hey i am 16 year old and my brother is 18 years old. we live in a house in my country. it happened 4 times now when my brother tried to beat me up. first is when talked to my mother really bad. i told him to stop it and go away. he hits me in my neck and my chest as much that i can't breath. the second time is when my father and me was in a discussion then my brother told me to stop talking or he will beat me. wee i told him to mind his own business. so he got up. kicked me in my face and i bled. well same happened the third time so it is nothing. the fourth time he took some of my stuff. the i took some of his stuff. he got pissed of me and told med that he will destroy my things if i touch "his" stuff. then i gave him a thumbs up and told him go a head. he punched me in the face then i punched him the head also. he strangled me and pushed me into a glass door. so my body is bloody af ( sorry for language) what should i do ? i dont know how to feel because that my family already killed me mentally so i am confused. i am crazy myself. i cry overnight because of how horrible my life is. i always thinks of i should kill myself so my brother can be happy and my family can be happy as well. what should i do ?

I work a minimum wage job one day a week, but not every week. It is an extremely hostile environment and I get ridiculed for little mistakes that are not even my fault. I have decided to quit but my parents do not want me to quit for money purposes. I do not need that much money because I do not buy a lot of things all the time and I have saved up a lot of money (I also have events coming up where family members give me money like graduation/birthday). How do I tell them that I am quitting without their input?

So i'm 17 and my parents(mainly my mom) keeps judging me and can't stop nagging at me ,because "i don't go outside" as much as others and she thinks i'm ruining my life or something like that and that's totally not true.I just need to be alone most of the time for obvious reasons just like any normal person,but because i'm so young she thinks i'll end up being a sucker in life and i don;t think she realises how mean she is towards me for ignorant reasons.Like she's totally not acting like an adult and doesn;t show understanding towards people.I really need to hear the opinion of an adult who understands what i mean.Honestly sometimes i even feel sorry for her and it makes me feel miserable as to how she can act like that,because i really value when someone just shows you that they trust you and show understanding towards another person,being positive and so on.Long story short she overreacts A LOT and wayyyy to often to the point where she irritates me and makes me be mean towards here just so she can leave me alone.I swear sometimes i think i'm more mature than her.Is this just a woman thing or what ?

I am 22 years old and my boyfriend and I turned 1 year the 25th, we spent christmas with his family. I have always been shy, quiet, more to myself, I watch what I say to not offend anyone or come off the wrong way, I don't butt into conversations when I don't know anyone, just how I was raised. His family does not acknowledge me that well, they don't try to talk to me, they don't try to include me, I feel nervous and intimidated, everyone is into karaoke and pictures but don't make it a tiny bit easier for me. My family always include him, they try and joke around or interact and make him feel good but with his, I only get along with his mom in law, his little sisters and he thinks I am being stuck up, like his family is less than me or that I'm too good to be in that environment. I Think Our Relationship might have ended because of that now but I dont understand why he can't get that his family doesn't make me feel welcome at all...

My niece is 3 years old, I am 20. I have been taking care of her since she was 1. The first year of her life my sister was a stay at home mom then she went to school and got a job. At that time I had graduated from school but I couldn't go to college, because I wasn't receiving any financial aid. It was a very dark time in life I was so depressed because I felt like everything my sister was doing I wanted to do but since I couldn't I had to stay at home and take care of my niece. When I was at home I was taking great care of my niece. I was bathing, her feeding, her and doing her hair daily. When she turned three I finally got the opportunity to go to college 2 days out the week. My sister would come home and complain about her room being dirty or damages that my niece did, and we were constantly arguing. I felt so overwhelmed and I felt I wasn't living my life how normal 20 year old childless woman live. It was to a point where I stopped taking care of my niece like I use to I was just so overwhelmed. Jan 2016 I decided to go to school 4 days out the week and now my sister has to put my niece In day care. My sister at first payed my $50, then $100, now $150 biweekly. Don't get me won she is a great sister and does what I ask but I just can't do it anymore. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Okay, so for Christmas my dad bought me a gold iPhone 6s, and today I went to the Apple Store and traded it for a space gray because I prefer black iPhones. Was I ungrateful? Did I just throw away his gift to me? I feel so terrible..

I just started talking to a girl. We been on dates and kissed. Last night i seent she posted "your bae" on a dudes fb pic. I did my research and this guy goes to her school. Keep in mind we're 18. No these two never hang out btw. He doesn't look like a threat but you'll never know. Should i be concerned or could he be just a friend? Keep in mind in hs many kids call e/o wife, babe, husband etc just for play seen it many times. ..

So recently I went over my girlfriends house while her parents were at work. Her little brother however walked in on us kissing. He later snitched and told her parents I had went over. They took her phone away made her delete everything and she can t have a 15 anymore. I feel so guilty. And worst of all her parents have threatened to call the cops if they ever see me with her again so I can t even apologize to her parents. What should I do? Her parents liked me and thought I was a good guy but now they hate me. Please I need help, the guilt is killing me

I came out clean to my family about me dating and it was totally okay with my father. Except the part that i'm dating an african american. I won't lie, but my father is a racist person. It's not only my father, but the rest of his family as well. My mother on the other hand isn't racist she supported me and told me that i should do what makes me happy. It's been like a week already since i broke the news to him and he hasn't even spoken a word to me. The last thing he told me was that he was disappointed in me. He also blocked me on his cellphone. I feel terrible, but i love my boyfriend we've hid our relationship for 1 year already. I felt it was time for me to tell my father, but he didn't take it very well. My mother tells me to leave my father alone for some time and maybe he will come around. Yet, i feel like a horrible daughter :( my boyfriend tells me the same thing as my mother did. I don't get why my father is like that. My boyfriend's skin color shouldn't matter he is an amazing guy who goes to college and has a job at the same time. He treats me very nice and i already met his family. While, my boyfriend hasn't met anyone in my family. I'm lost everybody keeps telling me to leave my father alone, but i just can't i don't know what to do. I'm scared that he will never talk to me. My boyfriend wants to meet my family, but i know most of my family will be highly judgmental. Wish it was that easy :/ according to what my sister told me my name is not allowed in my father's household

Things she has said to me/ called me -stupid -psycho -lazy (I really am though so that probably doesn't count) -How did I get the worst kid on the planet? -you're the worst kid ever -you're not going anywhere and you'll probably be in prison the rest of your life -I hate you -I'm sorry I even had you -why can't you be like your brother and sister? Things she does -Is on her phone while driving -Is on her phone more than she isn't (not doing work related stuff bc she doesn't have a job) and ignores me while on it and if I repeat myself she yells at me to be quiet -Is always mad at me for something -blames stuff on me that I didn't do -focuses more on her looks then us -will go get her hair and nails done and buy clothes then if we ask for food she says we are broke and gets mad at me bc I should know that by now (we do have occasional good moments and she only hits me sometimes when I disrespect her) I just wanna know if it's wrong of me to think she is a bad parent. We actually used to be close before I grew up and realized she is fake as heck and doesn't really care about me.

So today my dog puked in the bath tub and after my mom was watching Gordon Ramsey's maggot cheese video and my sis got grossed out and then after about 20 min my mom called us down to eat eggs, my sis said no I don't want to, I just saw maggots and cheese and I replied with " I saw my dog puke" and then we started to fight and then my mom got involved and then my sis and mom started to fight and then my dad came down and tryed to call my sis down but that didn't work and when my mom told my sis to go, my dad said something to me like " oh why can't u do anything right like washing a dog" or something along the lines of that and recently they got in this HUGE argument and I think it's my fault

They didn t say what prescription it was but now they re worried and I don t want them to know I m on birth control. There isn t a reason for me for a prescription bc I m healthy. How do I explain away?

My grandpa is in hospice right now and he is about to die but he's in a lot of pain and my dad is very depressed about it I am also sad but I feel very bad for my dad and I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on how I could make him feel better about the situation ?

My grandmother passed away I think in maybe 2010. Anyway after she died my dad gave me two necklaces of hers and a ring . I have no clue what I did with it after he gave it to me but recently my grandpa got put in the hospice and my aunt told my dad that she was angry that he gave me and my sister jewelry from my grandmother so my dad told me that I had to give back the ring in the two necklaces but I have no clue where they are !!!!!! I honestly feel like I looked everywhere in my room and I don't think it would be anywhere else but my room . If anybody could please give me some advice on how to find things that are lost I don't know where I put them and I'm scared that he's going to Get very angry

Since my sister moved to a new school she s been acting more like if she s more important than everyone. She does get excellent grades but she tells us how better she is and she tells us how she doesn t care about us but she has to. Sometimes. But other times she s really nice. Is this just sisterly stuff or is she selfish? It s her birthday soon and I wanted to give everyone present this year but I don t know if she deserves it. Should she get a present? It was a manicure and pedicure at lulus salon

My mum and brother are a tight team. My dad (now passed) always said "she'll only listen to him," my brother. My mum has gone to stay for 2 months with my brother over Christmas. I received a Christmas card from them but no further communication. When my brother is in the UK he doesn't reply to my texts, emails, or calls regarding my mum. My mum has repeatedly said that she is leaving the bulk of her estate to my brother as she "wants it kept in the family name." The question is do I waste my energies on these two people anymore?

Whenever I go eat out with my family they always gobble their food really fast, and I take my time. Then they always are like hurry up and all this. Then they start putting their hands out and eating my food. Why do they do this? Please help

Ok, so I originally tried to post this but forgot to put in the details. Anyways, yesterday I was flying all the way across the country to get back home. Now where I went, there was a two hour time difference. Yesterday, my mom asked me to walk the dogs because she was going to work. Our plane ended getting three hours delayed, so we didn't make it home until 12:30. I couldn't go to bed because of the time change, which led me to staying up till 4:00. Today, I woke up at 12:30, making me not able to walk the dogs. I still would have but my mom called our neighbor to walk the dogs. My mom texted me, calling me names, telling me how pissed off she was and canceling parties I was supposed to attend to. I'm not angry at my mom. But she is really angry at me. It's not that I would have walked the dogs it's just that I was exhausted. I apologized to her but she didn't reply. It's all totally ridiculous and I don't know what to do. She is super mad and probably isn't going to speak with me for a few days. What should I do? Honestly, my mom scares the hell out of me.

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When I was a kid, my uncle used to be a great guy. He used to be a very giving person and always bought a lot of meaningful things for us. Now, ever since he retired, he's been whining to my parents and his family about money problems he's having and he keeps hinting at us so we can give him money to bail him out of his debt. And even though my family gives him, he still always ends up in debt again and he continues to hint for more money. And what's worse is that he doesn't even watch his spending. He would spend money on cigarettes, junk food, he hoards pets, and subscribes to cable TV. Those are all very expensive things that are not necessities. And whenever he gets invited to family gatherings, especially at Christmas, he doesn't show up. He always claims he's not feeling well, but it seems like he just doesn't want to come over so he's not on the spot to give any gifts. And it's obvious too because he never mails anything to us, not even a card or anything. It almost seems like he's empty inside now and family means nothing to him. Like I said, he used to be a very giving person. But now, he just wants to keep taking now since all he does is hint for more money from his family. Why has my uncle become like this? It's so sad and disheartening.

For about 2 years now my mom & I's relationship has gone awol. Every time we talk we argue. She says I don't care when I try and every time I think things are going good something always happens & then we argue again. Yes sometimes things are my fault I admit it but I'm too a point where I give up. So is she. I'm seeing a psychiatrist and told her what was going on but nothing seems to work. What should I do?

I haven t spoken to my mother in law in over a year now, nor have I seen her. When my husband and I got married we lived with his parents for over a year and I feel it put a huge strain on our relationship. I eventually got to where I couldn t stand his mom because she was always in our business. But now I realize we were in her home so she had a right to. She always bad mouthed my sister in law to me and vice versa. My sister in law and I would then tell each other what she would say about us. I now realize that was a huge mistake. My brother in law (her other son) came over one day and said they needed to talk because now my sister in law didn t want to come around because I had ran back and told her all of these things. My mother in law sat me down and told me she would not let anyone come between her family and she would get to the bottom of it. She apparently called my sister in law and was told all of the things I said plus some things that were not true. I was eventually told I was never welcome in her house ever again. It s now been a year and it eats away at me every day. I know it hurts my husband and this also puts a strain on my marriage. He tells me to call and apologize to her but I m just afraid of rejection. I had previously written her a letter apologizing for my wrong doings and was told it was childish and something a high schooler would do. I am just so torn and really want to mend our relationship but just don t know where to start.

"do not get along very well" as in, if your parents could get a divorce for free, they would, I am beginning to feel, that this is a lot more common than I have thought, I grew up in a family where my parents do not get along

My grandpa recently moved in with me and my family after my grandmother s death, since then he's just been watching television or sometimes chatting with family members in Peru via facebook which happens one or twice every week or so. Besides that, he just lays in bed sleeping. He stays home alone during the weekdays for more than seven hours because I need to attend school and both my parents have to work, but by the time they get home he's already asleep. Me and my mother really want to make him feel happy in our household by doing some sort of activities, but we can't think of any. Please reply if you have any suggestions, thanks!

Alright so my friend lives with her mom and grandma and her grandma is always yelling at her and shes hit her a couple times. She stopped hitting her but continues to yell at her and do things like threaten to ruin her life if she gets off of the couch at the wrong time or threatens to run her over if she walks on the sidewalk wrong... Her grandma does things like yell at her and call her a b***, Wh*re, Mexican Sl*t, (shes white, no offence anyone) My friend is 15 and is trying to be an artist and has straight a's so she can get into a good college. Shes too scared to tell anyone but me about it because the counselors at our school tell everyone your secrets even other students. So yeah i was at her house and her grandma asked her "oh what you want me to leave now? You dont want to live with me?!" And shes like "no." And so her grandma is threatening to ruin everything good in her life like her art, career, and relationship with her boyfriend if her grandma gets kicked out...her grandma called her mom on the phone and told her that my friend was yelling at her grammy and stuff but she never did. I was there, i saw, i heard. It's not a troll and i know shes not just trying for attention. SHES SUICIDAL AND HER GRANMDA SAYS THERES NO REASON TO BE, SHE HAS THE BEST GRANDMA IN THE WORLD, YEAH RIGHT. Jer mom dosnt believe her because her grandma is a very convincing liar. Is this child abuse? Are we just over reacting? What do we do? I dont want her to kill herself.

I am14 and my mum is so over protective of me. If i was to go into town center she is literally like. Who are you going with, when are you going , what time will you be there till. The when I am there she texts me to see if i met with my friend yet, five minutes after i got there. Then she will call me constantly. I feel like i don't belong in my family. They all love doing family activity's. My mum now wants to do daily walks with all of us. Sure but i would rather go out on my own and just be left to my thoughts or on my own. I can never be out when it is dark. I cannot go anywhere without her dropping me off. Even with school i could take the bus in the mornings but she insists on taking me then i have to walk from the primary school my sister goes and i hate it because she has no trust in me. I have to walk with my younger brother so 'i wont get hurt'. This is a straight line path gong straight to the school. She doesn't trust me at home alone. I feel like I live in a box. I wanted to go to a concert with my Aunt who is 3 years older than me but she said if i go she had to go with me,my 19 year old aunt would be there as well. I have approached her about it and she is like i don't feel comfortable with you doing so and so. I plan on going to a new school in September and i could barely convince her to let me go.She takes control of my whole life. It is just not fair. She also made me delete my social media accounts and then i secretly made new ones she had my dad go look through them. On my birthday i swore on my comments which joking with my friend and my dad read it and then had ago at me with my best friend( at the time). They are the definition of over protective. It I make a bang noise they ask me what am i doing. Hell if i jump when they enter my bedroom and i have head phones on and i close the laptop they get as suspious saying what are you doing. I want to believe its normal yet all my friends parents let them do things on their own. Even little things like catch the bus. My whole family say that they tried to keep me young forever and its true. I just want to be able to do the things other people do. If i wanted to buy myself a new wardrobe she would go with me even if i ask just to go with friends. I used to go to a youth club and that was my freedom but then she started sending my brother aswell

I am a high school girl with a stepfather that is 10 years older than I am. My mother remarried a much younger man. He is the greatest dad any girl can have and I adore him. After hearing other girls my age talk about their dad, I think I am the luckiest girl alive. He is always there when I need help with anything. I have learned so much from him. My problem is when I have my friends over or I go to a school event, they all want to flirt with him. They tell me how lucky I am to have a hot and sexy stepdad. I sure don't think of him that way. He totally ignores all of their flirting and never says anything to me about it. However it embarrasses me to no end. I tell my friends to stop flirting with my dad and they will stop for awhile but the always start again. They tell he is just too cute not to flirt with. I am thinking about not having my friends over to hang out with me and not having dad go with me to school events so I will not be embarrassed. I would hate to do that. Since it does not seem to bother my dad as he ignores these girls, should I just forget about it and not let it bother me?

For some reason I just never really like my mother's boyfriend (soon to be husband) :( ,I just never feel comfortable with him, he's always around and won't go away, he's always in my business telling me what to do and how to think, he never leaves me alone and make decisions on my own I'm 28 for god sakes so, **** you mom, and **** you god for making me autistic and and having a choice to either live with him or be out on the streets or in a mental hospital, I didin't do nothing to deserve this, **** this, I hope my next life is better cause God owes me for this!, Sure he helps my family out and me but i don't like it.

My wife's mother is a wonderful person that is a joy to be around. She is divorced. We all love her and want to help her in any way possible. She went on a diet and lost a lot of weight and now has a gorgeous figure. She had to buy a whole new wardrobe. She likes to try on her new clothes for me go get a man's point of view of them. I am happy to do this for her but it took an unexpected turn when she started modeling her bra and panties for me and asking me if they made her look sexy. I told her she should not be doing that as it might cause me to get a b0ner. I would get in BIG trouble with my wife. She said "You getting a b0ner for me would make all dieting worth while. It would be the greatest compliment you could pay me". "It would make me feel young and sexy." Gals, if this was your mother doing this, what do you think I should do without causing a problem with my mother in law OR my wife. If it happens again, I am going to immediately get up and leave the room. I am afraid this is going to come out badly no matter what I do. Is it? Should I tell my wife what her mom is doing and ask her to put a stop to it? If you were my wife, what would you want me to do?

Since a year or so, it has been a habit for my mother to barge into my room in the middle of the night (between three and five am) and start raging about something I had done wrong earlier the day or even the week(nearly always insanely unimportant issues that get blown up and end with statements as "you are an awful son" etc). She doesn't hesitate to curse at me and tries to hurt me as much as possible by words(for example; I'm recovering from a ruptured achilles, so she has included 'disabled' or 'handicapped' with the standard 'scumbag' and many variants which I wont repeat). Nowadays she doesn't really hit me anymore but she might throw a shoe or something else at me when she is raging. I'm an 18 year old university student, I can't move out because of financial reasons, which she uses when threatening to kick me out of the house. The main problem is that I just don't understand how to deal with it, I've accepted that (especially during those rage attacks) she isn't very rational, but nothing really works; I've tried ignoring her abusive language, I've tried reasoning, I've tried walking away... I'm having exams next week, struggling to keep up with my study scheme and I'm afraid she'll go for it again tonight as she has threatened mutiple times earlier today. So, tips, suggestions, advice, anything please?

I just turned 17 about two months ago and my boyfriend is 18. Basically my mom doesn't give us any privacy and she's always trying to hang around us and stuff. Like a chaperone. I don't know why she wouldn't trust me because I don't think I've done something to make her not trust me. My dad and I aren't as close but he doesn't like my boyfriend. I also have 4 older sisters who are pretty nosey too. They're always asking me personal questions about me and him. It makes me feel uncomfortable because I hate talking about sex and stuff like that with my mom and sisters. My sisters are also very rude to my boyfriend sometimes and it pisses me off. I tell them to stop being mean to him and to back off a little but they laugh and they don't take me seriously. Idk if that has something to do with me being the youngest. They're in their 20s btw. My bf is funny and very energetic and just fun to be around and my family just acts stuck up and they're bullies and it's really embarrassing, I hate taking him around them. How can I get my mom and my sisters to stop asking me questions that make me uncomfortable and to just stop being so nosey in general?

My company was downsizing and they told me I was on the lay off list. I immediately tried to find another job and there are just NO jobs to be found in my city. That would be a disaster for me as I could not pay my rent or car payments. The company told me they had opening that I could fill if I upgraded my computer skills to use their new computer system. The only way I could do that is take the training 60 miles one way away at a cost of $3500. I knew my sister's ex husband Bill was into computers so I decided I had nothing to loose to call him and ask for his advice. He told me he would be happy to give me the training for FREE. I almost fainted. He did give me the training for free, I got the new job at my company at a higher rate of pay than my old job. I told Bill I had to repay him some way for the great help he gave me. He said the only payment he would take is to have dinner with me some time. We did and it was the greatest dinner date I have ever had in my life. My problem is Bill was so nice to me and was such a nice person that I think I am developing feelings for him. I just could not help it. I know I can not act on these feeling (or can I)? I think Bill and my sister had a friendly divorce and they have both moved on with their lives. I don't want to damage my relationship with my sister but this is tearing me up. ALL ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

every where i go with my mom i hear "are you two sisters" family says "each time i see you you look more like your mother" i swear its every place we go "are you two sisters" i honestly thought it would stop at this age. she is 50 and i'm 24. i feel like i look old :( i've been thinking about going blonde just to make it stop and to have my own look..but i really dont want to..my aunts said we even dress the same at the christmas party. im just sooo sick of this! had anyone else dealt with this problem? will it ever stop? why does she always get the compliment, but i'm left feeling like i look old.

my parents divorced.My mom was really upset and my dad started dating this girl like a few weeks right after they separated and they were not even divorced yet... My mom went back to his house and took some of her stuff that she left and she took some of my stepmoms stuff like a few pieces of clothing . She also scratched the side of my dads rv and cut a whole in the screen for the garage .... She was hurt by him. She calmed down and returned the stuff but I had gotten dropped off at school for chorus. When she pulled up to my dads house with my sister there was police there and he had them arrest her right in front of my sister.... She was like 7 at the time.... My mother has made mistakes but that was 4 years ago.... Now she is herself and normal and the best person ever ... She never does anything bad. One time my dad was 30 minutes late for pickup and it says on the divorce papers we can stay with that parent .... He pulled up and we just sat there looking at home through the window... He would not leave and he called the cops but the never came.... When I was younger he used to grab me by the hair corner me in the corners and beat my , he also punched 2 wholes in the door.... He blamed my mom for his actions... Now that I'm older he stopped..., now he just verbally abuses me and he is nice at times but I can't just block the bad times out like it never happened.... And his wife disagrees a lot with me and I just hate it so much and I don't want to live there anymore :(.

hes always grumpy and makes rude comments about me all the time even if were on the dinner table he always finds a way to insult me . he can be nice but thats only when hes in a good mood . whenever one of my little brother or sister cries he always blames it on me im really getting tired of it , he did abuse me one time but he went to get help . he still makes abusive comments to me , and other comments like youre stuiped when i dont know something disgusting when i forget to do a chore . what i hate the most is that if he has a bad day he takes his anger out all on me .

I am 16 , and I hate my step sisters and my step mom soo much. My step sisters Are 14 & 18. They are so spoiled it pisses me off. My dad sucks up to them & my mom is all buddy buddy with them. My step mom is always mean to me And makes me do all the chores around the house instead of my sisters. I told my parents I wanted to join the army & my dad said that's great and my mom called me an idiot. I have to say "yes ma'am" when I response to my mom also but my dad doesn't care. My sisters don't even have to say it to my mom. On the weekends when I don't have school I ask if I can go out with friends & she says no. But my sisters can & they can have guys over the house. I don't do that great in school but I'm okay. When my report card came out I had 1 D so my stepmom beat me. And she told me I'm grounded for 2 months . I started cussing at her saying I don't care cuz I can't do anything anyway . So she basically took my man card away and beat me again this time my older sister was watching. she laughed at me and told me I should listen more instead of talking. I just started crying cause I feel like they all hate me. As I was getting hit my sister continued to insult me , calling me a baby for crying . All of this happens when my dad isn't home also. I have told him about it but says I should listen to my mom more & that he's not going to get in between how she does things in the house when he's not home.

My mom and I have always had a very tight relationship, like best friends. My parents divorced in 2010 and since then my mom and I are still tight. Recently she started screaming at me with no reason, I mean if I did a little thing wrong she screams at me and then points out everything I do wrong. The other day she called me a whore because I wouldn't show her the pictures on my phone because my phone is private (I don't have anything wrong, I just don't like people looking at my pictures) After I told her I wouldn't show her the pictures she got furious and said I was a whore and who knows what I had on my phone. After all this we are on vacation and she is asleep ALL DAY and I have to go out alone (i'm 14) and look at everything by myself!!! I have thought very thoroughly about going to live with my dad but my dad is extremely rude with me and calls me fat and many other things, besides his new wife and my step brothers/sisters hate me and also bother me alot. I dont know what to do.... If I talk to her she will scream at me and Im scared she'll hit me.

I'm an adult and live with family. Family hates me. I'm not perfect but i'm the type of person to try and do what i can for people. Dad says he doesn't but he doesn't talk to me like he does my sister. He isn't there for me like he should. He also threaten to kill me and put me in the choke hold. My sister and kid also lives with us and my sister doesn't speak and is very rude. This dysfunctional family has intervened with work. My family doesn't care anything about me and nothing i do is good enough. There is negative criticism but never anything good to say about me. I am the type of person that try and do what i can for people. I also deal with anxiety and depression and don't have people to talk to. What to do? I am ready to move out but that want solve this dysfunctional family. That is the thing this has intervened with work causing me to do stupid things at work.

Hi! Lynn here,So i have a cousin named marie, and we don't really get along: -She's very negative and constantly lies -Until I faded her out of my life she used to call me her sister/inspiration (She never means nice things, so i didn't take it too fancily) -Very Impolite to my family and I -Wants me to share my things but she doesn't have to share hers -Copied me a lot as a kid and still tries to -Admitted to having severe jealousy about me -Whines and Acts like a crybaby -Tried yanking my niece from me (who keep in mind is 5) -Gives me dirty looks at school and if our families go to a similar place gives me glares when no one is looking -Harassed me on the bus Should i just let it go and forgive her for my own peace also? Should I just leave this all in 2015 and just not talk to her or ??? Let me know what you think (I posted this yesterday but only got one answer)

I'm 15 . I live in the state of Georgia . I live with my mom but I wanna live with my dad. She says I can't live with him until I'm 18. He doesn't wanna say anything to her because she would get mad and wouldn't let us go to his house for four months . Can I call the police and say that she doesn't let me see my dad? What advice do you give me?

I hate her voice, I dread it every time she is home, I hate the f**king annoying music she listens to, I hate the way she walks, I hate the way she does things, I really really hate her guts. I almost never talk to her and I usually ignore her because she is a b*tch. B*tch f**k off Tracy she used to yell at me and abuse me all the time when I was a kid and it made me really sensitive

I'm a 20 year old female who lives with my mother and 18 year old brother. My mother and brother have been arguing for years. This morning, my brother said really nasty things to my mother (calling her a nobody, worthless, saying she's going to die alone, she does nothing for herself, etc) and I always feel stuck in the middle trying to cam the situation. She ended up kicking him out and it's only been a couple of hours and she is already letting him back in and I think she shouldn't although I love my brother alot. He hasn't learned his lesson, although he is a good student in school, he is very disrespectful and doesn't like to clean after himself (which is why they argue). She keeps babying him, she still washes his clothes, fold his clothes, clean his room and everything). He is 18 years old though. Ugh. I just feel like she keeps allowing him to treat her the way he does and it's stressing me out because I feel like it is my duty to calm the situation. I'm only 20 and I don't need this stress over their nonsense. I plan on moving out in 4-5 months and I'm saving up for mt own place, but in the meantime, what can I do so I won't be so stressed out. I don't want to be sttessed out and I'm only 20, I'm crying as I'm writing this. Stress kills and I don't want it. HELP ME

What type of person is my aunt???? My aunt is from Kuwait and she HATES ALL OF MY UNCLE's RELATIVES!!! She is short, unattractive, and she is insecure. She came from a poor family, and she is cheap because she wants to be rich. When her twin sister died in Kuwait, 6 months later she eloped my uncle (AGAINST HER PARENTS WISHES), and she ran away to America. She later sent her parents a card and flowers and she didnt speak to her mom for 19 years. Her children are insecure.... She lies too.

I'm 15. I'm the oldest of three. My two half siblings are years younger than me. We have the same mom but different dads. My dad died when I was 5. My mom met and married my brothers' dad a few months after my dad died and he died 2 1/2 years ago. She's now married to a widower who has 4 kids from his deceased wife. All are under the age of 13. So I'll admit, we aren't a close family. I know me and my stepfathers oldest son don't actually want to be one. We both have expressed our lack of interest in spending more time together and having to bond with our respective stepsiblings. The two of us also pointed out or dislike of our parent calling their new spouse our other parent. My mom says he's our dad and my stepfather says she's their mom. It drives all of the kids mad and causes arguments, fights and I believe it's why the younger kids act out as badly as they do. There isn't a day that goes by where the kids aren't fighting, cursing, hitting the adults and being rude and angry. My stepfathers youngest daughter screamed for over an hour after he told her to "ask your mom". My mom and I haven't been getting along for years. When she was married to my brothers' father, she tried to get me to call him dad, she also attempted to take all my photos of my dad from my bedroom and has always wanted me to forget him and embrace her husbands like they've always been in my life. She's doing the same with my brothers now. She told me to be happy for her and I want to be. But I feel what she's asking for is unrealistic. She wants us to see ourselves as a nuclear family. She wants no "step" mentioned. And she wants everyone to act like the Brady Bunch. I've never tried to say no to doing stuff together, because I know I have to suck it up for another couple of years. However, I don't like the whole thing of doing a family tree where we pretend everyone is an original family member. I don't even sleep in a bedroom. I've been sleeping on the couch for months.

My Aunt Is 54 But She's Very Beautiful To Me. me and her are very close and i trust her with anything, me and her always text each others and she even told me im her favorite nephew i love her as much as i love my mom and i told her that already and she smiled and said i love you too, she already told me I'm her favorite nephew but i want her to look at me as her own son because she has one son who doesn't appreciate her like i do he acts rude to her in public and that makes me very angry because i love her like a mommy and i would never disrespect her i"ll always appreciate her in every way. me and me aunt text all the time and we even started face timing on the i phones do you think she already looks at me as a son? if she doesn't is their something i can do so she'll love me more and look at me as her son? please help? Her son even called her a old woman and he doesn't call her mom he calls her by her first name

I am 19 and my brother is 25. Despite this our dad refers to us as "his boys". For example on any photographs he uploads of me he refers to me as "my boy". Also when my brother turned 21, our parents took it quite hard. Our mom told me that she wanted me stay 15 forever and my dad called him "my son, my boy" before giving him a hug. I know this sounds weird but it is a bit inappropriate considering that i am going into my 20s and he is in his mid 20s already.

I'm 16 years old and i want to leave my house. me and my mother are constantly fighting because she doesn't trust me going out with friends etc. me and her had problems in the past and I've changed my ways but she still doesn't believe me. our arguing got so bad that she's even hit me before. i want to leave home any tips?

My sister won 3 free airfare tickets to Las Vegas and wants to take my mom & I. The catch, since she's giving us free airfare she wants my mom & I to pay for the room! To me that seems childish. I think my mother, sister & I should equally split the room. My sister & I both work & own a home etc. To make my mother & I pay the room seems trivial. At FIRST she wanted JUST my mother to pay for the room for the 3 of us as a "late Christmas gift" I'm insulted. Thoughts?

If your mother asked him to spank you, but he felt you didn't deserve it. Then he beat on a pillow instead and asked you to play along just to satisfy your mother?

I am a fourteen year old girl and I have three older brothers all who are under the age of eighteen and are all really protective. Not only is it driving boys away from me one of them started yelling at the ref at one of my soccer games for a play the ref called me out on. Ik they are just trying to help but it's getting really overwhelming especially since in one second they are being jerks throwing me in to our pool when I'm laying on our couch and then they get all protective please help.

I m 15 years old and my sister is 10. I ve called the cops on her husband (I don t like calling him my step-dad) at least 7 or 8 times since they ve been together. He has never been to jail for doing this. He was incarcerated for another crime for 18 months. (Includes work release) During the last few months of being in jail, he told my mom if she left him he would kill her. Like I said, I ve called the cops multiple times but nothing has ever been done. The last time I called, my mom and her husband lied to them and told them that it was my moms brother and that he had left. The officers came in my room and I told them it was him. They said okay and one came in to talk to me and so did the other at different times. My sister and I were hysterically crying and told them the truth. My mom and her husband stuck to their story. So, the officers left and never said anything to me again. I thought that they were my ticket out but they didn t do anything to help me. I don t know what else I can do, my mom won t leave him because they only have one car and its in his dads name so he ll take it. Every time they get into it, he takes all of the money out of the bank account so she has nothing. I don t know what I m supposed to do anymore. My sister has nightmares and I as well. He has tried to hit her and myself and is always yelling at us. I need advice on actions I can take to fix this.. I can t just stop seeing my mom (parents have joint custody) Please, any advice is good advice.

5'8 sorry and is there anything I can do to increase height ?

He has a mental illness that he passed on to me truth be told it's on both sides of the family and I'm autistic and I can't function normally and I'm just dumb I can't even do simple math in my head and I have resentment towards my Dad because he hasn't been supportive about it he just makes it worse he yells at me over food he blames me for messes oh BTW I forgot to mention my whole family is obese I mean my mom is like the thinnest one out of all of us and she is still a little fat so anyways he really ticks me off when he yells and I want to freak out and kick his *** but he is bigger and stronger he has beefy hands like a baseball glove and he could tear me a new *** I'm so sick of him and his attitude constantly yelling and cursing at me honestly how do I beat this asshole I'm done and no one can change my mind or anything there is no reasoning or talking to him someone please tell me how to best the living s h I t out of him there's no going back I want him to feel pain for all the pain he caused me over the years

Last night I was shopping and my dumb wife called me 4 times about getting this and that an the 5th time she called me that she said she found money in my drawer and asked where I got it. I didn't tell her where I got it because it was from gambling that she doesn't approve. She said she is going to hold it until I tell her where I got it. So I got pissed and grabbed a rack of st.louis style ribs and threw it across the store. I apparently hit a little girl in a shopping cart and her mother. The lady was pissed off at me and the baby was crying but it looked ok to me. Thank god years of doing successful pull outs and have no children. The manager got involved and was going to call the cops so I just walked out of the store and ignored him. Now what is going to happen to me?

My house is about finished and my girlfriend and her 3 year old are about to move in with me. She wants to marry me but her relationship with her childs father bothers me. They text every day and she texts him much more than me. She says it's all child related but I might have one hour in a day to see her and she gets 5 texts from him. I confronted her but she got upset. I respect her childs relationship with their father and I wouldn't get in the way of that. She made it clear in the beginning that his father is who she had wanted to be with before me, and never explained why it didn't. He drinks and smokes pot on a regular basis and can't support a family. I am very clean and my career is important. I love her and her child, but the constant contact with her childs father, and I mean thousands of texts a month, bothers me a great deal as one, It's not normal, he has the child every weekend and she doesn't make him pay child support. Things don't add up. I travel constantly for my job and I need that clear mind. She wants to be a stay at home mom, and I support that. I will not be okay with supporting her and her child while his father pays nothing, has him every weekend and still gets to text the mom all day and all night. Last night I got there hugged her aND asked about her day, she told me and asked about mine, so I started to tell her, and she started texting his dad back. It was so disrespectful. I brought it up and it made her mad. Idk what to do.

So last night i was on the phone with my friend, who is a guy, but it was late and i didn't want her interogating me on if he was more than a friend or not, so i told her it was one of my friends that is a girl. Well she found out who it ws and now claims she will never trust me again, and that I'm pathetic and i make her look stupid. I got my track phone taken away, and my iPod but after a while she gave it back telling me looking at it made her sick. I don't know what to do HELP ME I never lie to her either, this was the first time and i feel really bad about it and I am not trying to get you to take my side, I am trying to find a way to make it up to her