I have a full time job but I got laid off for a month. I'm currently on unemployment and searching for jobs. I don't exactly want a job but If I were to be hired I guess id take it. The reason I don't really want a job is it's just stressful for me to learn new things. Also, I'm just a little lazy.I live with my mom and pay her 400 a month. That's why I'm going on unemployment because she is on a two week break. People have told me I'm a loser and scum for not wanting to get a job while laid off. I don't want to be that kind of person. I really took that to heart. Do you think they are right?

My uncle gave my dad advice to divorce his mentally ill wife after 20 years of marriage. He told him about how everyone in America only cares about themselves. I could have prevented the divorce but i didn't speak up because i was too scared. I also ignored my mom when she would call me because i wanted to be on my dad's side. I am also a bit on the slow side so even though i am 19 i should be moving out into my own place, that won't happen because i can't be dependent. If i had prevented the divorce i could live in my house the whole life with only doing minimal work. Now my step mom wants me out of the house and my dad doesn't love me anymore.

It's more like grabbing him by the shirt and backing him on the wall during an argument. But that's all. We're both 16 (well I'll be turning 17 within 3 weeks). Just that he stresses me out sometimes and at times I feel I'm not listened to, so that's sort of the only way to get his attention. But I'm having a hard time of whether that's still wrong. I guess it's because I'm not really some brute, intimidating person; I'm only 5'5 while he's 5'10 and it's not often. But the argument doesn't last too long. Afterwards everything is back to normal again.

I heard her yelling at him, "I want u to have sex with me! I'm nearly 30, I want a baby now!" Why didn't she leave him and find another man to have a baby with???

So my dad called me while I was in college after 4 years of not seeing him after the divorce. He wants me to come to a Christmas party and meet his new fiancee and see the rest of the family. This is an extremely awkward situation for me and I honestly would rather just not go. What should I do?

Long story short. lost my vision freshman year in injury & went blind for 1 year needed 3 surgeries! got vision back before sophomore year. (I'm visually impaired) .. I met a freshman johnny in my class. He's very mature & sweet. he volunteered to help walk me to class (couldn't see well). We started talking/texting, saying how beautiful I am & how my impairment didn't faze him, I liked him so much, we both did.. He took me to homecoming, we started to get very close. He told me he never went out with one. Neither have I with a guy. He came Over for a movie night, he held my hand.. It was so special we both wanted to have another! he lived it so much.. 2 weeks later (the week his sister passed 3 yrs ago) he just stopped walking me, he wouldn't talk to me.. I don't even know why, he never told me anything. I know I didn't do anything wrong..our moms always hung out in the summer so I'd always see him & he's say hi, give hugs..it's junior year & he's a sophomore. We see each other in the hall ways, he always comes to hug me & we talk.. Today I gave him a candy cane & a note thanking him for the movie night we had, how it meant a lot to me & how maybe we can have another someday.. (Momo died so I want loved ones to know they're special to me) when I gave it to him his face lit up with happiness & he gave me a big hug & told me he loved it so much.. I've never seen him so happy, it was honestly magical.. What do you think he thought of it? do you think there is hope?

Boyfriend/Girlfriend: Friends: Family: Choose a number for each one please(;

Such as Grandmother and Grandfather, Granny and Pop, Grandma and Grandpa, etc. I call my grandparents O'mama and O'papa. I call my other grandma Paw-Paw. I'm not really sure how to actually spell it. Paw-Paw is Cantonese. I'm part Cantonese. I don't have another grandpa because he died when I was a few days old. I never really got to know him. :(

Though I found this out 5 months ago (he was then 16) and obviously dumped her, this is still kind fresh to me. He has apologized several times and because he's a kid and still my brother, I don't hold grudges against him. But yes, it was very low what he did. I ended up punching him once and then breaking his guitar (what he loves the most) when I found out. I haven't brought the subject to him because well I don't want to think about it at this moment but yes I'm still hurt. At the same time, it really sucks I have such a crappy brother. I was his age once too and I never would have done what he did, not even to a friend. I ditched that cheating whore when I found out. She's out of my life. There is nothing to talk about with her.

how do i get my blood test reust's from dad's family memebr. . i said my heart hurt's and he just dosnet care. . for my mom. .

i met this guy online 2 days ago, He was the one who send me the first message. his really sweet and seems like a great guy but we haven't met in person yet. we were texting for about 5 hrs last night and he was moving kinda fast. he said i was special and he wants to be taken by me. he called me his girlfriend. he told me that his a good man, and faithful. i told him that he has to prove everything to me and he said he will

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I have a 16yr old and a 20yr old girl second cousins. we've only seen each other a few times and my dad said we might see them today. we are planning to take the 1969 Chevrolet Camaro SS (dark blue convertible with black interior) so we ride in style (they live in a very very wealthy neighborhood). I know for a fact they have a pool so I can bring a swim suit and my portable speakers. what should we do together? a ride in the Camaro? any ideas?

This girl that I have been friends with since 2010,we stayed friends without messing around sexually until 2013.On 3 separate occasions she told me that she feels we should stop messing around at first it was because we are both in church and this is not right, we are not married.Then it became we should not be doing this because we are not in a relationship.But we ended up messing around, one day after we had eaten at a restaurant, she comes to me to tell me that shes horny and wants to mess around.6 months later we hang out and had planned on going to a hotel to mess around, the day comes and she ends up telling me she does not want to mess around anymore, but I got her horny and we did it again.One day recently she messages me and tells me that if we continue to kiss then I would have to buy her dinner, because she considering it that we are casually dating and shes not one to be kissing her friends.I also asked her questions about how she looks at things when it comes to paying for dinner while just dating compared to being in a relationship,she asks me if i knew how i sounded by asking these ques.& if i felt embarased.she tells me that she feels that I don't value her as a friend because I have been kissing her and not in a relationship,can I say the same about her that even when I started it, she went along with it and even one time started to mess around with me. Is it really both of our faults because its not like I forced her to mess around with me.

OK so this guy cheated on fiancee who he has a kid with , it's not the first time he cheats on her. So the girl he's been sleeping with wants to be in a relationship with him calls him baby and all , p.s this girl left her husband for this guy. But this guy calls her when he's with ex fiancee and calls her all these nasty names , and that she's a whore and that's all she'll be, she cries leaves work and the next day ,they are talking like nothing happened, is the girl delusional? Because she use too not take any of that! Now this guy is a dick to her through text messages, but again next day she's talking to him , plus this guy really loves fiancee but can't stop sleeping with the other girl. Says he only sleeps with her to imagine and think it's his fiancee, now he told fiancee he's done and plans on being with the other girl, but that they are just talking for now oh and banging . This guy cheated in all relationships and as well as her. But she thinks he's changing for her! And he told fiancee he feels good about himself changing . Is this new "relationship " gonna last?

i met this guy online 2 days ago, He was the one who send me the first message. his really sweet and seems like a great guy but we haven't met in person yet. we were texting for about 5 hrs last night and he was moving kinda fast. he said i was special and he wants to be taken by me. he called me his girlfriend. he told me that his a good man, and faithful. i told him that he has to prove everything to me and he said he will.

I love dogs we being leaving together for 2 years now she likea english bulldog but they cost over 2000 i can t really afford paying that much money for a dog plus they get sick really fast they offer me a husky for $200 so I don t know if I should buy it or not what should I do?

i love my uncle so much he lives in USA and i live in india every year he comes once to meet us hes my dads cousin, everytime he comes i am always so excited this time he came i was really excited i gave him hug, kisses on his cheek strange thing is i kissed him on neck and rolled my hand all around his belly and i felt really sad when he was going i was about to cry but controlled cause i thought "he may think i am weirdo" do you guys do this to ur family members and i liked to give him back and head massage and told him how special he was for me and i told him that i love him we he was here for almost 3 days and i spent almost all time with him we went on walk and on bike ride etc etc and when he pats his hand on my head i felt so good while i was resting it on his belly what the **** is this is it normal never expirianced anything like this before with anyone in family i forgot to mention i am 19 years old male

If you had any bisexual experience, do you feel that only a man can gives you what you need from sexual desires, love and feelings or a girl can give you the same and maybe better??

im 18 start college next month never had a bf one of my crushes didnt like me back in 7h grade n in my senior year they guy either didnt like me or had a gf..i now like this guy at a warehouse at work im going to try to talk to him but as a friend becuz i feel like he wont like me n it will b weird or he will only like me as a friend..hes nice n funny i really want to make it work btw guys dont go up to me i wanna be close friends with a guy or flirt n be able to be together but i feel like that doesnt happen with me n i have bad luck..how would u react if u were a guy n a girl liked u at a warehouse? there r mostly men than girls btw im short look young im not ugly nor too hot or super pretty i feel like im only pretty with a dress n heels but thats it i sometimes see guys looking at me but they just look at me not approach me n i dont mind approaching guys i like to go after who i like

please only helpful answers, and no rude answers or criticizing answers the reason I am going to ask her if I can use some of her dresses is because my parents are religious and are completely against guys wearing girls clothes

So there's this guy that i used to be friends with (we were almost a "thing") about a year ago. We kind of ended off on weird/bad terms, and i haven't spoken to him since. He tried messaging me a few months ago, but i never replied, so he gave up. I randomly checked my facebook, and saw that he messaged me just yesterday. Should i reply back or just ignore? I'm afraid that if i do respond, he'll want to be friends again. The issue? He was always nice and loving with me, but when it came to others, he was very judgmental (which is a huge turn off). I do think about him sometimes, but i definitely dont want to be in a relationship with him. I told him many times in the nicest way possible that i only want to be friends, but he still says that he wants to be with me.... what should i do? Reply or ignore?

There has to be a reason for his behaviour... He's not just "weird"! i live next door and share a garage with this guy I've always secretly had a crush on... I've always been way to shy! . He works in the same building as me too ... That's wjere I first spotted him... we we have been living in the same building/work building for 3 years now... And it's always been awkward between us... Sometimes I get a little lost for words in his presence because I like him so much ... But then other times I will bump into him at home and I'm friendly... It's just sometimes I get anxiety... The thing is... He is different everytime I see him! Some days he will glance at me from across the room.... Other times I will walk past him and he won't look at me... Then other times he will smile and say hello... I don't get it! Recent example: - we had a brief but friendly chat in the driveway - 3 days later I walk into work... He's in the foyer... Walked straight past me looking at the ground... what the hell??? Why so hot and cold??? a little more about him: - he is good looking, sporty and seems confident with other ppl ... - he lives with his long term gf... Who is very overweight ... They both look miserable with each other and argue a bit... I heard he yell at him once, "I want u to have sex with me! I'm nearly 30, I want a baby now!" - we are all 29 years of age..

My stepdaughter said she was going to keep her baby, but all along she and her mother (my husband's ex-wife) planned the adoption behind our backs. Should we get a lawyer?

This is going to sound crazy and it is, but it's all true! I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. In 8th grade I had only one class with a guy and didn't even have a full conversation with him . We smiled and joked around with each other like twice , but never really interacted with one another . Anyways since 9th grade a haven't been able to go a whole day without thinking about him. We don't even go to the same school! I don't even think he knows my name. This is weird , but sometimes I have daydreams where we're older and married or dating . I difnt have a crush on him in 8th grade . So what's going on ? I'm seriously beginning to believe I'm a weirdo and have issues . I can't talk to anyone since non of my friends know him and I don't feel comfortable talking with my mom about it . Has this happened to anyone else ? How can I stop thinking about him; and what does this mean ? Thank you so much !

One of my coworkers works in one room and her kid is in another room that joins the room that I was in today and am often in. We have 1 playground for this age group and are all outside at the same time. She put her kid in time out and forced me to keep him there. He wriggled his way out of my arms and ran back over to her. I didn't want to hold him down too hard and hurt him. I tried to hold him there and did for a few minutes, but he got away. She yelled at me for letting him get away. Honestly it's her kid, I had 23 other kids to look after and didn't have to be making sure that hers was sitting in time out. In my mind she needed to get him to sit because she put him in time out. I didn't feel too bad for letting him get away even though it wasn't on purpose. The other teacher gave me a look like "is she serious right now?" So honestly this isn't just me. She does similar things every so often, but it's getting closer together. She has gone and told the boss that I haven't been helping before because I didn't do exactly what she told me to do. What should I do next time she does something like this? Thanks!

She's apologizing for really minor stuff, like our feet tapping under the table or something. And for stuff that doesn't need a sorry at all. It just started like a week ago and no one in the family knows why?

Long story short. lost my vision freshman year in injury & went blind for 1 year needed 3 surgeries! got vision back before sophomore year. (I'm visually impaired) .. I met a freshman johnny in my class. He's very mature & sweet. he volunteered to help walk me to class (couldn't see well). We started talking/texting, saying how beautiful I am & how my impairment didn't faze him, I liked him so much, we both did.. He took me to homecoming, we started to get very close. He told me he never went out with one. Neither have I with a guy. He came Over for a movie night, he held my hand.. It was so special we both wanted to have another! he lived it so much.. 2 weeks later (the week his sister passed 3 yrs ago) he just stopped walking me, he wouldn't talk to me.. I don't even know why, he never told me anything. I know I didn't do anything wrong..our moms always hung out in the summer so I'd always see him & he's say hi, give hugs..it's junior year & he's a sophomore. We see each other in the hall ways, he always comes to hug me & we talk.. Today I gave him a candy cane & a note thanking him for the movie night we had, how it meant a lot to me & how maybe we can have another someday.. (Momo died so I want loved ones to know they're special to me) when I gave it to him his face lit up with happiness & he gave me a big hug & told me he loved it so much.. I've never seen him so happy, it was honestly magical.. What do you think he thought of it? do you think there is hope?

have struggled in adulthood because they expect to be catered to and have everything their way like they did as kids. The ups and downs of life are a lot harder for them. A couple of onlies have told me how hard life was for them after they grew up. Although I've known some onlies who were neglected must less treated special. What've been your experiences?

When the sun last shone over my head Death. That is what I had just witnessed, but not for the first time, and certainly not the last. I may have thought that I had become insensitive to such a sight already—I guess I wasn't prepared for the cruelty my closest bud would be subjected to…especially when you are responsible. … (Flashback to a few days ago) "Another one Doug…its Michael this time…" mourned Aaron. "Michael! I'd bet you a million bucks that he was the absolute and most hard-workin' among us. Jus' goes to show how the effort we give in means nothin' to these darn white folks. It's like they gamblin' with our lives, and we the dice. What happened this time…?" I inquired. "He hissed at the mastah's son; got tired of being bossed around by a child and let out a whimper…what a spoiled brat!" Our master was like any other master. He would punish you for his own personal pleasure, and had no remorse for any of us ******. Not like he cared, he could just replace one tool with another. It was just an ongoing cycle, and he was the one who moved it. "Aaron, ya know…it could be us next. You never know what mastah has in mind" "Yea man… I kinda want to leave this place and see more of the outside world before I die…" Then it hit me… theres a part 2

Today at the guidance councillors office, we were talking about situations we have had this week. When it was my turn, I started off with " this ratchet girl" and then immediately she said "tell us how you really feel". Da f uq? I feel disrespected. She's really nice, so I don't know why she would say that. It makes my kinda mad.

I was busy doing something else and my male coworker asked me to hold the door open while he carried some boxes in. He said would you be a dear and hold the door. I did, and he said he thanks puppy dog. Earlier on, he asked me why hadnt he really seen me all day and I said i have been working up front all day. He also laid up against my back and was talking about how he was so tired. Sometimes, when he walks past me he will smack him arm or grab me. Lately, he has been really close up in my face a bit. I was working at the counter and he bumped into me and he looked in to my eyes for a minute and he said oh sorry. I smiled and said thats okay. he also tried to help me up front a lot. He got mad at another coworker when they tried to help me.How do I take this? He likes me? idk.

Okay me and my girl broke up a week ago and she was tiring calling and I kinda brush off at first for like a day and the next day she hit me up call I answer she was like I thought you hated me forever I said no I don't I just heart broken she ask if I wouldn't move on because she can't. This was a week ago. So today I took her to take this big test and she pass were not together at this point but I made a promise back then I would and she wore the promise ring I gave her a long while ago. So I said what are we I ask are we friends, relationship benefits she said hell no and no and no I said what are we she said she didn't know. We do things that relations do without the title, she said we made a agreement that both of us would stick it out wouldn't f anyone else or go on dates with anyone else. She said I'm not falling in love with anyone else. We been together for 6months only been a week almost 2. What going on does she still want something or just pulling she tells me she loves me a lot and we still kiss

So I am currently separated from my husband for about 6 months now, we just had a baby 4 weeks ago, he was not there for my pregnancy but he was there for the birth. We also have a 5 year old boy who asks his dad all the time to come back home (husband moved back in with his parents). So my husband has told me that he has a girlfriend now and I asked if she knew the situation that we are still married and that we just had a baby, he says she doesn t know he s married and he has told me that I better not tell her...EVER! I am sad he decided to move on instead of getting ourselves into counseling to fix this for the little ones but things happen I understand life moves forward but I really think it s unfair what he s doing to this other person. She is completely in the dark about the situation, and when I asked if she knew he just had a baby he said he told her it wasn t his (He knows our little girl is his he just doesn t want to get the gf upset) he s always at her house he chooses to spend time with her over the kids daily he says he just wants to be with her all the time. My question is...I want to know your opinions on what kind of relationship this is?? He says he s getting serious with her, but how when is doing nothing but deceiving her with lies. Yes he may be trying to have her get feelings for him first so she doesn t leave but who in their right mind would over look lies that big?? Can I please have your opinions please thank you!!

My girlfriend are in one and people say we dont love each other or our relationship isnt serious or its not a real relationsip... No one can define the rules of a relationship other than those in it.

Hi, I would appreciate some honest advice about my decision to move away to a different city on August of 2016. I currently live in San Jose CA which is 45 min south of San Francisco. Don't get me wrong, this is a great city and it's not too boring, it could be worse. When I was 16 I came up with the idea to move to LA. Now 20 I still have the overwhelming urge to go through with it, and I don't know why.. Here in SJ I have my loving family, and my few but amazing friends, there's only like 5 people who I would actually consider to be my close true friends, no bf. The idea of leaving them behind makes me sad and they have told to me that they want me to stay:( but even then I still want to go through with it. I took a 2yrs off after HS and I'm going to attend my first semester of community college Jan-May 2016. My friend keeps telling me to complete community college here THEN move which seems logical but I just don't want to, i would like to transfer to a community college in LA when the semester is over. I know that once i'm over there it's going to be so scary and hard all on my own especially since I'm going to be completely self dependent financially. i was planning on going to LA about a month before my official move to find a job, I hope it's not too hard since I 3 years of office experience. I currently have 6k to get over there and I would be able to afford living there but I would JUST be getting by if I get a job that matches my pay here. Continue in details:)

I known her for two years. Ive gotten one hug from getting her coffee in the morning. She is probably the type to think it is cute but I don't know. Im a guy 15.

Even though the abuse went to the extent that I was diagnosed with PTSD and he ended up going to jail I sometimes still find myself missing him even though I reported him for domestic abuse in the first place. With the holidays coming up I can't help but feel depressed because he is not around anymore even though I know that I made the right choice leaving him. Why does this happen?

SO our son gets less. He has shabbier clothes...or not fancy stuff. I think my husband should spend more of what he earns on our sone, so things would be equal, but he refuses. what should I do to change this? He's a rich guy its more than just that also. They will have more opportunity...a larger inheritance ad everything. I think My husband should adjust his will, and make things equal so our son is not treated like he's not as important. He gives all of them the same, but his ex wife buys their kids everything. They have custom made clothing, and rolex watches, jewelry, sports cars. I work part time as a pre school teacher. and Im a stay at home mom. I take care of the house, and entertaining. He has alot of that for his social position and career. Also his father died before our son was born so our son will have a smaller share of his families trust. Its irrevocable. I want him to take money out of it..which he has control over and set up a larger trust for our son. He won't....says its dishonest and his cousins would fight him hes not leaving me in poverty...his other kids have nicer things than our son bc they have a trust fund their grandfather set up and a wealthy mother. Im not wealthy. He spends the same amount on our son as he does on his other childrens...just they get more bc of wha their grandfather did for them before he died, and what their mother does for them. I cant make things equal bc I dont make much money, but I think he should spend a larger portion on our son than he does on his 2 the kids No we dont have a joint account. I didn't have one in my first marriage, and neither did he. None of his family ofriends have those, bc he comes from a wealthy background. Also his wealth is family wealth, 5 genrerations old, and in trust. The money the trust makes I have no right to, even if we divorced. Our son is part of it, but his other children are parys of other family trusts from uncles and their mother, and our child is only an equal beneficiary of his. His other kids have their own wealth, from the family. They will never have to work if they dont want to, and will always have a high standard of living. Our son will only have those opportunities once his father dies. I wish I knew more about this stuff, and how this stuff worked before getting married. I never though about it. Our son id provided for better than any other guy could have.....of the options I had bentley - He does support his children...all the same. The other children just get more, and have their own wealth because their ancestors are weather than Ours are. His ex wife has many millions...and so does he. But he's more conservative than his ex wife...and his father...his childrens grandfather established irrevocable trusts for his other rchildren, and then died. Our son does not have his own wealth bc of this 2 things

I just found put that my 48 year old new boyfriend had a relationship with 20 year old girl last year. Im 38, and now i feel not sexy and old. I think almost a 30 year age difference is creepy and wierd. Just dont know if i can get over this. He on the other hand thinks its no big deal....i should get over it. Ugh. Thoughts anyone

I have graduated from college and will be starting on a new job soon. I'm happy and in peace but thinking about my social life that is almost dead distresses me a lot. After all these years, im left with 2 best friends (they dont know each other). Other close friends i can hang out with (occasionally) have moved abroad to study. Others just too busy with their lives now. Is it normal? I'm truly grateful to have them tho..but still. How to revive social life? Make new friends? What do you suggest? Do people usually get friends from work (like real friends)? Thanks! (5 stars)

I'm a 15 year old boy and I feel like I have everything I want. My parents keep telling me to tell them what I want, but I don't really want anything. They are pressuring me to tell them even though they know I don't want much. What are some cool things I should ask for? I was thinking about video games or like a watch? idk helpplease I play games on my PC.

Im a Black woman My WHITE EX boyfriend was yelling at me and told me he's "not a low life ignorant N*GGER like me living off her boyfriend and her parents then i hung up and then he started texting me saying he didnt mean it he misses me he's in love with me he's scared of losing me and i just straight up told him "dude you called me a n*gg*r leave me the f**k alone" then he agreed to leave me alone BUT he was texting me again begging for my forgiveness claiming he was just DRUNK and mad because whiskey makes him a angry drunk But he's still "in love with me" and didnt mean it at all he wants us to proceed as a "happy couple" and he still wants to move me into his place and Wants me to forget about the N*GG*R "SLIP UP I was tired of his BS "Apologizes" SO I SENT HIM THIS LONG MESSAGE saying we can't be together after the n*gger comment and blocked his number now i can't stop thinking about him and how he use to act in the beginning how much nicer he was next month would have been our one year anniversary DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? logically it makes sense that i got rid of him but emontionally I'm hurting i feel dead and lonely

I mean where do these guys usually hang out and what type of women are they attracted to? I'd really wanna date one but i imagine they have very high standards and i don't know anything about finance/maths

He's always been a gamer, but he swapped his drug addiction for a game addiction. He goes to his moms house to play "quick" for hrs at a time. If I'm talking to him his face is glued to his game. When we go shopping he plays his game. Even though he's next to me I feel alone. He interacts with games more than me. He sometimes leaves past midnight to play.& plays games EVERYDAY! Example: on Fridays&Tuesday he takes me to a therapy office and waits for me for an hr to be done. The whole hr he's playing his psp. When we get back home I would love to do any activity that isn't me watching him play agame or sleeping or laying in bed. But his logic is since he drove an hr& waited an hr for me that he should be able to go to his moms house to go play games for hrs. When he comes back the sun is setting or it's an hr before he has work,& it's sad. He would rather play games than spend time with me. &sometimes when he leaves and goes to work we'll text& I can't wait for him to come home &after 7 hrs of waiting & staying up past 1am.I'll text him wondering why it's almost 3am and he still isn't home yet & when he texts back he's playing games. I really wanna smash his game systems. It makes me sad that I come second to games. That he'll read up about updates on his games & reviews . And he won't read the baby books & thinks the 1 birthclass has him prepared to keep me calm and relaxed durring labor. I feel like he doesn't care about me or my feelings, just about his games. :(

I have a flirting relationship with a woman at work. She is 42 yrs and married 2nd time to a 60 YR old man. They have 2 kids (6yrs&15yrs). Nothing has happened between us, although it is clear there is a chemistry between us. For over a year nothing other than polite conversation has occurred. I have no intention of disrupting her marriage life but see a possible opportunity for some fun. It's been a year now and nothing has happened. What shall I do move things forward or am I just wasting my time and emotional energy?.

what is a 30 yr old mans attraction to a 33 yr old woman whos divorced with 3 kids and 2 grand babies by her teen son seems like a turn off due to too much baggage

My guy friend and I, last night, were laying on the couch together under a blanket and he could tell that I had been really stressed lately with school. We were cuddled up under the blanket with my head on his chest, rubbing his pecks and him rubbing my upper arm. We laid there a while and he said I know you've been stressed with school and I know you've also been pushing really hard to achieve all your goals this semester, I'm not ready to give up on you and that biggest goal of your life. I want to be there when you graduate from college, just to see you accomplish it. I love you baby girl. Then, he kissed me on my forehead and whispered I love the way you make me feel about myself and about us together. I quit rubbing his chest and I asked him, What do you love about me? He smiled, then leaned up and we shared a little peck and he said everything from your eyes to your personality. I laid my head back down on his chest and began stroking his chest again. I kissed him on the jawbone and whispered in his ear, I love everything about you from personality to those kissable lips. He just laughed and kissed me on my forehead, squeezing me tightly. We laid there snuggling, then I looked at the clock and told him that I had to be heading home. He got really depressed and asked me to stay over because he knew I wasn't done talking about my stress level. So we locked all the doors and laid by the fireplace for awhile, just cuddling and talking. He's such a great listener and just... calm me when I need someone other than my mom to listen to my issues. He calls me beautiful, gorgeous, baby girl, angel, the girl of his dreams. He's also one of my closest friends, probably the only person I open up to more than anyone else. I love his smart, goofy, humble, down-to-earth, laid back, genuine personality to just the way he talks and the way he walks and how he makes me feel about myself. He's 27 and I'm 26. We've been friends for about 3 years and I wouldn't change it for one bit

We both are in mature age. He's few years older. I have class with him about two months now. He invited me out couple times. The first show I went to see he plays, I expect him to walk me to the car, but he didn't. I think the reason is he might over heard his roommate asked me if I need someone to walk me to the car and I said no. Maybe that's why he didn't offer and probably didn't want his roommate to think something going on. I was kinda sad because I wanted him to, also I didn't feel safe. The second time, he text me couple hours before class starts and asked me if I want to go get a drink afterwards. After that, he asked if I want to come with him to see his friend's band that night. I went, we had a great time, no i had a great time. Not sure about him LOL I gave him sort a quick long hug before we leave and he gave me a quick pet on the head. The thing is.. he never flirts with me (from my opinion). I sent him funny texts time to time. Yes, I have a little crush on him, but I'm in a relationship and he knows that. I'm not attending to date the guy. I just like having this crush feeling, that's all. He's a Taurus, not sure if that will help understanding the guy. lol So here are my questions: Is it normal for guitar teacher to invite student for a drink or invite to see him plays at the shows? If he knows that I like him, then what's on his mind? Does he like me? Or he just wants to be friendly so I can keep taking class with him. What should I do? Thank you. What does my guitar teacher think about me?

I mean where do these guys usually hang out and what type of women are they attracted to? I'd really wanna date one but i imagine they have very high standards and i don't know anything about finance/maths I'm not looking for a rich guy to take care of me, i'm a feminist so i'm pretty independent myself. I just find these guys very attractive by how they're portrayed in films