Marriage & Divorce: Question: I would also like to know the name of the cake on step brothers the night the parents announced their divorce.? |
- Question: I would also like to know the name of the cake on step brothers the night the parents announced their divorce.?
- Question: How to Deal with this brother's wife?
- Question: PLZ READ NEED HELP TALKING TO SOMEONE I LIKE!!10 POINTS?
- Question: I just found out my bf has another child from a prev relationship. Should I leave?
- Question: Why do teens feel so much pressure to get married and have kids at such a young age?
- Question: Should I confront my dad? (FREE POINTS)?
- Question: Been with my wife since I was 19, now 24, we have been married for 1.6 years. We arent big on going out or taking pictures either.?
- Question: Would changing my last name piss off my family? and should i care? I'm planning on getting married and want to take my girlfriends last name?
- Question: My husband left me for another woman. Now she is pregnant. He won't divorce. He's still gone. I love him and I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Married to someone that comes from family?
- Question: Best way to hide my online affairs from fiance?
- Question: My stepson wont respect me or behave with me, what should i do?
- Question: In a world will cheating is becoming the norm, Is there any hope me and my partner, can stay faithful and beat the odds?
- Question: If President cheat on wife or wife cheat on President, do Secret Service tell them?
- Question: Fiancee keeps begging for me back after sleeping with coworker, I love him but he can't seem to let her go, she's married by the way.?
- Question: Does marriage counselling truly help?
- Question: Cuckolds and hot wives put your email below?
- Question: My abuser has moved on with his life why cant I?
- Question: What's really going on? Does he want her or me ?
- Question: If a man is not sure if a child is his and he is married is it legal for a man to go to a Dna clinic without the wife.?
- Question: Am I the only on that kinda dislike Sweden?
- Question: How does a married man manage to sleep overnight at a different place than his house 1 or 2 times a week, every week ?
- Question: Bought my wife some lingerie that included garters and stockings and she got angry. No thank you even, just said this is ridiculous...?
- Question: Kind of sad...?
- Question: How do I deal with my in laws staying here for a couple of days?
- Question: Could someone please explain my therapist?
- Question: If my husband dies do i his wife get his social security disabilty amount or does it change up?
- Question: I caught my husband solicit sex on craigslist which has been going on for 5 years. I am upset over this. He says he never acted on it? help?
- Question: Is this quite possibly the best article ever written about sexual problems within a marriage?
- Question: Mother in law has to copy me on things?
- Question: Step mothers, do you hate the Holidays?? Did you marry a man that has kids..that when they were little.....?
- Question: What can I do to bring back my sex drive?
- Question: How do you ruin someone's marriage?
- Question: Did meh ex wife steal me son?
- Question: What is the right time to getting married?
- Question: Asked to go in other room in my own house so wife and MIL can talk about something im not supposed to hear?
- Question: I don t feel like a wife. I live with my husband s mother.. Help..?
- Question: I don t feel like a wife. I live with my husband s mother... Help.?
- Question: How can i report my husband and her mistress in qatar?
- Question: Holiday Heartbreak why is this woman putting me through so much?
- Question: Most of my family members are liberals and some trash talk conservatives?
- Question: Dynamic actuation properties of Ni-Mn-Ga ferromagnetic shape memory alloys?
- Question: Best Christmas present ideas?
- Question: Can you help me start off my Christmas story?
- Question: Does your pubes get rougher after shaving them ?
- Question: What's your traditional Christmas breakfast?
- Question: All of These Restaurants and Stores Are Open on Christmas Day?
- Question: My axolotl has been acting strange. Ever since I changed his water and put him back in he hasnt moved for almost a day.?
- Question: On this Christmas day do you remember those you love that are not still here with us?
- Question: Should I dump her on Christmas Day?
- Question: How important is it that you get along with your in Laws?
- Question: Does a woman always know she's being cheated on?
- Question: Thinking of getting married. My child is not fiances, can child still get medicaid? I have heard no if she's his. She's not though.?
- Question: Should I accept money for sex from my husband?
- Question: My wife divorced me a year ago she just got married to the guy she was cheating on me the reason we got divorced.Should I let it go?
- Question: Husband threatened to slap the t*ts off of me if I didn't bake Christmas cookies. Is that abusive or was he just having a bad day?
- Question: Different perspectives of the cause of our divorce seems to be a reoccuring issue that causes ongonig arguements. How to resolve?
- Question: Would you let your wife use a strap on on her husband on your honeymoon I let my wife use a strap on me and make me scream?
- Question: Ex-Wife is mad at me after argument last night? Afraid we ruined Christmas?
- Question: Marriage in danger. what now?
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| Question: How to Deal with this brother's wife? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:29 PM PST i have two brothers .. one is mrried and the other one is not .. the married brother has a wife she is so clever and cunning and cheap and toxic from inside and outside .. how to deal with this ******* person??? help me thanks for reading :) |
| Question: PLZ READ NEED HELP TALKING TO SOMEONE I LIKE!!10 POINTS? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:04 PM PST work at a warehouse with girls n mostly guys I go there n my mom works too I saw this guy that talks to my mom n he seems like a funny cool nice guy n I want to get to know him n b friends he has glanced at me a few times n once I dropped something off where he was n left n my mom was there n said she saw him giggling n actin strange wen I left..this Monday when I go back to work my mom says he's gunna ask for his his name n introduce him to me n maybe ask for his number so then I can do the rest b talk to him but would that b weird?obvious? |
| Question: I just found out my bf has another child from a prev relationship. Should I leave? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:13 PM PST I hv been w/my bf 10 yrs. He had kids b4 me and I treat them as my own. Recently i found out he has another child I nvr knew of but he knew of. It was b4 me but Im so angry and betrayed. If I hadn t found out by accident. I still wouldn t know. The child is now 16. I know the mother and that makes it even worse because I know she "got around" Should I leave? |
| Question: Why do teens feel so much pressure to get married and have kids at such a young age? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:08 PM PST I constantly seeing people getting married and having kids at such a young age (18-22 years old). Where does this pressure to become adult so fast come from. I'm 25 and 4 years ago getting married and having kids was the last thing on my mind. Not to mention as I'm scrolling through questions on this site I always see "18 years old and not married yet? Normal?" What is happening?? |
| Question: Should I confront my dad? (FREE POINTS)? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:52 PM PST My dad has two wives the 2nd wife is my mom and we re eight the first wife has 11 kids. My half siblings live in Kenya and he works in a successful job back home but today I found out that he has 4 more kids he never told us about but some of my half siblings and my 16 year old brother know about them. Why couldn t he tell me? How should I confront him if I decide to. In my culture by the way two wives is ok but what s not ok is how my moms marriage was arranged and she had to stop her studies to get married only to have me at eighteen then to find out that her husband is ka ready married. At the same time my dad pays for my private school in America sending money from back home and he s totally supportive always calling us to talk to us about our day even though I haven t seen him for nine years. He bought us a brand new 2015 family car and even asked my mom whether she wanted a house in America or back home. I m not from Kenya btw but Somalia where he lives. What should I do though? My mom is thinking of sponsoring him to come to America but she s having seconds thoughts I was supportive but now I don t know wast to do |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:49 PM PST As we are young and still finding our way we dont have much money. So the only things we have together are insurance and a joint account...How worried should I be? I am not basing it on money. Fact is we dont have much but each other, and we need to convince a complete stranger that we love each other, without many assets to show for it. Going in for Green card interview btw...cant believe i left that off. |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:46 PM PST |
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| Question: Married to someone that comes from family? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:31 PM PST |
| Question: Best way to hide my online affairs from fiance? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:22 PM PST I'm in a long distance relationship with my fiance and since we aren't married yet, I'm obviously still talking to other women. I don't want to ruin our time together in case she looks at my phone so I'm wondering what's the best way to hide my online activities from her while I still interact with the other women when she's not around. Basically, I want to read the messages I receive from the other women on viber, whatsapp, and email but I don't want my fiance to see those messages if she happens to pick up my phone. If there is an app that will hide these services, please let me know. Thanks! |
| Question: My stepson wont respect me or behave with me, what should i do? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:16 PM PST I have known my stepson since he was 1 year old, now he is 6 and i got pregnant. My husband (his dad) works a lot so i take care of him when he comes over every other weekend. His mo is great and tells him to behave the same my husband, but when he is with me he does disasters, doesnt listen, i have to keep yelling at him and im just so tired. My husband tells him he has to listen to me, but he says ok and whenever is only the two of us he just keeps getting in trouble and doesnt care. Im so tired that i dont know what to do anymore. I cant handle it anymore |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:15 PM PST |
| Question: If President cheat on wife or wife cheat on President, do Secret Service tell them? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 06:57 PM PST |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 06:34 PM PST It's hard cause we have a daughter together and just got a house a few weeks ago, then I find out he's been sleeping with a coworker and come to find out she's all in love with him and wants his baby , like I tried fixing us and he told me he told her off and she didn't want to be with no more cause I sent her all the texts he sent me talking bad about her , that she doesn't turn him on and what not but come to find out the slept together a few days ago , WHY CAN'T HE JUST CUT HER OFF IF HE HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HER LIKE HE SAYS . He even texts her fkd up things but she won't stop trying to be with him !!! I DON'T WANT HER GETTING HER WAY OR GETTING PREGNANT FROM HIM AS A WAY TO TRAP HIM, . She's not financially good at all , he makes very great money , she even had the nerve of texting him while with me today calling him babe , I kicked him out again , and come to find out he's called her for a minute and after that were texting back and fourth for awhile , MY QUESTION IS WHO DOES HE WANT , I DON'T NEED MY DAUGHTER GROWING UP IN A BROKEN HOME , THIS GIRL SWEARS HE LOVES HER ,BUT HE STILL BEGS FOR ME BACK . yet he ends up going back to her for sex . Plus they always go on dates but always in work clothes . I JUST DON'T WANT HER GETTING HER WAY OR END UP WINNING AT THE END . He talks so bad about her ,I even send her the screenshots ,I even told her when you and him are sleeping together read his messages and see what he says about you. She responded I'm sure it's bad . |
| Question: Does marriage counselling truly help? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:47 PM PST Have you been thru marriage counselling? did it really help? What do you wish you had done differently? |
| Question: Cuckolds and hot wives put your email below? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:45 PM PST |
| Question: My abuser has moved on with his life why cant I? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:16 PM PST I was beaten often choked repeatedlyput down exploited with a sex video he showed his friendsand treated like trash. Civilian authorities did nothing but im waiting for the military to press charges if any at all. How can he live so care free and i suffer? What if i go through a trial relieve everything and still no justice? What if the military laugh at me like the civilian authorities? Is this fair? |
| Question: What's really going on? Does he want her or me ? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:07 PM PST I wanna know what's my fiancees real intentions, I found out he's been sleeping with a coworker , he swears to me he has no feelings for her ,she's just his entertainment, he just sleeps with her cause he's not happy in our relationship, we have a little girl together, he tells me the other girl wants he and is in love with him and wants a baby with him, he tells me he told her I have no intentions of pursing any type of relationship other than what's already going on. He told me he told her off at work already, but come to find out he's still sleeping with her . After he told me he wants to fix us . She's even texting him while with me saying merry Christmas babe , he even showed me the text as a joke and he replied to her please leave me alone and never call me that again . I kicked him out the house again and he calls her right away and spoke for no more than a minute, what's really going on here? I need help finding answers . Does he want her or me or what does he want plus this girl is married! |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 04:42 PM PST |
| Question: Am I the only on that kinda dislike Sweden? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 04:38 PM PST I hear people drink a lot, you kinda have to get away from home early. Family does not stick together and I think that in my coutry we're loosing the family worth. Divorce rate is high and suicide rate is high (that's what I heard). It seems like a depressing and lonely life. I hope I'm not offending anyone. the language sounds really good to me though |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 04:27 PM PST |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 04:27 PM PST ...and stomped out. |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:19 PM PST Husband said he was going 2 his friends house yesterday.. we had to have our Christmas early because my brothers were going to their dads. So I told him no, & he had an attitude so I told him to go. He went over there for about 2 hours. Last night, he says he is going to go fishing in the morning at 6 am with his friend, & I said okay. I finally texted him at 2 pm & jokingly said, "hi, is my husband there? Just wanting to know if he is okay since he has a habit of not telling me where he is." He just texted back Hahaha and said he was at his friends grandma's house and was eating dinner. Well.... it's past 5 pm and no sign of him yet. Seems like every holiday or every day he is off he wants to stay clear of here. Thanksgiving he did the same thing and even my birthday... he worked all day and when he got off he said he was going hunting with this same friend he went in at 4 am and I didn't see him til about 8-9pm... but I said okay. Thats just to see if he would even wish me a happy bday or do a surprise bday thing. But no... he got home and asked where these presents came from and I said its my birthday... he forgot, even though I told him about it two days before. Idk if it's me or what... and communicating with him is killer! He just sits there and doesn't ever say what's wrong with him. I guess I'm just kind a hurt that he would rather spend it with other people besides me especially on Christmas. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I deal with my in laws staying here for a couple of days? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 02:48 PM PST I'm mixed and my husband is a typical white man, I'm tired of him. We have four young kids. He's so annoying all the time. He leaves the cabinets open and leaves the milk out and when I point it out he just laughs it off. I'm 27 and he's 29 and very immature. I'm pregnant again and we are both quite happy because we wanted a big family. The baby wasn't planned and I don't like being pregnant. I usually feel ill and I gain so much weight and feel so unattractive. I feel tired of my husband always telling his silly jokes. His parent's annoy me, he's an only child and is very close to them. His mom is very rude and I usually avoid them as often as I can. They get to see their grand kids because my husband usually visits and takes the kids with him. My mom will be spending Christmas with us and his parents are coming later. They only live 40 minutes away but my husband said they can sleep over so they can have a few drinks. I'm not happy they're coming and we are going to tell them we're having another baby. I just wish they could take a cab home or something. The guestroom is next to our bedroom and I'm not happy about this. What do I do? |
| Question: Could someone please explain my therapist? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 02:44 PM PST |
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| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:56 PM PST http://ezinearticles.com/?Husbands,-Wives,-and-Porn&id=7185341 It seems to me to address so many issues about the #1 reason for divorce. |
| Question: Mother in law has to copy me on things? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 01:56 PM PST My husband's mother and I only have a 19 yr age gap. My husband and his father seem to like what I cook and that includes my chocolate pies that I make around special occasions. His mother has recently begun making chocolate pie as well, after her husband went on and on about them (she usually does not allow her husband to have sweets because of pre diabetes). She also will dress like me and it drives me nuts. Why is she doing this? His mom refuses to let his dad take any left overs home of stuff I fix (regardless if he says he wants them) and she rolls her eyes when he says he likes something I made. She is probably the worst cook I have ever had food from. She burns everything or it lacks salt and flavor. Even her son (my husband) dislikes her cooking. |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:31 PM PST they were cute, you married him, of course the kids got older...you baby sat for them, you ran them around, you took care of them, you gave them money...helped them through hard times....then when they got older, they treated you as with your husband like crap....you NOW hate doing holidays with them, they wonder why, as with your husband, which is in denial about how HIS kids treats you and him? How do you handle it? You do the cooking, paying for everything, they sit and watch sports, you baby sit....while they are doing so....you are ok with this, or did you change things? It is not just with the Holidays, its all year round, they do not appreciate a thing....if you are NOT going through this, you don't need to reply...thank you! |
| Question: What can I do to bring back my sex drive? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:09 PM PST I am afraid my marriage is going to fail because my lack of sex drive. I have hypothyroidism and I take my medication for that but I still feel lack of interest in being intimate with my husband. He is becoming frustrated because we used to be intimate daily in the past. Any tips for those with similar experiences? I have tried supplements and foreplay but I feel like nothing is helping. Any advice would help! |
| Question: How do you ruin someone's marriage? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:50 AM PST My first love is married to another man but I feel she still has feeling for me. I'm her high school flame. I kinda blew her off back then and she still might have some grudge against me. But I know she likes me more than this guy she married. She only married him because I didn't want her a few years ago. Now I kinda changed my mind. How easy is it for her to get a divorce? Would I be responsible for anything (financially)? |
| Question: Did meh ex wife steal me son? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:34 AM PST so last nite i was wit my son and meh ex wife comes in and says its her turn to hav him! i was lik no I call dibs on christmas but she alredy took him ?!? can i call da cops or nah? |
| Question: What is the right time to getting married? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:27 AM PST |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:20 AM PST I was standing there listening in on their conversation, which ended up being about my mother in law's cats and her neighbors. I thought she was talking ugly about me and refused to leave the room because I was suspicious. My mother in law explained to me that I was being rude and standing over them, that is why i was asked to sit down. My wife also complains because I follow her from room to room. If she is in the shower/restroom, I have to be in the same room or at least the bedroom. She does not like this and says I smother her. |
| Question: I don t feel like a wife. I live with my husband s mother.. Help..? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:19 AM PST I recently got married. My husband and I live with his mother. He can t afford to live in an apartment. Let alone he doesn t want to leave his mother alone. At first I didn t mind that. But now, it is all hitting me at once.. I can t take my time at the house. For example, I can t cook when I want to or do the things that I would want to do. It s her house, and I have a lot of respect for her and the house. I don t feel like I have responsibilities or I can show my husband how I can be responsible at home. She does everything and won t let me do anything. Which is sweet of her. I need that free space where I m not stuck in a room not knowing or capable of doing things for my husband. I really feel like a kid here with him. Not grown. Part of marriage, is growing together with your partner and being responsible and on your own. I need help and advice idk what to do |
| Question: I don t feel like a wife. I live with my husband s mother... Help.? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 11:13 AM PST |
| Question: How can i report my husband and her mistress in qatar? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:45 AM PST |
| Question: Holiday Heartbreak why is this woman putting me through so much? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:44 AM PST My ex wife and I got back together in october. From October until right after Thanksgiving things was going pretty good. During that time span I was working on the road but we would constantly communicate everyday. I always send her money, and made sure she had food in her apartment, gas in her car, and new clothes while I was away at work. When work was finish for the thanksgiving holidays. I made a special request to my supervisor to flight me into where she was staying. We a a fabulous couple of days. I took her on a shopping spree and just caught up a few before I returned home. During the two after we reunited she came visit me twice and spent some more time in New Orleans. We talked about getting remarried and giving it another try in which she accept. We even went to court and see for a marriage licenses. A few days after we got into a argument about something which let to us breaking up again. Since then she have been very distant and now I'm finding out she have been chatting with a guy for the past two weeks. I tried to wish her a marry Christmas and even send her a new flat screen tv earlier this week and I haven't even heard from her yet today. She text me last night and ask me if everything was ok and when I tried to reply and call her her phone was off and when she put it back on this morning. All it do is ring and she doesn't answer my calls. I'm devastated. How can a woman that claim she love me so much a week a few weeks ago be treating me like this |
| Question: Most of my family members are liberals and some trash talk conservatives? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:39 AM PST I'm kinda conservative but I try to just keep my mouth shut and I'm just 21. I'm not a Donald trump fan but not against him either, I prefer Huckabee or Cruz. Am I just stupid? |
| Question: Dynamic actuation properties of Ni-Mn-Ga ferromagnetic shape memory alloys? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:39 AM PST |
| Question: Best Christmas present ideas? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:29 AM PST |
| Question: Can you help me start off my Christmas story? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:28 AM PST I just need a beginning. Its about two guys who are in love. And it's Christmas eve. They start decorating together, and they kiss in front of the Christmas tree |
| Question: Does your pubes get rougher after shaving them ? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:08 AM PST I've shave who knows how many times and I've noticed for the past month when my pubes where growing back that they're rougher. Especially in between my legs near the bottom of my vagina (if that makes sense) it feels rough and I have more hair there now than I've had before. Also do yours prick you when they're growing back ? |
| Question: What's your traditional Christmas breakfast? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 10:08 AM PST |
| Question: All of These Restaurants and Stores Are Open on Christmas Day? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:50 AM PST http://meadmedia2016.blogspot.com/2015/12/all-of-these-restaurants-and-stores-are.html |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:31 AM PST I usually wiggle my finger in the water and he swims up but he doesn t respond to anything. Is he okay? |
| Question: On this Christmas day do you remember those you love that are not still here with us? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 09:26 AM PST They say in the spirit worlds that they love Christmas because it is the one time of the year when people think about them. It seems this year I feel close to all my loved ones that have passed before me. Do you? |
| Question: Should I dump her on Christmas Day? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 08:31 AM PST My wife and I have been going through a serious rough patch. We've grown quite distant from one another, and are lacking any of the chemistry we had during our first few years of marriage. This Christmas has been the worst one I can recall. We did the usual Christmas things for our three children (get a tree, decorate the house, etc.), but it was completely missing the family appeal and connection that it used to hold for me in years past. To complicate matters, I have been spending time with a nice girl I met through one of my friends. She is 15 years younger than me, has a body that makes me sprout wood instantly, and knows her place next to a man. This is what I have been looking for. I want to dump my dumb wife on Christmas Day, and spend a long holiday weekend sexing up my young tartlet. Should I wait? I already have a suitcase and my most important possessions packed up in a car and ready to split. |
| Question: How important is it that you get along with your in Laws? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 07:04 AM PST And if they are not close to your parents, or your parents not close to you, does it bother you? Does the relationship with the parents/ in laws affect your relationship? |
| Question: Does a woman always know she's being cheated on? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 05:56 AM PST My friend has cheated on his wife their whole marriage (34 years). He has had several long-term mistresses. He says his wife doesn't know, but if she did, she would "understand." I feel sorry for her. I think she must know. Is it possible for her to have been cheated on over 30 years without knowing? |
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| Question: Should I accept money for sex from my husband? Posted: 25 Dec 2015 04:09 AM PST |
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| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 03:12 AM PST Well, he slapped me, but they didn't come off |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:42 AM PST My exwife and I have been divorced for 3 years. We have 50/50 custody of our kids. I interact with her nearly daily and see her 2 to 3 times a week during drop offs or kids activities. She and I have 2 different 'versions' of what happened to end our marriage and it seems to keep coming up in one way or another and this topiccauses friction and arguements. Because it is a reoccuring argument, I feel like we need to address it and get it cleared up. We had the normal arguments that couples have. Nothing overly serious or that would make me think our relationship was at risk. At one point, she came to me and told me she had emotionally 'connected' with her co-worker and she was upset about it. We talked and I thought we worked through it. 4 months later, she became hyper critical and was blaming me for everything. I could seem to suddenly do no right. Then she announced that she wanted a divorce and that her co-worker would make a great 2nd husband if anything happened to me. I got her to go to therapy, but she wouldn't participate. Kept chaning her story on what the problem was. We divorced. She claims that she wanted a divorce for years. Ask her friends, she says. She never told me she was really unhappy. She never told me our relationship was at risk. How am I to have known? I would have worked on the marriage. So, from my POV, the first sign of trouble was her telling me she was emotionally connected to a coworker. |
| Posted: 25 Dec 2015 12:26 AM PST |
| Question: Ex-Wife is mad at me after argument last night? Afraid we ruined Christmas? Posted: 24 Dec 2015 11:31 PM PST Been divorced from my ex-wife for nearly 3 years. She had an affair with a co-worker and asked me for a divorce. I got her to go to therapy, but she acted like she didn't want to be there and wouldn't try. We have 50/50 custody of the kids. So, I mentioned I was going to Christmas mass yesterday and she suggested that we all go together. We drove in my car. We had a good time at church, sitting together, signing with the kids, etc. Great family experience. On the way home, she asked why my brother didn't come. One of our kids, responded that my brother didn't like her. I told her church wasn't his thing. Honestly, that was most of the issue last night She took the kid's comment and started probing. "Why doesn't he like me?", she asked. I really didn't want to go there, but she was being persistent. "Well, you treated me pretty badly and when you treat somebody badly, it rubs people that care for that person that wrong way." She waited a minute and then she started a long speech to the kids about how we divorced because we couldn't get a long and how tonight, me cutting her down was exactly proving her point. I argued back that we didn't argue before she started having her affair...yada yada yada.. The kids told her that I didn't cut her down or bring any of this up, that they brought it up and she kept asking. I feel terrible, because we had a good evening. The kids enjoyed it. We were supposed to celebrate Christmas together today. Help? |
| Question: Marriage in danger. what now? Posted: 24 Dec 2015 11:31 PM PST I am a good looking, financially independent woman. married for 5 years. After marriage I came to know my H is impotent. Mistake 1 : I did not talk about this to anyone. Even my H. I only told him that we are not having a good s**ual life. We had fights. After 2 years, elders started pressurizing for baby. I told H, Either go to a doctor ASAP, get the issue resolved or I will LEAVE you. My H went to various docs, therapists. One urologist told me his case is more psychological. My H denied. One of the docs gave him medicines to overcome his impotency. Mistake 2 : Because of the family pressure, I decided to have a baby though our relation was not strong. Viagra/Injection made an effect and I was expecting. Current situation : My H still impotent. I realize my mistake, though late. I have made a compromise. I see 2 options. Leave my H or stay with him. If I leave him and get married to another person. How will he be? How will he behave with my girl baby? This thought freaks me out and I am less inclined towards taking this risk. My H is a good father. So I think I should compromise and stick to him. My H does not like me and I don't like him either. Now, my female hormones do not let me be happy. I want to to be loved. Having an affair, etc. is unethical and I do not want to. I try to keep myself busy to avoid such thoughts but they still poke up. Should I divorce my H and marry someone else when my baby turns may be 16 years. When my baby leaves us for studies? |
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