Family: Question: Men and wet dreams?

Question: Men and wet dreams?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:27 PM PST

I stayed the night up their where my cousins , aunt, and uncle live. They wanted to adopt me when i was little but my grandma sis. So i always went up their. He is a priest and is my uncle. He did my grandmas obituary and has baptized my family. I kinda put trust in that kind of stuff. My grandma died, and my aunt is sick in the hospital. He invited me out to stay for Christmas and i went. It was me and him and he had the couch and i had the bed. Why did this guy who is a priest uncle of mine come into the bedroom and start to touch me? On my boobs,back, and neck. Im like no stop im not joking. He got up goes to my aunt bathroom, and i cant help but to fall asleep. I dont know how later but uncle was in their and got close to me and pulled his penis out and grabbed my hand to rub it or to see if i would. I got up and said wtf take me home. He said he was sorry and he was dreaming and was drinking. Like how does someone do that in their sleep? And the whole hour he kept apologizing and telling me to forgive and forget... Hes suppoed to be christain and stuff. Now my aunt is in the hospital was he really sleeping?

Question: My sister bullies me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:27 PM PST

So my sister is very angry and controlling. She feels the need to make fun of me every day and yell at me for everything I do. When I try to talk she'll interrupt me, yell at me, tell me to shut up, or flat out ignore me. Along with that, she's always telling me what to do and is a big hypocrite. She'll throw my things around the room but when I even walk into my bedroom, she'll run in and just sit there and watch me to make sure I don't touch anything. She won't leave until I do even when I'm getting dressed! When my dad or something tells her to leave, she'll say 'she doesn't trust me' and throw a big fit! She thinks she's better than everyone and treats me like, tbh excuse my language, she treats me like **** and nobody says anything! She has put me in depression. I can't sleep because I'm so stressed and I think about suicide everyday. She's 7 and already like this. I'm so lost.... I would rather lock myself in the closet all day than be in the same room with her or even hear her name. She isn't family anymore and I refuse to think of her as my sister. What do I do?

Question: My cousin is planning to live with her father who lives with my family and me, who decides where she goes?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:24 PM PST

My cousin is planning to come live with her father, who lives with me and my family. In the end, who has the most effect on where she goes? Her father, her guardians whom she lives with now, or her?

Question: Why are parents so annoying?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:56 PM PST

I'm 13. my parents are constantly nagging me and telling me to get off my phone like they don't understand I have 4 hrs of hw everday and they think life is easy and I text ppl for my entertainment and cuz I want to is anything wrong with that? its not like I'm glued to my phone. They are always telling me to get off the phone. I try so hard at school yet they don't even acknowledge the fact that I try. THey think life for me is easy. And it hurts cuz I tell them I want them to be proud and I try to hard to make them proud but they just focus on how I can be better. They always nag about my phone. They blackmail and say "I'm gonna disconnect ur phone if u don't get off it" they always do it! even wen its something small as not waking up in the mornig. i hav to get up at 6 everyday and I stay up until 11:00 cuz I always hav alot of hw. Cant they give me a break? they always constantly nag me. They compare me to other people and assume they are good kids but they aren't bc those kids do worse things then me. and apparently I have an "attitude" like they should be optimistic and be happy that most of the time I listen to them. They always wish I listen to them, just like a robot who doesn't have feelings. I rly don't want them to take away my phone cuz one of the reasons I'm on it is because I need it to txt ppl about hw. They don't understand that "teens" aren't suppose to be good angels. Ive tried to talk and communicate but they never listen. They just assume, assume, assume.

Question: Are my parents just jealous that I have more free time than they do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:42 PM PST

It just dawned on me...sometimes my parents will try to restrict me from doing simple things walking my dog, riding my bike, being with friends...and then tell me later they didn't mean it. I thought they just lashed out at me from job/life stress. But now I'm thinking they may have just been jealous that I have free time and can choose to do what I want. Could they really be that childish?

Question: When people use you by lashing out, why do they always need to make up excuses?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:28 PM PST

One of my friends was telling me how her brother cane home one day and started a screaming match with her because she apparently forgot to do some things..but then the truth came out a few days later that he was just stressed and took it out on her... We were talking about it a lot because that happens in my family too. You do something 'wrong' and then the person explodes. Or they start the argument in the first place by doing passive aggressive things to make you snap...but you can't prov prove it technically. My question is, why can't these types of people just be honest that they're angry? Why do they need to pretend the other person did anything? Why not just be an honest jerk?

Question: I didn't get any christmas presents?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:09 PM PST

since i was about 8 (I'm now 15) i haven't gotten any presents on the holidays. my dad was an only child and his parents died when i was 2 and 3, when i was 5 my parents separated and when i was 6 he died in a car crash. my mom moved me from baltimore to Utah the same year. when i was 8 she got remarried and her and my step dad have 5 kids, twin girls that are 6 , 2 boys that are 1 and 4 and a 2 year old girl.i have a hall closet as my bedroom literally all it fits is a twin bed there are hangers on the sides for my clothes and shelves above those for more clothes and my stuff. while my half siblings get big rooms the house has 6 bedrooms and instead of giving me a room they didn't want them to have to share. from the time i was 9 i was put here to make sure there was space for "their" family to grow. today is christmas and all of them got so many gifts and stuff this year i thought i would buy my own stocking and to see what would happen it was empty its just unfair that i get nothing. my dad left me money that i can't touch till im 18 so thats when I'm moving out. she yelled at me that i have to pull my weight (i have a job and buy my own clothes). she said i owe her money and that i should buy them christmas presents and when i said are you buying me any she replied of course not you get a roof and food you don't deserve anything you should be grateful you have somewhere to live, and then started insulting my dead dad saying I'm just like him. i know its not really a question but i just need advice on how to deal with this

Question: My parents don t let me watch tv, ue computer, radio or any electronics because it is innapropriate?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:07 PM PST

I am 17 and am not allowed to use tv or any electronixs because they are innapropriate my mother says and she says i cannot get books without her approval and will never have a car

Question: I feel like my mom and dad don't love me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:58 AM PST

i don't know, it's just it's christmas day, and my mom and dad haven't even wished me a merry christmas. I don't even know where my dad is. The only thing I've ever got today is something my uncle gave me. He always gives me stuff on Christmas and actually thinks about me. My parents don't. My grandparents don't. (My grandma is a jehovah witness, so no blame for her). My grandfather got my little brother something, not me or my little sister or big sister. My dad probably my little brother something too. Me and my little sister and big sister always feel left out and sad. I'm grateful for my uncle and aunt getting me stuff, and wishing me a happy day and thinking about me. Can't forget about them. but now I'm over here feeling shîtty because my mom and dad make me feel shîtty. I don't even get a hug, or a card, or an I love you from my dad. My mom just gives me money, but I don't care about money, I want LOVE from them. I feel so left out bc my cousins have such nice parents and their parents wished them merry christmas and gave them thoughtful gifts. I always hated Christmas, other holidays, and my birthday's. They do this every year. How can I tell them I feel this way? Am I wrong to feel jealous over my cousins for having nice parents oe am I just an ungrate piece of shît?

Question: Do we need to solidify rights if i married my sons father after he was born?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:54 AM PST

Question: How to make my parents realize i'm mature and responsible? They won't let me keep christmas presents, or go to camp in summer?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:54 AM PST

So for christmas i got this airsoft M1911 gun. I wanted this for christmas because i like history and i wanted a replica of that famouse pistol, a replica to have as, well a replica, and as a prop in videos and stuff. I'm 15 and i feel mature enough to own a gun that shoots small, safe, PLASTIC bullets at people. The only way they're dangerous is if you shoot in the eyes. This one was a spring loaded pistol too, and not very powerful. I even gave my dad all the bullets for the gun, and said WHY i wanted this gun. Later today, i had screwed up the gun, checked if everything was ok, he came in to my room and took the gun because he said i wasn't mature enough. He thinks i'm gonna shoot my brothers, but i'm not stupid. Yeah sure, when you have 3 brothers there will be fights, but i'm not that stupid that i'd use a weapon to shoot anyone. But this one incident ain't the problem. I don't care about the gun, sure it was a very cool replica, but it's just an item. But my parents do this all the time. I used to be lonely, so i wanted attention. I'd do anything. But i've stopped that behaviour years ago! Last year, i was going to a camp with some friends, my dad talked to me the night before saying he feels way too nice for letting me go, he said he was scared i'd jump in a campfire just to get attention, that i'd play with knives and stuff. He was angry, and i cried for the first time in years that night because i couldn't believe he wouldn't trust me even though i was 14. He didn't even let me go this year to camp. Before birthday parties, or if i visit friends, he stops the car and talk to me about behaving for 5 minutes before i can go. And it's like this all the time. The gun thing was just enough for me. I can't take it anymore, i can't see why my parents don't trust me. I'm almost a grown-*** man, i should be allowed to have a ******* fake gun that doesn't even have any plastic ammunition! I mean, these guns are DESIGNED to shoot but not hurt. What to do?

Question: Can you parents make you stay home always locked up like a prisoner?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:43 AM PST

I'm 16 going on 17 in March, my parents always make me stay home I can never hang out with friends. But my sisters can and they have been since they were 13! Why do my parents treat me like a child and not my age? Can they get in trouble for this? They have affected me mentally and emotionally I know have really bad stress, depression and anxiety and it's all because of them and how they treated me. I just wanna be a normal teenager that hangs out with friends and has fun being happy not mad. I'm a responsible person I don't do bad negative things and my friends are not bad either. And also I live in Oregon on private property if that has Any advantages for me.

Question: How do I get my family to stop worrying about me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:05 AM PST

I'll be honest and say I don't come home a lot of the time for days, or I'll just get back a lot later, like dawnish. They told me they're scared for me, but it's like how I told them. If I was on a college campus, people would be doing way worse things than that...and plenty of them would be drunk and high a lot of the time. Doesn't sound like the epitome of safety to me... Why would a campus be safer than my neighborhood? There's crimes and rapes happening on campuses too. No one said anything when I asked them that. They just stared at me for awhile and left. and I always go home sober, and I don't drink/smoke at home at all. I'm also usually always with someone, so it's not like I'm stranded all alone anywhere. I don't have a car, so my friends help me with transport a lot. and BTW I don't add to my family's bills at all hardly. I pay for my phone, I'm not on their insurances, and I make all my food homemade, so I don't really eat expensive premade or prepackaged stuff. Or I just eat leftovers. I asked this before....but no really good replies....Merry Christmas PPL!!!! well...what about the ppl who go to off campus parties? Lots of kids go 2 off campus apartments after their 1st year or two.... I just meant that bad things can happen anywhere.

Question: Extremely disappointed with the Holiday experience this year, specifically with my grandchildren, anyone else dealing with situations?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:01 AM PST

We had the entire family in for Christmas this year. Since my wife passed on and I am getting up in age it is easier for the family to convene at my house. I got a fully prepared meal (spiral ham with all the trimmings, a beautiful apple pie) which cost close to $100. My children and grandchildren came, as well as my neighbor (he is also a widower and a couple of years older than me, we golf together during the summer months) as well as an old friend from the Army whom I have kept in touch with all these years. I pictured a grand feast and a wonderful time. It was quite the opposite. These grandchildren of mine are beyond words. I have six of them, ages 14, 11, 8, 6, 3 and 1. The one and three year old's are as well behaved as could be expected. The other four, however, are another matter. The 14 and 11 year old's have a history of stealing when they have the opportunity; in fact, at Thanksgiving which was held at my daughter's home, one of them stole three $50 bills from someone's wallet, which was in the inside pocket of his coat. The two middle children, the 8 and 6 year old's, feel that they have a right to touch/play with/break anything they have the opportunity to stick their hands on. They broke two glasses last night and put a crack in my tablet screen. And their mother flatly REFUSES to discipline them. I had my fanny beaten more than a few times as a lad, and I probably deserved most of them. These kids deserve a lot more than a fanny beating, but they are... ... not getting ANY kind of discipline. Today I woke up to find the living room had been completely trashed by those four, they opened gifts that did not belong to them and the 6 and 8 year old put a holiday sweater in the toilet and urinated on it. Still, the mother simply laughs and gives the "boys will be boys" speech. This will be the LAST year these children are permitted in my house for a Holiday celebration.

Question: Need advise on what to do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:59 AM PST

My father has never been the father I've wanted or needed, he let abuse persist for years at the hands of my biological mother even participating at times. Even after my father devored my biological mother he was never really my dad he dumped me on other people, abandoned me, and has cause a considerable amount of unnecessary drama. I have given my father chance after chance to try and make up for his past mistakes but he can't undue my chilhood and he keeps making the same mistakes. I have a hard time talking to him because he likes to tell me how normal people talk about things tells me I'm depressed as though he know how I feel inside. Even going as fare to tell me I'm not normal one time, needless to say I have little respect for him as a person and as my father. However last weekend was the icing on the cake I over heard a conversation between my father and his girlfriends lesbian friend, the lesbian friend talking about how she's glad she never had kids than I heard my father say how he wishes he never had kids ether. I'm now completely done with my father when I graduate in May I'm gone and I don't give 2 **** what the **** he has to say about it. Any advice would help I don't have many people to talk to about this! Thanks!!

Question: How to deal with living in a place you hate?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:59 AM PST

So, I go to community college and I love my mom and my neighborhood, so i m not open to moving to a proper 4 year college. The problem is, I hate the town I live in. All my high school friends have moved on, and I have nobody. It s not the act of being alone that bothers me; I love being alone. Everyone I knew were jerks and wanted nothing to do with me for some reason. And because of this, I m starting to think i can t trust anyone where I live. I don t want to know anyone here anymore. This town sucks, in fact, this country sucks. I really really want to move to the UK; I have decided on that since elementary school. I want to go on a plane and never come back to America. But, I still have 3 years to go in this blasted place. I watch a lot of British things, my mom and i constantly talk about going there for the summer to see my grandma and aunt, but I always have to come back to this friendless, hot, ugly place. Plus my dad hates the UK and doesn t want me having anything to do with my moms family, which makes the possibility for going this summer slim; he is very controlling. Is there any way I can cope for 3 years? I will get the best grades possible. Shouldn t be hard, I won t have anyone to distract me.

Question: Do little boys usually have an attachment to their older girl cousins?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:55 AM PST

I'm 19, and my cousin is 10 (boy). Yesterday he and his family flew in from Seattle for Christmas. I gave him a big hug, picked him up, and kissed him on the cheek. And on the way home from the airport in the van, I was scratching his back when he sat next to me. But now he wants me to scratch his back all the time, and he loves to cuddle with me, like when I sit on the couch or reclining chair. He says that I'm the prettiest and sweetest girl he's ever met in his life.

Question: My mom is losing her mind? what should i do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:51 AM PST

basically, for a while- the past few days or weeks especially, my mom has been mistreating my dad & i verbally. she constantly criticizes us for no reason & starts arguments every 5 minutes! we'll tell her to calm down and explain that it was so irrelevant for her to act like that but she'll just continue criticizing, brush it off, and use stupid excuses like "oh. well you're argentinian" as if that's the reason why we're telling her to stop. i understand that she has been criticized a lot too by her family in the past too, but why is she taking it out on us so much? she claims that my whole family is so bossy but it's only because they're trying to help my dad has worked for 16 years providing for her while she's just stayed home taking care of me. i get really emotional and she'll almost be laughing while i'm crying. she like doesn't realize how hurtful the things she's saying is. one moment she'll be so sweet and the next she'll be horrible. my mom is very intelligent. she used to work in the United Nations so she was stimulated. she's lived in America for 16 years & she hasn't been stimulated at all compared to how she used to be so I'm wondering if that could affect it. i've been researching a bit to see if there's any simple recovery to what she's been doing. she is 53 years old & i believe in her time of menopause & i'm not sure if this is just a temporary thing that will just go away and she'll act and be back to normal. what should we do? send her to therapy? also, i forgot to mention.. i've tried talking to her but she'll just blame my dad for something he hasn't done (that's another thing she does- she'll make up things that arent't true)... she's also like an alcoholic so that might have had some impact..

Question: Is my dad trying to ruin Christmas for me on purpose today?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:38 AM PST

Ever since the 23rd of this month my dad has been mad at my mom for making a certain noise and he is slamming stuff. He has been doing this for the 3rd day now. He is not slamming like super loud but loud enough where I can hear it. Why is it he is doing this? I wish he would be nice to my mom cause it breaks my heart when my dad is mean to her. I wish he would just stop. But I'm afraid to tell him anything cause he will get mad and probably tell me it is none of my business. I'm 22 btw. My mom is asleep an I'm afraid that he is going to wake her up and they get in a fight. Is my dad really trying to ruin Christmas for me? He is nice to me besides the slamming.

Question: Caught my daughter looking at porn?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:20 AM PST

So i was just coming in from work im a single dad and my daughter is 16. I guess she didnt hear me come in upstairs because when i went in there she was watching porn and doing other things i closed the door fast and went into my room shocked its been 2 days and she hasnt said anything to me or wanted to talk about it idk anything about this kind of stuff since she was younger when her mother passed away

Question: Is it okay to have mortal human children with incredibly short life spans?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:05 AM PST

I think it is up for debate.

Question: I don't know what to do! Advise Please!?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:52 AM PST

I've never had much respect for my father he abandoned my older sister, let terrible abuse happen to his kids, and never did anything about it, even participated at times. Even after he divorced my biological Mather he still has hardly been in my life he's always dumped me on other people the only time he's wanted me was when I got older and more independent and could drive myself. He's never been the father I've wanted or needed. He's a complete dick I have a hard time talking to him because he try's to tell me what a normal person would do if he thinks I did something out of order and he try's to tell me I'm depressed like he actually knows how I feel. He thinks it's his parental right to try and act like a father which he some how thinks he's good at. Sometimes when I look at him I find myself comparing him to a pile of ****. . I've stopped even fighting with him it's not worth it I just tune him out when he goes on rambles, when he's getting mad at me over the phone I put the phone down and wait till he's down. And to top it all off last weekend I over heard a conversation between him and his girlfriends lesbian friend, the lesbian talking about how she never wanted kids and is glad she never did than I over heard my dad say he wishes he never had any kids. I just feel done with him after I graduate in May I'm gone and I don't give a **** about him or what the **** he has to say about it, I'll be better on my own than with him by fare. Any advice thanks!

Question: I don't knwo what to do an my questions keep getting deleted by some fagit! My Xmas is ruined, what can I do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:42 AM PST

For Xmas I asked for a Wii U, a Xbox One, a PS4, some Jordon shoes, a Ipod, a Ipad an a Iphone. I didn't think that was to much to ask, 7 items total. I wanted to be able to ware the shoes to skool an take my Iphone an Ipad an Ipod to skool an take games form my Wii U an Xbox One an PS4 to skool so the kids could see them an I would get some respect from the boys an the girls would be in love with me. Welp, last night we opened are Xmas presents an I got 7 action figures from the Doller Tree, a whoopee cushion, a ugly t-shirt that I would not wipe my dirty, stinkin butthole with an a ugly coat that's to small. So I thought maybe my good stuff would be under the tree today, even though I am 16 I thought maybe my parents would act like their is a santa clause an all of my allsome gifts would be their under the tree. Their was NOTHING under the tree this smorning. Dad said I knowed that this was coming cause I have failed my skool 2 years in a row (I am supposed to be a junior but I am a freshmen cause I failed my skool) an he has said since March that I was not getting nothing for Xmas until my grades improved but I have to much going on to pay much attention at skool. I have 7 classes this term an I have failed all of them an he's like "how do you fail jim class" an I'm like "cause I don't like to go an change clothes in the locker room." So my parents is fagits an I am MORTAFIED that I told every one at skool I was gettin all that allsome stuff.

Question: What do you think of a girl that was raised by a single military dad? Like what are your first thoughts?in general what are your thoughts?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:35 AM PST

I know it's normal for people to hear that a kid was raised by a single mom but do you think of a girl that a girl was raised by a single military dad? I was raised by my dad since I was 7 (I'm 13)! Yeah he is strict on me but I know it's for my own good!

Question: I just found out that my sister is cheating on me with our brother. Should I be upset or glad that she kept it in the family? Please help.?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:34 AM PST

Question: My mom thinks it's OK to hit me because she buys me things?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:32 AM PST

My mom is very much an old school kind of parent and very much believes in physical punishment. She enjoys brusing and hurting us and I believe it just to be what she does to relieve her stress when she's angry. She's done this my whole life and when I was little there wasn't much I could do but take it. Now, however, I'm older and try to stand up to her and make her not hit me. I never have and never will hit her, but I tell her not to put her hands on me as I am an adult and do deserve some semblance of respect. But every time I do this she just comes after me even fiercer and screams that I'm an ungrateful ***** after all she's done for me. Now, I will admit that my mom does do a lot for me, but I simply can't accept that because she buys me things that she some how has a right to my body to do as she pleases. I don't know, I guess I just want someone's opinion on the situation. Am I right, or is my mom?

Question: Why most people prefer their first child to be a boy(not girl)?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:27 AM PST

I really fell bad sometimes,why people want this.Even many women want thier first child to be male?

Question: How do I help to feel less embarrassed when my dad abuses me (verbally) in front of people?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:20 AM PST

Question: How to persuade parents?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:10 AM PST

I want to move to California where my entire family lives but my parents just won t even consider it even though there family lives in California too.. any tips?

Question: What do I do about this relative?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:52 AM PST

I live in a duplex house with my cousins on the other side and my grandma in the basement level. Before when I was a baby, we used to live in a single family house. Currently, I got an apartment with my cousins because we go to the same college. Their mother moved in to our apartment. I confronted my cousin, but I accidentally mentioned the fact that their mother was being lazy by running from her responsibilities towards my grandma who is her mother-in-law, our mothers take turns cooking for her. I realize this was not my business, but my cousin got on my nerves. He then said that my mother did nothing for us when we were 5 years old. I told him our mothers both took care of us. I hung up on him because I told him that he was lying. I then called back and apologized for mentioning my grandma because it was not my bussiness. His mother left the apartment. I thought the whole situation was resolved. It is 4 months later, and I am realizing he never apologized to me. I should not have let things go. What do I at this point? It is bothering me that he said my mother did nothing for him. I can't ignore him because we live together at college and we also live in a joint family at home.

Question: Why do parents favor?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:29 AM PST

I want to know why parents favor and do they hate there children. I was about one example one women said her parents favored her sister and that they're adults know and guess what the parents doll favor her. When she got married her parents got very angry with her and when she become successful her parents told her that all of her money needs to go to her sister and that they disowned her. So why do parents favor and hate there kids?

Question: Large sibling age gaps...advice, anyone?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:23 AM PST

I was ten when my mom got pregnant; eleven when my sister was born (I am now fourteen). Being the only girl in a two-child family, I've always had the fear of having another sibling, one that would take my parents' love and attention away. The roles in my family are often reversed: my mother will quarrel with my brother and slam the door while I settle the issues, and tell her when to cross the street. Basically, my mother has the emotional capacity of a teenage girl. When she told me she was pregnant, I cried and ignored her for days, and she'd snap at me instead of comforting me. But I soon fell in love with the baby growing inside of her. Fast forward to now and oh, the irony of my situation. My sister is adorable but occasionally bratty, which was caused by my mom's parenting skills...or lack thereof. I feel trapped, like I am the built in babysitter/Counseller who works without pay. And my mom has yelled in her spur of the angry moments that she wishes my sister had never been born, while I am left to pick up the pieces. My mom has also begged me to help out with my sister's future education fees since by that time, I would've found 'a good job'. No, talking to her will not work.

Question: Hey guys, I'm in a tough situation!!!!!!!!!!!?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:19 AM PST

I live with my parents and 3 sisters. My Dad is 61 years old and mum is 60 1st sister is 30, 2nd sister is 21 and 3rd sister is 15, I'm 20.

Question: Should I ask my father if he stole my milk by drinking from my mother s breasts as a baby and thus forced me to be bottle fed?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:10 AM PST

I really want to ask him, but I am afraid that he might beat me.

Question: Who is all alone on Christmas?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:08 AM PST

I didn't go see my family just like I did on thanksgiving. Im at the house all by myself about to cook some of my terrible chicken.

Question: Paranoid my parents talk **** about me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:06 AM PST

Well honestly my step grandmother that comes down for Christmas. Ive caught her talking **** about me before so i just think she always is. Also i notice she likes to whisper alot when talking to my stepmom. So now if i here whispers i think she is talking about me. I feel like she makes my stepmom talk about me..

Question: Why do people think I'm immature because of my age but when they meet me they act really surprised when I'm mature?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:54 AM PST

i have siblings who are all older than me by 10 years + and everyone just assumes that i will be immature because of my age even though most people i hang around know that all my siblings are much older than me and have taught me to be mature because of my parents age. sorry for the wording, half awake.

Question: My sister is trying to be like me. Help?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:31 AM PST

I am 13 years old and my sister is 11. Here are some of the things I am in to: Dan and Phil Panic at the disco Fall Out Boy MCR More bands Youtube Going out with my friends like shopping, the movies, the park, ect. She is trying to be like me. Today is christmas and I asked for a ton of Dan and Phil merch, and band related things. Of course my sister asked for Dan and Phil things too. She doesn't even watch them! I was just outside with her skating and I am wearing a Dan and Phil jumper, black skinny jeans, and my Dan Llama hat. The Dan and Phil stuff she got for Christmas was a backpack and a pencil case. While we were skating she turned to me and said "When I get money i'm going to have all the Dan and Phil stuff you have" and I was like "No, stop trying to be like me" and went inside. Whenever I listen to music she joins in and starts singing it even if she doesn't know the words properly. She listens to the music I listen to ALL THE TIME and its really pissing me off. I know, if she likes it she likes it, but, the thing is... SHE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE PUNK POP. Why is she trying to copy me?? She is copying my style, music taste, hobbies, and even tries to copy my personality. She even styles her hair like mine! Also say we are all going out as a family and I was wearing a tshirt, leather jacket, jeans and converse she would try her very best to wear the exact thing as me only in her own clothes. Can you see why I am annoyed now?? Please help, thank you

Question: What do i do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:29 AM PST

my mom is so mean to me. she ignores me, doesnt listen when i speak, belittles me, etc. ive told her it bugs me and she didnt change anything. but she gets mad at ME when i ignore her and shut her out. its getting tiring and i'm so annoyed by her, its getting to the point where i cant even be in the same room as her without wanting to scream. what do i do

Question: I am an orphan. Should I marry a girl with a mother and father just so that I can have a mother in law and a father in law?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:26 AM PST

I am an orphan so I don't have parents so I need to get married so that I can have parent-in-laws.

Question: Did I make the right decision cutting ties with my brother?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 06:58 AM PST

I come from an unique family dynamic. My parents divorced when we were young. My dad wasn't present for most of our childhood and my mum battles depression. It was hard growing up with an unhealthy parent, she tried her best put really struggled. My brother and I were very close growing up. He was so kind, loving, I don't believe he has ever had an argument with anyone. Well that's until his wife came along. His wife is a toxic person, extremely. She battles with health issues, weight issues, insecurities and negative over thinking. She is the type to read meaning into everything. She was upset that none of us asked how she was getting on while she was pregnant. Instead of telling us directly how she felt she had a conversation about us behind our back..Making us look bad. My brother didnt see nothing wrong with her and her behaviour. I dont even think he spoke to her about our feelings. He just became increasingly distant from us. He has also had a couple verbal arguments with my mum since. Very uncharacteristic of him. It's his wifes toxic influence. I cut ties when my brother was nowhere to be found when our dad was terminally sick. His wife being who she is was involved (to save face). It was the last straw for me so I cut all ties. It's been 4 years and I sometimes question my decision. Would love honest feedback.

Question: Girls big mature problem?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 06:58 AM PST

I dated a girl for 9 months. We broke up because of college in the way (long distance). She was 19 and i was 22. She said she was a virgin and wanted to wait. I respected it and we kept dating only no sex. She soon left to college and we broke up. We still kept it cool but only talked on facebook. I'd then see pics of her partying + drinking + dirty dancing on facebook. She ended up moving back a year later which is today. She's now 20 and i'm 23. Well she phoned me one early morning and asked if i wanted to grab food. I said ok so we met and we instantly began to kiss. I asked if she dated any one? and she said "nothing serious". I asked how far she got ? and she wouldn't answer it. I re-asked and she started to run, cover her ears, and sing a song. I was dead pissed since she wouldn't answer so i answered. I admitted i slept/dated with my neighbor in which is true. She got pissed and said "wow only one hotshot". After this we went on two more dates and the strange part is she had to bring her little 12 year old sister it's strange. After these two dates she cut me off. What do you think happened??? My theory is she either slept around and won't tell me OR she did nothing and was scared of me which is why the little sister had to tag along..............

Question: Parents divorcing... how do I cope?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:55 AM PST

My parents a currently going through a divorce. My dad did some pretty bad things to my mom but she stayed with him for me and my siblings ( brother 7 sister 12 me 15) They often had really heated arguments which really upset me and my siblings. My mom couldn't take it so she decided to move but got rejected from almost every house due to bad credit. We were homeless... We ended up living with my grandmas tiny apartment. Things wernt better at my dad's house. He couldn't afford rent so sold my room to a stranger on Craigslist. Me and my dad don't get aloung at all. I ended up becoming a second Mom because I had to take care of my siblings while my mom tried to hold up 3 jobs. With all that was happening I became depressed and suicidal. I tried to go to my mom for help but she isn't good with emotions,she told me I had to deal with this on my own. I've tried to be strong but I just can't anymore. I know lots of people go through divorce and my situation is very lucky compared to others so I dont want to complain at all... It's just I can't be strong like my mom wants me to be,I cry myself to sleep. My sisters trying to block out the situation my friends don't understand and my mom can't help... I don't have anyone, I can't cope. Any advice? Thanks.

Question: Today is Christmas and I have never felt worse?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:17 AM PST

Lately I ve become uninterested in a lot of things. And it s sad to think that one of my favourite things, Christmas, is not what it used to be. To top it off, my parents are fighting horribly today. I m supposed to go to my Nan s house for the holidays later but it seems like my mum and stepfather aren t going to be celebrating together. I m always in the middle. I feel bad because my stepbrothers always come over once a month and every time they do, my parents fight. I absolutely hate it. I just want today to be special, but I don t know what to do or how to cope with my parents acting horribly. It makes me really sad.

Question: Nervous about seeing the family at Christmas?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:09 AM PST

Merry Christmas everyone. I am a bit nervous about seeing the family this year. A few years ago I had a gossipy conversation about my ex wife with my daughter in law (son s wife). My daughter in law said that my ex wife had been a b**** to her and I admittedly said some pretty unkind personal stories about my ex wife to my daughter in law (including my ex wifes suicide attempts, mental health issues and crazy behaviour). I felt pretty bad after the fact so I told my daughter and ex wife what my daughter in law had said (b word) and swore them to secrecy. This has caused a 5 year rift between the whole family. The rift was ok as all parties were on good terms with me. But now my daughter in law and son are demanding answers and want to know the reason for the fallout. I am scared that they are going to confront my daughter and wife directly and find out that I was the messenger. Plus, I am scared that my daughter in law might repeat some of the nasty personal stories I told her about my ex wife. What should I do? Also, how do I forgive my daughter in law for the trouble she has caused (its Christmas so I am going to try to be the bigger person)

Question: My mom believes in chemtrails and thinks the illuminati is real.?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:06 AM PST

Whenever I say something that proves against that, she yells at me, tells me to shut up, and sometimes takes my electronics. Any advice?

Question: Is it a wife s responsibility to take care of aging parents when there are still siblings living at home?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:00 AM PST

Question: So angry! Can't stop crying please help! no negative comments!!?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:59 AM PST

Ok so my parents weren't strict at all I don't know what happened to them , me and 2 of my friends are 14 and it's the first time that we plan to celebrate new year together we decided to go alone us 3 to a hotel in a city where there's snow and shops but the problem is that the hotel is 400$ per night so each one will pay 150$+ and the city isn't safe on new year because drunks adults go there but the hotel is expansive because we choose the safest my mom said no now. she's like its so expansive and it's not for ur age I'm so angry!!! I was planning it since and she was okk but when she knew that it's expansive she changed her mind!! I can't stop crying ! what should I do now? I won't stay home that night, every year I stay home on New Years . And I don't feel like inviting them cz there's no ******* thing to do home!!

Question: Excuses for leaving a family get-together EARLY?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:39 AM PST

We re supposed to be there for HOURS tomorrow. Don t want to stay there more than 2 hours -- just want to get back home, away from all those back-stabbers.

Question: Help me, my brother have a problem.?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:37 AM PST

I have a brother, he is 21 years old. All he do all day is playing computer and eating what ever he like. Judging from the amount of time he spent in front of his computer, i bet he have no real friend except his facebook and gaming friend where he only met in facebook and in the game. He is now so unhealty, and i m affraid he will get heart attack one day. But that is not the main problem. The main problem is his attitude toward our parents. Everytime my parents are trying to give him advice, asking for help, give an opinion that In contrast with his, and everything that defy His will, He will respond by stop saying anything or by Shouting at them or atleast talk in a higher tone than our parents which is not polite at all. He has no Respect to our parents, he only love them if they gave him food. Its like he have the mentality of a 12 years old boy. The thing is, i believe that he is normal. He is not mentally ill or something. What should i do to change him? Im so desperate for help, i love him while at the same time i hate him for being like that to our parents.

Question: I'm really depressed nothing is the same anymore?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:22 AM PST

2 years ago my parents divorced. While I was away in college my dad snapped out and beat the **** out of my mom. Since then there has been problems in the family. My grandparents on my dad's side and my dad cursed me out for no reason. They called me a scumbag and a loser for failing out of college and being single at the age of 22. They always treated me like crap any way. They used to talk **** on me in high school because I didn't play sports like my football star cousins. My grandpa and uncles would call me a fairy and a homo and stuff behind my back. I haven't really talked to them since then and it's been about a year since. I'm just in a really dark place at the moment. I remember a time when we were a big happy family up until I was like 16. Even though it's Christmas it doesn't feel like it at all. I'm just really depressed. Bottom line is my family isn't talking, I'm almost 23 with no degree and working minimum wage, plus I still live with my mom.

Question: Can I travel to another country as a minor or do i need my parents?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:00 AM PST

Just to tour, i can travel around the US without mom & dad but what about another country? I know finding somewhere to stay would be a big challenge, anything else?

Question: Does my dad love my half-sisters more than my brother and I?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 02:52 AM PST

Dad divorces our mom when I was 3 and brother was 5. Dad moves about 5 hours away, but calls every night for an hour or so. Dad meets woman 10 years younger than himself. They start dating. While they date, brother and I are still treated as his sons and his gf seems really nice. Dad decides to move away with gf 1300 miles away from us. Job offer for her, dad s receiving ssdi. Dad marries gf when I am about 10 years old Dad has half-sisters 2 years later. 3 years later, phone calls get less and less. While growing up, it was always second hand clothes, crappy small school, $30 gifts for holidays, old used furniture in bedroom, brother and I grew up poor. Sisters get put in good school district, $3000 bedroom sets in each room, wear top of the line sports clothing, private college being paid for my sisters, brand new iPads, iPods, and laptops each. Dad helps with cash if I really need it, but I am reminded to pay it back, sisters have thousands in bank account, but dad pays for everything with no pay back from them. Dad hardly answers my phone calls, but he calls sisters every night when he s down here working on grandparent s house. I hit a hard spot financially and dad wouldn t let me stay in extra house for a few months, but he helps pay one sister s rent. I don t understand why my brother and I didn t get half the things they got/get. My sisters are 21, I m 33, my brother is 35. Sorry so vague, but please let me know what you think is going on. Thanks in advance.

Question: Is my Aunty's husband's family my family?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 02:51 AM PST

My Aunty is mums sister. Thanks

Question: How can I stop my irritating cousin from annoying me without my family disowning me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 02:07 AM PST

First off, I don't want to offend anybody and I don't want to start an argument over God but I have a Christian cousin who goes to church much more often than me because I'm atheist. He always irritates me with this passive-agressiveness and always turns to God if he starts to lose and tells me I'm going to hell. I decided I'll just avoid him but how and what would I say if he asks me why I avoid him all the time. I can't tell the truth because he'll tell the family and I know they would tell me to go to church more often and if I admit I'm atheist I'll pretty much be disowned.

Question: I just got kicked out my parents house and I m lost on what to do next?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:55 AM PST

Today, my parents aburptly told me to get out of their house and not to come back. I was living with my older sister but she along with my parents want nothing to do with me now. I am a college sophmore currently on semster break and i dont know where to turn to get money to pay my tuition bill or what I should do now? I have a little money saved up but I don t have enough to pay tuition and pay for a place to live right now. I currently have a job that i work at about 12-15 hours a week at too. Please help me decide what my next step should be or just suggestions in general. I appreciate it. Merry Christmas.

Question: I am 13 years old and my mom has been harassing me for a few years now. she slaps my butt and won t stop doing it. what can I do?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:49 AM PST

okay.... so I really need help. I am 13 years old and my mom has been harassing me for a few years now. I m not just over reacting, she slaps my butt very often, at least a few times a day. I know, it sounds stupid, like I should just tell her to quit. but it s not that simple, you see. she s a drinker, always has been. an alcoholic, you could even call her. she gets drunk daily, and that doesn t make it any easier to deal with her. I just can t put up with it anymore, and I have so long until I can finally leave. my brothers are gone, and them being there made it better for a while. I know I can emancipate myself at 16, but that s also far away and a very difficult thing to do. please, just tell me what I can do.....

Question: The mother won't let me in my sons life?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:48 AM PST

I asked her to get a job and she said no and to stay away from my kid and her. I've tried to work with her and I don't have enough money to go to court. She lazy and her mom basically raises the kids. She won't even change a diaper if she sees the kid needs one. Is there anyway I can win or am I screwed. She iced and won't tell me where. I'm not a dead beat because I at least tried she just moved and I am out of luck I also am a college student and work at fed ex and vassa

Question: Does my dad love me?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:34 AM PST

He verbally abuses my mom,calls her name, put her down for whatever reason. He only talks to me when he needs something, today i wrapped a gift and when we gave it to the person he said "sorry about the bad wrapping they dont know to wrap" (talking about me" i can't understand why he treats me lower , or puts me down, i cant stop crying because i don't know what ive done wrong for him to treat me so badly. I feel worthless

Question: How do I let this go?

Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:33 AM PST

My grandfather passed away well over ten years ago and occasionally I still find myself missing him. I went to see him every Sunday after church until he passed. A few years ago, my grandmother dug up a few Japanese bills that he had sent her as a young man overseas in the military. At the time, I was studying Japanese quite intensely and had been there twice, so she didn t think too hard about giving them to me. They re from 1947 and they re beautiful. But more than that, I thought about how my grandfather had held these at one point and it was like he was right there with me when I held them. But I put them away in a drawer for a number of years. I m cleaning out clutter and I m already keeping a lot of things with sentimental value that I actually look at and figured maybe it was time to consider letting go of these bills. I have a friend who would love to have them, since he collects foreign currency, but I m scared of letting this memento of my grandfather go. I feel like I m letting him go completely if I let these go and it makes me want to hold onto them, but at the same time, I know putting them back in the drawer isn t doing his memory any justice. What do I do?