I have a wedding ring, okay. I smile a lot and I'm just friendly.

My wife loves me dearly. The issue is that she never says I love you unless I say it first. she never just comes up and hugs or kisses me. But she is always receptive when I do. We have discussed this many times. she says it is because the way her family was when she grew up. No body said I love you and her parents showed no affection towards each other. I try to accept this, but it hurts. I try to then withold the I love yous and the hugs and kisses,,, but thats just not me.. Anyone have experience with this? andy advice

It really worries me because I am not having any luck meeting anyone. All of my friends are married with babies now. I have one friend who is pregnant with her 4th child now. They all married right out of high school. Yet I am 23 and have not come anywhere close to being engaged yet. I fear that I will still be in the same boat by the time I am 30. What should I do??

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 1/2 years, own our own home, and we have a 10 month old daughter(we moved fast in our relationship but have known each other since grade school) Recently he saw something on Facebook about marriage and he said "well I don't like the idea of getting married, why spend thousands on a wedding or even money on paper saying we are married, it's not like it's making people stay together with all of the divorces happening." but when I talk to his friends, more than one has told me when He first wanted to ask me out he told them "I'm gunna marry that girl" why the sudden change? I want to get married, but now I don't want to scare him away with it.

They send heart emoticons to each other on Facebook. He phoned me a week ago after work to say he unexpectedly got invited to an art party and was going to go. Turns out she invited him to it. He told me he was sexually aroused by her after they traded massages. Is it overreacting to end it with him? He didn't tell me she had invited him to that art party. When I asked him to be honest about his feelings with her, he didn't tell me that they had spent lunch together. I asked if he was sending flirty vibes to her. He didn't tell me about the heart emoticons. In my book, this is unfaithful. I want to end it.

typically i walk around naked in my house with the amazing package god gave me flowing with the breeze. well today my friend's wife showed up at my house and she walked her edible *** right in without knocking. it's okay. still it would have spared the embarrassing moment. well friends, she saw me naked and kind of blushed at my little willy. I said to her, 'yeah drink me up. cost nothing to look.' so she apologized profoundly and walked out. i told her husband, aka my friend face to face. he was alright with it. I told him at least now she knows what a real man's body looks like and well, he didn't take it very well. he said he didn't understand our friendship. but what's worse is his wife can even look at me now or be next to me. so I told my friend maybe I should see her naked to settle the scores and he just rubbed his templates and walked away. what a child! should i suggest this to his wife?

The father of my husband stares at me in a weird way, and always calls me with flirting words. I thought I am just imagining at first, but then it became very clear to me that he wants sex with me. How on earth could this be possible?

I have a good friend who has been married for 5 years. Her spouse is a widower. She has 3 children from a former relationship and he has 4 from his first marriage. Her husband has been posting love notes on facebook to his deceased wife. In the posts he mentions how much he still loves her and can't wait to join her. My sister became upset and asked if he really cared about her. I do agree that this was inappropriate for her to mention something on facebook about his posts. I, however, do feel bad for our friend. I have been married for quite a while. If my husband had been a widower and posted love messages to a deceased spouse I would be looking for a lawyer. I wouldn't want to play second fiddle to a ghost. Any thoughts about this situation? Thanks.

My ex wife and I have been separated for 2 going on 3 years. The first two years I came around, helped with the kids at her home, even had dinner with them. That way we still did things together as family. By the way, it s a total of 5 kids, 3 are mine two are step. Yes we had issues and arguments but this time instead I would just go to my house. Instead of staying I m one home like when we were married. Anyways we had our ups and downs but we maintained a good relationship for the kids. Recently she s had issues with her living conditions nd her lease was up around August. She had no where to stay so I offered my home til she got on her feet. For our kids of course. It s been very difficult for her to save so since September she s been living with me. Only problem is, we argue so much. Really bad. Her only option is going to homeless shelter nd I do not want my kids there. So far, the only way she s ever going to leave is if she lands a ver good job but I don t see that happening. She s going to school but won t be done for another year. Idk if I can last a year with all this arguing. It got to the point where she keyed my car a few days ago. It s a brand new car too... idk what to do. Can someone give ideas please

My kids are 4 and 9, and their mother no I are still married.

Her employer recognizes domestic partnerships for health insurance. We don't want a marriage license until after we are married in later 2015.

My husband and I have been fighting for days now. We'll I was going to leave because I'm tired of him tell me I'm a bad mom and I'm stupid and talking about my dead parents. Well when I was going to leave my husband punched me in the face about 6 times and than took the medel ashtray and hit me in the back the back if the head with it about 4 times it hurt so bad. I can't even lay on my pillows. I have told my mother in law about him doing this to me and she said a woman should know her place. I am my husband made u cook I clean and I listen to his rules. I can't leave because he won't let me take my 2 year old and he beats the **** out of me if I want to leave. He tells me that's if he don't leave bruses that it's not abuse but what he doesn't realize is I have big knots on the back of my head. I need advice is it wrong to be in love with someone who abuses me. He doesn't like me know because a couple years old we have a child that passed and after he passed I Gaines weight and I had another child so I gained more I guess I deal with him because like he says I'm 2 fat Noone is gonna want me know.

I'm 30 and my Fiancee is 20, he says (I Love you So Much) but I wonder sometimes. He has a tendency not to follow through on some things that ate important to (us) and me. Even after promising to do it. I don't like to nag but sometimes I have to voice my feelings. And sometimes he won't do it till I cry and break up with him. He's very loving but cheap, he gets on me for buying itunes because it's a waste of money. Even though it's my money I'm spending. He has never given me a flower but he did pay for a week in GA only because I lied and said my bank account was messed up. I only did that because I had made a big purchase for us and he was to pay for the trip. Maybe he dosen't Love me because he seems ok with upsetting me over this stuff I was married before and my ex was older when we got together but he bought me flowers and gifts. My fiancee on the other hand iskinda tight.. Hes in the military. Is he just a jerk or a tropical 20 year old?

This woman has her father as all of her profile pictures on her social media account, Facebook, Twitter everything. He's been dead for 10 years. Isn't it wrong that she has no pics of her husband? Only her dead father

The whole going home after work, having dinner, being around kids, then going to bed. Is this really what men want? Obviously women like it

What can she do legally? She said he put the house, all the cars and all his extra money in his uncle's name right after she left so in the divorce she cant touch anything. Is there anything legally she can do about this? And mind you, she struggles raising BOTH kids on her own and struggles as he makes a lot of money and spends it on beer, cigarettes and is off sleeping with other women. He's cheated on her the entire time and even abused her a few times. He is diagnosed bipolar and is a raging alcoholic that chose his drinking over his family and walked away from them.

I will post something and they won't like it and cal me a name and I'll tell my husband and he will ask them not to do that any more and they just say they have to walk around my feelings and they blocked me on fb and I haven't heard from Them in a year and they don't talk to my husband either . My mother inlaw acts like I don't excists

Ok so my parents have been dovorced for 2 years and I feel like my dad dosent care about me anymore because he lives 6 states always and he never comes to visit I go see him 1 or 2 a year and he never calls to see how I am and never answers when I call like I understand that they're divorced but he shouldn't leave me too

We re committed couple.We love each other.It s not always smooth tho. Sometimes there are her faults and my faults but I admit I am more than that at some stage (please don't judge me here). So if I lose my temper, I said horrible words when we are in fight, many times I called her 'b****, f*** u, f*** off' as I feel annoyed. She warned me many times she can't take that because she doesn't do that to me.Last time I couldn't control myself, I said 'b**ch, idiot, useless, f*** u – $5000 and a ticket for her to leave (she isn t financially stable so far)' She claimed that everyone may get angry, but it doesn't have to escalate to 'rudeness',I agreed.She got very upset this time,I said I know my fault and really will change this time (I mean it) and she can't be convinced, she said I ruined her security, doesn't want to hear those 'words' again .For her to carry on with me is like throwing a dice now, she also thinks she is losing her opportunity out there if she gives me more chance but I failed it again and ends up hurting herself alone. So she said her given choice is either she has to leave or she might stay (she said still love me) but with a condition to secure her in case if I cross her line again she doubts she could only walk out the door with nothing, and even if I will responsible for her financially if she leaves then she will not accept it.She thinks another form to demonstrate my responsibility is to put money setting up her small business (which I can afford). the truth is I when I first found her, I had nothing, I was broke. She still accepted me. She doesnt have much money, but she cared to buy clothes, shoes, bags, parfume, surprised me right at 12 am with candles and cake and gift on my birthday even when I asked to not do anything for me. She tried to take care of me as much as she could, always cooked me food and made it special for me and tell me to be careful on the way to work. I managed to bring her back my home as I want to sell my house (we lived overseas previously), she worked hard on the house to help me. Until that night we had a fight and I said those horrible words and said to buy her ticket and gave her $5000 to leave, she thinks I feel powerful as I sell the house and have much money out of it and one day I if I would I could just kick her *** out like I did that night.Honestly I made mistake that caused this ****,I dont blame her,i just...idk, sad to myself

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. I am divorced with two kids. He gets along well with my kids and has been an amazing partner in more ways than I can count. He treats me and my kids very well and also gives me the space I need to deal with my ex husband/father of my children. The only thing I have struggled with is my ex husband who has been a very inconsistant at best father of our children is verbally abusive towards me at times. My ex husband tells at me and frequently sends me nasty texts whenever he finds out my current boyfriend and I are taking the kids on vacation, if he's spending time with our children whom he is great with and if he stays over at my house. My ex husband also rarely wants to see his kids unless it involves him coming over to my house for short periods of time when I'm alone. He's never talent initiative to take his kids anywhere on his own anywhere and also is very inconsistant about paying child support. The issue I'm having is I'm trying to make everything run smooth but my ex husband always has the ability to cause problems. He also calls my phone late at night and texts me things that have nothing to do with the kids. How should I handle this?

So I made my grandma a Facebook, a long time ago, yes she's married to my grandpa. She ended up finding old friends, and unfortunely some old "hook ups" she got in contact with them and they started speaking a little inappropriate for someone who's married, I figured this out because I was using her phone and messages kept popping up and it's touch screen so I accidently tapped on it yes it was an accident ( by the way she's not someone who I'd expect this from so why look for it ) but anyways I clicked it and right away it showed disturbing things, I seriously read 3 words and didn't read any more, I then thought for days what to do what should I do..I didn't wanna get involved because I can't see them getting a divorced over me, I then just blocked 2 guys on her profile, my grandma doesn't know about blocking or Facebook much at all so I thought she would never know. A MONTH has passed, and she somehow figured it out and unblocked both. I know this because someone called at 2:30 AM and she answered quietly and nobody we know calls later then 9PM, honestly. So I then fell asleep after being woken up by the call, and now I'm waking up to an empty house. A note has been left on the phone but it's in cursive I can't really read the writing but it just says something about changing lives and it's by my grandma. I doubt she's leaving my grandpa right then and there. But I need someone to talk to, I have a friend but is it right of me to let someone else know I know about this?

It's the battle of the egos in their marriage. Sometimes things are a competition to them. One doesn't like to look inferior to the other. The husband doesn't like a woman telling him what to do, and the wife doesn't like looking weak and cowardly to men. What do you think of this type of marriage, and what if your marriage is like this? Both like to feel in charge.

OK so me and my husband are still technically married we haven't been together in almost a year were not even separated, anyway I'm moving with then 4 hours away my "husband" doesn't even take for for over night stays with him anyway me and my boyfriend plan to move in March and can my husband fight me in the courts with this? He said he will

Did anyone tried it and regret about it ? Should I do it? We are friends with a couple that I feel would want that, to me it seems like a cool idea. (We joked about it many times) But me and my wife are from conservative families and have no idea what we will feel after doing it. Did anyone tried ? will it spice up relationships and satisfy fantasies. ? If you can't be honest about it, please don't Bullshit....

I mean cheating is a form of being selfish greedy and lacking self control right. The reason why I'm asking this is because my friends mom cheated on his dad with his brother and she divorced him. So can someone explain to me why people say cheating is human nature when it's not.

My boyfriend, who is married, says he loves me and every time we have a big fight he doesn't let me go that easily. He says he feels his wife is just using him for the money. He says he won't leave her cause he wants to be able to see his kid. His wife caught us, yet he won't let me go. Why is he still with her? Is the child just an excuse?

So my parents are divorced, then my dad got remarried then divorced again. Tonight he s invited over his 2nd exwife and her daughter for dinner, then an outing. I really don t want to go because currently I hate them both. What do I do?

my spouse wrote me a card saying thanks for being my "bad cop" i get confused easily.

He was and always will be my ONLY true love. He was a cop killed in the line of duty. I could strangle his 2nd wife for letting him do that. I wouldn't let him. In the eyes of the "church" he is still MY husband right? I was his FIRST wife and he told me no matter what he would always love me SO THERE!

My husband is an Osteopath and a Registered Massage Therapist. He traded massage with a 19 year-old massage student. While she was touching his sacrum, he felt attraction towards her. While this was happening (I thought he was working), my intuition was saying loudly, "He's with another woman". When he got home, I asked if he was cheating on me. That's when he told me about the attraction he felt. He said he was tempted to cheat. He said he didn't want to kiss her and didn't want to touch her - he had a fantasy about her touching his penis. When I told him part of me wanted to just give him my blessing to be free and do whatever he wanted, he said he didn't want her. "It would just be lust". Is this natural? Feeling a physical sense of arousal when your sacrum is being touched seems normal to me. What concerns me is the temptation to perform an act with her. Not just a sensation in his body. That and a month ago, while we were at a party, the two of them danced up a storm for the duration of one song in a way that rang my intuition bells. The rest of the time, he was dancing intimately with me. I chalked it up to him just going around having fun. But now to hear that this happened (while he and I are having problems in our marriage) concerns me. He wanted to make love this morning and I told him I didn't want to be sexual with him until it felt sacred between us again. He respected that and spent 10 minutes kissing me tenderly, telling me how much he loves me.

My sister has a 7 month old baby and is currently unemployed. She lives with her husband, who works long hours 5-6 days a week. On his day off, he drops off my sister and baby at my mother's house and goes out to hang out with friends. My mother (who is almost 60) willingly offered to do their laundry, and has been doing so since the baby was born. I feel that even though she offered, it's wrong for my sister and her husband to accept. I feel that her husband should help do the laundry on his day off instead of hanging out. I brought this up to my sister and she straight up called me a "*****" and my whole family is taking her side. Thoughts?

Per my divorce decree money was taken out of my 401k to pay joint martial debt and for my ex wife s portion of the money. In our divorce decree it states the bill money was to be given to her lawyer after my ex recieved it from my 401k account and her lawyer was suppose to pay the bills, including me for my car that I paid out of pocket. I was also suppose to recieve what was left over of the bill money. My ex wife kept the money & paid the bills herself without my lawyers kmowlege and to take the majority of her money out of her 401k account she received from me and which put her in a higher tax bracket. Her and her lawyer didn t account for that. After months of the bills not being paid I found out her lawyer didn t have the money and she did. Which it clear states her lawyer was supposed to have the money and pay the bills. Then she wouldnt give me my share and she is holding my money to pay whatever taxes she might have because he took the money out if the 401k to spend and put her in that higher tax bracket. In our decree it says we are both responsible for our own taxes. She is trying to cut a deal and give me 4 grand less to pay her taxes with my money. My lawyer says if I want to pay him another 2500 he will file for contempt. I feel I m getting screwed by all the lawyers and my ex wife. This is all being handled wrong. I just paid for the divorce I don t have 2500 to pay him.

so i post about 2 weeks ago that my wife ask for divorce. we have been in relationship for about 5 years and six months ago we decided to get married. story short for the past 2 month i have had some difficulty with my finances due to my business being slow. up to now i never ask her to help out for any bills either for the house or groceries. the last two months i have been stressed out because i have been straggling paying all the bills and ask her if she can help to with some bills. she currently attending law school and works full time but she blames that the money she makes is not enough to help me out with the bills and this is all where it started that she told me i have been mean to her the past few months and that i am not there for her and that i want her to get a second job and drop school to help out and blah blah. which i never said anything bought quoting school. so about a week ago she said she needed space to think about things that she is not happy and she said she is not in love but she loves me and now this is new to me. my question is how do you say all that after this long when you could not say before you get married and i thought married people are suppose to help each other in bad times? she now wants a divorce and she got some papers ready for me to sign on monday. I do how ever not want a divorce intact i want everything to work out because i love my wife and in love with her. so how do i go about this to not get screwed. if i do not sign the papers and tell her you want the divorce then do it by your self can she still clam half my acids? what is the best way to go about this sense its my first marriage.

I am 31 years old woman. I have a son and my son is 11 years old. He has severe speech delay. I got divorced from his dad few months back. Once our son was diagnosed which was 2 years ago his father didn't want anything to do with us and he left. The divorce took very long time and i can finally say that the judge wasn't fair to me at all. They asked him to pay monthly allowances which 900 dollars a month. That is just bit background about me..... I am currently living with my son and i work full time as i need money for school.We moved to new city and my son is on the waiting list for the school. So my mother visited me from canada for few weeks. I wake up around 5 am to prepared myself for work and i give my son his breakfast. I came back to the house at 3 pm while my son didn't eat anything since morning and my mother woke up at that time and she is applying some make up to go out. I didn't say anything to her so i ran to the kitchen and prepared some food for him. She went out to meet some of her friends and she is usually back around 2 am. Whenever I ask her lets go out together to the park with my son she tells me i am sick I can't go and after 30 minutes or so i see she is applying some make up and meeting her friends and she will be out until 2 am or 1. This has been ongoing for the past 2 weeks she was here with me. She never cooks or even gives lunch to my son and when i come home i make it quickly or order from the restaurant. She will eat the food and go out immediately. I understand she doesn't want to spend time with us. If you were in my place what would u do? I feel very disappointed that my own mother would do that to me. When she is not out or sleeping, she will be chatting to her friends thru the phone and leaving my son and myself in the other room. What would u do if u were in my place? pls help Thank you

I am 31 years old woman. I have a son and my son is 11 years old. He has severe speech delay. I got divorced from his dad few months back. Once our son was diagnosed which was 2 years ago his father didn't want anything to do with us and he left. The divorce took very long time and i can finally say that the judge wasn't fair to me at all. They asked him to pay monthly allowances which 900 dollars a month. That is just bit background about me..... I am currently living with my son and i work full time as i need money for school.We moved to new city and my son is on the waiting list for the school. So my mother visited me from canada for few weeks. I wake up around 5 am to prepared myself for work and i give my son his breakfast. I came back to the house at 3 pm while my son didn't eat anything since morning and my mother woke up at that time and she is applying some make up to go out. I didn't say anything to her so i ran to the kitchen and prepared some food for him. She went out to meet some of her friends and she is usually back around 2 am. Whenever I ask her lets go out together to the park with my son she tells me i am sick I can't go and after 30 minutes or so i see she is applying some make up and meeting her friends and she will be out until 2 am or 1. This has been ongoing for the past 2 weeks she was here with me. She never cooks or even gives lunch to my son and when i come home i make it quickly or order from the restaurant. She will eat the food and go out immediately. I understand she doesn't want to spend time with us. If you were in my place what would u do? I feel very disappointed that my own mother would do that to me. When she is not out or sleeping, she will be chatting to her friends thru the phone and leaving my son and myself in the other room. What would u do if u were in my place? pls help Thanks Unfortunately I can't hire a babysitter because my son is non verbal and i am worried the baby sitter will beat him and i wouldn't know about it. There is no daycare for 11 years old at all. I didn't make any agreement with my mother at all but since she is at home and not doing anything at least she could feed my son all the food is available but for her to wait for me until i am back and starving the child that long is very cruel to me.

My fiancé and I met our freshman year of college. We are now both 23 years old and got engaged this summer. Sometimes I feel completely in love with him and I feel "at home" when I'm with him, and other times I feel like we are complete opposites. He loves science and nature, and I am more of an artsy/literature type person. I am a neat freak and he never cleans. Sometimes his behavior frustrates me and makes me worry if we'll have a good marriage together. do you have any advice?

I m the same girl who had that problem in the homeless shelter. And we ll he has been acting distant I ve tried to approach sex and he gets extremely angry . He also walks a lot in circles and talks a lot in the shower and washing dishes like he s mad. He looks like he s fighting some internal emotions but I don t know what , he never tells me. I feel lost unwanted I don t know what else to do

One of my friends, who is belong to a Brahman family had married a girl who was belong to a Schedule cast community. Dose she eligible now (after marriage) to get all benefits that Government provided before her marriage?