Marriage & Divorce: Question: Attraction to married men? What is it called? What are people s experiences with it? |
- Question: Attraction to married men? What is it called? What are people s experiences with it?
- Question: Should I be worried about our Nanny?
- Question: My husband doesn t help me with our daughter?!?
- Question: Morri mendez/ married or divorced?
- Question: What would you describe her life?
- Question: What are they to me?
- Question: Do you think there is something wrong with a man over 40 that has never been married?
- Question: What do you think of this married guy on a dating site??!?
- Question: Why do women who have been married for some time stop having sex with their husband get suprised when he cheats?
- Question: Why did my married male corowoker say this to me at a party....?
- Question: Sex and separation/divorce?
- Question: Neighbours Problems?
- Question: Fiance cheated on me 4 times in the last 3 years of our relationship we have a daughter.?
- Question: What do you think of my mother in law's comments?
- Question: What does my Boyfriend mean when he says "NO ONE else will want you, you have no job so you might as well stay with ME"?
- Question: What are some common lies married men tell the other woman?
- Question: Does your relationship change after marriage?
- Question: Is it ok to give up everything for one thing?
- Question: Compromising on time spent at a family gathering?
- Question: Should I be mad?
- Question: How close of a cousin would you feel comfortable dating/ marrying?
- Question: Why does he keep bothering and begging for me!!!?
- Question: How do young spouses celebrate Christmas with no kids?
- Question: James Albert Harger marriage 1922 in Indiana?
- Question: Should I let my sister stay here?
- Question: My husband wants me to submit to him and if I don t submit he gets angry?
- Question: What should I do ?
- Question: Mia mamma tradisce mio padre?
- Question: I want to leave but I'm afraid. What would you do?
- Question: Why cant we trust our wives?
- Question: Needing a woman opinion?
- Question: Will our neighbour be nice with us again?
- Question: Is it abuse if your husband hits your hand out of the way and yells get your ******* hand out of my face at the same time?
- Question: Which kind of girls are best for wife ?
- Question: Is it a bad idea, foolish, to marry someone with a child? You have to pay extra for everything like it was your own child; house, travel,?
- Question: How come having a good marriage is so hard?
- Question: My husband and I have been together for about 7 years. Married 5. I ve caught him cheating numerous times. Best way to spy in plant walls?
- Question: My fiancé lets me bite his head and squeeze his face?
- Question: Is there any chance my son will forgive me?
- Question: Why don't beautiful women settle for a normal handsome guy?
- Question: Help and suggestions on what to do?Details below?
- Question: How to get child support increased in Ohio?
- Question: Agree or disagree, ladies - men with clothes on (but you can see their muscles) is more attractive than men with their shirt off?
- Question: Why do my in laws pretend to like me ?
- Question: In laws spent Christmas with son's girlfriend, right?
- Question: My wife said drinking 2 tablespoons of antifreeze would relief my cold. is it possible or is she trying to kill me?
- Question: Would you sleep with another man if your husband is sick and you desperately need money for his treatment?
- Question: My wife and I had a fight two weeks ago...we are not fighting anymore... we haven't had sex since... she wont touch me... what now?
- Question: My husbands ex. What would you do?
- Question: Would you ever delete your wife/husbands social media account?
- Question: Sexless marriage. Pls help!?
- Question: How can I get my husband to stop emotionally abusing us?
- Question: I found out my dad is cheating on my mom?
- Question: Can I still keep my half of our house if I file for a quick divorce...no separation just a uncontested divorce?
- Question: Leaving my marriage. How do I start?
- Question: The fact that most guys marry a woman who looks like their mother does this include those who marry someone of a different race?
- Question: Marrying a Hindu girl as a Muslim guy without converting her nor changing her name?
- Question: Am I being unreasonable here?
- Question: I mastrubate dailh with a girl in mind. I am married too but I enjoy this. How can I help my wife?
- Question: My ex husband was awarded the business in the divorce, my credit report reflects debt from the business, what do I do?
| Question: Attraction to married men? What is it called? What are people s experiences with it? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:59 PM PST Google only has articles and advice columns about what to so if you have this attraction. I don t think it s a bad thing so I m not worried. I m just very curious. |
| Question: Should I be worried about our Nanny? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:39 PM PST I am 50. Our nanny is 21 & way cute. Last night she invited me to her room to watch a movie (my wife was gone). She was wearing sexy underwear & perfume. |
| Question: My husband doesn t help me with our daughter?!? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:33 PM PST So I was talking to my husband earlier about him not helping with our daughter. Whether it s getting up in the middle of the night, or putting her to sleep in her crib now cause she still sleeps with us but apparently he feels that s my job. I told him it s common sense! If I m doing something and he sees her with a wet diaper or stinky diaper then for him to change her. EVERYTIME she s wet or stinky he tells me she needs a change. He says I need to ask him if I want him to do something and I feel like why should I ask you to help me with our child? I asked him why he doesn t get up in the middle of the night on weekends when he doesn t work and he says he s tired and goes to sleep in the guest room. Like I m tired too and he tells me what s so hard about her and all this he doesn t understand how it is tiring being a house mom whether we seem like we re doing something or not. So am I right or is he right? |
| Question: Morri mendez/ married or divorced? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:23 PM PST |
| Question: What would you describe her life? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:04 PM PST Her parents got a divorce when she was seven , her mom dates 4 guys each year and dress where her body is exposed , her brother used to beat her, her dad used to choke her and her mom locked her out when she was 4 |
| Question: What are they to me? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 07:59 PM PST So my friend says were cousins by law and my brother said the same thing. My aunt got married to someone so I was wondering what my uncle by marriage first cousins are to me? |
| Question: Do you think there is something wrong with a man over 40 that has never been married? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 07:57 PM PST |
| Question: What do you think of this married guy on a dating site??!? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 07:29 PM PST https://m.badoo.com/en/profile/396140423 |
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| Question: Why did my married male corowoker say this to me at a party....? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:40 PM PST He was lingering by me all night, when we were finally alone he said 'I know when we talk it's only for a few moments and it feels awkward' he was then just staring at me after. What does that awkward comment mean?? I'm so confused being that I barely talk to him lol!! Haha you are on here 24/7 apparently |
| Question: Sex and separation/divorce? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:21 PM PST Why does the thought of sex make me sad? I split up with my husband a few weeks ago and now I want sex... Not with him. Thinking about se makes me sad. Even the thought of masturbation makes me sad. What can I do to get over this? Is this normal? |
| Question: Neighbours Problems? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:20 PM PST My neighbours were in the process of getting a divorce. Prior to this they were very nice to us, our kids would play with theirs, etc. They've lived here for about four years, we've been here three. The husband wanted to take full custody of the kids, telling the judge that his wife was neglectful, for example she wouldn't take the kids to school on time. The wife asked us to make a legal statement for her saying we did see her take the kids to school on time, which is the truth. My husband said that we shouldn't get involved, but I insisted in helping her. When she brought the draft of the statement from her lawyer, my husband fixed the grammar and signed it. Then, when I talked with the neighbour, he asked me why did your husband write the statement, I told him, he didn't write it, he just fixed the grammar and signed it. They are still in the divorce process, the wife is moving out, the husband still talks to me every time he sees me like before, but he doesn't talk to my husband. Last time I saw him talking to an other neigbour and I was so worried he would tell him that we involved in their divorce proceedings. Once, I talked to the neighbour, and I told him we were so sorry about what happened, he said, don't worry about it, our friendship will be the same after his wife will move. We really want our friendship to be like before, but how can we fix it? How can we get him to talk to my husband again? I'm so affected that I want us to move away. Suggestions please! |
| Question: Fiance cheated on me 4 times in the last 3 years of our relationship we have a daughter.? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:01 PM PST He's still sleeping with her, but saying he's only using her for sex , but she's all in love with him ,plus she's married, I told her husband, she ended it said she deserves better. Which means she wants to get into a relationship with my ex fiance and get pregnant by him , she wants what I have a nice house and car he bought me . He calls her so many bad names , WHY is she still with him after he's such a d1ck with her . She wants to be appreciated and deserves better ,then why want something with him ,he's a cheater , she cheated on husband too . AND SHE THINKS HE'LL CHANGE FOR HER. But he tells me he doesn't want anything with anyone rightnow . But yet goes out on dates with her and movies . IS THIS GIRL DELUSIONAL? ?? SHE swears he won't cheat on her and that he'll change ,if he didn't change for me and we have a daughter and wanted to try for another baby , what makes her think he'll change for her? That's what I wanna know if she'll get her way! And why wanna be with someone like him ,he makes great money around 9k a month and he's only 23 and she's 22 . I JUST DON'T WANT HER GETTING PREGNANT AND RUIN MY DAUGHTERS LIFE EVEN MORE!!!! WILL HE GET SERIOUS WITH HER AND GET HER PREGNANT OR WILL HE CUT HER OFF ONCE HE'S DONE SLEEPING WITH HER? They have been going at it for about 5 months already. But he still wants me and loves me. He says he has no intention of anything with her other than sex. But who knows he can't cut her off. It'll "make" things "awkward " @ work. |
| Question: What do you think of my mother in law's comments? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 04:33 PM PST I am fighting cancer right now and have been for the last few years just so you know a little about me. I have great days and I have bad days so I am up and down. I have never been rude to my mother in law in the last 7 years but she has been rude to me and my mother but tells me she loves me so much. Very pessimistic woman who complains about everything. When we got together with my husbands mother for Christmas she made a couple of comments and want to know what your reaction would be. First, within a few min of getting together, she asked how I am doing. I told her that I have been feeling fatigued and its hard to work full time, since I just started working more hours. I am on a lot of medication so it makes me tired. She said well I have back pain and I still do what I need to do, she said we can compare all day who is feeling more awful while raising her eyebrows, basically telling me to suck it up and told my mother before that I need to work to help my husband with bills, this was right after I received a good scan from my doctor, a couple months after a bone fracture, my cancer has spread to my bones. We have savings so its not like we are poor. Then later in the night she showed me a photo on facebook of an old co worker and her daughter. She said she loved the co workers daughter so much she tried so hard to hook my husband up with her before we got together, she said of course this was years ago. I thought, what?! |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 04:22 PM PST I've been out of work for 6 months due to my car wreck injuries and my anxiety and I've also been focused on my college but my boyfriend of a year keeps b!tchin at me for not working saying "IM NOT A REAL WOMAN CAUSE IM NOT WORKING LIKE HIM" I'm "Lazy like i expect a man to take care of me like i look like some supermodel" then i said well maybe we should just break up since we can't make each other happy anymore then he was like if i leave him it'll be my biggest mistake cause NO OTHER MAN will put up with a woman not having a job unless she looks like a supermodel and i don't so i might as well stay with him so i won't be "depressed and lonely" and that the only man i could get is a desperate fat 50 year old willing to pay for p*ssy SO WTF IS HE TRYING TO SAY ABOUT ME?? I DONT EVEN LIVE WITH HIM I LIVE WITH MY PARENTS HE DOESNT SUPPORT ME MY PARENTS DO HE JUST PAYS FOR DATES AND GIFTS LIKE A NORMAL BOYFRIEND AND HES TIRED OF BEING THE ONE ALWAYS PAYING |
| Question: What are some common lies married men tell the other woman? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 04:18 PM PST |
| Question: Does your relationship change after marriage? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:57 PM PST I've been with the same man since we were 13 years old! We're now 26 and I couldn't be happier with the man of my dreams! I love him so much... BUT I'm not sure about marriage. I've heard over time that it does change your relationship with one another. In my family, although two couples are married, there is a lot of long enduring relationships (boyfriend, girlfriend/being together forever but not married) — so that's what i'm used to. My boyfriend has always wanted to marry me but because I'm apprehensive about marriage he's held off on proposing. I also heard a lot about the dynamic changing. And btw, neither of us has kids. I guess I'm just scared. We take marriage seriously, and being boyfriend and girlfriend, you can easily break up if something goes wrong, with marriage, for us, there is no divorcing. Idk... want to get some advice from married women! (or men). Thanks peeps! |
| Question: Is it ok to give up everything for one thing? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:43 PM PST Iam 18 and started in the university .iam studying .i have decided to give up on love although I never had any romance to give up on socializing unless it will bing me good or it will serve my needs .to give up on everything except excelling at my major in order to acquire the most important thing in life which is money. I also never want to get married and have kids .why would work my *** off for creatures that will only inherit me I would prefer just gathering a lot of money and enjoy life until everything goes pitch dark . Life is a **** hole I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth And not born smart a lot I was born average ,also my country is ****** upruled by corrupt pigs ,I hated my school because everybody was financially stable but me ,I was fat and still but I wiil become healthy again .life has no meaning to me anymore but to live it and die at least knowing I enjoyed a little A guy like me is bound to achieve this |
| Question: Compromising on time spent at a family gathering? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:37 PM PST I'm introverted and could do without gatherings all together. My husband is social and enjoys them. So I thought it would be a good idea to compromise on our time spent there, as he could spend all night and me.. not so much. So is compromising on this a good idea? Like for example, he wants to spend 3 hours, I want to spend 1.. so we meet in the middle and spend 2? Or just say screw it and spend the 3? |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:34 PM PST My husband and I have been together for over 5 years and got married back in August. I recently had a D&C done after planning for 3 months on our first child. It was earth shattering. My surgery was 4 days ago and have been trying to get back to a normal routine but recently noticed my husband acting odd. By odd I mean he doesn't seem effected by this situation at all. Trust me, I am thankful he isn't depressed but, a little compassion would be helpful to me. Well, I noticed him being sneaky with his phone the past 2 days and so I looked. He has been watching porn since the day we found out i miscarried. He was watching porn while I was in my surgery! Not normal porn either. Like "cheating" "mom" "18& older". He has watched porn before but never anything so specific. I am seriously hurt. I am at a very low point in my life right now and he is sitting around watching so 18 year old girl blow some guy! Do I have a right to be upset? Or am I over reacting? |
| Question: How close of a cousin would you feel comfortable dating/ marrying? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:28 PM PST At which point do you stop even counting to see if someone is related to you? I know who a few third cousins are and that is it. For all I know my husband and I could be related but no closer than third cousins because he is adopted and we look so similar that we have been confused as siblings and when he did a 23andme genetics test it came back saying that he has basically the same amount of the same types of European ancestry that I am aware of in my history Irish, German, English etc. But the idea of possibly finding out that we are related does not gross me out at all. |
| Question: Why does he keep bothering and begging for me!!!? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:23 PM PST So my fiance cheated and still keeps sleeping with coworker whos married ,she's all into him , she's crazy I don't know what's going on in her head ,cause my fiance literally calls her a whore to her face and that's all she'll be ,but she's still pursing a relationship with him , even after he "tells" her he has no intention and won't in the future she's just his entertainment, he says she's annoying and clingy . But asked him to cut her off he said why it'll make things awkward at work . And WHY DOES HE KEEP SLEEPING WITH HER IF HE IS ANNOYED BY HER AND DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING WITH HER! !! WHAT IS HE TELLING HER AND DOING THAT' SHE'S ALL UP ON HIM???? AND WHY DOES HE STILL BEGGING ME EVEN AFTER I SAY NO!!!! I told him we could work things out but you have to cut her off, he says they done , come to find he sleeps with her again. It's all confusing we have a daughter, and he literally ditches seeing her after work for some reason!. He'll be get her ready so I can see her , next thing he calls saying he can't make it . This has happened 4 or 5 times already! I will be really pissed if he's cancelling on her for his whore of a coworker. Plus her husband knows he confronted her and she just told him off and that she deserves better and wants the divorce. She said she felt unappreciated and doesn't want to be with someone who brings her down. But her husband was loyal, faithful, respectful, and loved her so much . He just didn't have a steady job. Why would she do that to him? |
| Question: How do young spouses celebrate Christmas with no kids? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:13 PM PST I'm just wondering how you do it. How me and my spouse do it, is the morning and noon is with my family, then dawn and evening is with my spouse/in laws family. I heard some people do it yearly, one year it'll be with one family, next year is with the other. We don't have kids, so we spend it with our parents and siblings. |
| Question: James Albert Harger marriage 1922 in Indiana? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 03:02 PM PST |
| Question: Should I let my sister stay here? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:58 PM PST My sister, her husband & 2 children flew from their home in CA to NY to see us Christmas Eve/day. My sister seemed fine Christmas Eve. Christmas morning she complained of a scratchy throat. By 6PM she insisted she had to lay down. I told her stay the night in our guest room & her husband went back to the hotel with the kids. All night/day she's been vomitimg, I suspect diaherrah too? Coughing, she sounds absolutely TERRIBLE! All of us, her husband & the kids go the week after Christmas to Vermont & spend the week with our parents. I know she's too sick to go so I offered her our house from Sun-Sat to rest up. My husband is FURIOUS at me & keeps telling me to make her get a hotel because he believes everyone in our immediate family is going to wind up sick from all the germs when we get back from vacation Thoughts?! Should I let her stay while we are gone?? Or insist she get a hotel? |
| Question: My husband wants me to submit to him and if I don t submit he gets angry? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:53 PM PST I have no problem letting him lead our family but this is to the point where I feel he just wants to control me. He won t let me do anything with out asking him, not even flush the toilet. He doesn t want me to work, or have a phone, have male friends, he doesn t trust me because I left him for a year I was faithful the whole time though. Am I in the wrong? Am I taking this the wrong way? Or is he being controlling? |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:47 PM PST I needed my husbands phone to get a number and noticed something in his photos and it was a couple photos of girls . He said he didn't take them but I found out he found the photos on Facebook and that he lied . He apologized about taking them and lying and said he won't do it again and deleted the pictures . Should I just not use his phone anymore . |
| Question: Mia mamma tradisce mio padre? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:46 PM PST buonasera, qualche settimana fa ho scoperto che mia mamma ha da poco meno di un anno un amante, che tra l altro è un signore che conosco bene (e questo mi ha fatto incazzare ancora di più!) non capisco cosa ci trova, mi dispiace solamente per mio padre che l ha sempre amata, e la sempre trattata come una principessa, non le ha mai detto di no.. io vorrei tanto parlarne con tutti e tre così da smerdare bene mia mamma che se lo merita.. ma non so voi cosa fareste al mio posto??? grazie mille a chi risponderà |
| Question: I want to leave but I'm afraid. What would you do? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:05 PM PST ello there! My husband and I have been married for 3 years now and we have a beautiful 2 year old. He has always told me that he needs to drink in order to have fun and to celebrate anything. over the course of our marriage, the drinking has gotten progressively worse and every time he drinks he gets very aggressive and he says the most horrible things .I have set boundaries countless times and given him so many chances that I have lost count. Also trief giving him leniency and limits but once I did that he just started hiding the beers around the house and lying to me that he hadn't been drinking even though I knew. I came home from work literally not knowing what I'm going to be dealing with or if I'm going to be dealing with a drunk man. We have no spark and barely any sex. He told me recently that he didn't want to have sex with me or spend time with me because I won't let him drink. it is hurting me very much I'm having a hard time dealing with it. What would you do? |
| Question: Why cant we trust our wives? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 02:02 PM PST |
| Question: Needing a woman opinion? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 01:38 PM PST Me and my wife have been together for two years .I do everything I can do make this woman happy .I understand that most couples have their share of problems. But for the time we've been together all this woman tends to do is complain .She acts like she's my mother I'm 46 and she's 47 .I have talked to her about her bad attitude but it continues to happen .For Christmas we were at my family home .And while playing a game she gets upset ,and starts to over talk me and disrespect me in front of them .I booked a cruise for her to go to the Bahamas and this is the appreciation I get .I can't cancel the cruise because I'll lose my money .I'm Just tired of being disrespected and taken for granted .I've prayed and prayed yet she still remains the same .Honestly I'm miserable but I live this woman and I'm trying to honor my vows .what should I do. ... |
| Question: Will our neighbour be nice with us again? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 01:03 PM PST My neighbours were in the process of getting a divorce. Prior to this they were very nice to us, our kids would play with theirs, etc. They've lived here for about four years, we've been here three. The husband wanted to take full custody of the kids, telling the judge that his wife was neglectful, for example she wouldn't take the kids to school on time. The wife asked us to make a legal statement for her saying we did see her take the kids to school on time, which is the truth. My husband said that we shouldn't get involved, but I insisted in helping her. When she brought the draft of the statement from her lawyer, my husband fixed the grammar and signed it. Then, when I talked with the neighbour, he asked me why did your husband write the statement, I told him, he didn't write it, he just fixed the grammar and signed it.They are still in the divorce process, the wife is moving out, the husband still talks to me every time he sees me like before, but he doesn't talk to my husband. Last time I saw him talking to an other neigbour and I was so worried he would tell him that we involved in their divorce proceedings. Once, I talked to the neighbour, and I told him we were so sorry about what happened, he said, don't worry about it, our friendship will be the same after his wife will move. We really want our friendship to be like before, but how can we fix it? How can we get him to talk to my husband again? It's making me so sad. I'm so affected that I want us to move away. |
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| Question: Which kind of girls are best for wife ? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 12:11 PM PST |
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| Question: How come having a good marriage is so hard? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 11:00 AM PST |
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| Question: My fiancé lets me bite his head and squeeze his face? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 10:09 AM PST I have a weird habit of biting my fiancés head where he has a growing bald spot and sometimes I randomly squeeze his face and close his eyes for him. He lets me do it but I'm afraid one day he will want to kill me in my sleep. Should I stop biting his head? |
| Question: Is there any chance my son will forgive me? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 09:35 AM PST I was an absent father. I left my now ex wife 20 years ago (who is mentally fragile) with the kids. Then 8 and 5. I wasn t there financially or emotionally. I just did my own thing. Found a young girlfriend and left it. My son took on a lot of responsibility. He was the male figure for my ex wife and daughter in my absence. He was strong, kind and didn t give anybody any trouble. A very cool man. That s the background info. 4 years ago I had a child with my girlfriend and decided to contact my older children. My daughter was timid at first but came along. My son was not as easy. He also has a family of his own. The trouble started when I told my son and his wife that his ex was responsible for my absenteeism. I said some mean things about my ex wife. I told my daughter (who is close to my ex wife) that my son s wife is trying to break up the family (she doesn t get along with my ex wife) and had said unkind things. I wanted my daughter to feel like I cared and was being protective. Unfortunately it resulted in my son and daughter no longer speaking. It went on for a few years. It came to a head yesterday, my son demanded answers as to the reason for the rift. To which my daughter told him that I had told her that his wife had said unkind things about their mother. My son retaliated by telling my daughter the unkind things I had said about their mother also. Now I am in trouble. What should I do |
| Question: Why don't beautiful women settle for a normal handsome guy? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 09:28 AM PST I have heard of beautiful women dating celebrities and billionaires. Never heard of a beautiful woman settling with a handsome guy who works for a company and earns a decent salary for a living. Is it because they are harder to maintain and have more choices? Is it vanity? Why don't beautiful women like loving handsome men who are normal employees? By beautiful, I meant physically. However, I do acknowledge that real beauty is skin deep |
| Question: Help and suggestions on what to do?Details below? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 09:24 AM PST My parents are divorced and my mother has custody of my brothers and I. But once a week, our father gets us on Sunday.We stay with him for 9 hours. I want to go home but he does not leave me. How can I win in court about limiting my time with him. |
| Question: How to get child support increased in Ohio? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 09:11 AM PST I'm the custodial parent. I get less than $300 a month, which is a joke. If her dad was dead, I'd be getting a survivors benefits check for her, which would be $500-600 a month, so it only makes sense that the child support amount should be that much. He is married, they both work and have no kids, so her income is also HIS income. They also get quarterly bonus checks, which range from $200-600, depending on what the incentive share is that quarter. They each get a bonus, so on top of their income, that's an additional $400-1200 every 3 months in their household. I am a struggling single mom, my daughter definitely is NOT living the same quality of life that she had when me and her dad were together, so the child support SHOULD be increased. First, me and him were never married. He abandoned us to marry the skank. Her income is indeed his. When you marry, everything you own becomes joint property. If she had an issue with the fact that her income counts towards child support, then she shouldn't marry a man who already has a child (or coherse a man into leaving his child to begin with) I don't get the luxury of getting to marry anyone to have the income of two people. The child support amount should at very least match the amount of survivors benefits that I'd recieve for her if her dad was dead. How can I at least get the court to match it? |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:23 AM PST |
| Question: Why do my in laws pretend to like me ? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 08:06 AM PST I absolutely cannot stand my husband's parents. They are wealthy, snobby, and think they are better than everyone (mainly his father who is a finance executive). His father has cussed/threatened me to my face, made me cry, made up/started stuff within the family, brings things up from long ago, etc. My family have told me many times that they just dont like me, avoid them, save your energy, etc. I have tried countless times to do this and his mother buys me elaborate gifts and tries to get me to participate in holidays saying "youre the mother of my grandkids, please join us". We had the worst Xmas because of something his father started this year and my family and I are done with them and I told her to her face. Why wont they leave me alone and realize I dont like them and dont want to get to know them? My husband also REFUSES to defend me and says its not his place/not the time. Nothing ever really gets resolved because his father says something else that is hurtful or stupid about me and my husband joins right in on it. That one time his father cussed me and threatened me to my face, my husband joined in saying "I deserved it because I was hashing out a fight at their place" when I just asked if we could speak in the other room. Our counselor told my husband he was wrong on all levels and should ALWAYS take his wife's side, period. My husband disagreed. I take meds for depression and was not taking them last yr because my husband wouldnt allow me due to religious reasons. I have made it no secret that I dont like his family. Just like last night, I am sick with my pregnancy and told him I want to stay at home and rest (the baby will be here in a month or so). He threw a hissy fit saying "its no fun without you and I refuse to see my parents without you". During the day he had cussed me and made me cry in front of my elderly relatives and they left because they did not want to hear the drama. His father tells everyone I am a trouble maker, horrible, etc |
| Question: In laws spent Christmas with son's girlfriend, right? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 07:58 AM PST We had spent a fortune on food for Christmas Eve after my husband's family said they were coming. Last min, they cancelled and gave us 8 excuses why. Yesterday, my husband drug me up there (I declined numerous times and ended up sitting in a room reading to avoid them) and his teen brother told us that instead of "spending a quiet night alone at home like his dad wanted to do", they ended up going to his 16 yr old bro's grandparents home. The last time my bro in law dated a girl, they threw themselves @ her folks and they eventually split up. Why lie to us and cancel last minute? why wouldnt they just tell us "we are going to mark's girlfriend, stacy's place?" should adult parents of a teen spend holidays w/a minor child's family? Also, they allow the girl to stay over to their house until really late. There are 2 bros. One is younger who told us where they went, the other is in high school. I understand that they can do as they please (free will) but the fact that they lied to our faces 8x is really upsetting. |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 07:24 AM PST |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:56 AM PST Suppose You are married for 5 years and you have a nice loving husband.Unfortunately,your husband lost the house and all money because of a big loss in business and still you couldn't pay all your debts.You became homeless with your husband and you are living in a tent house.your husband is diagnosed with a major disease(cancer) and you have no money left for his treatment.Banks don't wanna give you loans because of your debts.Your family and friends has already cut ties with you because you married against their wish.Suddenly a man(your ex boyfriend who is rich) came for your help and is ready to pay for the treatment and your debts only if you sleep with him for once.What would do you? |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:51 AM PST I don't find this acceptable. We had a very strong sex life... and now its been two weeks...I don't want to cheat but taking care of myself just isn't cutting it...how long would you hold out until you start looking elsewhere...? |
| Question: My husbands ex. What would you do? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:40 AM PST My husband was in a long term relationship with a woman and they have a child together. When we first met we were just friends for almost 2 years and during this time he would say that he actually hated her and regret their relationship to our other friends. But then it's strange because the same time he was dogging her out he was telling her something different. He would tell her he loved her and wanted to marry her. (I saw through old emails) Then I saw a message where she accused him of not closing the door to their relationship before getting with me & 2 weeks before me and him got married they kissed. I found this out late and on accident! IT's so confusing because now when he tells me he doesnt like or love her I get suspicious and paranoid. Then I found out he stalked her facebook page on our HONEYMOON and continuously checks on her family through facebook. He lied to me to my face even with me having proof then made up some lie about it later. I don't know what to believe he is a liar and to think I believed him! |
| Question: Would you ever delete your wife/husbands social media account? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:08 AM PST My spouse has an instagram account which is not the big issue. The big issue is that 7 months ago we had an argument about the instagram page because it was just half naked women on there and he said he was using it to inspire others. Well after our argument he said he would delete the page, then he said he forgot his password so he couldnt delete it. yesterday i found out that he reset his password and started posting pictures and stuff a month ago. I am so mad not at the fact he has the IG page but that he lied about it. When he could have just said no i dont want to delete it. Now I want to delete it for him. |
| Question: Sexless marriage. Pls help!? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 06:07 AM PST I am 36 yrs old female and im married for about 12 1/2 yrs with a wonderful man. He is 44 yrs old. We rarely fight, has 3 pre teens kids. The problem i have is that im in a sexless marriage. And i have this issue for 9 yrs already. Even 1x a year is difficult for him. I love sex. I love being touched and getting praises, kisses, huggs. But if i get 2 pecks of kisses per day, im considered lucky. Im really have a problem about it. I feel ugly, not attractive and now deeply depressed. At times, suicidal. We tried communicating, weekends getaway, u named it, ive tried it! I just dont know what more i could do to make my husband make love to me. I love sex but due to this, i end up masturbating few times a week. But everytime i cummed, i feel shitty, thinking that i have a healthy husband who is not interested in even touching me. And if i touched him, he brushes me off. Im thinking of divorce, not because of that i want to find another man, but to get my mental and emotional state a rest. Plus i love my kids. I m tired.... Pls help |
| Question: How can I get my husband to stop emotionally abusing us? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:51 AM PST I have been married a long time...got married very young...we have 3 kids...2 are older college age, and my youngest is 15 with severe autism....anyway, my husband does not show our older 2 kids any kind of love or affection...all he does is bark at them, make them feel useless and worthless...he expects them to take his roll in taking care of our youngest, disabled son...for example, if we are all home, and I'm busy cooking, and my son is in the shower, my husband wont get his butt up, but screams for my kids to do it...every single time....what he forgets is that, when he's not here, they ALWAYS help me...he never compliments them, and my 23 year old son is really damaged from this lifetime of emotional neglect...he's got OCD and depression...and he's on medicine..but my husband just doesn't do anything to help him...just yells at him CONSTANTLY... I would love to leave him, but because of my disabled son, I'm really limited.. I've told my husband to "lay off" the kids, and stop treating them like that...but then he turns on me and ignores me and my disable son for weeks on end...it's very stressful!! I feel so trapped and so sad for my kids it's really difficult for me to leave....no one (in my family) will let me stay with them until I get on my feet...my autistic son is hard to manage, and they cannot tolerate him...also, they all live out of state (in the south), where services for my son are not so good...much better here in the north...it's very hard for me to work full time, as my son is such a challenge, and non verbal..hard to find care for him |
| Question: I found out my dad is cheating on my mom? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:50 AM PST I recently found out my dad is cheating on my mom. i found dirty pics of other women while borrowing his laptop and chat exchanges of times and meet ups coinciding with the times hes telling us that hes going to have a drink out w his friends. should i tell my mom? i dont know what to do |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:49 AM PST I live in North Carolina. |
| Question: Leaving my marriage. How do I start? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:18 AM PST My marriage is over. I told my husband were are through and he is all for me leaving. We were involved 8 years, married 2.5 years, and have a 1 year old. Admittedly the end came about after he drank large amounts of alcohol and I started badgering him right after we got home (a very short time after he vomited his Christmas dinner). The problem is that I don t know where to even begin a life without him. I do not work and only now started making a resume. I haven t worked in almost a year and a half. I go to a state university but am still 20 units away from my bachelors. My parents do not want me back in their home. My husband has already said he expects me to leave because he pays the rent. I have 2 children from a previous relationship. I have shared custody but am afraid that my ex will use this transitional time as away to get more than the 50/50 custody we have. I do not know how I will work and find a babysitter for my baby. My husband has already stated that once I leave he doesn t give a sh*t about me and isn t about to go out of his way to make anything easy for me (his words...and right context). I also do not have any close friends (since I got with my husband my friendships have slowly eroded) I am not close to my siblings. I ve never been on welfare or anything. I need to now if California has any programs that can help me immediately with housing or something. Just until I get a job and a first paycheck. I will be receiving a financial aid disbursement in min Jan but I don't see how I will be able to continue with school. |
| Posted: 26 Dec 2015 05:14 AM PST |
| Question: Marrying a Hindu girl as a Muslim guy without converting her nor changing her name? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 04:46 AM PST Heh guys i am a muslim guy and am in love with a hindu girl we are in relationship for the past 7 years and i think this is the time to get married,as of my GF she dont want to convert to Islam and i will never ever force her to convert my parents too,in my side my parents are okay with our relationship,by her side still we didnt tell her mom ,her dad passed away when she was in 9th grade ,her younger brother who is in college now knows about our relationship he is like he will not support nor oppose like neutral,and i live and work in a Gulf country she is working in IT company in India ,now my question is do we have any problem when we apply visa to any country like can i sponsor her as a husband & our marriage can be registered in Indian government without changing her religion and name? |
| Question: Am I being unreasonable here? Posted: 26 Dec 2015 04:39 AM PST My kids all came home for the holidays. My oldest daughter throughout Christmas Day complained of a bad sore throat. She ended up going to lay down in our guest room around 7PM. She stayed the night at our home & has been up & down all night blowing her nose, vomitimg, coughing etc. We are supposed to be taking a 4 hour trip to see my husbands side of the family tomorrow. We only see them once a year. She told us she feels terrible & there is no way she is going. However, we only see them once a year. I told her go to the doctors this morning & get an antibiotic & that she will feel better tomorrow. Am I being unreasanable here by insisting she goes to see my husbands side of the family? |
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