over 100 people including family and friends. However, I think it is very nice that she invited me, and she said she would really be happy if I came. Should I go? |
| Question: Why is everyone always getting mad at me and what do i do about it? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:28 PM PST okay so im a 15 yearold girl and i try not to talk too much and try to be really nice to everyone. and no not everyone hates me its just like my parents or aunts and cousins and freinds of mine they just easily get mad at me and yell at me. and then i lose it and start crying cuz im very sensitive.how do i get peaple to stop getting mad at me? |
| Question: Is my friend jealous of me? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:26 PM PST I have known this "friend" of mine for about 4 years now. We do not go to the same university, so we haven't kept in touch as often. However, she will only talk to me to tell me things concerning herself. She will never ask me how I am, or how my life is going. If I mention something about my life she will say a few words and turn the conversation back to herself and the guys she talks to. Also, she is very negative. If I mentioned that I had a convo with a cute waiter she'd say "lol he's just doing his job. I told her that my "crush" spoke to me and she said "did he sound annoyed". She will also try to get my attention when she sees me tweeting other people. She does not leave me alone. Always sending me snapchats and tweets but never asks me about my life. How do I stop communicating with her if she acts like this? Thank you :) |
| Question: Como aceptar la aprovacion de los padres de mi novia? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:09 PM PST Bueno estoy obligado a pedirles permiso para andar con su hija Su mamá me encontró a ella y ami (solo conversando) y se Molesto horrible le tiro una cachetada a ella y se la llevo La señora me pidió que no me acercara mas ella, pero primero vendrán a hablar conmigo ''para aclararle algunas cosas'' Ahora nose que hacer. Ese dia que van a venir a hablar conmigo quiero aprovechar para pedirles que acepten nuestra relacion Que podria decirles? Dato: Yo tengo 16 ella 15 |
| Question: Is there something wrong with me or others? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:08 PM PST To begin with, I don't fit in anywhere. I don't have any deep friendships (actually I have no friends), any relationship that I had didn't last for long and it hasn't been very deep either, I have a feeling that I was being used for sex/ego boost or something, because I never felt any connection with any of them and they didn't even try. That's not the deal though. I see on social media people posting pics with their friends/their significant other and stuff, and I too had friends, but they never did the same, no matter how close we were. They would post with some acquaintances they barely talk with, but it seems like everyone forgets about me. The same happened with my ex-boyfriends. Actually, I've been told that I'm beautiful many times, and I don't really doubt it, I like my face and body. I have a deep and reliable personality too. But I don't understand why I keep being treated like I don't matter and exist. I mean, literally. I know I have a lot to offer, but I never seem to find the right people. I always feel like a stranger wherever I go. |
| Question: Has this happened to anyone else? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 01:08 PM PST Has anyone made a mistake so big that its hard to go back to how it was before with friends? I did this really unclassy thing that I feel like really changed how my friends look at me. Does time heal everything? Or do i need to fix myself to change others opinions? I had a massive crush on this girl and she knew what happened. Now it just seems off. Idk what to do. I feel lost. I feel like a **** up. I'm too arrogant, I feel like I say the wrong things at the wrong time now. I just want to make things how they were before. |
| Question: Need to leave my roommate? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:52 PM PST Im in Uni with my roommate who ive known since i was a kid, old friends, are we are now living together...ive never really felt like i could relate to him since the past 7 years.since ive matured, different sense of humour, and different interests...whereas he is very immature, a people pleaser, has no opnion of his own, spends all of his time playing video games all day on Voice IP, so i feel like im trapped in my apartment listening to that ****** all day and night..its driving me insane...we also live Off campus in some apartment away from students in my group and i want to really move to those apartments so i can actually freakin socialise with real people and tey and make friends...right now as iit stands this guy is a thorn in my ***, wherever i go he is with me..i really want to break things off with him...he's an *** when hes around people. he changes and insults me a lot to get a few extra laughs...he's just toxic and i feel like i deserve better friends...what should i do? i can ask my parents over teh christmas holidays if i can move out into those apartments or i can stay here? if i do move, he'll still be my roommate becuase parents know each other..obligation..but i'll be spending time out of my apartment and trying to socialise with others..thats my plan anyway...also want to break of with him..he wont take the hint..thanks for reading |
| Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:45 PM PST I don't plan to stick around. I have done what I can with pills, therapy, religion and trying to live and quite frankly is not working for me. I am done with it all. So I was wondering if I should say goodbye to my family and friends. I would rather not tell them and fail. Then have to explain everything to them. But on the other hand is it mean to just leave without a word? |
| Question: Will you be my friend?����? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:43 PM PST Please!!!! I beg of you!!!! I have no one and I m an 18 year old dude who still lives at home.😞 |
| Question: Why did she remove all? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:41 PM PST My girl friend took everything that she brought to my house last five years. House looks naked now. All kitchen bathroom, living room stuff. I asked her to remove her belongings which I meant her clothes. I am kicking myself now, She probably dumped them in the dumpster because she does not need them. Why does a woman do this? |
| Question: My sister is extremely antisocial and considered an "outcast". I feel embarrassed by this? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:38 PM PST My family moved to a new town a year ago, and ever since this happened, my 13 year old sister has changed. She used to have a small group of friends in our old town but she's always been shy and interested in things I find odd in my opinion. She likes anime, "hair bands"? They're these metal bands from the 80s or something like that. And she prefers to spend her life isolated in her room with a computer, a bag of Doritos, and Dr Pepper every day. It makes me so sad I always go in hoping she would want to have a conversation or build a relationship with me since we don't really have one anymore, but she always yells at me to get out every time. She's always in a horrible mood and angry. I hear her talking to her computer and I walk in and she'll just quietly sit there. There's no one on Skype or anything she just talks to herself and the game she plays, and this worries me. Also, I hear her talking to herself in the shower and I'm not going to lie, it creeps me out and I think she's really weird... I'm so EMBARASSED by her. at school, she said she prefers to sit and draw by herself. We'll be going to high school together next year and I'm sorry but I don't really want to be seen with her. I don't want anyone to know we're related because of all of this. Maybe if she was more social i wouldn't be saying this, but I don't know how to get her the help she needs? |
| Question: I like my "best friend" s crush.? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:34 PM PST We ve become close and he s a great guy. Hear me out. The only reason I m even considering it is because my "best friend" is being an *** lately. She s rude, ignorant, and bossy and that s just touching the surface. I don t like her that much atm but she s still my best friend. I m considering just seeing him tonight and probably making out but that s about it. I doubt we d actually go out. Should I feel guilty? I mean my so called best friend is becoming an ***, and she wouldn t know anyway... Please help? |
| Question: Everyone is acting like I don't exist? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:21 PM PST This might sound crazy..And I PROMISE i'm not making this up. I never lie! So, I'm usually so quiet that no one ever notices i'm actually there, but I still have many friends. Today, when I woke up, everything..just..changed. I tried to speak to my mom, she ignored me, she didn't even look up from the TV. She didn't even make me breakfast. She always makes me breakfast, so I just got ready and went to school. When I got to my bus stop, I noticed my friends were there. I tried to talk to them, no one answered. One of my friends, Ella, always responds to me when I say hi or something. She just ignored me too. When the bus came, I let my friends go first. When I came to enter the bus door shut. I tried to run and scream at the bus to let me on but it didn't do anything. I ran back into my house to ask mom if she would drive me to school, no response, so I walked to school. When I got to my first class, I said Hello to my teacher, no response. I sat down at my desk, and for the rest of the day, absolutely NO ONE talked to me, and I spoke loud enough for them to hear me. Some weren't even doing anything. I know this is hard to believe but I SWEAR ON MY LIFE that I am not making this up. I am crying in my room right now and I swear I never have hallucination, I promise i'm not crazy, I just don't know what to do. I also promise i'm not that annoying, I'm pretty much quiet every other day.. |
| Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:07 PM PST I have these 2 friends (who are also friends with each other) who have been talking to a really creepy guy. Friend #1 filed a restraining order against the guy because he was stalking, coming to her house late at night without her knowing and watching her, and sending her creepy emails in which he keeps telling her he loves her (they never dated nor did she like him). Friend #2 has been developing feelings for this guy since the summer. She did not know that he was talking to Friend #1 as well as other girls as she continued to deepen those feelings. Friend#1 told her the type of guy he is when she found out #2 was talking to him by showing her the emails and the various incidents that have happened. Friend#2 also knows about the restraining order but believes that every story has two sides and therefore does not want to stop talking to the guy. The guy is STILL trying to communicate with Friend#1 through Friend#2 and she still doesn't realize he is using her. The guy knows that Friend #2 has feelings for him because she has told him. I dont know if he has told her he has feelings for her but he might have lied in order to keep her close. I feel Friend#2 needs to stay far away from this guy because he is not a good guy. However, so far she hasn't listened to Friend#1 or other friends and is still talking to him What do I say to Friend#2 for her to realize that she is not in a healthy friend relationship, that hes manipulating and using her to talk to Friend#1? HELP. |
| Question: Is it okay for me not to care about what happens to other people? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:06 PM PST I really no longer care about what happens to anyone else. There's really no reason for me to care about other people as I don't have any friends and everyone ignores me no matter what I do. Does that really make me a bad person? |
| Question: How to stop feeling lonely? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 12:05 PM PST I am a fifteen year old girl. So for the past year I stopped being as social as I used to be and I only hung around my best friend and we had fun and I didn't really care that I didn't have many other friends. I have a few acquaintances from school or volleyball but I don't really talk to them outside of that. So lately my parents have kept bringing up that I need more friends, to reconnect with people I used to get along with because I now go to a school with a different kind of culture than I grew up with despite being in the same area. (I have been to four different schools and they all had different kinds of people). This time I got unlucky because my whole year is pretty much snobby white rich kids and I am not white, not poor but not rich and just not every social. So yeah my parents have kept telling me to reconnect with old people but I have cut off all ties with them and have moved on with their lives. I keep thinking about the fact that I only have one friend and it keeps making me sad and more hesitant to make plans with her because my parents keep telling me I should make more and it makes me feel like she's not good enough and it makes me feel so shitty and depressed and idk what to do right now. |
| Question: Being more social at a new school? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:54 AM PST Well basically last year I have moved to a new school and ever since I have been really struggling socially. All the students in my school go out and socialize and have parties and all yet no one ever invites me even if I ask. They always say there isn't space. I just feel constantly lonely and feel like I'm a loser at this school cause no matter how hard I try to chat up people and socialize it just never works with me. This doesn't benefit my confidence either since I was only recently cheated on by my ex. I really just need help on how I can atleast join a group or have a few friends cause I'm really struggling whatever I do. |
| Question: Please help, give your opinions and suggestions. what s right to do?? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:51 AM PST Im a teenager, im in high school and i only have two bestfriends who i trust with my everything.. today i fought with one of them, the one who im closer to... the thing is i know she wont care because she has our other friend, and she s close to her. The one i fought with always tells me that im like nothing without her and that i will never be able to make other friendships and that ill be such a loner if she ever leaves. which is hurtful, she keeps making fun of me and my personality, but in the other hand she says that im her bestfriend and that she loves me and she tells me everything. Im quite shy, and true i know that im not fun to be around and i cant make friends, i just cant. shes like all i have and im afraid to be alone, im afraid of loneliness. i dont know what to do please help. |
| Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:48 AM PST so i finally made a friend at church.. and its very hard for me to make friends... but i really like her as a friend. shes very nice, she was alone so i just faced my fear and talked to her... but she made other friends and they go to the same school so they became very close... and they are those outgoing ones an dim not really friends with them, so they will leave me out and try to hang out with the new friend only... so i always end up being alone and im tired of following them around.. but if i stop being friends with her, i wont have anyone to hang out with at church... so what im trying to say is.. after she came, we became really close on the first day,and i was happy, but i feel like the other girls took her away from me... because they would tell her to sit next to them when she sits next to me and she ends up doing it bc they begged her so much so i can telll she feels bad for me and i would end up being alone... and they would drag her away while im talking to her.. which i really do not like.. and when i try to talk to them as a group, those other girls would somtimes listen but would look somehwere else or talk to each other or go somehwere else and i end up being with the new girl.. and that really hurts my feelings.. i really want to blend in... and idk whats wrong with me.. i may be awakrd... but.. i dont know why those girls are acting that way... they were very nice... but now.. they are very rude to me and are showing hatred i feel like.. i come home from church feeling very mad and sad and i dont want to go to church anymore bc i would end up being alone with no friends. i know i go there to worship god, but having no friends really makes me sad and i wake up every sunday thinking about being alone, while other people around me are talking and laughing with their friends.. it makes me so mad.. why do i ahve to go thorugh this.. whats wrong with me? im clean.. not ugly (or people tell me im pretty).. not fat.. i dont talk alot... i listen.. but.. people just dont like me bc i went though this alot. im always the third wheel or peoples "second" choise... and also im very shy and yes... im socially awkward.. but those girls wont give me a chance.. |
| Question: What is the point or purpose of league of legends? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:32 AM PST A few of my lonely friends play it and i dont really get it. (By lonely, I mean dont really talk to people that much.) |
| Question: Should I stop being friends with this girl and should I tell my other friend? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:28 AM PST Me, Karly and Hailey decided to hang out over the summer. One time we decided to go to a water park. Karly drove with Hailey and arrived before I did. When I got there, I gave Hailey a hug; she seemed to be enjoying herself. Then I gave Karly a hug, but she pulled me aside right away. She said, "THANK GOD you're here! I can't last 5 minutes talking one on one with Hailey. She's just---boring. Ugh.." Which is untrue. Hailey is actually fun to talk to, but most importantly: she's loyal. I notice the entire time Karly was semi-snubbing Hailey and acting extremely phony. Karly had to leave earlier than the rest of us. Hailey said, "I had a great time. Thanks for coming!" Karly immediently replied, "I did too!!! I love you SO much, girl! Thanks for inviting me." A while ago, Karly called Hailey a b**** for saying she needed her mom to come with us to hang out. That got me thinking... What is she saying about me? |
| Question: Why do I feel like none of my friends really want to be friends with me? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:19 AM PST Every time I make new friends I always end the friendship because I feel like they don't want to be friends with me. |
| Question: I want to add a friend on Skype, but I can not? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:15 AM PST |
| Question: Does this mean i'm a "nobody"? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:15 AM PST I only have two best friends and just a few distant friends . I hardly get any texts from anyone . Maybe once or twice a year except for my mom and my two best friends . I'm now in uni and no matter how much i try to socialize nobody gives a single **** (sorry for the bad language ) . I never get friend requests . I've never had someone tell me that they needed to tell me something . Never had someone tell me that they wanna hang out with me . And i've actually been asked my name several times by the same people . Normally , this wouldn't have bothered me . But when you try to show your interest in becoming their friends(reasonably of course ) you'd be hurt a little . It's so embarrassing that people think of me as lame . And i'm not special to anyone like my best friends are . Why is this ? I know that i'm a fun girl . Oh , i'm asking this because my siblings keep telling me that i have no friends. It's getting me down . I don't know what to do ? I told my mom and she said it was because i'm fat . Could this be it ? |
| Question: Why did my good friend thats a girl let me sleep with her?!? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 11:13 AM PST I spent the night with my friend who I haven't seen in 3 years! we spent the night at her house, (I am a 14yr old guy and she is a 14yr old girl). she told me she slept naked and I said I'm fine with that since we are good friends and she smiled when I told her thats fine. but I felt a little weird since we are good friends. she asked me if I wanted to touch her area and I said sure (I didn't know what she would do if I said no) but why did she let me sleep with her?! |
| Question: I wrote some bad things about this girl and my friend sent them to her? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 10:59 AM PST When I was in seventh or eighth grade, I used to write a lot of my thoughts/ problems down on yahoo (I still do cx) for advice. It helped me a lot, but my friend somehow found what I wrote about this girl and sent it to her and another one of her friends. It was a year ago but I just found out yesterday and now I know why she hates me so much... I feel absolutely terrible, and now I can't even look at my friend the same anymore. I know it's in the past but I feel awful. I kind of want to just stop talking to her because she's just always been kinda rude, but this draws the line for me. Am I being dramatic? I know what I did was wrong but I think sending what I wrote to her was just as bad. |
| Question: Did I do the right thing by fighting back, when I could have just defended myself ? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 10:56 AM PST I'm a girl in grade 12.I'm one among that represents my school in sports & grades.I'm out there & very involved with things,I don't consider myself as 'popular,I'm just me.There are these 'popular' set of 5 girls,who are so obnoxious,sleeping with boys,terrible grades etc...They occasionally bully me & my friends but we just ignore them.Recently at the bathroom,they came across us,but only I was picked on.One of my friends decide to film from the corner,so if it got worse,she can show the principal,while my other friend tried to calmly stop them.They cornered me towards the wall,insulting me & threatened to spread rumors.I told them,I'm not interested to hear this & tried to walk away.One of them caught my hands,pushing me towards the wall,I told her to please let go when at that moment the other girl slapped me.This is where I lost it,I managed to break free using defense techniques(I learnt to fight for defense from my big brother,who used to be the army).Another girl pitched in to fight me,but I managed to beat the 3 up with punches & kicks,enough to have them on the floor crying,while the other 2 tried to pick them up.The matter went to the principal,my friend showed the video & the 3 were suspended for 2 weeks,I was 'suspended' only for a day,as my brother was called(our parents passed away)He was very upset with me.Did I do the right thing?I mean,I've physically hit those girls real bad(they're not in the hospital,but they got the pain)I'm feeling very mixed about this? |
| Question: So.. whats up with this..? Posted: 06 Dec 2015 10:56 AM PST I was talkin to my boyfriend and he was being more emotional than usual with me. And, he said he loved me. Then, when i became dead silent and looked at him in the eyes blankly, he said not in like a we should be together forever type of way because i know commitment scares you. So, whats the last part mean? |
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