Marriage & Divorce: Question: Is it wrong to sleep with my best friends husband? |
- Question: Is it wrong to sleep with my best friends husband?
- Question: What if a man and woman marry, and the man refuses to have sex with his wife?
- Question: What does she mean when she tells me this?
- Question: How to deal with a pessimistic wife who thinks the world is out to get her (including me)?
- Question: I'm a 43 year old married woman who played footsie with my 37 year old female friend,I feel like I may be attracted to her? Is this normal?
- Question: How to live with whats happened to me?
- Question: Looking for a trip for husband and I 20th anniversary for under 1000 per person airfare included. Any help is appreciated?
- Question: Have you ever dissed someone you had strong feelings for B/C you were already in a relationship....?
- Question: Why do muslims seemingly have 20 wives each?
- Question: Why do divorced moms get mad when their child's single dad yakes the kids to do fun things on their time with the kids?
- Question: Custody battle help !?
- Question: How to introduce your kids to siblings from another mom?
- Question: Should I be worried about not getting married at 22?
- Question: My husband grabbed me bruised my arms and dragged me out the house but he's telling people I abused him?
- Question: Husband smells like perfume?
- Question: Does the love for your husband eventually fade?
- Question: My ex fiance called off our wedding. I spent over $3k on nonrefundable wedding expenses. Is he required to pay me back for those expenses?
- Question: Is it legal to keep your ex wife on your health insurance?
- Question: My wife doesn't have a job, should I divorce her?
- Question: If my ex wife dies before me, am I entitled to her social security benefits? We were previously married for 25 years.?
- Question: When I die, who gets my Social Security Benefits? My current wife, or my ex-wife? And if it is my ex-wife how do I change that?
- Question: He said he wants to "take me to court" during our divorce. Can he?
- Question: Should I leave my husband?
- Question: Is 17 too young to get engaged?
- Question: I'm sop tired of being disrespected. Should l just STOP going around my in laws?
- Question: My Son told me my Ex Husband and his whore is having a baby!?
- Question: What would be a good name for a clique of sports wives and girlfriends?
- Question: Brother-in-law spends too much time pleasing others and forgets my sister?
- Question: My wife wants a divorce I want to fix things how do i come to peace with it or how do I try and fix our marriage ?
- Question: What can i do to fix things with my wife and kids why I left 5 years ago and haven't any contact with theme?
- Question: What would u do if a younger guy asked u out?
- Question: My Husband Won't Stand Up for Himself.?
- Question: 50 years ago, divorce was rare, now it's very common. Why are women more psychotic, materialistic and demanding than 50 years ago?
- Question: Is leaving with your parent (mom) bad and embarrassing.?
- Question: How do I Devorce my lama?
- Question: Is my husband cheating on me...again?
- Question: Agree or disagree: it is better to get married young (under 25)?
- Question: To be or not to be masculine ??
- Question: Divorce or son? Whose side?
- Question: I HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT MY HUSBAND HAVING KIDS?
- Question: How to get my soon to be mother in law to stop being so meddling between our lives?
- Question: If your husband had anger issues and pushed your mother for no reason except that he was upset - what would you do?
- Question: Wife wants A divorce I don't?
- Question: My husband wants to bring our hamster on our honeymoon?
- Question: My husband wont shower before bed! He has a gross job! HELP!!!!?
- Question: What should I name my beta fish?
- Question: Husband is working nights?
- Question: I collect 347 a month. my husband gets 1200. if he dies what would i get?
- Question: My wife gets incredibly jealous what causes this?
- Question: Why won't my wife let me *** in her mouth she doesn't have to swallow she can spit it out.?
- Question: Can Grand Child"s husband have Z-Plan?
- Question: Ideally, husband and wife should be close to the SAME age.....and there's nothing wrong with the wife being older?
- Question: Would you forgive your husband for cheating on the anniversary of when your baby (who miscarried) was conceived?
- Question: Need a non-bias opinion on my marriage?
- Question: My husband and I, live in the US while most of his family lives in MX. We move to the States about 3 years ago.?
- Question: How do you deal with indifferent people those who turn their minds away from those in need?
- Question: Do counties check on marriage liscenses for previous marriages?
- Question: How the pair behaves when infidelity by a wife in America?
| Question: Is it wrong to sleep with my best friends husband? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 09:14 PM PST |
| Question: What if a man and woman marry, and the man refuses to have sex with his wife? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:36 PM PST Suppose both people are virgins upon getting married, and they are in their late 20's, near 30. |
| Question: What does she mean when she tells me this? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:20 PM PST I express my feelings for a ex girlfriend of mine and told her my heart and feeling are true and that I have a strong love for her and that everything else was out of my control. Her reply to me was "yea I guess everything is out of your control isn't it". What does she means when she tells me this? |
| Question: How to deal with a pessimistic wife who thinks the world is out to get her (including me)? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:04 PM PST |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 07:50 PM PST This this past weekend a girl friend (she is 37 and also married) and I decided to get together at my house for drinks and chatting and a movie. Well, we both sat on the couch with our feet on the coffee table. Having drinks, chatting, watching a movie, just passing the time. Well somewhere in the middle of all this our feet touch, and we don't move them away. We just let them touch and we played footsies, wiggling our feet and toes all against each other's feet. Felt so comforting. Am I bi? |
| Question: How to live with whats happened to me? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 07:46 PM PST I fell in love with a girl, my across the street neighbor We're 30 years old. We met one day and things were never the same. Love. Real love. She told me she thought we were soulmates, that she dreams of the day we become husband and wife. She has two kids, I was taking them on field trips, I was kissing them to bed at night, I was throwing them birthday parties, I was so good to her and to them. The father left her a year ago for a girl 16 years younger than him. He didn't even come around to see the kids for months at a time. According to her it had been years since they were happy all they really showed their kids was how to be unhappy with each other. I left for work one morning and we were fine, we had watched a movie and eaten dinner the evening laughing and talking about our future. I come home the next day and we had plans to go to a nice restaraunt for dinner. I was going to talk to her that night about with the kids when should we wait to move in together and to get married. She told me she thought I would be a great stepdad and role model for her kids. Unlike her lying, deadbeat ex. When I get home that night he is at her house. Moving all his stuff back in. No words of warning after all that time, not a goodbye it's over. Just boom, forgotten This was a month ago, now I look back and wonder if any of it was the real her. And they live just across the street and everytime I look out a window or go out my front door I'm forced to see all of this. |
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| Question: Why do muslims seemingly have 20 wives each? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 07:11 PM PST No offense but they seemingly always have alot of wives. |
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| Question: Custody battle help !? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 07:04 PM PST Okay so I'm a single mother of two children I'm about to go to court for a custody battle I was really confused with a few things and needed some questions answered if possible ? So here's the case I'm going for full custody me and the father of the children were never married this man has had no interest in being in the children's lives unless if he's with me he's abusive mentally emotionally has physically abused me countless times has sexually assaulted and raped me this man has sent pornography photos of me has threaten me held a knife to me things of which I have all proof off this man refused to let me move on he's not mentally okay he has anger domestic anusive issues I've been a victim for a long time I don't want him in the Children's lives due to him wanting to hurt me or them or use them in a form of gettingme and he is not fit to be a father has not purchased a single diaper or milk bottle since birth I've done it all by myself and with the help of my current husband now the big question here is I know I have a amazing chance at full custody and here's the question if a visitation custody was awarded would I haveto have contact with him ? On the phone ? Or emails ? I feel threatened and fear for my life afraid of the things he will say to me on the phone or over email or messages like he's done So do I have to have contact with him or can it be done through DCF or law enforcementI live in the state of Florida and would like some awknowledment if possible thanks |
| Question: How to introduce your kids to siblings from another mom? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 06:53 PM PST Ok here is my dilemma. I was with my now ex husband for 10 years. During those 10 years he had 2 affairs which produced 2 other children. We have 4 together ranging in ages 9,6,4, & 2. He has no contact with the children ages 5 & 1. So therefore never let me have contact or let my children meet. Now that we have been almost separated for a year about to divorce I was thinking of letting my children meet their siblings but I am torn. I don't want to confuse my children because he still has contact with my children and they go to his house every other weekend. So I know they will be asking if they have the same dad then why doesn't he see them. He is a man full of anger issues and I don't want him to lash out at me or my kids for meeting. But on the other hand we live in the same community so when their children start school they will be in the same school as my kids. They do have my husbands last name even though he was not present for their births or signed their birth certificates. I just don't want my children to be mad at me if they find out on their own and that I kept this from them. I'm in a hard spot and just need words of advice as what to do. Thank you! |
| Question: Should I be worried about not getting married at 22? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 06:01 PM PST All my friends are getting married and having babies... I just feel like I should be too... Help:/ |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 05:56 PM PST He had a huge scratch on his face because I was defending myself and trying not to be dragged out. So I hit him in defense but he's telling people he didn't grab me but that he picked me up and is telling people I abused him. Although I have bruises to show from the force. |
| Question: Husband smells like perfume? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 05:33 PM PST This has happened a few times it only happens once in awhile. He will come home and hug me and I'll smell it or I grab his coat to run outside real quick and it will smell different. My husband and I don't wear perfumes so when it's there is really noticeable. It's always his collar or down the inside of the arms and parts that touch your sides like someone would be reaching in and hugging you or sitting on the coat directly. Last time he blamed it on a coworkers ecig but I know that person isn't around him anymore so now it's just " I don't smell anything you're inventing the smell!" Or " I don't know!" He yells at me when I ask and I'm just sick of him acting like I'm crazy. I know it's there it smells like a sweet floral scent it could be either man or woman scent it's not over powering just noticable but it would mean the person wearing it is over powering of scent to rub it off. I'm not sure what to think since he is shitting me out. He even at times couldn't keep a straight face which he does when he lies.. Any thoughts? I don't know if he's cheating he only goes to work so unless he was cheating on the job then I don't know. I'm not upset on him yelling at me and telling me I'm crazy when it happens. He has cheated in the past but it was all internet stuff not hooking up at work. Is there another possibility for perfume? I can't ask him he just snaps. I also apologize for the typo my phone did that He does not attend work parties or things like that he is a Sargent in security. |
| Question: Does the love for your husband eventually fade? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 04:51 PM PST My husband and I got married 2 days ago. At our reception, we were thanking everyone for coming and we were saying that we were so happy to be married. When we sat back down, my husband's brother's girlfriend (confusing, I know) came up to us and said she was sure that eventually we wouldn't have such a strong love and connection. I was so surprised that she said that because my husband and I were dating for a few years before he proposed. And our love has nothing but grown for each other. Is this true that eventually we won't love each other? |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 04:39 PM PST My now ex fiance called off our wedding. I spent over $3000 on nonrefundable wedding expenses and financially am struggling now that I'm on my own. Is he required to pay me back for those expenses? Can I sue him? How do I go about getting my money back? He is currently deployed and wont respond to emails and blocked me on fb. I know there isnt much u can do until he comes back but I am struggling to support my three children (from a previous relationship) because i spent a lot on wedding expenses and my ex had promised to help financially as we were going to be husband and wife. |
| Question: Is it legal to keep your ex wife on your health insurance? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 04:34 PM PST |
| Question: My wife doesn't have a job, should I divorce her? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 04:21 PM PST We're married for 8 years and have three children (1, 4 and 7). I am working very hard 14 hours a day to make all of them live comfortably. I get very tired and it's exhausting. I told my wife about it and advised her to get a job too, but she doesn't want to because of the children. I told her we could get a nanny, but she insists that she doesn't trust nannies and that children should be raised by their parents when that young. She's too stubborn and starts a fight every time I ask her to get a job. This is making me very angry. Why is she so selfish? I am thinking about divorce. I told her we should go to the couple counseling, but she said she doesn't want anyone to mess with how she handles her life. I can't believe she is so lazy. I thought I married a perfect woman, but all she does is taking care of babies, cooking, and stuff like that, while I'm suffering. She indeed is a good mother, but I can't do this anymore. I want to divorce her. OR if you have any advice on her to talk her into getting a job, please tell me. I'm desperate. |
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| Question: He said he wants to "take me to court" during our divorce. Can he? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 04:02 PM PST I am divorcing my emotionally abusive husband after 5 years. He said he "Of course I'm going to make it hard for you during the divorce. I don't want you to leave so why would I make it easy?" Due to my current living situation, he will be having physical custody of the kids for the time being, and I don't have ANYTHING he could take. He has the car, all of our home furnishings, the electronics, everything. What could he possibly do or take from me to make this harder? |
| Question: Should I leave my husband? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 03:37 PM PST My husband notices the tv and sports more then me. Im in good shape have a career workout and keep up with myself. My husband often gets told he is lucky to have me. Yet, he never initiates sex, he rather watch tv then talk to me. I ve talked to him about it and he says he s sorry he gets comfortable and he will work on it. Nothing has changed and I m tired of not feeling appreciated. I feel alone and I rather leave then cheat on him. |
| Question: Is 17 too young to get engaged? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 03:34 PM PST I'm in my Junior year in high school, going into my senior year in 3 months, my boyfriend of 3 years keeps mentioning marriage. I love him so much and I do picture on spending the rest of my life with him, we go on family vacations with his family and my family, but I just want someone else's opinion on if engagement at 17 is too young. We wouldn't get married until after college when we were in our 20's, but still, opinions are wanted, be honest. |
| Question: I'm sop tired of being disrespected. Should l just STOP going around my in laws? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 03:31 PM PST Their kids like me, they don't. They point out that instead of being with the adults, I'm with their kids. When we get there, the kids speak to me, even show me things, they dont. ********Here's my final straw:********** Recently they sent out a group text. I didn't get it till 10:30, so I replied to two texts. They got pissed, and said not to write so late. Another person said be respectful and on topic. I was on topic. When I was going through texts to delete, l came across SEVERAL texts as late as mine on prior nights!!!!! But I'm the only one being pointed out???? Further, the next day his (grown) son told me in front of others not to text that late. I teased that they text before I'm awake. He has the audacity to say, "Well, we don't go to bed at 4 a.m. and sleep till 5 that night!" I was P.O.'ed. I said, "I'm up around 8, and you know that. I've sent you texts." We both dropped it. My husband is ill. We all have issues. My (adopted) daughter and I deal with birth defects, and my husband became ill several years ago. I'm on-call around here all the time, like House Arrest. But they're my family and I love them. So to be teased like that, because they text at 6 a.m. (more than two texts!), as opposed to my two at night, before 11... Especially seeing they've done it, too - and they've ALL °°called°° much later, knowing my husband is awake at night- I am done. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm ready to move. What should I do? |
| Question: My Son told me my Ex Husband and his whore is having a baby!? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 03:02 PM PST Im very upset right now so excuse me if it all comes out jumbled. I was married to my ex for 7 years but I fell in love with another man. Instead of ruining my family with the affair, I just divorced my husband. Soon after I got pregnant by the other man and we now have a family together. My ex would still send me messages telling me he loves me but I would brush it off. AAbout 3 years ago he started dating this chick, who completely screwed up our coparenting. My ex no longer gives me extra money, he no longer does all the transporting of the kids like he used to, my ex no longer comes over to help me if I have some issue like I cant plow the snow from my garange-hence I cant get my car out to take them to school!! things like that! Anyways, my 11 year old son recently came over (my ex has full custody) and he said that my Ashley (my exs girlfriend) is having a baby! My stomach dropped! I immediately called my ex and got into a shouting match! Like why is he having a kid with her! He is so selfish! the kids we have together are so unhappy and now hes gonna bring a kid with her into the mix! Im hurt by this news and I dont know why! Help! |
| Question: What would be a good name for a clique of sports wives and girlfriends? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 03:00 PM PST |
| Question: Brother-in-law spends too much time pleasing others and forgets my sister? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 02:54 PM PST My Brother-in-law is a good man.He has been a good husband to my sister and is a good friend to all of us. But he has one problem. He likes to hog the praise of others. He would go out of his way to help others.I've seen situations where he has been angry because his help wasnt praised enough. In the early years of the marriage,my sister was also assisting him.But she quickly understood that they were being used by others. Also my sister became pregnant and later delivered a baby. Now she is always taking care of my niece. But my brother-in-law just leaves her alone and goes around to help others.Once,inspite of my niece being sick,he travelled to another city to help one of his friends. This is causing problems with my sister as she needs to spend time with my brother-in-law and also its tough for a single parent to take care of a baby. He is good to her in every other way and is an ideal husband. My sister is at her wits end because of this.He is too good person to leave and he doesnt even understand he's just being used by others. |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 02:47 PM PST My wife now wants a divorce because of me pushing her away while dealing with my alcoholism and depression. I got to the point where the depression drove me to the bottom of the bottle and wanting suicide and a divorce from her so she wouldn't have to live with this and be free. Now after learning to battle my depression better and working with sobriety I actually have self worth and know what I want. To fix this marriage. But I have pushed her too far in my selfish ways where it seems that it is inevitable that she wants it. Also she is "talking" to another guy. Which we both wanted in the beginning and I've tried to see other women but it can't work because all i can think of is how much i wish they were devon (my wife). I feel like if I really love her i will be content with letting her go. But it hurts so bad and I just want our marriage to work. I thought marriage was supposed to be hard but i know my actions have forced this. What do i do? I want her back but I want to be happy and right now I feel like she wants to be happy with out me. And she says she is but when i look into her eyes i dont see it. She says she is only that way towards me though she admits she has closed off her emotions. She also gets mad at me if i mention not giving her alimony or paying her car insurance or phone bill until she gets on her feet. But if i want to let go completely all ties must be cut non of the remaining friends and coming to see me or whatever. Its so hard man idk what to do. |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 02:41 PM PST Everyone hates me because I left pregnant wife with 2 toddlers five years ago and I didn't make any contact with them for 5 years,I know what I did was wrong and evil I m very bad person,I know I don't deserve mercy or any sympathy only thing I m asking is to read the text from beginning till the end and say to me honestly what you think about this and how to fix things,When I meet my wife 10 years ago,we both fall in love with each other, we get married and have our first son (James) 9 years old now, 2 years later we add another baby in our family (Theodor) 7 years old now,we was happy family and the boys loved me most in the world like I loved them and their mother (my wife) more then anything,the problems start when my wife was pragment for the third time with girl,doctor said that is posible that bayby will be born with down syndrome so I told my wife to abort child because I didnt want to take care of retarded child she refused to do it so I left the home ,later I find out that our daughter was born compleatly normal and I have other problems with boys they were 4 and 2 years old when I left so right now they are shoplifters animal abusers,they also skiped school especialy the eldest one (james) psychiatrist said that he have atachment disorder and ASPD traits becaus of my abstence.P.S. I never stop loving them. |
| Question: What would u do if a younger guy asked u out? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 02:00 PM PST If I saw a "milf" @ a generic place like the mall went up to her & said. Excuse me miss/mam but my name is "X", I couldn't help but notice you. I think you're really beautiful & was wondering if I could get your number? Would this be the best way to approach her and if this happened how would you react? I'm sorry for the long text it's just that I'm at a mall w/ my friends there's this cute girl like 28-33 in the store with a big butt I want to ask out but I'm 18 |
| Question: My Husband Won't Stand Up for Himself.? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:59 PM PST This is an age old tale, but one that's been frustrating me. I love my in-laws, and I have a great relationship with them. HOWEVER, they can be inconsiderate, so much so that they will run my husband into the ground with their nagging. If my father in-law isn't constantly wanting money for cigarettes and soda, my sister in law is demanding he drive her everywhere. Now only that, but she drags us into all of her relationship issues and accuses my husband of being a bully if he doesn't do as she asks. My husband does have a therapist and he suffers from anxiety and OCD, so I try not to nag him over this, but something has to be done. We've spent over 200$ this week just giving money to his family, not top of that, his father and sister guilt trip and ***** insistently until he caves. He works 6days a week, 24hrs a day, and they demand he drive them everywhere when he should be having time to himself. I told him he needs to finally tell them to let him breath but he's "afraid of conflict". He has stood up to them in the past, but he eventually recants and shrinks back into old habits. I don't want to be yet another person that's bitching at him, but I can't take much more of this. I've tried to talk with his sister about her issues, but she always pushes me off. My mother in law tells her husband to stop being an asshole, but will cave if he whines enough. I worry about my husbands mental health over all. What should I do? |
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| Question: Is leaving with your parent (mom) bad and embarrassing.? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:49 PM PST I'm 32 (that's right 32) and I leaving with my mom first of all I have a decent job to help her pay (most of the bills) and will I love her and all that, but all of my friends and people say I'm to old to leave with my mom and it's really embarrassing, puts me sad 😢 they say "why not get married?" " leave your mom" thing is I'm not interested off getting married a lot off more problem and much MUCH!!! more responsibility, and this is a different thing I'm about to say but women did ask me to be their boyfriend or to merry them but I always say no, idk i guess I'm not interested in relationship for some reason? All I can think off (will sometimes) is to help my mom and leave with her and help her like she raised me when I was her little boy, don't get me wrong she can afford to leave on her own but she has a tough job (and especially she 59) so yeah is it embarrassing and bad to leave with my mom also is it weird that I don't find relationship ( husband and wife ) not interested?. Thanks. |
| Question: How do I Devorce my lama? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:41 PM PST Me and my wife lama was great dating but then she started getting naggy when we got married and even worst wouldn't let me give the children to the devil worshipers what do I do |
| Question: Is my husband cheating on me...again? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:39 PM PST Ok so, I am a Marine and left to Australia for a deployment for a few months, I come back and he admits he had an affair, and had sex with some girl. This was back in July-August. I already forgave him for it and went through the drama and emotions and gave him a second chance. He started having symptoms of gonorrhea in December!... he tested positive and I tested myself and I was positive too, from him. I've done some research and it says typically 2-14 days you'll see symptons in men, but up to 30 days. It's been 4-5 months since it happened. Now, I never had an affair with him so I know it's not me. Does this mean he's still fooling around? :[ please let me know if it's possible that these symptoms could take so long. |
| Question: Agree or disagree: it is better to get married young (under 25)? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:31 PM PST |
| Question: To be or not to be masculine ?? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:31 PM PST My husband claims that I have emasculated him by not kicking my adult son (works plus going to school and helps out with bills/groceries) out of the house. They recently got into an argument. The husband pays for our car insurance, only washes his and his child's laundry, and cooks for himself (unless wanting to try out a recipe that is big enough for more than him). He works part-time but that money goes to his ex for child support. He attends college. When he isn't doing any of the above he is laying in bed watching youtube and netflix. I work full time, help care, and get to/from school for his child when he is working or school, as well as do the communal laundry (towels etc). I believe in equality. 50/50 for all involved and we argue about his lack of help and expectations often. I don't know if he brought this on himself or he expects to be the man on the throne (the latter is not something I can tolerate). Any thoughts? |
| Question: Divorce or son? Whose side? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 01:17 PM PST Adult son has recently moved back is so he could go to school. His step-father (married 2 years) and I were in a heated argument where the husband started cussing at me. The adult son hollered to stop treating his mother that way as the son came into the living room where I was. The husband came into the living room from the kitchen and got into my son's face/space, yelling at him to stay out of the argument, pointing his finger in my son's face, and threatening to beat him up. (My son is 6'6 and young as the husband is in 40's and overweight). I got in between them. The husband stepped back several feet and started accusing the son of getting in his face and all the things he had personally done while the son never moved an inch from the spot in the living room. I agree the son probably should not have intervened, however, the husband is the one that escalated the argument, made threats, and blamed my son for his actions. After about a week of avoiding and not talking to me, he demands my son move out or he is gone (aka divorce). Any thoughts????? |
| Question: I HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT MY HUSBAND HAVING KIDS? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 12:44 PM PST I don't hate the kids. I just hate that he had two kids before me and now we are married and we have a child of our own, and honestly I know THAT SPECIAL FEELING DOESN'T EXIST, on either side. I don't feel special for giving him his 3rd kid and I don't think he thinks it's special either. I feel like my chance at having my first child was ruined by those dirt bag ex girlfriends and of course him too. I also don't like how those woman are, so jealous and corny. One of them keeps his child away but sets him up by asking him to meet her because his kid is there, when he meets up with her, the kid is not around, Like WHY IN HELL SHOULD I REMAIN CALM ABOUT THIS?? I feel very selfish but I don't care, my kid and I deserve all his attention and that's that. I hate that his other "BABY MOMMA" thinks its so cute to facebook message my husband's sister and his mother- LIKE EXCUSE ME HOE BUT THEY ARE NOT YOUR IN LAWS, THEY ARE MY IN LAWS. WTFFFFF??!?!?!? Why do certain females think that because they breed with someone, it means they are family? Roaches breed everyday, so what. I have a household with my husband and actually have all the rights to consider MY family his ONLY family. And whats also making me so furious is that I'm expecting again, and I'm not as happy as I thought I would be because this is not what I imagined. What should I do about my emotional turmoil? Is it normal to feel this way? Has anyone experienced this before? WHY AM I SO ANGRY? |
| Question: How to get my soon to be mother in law to stop being so meddling between our lives? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 12:36 PM PST She always seems to find a way to interfere. My fiancé and I are both fed up with it. I'll give some examples. He's been going through a situation at work which he's in the process of handling it with his boss but now he has to make apologies at work because apparently when we invited her for Christmas dinner, she snooped through his phone and found out about it through a text conversation with his boss. Then the next day she looked up the company website apparently, dialed the contact number, and chewed the manager out for "being mean" to her son. Another example is when she called and asked my fiancé if she could visit. He said no and that he's taking me to the doctors for surgery. She asked what kind and he answered honestly which was a hysterectomy because of ovarian cancer. Eventually, she started complaining to him and suggested he leave me for someone who could have kids. She's also been begging him to let her move back in. This is because she doesn't have a job, is about to get kicked out by some man she was living with (possibly dating), and she isn't seeking employment because she sings as a hobby at retirement homes and still thinks she's going to become famous and rich someday even though its been many years. My fiancé let her live with him for 3 years, before I moved in but once I did and we got engaged, he told her to move out and she's hated me since. My fiancé always told her how happy I make him but she always preferred his abusive ex (who he hates). "mothers are like this" Then how come my mom isn't? Heck, neither is my father. When I was a child yes, but once I turned 18 and moved out for college (and eventually in with my fiancé) they completely laid back, knowing I can do whatever the 'F' I want :) PS- for those of you who didn't read correctly. Yes he does stand up for me. He even yelled at her. He's told her to get out. He's ignored her calls before. But no matter what, she always finds a way (calling from a different number, researching info, stalking online, contacting people we know to get in-between our business, and showing up uninvited). She reminds me of my first ex-boyfriend... -_- |
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| Question: Wife wants A divorce I don't? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 12:18 PM PST My wife now wants a divorce because of me pushing her away while dealing with my alcoholism and depression. I got to the point where the depression drove me to the bottom of the bottle and wanting suicide and a divorce from her so she wouldn't have to live with this and be free. Now after learning to battle my depression better and working with sobriety I actually have self worth and know what I want. To fix this marriage. But I have pushed her too far in my selfish ways where it seems that it is inevitable that she wants it. Also she is "talking" to another guy. Which we both wanted in the beginning and I've tried to see other women but it can't work because all i can think of is how much i wish they were devon (my wife). I feel like if I really love her i will be content with letting her go. But it hurts so bad and I just want our marriage to work. I thought marriage was supposed to be hard but i know my actions have forced this. What do i do? I want her back but I want to be happy and right now I feel like she wants to be happy with out me. And she says she is but when i look into her eyes i dont see it. She says she is only that way towards me though she admits she has closed off her emotions. She also gets mad at me if i mention not giving her alimony or paying her car insurance or phone bill until she gets on her feet. But if i want to let go completely all ties must be cut non of the remaining friends and coming to see me or whatever. Its so hard man idk what to do. |
| Question: My husband wants to bring our hamster on our honeymoon? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 12:15 PM PST My husband and I just got married 2 days ago. We are leaving tonight to go on our honeymoon and he is absolutely positive that we should pack our pet hamster in our carry on to bring him on the trip with us. I know that's not possible, but what can I say without offending him? |
| Question: My husband wont shower before bed! He has a gross job! HELP!!!!? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 12:03 PM PST My husband is a technician at a hospital. He feeds people, wipes butts, is around all kinds of illness and wont effing shower before bed. He smells bad, is sweaty, and it's gross because he is covered in germ! It's gotten to the point the entire bedroom smells bad. I woke him up in the middle of the night last night to make him clean the sheets because I can't do it anymore. I've told him over and over how it is disgusting and he doesn't get it. He just says it builds immune system, same for him wearing his hospital shoes around the house because "it's not like you don't step in dog poop and pee when you're out of the house." I don't even wear my shoes around the house anyways!!!! How do I get him to shower and actually FEAR SOME bacteria? |
| Question: What should I name my beta fish? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 11:40 AM PST I'm getting a beta fish today what should I name it |
| Question: Husband is working nights? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 11:29 AM PST My husband has started working nights, 12am-8am. And I work during the day. It gets lonely and boring the time we are together because he wants to sleep and if he isn't sleeping he's gaming and he doesn't want to do anything else. I try and keep busy and do my own thing but I would love to see and interact with my husband more. What are some things I can do to try and get some attention while we have time together? |
| Question: I collect 347 a month. my husband gets 1200. if he dies what would i get? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 10:48 AM PST |
| Question: My wife gets incredibly jealous what causes this? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 10:32 AM PST Last night I was texting one of my friends that's a girl who I thought was a lesbian. I told my wife as long as she won't text any guys I won't talk to any girls. Anyways, I thought this girl wasnt a big deal because she was a lesbian. My wife had her head turned so I quickly responded and she looked back and said, "who was that?" She's 30 weeks pregnant, but then she made me ask her if she liked me and she said she didn't know if she did now but she used too. I had no idea of this, and then my wife was mad because I sent this girl a message "I'm about to go lay down with her" and this girl said "fun" so I just said "oh yeah totally." Are these just pregnancy hormones? I really don't see a big deal about it. |
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| Question: Can Grand Child"s husband have Z-Plan? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 09:16 AM PST |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 09:12 AM PST When people think "the man should be OLDER" ---------that's stupid. by the time we're adults our bodies have matured about the same. And did you know........ Princess Catherine (Kate Middleton) is six months OLDER than Prince William? God forbid the woman is slightly older!!!!! Jay Leno and Jimmy Fallon (the current and former hosts of the Tonight show) are both married to OLDER women and have had long-lasting marriages. It also seems to work for Denzel Washington and Nick Cannon, both of whom married older women. and Katie Couric's younger husband. The wrestler Brock Lesnar also married an older woman (Reno Mero) who was also a wrestler. |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:59 AM PST On December 4th, 2014 we conceived our first baby. I had a miscarriage and we lost him. On December 4th, 2015 my husband was getting a massage from a 19 year-old and he felt a sense of attraction. (I ve come to discover that she was actually pursuing him and intended for it to go that way). After the massage, they shared a long, deep hug. She caressed his arm and he caressed hers back. She said she wanted to explore his body and he returned the sentiment. She took his hands and brushed them up against her breasts a few times and he let her. And then he pulled away and told her he needed to come home to me. I consider this cheating. I just realized this morning that this event happened on the anniversary of when we conceived Raphy. (We named him Raphael). I m having a hard time forgiving this. What would you do? |
| Question: Need a non-bias opinion on my marriage? Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:44 AM PST We have been together for 6 yrs but married for 2, no it isn't perfect but I do love him. I can't really ask my family because they don't like him. He is distant with my family and not forgetting that my sister and his brother just went through a nasty divorce. He is a very selfish person and he doesn't have the same family/marriage morals that I have. We were split up for 8 days and he did have an affair, he blames me for leaving. I left due to him getting drunk and very aggressive with me. I know it a lot of my fault because I allow him to treat me like this and I keep coming back to him. This past week, I spent Christmas with his family and he agreed to go with me to mine, he didn't, then that Saturday afternoon was our great-nieces 1st birthday party, I went with my children while he went to his friends b-day party. Do I just say enough is enough and leave? I don't trust him, everything that is wrong he blames me. I really only work and stay home. He has messages that comes in late at night but since he doesn't reply it's shouldn't be a problem or calls and he says it's the wrong #, but if the tables were turned, he'd break my phone. He pays the rent and my car, he makes $1000 a week, I pay for my three children, my son's truck while he is in college, lights, WiFi, satellite, trash service, five phones, (mine, my 3 children and my moms) He gets so mad if I help my 20 yr old son in college but he bought a truck for his brother 36 yrs old, that has a wife and two children. |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:15 AM PST The drive is not bad it's abt 10 hours and they still on their 40's or the bus.My husband broke down a couple of months ago and told them (the in) that he felt alone and missed them so much.He wanted them to come up here and visit, just like they do with their other kids. They gave him some reasons why,they are unable to visit and I felt so sorry for my in laws and my husband. So on 11/28 break we drove 10 hours their home; He complained all the way going to Mexico and all the way back because of the drive, but I wanted him to be with his family. How I said before,my husband broke down and told his family to visit him more, he even felt like he was begging for it. So Christmas was the next option for them to visit.Well, no they actually had a party in the home and invited us, but my husband told them that it was impossible for us to go. We really needed to stay home and rest, with the move and work it was just too much.Now NYrs is around and they have not mention coming up here at all.I also feel like that is enough we have asked so many times, we have offer all we have and they still declined.1 of the reasons they were unable to come was due to not having money or a car. I have offer to get a rental and pay for gas, but they declined. I mean in the past, they just don't want to take our money.Should I offer them to come up here and pay all expenses?or should I just butt out and let his family deal with it? It is creating a brick wall between him and to be honest with me too |
| Posted: 28 Dec 2015 08:13 AM PST I tried to show my husband the below video about the residents of Portersville,California.Because of the historic drought their town has completely run dry of water. Their water suppllies have to be trucked in to them. My husband isn't the only person who has refused to listen to the stories of plight from California residents suffering from the ongoing. Tell me what's wrong with our society? http://ktla.com/2015/11/09/500-families-out-of-water-in-one-california-town-hit-hard-by-drought/ |
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