Okay, I am a 16 year old girl. My sister is a 29 year old woman, who has accomplished NOTHING. I have just got into this huge debate with her. I was telling her how I wanted to go to school to be a dental hygienist, and she said that "You shouldn't be one of them because they make no money." For one, she obivously do not know what she is talking about because dental hygienists makes pretty good income. Secondly, I am not doing it for the money. I'm doing it because I want to give back, make people feel good about themselves, etc. I do not come from a well off family. My family is actually poor. Due to that, I refuse to go to school for 8-12 years straight, with zero income, and accumulate a ton of student loan debt. She obivously do not understand that. I don't even understand why she is trying to discourage me, because she has nothing. She is 29, lives with an eighty year old man, only have one bill (her phone bill) and struggles to pay it, don't have a car, never did, never had her own place, etc. I feel like she just wants me to take care of her. That is why she is so pressed about me making a ton of money when I get older. She is ploting on me to take care of her, and put her in a better predicument. What do you guys think?

I just want one last opinion before I get help to make sure my mother is really emotionally abusive and i m not just being a wuss. My mom does the usal stuff, she buys me food and gets me a place to sleep. But she also is constantly yelling at me for things that sent even my fault. She keeps on calling me a stupid kid and she thinks I can t do anything myself. I feel like her property. And when I tell her I would like to be treated an a normal human being she just yells at me and threatens to hit me. I don t feel safe around her. I am a good kid, I don t get in fights, i don t do drugs, I am respectful of everyone. I tried to run away once and she yelled at me worse than ever before. I feel like she won t ever let me leave. My brother is 18 and still lives with us and she thinks and treats him like he s 3 too. Constant checking on both of us. Is she emotionally abuse and should I get help?

My son (26) recently brought him his new boyfriend (18). As much as I want to, I just don't like him. I expressed my dislike to my son and he was hurt (understandable). I don't know what it is about him that makes me dislike him. I don't know what to do, I don't want to hurt my son but I feel like this isn't the right person for him. Any advice?

My family are aggressive and abusive, in my home either I am stupid, or mistaken idiot. I am personally weak, I feel guilty and bad all the time because of them. I need someone to positively talk to me , treat me well and makes me feel good and comfortable. I hate my brother because he always abuse me which passively gets me swept away. Please talk to me

My mom and sister started yelling at me right after I got off of a bus to put my jacket on. My sister basically yelled, "you're so selfish. I tried to help you for 2 hours after you thought you lost your phone and you aren't even doing anything to help me (get my phone unsuspended)." with the rudest attitude ever. My mom backed her up and kept yelling at me to hurry up and call our phone carrier. I told them I just got my phone back and I'm trying to put my jacket on first because it's cold, yet they're acting as if the most important thing is to call Verizon immediately to unsuspend her phone. They also said it's my fault that her phone got suspended even though it was the Verizon employee who accidentally suspended the wrong phone. Obviously none of this would have happened if I didn't think I lost my phone, but her phone wouldn't have been suspended if the Verizon employee listened carefully when I stated my name and number. I just don't get how the way they behaved is right. They're acting as if a temporary phone suspension is more of an issue than me potentially getting sick from the cold. They couldn't even wait 1 minute for me to call Verizon and they immediately made the assumption that I don't care and that I don't want to help.

My trainer died three months ago after 2 years of cancer, he adopted me and really was like a father to me, he gave me the confidence to do things I never could have done and now all I have left of him is a st sebastian medal he gave me which I wore every day and still do. Then my best friend who I trained with laughed with cried with she was amazing then she got the cancer too and died in less than 3 weeks since being diagnosed. I have no family these were my family and 3 weeks ago it was me and amy only after Ryan died me and amy spread his ashes and randomly she died and I can't run alone im sad I don't know how to move on. I tried but I'm so sad amy gave me a box to open at Christmas and I opened it and there were pictures of us and a goodbye Dvd she told me she loved me, dreamt of having children, a home, growing old together and now she's in a hole in the ground I'm so sad I can't hold her, can't see her big eyes, her golden hair or see the big smile. I'd pay all my money all my possessions and more just to hug her once more, tell her I love her just hear her voice one more. I can't help it but I cry when anyone asks me how I am or do I want to talk, I physically can't talk I'm crying now for christs sake, I just want to go out into the woods and live my life in solitude away from everyone and the pain

Okay, I am a 16 year old girl. My sister is a 29 year old woman, who has accomplished NOTHING. I have just got into this huge debate with her. I was telling her how I wanted to go to school to be a dental hygienist, and she said that "You shouldn't be one of them because they make no money." For one, she obivously do not know what she is talking about because dental hygienists makes pretty good income. Secondly, I am not doing it for the money. I'm doing it because I want to give back, make people feel good about themselves, etc. I do not come from a well off family. My family is actually poor. Due to that, I refuse to go to school for 8-12 years straight, with zero income, and accumulate a ton of student loan debt. She obivously do not understand that. I don't even understand why she is trying to discourage me, because she has nothing. She is 29, lives with an eighty year old man, only have one bill (her phone bill) and struggles to pay it, don't have a car, never did, never had her own place, etc. I feel like she just wants me to take care of her. That is why she is so pressed about me making a ton of money when I get older. She is ploting on me to take care of her, and put her in a better predicument. What do you guys think?

The story was too long to write it in the box so i just posted it in this link http://pastebin.com/TneD6MnN . Thank you

My dad was married before he met my mom and had two children. He then met my mom, divorced their mom and had me. Right now my 2 half sisters live with me and one is 6 years older and the is 12 years older. When I was little I considered them as my babysitters but never my sisters until now. I am 14. They live with me but I am not close. I grew up like an only child, but when people ask me I don't know what to say.

Hi I'm new to yahoo answers and anyone willing to give me advice would be very much appreciated...Recently I got a nasty bruise on the back of my thigh from my dad (He hit me with a broom about 3-4 times and it broke in half) I tried really hard not to cry in front of him because he's a piece of **** but i gave up and balled my eyes out not because of him hitting me (it's nothing new) but the fact he hit me for something stupid and just continued to do whatever he was doing... Sorry for ranting im just tired of being constantly abused by my father and living in paranoia no one understands me... Thanks 😔

My brother is 17 years old. No history of seizures. I don't even think there's family history of them (he's my step brother so I'm not to sure on the family history part). He was sitting at his computer I guess. He started "raging" and just yelling no and like shaking his computer desk (I didn't hear it). Then, he made this weird "blaaah" noise. I honestly thought it was my mother throwing up. She's been having digestive issues and has been throwing up. So I thought it was her. I didn't bother getting up because I was sleeping and my dad was in the room with her so I figure he was helping her. Then, my brother comes down the hall all confused

I ve let my friends mom and sibling stay which supposed to be for a few days which now turn into a month with me , I ve gone grocery shopping they ate all the food in just 3 days and I spent almost 300$ on food after the food I bought was gone she started using her link to get her n ker kids food only I go shopping and by food for the house , the kids are not cleaning up when I ask the catch attuides or half clean I only have a studio ment for me n my 2 son s her lights was off and she supposed to be working on it but each time its time for her to leave it is a new problem I believe it s something she isn t telling me stuff coming up broken food left in the sink my lease say people can visit only for 7 days I m which she is aware she watches my newborn while I go to work but she also receive a baby sitting check for him i ve asked them to leave 2 days ago!! And they are still here they are now receiving mail my rent is almost due she doesn t intend on paying half originally she was supposed to give me money for staying here she hasn t she was supposed to buy food for the house she hasn t but when I needed a place to stay she charged me 400$ for 2 weeks The only reason she is still here is because I need her to watch my son and don t want her to be in a shelter but it has become hard to help when she doesn t want to contribute to the house nor does the kids also she has been talking about me and my kids to other people what should I do ?

My mother always says I slack off but I got max scores from exams this year and scored 118 out of 120 on our midterm test. It's just she always gets into my room when I take a break to she thinks I don't study. What should I do to convince her that I don't always slack off?

When I have my boyfriend over she says the door has to be open at all times and she says that we aren t allowed under the same blanket. I guess I sort of understand the door issue but I don t get the blanket one. And when I hang out with my friends she has to know every little detail, when I get home she repeats herself with all the places I was supposed to be and the people that were supposed to bring me home. If one thing is of she will flip out and start yelling at me. Also I have been going over to my boyfriends a lot during the summer and I don t really like inviting him over here because of her. So she says that it has to be his house our house his hose our house etc. I don t get why she gets upset about everything, even the little things. If we get in a fight over something I almost always get grounded by the end of the fight. I can t even tell her how I feel because if I do she will cry and get mad saying I shouldn t talk like that and that she doesn t want my opinion, when really it is my feelings. I just want to be able to talk to her about everything with out her being judge overprotective strict or anything. I want to get along with her and not feel like I want to live somewhere else.

So I'm 13 and I never was in a group of friends . I only always had 1 friend and then I lose them . I feel like the reason I'm losing them is because since my mom didn't have any friends 8th grade and down , my life wants to follow that . Am I gonna have my mother's childhood or no ? And she got her first bf when she was 20. I want one in my high school years or right now . Is my life gonna follow my moms childhood?

Everyday! he'll do these checks in my room all the time! There;s days that i'm just so tired and throw my undergarments and clothes on my bed or on my chair (not dirty underwear or anything) and he's there checking out my room. I just hate it so much. he hates it when im in my parents room too! so i dont go in. My mom doesnt care... and i don't have a key to my room. - i've told him if he can stop going into my room but he doesnt care what i say ( im 13 btw) -

I want to move out from parents home with my shih tzu dog and goldfish. Im 20yrs old and i want to start my own life as i fed up listening my parents and brother screaming. I currently jobless and my parents treatens me to throw me out into street with my pets because they hate dogs . Is there any help i could get to help me move out in uk? I hoping to start working soon

I don't even want to type out what he was doing, but it is against the law. And I'm disgusted by what I caught him doing. He said he'd never do it again if I didn't tell, but I really think I should. Maybe they'll send to some sort of mental institution?

Okay I've been crying today because I still live with my parents and I'm 23 fixing to be 24 in January but I don't have a job yet and I don't know about working g full time I'll just have to see. I just feel like I need to move out now but if I do move out when I get a job then I just don't know if I would like it and I would probably have to move back in with my parents. So does anyone have any advice for me?

My mother always yells at me to study and claim I never get to work. I got the max scores from exams this year and scored 118 out of 120 on our midterm exam. How can I slack off while getting these grades? How can I convince her that I don't slack off?

I have a 14 year old sister Nancy that has been my best friend for my whole life. I really like her. I am a 19 year old guy. We are very close. I try to be very protective of her. She has developed into a beautiful girl. She recently ask me to tell her about boys and sex. I think it is VERY IMPORTANT that she know the facts especially about sex. I don't want her pregnant. I told her I would prefer she talk to our mom about this. She said it would be to embarrassing to talk to our mom and she wants me to educate her about these subjects. Should I tell our mom about here asking about this and ask her to talk to Nancy or should I tell Nancy the facts about her body and how to prevent pregnancy. Nancy trust me completely and feels she can talk to me about anything without embarrassment. Mom and teenage girls, PLEASE give me some advice her. I only what is best for Nancy.

My brother is 10 years old and he's my best friend. I felt mad growing up in my household so when I was ready to apply for uni I applied to one far away from home but the only thing I felt bad about was leaving my brother. I moved out and since have felt distant from him. I came home for Christmas and have found he has put weight which, now makes his average and not under weight, and everyone is calling him unsociable for staying in his room. The older siblings and out parents are making fun of his weight but they don't understand it can hurt him a lot. He's a quiet, good boy but recently I've seen him get aggressive and start crying because he gets blamed for things he hasn't done. It makes me upset to see that he's innocent and for the older siblings to target him and leave him out. My family thinks it's always him because he lashed out and swears but it's only because he's angry and getting blamed for things he hasn't done. I feel so bad for leaving him and now I wish I didn't leave for my sake but that I stayed for his. I've been so selfish and I just need advice on what to do to make him happy because I'm leaving again soon and I don't wanna leave him to this. If I could take time back and stay and take all the abuse just so he wouldn't have to I would.

I live in California and I would like to visit my aunt during spring break, she lives in Montana. I'm staying with my grandma and my step dad is trying to get presumed parenthood. Would him having presumed parenthood change some of the rules? Could I leave state with my bio moms permission?

For example, my in laws will call and let our phone ring ten times. (We can't adjust the number of rings allowed unfortunately.) Then, they will call back and let it ring ten times. Then, they will call her cell phone, then mine and let each ring ten times. Then they will call the land line again. We've told them over and over that they are waking up the baby and to call once and let it ring five times at the most and we'll call them back. OK, they just called a fifth time in ten minutes. And no, it's not an emergency, they want to plan a walk for tomorrow or something. They do this all the time. Now, here's the kicker. They get angry that we didn't answer immediately. I don't see you ringing my phone as a legal binding contract that I must pick up. You call and if I want to talk I will pick up but you can't just force your way in.

I know its bad but i dont like him at all... Hes soo annoying . Hes always at my house .. And he smella really bad .REALLY BAD.his breath is nasty. And hes so dirty and doesnt shower. I just cant stand him. Please ... I dont wanna feel this way . What can i do

I live on campus but every semester there's a problem with living with people who have loud sex and loud friends. This semester I failed my class due to the problems around me. I hate Res life because they don't do anything (especially the head of res life) and I'm at the point where I would like to live on my own instead of moving from dorm to dorm. The problem is that it is university's policy to live on campus until your are 22, which is stupid. The catch is that you have to live with a parent that is at most 25 miles away. The issue is that my parents live in a different state that's 15hrs away and the only hope is my sister (but she has a one bed room). I want to get my own apartment but the school won't let me because I am 20. Is there a way that I can say that I live with my sister and hope that they don't contact the apartment complex so that I can live on my own?

A relative of my husband's is in high school. He is dating a girl about a 1 year or so younger than he is. Every time we are at the teenage boy's house, this little girl is up there. The other night, she stayed until after midnight we presume. She lives far away and its the job of the boy to take her home in his car. If you were her parents, would you be upset with her or his parents for letting her stay up there that long? She also goes into the boy's upstairs bedroom with him.

He's always calling me ugly me & him don't get along we never did& my mom knows this but I'm afraid to tell her because she probably won't believe me sometimes I think about hurting him only because he's rude & he yelled at me before This has been going on for a year now & I never ever liked him I've been bullied ever since I was little for my looks & complexion sometimes I think about killing myself & by him saying that I'm ugly makes everything worse plus he's part of the reason why me & my mom don't get along sometimes I even fought her before because she gets really aggressive when she drinks & I get extremely anxious because I always think something bad is going to happen...& her bf always disrespects me & she wants me to give him my respect that he doesn't deserve I'm really depressed & angry at times I feel like I hate my mom just as much as I hate him because she always blames stuff on me & she always drinks & I feel left out because they have a child together & i also feel like I'm losing my mom I hate him I just want him gone...& here's a picture of me

Well, so first off, I live with my dad and when I was younger, I asked my dad if I could join a soccer club and he said no. So i actually took up dancing last year and i told my dad just yesterday and he said I should go and focus on my studies and not waste time on that. But i am focused on my studies too, i'm even getting A's and B's for my subjects. But the thing is, whatever my older brother did, he never disapproves.. my brother even joined the soccer team when i couldn't... Now after I told him about me taking up dancing, he doesn't let me go out to do anything... I'm 15 and I need a life. If he doesn't let me dance then why can't I take soccer then?? BUT HE DISAPPROVES BOTH OF WHAT I LIKE TO DO! Why can my older brother do whatever he likes and I can't? It's unfair.

im a 13 year old girl and i live in miami, my moms ALWAYS telling me to put on my slippers or socks because i have tile floor. My feet are never cold but my mom thinks if i walk barefoot it can affect my period or whatever. is this true??

I'm a divorced father to two teenage girls ( 15, 17). I've been divorced for 12 years now. To put it bluntly, the girls are spoiled, and it's my fault. I always felt awful that they had to grow up without a mom( there was no joint custody, she just left.) so I was never hard on them, never punished them or made them work for anything. Bought them pretty much anything they want, no chores, etc. I'm now seeing the awful results. They whined when I mentioned this past summer that they should get part time jobs. Sleep until 1 on the weekends. What I think is the worst is, what little I do ask, gets ignored. This needs to be changed, I have no idea how to go about that change.

If you think about it, being the oldest, middle, or the youngest of the bunch can easily be good or can suck depending on how your parents raised you! Because I know a guy who is the oldest and doesn't have any brothers and I don't see him complaining. My parents made being the oldest child/daughter hell. Not only was I the oldest, but I was the only girl. I didn't have many female friends growing up and I was an outcast in school. This is why I regret getting in trouble a lot at school because my mother would remind me of how much of a bad role model I was for my younger brothers. Also, my father beat me sometimes for things my brothers did, and I would get yelled at by him for getting in trouble. It was for two reasons: 1. I'm the oldest. 2. I got in trouble the most and I was the most annoying.

Okay so my little brother is 10 and he can be the sweetest person ever but when his temper flares up it s brutal. He will tell my mom to shut up, call her an idiot, a demon, he s even said I hope you die once or twice. Not to mention he has called me an asshole which was TOTALLY unacceptable...but my mom DOESN T PUNISH HIM! She tries to talk to him or threatens things and never goes through with them, and he guilt trips her so she feels bad. It makes me furious but when I try to step in and reprimand him (because literally no one else is) I only end up getting yelled at. I don t know what to do, please help!!

She hits on her alot and puts her down by calling her ugly and an outcast she calls her out of her name and i think it may have something to do with thwm having different dads but i dont know everytime theyre both upstairs i always hear my 4 yr old crying or screaming at her. My 13 year old even broke her dolls. Everytime i try to talk to them about being nice and getting along it goes wrong and my 13 year old pushes her off the couch or makes a mean joke and they go back to fussing at each other. They are both mixed and both of their dads are somewhat in the picture with them please help!

My granddaughter is having a cesarean on Thursday. Normally, on Thursdays she goes and gets me food before I go into dialysis. Today, she informed me that Thursday, she will not be going to get food for me. Is this rude of her to say? She made other arrangements to help out while she was away and when she returns and is recovering, I just made it difficult on her.

Whenever my sister is at home she calls me almost everyday a spoiled brat. For example; when I get 2 pcs. of fried chicken, when she gets 1 chicken. Even I do good things to her and I share food sometimes. She still calls me that. She also compares me to her other 2 brothers. I also think she's just jealous because, everytime she sees new shoes bought by mom for me. She says to my mom "where did you even buy that?" I am 13 years old and my sister is 23. Btw, I'm a boy.

She's 2 years old and I see her often throughout the week. My sister (her mother) has a beautiful relationship with her, and there are no problems with their family. I babysit around once or twice a week for a full day whilst my sister is working. When she's not there, my niece often calls me "mummy". She knows I'm not when I correct her, she laughs when I say "I'm your auntie, silly monkey!" And she nervously laughs and calls me "mummy" again, being genuinely serious. She's been doing this for a few months now. Although sometimes she does call me by my real name. If she knows I'm not her mother, then why does she continue to call me it? My sister spends a lot more time with her than I do. What could this mean? Thanks.

I know this sounds really bad and weird, but I feel that in order to get attention and love by my family, I would have to sprain my ankle. My parents are normally very busy people, therefore having no time to spend with me. Also, last time I sprained my ankle, my dad painted this lovely picture with me and we did lots of arts and crafts together, and since they're off this week, I could sprain it and have a lovely arts week with my dad. (Yes, I know, I shouldn't, please don't say that I should talk to my parents or anything like that. I just want an answer for this)

Ok look so I've always been alone my entire life, when i was a kid i used to be alone bc my parents were at work for so long so i had to do something to pass life and tv and music were my only friends, as i grew up i started being less and less social and now my mom's retired and she spends so much time at home and she expects me to be all social and stuff but I can't it's just that i hate people and 4 days ago my mom started this awful fight and she hasn't talked to me in days and ruined christmas and I'm so tired guys please help me get over this I don't wanna talk to her anymore bccause she hates me and i have to move on but I don't know how

I have 7 adult siblings, and my dad is married to my step mother. Every time we all try to get together, something petty stops it. Mainly jealousy. If somebody works and has nice things, the ones who dont work get jealous and refuse to show up...or they create a bunch of lies so that often the others dont get invited. My dad and his wife are no strangers to this petty behavior themselves. My children and I are often left out of family get togethers. I have great kids, but they are not close to my family. My youngest brother is jealous of my youngest son and says mean things to him...my dad cuts us down and says stupid stuff because my husband has a good job and takes care of his kids...unlike my 33 yr old sister who stopped taking care of her 7 yr old when she was 2 years old & sees her 1 or 2 times a month...and you can bet that gets exploited so she can win mother of the year on fb when she has chosen partying and booze over her own kid..And she lives at home with my dad and his wife because she wont work while her daughter lives with her dad. This is how half of my siblings are...and they get treated like gold while my dad and his wife pick apart and leave out the ones who work hard and care for their children. We get no help, my brother and I, both have children with autism....but nobody offers to help or even give us credit for the work we do. We are left out, talked about, and they try to start trouble with our jobs/marriages. Why do I feel guilty for cutting them off Yes I pat myself on that back...coming from an abusive broken home, my mother left when I was 5 years old, and making some poor choices myself to get out of the violent home I came from...and having a kid at 18 years of age, with no help...working two jobs as a teen, and spending all my time with my son, who is btw, a high honor student and has a disability...coming from where I have...and forgiving these people over and over. Its nice that you compared yourself to me. As my parents have not even given one apology...or tried to make up for their mistakes. Certainly something I have learned from and do things differently with my own. now excuse me...because I wasnt a selfish bar whore who abandoned my children..while I go pat myself on the back. These are the same relatives that come to me for money & help, but dont do a thing to help me or anyone else. They use anybody and everybody...there is a difference between trash talking and telling the truth.

right now im upstairs and i want to head downstairs to my room but my uncle is downstairs in living room watching porn which is loud i can hear it upstairs i want to go to sleep but i dont want to walk down and he dont realize and i catch him because it will be awkward this is a everything issue at night and i dont want to tell my aunt

My mom gets angry easily and she always beats me. I'm tired of her. After beating me she keeps acting as if she was the victim.. Idk how to explain this but i want her to feel guilty. I want her to feel bad for doing this stuff to me. I told her many times before she was a bad mom and stuff but that didn't stop her. What should i do? I want her to feel bad. I know it's my mom but i don't care. She has to feel bad and guilty. So what should i do? And plz don't tell she's your mom she loves you bla bla bla

My friends think I should date my Brother's nephew. My brother and I have the same mom but different dad. It's his sister on his dad's side SON

I am 24 and have graduated college with an engineering degree. I immediately got a job after I graduated and I make enough money to support myself. I really like my job. However I have no friends and never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. In college it was 90 percent men and no chance to meet anyone. There is nobody my age at work and realize I have no way of meeting anyone. I have become depressed from this and I believe the only answer is to quit my job and go back to college not the same college to meet people. Is this a good or bad idea? Help plz

It started a few months ago. My older sister and her are really close because they spend a lot of time together. My older sister has a heart condition and needs a new heart, so she's getting a transplant. She's only 17 and she's really outgoing and charismatic and my mom and her and just really good friends. My mom just seems to love her more and I can't help but slowly hate my mom. I love my sister very much and feel no hostility towards her whatsoever. But my mother and I constantly but heads and she always puts me off, treats my like I do everything wrong and nothing good enough and makes me feel like im a low priority. I've talked to her about how I feel like she doesn't like me and she said she really loves me but I can't believe she likes me. I know other people have it worse than me so I feel guilty hating her but I can't help it :(

I'm not a fan of my previous aunt either, she is basically dead to the whole family moving to California to live with a guy that looks like a woodchuck, she even had my uncle paying gas money for her bringing the kids back. Now she is having the kids spend Christmas with the woodchuck and his family, everyone is up in arms about this. Maybe I'm not as easily offended but I see it as less fuss since the kids are younger. Nothing against my younger cousins but hopefully you get what I mean. Why get offended over something you can't control, so she keeps the kids for Christmas. Big Deal, she is losing every court case so let her have the tiny victories they mean nothing.

There is a certain nerve that my mom hits. I am 14, and I will scream at her and tell her that I hope she dies over the simplest things ever. I am really not mean, but I get so angry at my mom, and it's only my mother that this happens to. She tries hard, I realize that. I kind of wish she would be strict, I know that sound weird. My mom doesn't care, honestly. She would let me bring over any guy, she will let me stay at a friends house on a school night, and she didn't even care when my teacher called her and told her about my "attitude". She just laughs it off. I want a strict parent to guide me and help me choose the right thing to do. How is she going to do that when she allows me to do anything? I only live with her, and sometimes I hate her so much. She will ask me a simple question about something and I will become really rude to her. Why do I get so angry with her? I need to know why. I love her so much, but just thinking about her right now makes me want to jump off a bridge!

I spent my whole morning helping around house, making sure I don t get in trouble over nothing...so after hours of hard work, I told my mum that I d be back in 2 hours am going to meet my best friend. I arrived at his house, played a game (yugioh)...the whole time . my phone had died, so did his and there was no ptoper clock...so I was relying on the sun for time .by the time I left, it was 18:27 so I had to run home through the long route, bcz the shorter one was blocked. When I gt home and explained everything truthfully. ..my dad just looked at me, and treated me as if am a stranger..whilst my mum stopped talking to me as if I m not her son...until the next morning (today) nothing has changed Any advice?

I have always been more social and adventurous than my sister. I am 17 (18 in April) and my sister is 19. When my sister was my age she would sneak to other states without my mothers approval and she never did figure it out. Me, however, has always been honest and had to fight it out for permission to go anywhere. My mom says no to me because Im not 18 yet but lets my sister do whatever she wants. Is this fair? Is this a double standard? How do I deal with this? She goes "MAYBE when youre 18.."

Family, I wanna move out

I'm 15 and in high school. My big sister is in college and she gets a month off. I only get a week and 3 days off. I don't think it's very fair my sister gets this extra time off. I think that the younger grades should have this time off too. Why does my sister need a month off? We deserve it more our work is much harder!

So to start off i don't have a good relationship with my family.The only relationship i kept in touch with was my Twin brother and on rare occasion my parents whom i told how i was doing every few months. My brother is the type to talk a whole lot of ****. When i first met my girlfriend, the 3 of us had to live together. He made it a nightmare..... For 6 months we had to live there. Everyday he was talking ****, he wouldn't clean up after himself. He would shame us publicly and around friends. He would threaten us and talk trash about her. She was my guardian angle always telling me not to destroy him. I would have to go for angry runs to calm down many times a day. And stay away from him. The final month i was there, i snapped. I had to much built up frustration.. I beat him up so bad. He was hospitalized he forgave me and apologized to us and knew the whole thing was his fault. I moved away to be with my love, he was nice for a while..... Then a few months into it he started talking **** again. We lost contact. 3 Years later we talked again, he was coming to visit, He had no where to go. I felt uncomfortable, but i could handle it. I wasn't gonna put up with his ****. I explained no harassment or fighting. He left he caused some minimal problems but i shut him down every time he started his ****. Current day now, i have anger towards him. And i generally don't care to see him succeed. I am happy i made it. An happy a horrible guy like him didn't. Today i called police After all he did, i broke up him and his girlfriend. Showed police he was dating a underage girl, showed pics of conversations he shared with me of him threatening his gf over facebook and skype. He is the same to even the girls he falls in love with. I gave police evidence of him harassing us too. funny thing is, if he had just showed he was sorry for his actions, i probably wouldn't have done it. But just like a psychopath he showed no Empathy for his actions. He only wanted to talk more ****.

I'm 28(girl) & my bf is 26,we love eachother told our parents,dey hv agreed for our marriage,but my family wants me 2 settle by may 2016(reasons-my age factor,in future-late pregnancies issues n my bro who stays in U.S,can only get leave in may or after 2 yrs.His mom want us 2 mary in 1.5 yrs,as he is 26 n young 2 marry,she feel i'm rushing dis weding n future medical n my bro issues is our prob.nt theirs,my guy is supportive n he will try may 2016,how shd be get a middle sol. 2 this problem