I've posted this q twice accidently without info so here's what you need to know. I'm in my final year of college and I've been stuck sharing a room. I didn't know my roommate before college but I know the other housemates very well and we're all best friends. I didn't room with this girl thinking we'd become soul sisters so I just was nice and friendly to her at the beginning. We're in different courses and I have a solid friend group but she doesn't have many friends in her own course so she's trying to squeeze her way into mine even though she should be focused on her own people. The girl is not my kind of person. She's clingy and texts me every day asking questions about things she could easily Google and wondering what my plans are. She knows I have close friends both inside and outside our apartment and I've made it clear I don't need new people in my life right now. I want to let her know we're not going to be best friends but I can't be mean about it at all because that's now who I am. I just need to slowly show her that she's not number one in my life and she probably won't be either. Help me please.

Firstly, I am a guy!!! And, honestly, I'm not good to make friend. But let's go. This semester, a new guy came on my class on college. He is cute (my opinion), and very intelligent. So, a girl who sit next to me, got angry with his questions at class, and just said how much he is boring, stupid and things like that. And me, I just got mad at him too, without know him. I created a bad image about him, and I got mad for all semester. However, in november, my friend (other girl), told me that he praised me so much to her. She advised me to take a chance to know him better. I did it, and I realized I was very very wrong. He's really cool. Honestly, the coolest guy who I met on that college. In two weeks of "friendship", he did for me what no one on my college would never do. I feel bad, because I judged him for months. Maybe we'd be friends right now, if I'd did the contrary. Moreover, we have a lot in commom. It makes me feel less alien at college hahaha. He also study on vacations... The last time I talked to him, was on whatsapp, saturday at night. I just asked him to help me on a subject that I have trouble. And since then, we don't talk. I wanna talk more to him, but we're on vacations. I don't know what I talk... about the studies, or take a doubt? No.. I'm afraid to start talking, and he finds me so boring and block me or stuff... How I approach him, get his real friendship, without being boring?

Okay, so I have this close friend and he is annoying and not very popular. I am having a going away party because I am moving next week. I think I should invite him because we are close but I don t really want to because though we are close he is not the person I want to invite over to my house. I feel bad not inviting him though. Should I invite him over so he doesn t feel left out?

I've been cutting myself and this is the first time. My friends have started to exclude me in a lot of things. I've had "friends" like that before, they act like they're your friend and then ditch you. I want to talk to a teacher, counselor, or a friend about the cutting but i'm afraid they'll tell my parents. I don't want my parents to find out because my moms a pastor and i'll get a super long lecture and all of that stuff.

So I have this friend from last year, or we used to be friends. We were SBOs together, texted each other, I know he liked me for a bit. I missed him so much over the summer. Just by the end of the school year we weren't nearly as close because I felt like he wasn't contributing enough to the friendship and I didn't want to keep trying so hard to become better friends when he didn't see me the same way I saw him. I loved his company, the way I felt around him, everything, but just as a friend. Anyways, I missed him in the summer, and then he went to high school, and I am still in junior Hugh because he's older. I was so excited to see him at the alumni game, but the game was kind of a flop. He was talking to me, then he asked where our friend was (he liked her better, they were friends for longer, she's a reason why I didn't want to be friends with him) and when i said she left he left. He said he had no friends here. It made me feel terrible. He comments on my insta, he even commented the "fire" emoji ( maybe he meant I looked hot) but I don't care. How do I let him go? I'm so heart broken and guilty because I felt like I could've made things better with us and SBO was the only thing holding us together. I know things won't be the same because with high school next year we won't be as close. How do I let him go? I know he doesn't deserve my time but how do I fix my broken heart?

so i have no problem making friends, i can talk to new people easily and i am sure that people like me when they first get to know me, I'm nice and funny to people...but after awhile people tend to drift away from me, and i don't know why. i can have so many friends but not really bond or connect with anyone. the only person i feel bonded with is my boyfriend. anyone experience a similar issue? any tips?

I wouldn't say I'm super annoying or anything, but I kind of see myself as annoying sometimes. How can I have a better personality?

There's this friend group I want to be in. We're in 9th grade, last year of junior High. My crush is in it, and they all seem to be really cool people. I don't really have a friend group I kinda just wander around different groups and it makes me feel lonely because when a friend is in a big group convo I feel like I can't approach them because I'm not familiar with them. There's some from the group in some classes? How should I do it? Things aren't moving too fast with my crush, I think he likes me but I don't think I like him anymore. How do I make friends?

So we got into a fight and now we're not friends it's been 6 months now and she wanted to talk one time, so we were talking about the fight and then the last sentence she said was " you know what, I tried to be friends with you again but I guess it's not working out for you so let's just go our separate ways" OUCH!! I was kinda a lit jerky but so was she. She's been my best friend since we were born and now I've lost her! From that day forth, I kept tring to make her jealous. By laughing in front of her, being all funny, and tripping/falling. I'm a funny person and she knew that. And I'm tring to make her jealous is that a bad thing? I want to be friends again because since we weren't friends. Everything sunk, the fiends that I hung out with that isn't hanging out with me anymore because it's too awkward for them to hang with both me and my ex bestie. So there gone as well. SO SORRY this is so long but I had to get some advice. Anyway what do I do? I'm not going to ask if we can be friends again because I miss her, but I am waiting for her to miss me. What do I do? Thanks!

So I have this friend who I thought I've been becoming really good friends with. We talk occasionally, and we talk about intersting things and hang out occasionally, but I've noticed one thing. The friendship revolves around a lot around my marijuana. We're in college, I'm a sophomore, he's a junior. So like, he hits me up occasionally when I have bud to smoke, and I don't mind providing, but I feel like my friend only likes me for weed and not me. He has normal relationshipa with other people without weed, but not me. Today he asked to smoke and I said I was busy and he was like "oh come on I'm running low on weed and I need to get high to work on my presentation," and I feel like that's a red flag. I feel like he assumes immature boring average person because I'm not a hippie, I don't play the guitar, or draw, or say witty ****, and I feel like he likes my weed, not me. What do you guys think?

My parents hate me.I hate myself too.I got in trouble exactly five times this year,and it's only been 3 months of school. 3 out of the 5 times are by the same damn teacher.My parents are right to be mad at me.I think i mostly am getting in trouble this year because of this one teacher (Teacher 1).She's the one i got into trouble 3/5 times with.I got in trouble with her once, now i'm pretty sure she's very judgmental of me and she doubts me.A LOT. So today i got in trouble by her,for something really silly.Some teacher just felt I was being too loud in the computer lab,so she reported me to the Teacher 1 and she added a bunch of random BS to it and half the stuff she told teacher 1 wasn't true.I got in trouble AGAIN.I was pissed,at myself,at the school,at everything.I haven't gotten in trouble for 4 WEEKS and i felt i was doing really good in getting myself back together,and this had to come up. It's literally nothing,and the teacher 1 was already biased about me to start with.And on top of me getting in trouble again for disciplinary reasons,my parents got even more upset that i didn't tell them that i got in trouble again right away I was having panic attacks since I have anxiety,so this was keeping me from telling them. now i feel like a COWARD,they are REALLY upset HOW CAN I MAKE THIS UP FOR MY PARENTS.I FEEL LIKE A HORRIBLE DAUGHTER,FRIEND, STUDENT.I'VE BEEN WANTING TO START WITH A CLEAN SLATE FOR THE PAST 2 WEEKS BUT INSTEAD ALL PEOPLE WANT TO DO IS CONTINUE JUDGING ME

Okay so this morning, I woke up early and I had to go to the store to get something. It was foggy and dark outside, and as I was walking, there was this lightskined African-American who was in his either earlier or late thirties who was on a bike. He saw me, checked me out and said " hey Kitty" and I just I ignored him. I told one of my friends and asked her if I should tell my mom and she said that it's up to me and my friend also said that she can't make decisions for me. Should I tell my mom? Also I know my mom and she would probably freak out and tell my dad and I don't want my dad to find out.

When people first look at me, they say I look extremely bitchy. When they meet me they say I'm just really mean. Lately I have been wanting to change and be nice. My sister told me that my group of friends dont like me cause Im really mean. I never purposely act mean and I wanna be nice as possible, but my face really affects it. Since I look mean I guess they think I am mean, cause everyone always offends everyone in my group but everyone says that Im the only mean one! Also, they say that im sassy and give atittude. For example a teacher came by our lunch table and I talked to her about her dogs, and when she left my friends said I was giving her attitude but I DIDNT MEAN TO! I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW I WAS GIVING ATTITUDE. How do i stop? I really wanna start being like-able, or are my friends too sensitive, or do they just not like me as a person. I have been feeling so lonely lately... :'(

Ok, so this was just a chain of bad luck. (My life in a sentence.) So yeah her phone was already completely shattered, and then, at my house, she dropped it (no case) and the actual phone came out of the covering that keeps all the mechanisms and stuff in. Now, there are virtual lines goin through her phone and it's glitchy. I said "you hold it down and I'll pop it back in. (Only a popped out) but now it's even more shattered bc when I popped it in I broke more, and now you can barely click on her screen bc it won't work (it will work only sometimes) But it's not even over yet, she drops it again and now you can see the inside of the phone! I feel guilty, was it my fault? She blames me. Should I pay her back? she ISNT mad at me. But I feel like crap. Ps. I'm going to her bat mitzvah this weekend and my friend and I are each giving 154 dollars as a gift.

Hi everyone, so I know this is going to seem stupid... There's this friend of mine, she is much younger and prettier than me and apparently she won a huge amount of money (she was already wealthy before) and I can't just help feeling like crap. She won't have to work part-time anymore like us students, I'm struggling paying my bills, and she just came and won everything that I really need. I don't want to seem like i'm seeking for attention or anything but I could really use a bit of advice because this was really hard to take for me... thanks to whoever will read this <3

These past few Decembers have been tough. It seems more an more that the people I felt closest to cannot spare time to be with me on my birthday. I understand since their own lives have grown. Tis the holiday season so there is less of time to spare. I just begin to feel so lost and so alone even though I just got married this November. My husband can't pull away from work because it's Christmas season. My birthday is on a Sunday, Dec. 20th. It's close to Christmas. Funds are extremely low (again tis the season) I just don't want to fall back into being a shut in on that day and no one to celebrate with on what's suppose to be a happy day. Can any suggest something? I can't drive for medical reasons so it's just the Bus for me. I live in the East Bay of California. Really, this entire year has been exhaughtingly difficult... to sum it up abandonment and lose is a good definition for this year with tiny specks of light. I am really not trying to sound pitiful; more hopeful/desperate. I honestly just want to feel happy this year regarding my birthday or at least not sad. Please sincerely help. =( - Turning 27

Long story short, friend 1 was not talking to me for 2 days and completely ignoring me but talking to everyone else. We had plans to go to a concert tonight but I told her that i wasn't going (something came up and its a priority). I asked friend 2 if she had mentioned anything to her about why she wasn't talking to me and she said no. This morning friend 1 was pretending like nothing had happened and asked me if we were still going to the concert and I told her that I wasn't, but I didn't provide an explanation. Then she told me "If you're wondering why I wasn't talking to you it's because I was in a bad mood and because her grandpa was having surgery, didn't friend 2 tell you?" So I said "No, and I'm so sorry, you should have told me" and then she proceeded to say "I didn't want to tell you because you always joke about stuff" So I said "That's something serious so I wouldn't joke about it" and then I left and ignored her for the rest of the day. It's true I do joke a lot about stuff and I don't take small stuff too seriously, but when there has been a serious situation or something I've never joked about it, I've always been super serious about it. So I was really offended when she said that. I was also really offended that she wouldn't talk to me at all, but talked to everyone else, even though she didn't tell them her grandpa was in surgery. But what the worst part was that friend 2 asked me for my ticket to the concert so I said yeah. did i react appropriately? So I'm just really hurt right now and what should I do?

I need some simple bet ideas. Something like getting a phone number from a boy. Something fast and we can do at school. We are not betting money but buying ice cream for the winner on our field trip XD. Dont get the wrong idea

So basically, wit was recess and I was walking down the field with my friends, but then we got stuck in mud and it was like almost impossible to ift up our feet from the mud. Then, one of my other friends saw us and tried pulling us out but she fell and got stuck in the mud too. Then the vice principal came and yelled at us for no reason and called all of our parents. It wasn't our fault for getting stuck n mud, she thought we were faking.

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So, i am a 17 year old girl. at the first 2 years i had two friends in my class but i never really felt that I was their friend, they would hang out in school with me but thats all. Then, rule to my school is that after the two years we have to chose social or science class. i chose social. At this class I knew none. now its been two months in this class and i have no friends. I sit with a girl but theres no click we have nothing in common to talk and im also a quiet person with people im nt close. Its very hard to make friends in this class because they have known each other for more than 2 years and the groups are formed. I feel so so lonely there, I have none to go for lunch so i usually buy food before i go to school..pathetic yeah and i stay mostly on my phone...In school i have a few friends but not in class.I have a close friend but she is in another school we do hang out sometimes and i love her very much. But other than her i dont feel like i have friends. I feel like my whole life i have been lonely. And Since i dont have friends in high school where you mostly make friends i feel like i will be lonely for the rest of my life and it makes me so sad. I dont know why i ended up like this.. I dont know if i can survive anymore. Help Update: Everyone mostly has thier friends in my school and its really hard for me to make friends in my class. I see everyone hanging out with thier friends and im all alone. I mean,im nice to people, im not that pretty but im not ugly either. i dont know why i dont have friends. Im not negative. I feel so sad that im so lonely

Im not really a shy person, but this girl in my Physics class just switches on my awkwardness. So to be honest, i got no idea why she talks to me. She is the hottest person in the grade and i thought she would be a b**ch and stuff like that but it turns out she's really nice. So her and her best friend in the class just talk to me which is cool and we have our own Physics groupchat with just us. BUT, there are just some stuff they ask and i just get so awkward cuz my best friend is in the class and whenever they talk to me he just turns around and winks and its annoying as hell. anyway, today i was asking my friend for a ride to this physics olympics thing an hour away for extra credit and she was just like oh ill take u, and of course me being me i was just like na i'm good, and just awkwardly started smiling/ laughing and she jokingly said wow i just got shut down, and then she said fine i take that back, you cant get a ride. I said no cuz stuck in a car with her for an hour when im already awkward like that seems kinda risky. The thing is, i actually do need a ride from her since none of my friends can go. How can i ask her again and what can i do not to be so weird

My friend takes pride in making appallingly nasty jokes with everyone. She sent him a nasty one and he shot back with an (arguably) even nastier one. She claimed what he said wasn't a joke because it was too personal and says I should be worried and careful to trust him. He claimed he thought they were just joking around and is confused why she suddenly plugged the plug. Either way, he apologized profusely to both her and me. She has not apologized for anything and maintains she's an innocent victim. My bf and I have been together for 3 years and have been friends since middle school. I've been friends with the girl for nearly a decade. He's warned me about her for ages but has still made an effort to tolerate her because of me. She can't seem to get over it. It's stressing me out, and I don't know what to do anymore. To those who suspect I'm a teenager, we are all in our late 20s early 30s, sadly.

I'm a freshman at a uni, i'm a year older than my fellow freshmen because i changed majors and univerisities. I'm having trouble making friends. I study engineering, what not exactly is the most exciting field to make friends in. The biggest problem is that people are just childish, like straight out of highschool. I really don't understand them. I have a few real friends here and there, but they usually stick to their group (their groups had been formed in highschool already) and it's hard to break in those groups. Oftenly i don't even connect with them, they also take distance from anyone who isn't in their group and my friends never introduce me to their group so i have to do everything by myself. I just want a good group of friends to get drunk with, hit on girls and enjoy student life in general. Most of my class commutes back home every day, i find it very sad, they don't know what being a student is. Last year i wet to a small college where everyone knew everyone and i always had good friends around me. We spent all our time after class together. It's what i really am missing right now. It really sometimes gets the best of me. It's hard to wake up early to go to class to be surrounded by loud immature children trying to impress one another. Those big classrooms are the worst. How do i make friends there? It's completely random who i end up sitting next to. Most people come in with their highschool clique and talk to no one else. I've tried communities.

My friend is going through a very hard time and her parents told everyone about it. We live in a fairly small town so people are friends and such but I don't think they should have told. Basically my friend was abused and ended up carrying a child but the child is no longer with her. Now a lot of people are upset and I want to help my friend but I can't when her parents are the ones going around telling people...

Es una chica normal como cada uno de nosotros va a la preparatoria, regresa a su casa es su rutina diaria... pero ella es demasiado desiria, no habla, nadie le habla, le tiene miedo hacer amigos, tiene muy pocas "amigas", ella ya no esta segura de que lo sean, por como son con ella, si la molestan que bueno que sigan, si es a ellas o alguna de ellas a la que molestan, van todas a defender a una,no les tiene confianza,ellas nunca notan su ausencia, si la ven sola les da lo mismo, nunca le preguntan como se siente, si le pasa algo, a ellas les da lo mismo, en la escuela la suelen agredir, ofender, juzgar de p*ta aunque ni la conozcan, ella siente que no vale, nunca a tenido novio por tener miedo a que la vuelvan a lastimar, ella ya no se enamora, para ella eso ahora no importa,en la escuela le va bien menos en una materia,la maestra de esa clase se vurla de ella, la juzga de no saber nada, en fin la reprobo, se siente pesíma por que le dijo que le hiba a cambiar la calificación y cuando ella se retiro susurro que no lo hiba hacer por que no se lo merece, es demasiado injusta, además de que no sabe dar sus clases... ella a llegado a llorar en la escuela pero nadie lo a notado...Yo se que en algun momento ella se va hartar de lo que le pasa y no se que pueda ser de ella.. ayudenme por favor .. que le puedo decir .

Last night I found out my best friend wants to be more than friends. I don't think we should and today I tried to talk to him about it and he wouldn't listen to me and he wouldn't talk to me or anyone else. He just texted me and told me that he was done talking to people and tomorrow he's not going to speak to anyone unless he needs to. I don't want him to stop talking to me and our friends but I don't know what to do. Please help. What should I say to him?

Me and 2 friend was at breakfast. There was a text message that my friend had and it said that someone wanted to fight me (Not phsically) The bully came for breakfast and he acted he was happy then I said "My friend showed me the text message". The bully said "Oh yea". And he wanted to "Dis" me. He said some few comebacks and I said to him im nice I don't bully. He keeps saying a few comebacks. When we were going to class cause he was in a different one he said "It's called Self Defense". I went home and said "How is this self defense this guy was straight up bullying me". Is this self defense?

My teammates and I are doing secret santa this week. We're supposed to do two small gifts today and tomorrow and one big gift Thursday. I thought it would be a good idea to give the girl I pulled some eos chapstick. No one specified what a "little gift" was and she had chapstick on her list. Now that I've reflected on it, I feel like an IDIOT!! When she opened it, she looked soooo disappointed. She seriously cried. I feel like the stupidest, cheapest, most inconsiderate person in the world. What should I do? I can still have to get her one small gift and one big gift.

Ok so this started about 2 and a half weeks ago, my best friend and her other best friend (I'm a guy) got mad at me because I told her that she was going to take me home for the week because I didn't have a ride and she was okay with that in the beginning when I asked her but at the end of the day when she was with her other best friend they got mad at me and basically ignored and told me to shut up every time I would say something and so then about an hour after they dropped me off I texted my best friend and asked her why she was being so mean and telling me to shut up everytime I would say something and she blocked me on texting and so I direct messaged her again on Twitter and asked the same thing there and then she blocked me on that so then I did the same on snapchat and she blocked me on that and then I did the same thing on Instagram and she didn't block me but she didn't reply so I gave up and I asked her best friend why she was mad at me and she basically went off on me saying "you really need to get off her ***. She's not going to reply at all. All you do is talk and your supper annoying and disrespectful" and so then she blocked me and then I gave up. I didn't talk to either up the, for about 2 weeks until today, I apologized for being mean even though I don't think I was being mean at all (I didn't say that I just said I'm sorry for being a d*ck) and She said its all good don't worry about it and then I asked her to unblock me and she said okay (EXTENSION 1 read naming story then this!)She unblocked me about 5 hours after I asked her to. So I texted her and I thought I was still blocked when I texted her because she never replied and so jokingly I had a conversation with my self because i thought I was still blocked but I wasn't and so I sent about 30 texts to her thinking I was still blocked and she was never get them but she did (I didn't say anything mean or anything about her at all) and then she blocked me again. (EXTENSION 2 read 1 first) That's where I am at right now, please help she is my best friend and it is making me supper sad and depressed. Also I have a class with her and she sits right next to me and once we got in a fight and started ignoring eachother she started to act like the guy who sits In front of us was her new best friend but I know they never talk outside of class.

We dated for three years in college, then started long distance when I went to veterinary school. One time while I was visiting him, I went through his text messages and found out he "took another girl home". When I confronted him and was about to break up with him, he claimed it was just a kiss. He begged for me back, saying I was his only love, the most serious relationship he's ever had, etc, and I took him back. Then later I got randomly jealous of some girl I saw he added on facebook. That triggered him to say he "can't do long distance for four years and put his life on hold anymore, it's too hard being away from me." He was crying the whole time. I begged for him to take me back, and he did. Then a couple weeks later, the girl I was suspicious of messaged me that she had been on several dates with him and they had had an hour long hook up/grinding session. As soon as she discovered he had a girlfriend, she ended it. I contacted him angrily and called him an *** hole. He said he was so sorry, he knew i could never forgive him, and I deserve someone better. But he would always love me and care about me. I know that all of this makes it sound like he didn't really like me, but throughout the 3 years we dated he wanted to be with me constantly, texted/called me 24/7, told me I was his one and only love, he loved me so much, etc. He was crazy for me. Now, I keep trying to talk to him, and he barely responds. I stopped trying, and he hasn't spoken to me in weeks. Why?

I lost a bet, don't ask.

I just turned 13 and I am in the 7th grade. Both of my friends are girl scouts and I would like to join them. I also want to have something on my College applications that will increase my probability of getting into a good school. Also who do I contact because the girl scouts head quarters is an hour away. Also can I pick which troop I want to be part of? Also how much does it cost?

i'm 25, but my friends aren't the type to go partying (not even bars or lounges), so we usually watch a movie or go out to eat. I feel kind of sad when i see other people's pictures i feel like EVERYONE is out partying...i used to go when i was in college because my roommates went but now i'm engaged and life is kind of different, but i feel like i'm missing out because even my fiance goes out for a drink with his friends once in a while :/

My family is having a party, my dad invited one of his friends from North Carolina(who has a son that s around my age and super cute) I want to know some great conversation starters, to have with his son. We are both really religious so nothing that about music(such as taylor swift, Drake, ect.) Please help me.

So my friends aren't the type to go to bars/clubs, I don't mind going once in a while but they never want to. We usually have dinner, go to the movies, hang out at home, etc. but whoever's instagram or facebook account i look at it's filled with pictures of drinks and parties and i feel so sad... Even my fiance goes out for a drink with his friend once every few months, but neither of us drink much so we can't even go together. I feel like i'm always studying and on the weekends i'm so tired that i just want to rest and I work on sat, sun. Is it really abnormal for someone my age (25) to not go to bars/lounges/clubs too often (i go like once a year for a birthday)..? What makes it sound like i'm just depressed?...

how come girls apparently don't like getting groped or catcalled?

My longtime boyfriend Jason was with me last week when we stopped over my Aunt's house when my eight year old cousin Amanda got a spanking after school. Jason since then has teased me about getting a spanking how my cousin did. I think Jason is being ignorant? Amanda had her sweater on but her skort was taken off. Jason seen my cousin laying over my Aunt's lap in her white nylon underpants as we were leaving. He seemed excited by hearing my Aunt saying "panty spank" before each time she ....well spanked Amanda on her pantied bottom. Now he teases me about giving me panty spanks. Why would he make fun of my aunt or cousin? Is it weird if I let him spank me?

One of my best friends is on the yearbook club and has a huge crush on another teen in our grade (we're 13-14 in 8th grade), so she takes random pictures of him doing school stuff, like playing his trumpet, and uploads them to her file to print out and keep in her room. Is this allowed? I don't want my friend to get in trouble. Our school has a "no personal pictures" policy and I'm not sure if the photos count as personal since she's using the school owned cameras to take the pictures.

But she still comes home crying that the girls are still treating her like crap. We just moved to Indiana and she can't seem to find the right friends. My heart breaks for her and I tell her not to listen to them and don't say anything mean back or else that will stir the pot. Anyone have any other advice that I could tell her? She is in 5th grade and is 10 years old

well im 15 and u probably think im overreacting. My life since I moved into anew country has been terrible. My life used to be like a doll house I didnt care about anything and know im worried about exams. I know everyone feels that but on top of that . I do not have the same relationships with my parents they shout at me all the time, I'm not perfect daughter I always act to be one but if I do a mistake they make it seem as a major sin. In school, I do not trust anyone anymore veryone somehow hurst me. Now people pick on me sometimes because of the past. I used to be very cheeky with my friends and all to people and I guess i did a very bad image to myself but know I lost my friend so I basically run away from everyone that I annoyed or laughed accidently at because they will pick on me.

For some people who are loners and have no friends. The thing is they act arrogant and rude as hell. Like "I tell it as it is" kind of people, but if you say anything about them they get all offended and act like you are bullying them.

I will be graduating this year and leaving to university. I'm really scared of saying goodbye, most of my friends will be going to different universities, and I know that even if we promise to keep in touch life will get in the way. The thing is that I had a really hard time during my first year of high school, but then I managed to make a amazing group of friends for the first time in my life. I feel safe and happy with them and it's really scary to imagine what next year is going to be like. So do you have any advice that could help me ? Thanks !

Every time we go eat she takes 30+ mins to eat a meal when we get the food. I'm done and she's still eating half of her food. And if it's a burger she'll eat that first and then eat the fries last so it makes it take even longer. I don't understand why? And it's not just me. When we go with a group of friends she's the last one eating we are eating at a pretty normal pace and not gulping our food. i just don't understand how someone can literally eat as slow as a turtle

Okay, so long story short, back in August, I was really depressed after being raped by someone I knew, and attempted suicide. I was driving on the road, and literally minutes before I was about to end my life, a cop pulled me over. He was really nice and drove me to the hospital, and since then, I decided to get the help I needed because I felt that what happened was for a reason. Well last week, I found the cop on facebook and thanked him on thanksgiving for helping save my life. He said he was really happy to hear from me and told me to come to the police department to see him in person. Well yesterday, I did just that. I bought him an engraved recognition trophy that read "the worlds greatest cop. Thank you for saving my life." I also gave the department a huge mason jar filled with different kinds of candy, and also a thank you letter for everything they did to not only help save my life, but change my life. Last night after I left, the cop thanked me a lot on facebook and even have me his number if I ever needed anything. He seemed fine and even told me to stop by again next Saturday for an event the department was having. Well today, I find out that he unfriended me and as the day went by, I found out he blocked me. I don't understand... Did I do something wrong? I'm very hurt and just want to know why.

Basically I've been friends with this person for nearly 4 years - we both helped each other through a lot of issues and I helped them integrate into my circle of friends so we all became quite close. But obviously as we've left school we don't see each other as much which was 3 years ago. They have a lot of health and issues and other issues and I have been really patient putting their needs in front of mine and basically being a therapist for 4 years. As a group of friends we don't leave them out and we try very hard to include everyone when we go out. If I don't message this person every day they get paranoid and think everyone hates them. And after 4 years it gets tiring because obviously no one hates them and we are just all so busy. The other week my friend got their mother to text us all.(we're in our 20s so it was very patronising). Basically spouting lies about how we don't try and we aren't good friends. (which is certainly not true seeing as I've stayed up many many nights calming my friend down from committing suicide). When my friend gets into argument with someone they like to talk about how for example the stress of the argument caused them to faint and nearly get knocked down. I just don't understand what I can do. I love this person very much but they seem to twist things, use their illness to make people feel guilty and cause unnecessary drama.

I need a social life. Moved a bit growing up & didn't make many friends. I'm not a big social butterfly to begin with but have a group of friends would be nice, or even one or two. I'm self employed part time & stay at home mom any other time.

I always hear the saying that everything bad will go away, but right now I am in a situation where I don't really like my class and only have my volleyball friends outside of school (who are really nice to me) my best friend who I always hang out with and a few people I talk to at school. So the last maybe two months, I've been starting to feel very depressed because everyone around me keeps telling me to make more friends, to reach out more and before this I was content with my friendships but with there constant nagging I've been getting more and more depressed to the point where I cry twice a week and feel so shitty if I hang out with my one best friend or something. I know the reason I don't have many friends atm is because I'm relatively new (one year ago I came to this school) here and these people and they're very stuck up and pretentious, so not being friends with them doesn't bother me but I feel very bad when I see other people around me who I kind of like but are either three years older or in another grade and I have a lot of social anxiety and don't know how to reach out. How do I ask one of my volleyball friends to hang out after practice? I feel very awkward and I don't even know what I would do.

i am not that typ of person who loses her things al the time.I think a friend of mine took it because I have better grades i am crying please help me how should i tell my teacher (my bff once lost her book now he hates her)

A threesome? Lol this girl wants to have ond with me and my friend adam.

So I'm 14 male and I like all kinds of music: AC/DC, CCR, etc. T-Pain, Akon, Etc. Toby Keith, Luke Bryan, Etc. All my friends like very recent stuff. I like hunting, fishing, boating, all kinds of outdoor stuff. My friends like to walk around their neighborhood and screw around. My friends like to play sports, I like to play fantasy sports. All kinds of stuff I like, they like the complete opposite. Is this bad? Do I need different friends?

My roommate and I ate coworkers. When my manager found out she was really mad. She doesn't like me at all. Anyways she promoted my roommate to manager and said we can't be roommates anymore or she has to fire me. I understand it's a confit of interest but I think it's so messed up. Is this ok

I always hear the saying that everything bad will go away, but right now I am in a situation where I don't really like my class and only have my volleyball friends outside of school (who are really nice to me) my best friend who I always hang out with and a few people I talk to at school. So the last maybe two months, I've been starting to feel very depressed because everyone around me keeps telling me to make more friends, to reach out more and before this I was content with my friendships but with there constant nagging I've been getting more and more depressed to the point where I cry twice a week and feel so shitty if I hang out with my one best friend or something. I know the reason I don't have many friends atm is because I'm relatively new (one year ago I came to this school) here and these people and they're very stuck up and pretentious, so not being friends with them doesn't bother me but I feel very bad when I see other people around me who I kind of like but are either three years older or in another grade and I have a lot of social anxiety and don't know how to reach out. How do I ask one of my volleyball friends to hang out after practice? I feel very awkward and I don't even know what I would do.

I'm 22 and I feel depressed all the time because I can't make friends. I've had about 3-4 friends since I was in high school. I still talk to them except for that they all go away to college except me who stayed and went to community college. It seems like all my friends away at college are having fun making new friends and I want to make friends so I can do things while my us friends are away at school but I feel like I just can't like its almost impossible for me to make new friends in a community college when people who go there don't seem really interested in making new friends. Like I will talk to people in my classes but it never gets to a friendship level. What should I do to make some new friends besides in college?

He told my mom that I smoke and ruined everything for me, my friend offered to have him jumped and beaten and I accepted. That's what he deserves for snitching.

I got lunch with my friend ally and when I came back my friend Ava said "why d you come back Did she ditch you?" And laughed and I snapped and said "I m friends with her deal with it ok" and she hasn t talked to me since. Was I wrong in snapping? She always say as these snide things about ally and idk what to do.