Family: Question: Advice...?

Question: Advice...?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:20 PM PST

I'm the youngest of all my siblings, and I've always felt like I'm the ugliest... I'm always hearing that my sister is so pretty & my brother is super cute! and I know that I shouldn't be so upset by this because I know it's babyish! And I know that my personality and who I am is what matters most but it's really hard when the moment I get the slightest bit of confidence I feel the need to tear myself down because I convince myself that it couldn't possibly be true... Sometimes I'll look at myself in the mirror and like my face and other times I'll just pick out everything I see wrong. I don't even trust this picture I took of myself cause I'm not sure if that's what I really look like or I just happened to get lucky with the lighting and angle...

Question: I was raped?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:09 PM PST

At about 5 years old my cousin used to basically have sex with me everyday until my grandma found out. I didn't think it was wrong at the time because I was so young and I just let him do it because he told me I would get in trouble if I told anyone. Well now I'm 13 and I remember a lot about what he used to do to me and it just makes me cry a lot. So maybe 1 year after this happened I tried to do "stuff" with some of my other cousin's. I didn't know if it was bad or not and at such a young age I just wanted sex I guess. And today I feel so horrible about what I tried to do with my cousins even though I was so young at the time. Please give me advice..I don't know how I should feel about this..

Question: Am I going down the wrong path?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:05 PM PST

I am 20 years old I work and in college. My boyfriend of 3 years works at a really good paying job. My father wants to move hours away from where we live so I was considering moving out with my boyfriend but my dad makes me feel like being with my bf is wrong and treats me like Im 12. He also puts me down daily and wants to save money by keeping me home and making me pay more bills. yet I paid for everything I own and pay my own bills already. So my question is, what would you do? (thanks in advance and NO rude comments)

Question: Do you find my dad's idea to be very, very foolish?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:00 PM PST

My dad has the stupid idea that he can force me to being something I'm not by forcing hyper-masculinity in me by blaming, scolding and bossing me around while also trying to get me to eat foods very high in protein and expecting me to do arduous chores while he scolds at the top of his lungs for anything. He has also permanently blacklisted me from a program that makes males feminine /metrosexual where they have hairstyle ideas and dance moves (what I preferred well before siblings and macho brother got it), and he has been more inclined at bossing, blaming and scolding me ever since.

Question: Im certain im depressed but im worried that nobody will believe or I will believe myself because im 13 (puberty)?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:49 PM PST

im 13 female, my mum left my dad last week for another man, (my mum is loaded rich, and my dad is average maybe a little over) and she has just brought a mansion with him. and I hate my mums boyfriend, he has 3 kids a and I do NOT want to meet them! im being forced to choose between parents. and with my hormones and evertging this doesn't help. ive been very badly verbally and physically abused by school folks my whole life, and recently in my firt year of high school I moved schools, I thought everything was going to be fine, but here I am getting bullied again. ive never had any frienfds but at my new school ive found a boy. but ive had to stop hanging round with him because I was getting bullied because of it. my brother and my sister are judging me so I cant talk to them (there much older then me) And I wan to talk to the school but im worried, will they judge me, will thye tell, will others find out? my life has been a constant battle. I burn, I don't cut because I don't wan them to see, but I brun on my face and arms so thye look like spots. but no one knows except a popular gilr who saw me buring one time today. (im honestly going to kill her if she tells). im known as the hard nut at school because I keep to myself and because my parents are rich I have a personal trainer and gym. I constantly get judged for this. ive also thought about suiside, but I cant write anymore now ;( so ive also thought about suicide but I wan tot make it look like a murder so no one knew I was in this state, any ideas? honestly I just wan tot hug someone, spill it all out and cry and beat someone to death (not really gonna do that) Am I depressed?

Question: What do i say to my drunk and disrespectful father?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:49 PM PST

This question may seem odd, but im in dire need of help. Recently, the past few weeks my father has been mistreating my mother by calling her derogatory names and threatening to cut off child support since they are divorced. Its illegal to stop paying and providing support, but if we call the police, then we all are completely screwed as we would not have enough money to purchase food, water, etc. He lives somewhat close to where I live with my mother and lacks common sense on how to treat friends and family. He never had a father and probably does not realize how to behave like a respectful role model. I m only a 15 year old boy who is very confused on this situation. I m considered as "the man of the house" by my mom and sisters, but i need to defend ourselves from my alcoholic father who has attempted to stop drinking on numerous occasions. Rehab has been ineffective and failed the past 4 times hes visited. Hes a 44 year old man that acts like a bratty 12 year old basically. He currently is unemployed and is starting his own business in public relations where hes searching for clients. Were worried that he may leave a bad reputation with other clients due to his drunken behavior. I would really appreciate if you had any thoughts or ideas on how to encounter this problem that my family and I face. Thank you.

Question: I hate my mom and I hate my friends and I hate my dad and I hate my goldfish and I hate my sexy orangutan who I make love to every night.?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:42 PM PST

Question: Has anyone ever had the YOUNGER child pick on the OLDER one?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:33 PM PST

my son is 6 and my daughter is 2. My son used to pick on my daughter when she was a baby and one day she hit him on the head with a rattle because he insisted on picking on her. i have put him in time out multiple times. now its a complete 180 and my daughter is now picking on my son non stop. i have also used time out on her as well. now i know siblings fight a lot seeing as i have an older brother myself. but it was always the older sibling doing the picking on. has anyone ever had the younger child bullying the older one? its just such a shock to me cause its usually the other way around.

Question: How can I go to my guy friends house without my parents knowing?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:32 PM PST

I know if I ask my parents to go over to his house they'll say no. We both can drive but don't have a car yet, so is driving would be out of the picture. His dad is willing to pick up and drop off but I don't want my parents seeing them. I've asked my friends if they ca take me and they can't because they either work or are out of town. They're is so no way I could talk to my parents into it either. What should I do?

Question: I lost my Wallet about two weeks ago, I don't how to tell my parents (more info below)?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:14 PM PST

So, I lost my wallet about two weeks ago... It didn't have any cash in it except a little from foreign currencies... That's not the problem though.... It's that the wallet was my dad's old one... AND my ID was in there !! I don't know how to tell them because I just don't want to disappoint them or let them down ! I've searched everywhere in my house... The other thing i the last time I saw it, I had just put in my bag in a mall while I was with my friends... Could you give me some advice... I'm very scared to tell my parents because I really don't know how they'd react... Please help !!!

Question: How do I spend my time as a loner? I have no friends since I'm online school and my step siblings like playing sports and I'm into Nintendo.?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:05 PM PST

Question: I need opinions from a neutral source. Is my mom crazy??

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:47 AM PST

I'm a mother in my twenties. My mom called and asked if I'd like to have girls day Christmas shopping. I agreed, got up early, and off we went. Half way there she told me to call my husband and ask him to do a chore for me. I did, he agreed, we hung up. My mom then started saying, you should do it. He's working. How could you treat him that way? I got slightly defensive at her change in attitude at which she replied by blowing up on me and saying how ungrateful and ignorant I was. I ignored it and sat turned away from her. We got 10 min. down the road before she stared again. "You're just so spoiled that you're just a mean person! You are such a mean person and that why no one can stand you!" Umm, OK... This is all need to me. I didn't react until I noticed my 4-year-old sister was crying in the back seat. I turned to see her terrified gave and immediately started crying. I said, "Sissy is not a mean person, I promise!" I reached out to her and she jerked back. ( this reminded me of the fear I felt as a child watching my parents fight for hours every day). My mom then turned to my sister and screamed "she is a mean person! A mean, bad person!" This infuriated me. I told her to grow up at which point she yelled, "you grow the **** up!" I couldn't do it anymore so I told her to pull over and let me out. She did, and shouted see ya! Before joining off. She shopped all day, I cried. My husband rescued me and she ignored my calls. What is going on? She's never done this.

Question: Should I move to Kansas with my older brother or stay with my parents in Washington?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:45 AM PST

I'm 24 years old and have 2 years of community college under my belt. There is a good 4-year college in Kansas but if I stay with my parents I get free food and a nice roof over my head. I could find a college in Portland, Oregon and save money, but I will not have much freedom living with my parents. What to do?

Question: Have you ever attempted to ask your daughter/son if they have any marijuana to share in an attempt to catch them with it?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:41 AM PST

Question: My step siblings like my little brother more than me and hang out with him more, how do I get them to hang out with me instead of him?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:20 AM PST

Question: Am I wrong for being upset that MIL keeps all gifts at her house?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:12 AM PST

When my MIL buys gifts for my children, she always keeps them at her house, even if they beg to take it home with them. On Christmas Day or birthdays, they get to open all their presents, play for just a few hours, then they go home empty handed. I feel terrible for my children...they don t understand why! I don t even understand why it happens. If the kids get a birthday card from a relative, it gets mailed to my MIL s house, and she gets to spend their birthday money. The last time my son got a birthday card, my MIL went and bought a booster seat for her house! It really upset me because we were in need of a booster seat for him as well. But, like always, she is the only one that benefits, not my son. They only stay at her house maybe 3-4 days a month...so it s not like they are at her place all the time. Am I wrong for feeling bad for my children? Is she overstepping her boundaries as a grandparent? Forgot to mention: She also keeps any and all gifts from her side of the family at her house. If a great-grandparent mails a package for Christmas, it stays at her house. If my Sister in-law gives them a present, it stays at my MILs house. They have never been allowed to bring home anything from her house that was given to them or bought for them. My kids are 5 years old, 4 years old and 10 months old.

Question: Legal Ways To Make Lots Of Money?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:11 AM PST

Good Evening, I would just like to ask if anybody knows of any legal ways to make a lot of money. Im 17 years old & currently work at McDonalds. But that's not cutting it. Me and my 3 younger siblings live with my grandmother, but she cant work because she got hurt a couple years ago. I barely go to school because I'm always working to make sure my younger siblings are taken care of. But I'm getting tired of working like a dog and having nothing to show for it. I'm really considering selling drugs or robbing people, but I know if I get caught my siblings wont have anyone to look out for them. But at this point I'm so angry with life I really don't care. I don't have any family in DC other than them, so I have to deal with it by myself. I'm begging anyone who can help me out with ideas to answer this question. Thank You

Question: What's the best to tell your over-protective, slightly suffocating mother you're moving out?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:10 AM PST

I'm 21 years old and recently I got an opportunity to move in with my sister. My mom and I have been fighting constantly lately and even me moving the butter to a different shelf in the fridge lands me in an argument with her. My sister has offered to do the things my mom does for me until I get a car/my own place. The problem is...I don't know how to tell my mom I'm moving out. I was going to wait until at least after Christmas. Any advice is appreciated.

Question: I'm blamed for everything, but how is it fair for my dad to blacklist me from events?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 11:08 AM PST

My dad has always scolded and bossed me around since he assumes I'm the one at fault for everything when he only blamed me for all of those things when I didn't even do it, and now je has decided to permanently blacklist ke from my Christian/Catholic indoctrination and some program that makes males with it when it comes to hairstyles and dance moves involving hands and arms after he took my teen siblings and 27-year-old brother who also blacklisted me. He permanently blacklisted me from those things since he thinks I'm the one at "fault".

Question: Did I handle this well?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 10:32 AM PST

I'm 20, single father to a 5 year old daughter. Anyway, yesterday I went to pick her up from pre-school and some other mom thought it was necessary to stick her nose in my business. So my daughter inadvertently let the cat out of the bag by saying " Hi Daddy" when I showed up. This mom: That's your daughter? Me: Yes ma'am Her: Aren't you a bit young? Me: I guess Her: so you became a father very young Me: Yeah, 15, was hard at first but I'm adapting. Her: Bit of a wild child then? Me: Is this going anywhere or can you just leave? Could that have been handled better?

Question: Is it weird ?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 10:20 AM PST

One day I want to have a kid and a lot of people have their mom's in the room . I am not so close to my mom all my life 0-18 I've grew up with my mom and sister but they are closer and my mom favors my sister than I. I would come home from school back then and go to my room since I was mostly ingnored and just not listened to enough and grew up lonley i went through depressed and therapy. But when I have a kid and I am in labor is it weird I don't want my mom to be on the delivery room because it'll be weird, just my boyfriend and Maybe his mom?

Question: I need help...?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 10:18 AM PST

I'm 6 months pregnant and lost my job last month due to sickness and a lot of complications and now I'm about to get evicted. I've done everything I've can, I've filled out every single application I could and called them the next day, but no one would give me an interview. I have no electricity or food either right now. I've applied for emergancy rent assistance but eas denied. As for the father...well I'm posting this using the hospitals WiFi while I sit next to his bed after a bed series of seizures. I'm basically giving up my pride here and asking for people like you to either help get my story out our help make a donation to my paypal. I know this seems terrible but...I dunno what else to do, I have a few days to try to get 800 and this is the only way I know how. You guys can call me lazy, every horrid name in the book, how I shouldn't have gotten pregnant when I had things a bit more stable. But even if thst helps me get $10 extra dollars I'll take it. So please...in forums or social media, even here...please...just get my info across so maybe I have a chance. If you want to help, my paypal is kairiangel035@yahoo.com. And thank you for reading all this...and maybe even with a little bit of assistance...

Question: Im 17 and i just had a baby?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 09:48 AM PST

i had a babay today with out my parnets knowing and im at the hospital right now with my bae (<3) and i dont know what to tell them. i live with my grandma and shes senile so she didnt care enough to tell my parents so they havent found out yet. what do i do?

Question: Should my dad be tired of son?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 09:07 AM PST

I asked a question on here and somebody rudely answered that my dad is probably tired of me. Because i'm an adult and stay with parents. My dad loves my sister and rarely talks to me, my sister is also an adult and stays with parents. Nothing i do is good enough, and i do what i can for him if i can. When i'm working it helps some, but it also causes stress and intervene with work. He just doesn't seem concern about things concerning me. There was a point he left family but i still thought good things about him. But he isn't there for me when things are concerning me. Am i perfect? no, should he not care for me because i'm not what he want me to be? Talking to him about this doesn't help. He has even threaten to have my uncle kill me. Thing is, there are times we can talk, but then other times it's like he talk to the family but doesn't talk to me. It's like he is ashamed of me. I keep to myself when i'm at home. That want be problem solved because even when i'm working it doesn't solve anything at home. When working i'm at work more than i'm at home, and though it does help some it doesn't solve the issue. If i was moved out, it still wouldn't solve the problem. But i keep to myself and trusting people isn't that simple for me. But thanks for your answer.

Question: How old should a person be to move out of their parents house?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 09:00 AM PST

I'm 23 and I stil live with my parents but that's because I have a disability and I don't know if I could live on my own just me I don't think I would know how to do it and I would be lonely if I lived by myself and I wouldn't know who to have as a roommate either and I can only work part time. I probably couldn't handle working full time because the last job I had it was only part time and I was working 5 days a week for 5 in a half hours a day and that was too much for me

Question: Very strange situation?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 08:44 AM PST

I have been married for 6 months. I have one daughter who is 3 months old. My husband decided he wanted to leave me (his family and friends have been trying to get him to do it for long time because they don't like me and we have very different outlooks on life) He left with no warning one day and took our child with him. He said he was going for lunch with his family and left me at my parents house. He never showed back up and sent me a message saying he was leaving me. He blocked me on everything so I have no way of contacting him. His grandmother is talking to my mom and letting us see my kid once ever week or two. I have no car (we were sharing one), my family won't let me use theirs, and no job now either. Here's the part you're all going to hate me for. I do not want to be a single mom. I love my daughter but I have told him from the start I didn't want that to happen to us. I want to join the military and get as far away from him and all the memories as I can. I don't have money for a lawyer, so I don't know what to do. I know it seems odd, but I want to get as far away from all this as I can. I want to forget it even happened. Does anyone know what I can do?

Question: Im 18 & I have a controlling mother, I Need help ASAP!?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 08:42 AM PST

I need help! Im 18 years old & my mom has been controlling every aspect of my life.. I decided to enlist into the usmc & I thought it would be the right thing to do to sit her down & tell her. She freaked out calling me a slut (she thinks service women are) & she continued saying I just ruined my life by enlisting & to make matters worse im engaged to my boyfriend of over 2 years & she said she will do everything in her power to ruin my relationship with him & she doesnt care how bad it hurts me she even has gone as far to pull my phone records & have his number & all of his familys numbers blocked. I was working 3 jobs so I would be able to move out but my mom got me fired from all of them & told me she wont let me work because she doesnt want me to move out.

Question: What to do when u r bored?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 08:08 AM PST

Question: How would you feel about someone who always keeps you guessing instead of just simply telling you what's going on?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:46 AM PST

How can two people be close if one is never communicating and never sparing my feelings. Instead of me crying and becoming upset for hours it would take seconds to just tell the truth in a phone call or text.

Question: How to prevent a teenage boy from eating is out of house and home?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:33 AM PST

My bfs son who lives with us is 16 and a xxxL shirt size. He refuses to be active at all. I asked him if he wanted to ride bikes with me and he just laughed. Every day he comes home from school and as a smack will eat 2 boxes of Mac m cheese and 2 sandwiches before dinner. It's to the point of I buy food that I want to eat I need to hide it. Even my soy milk and yogurt. When he goes to his mothers she says he's only allowed to eat when it's time to eat but he's had full freedom of the kitchen at his dad's his whole life. He will dirty all the dishes and not wash a single one. On top of that, my left overs I save for work he will eat the same night and not tell me. He's not my child but I need to talk to his dad because it's an issue when we buy 8 rolls for sandwiches and a pound of lunch meat and it's gone the same night. Does any one else have this same issue? How do I talk to his dad? It would be different if he needed all the calories because of sports but all he does is lay on the couch. I know teenagers are always hungry but I've never seen anyone pile in food enough for an entire family. It's killing my finances and when I come home from work and what I had planned on for dinner is gone that gets very frustrating.

Question: My 89 yr old grandpa's brother passed away. his last sibling. The trip for the funeral could be deadly for him. Do you let him go?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:29 AM PST

Question: So the California shooter was an environmentalist for the govt with a newly 'vetted' mail-order-bride from the Middle East?Is this what Iibs?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:27 AM PST

[Hillary/Bernie]meant when they said global warming causes terrorism?

Question: Would Cards Against Humanity be a little too adult for my 14-year-old brother?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:27 AM PST

I'm probably going to give both of my younger brothers giftcards for Christmas (the other one is 18) but I thought it might be cool to also get them that Cards Against Humanity game and play it with them. My 14-year-old brother mind you watches Family Guy, South Park. The Simpsons, and is by no means sheltered...but he's still 14 and I am sure at least some of the card references will be over his head...but I still think he/we might have fun with it. I've never actually played the game myself by the way so that's another reason I'm asking.

Question: I think hate my family?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 06:24 AM PST

Ok I wouldn't say I hate my family maybe I'm just resentful toward them. Well I have made some bad decisions lately and my family has judged me for it. I know I'm responsible for my actions. But the reason I said I resent my family because of a past situation, that happened when I was kid. My grandmother had a talk with me and she asked me about it and then she asked if it stil bothered me. I guess it is. I'm 21 years old, so I'm not a kid anymore. But I feel so angry towards the past. I thought I had gotten past this. I'm thankful for my family although I'm still angry about my past.

Question: Strict older brother?! Help?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 05:59 AM PST

I'm a 13 year old girl, my parents pest away when I was only 10 and since then my older brother(27) is my legal guardian. We have been arguing a lot in the last couple of weeks, and I suppose I do talk back! but he keeps trying to parent me, but I don't need to be looked after. A friend told me to try and talk to him about it, but he just got really angry at me. He told me that I was being disrespectful and that he would never have spoken to our parents that way I speak to him, and questioned their authority, and that I need to learn some respect. my parents were never strict on my but he is... He wants my to say : yes sir,no sir when I am talking to him(he was in the military for 4 years or something like that) what should I do? He doesn't get it that I don't need to be looked after?! He still calls me "baby or Princess "(like in a little kid way) And never listens to me! I need to be in bed by 9! He takes my phone away when I get in trouble, never lets me do what I want!

Question: Am I the most bestest than your mom?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 05:20 AM PST

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Question: Please help?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 04:57 AM PST

Okay, so today I have to walk aaalllllllll the way to school, and that takes a while. Usually I get a little ride halfway there, and then walk the rest of the way from my dad's girlfriend. However, she had to leave early today and I have to walk the whole way there. Now my dad said "just stay home" pretty reluctantly, However, she will most likely get home earlier today, and she's the type of person who gets really mad about things like that, or other petty stuff. What should I do?

Question: Is it a good idea to find/track my daughters father for the 3rd time?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 04:56 AM PST

Question: Parents: Till at what age you allow your children naked in home?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 03:27 AM PST

Both Parents are in the home and as well as opposite sex sibling.

Question: My mom has been acting very childish lately. She did not come to thanksgiving dinner that my sister prepared for all of us. She didn't even?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 02:42 AM PST

Wish us a happy thanksgiving. But she told someone else. We were all going to cook together but she left us hanging. She was so mad about something extremely petty especially for it to be around the holidays. My mom gets so defensive when she knows that she's wrong. I even text her to be the bigger person and said happy thanksgiving mom love you and she said "same" She ignored all of us for two days, but then asks me to bring her food. & I say why don't you come here where your family is, I'm not coming home. And she said I hope you know when you need me I'm not going to be there for you. Which made no sense. I didn't even do anything to her. then after she says that she asks Me to bring her food again... Lol. I don't understand she's being so childish and she always says things that she doesn't mean. She still isn't talking to anyone. I'm not going into the whole story but it's beyond petty and she's mad at all the wrong people. And to miss thanksgiving is ridiculous just to try proving a point. My mom has a bad habit of talking about my sisters and me amongst all of us. Basically it caught up with her and now she's mad that we know what she said about each of us. Honestly I'm not mad because I'm used to her talking about me and my sisters behind our backs. I just feel like you're my mom so act like it. I am not kissing up to her to make her talk to me if she doesn't want to anymore. I just don't know what to do.

Question: My dad hits me alot he just threatend to abuse me now please help can you give any suggestions to defend my self?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 02:07 AM PST

Question: As a muslim is this a bad thing to do?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:32 AM PST

My mom is a crazy shizopernic and so is my little sister. My sister wanted a cat so i got her one she had no friends so i felt it was right. My mom is crazy yelling at the sky and saying people live on our roof and that they are trying to kill her so i got her a cat too. For the first year they loved the cats and things calmed down. After that everything went to sh** my mom and sister went back to their crazy habits. The cats now pee all over everys corner of the wall and they poop where ever they want. Every morning for the past two years i wake up to cat poo and piss every morning. They walk all over the house with poo on their paws spreading it even on our couch which i threw out. They are indoor/outdoor cats we even have flea infestations every 2-3 months. I still have scars from scratching the itchy flea bites on my arms and legs. I dont want to catch a desease or a infection from these cats. They are costing us money and putting our health in danger. I was stupid for bringing them these cats i thought it would help which it did for a while. I want to call animal control and get rid of them but im sure they will kill them and i dont want that. What should i do keep them and put our health in danger and keep wasting money and throwing out good furniture or just get rid of them. They even have litter boxes but they prefer to poop on our beds and the floors and our couches and pee on every coner of the wall for 2 years now. I had enough what would you do thanks.

Question: I am not ticklish at all ,why is my son different then?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 01:06 AM PST

He is extremely ticklish just like his mother ,and he has exactly the same laugh as her ;He also fear sitting next to me so I don't tickle him ,just like his mother ,and he don't even look anything like me ,he totally look like his mother but with short hair instead. Why the **** he is such a little sissy ,and not a man as me ,he is turned 13 yesterday ,and nothing really changed

Question: My grandmothers nieces two daughters?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:48 AM PST

I m assuming they are my 2nd cousins n I heard it s cool to have sexual intercourse but no babies. Long story short, I rarely see them. One of them has gotten close to me n I get the vibe that she is into me and she even flirts w me. I don t do it back but she continues m continues and I m honestly thinking of just flirting back and going with the flow. She is hot n I think she is low key hoe because she has two baby daddies n she got pregnant at 13. Even Her sister but older. I haven t seen her since I was a child. Her sis is as hot as her. My grandpa funeral was today n I just saw them both eyeballing me. The sis (one I never spoken to) was like trying to get in my view and she even helped me walked my grandma to her car. But Didn t say a word to me. N when her sis (one I know) came up to me To say hi primo, her mother was giving me a dirty look. N then her other sis came up n said hi to me n I hugged them both onto each arm like a pimp daddy lol. I m not bragging but I honestly felt like these two girls are DTF n just the vibe I get with them. It s sexually weird. rifgt now I just went to the kitchen n the one I know said hi Adrian, and the other repeated. Both them smiling at me, eyeballing me as I m getting water, n were just making eye contact left to right.. I dont know if I should try it out with one of them. Am I getting over my head or are these girl willing to bang me.. Please, this is making me sexually frustrated lol

Question: Why does my brother like him?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:35 AM PST

I am 13 years old and my brother is 18. He had a boyfriend who is 17 who my brother says is really sick. He has anorexia and he is really skinny and has a thing called a feeding tube in his stomach and he is really quite and shy around our family. Like when he comes over he stays by my brothers side or on his lap and he doesn't move from there the entire time they are together. I don't see why my brother likes him so much. He seems too quiet and too skinny and I can't understand why he loves someone like that. I know my brother seems happy and all, but how can he be happy with someone who is sick like that? My brother says he wants to marry his boyfriend and he has already proposed for when his boyfriend graduates from high school, but how would he be happy married to someone like that? Why does my brother like him if he is so skinny and quiet? I don't get what he sees in him.

Question: My Mom is disgusting?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:22 AM PST

I'm sick of her . She has a thousand boyfriend I really don't know who's the next! every day she changes her date and every night there's a new guy. I'm so embarrassed having her as a Mom. She had 3 abortion before as she said they were unwanted children. I know she didn't want me too she never told me who is my Dad, because she doesn't know either She's not an alcoholic or drug addicted but she's kinda sl-u-t. she use to sleep with random guys and some of them are really a-ss-hole. once one of them beat me like hell I've called my grandparents several times but they say she must face the results of her mistakes. I am the result of her mistakes

Question: How do I get over my fears?

Posted: 03 Dec 2015 12:19 AM PST

Hello, my name is Will and I am a twenty-one year old male from Ireland; Recently moved to the United States. In basic, I had a very harsh and dysfunctional childhood that led to my father's attempt at pouring bleach into my eyes to blind me. I am now legally blind in my left eye and luckily still have all of my vision in my right eye. To say the least my eye is no longer green, but rather it has an odd film over it from a chemical burn. I normally wear a sort of patch over it and when I take it off (briefly), I always keep that eye closed. In truth I absolutely detest my eye. Well, about two months now, I have been dating a boy who I absolutely love, but my refusal to show him who I am (eye and all) is certainly putting strain on our relationship. He is telling me that if I cannot show my eye, then I cannot trust him and he feels like I am hiding away from him rather than being my all. Last night he started crying, telling me that he felt we weren't close and that I was distant because of this problem and I don't know how to get over my fear to show him myself in this way. It may seem ridiculous, but its truly having an effect on our relationship that I did not expect. He thinks that I don't trust him, which I do with my life, but the thought of showing him something that still brings trauma into my life at just the thought is horrid. How can I get past this fear?

Question: Help!! My mother won't stop complaining about my T-rated JRPGs!!!!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 11:36 PM PST

I know I already asked this many times before, but my mother won't shut up about my JRPGs. I can't play a JRPG (even Pokémon!) without thinking about my mother's "teachings". She only wants me to play games like Sonic the Hedgehog and doesn't want me to play anything that involves violence. I'm 19 years old which is old enough to handle seeing a sword impaled through someone's chest. My whole life, Mom was always strict about what I watched or played. If you read any of my other questions, then you should already know that when I was a kid, I wasn't allowed to watch Pokémon and Yu-Gi-Oh. I'm sorry if I'm annoying anyone by repeatedly asking questions involving my overprotective mother, but she controls just about everything in my life. Even the jobs I get! She doesn't let me apply for jobs she doesn't like such as McDonald's or Wal-Mart because she doesn't like the people there. She also doesn't let me watch YouTube or read user reviews on GameFaqs because people cuss on there. She also doesn't let me around people she has a grudge against, such as my brother-in-law and a few cousins becuase she thinks I'll have a bad attitude. It's that bad! I've been though so much BS. I don't know what to do... As much as I love my mother, I don't think I can put up with her anymore but at the same time I don't want to lose her respect for me. I want to live a better life... I hate my life... I need advice...

Question: How do I tell off my aunt?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 10:29 PM PST

She is insanely rude and bipolar, for that reason she is almost 60 years of age, single, no sex life, no friends or associates, fat and undesirable. She feels the need to belittle any of my family members (including myself) that are younger than her even if we are adults. How can I tell her off without punching her in the face.

Question: Is my uncle acting weird?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 10:26 PM PST

When I got home from school, my uncle was coming over and after an hour, my mom left. She told me that my uncle would leave soon. After my mom left, my uncle told me to stay downstairs, not allowing me to go to my room. Then he started to talk about my education and stuff. After 30 minutes, he wanted to go home. I was like, 'Okay'. But he did something weird in my opinion. He reached for my hand and then KISSED it. I got shock, of course. I mean, even my dad have never done that to me! He asked me," Is it okay if i kiss you on the forehead, too?" "No way, you're not my dad," I answered bluntly. He laughed and before he left he kissed my hand too. I feel really weird, not sure why. Probably because I sense a bad motive behind all of this. "You know, you remind me of my ex-girlfriend," That's what he said to me before taking off. And now I'm sitting here, feeling freaked out. Please tell me if it's normal or not. I feel very disgusted. Should I tell my parents? I mean, I don't want my family to fight just because I 'overreact'. Or should I tell my mom first? Because if I tell my dad, he would probably go to beat him up, knowing my dad's trait. He is married with 3 children.

Question: Weird but true story of father and daughter bonding?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 10:19 PM PST

They seem like such great people by their photos. http://youtu.be/FVgBPlRlriE One is the slugger, the other the shooter!!! Must see video! Bizarre.

Question: Was my mom's reaction to this weird?? (Dark question, sorry)?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 09:38 PM PST

Anyway. I was sort of molested when I was younger. That's not really important though. I was raped two years ago when I was 14. I told my mom about it a few months ago. I started crying. It was bad. I thought I needed therapy or something, I've been having a hard time. She asked me about all of the details and irrelevant things I didn't want to talk about, and then the next morning, she was sad, and basically said "haven't we taught you better than to wander off with guys?" Or whatever. The next day we never talked about it again. This was 7 months ago. I told her recently that I thought I had depression and she wanted was to vigorously describe my symptoms then she just said mental illness ran in our family. My dad was even more stupid about it. Never talked about it again. To be honest I overall kind of hate being alive and should probably talk to someone

Question: Why did my dad do this?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 09:20 PM PST

So I'm a teenager and my dad took away my PC for no reason. He says because it's of my 'grades'. I have a 3.7 GPA with all AP/Honors classes and am in 2 sciences. Is that considered bad? My parents get upset when I play games saying that's all I do. I don't. I do Graohics, Coding, and Homework on there. When I told him that, he says it's because of my "attitude". What should I do?

Question: Is this jealousy or do these people really no agree with my decision?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 08:38 PM PST

I have been best friends with a friend of mine for over 20 years. I got married within a year to this girl who turned out to be crazy and got a divorce within a few months of the marriage. Now while in that time I was dating my current girlfriend now while in the process of the divorce because I am in my 30 s and I need that companionship. I have a really good job and I am doing very well in my life. My best friends sister comes out saying to my best friend is he divorce? You look up to him? Because he is a great influence and this was said sarcasictly by her he said. And her fiance is no better. The fiance and my best friend were hanging out and he told my best friend maybe you should hang out with other people and not with him meaning me. Mind you this guy has had 3 jobs in four years and got fired from one of those jobs. I have a had a steady job for 3 plus years and I am set in my career. Is this jealousy talking?

Question: Is this normal?!!! Please help asap!!!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 08:36 PM PST

My mom and I got in a fight and she is making me walk to school and its a 30 minute walk!!!

Question: Podria tener un noviasgo corto con mi prima segunda? (Mi historia)?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 08:21 PM PST

Antes que nada le agredesco a quien tome el tiempo para responderme :). Bueno Soy de Ecuador y hace 4 años me mude a USA y conoci a mi prima segunda, es la hija de la prima de mi mama. Bueno primero que nada tengo 17 y ella 14, ya se que esta medio niña para mi pero quiero agregar ese detalle. Siempre me parecio una niña dulce. Pero hace 3 años cuando la conoci la veia como una niña. Basandome en como me mirava y el afecto que me daba por abrazos y pequeños toques pienso que siempre le guste. Despues como ya saben las niñas cambian, sobre todo su fisico en una manera positiva y atractiva. Nos fuimos a la playa con la familia y en el bus se dormia al lado mio y aunque paresca tonto me gustaba eso y ahy fue cuando me comenzo a gustar. Aparte que me parecia medio mal tratar de verla a ella como novia, yo ya tenia novia. Paso un año y Hubo varias reuniones entre la familia y yo trataba de siempre poner un espacio entre los dos. Le decia cosas como "no te me acerques mucho" y poco a poco ella penso que no le gustaba. Despues para la siguiente reunion familiar ya casi ni me hablo y se fue pronto y me di cuenta que si me gustaba. Para la siguiente reunion me decidi a volver a gustarle. Al final del dia me acariaba la mano y me abrazaba. No la bese y no pienso en tener sexo con ella. Pero quiero tener un reuerdo con ella pienso que es lindisima y muy amable y a toda les parece la niña mas radiante en bellesa y actitud.

Question: Gift ideas for an amazing mother?!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 08:14 PM PST

I am a lazy no good ungrateful son. I am the youngest of 3 and the last to leave home. I don t deserve to have such an amazing mother and I need a gift to let her know how sorry I am for putting her through hell my entire childhood I m 18 going on 19 and my mom is in her 30 s (don t wanna say her actual age). Anyways I had a lot of problems as a kid and still kind of do and I wasn t always the best son and I ll be leaving home soon and this will be the last Christmas for me as a kid living at home and I want to make it the best for my mom. I m not very good at this kind of stuff but I want something that s not just a thing, Something that she ll hold on to forever and know how thankful I am to have her as a mom. I ve saved up a couple thousand and I don t care how much I have to spend or how much effort I have to put into it I just need something great. I ve been looking but the only thing I ever see is just jewelry and crap like that but that to me seems like a huge copout. Anyways I would really appreciate the help.

Question: How can I end it all?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 07:56 PM PST

I am so over stressed about things and when I try to talk about it my mom makes fun of me or yells at me. I cut she knows I did before but didn't care just yelled I have over dosed she didn't care just yelled. It has been recently getting really bad I just want it to end. I am so sick of hurting. My dad wants to help me but sides with my mom so she doesn't get mad. I'm 17. I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone at school or church. I literally have no friends. A few days ago I had about 40 pills in mouth and I spit them out because I was scared, I cant even do that right. I just want someone to listen to me. How can I get my mom to see how much im hurting. She doesn't want me to go to a theripist

Question: How to convince you're parents to move house?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 07:53 PM PST

Family of five in a house with one bathroom and 3 bedrooms. The house is literally falling apart and is too small and in a crappy suburb. The whole reason we moved here was to get closer to a school that me and my sister went to, only we changed schools a year later because it was too expensive (private school). We all like the idea of living on the canals in Mandurah, but dad doesn't want to drive that far to the city to work (hour drive). Mum and I think its a stupid reason to stay in this crap place but dad's as stubborn as an ox and is slowly getting mum and my bro and sis on his side. How can I make them realise that moving house would help all of us in every way, shape, and form??

Question: My Mother has VERY severe OCD and anxiety. she has been gettin worse and is gettin VERY hard to deal with.?

Posted: 02 Dec 2015 07:21 PM PST

My mom already had severe OCD and anxiety but my aunt died, my cousin died, my dad lost his job, my dad was diagnosed with cancer, my other aunt verbally attacked my sister and is now distant(it was a huge fight), and my dad now has very low income. I m 14 and she doesn t trust me at all. I cant have any electronics in my room at night, she hides my phone every night, I can barely stay home alone and I never have any privacy. We fight every night and she ends up eventually hurting me (both emotionally and physically). Please help P.S. I love her and do not want to end up being taken away from her. -anonymous (Harrisonville, Mo)