There has to be a reason for his behaviour... He's not just "weird"! i live next door and share a garage with this guy I've always secretly had a crush on... I've always been way to shy! . He works in the same building as me too ... That's wjere I first spotted him... we we have been living in the same building/work building for 3 years now... And it's always been awkward between us... Sometimes I get a little lost for words in his presence because I like him so much ... But then other times I will bump into him at home and I'm friendly... It's just sometimes I get anxiety... The thing is... He is different everytime I see him! Some days he will glance at me from across the room.... Other times I will walk past him and he won't look at me... Then other times he will smile and say hello... I don't get it! Recent example: - we had a brief but friendly chat in the driveway - 3 days later I walk into work... He's in the foyer... Walked straight past me looking at the ground... what the hell??? Why so hot and cold??? a little more about him: - he is good looking, sporty and seems confident with other ppl ... - he lives with his long term gf... Who is very overweight ... They both look miserable with each other and argue a bit... I heard he yell at him once, "I want u to have sex with me! I'm nearly 30, I want a baby now!" - we are all 29 years of age..

To make matters worse we have three children together. I'm done with the games, but my income alone is not as substantial as his. What can I do to save money on a divorce. Also I've never been arrested before in my life. I was humiliated and may lose my job if they decide to charge me.

something will happen to him. Sometimes I like to be alone don't get me wrong. It's when I am alone and DON'T want to B alone if that makes sense.

Me and my girlfriend(soon to be wife and currently carrying OUR child) got into a very bad situation a while ago and decided to have a break and see if things work out with someone else our if we just needed time apart. We both dated separate people and eventually broke up with them because we where still in love and it wasn't fair on the other people. We worked things out and things are going well... except for one thing...her ex. He constantly posts on social media that women who get pregnant before graduation and marriage are idiots. He also said the we should put the child up for adoption if we don't want it to starve while living off of food stamps(which we don't) He went as far as saying that He controls our history and future and that if anyone messes with him he will get his 50 friends to make her life miserable. That has actually driven her to the point to be scared. We literally don't talk to him, he has us blocked so we can't even ask him to stop, he spreads lies that she doesn't know who the dad is and that i physically abuse(which i would NEVER) This needs to end. Please advice because not even keeping quite is helping him realize he needs to grow up.

I am NOT a troll. I am DEAD serious OK? ;) He wasn't ALWAYS fat lol. Should I find someone else with a BIG bank account and schlong? I still love him Godzilla!

Since these couples are considered legally married are they required to use birth control? What if one of the couples get pregnant? That's on them?

He says he still loves me, but he is not happy because he doesn't want the responsibility of being married. He wants to be single and have the freedom to do whatever he wants without having to consider someone else. We have split up a few times but he always comes back and I am so in love with him that I take him back. I don't want to do that anymore, but I don't want a divorce either. I asked him why he keeps coming back if he wants to be single. He said he doesn't know and that maybe it's because he doesn't want to see me with anyone else or maybe because he misses me.

He proposed to me 3 months after we got together and I've been waiting and waiting and waiting to try and plan a wedding that seems like will never happen. He kept saying wait till we are more financially stable. It's been 6 years and were in worse shape moneywise than before. He quit a good paying job to work at subway because he was "bored with it" Now he's saying there's really no point in getting married its just a piece of paper. And no one else in his family is married. He said "I guess we can since you want to" I got so irritated with waiting I said lets just go to the courthouse. Even though I really wanted an actual wedding. Now he thinks he can get away with just a courthouse wedding to shut me up. I really don't feel like I should settle with that as long as he's put me off. I'm almost to the point on giving up on him entirely instead of wasting more years.

SO our son gets less. He has shabbier clothes...or not fancy stuff. I think my husband should spend more of what he earns on our sone, so things would be equal, but he refuses. what should I do to change this? He's a rich guy its more than just that also. They will have more opportunity...a larger inheritance ad everything. I think My husband should adjust his will, and make things equal so our son is not treated like he's not as important. He gives all of them the same, but his ex wife buys their kids everything. They have custom made clothing, and rolex watches, jewelry, sports cars. I work part time as a pre school teacher. and Im a stay at home mom. I take care of the house, and entertaining. He has alot of that for his social position and career. Also his father died before our son was born so our son will have a smaller share of his families trust. Its irrevocable. I want him to take money out of it..which he has control over and set up a larger trust for our son. He won't....says its dishonest and his cousins would fight him hes not leaving me in poverty...his other kids have nicer things than our son bc they have a trust fund their grandfather set up and a wealthy mother. Im not wealthy. He spends the same amount on our son as he does on his other childrens...just they get more bc of wha their grandfather did for them before he died, and what their mother does for them. I cant make things equal bc I dont make much money, but I think he should spend a larger portion on our son than he does on his 2 the kids No we dont have a joint account. I didn't have one in my first marriage, and neither did he. None of his family ofriends have those, bc he comes from a wealthy background. Also his wealth is family wealth, 5 genrerations old, and in trust. The money the trust makes I have no right to, even if we divorced. Our son is part of it, but his other children are parys of other family trusts from uncles and their mother, and our child is only an equal beneficiary of his. His other kids have their own wealth, from the family. They will never have to work if they dont want to, and will always have a high standard of living. Our son will only have those opportunities once his father dies. I wish I knew more about this stuff, and how this stuff worked before getting married. I never though about it. Our son id provided for better than any other guy could have.....of the options I had bentley - He does support his children...all the same. The other children just get more, and have their own wealth because their ancestors are weather than Ours are. His ex wife has many millions...and so does he. But he's more conservative than his ex wife...and his father...his childrens grandfather established irrevocable trusts for his other rchildren, and then died. Our son does not have his own wealth bc of this 2 things

Lately I have been thinking about it more and more since we fight everyday. I think she doesn't appreciate the lifestyle I have given her compared to her old lifestyle. I just want to find someone who would like me without always fighting with me and would help more to benefit one another.

Im going to be in 12th grade next year. I get sexual urges, and Im religious. This summer, a man wanted to know if Im single or engaged because he is in his mid twenties and I was 17, but he is an engineer. He said it didnt matter if I was still studying. He tried to propose in Lebanon this summer in 2015, and we needed time to think about it (me and my mom). Next summer, if I go to Lebanon, do you think it is a good idea to start to settle down. Im religious (NO INTIMACY BEFORE MARRIAGE), and I m getting these sexual urges and Im maturing, some part of me wants to have a baby...

Ok so back in the past i have always worked and my hubby never had a problem giving me his money as well..After all my money was his and his was mine. Anyways so i am not going to lie i have been giving my parents some or at least most of that money when they need help because i felt like they were the ones watching my kids while both of us were out working. Anyways, but when my husband lost his job just recently he was back home(we were living with my parents). While he was in the process of finding another job my mom gave him so much HELL!! But funny thing is that my hubby put a down payment on their apartment so all of a sudden after my hubby got his job back now he don't trust me with his money because he said he doesn't want me to give it to my ungrateful mother. I do agree my mother was a total asshole to him but i don't work anymore and we have kids. So far i am only getting 100 dollars from him and i don't know if i should be upset. i am doing a program now for pharmacy tech and he insisted for me not to get a job because he wanted me to focus but too bad i want to get a job asap and go to school because i hate to ask any effn body for ****. With 3 kids i need to get out and get a job what do you guys think?

For example you want your fiancee to stop smoking or enter therapy for her depression when you get married. On one hand marriage is about growing to be a better person but on the other hand people say that if you're expecting your future spouse to change you're bound to be disappointed. So where do you draw the line?

Just a little background info , I hate weed I don't smoke it and people who do really make me sick but I love my husband dearly so I just put my faith in one day he'd stop but I feel it's gotten way to out of control. He does it to much and it bothers me I don't know how to live like this hurting. I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I don't feel it's appropriate to stay in a relationship were I feel my husbands addicted to marijuana. It's to the point I feel he puts it first before me and the baby just because today he made us late to our dr app to smoke witch this wouldn't be a first time. I love him dearly and don't want to feel like I'm just giving up on him because I know God does not like divorce and I'm trying to live by him but I just can't take it any more I tried to talk to him over and over but he just tells me he don't care how I feel and he's never going to stop smoking weed. can I have you ladies/wife's opinions

the ex-husband to take responsibility for the child since neither the woman or other man will? I guess by force I mean, the ex husband saw no other way for this child to be raised right by uncaring parents and saw to it that it be raised properly, at least until the biological parents take a step up

I don't suffer from erectile dysfunction (yet). I can maintain it, but nothing surprises me. Actually, I stand corrected (heh). When my wife dresses and acts naughty, I can get a monster b0ner to the point I could club it over her head and leave a bruise. But my wife REFUSES to dress/act that way (in or out of the bedroom). She has become quite the prude. When I tell her that I really want this, she says "Well, I'm not doing that any more. When you go to have sex with me, you'll just have to get it up on your own so you can do the deed".... B**ch, if I have to get it up AND all the work with you laying on the bed like a dead corpse, then you have another thing coming - porn time! She won't do foreplay. She won't do dress up. She won't do kinky toys. She quite literally lays on the bed and expects you to "ravish her" like the people in her Immortals After Dark books (she hasn't read them in a while, but it's her "go to" romance series). The burden knowing how boring and hard work it's going to be sucks. And it's not like she can be dominated and moved around, she JUST lays there. So here's the stalemate - She won't do her part in the act at all. Nothing to get me up, nothing during the act. I told her either foreplay and/or dress/act the part OR do something other than lay there so I actually want to have sex with her! She has chosen neither and basically said "it is what it is" and I said "Yup" and I have been porning ever since. What would you do to fix this? COUNSELING IS NOT AN OPTION BECAUSE MY WIFE WOULD NEVER ATTEND. STOP SUGGESTING IT. MY WIFE REFUSES TO LET OUR DYSFUNCTION ESCAPE OUR HOME AND BE KNOWN TO ANYONE ELSE. I CAN BE ON HERE BECAUSE IT IS ANONYMOUS AND SHE CAN DENY IT ALL. By the answers I'm getting, it appears no one wants to tackle this problem. It sounds like to me you have NO knowledge in how to make a dysfunctional sex life become functional again. You can be a sisterhood loyal woman and still tell me that my wife is being unreasonable. You can also be a misandrist and tell me that sex isn't important. I just want to know what other people would do.... We both played our power plays, but now what? I will apologize for the use of the word "B**ch" only because you social justice warriors refuse to answer the question because I was showing disrespect towards women. But, someone who is cornering me into doing things HER way and ONLY her way is not someone who deserves respect. If you don't like the way I apologized, tough. I'm tired of playing this politically correct game with you on here; my wife makes me angry and right now I have no outlet. Look past the word and just answer.

And rarely sees her teenage kids because she's too busy with her boyfriend?

Mother is disabled, on oxygen with end stage copd. I'm her daughter and am relied on though it is not admitted how much I am needed. Husband keeps pushing me to get a job to work at home. This feels unfair and I feel if I do this I will crumble and lose what sanity I have left. What should I do? I can't put her in a nursing home. Assisted living is not an option. We can't afford extra care. Our house is falling apart because mom and dad are old and can't maintain it. Feeling trapped and lost. I've thought about suicide more now than I ever have before and I've dealt with alcohol dependence and that was a dark time. This is like a nightmare carnival ride that doesn't seem to end...

I believe people should be in a common-law marriage before they are in a marriage marriage. If they can get along and live in the same house or apartment as the other person, then there's no reason to think that their marriage won't last. I think that if two people can't live together and get along (i.e., always bickering and arguing with each other) before they get married, then I don't see how they will get along with each other after they are officially married. I think that's why divorce rate is so high. A majority people get married for the sake of getting married. I meant common-law relationship btw

My husband and I sometimes browse the Craigslist personal ads when we re bored, they re funny and I know were horrible people for it, but it s a weird thing we do together that makes us laugh, so sorry. So anyways we re browsing and giggling and then there s one that s not funny, talking about his wife that won t put out so he needs someone to fulfill her duties. Well there s a picture (body no head), and i recognize the tattoo, and sure enough I type the phone number into my facebook, and guy pops up, and I don t really know his wife, she just works at my Realtors office, but it s bothering me so much now. I would want to know if my husband was advertising his shlong on craigslist, do I tell her? I almost sent her a facebook message with a screenshot but that s almost more awkward... but I cant bear to make an appt. And see her because I m afraid I ll blurt out that her husband is a dirt ball cheater.

Been married 7 yrs. Lately he was very disconnected form me and kids. Had crazy sex behavior from being horny all time to showing no interest. To being super rough in bed to just getting it over with. Blamed it on his trucking job. But nothing I did to reconnect, he d never show slightest interest in re connecting.6 months ago I finally dug up to my suspiciousness. I started checking his emails for a few months until I finally caught the fact he s messing with craigslist hoes.Confronted him he swears he never met with any. Looking back there were days where he did not come home on time. now that he has office job I know the time he s off. He d have all sorts of excuses.A date to movie theater that he used debit card swears he was by himself which I don t believe that night he came we had sex but he was absolutely out of energy and literally fell asleep by the time I went to get dressed and back to bedroom.Which took no longer than 3 minutes. He still denies . Than there were also emails that were sent to gay men on Craigslist. I did find emails with a gay man that knew all his details yet he denies it ever was him. Says his iPhone was hacked.I tell him it can t be so for someone to know so much details.He swears he has no idea why and how it happened . He just admitted to few emails to women from craigslist but actually meeting or doing something he denies. I know he s not being honest and he gets very defensive every time I bring it up.So just how do I have him confess.

Say a woman is married to a man who has back problems and he cannot pick his son up for physical reasons. If the son wondered off at a fireworks show and a man they didn't know picked him up to watch the fireworks and the woman pointed it out to her husband how cool and neat it was for that man to do it is she being insensitive to her husband?

Wife got a friend request from facebook from some youny guy nearbly and her account is private. How couild she get a request if shes not seen by anyone in facebook? Not sure why heres is even private anyways. Here

I have been with my husband for five years and the first few years were rough because of alcohol (physical abuse) i stayed because he was not the same person sober. Years pass and he has improved but last night he got really drunk and did it again. We broke up but this time, I really dont care and it doesnt hurt me? I would be devestated before but now its like I am fine. Am i not in love anymore?

I feel like my life is a frickin' chapter book. I close one chapter and I have to move on to the next one and work out the conflict arc of that chapter now. Anyways, so, yeah, give me conflict 101 folks. I value peace, love, and harmony. But I am starting to realize that peace, love, and harmony doesn't come free. My values will constantly be under attack by people who don't value peace, love, or harmony. And in the past, when people fought against me, I would either take it on the chin (then be traumatized or just hurt over it) or I would try to invalidate their values by using whatever strategy I could to tell them that I didn't agree (often resorting to labels, stereotypes, psychology, reverse psychology, manipulation, blame, and anything else I could use to get the heat off of me and back them off). So, here we are. Chapter 101 --- How do you defend your values when they are under attack without causing drama in your relationship when you and your spouse can't/won't agree nor compromise due to feeling too passionate about your values? Mind you, my wife is EXTREMELY competitive. I am only mildly competitive because I do enjoy a good challenge. So being that she takes everything personal and she isn't afraid to pull an "all or nothing", what can I do when I'm confronted about my values?

Together my husband and I have 5 kids, my three adult children and his 2 adult children. We have been married for 12 years and it seems to me his 2 are always favored. He treats them like they are more special than mine. Different expectations, better gifts, double standards I could go on and on with specifics. When I bring this up to him he gets VERY ANGRY and acts like I am wrong. I know I am not wrong!!! It makes me hate his kids and feel hurt. I don't want a divorce I love my husband very much and he treats me pretty good but my feelings get hurt over and over when his kids are treated better than mine. What to do?

My Husband, Robert is a real male (not a gay marriage ), I Diana, changed my last name to his last name on the title. What my husband want's to know, is that (we have been married over 7 years, in CA) if he would also be co-owner on record? yes or no

I recently moved out of my soon to be Ex- husbands house. He filled for divorce in October. We havent seen each other or had contact since unless it was to get some of each others belongings back. Its been 2 months. He asked another woman for sex the night i left. He had her staying with him a week later.. I had a mutual friend who was also going through a divorce. We have kind of connected.Talking each other through our divorces. Hes really sweet. A great friend. And I am starting to develop some feelings for him. Just like new relationship feelings. I don't "love" him or anything.. But if my ex can move on in a week is it wrong for me to let whatever happens happen? I feel that I will always love my ex husband.. but we split because we fought really really bad. And hurt each other. So is it too soon to move on??

I want to keep my late husband s surname but I also like my maiden name. Could I make my maiden name my middle name and my husband s surname and my new husband s surname a hyphenated surname?

My wife and I are getting divorced (I didn't initiate it) and we have two kids together. I have five kids from a previous relationship that wasn't a marriage. I feel as though I am going to be turned down constantly because of the fact that I have seven children. That there isn't a woman out there that would want to start a relationship with me for that reason. I absolutely hate being alone and if no woman wants to be with me, that is going to make for an extremely tough life for me.

In front of people, they are really polite and nice to others, but at home they verbally abuse their wives and children. If they can act nice to strangers, why not to their own family??!!

My wife was texting and IMing other guys and got caught. So she apologized to me and told me straight out that she should not have been doing it and it was wrong of her. We Forgive and move on. Fresh start. But now I suspect her of doing it again. She probably didn't even stop contacting the guys in the first place. She has a death grip on her phone, it's passlocked, and I know she is up to something because she will close the phone or turn the screen off if I get to close to her or enter the room. The affection she shows me has skyrocketed out of nowhere. She does not use Facebook or messenger as much she used to, so I know it's not there. The "I love you's" sound forced or generic, like she does not want to say it. We have this thing we do. We ask each other "will you marry me" all the time. Now she will go out of her way to never say yes. When before, she always said yes. She has told a friend before that she and I are separating after the holidays. She has had a big problem in the last 3 months where she would look up guys on Facebook, most are close to the same town, and stay chatting. There has been at least 4 or 5 different guys. She has met all of them, one more than once before she got caught. I'm not sure what to do.

I had an ah-ha intuition moment this morning. Values aren't passed down to you "whether you like it or not", traditions are (like being forced to go to school/church). Values are self developed and are things you actually enjoy. Didn't know that's how that worked. I wasn't discouraged from my values as a kid but I was constantly redirected. I never liked sports but my Mom encouraged me to play anyway (she wanted the house to herself and couldn't afford a sitter). I was not an athlete by any stretch, but my Mom was desperate. In the end, she allowed me to have my values, she just wanted me out of the house; honestly, it was always all about her. Honestly, it wasn't so bad after all. My wife is a different story. Her parents were losers living 13 years in an apartment with kids struggling to make a buck. She had "values" jammed down her throat and was required to follow them "or else". They took her to church, demanded high grades, taught her "charms", and never valued her as a person. She was to become a money minded elite and not value anyone "below her". When I met my wife in '01, my wife only just started to develop her OWN values/opinions. We had things in common, but nothing deep since she was just an empty shell still. That's why our "dating" was just tv, movies, games, sex; there was nothing else there to learn. 14 years later, we don't relate much any more. Her values are contradictory to mine, seemingly intentionally. So how do we resolve/accept these differences?

He's mentioned PLENTY to me about my body and losing weight. Firstly he was semi nice about it but now he's just an inconsiderate asshole who gets pissed off randomly and won't explain why, which is always because I'm fat. I can't seem to lose fast enough. He's even mentioned skipping meals to me. It's just insane the way he makes me feel. Then he turns around and is the nicest guy all over again. We haven't been married but three years and I feel like it's a bit soon to just give up because our only issue is my body. It just hurts me so bad. I am losing, just slowly. I'm not into stupid diets that you gain the weight all back when you stop the diet. How can I make him see that I'm trying? He's seen my clothes getting too big for me, why isn't it enough? Please no weight loss tips, I've heard them all from him, along with the "you should look good for him and not have gotten fat to begin with" stuff, I know. Also, he has never actually called me "fat" he just implies it.

So my much older mentor has been very sick. He has had some sort of illness since the week of Thanksgiving. I called him on Black Friday and asked if he was doing all right and he said he wasn't doing very well. So I called him two days after that and he did not answer my call or texts. It seemed very out of the ordinary. I was homeless for two weeks as my family ended up being evicted. So I was able to luckily find my own place and rent a room. I've been so busy that I am only working and trying to make ends meet. I called him a week ago and his phone went to voicemail immediately. I thought he blocked my number. He called me last night and was asking me how I've been doing and I answered well. I couldn't even get to asking him how he was until he said I was selfish for not inquiring about him, the illness etc. He said I had no compassion and that I'm selfish. I've been in the hospital too so I found it weird that he never answered my calls. He was also online on the website we met at trolling and cursing people out. I find it weird that he said he is near death but decides to troll people and say mean rude things to them. Also he said me asking if he was okay and that I hope he gets better is stupid and dumb shttt. That hurt my feelings. He's basically telling me that trolling was more important than answering my calls and asking how I'm doing since he knew I was homeless. I've also seen him online with his real account as well. Was I being selfish? I sent a text about how I'm sorry for being selfish and that I hope he forgives me because I was wrong. He didn't answer back at all. I called him again yesterday afternoon and he ignored my call and never called back. I saw him on the website we met at again too. Should I just forget about him and move on? He's 53.

he didnt want anymore babies and i did! i really want this to be a girl.. i need to be on birthcontrol as soon as possible im too old for this stuff lol

We been staying at each others homes to see how we actually live together and so far has been good, we are planning to get married in 5 years tho , but where I live everyone one moves in together before marriage is just normal here in Utah

Who comes first your wife or your mom/dad/cousins/brothers/sisters, etc.? Idk how to explain to my husband that when he got married to me & I to him we became one. Whenever his family calls him to go do something g he goes. His mom is always asking him for money but yet brag about "having so much" hmmm okay. The other day my husband & I were gojng somewhere and his cousin called him to go over (just him) just to make it clear. & my husband told him he couldn't cause he was busy & this mother ****** had the nerve to tell him " ever since you got married you never have time for us your always busy!" I was like wtf? Ln our way back home my husband and I were talking about his dad's health and be remembered that his dad had went with his cousin and his uncle to drink. Well my husband decided to pick up his dad at 1:00 AM & they were all at a night club/bar with a whole bunch of hookers meanwhile their wife's and kids were at home. They always tell him that he's whipped and try to make him do things that he's not suppose to do. I get its his family but they are so disrespectful. And he always puts them first before me. What should I do?

I've never had sex so IDK if this is his way of trying to have sex or what. For instance we'll be hanging out watchng our favorite tv show and I'll lay my head on his lap and before i know it he has his hand running up my chest. This type of this has happened since the summer last year when he saw me changing... Being that we've only been friends, I thought it'd be ok, we were just coming to his place after swimming at the beach and I thought he was in the bathroom and quickly changed while in the living room but he actually saw me fully nude... And he said it was no big deal but I'm wondering if he thinks it's cool to touch me like that cause I basically let him see me nude?

My husband and I have been together for going on 2 years and married for 3 months. And we would love to have a child but my husband's a cancer survivor he was told his treatments would keep him from ever having a child this was 5 years ago I don't know if we should even try or not I have been having symptoms but the test are negative. Is it true he could never have a child or is it like a maybe thing.. I don't know what to think, or do! Help please

My husband is addicted to crack. Has been for almost 3 years. He never shows any signs of being high, he works full-time as a plumber, gives me all of his paychecks, and takes wonderful care of our 4-year-old son. He has never shown a single typical symptom of being a crack addict. I m not sure what my question is, but I m at a complete loss as to how he can remain fully functioning?

My husband and I have been together 10 years, married 3. We are both 25. I am a full-time employee and a full-time student. He is in the process if obtaining his CNA license followed by a full-time job and college full-time in the spring. He is stressed and on top of it all, he does everything else. He loves the house to be clean, and I take no responsibility. I never have and I'll admit that. He has spoiled me. He has asked me time and time again to help out but for some reason I never had the motivation to clean. I'm not a slob, I just don't vacuum every day or come home every night from work like he does and clean. Maybe if I did, he wouldn't have to. Well, yesterday morning he lost it. He said he is too stressed, needs space and he doesn't want to live like this the rest of his life. It hit me like a ton of rocks. My heart just stopped. Last week were fine, loving as ever and I wasn't expecting this...he won't say that he wants a divorce, just that I need to grow up and he needs to work through some things. I told him I can change, but he doesn't believe me. He says I've been saying that for years...which is true. My version of clean and his is polar opposite. He likes spotless, I like homey. I know I'm in the wrong, but other than that we have a great marriage. We haven't seen much of each other lately, because of our schedules, maybe 20 minutes a day. And for the last 2 days he hasn't kissed me or hugged me. He said I'm very affectionate, but it isn't enough.

My ex is effectively cutting my side of the family off from the kids. I no longer live in the same state as when we got divorced and had our original visitation agreement and it was never modified. I was still coming up to see them for school events and things here and there. And getting them over spring break and during the summer. I can file for contempt or request for a custody/visitation modification but I also fear thats going to end up with child support modification increasing my child support. I have a child on the way now in my current relationship and would be difficult if I have to pay more on top of that $1200/mo I pay now. I make more money that i used to. And I'd assume that she makes significantly more than she used to.. perhaps more than me. But the way I figure (and knowing her) She'll counter with modification for support. Either way I'll end up paying more. Not the best time for me. But do want to keep communication and visit with my kids. Not sure what I should do.

My soon-to-be ex-husband says he wants to be friends. One minute everything is great, the next he treats me like an annoyance. How do I get out of this rut?

We have been married for 6 years (she's 31, i'm 33). We both agreed when we got married that we want to be childless for life. I wanted to get a vasectomy but she talked me out of it because she said she is on birth control and its unnecessary for me to have surgery. Within the last year, she's been more fixated with babies and children. She points out cute babies to me all the time (she never used to in the past), she offers to babysit all of her friend's and sister's kids all the time, and on a few occasions she has asked me if I'd ever change my mind about having kids. I made it clear to her that I will never change my mind, and she said she was just curious and that she still also wants to remain childless. Last month she found out she is pregnant and claims that she's been stressed lately at work and as a result she has been forgetting to take her birth control consistently. I believe she intentionally stopped taking her birth control because she wanted to become pregnant. She denies this though. I tried to convince her to get an abortion but she refuses so we are getting a divorce and I told her that I will not be involved in the child's life at all nor will I be paying child support. She says she is fine with that and promised she will stay out of my life and not ask me to see the child or pay for child support. I am worried she might change her mind. What can I do to terminate my parental rights so I have no l legal obligation to provide for this child?

they are bad people who don't care enough about their children to take them away from their abusive husband why do you not have sympathy for poor innocent children who are forced into being abused by a mother who cares more about herself being embarassed than their kids being mentally and physically scarred for life my mother worked while my father enjoyed 15 years unemployment and did nothing. he had no leverage over her to make her stay

that for a few minutes after an argument with her you wish you were dead?

she has mental health issues. right now we live in different cities but once i come back i'm supposed to move in with her. i know that sometimes people who are close to each other will get a bad feeling if one of them has been in an accident and they'll get a feeling suddenly that they should call them and ask them are they ok or moms will know when their kids need them and go home i have that kind of a feeling i feel like something bad is going to happen. i have been sick with a flu for 3 days but i don't think it has anything to do with the fact that i've been sick. i have a really anxious feeling. sorry this is the actual question: is this normal for a person to get a feeling that something really bad is going to happen soon or am i just having a panic attack? why do i feel this way is this normal is it because i've had a flu?