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- Question: How do I get someone to talk to me and not be mad at me anymore?
- Question: My best friend ditched me?
- Question: My Life is a disaster and i have no idea what to do. i try looking for positives but negatives still keep happening to me.?
- Question: Was he being friendly or does he want to get to know me?
- Question: Truthfully how easy is it to make friends in college?
- Question: Is it good to ask someone personal questions? I knew this guy who never talked to me about?
- Question: I'm Losing Everything... Please Help?
- Question: Why would he say this to my boyfriend and i ?
- Question: My friend will only talk about herself?
- Question: Do You Think She Was Being a *****?
- Question: Is the term "hometown" where I was born or where I came of age?
- Question: How to recover from the worst birthday ever?
- Question: I feel guilty about my friends?
- Question: Suggest a revenge: a "friend" stole from my house two computers and items can cost about USD$1220 what does he deserves?
- Question: Have you ever lost a friend over something stupid?
- Question: Is this a weird Secret Santa gift?
- Question: Live out my dream or just let it be?
- Question: Im sleeping over at my friends house and she s making plans with her other friends for tomorrow and i feel really uncomfortable?
- Question: Friends egged house. How to get them back in a subtle yet effective way?
- Question: Why I keep attracting friends who use me and throw me later?
- Question: Should I tell my best friend?
- Question: Do people find me boring?
- Question: I hate everyone. What do I do?
- Question: How do I tell my close friend that she might want to start wearing a vest or bra?
- Question: Why does my best friends little brother dislikes me?
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: I just need a friend who understands to talk to while my husband's deployed this a first for me will you be my friend?
- Question: My best friend chose another friend over me.?
- Question: Should I move back home or stay where I am??
- Question: No friends, bored..at home...Friday night. Teens help?
- Question: Does my friend in my friend group like me more than a friend?
- Question: Looking for new friends to make my life fresh to my broken heart ?
- Question: I have a huge problem What should i do...?
- Question: My so-called 'friends' excluded me from the group and just left me standing there, what should I do to them?
- Question: Why do I feel like I'm really annoying?
- Question: Please help me i hate it when people call me annoying what can i do?
- Question: How could i stop from hating a friend?
- Question: How do I deal with disrespectful friends?
- Question: Is she trying to make me feel guilty for not going?
- Question: I wrote a letter to friend in Mississippi to know how she's doing and wish her a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year am I desperate?
- Question: I need an sincere apology?
- Question: Is it normal to not want to go out?
- Question: I feel like a tedious person, how to improve my self confidence?
- Question: Hi my name is jimsly how are you doing?
- Question: People think I hate them?
- Question: Why does this little twit want my attention?
- Question: How to get him to talk to me?
- Question: I think my bff is keeping secerts from me what do i do?
- Question: What should i do about my life long bff?
- Question: Girls are talking behind my back, and friend is telling me, what should I do?
- Question: I m jealous of my friend but I m happy she s suffering? I feel guilty?
- Question: Do people realize how immature it sounds when they ask things on here like, am I a bad person for doing so-and-so?
- Question: Having trouble making friends at secondary school?
- Question: The lady I house sit for said I can sleepover and invite a friend to accompany me. Does that mean I can have a guy friend over?
- Question: Is my friend being mean to me?
- Question: Gift suggestions for a friend going to Asia in the near future.?
- Question: Is chippedales good for a friend's birthday?
- Question: How can I prank them back?
- Question: Why are other girls so quick to hate me?
- Question: My best friend moved schools?
| Question: How do I get someone to talk to me and not be mad at me anymore? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:43 PM PST I am 13. There is this girl that we used to hate each other but it was a playful hate. This year we started talking more. At my school everyone talks to each other, there are no really separate "groups" that are mean to each other. But u do have the "popular" and the other people. But I live in Georgia so pretty much everyone is the same. We all wear Simply Southern t-shirts, blue jeans, and boots. We choose who we want to hang out with. I m kinda in the middle. So I m friends with most people. But this girl and I started texting over the break a lot. Mostly about two things, a concern about a classmate that needed help, and a issue with my bf (whom is 16 and my ballet partner). But I kinda just kept texting forgetting who it really was. So the other day I texted her and she tells me she is tired of the drama I have and we should just not text anymore and just have small conversations but she wasn t mean. I felt so bad, because it was only then that I realized that I had been making her listen to my problems. But I want to start all over and let her get to know who I really am. She is different I really don t know how to describe it but I want to be friends, but I want her to give me another chance. My biggest problem is that her best friend is someone that I don t talk to anymore bc we had differences and so I know she has told her stuff about me. So how can I approach her and tell her I m sorry (which I already have) and ask for another chance? |
| Question: My best friend ditched me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:39 PM PST I'm a freshman in high school. Since my friend Katie and I were 10 we were best friends, but she was popular and I wasn't. It didn't matter then because we went to different schools. Both of our schools fed into the same high school though, so this year she pretty much just ditched. We stopped hanging out and stopped talking. I always knew that once high school came this would happen, but I had secretly hoped it wouldn't. Whenever we DO talk though she is super nice and acts like were still best friends, but I think thats just her personality. I don't have a best friend now and I don't know what to do. How can I get her to be my friend again? |
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| Question: Was he being friendly or does he want to get to know me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:29 PM PST He is an extremely nice and friendly person. In june he always came down to my directed study in the cafeteria to fill up his water bottle. One time I went to his directed study to fill up my water bottle and he walked up to fill up his water bottle at the same fountain even though there was another fountain there. He was also tapping his fingers on the fountain while I was filling it up. He looked at me sometimes in the hall as well. Two times this year as soon as i passed him in the hallways he turned his head completely in my direction. Also this year I was glancing around the room and he was too and as soon as he saw me looking around he quickly looked away and down at his desk this happened two times in a row. Last week I was walking in the hall I didn't say anything just walking and he said "what's up?". Was he sayign this cause he wanted to talk to me? Also last week me and my friend were the only ones in the hall and he was walking down the hall and he saw us and glanced over two times. Another time I was talking to my friend and from a distance I could see him staring at me even when we started walking to class he was staring at me while I was talking to her. Also this week I was talking to a aid teacher and being friendly and he was looking at me from across the room. Also when he said what's up we didn't have eye contact and he wasn't smiling when he said it was he nervous? I honestly don't know haha. my friend said he only says hi to his friends. he is outgoing |
| Question: Truthfully how easy is it to make friends in college? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:26 PM PST I will be going to the Ohio State University next fall and the nerves have already kicked it. None of my friends are going there. Is it really as easy as it seems to make new friends? Because I'm quite terrified I'll be all alone. |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:19 PM PST His personal life but he talks about it rather openly with this other woman. It made me sad because I was really nice to him but now it's like he cares about this other girl who I introduced him to. It's like he cares more about her and trusts her. |
| Question: I'm Losing Everything... Please Help? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:15 PM PST This mainly applies at school. Eighth Grade. Yes I know, I "Shouldn't let them bother me," and should "meet new people," but I can't. I've been bullied for so long now, even by the people I was good friends with last year. They ignore me, throw me aside, and don't stick up for me. The kid that I knew for ten years and lives across from me now stares in my window collecting information he can use to blackmail me. The girl I knew for eight years doesn't want to be seen with me at school; I once had a crush on her. What happened? I'm Male, eighth grade, plays football, is in all honors, typically wears Hollister, and sticks up for kids who are being bullied. I've been ruined since I left my private school in fourth grade. I had dated quite a few people back then, girls don t even talk to me now. Hell, they hardly look at me. This is why I stick up for kids who have trouble, I know how it feels. I'm confident, nice, slightly cocky and troublesome. I don't judge a situation, anyone can come up to me with their problems. That girl I mentioned? She tells me of boy problems... On the bus. Sometimes People talk to me almost the whole day and I feel good. I get false hope, for the next day, I m treated like crap. People say things to me when I've done nothing to them. People hold grudges on me when I've said small jokes to them weeks before. People try to one up me. Every time I win, someone takes it from me. Thanks for taking the time to read this, hope you can help! |
| Question: Why would he say this to my boyfriend and i ? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:08 PM PST So, this guy saw us kiss goodbye, and he told us to that looked weird and he didn't need to see that... what..? |
| Question: My friend will only talk about herself? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 04:04 PM PST I have known this "friend" of mine for about 4 years now. We do not go to the same university, so we haven't kept in touch as often. However, she will only talk to me to tell me things concerning herself. She will never ask me how I am, or how my life is going. If I mention something about my life she will say a few words and turn the conversation back to herself and the guys she talks to. Also, she is very negative. If I mentioned that I had a convo with a cute waiter she'd say "lol he's just doing his job. I told her that my "crush" spoke to me and she said "did he sound annoyed". She will also try to get my attention when she sees me tweeting other people. She does not leave me alone. Always sending me snapchats and tweets but never asks me about my life. Why is she like this? |
| Question: Do You Think She Was Being a *****? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:56 PM PST I was friends with this girl (We don't talk anymore), and whenever I would message her on Facebook, she would say that she's busy (which was in fact true most of the time). I got so annoyed that during the summer, I would often get mad, and assume that she was pretending to be my friend, or is just using me to dump her boyfriend-related problems on, and stuff like that. I unfriended her at one point, and then she sent me a message explaining to me that just because she doesn't respond, doesn't mean she doesn't care, it just means she's busy, and that she'll reply when she gets a chance. See whenever she would say she's busy, I would get so offended (which usually was unwarranted) Then we made up last month, and then earlier this afternoon, I told her that I didn't think we should be friends anymore. Then she said, "Um I have a life, sorry about that". Then she said I would never have friends if I couldn't respect the fact that they have lives, and that I was being irrational and negative, and how I can't spend my life on a computer screen (which is true, but I don't spend ALL my time doing that, but a lot of time nonetheless). The only thing she said that I disagree with is that I was harassing her while she was working out. This was on Facebook by the way, in case you were wondering. So I just apologized for my anger and misunderstanding, but I'm deleting my Facebook account, so I can focus on bettering my own life, working towards the future, and maturing (I'm 22). |
| Question: Is the term "hometown" where I was born or where I came of age? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:49 PM PST I was born in one city...at age 14 or 15 I moved to a second city and house and spent the next 7 years graduating high school and college while living in that house. I consider the second house/city my "hometown." Should I consider the city I lived in for the first 14 years of my life my hometown? I don't identify with that city at all. |
| Question: How to recover from the worst birthday ever? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:41 PM PST Ok so I just turned 17 and i just had the worst birthday ever. My friends remembered my birthday at least but only through Facebook. But the next morning I have SATs so I can't even celebrate tonight. Also, none of my friends could make it this weekend to a party so I had to cancel it and now I feel extremely sad and down, like no one ever cares. Even my favorite( no ex-favorite) teacher didn't care, she just said have fun and thats it. I thought this was the one day in a year I could totally lay off and have the day to myself but noooooo. How to recover????? |
| Question: I feel guilty about my friends? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:41 PM PST There are these 2 friends who are a couple I've been hanging out with since high school. We are all about 25 now and I try to avoid them most of the time. The rest of our old crew is cool. I don't mind hanging with the 2 once in a while with other people but I never hit them up just to hang. They seem to still have that teenager mentality. They don't have jobs, still live with their parents, and don't go to college. They always seem to have money though because their parents are loaded. But even having a conversation with them annoys me now. All they do is gossip and spread rumors about people. Some of the people they talk about are like 17 years old so I don't even know how they even know of them in the first place. They always try to hit me up to chill but I always ignore them. I don't know why but I feel like an asshole. I don't know but I feel like they are too immature for me. |
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| Question: Have you ever lost a friend over something stupid? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:34 PM PST I have multiple times but I think the stupidest reason for me was 1. I spoiled the latest naruto chapter of that time to a friend and they ended the friendship because of it. True story. 2. I got a hair cut and my friend stopped talking to me because she thought I copied her. I attempted to ask her what was wrong but she misunderstood and thought that I was clingy for asking. She never told me what was wrong, I had to find out what was bugging her through someone else. So when I found out about the hair cut and clingy thing I asked her to talk again and she basically refused and she blocked me on everything. She was very passive and hypocritical person. >_> |
| Question: Is this a weird Secret Santa gift? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:31 PM PST My classmate gave me a "cold survival kit". Is this person trying to imply that I always look sick and/or that Im a cold person? The kit includes: vitamin C, nasal inhaler(?), cough drops, hand sanitizer, mug, marshmellows, small sized tissue paper, instructions for cold weather drink(?). The budget restriction is $10....but it is not even snowing yet. |
| Question: Live out my dream or just let it be? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:31 PM PST I know this sounds kind of stupid... And yeah, music has been my biggest passion since I was a child. My friend wants to be famous for her dancing and singing too, you know. She tells me I should be a writer instead and focus more on that, because the music is HERS and hers alone. I know she's suffering from depression and have had a tough time. Therefore I'm hesitating a little... Should I listen to her and just let her "have the music"? Should I give up my dreams for her happiness? I love writing too as well as music, but still... What do you think? |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:29 PM PST so i came to my friends house and we started watching netflix but she started texting her other friends and it all showed up on her macbook and they re going to a movie tomorrow and she ll talk about it but like its awkward. she keeps texting them and i feel really left out and its awkward, should i go home or like wait it out? |
| Question: Friends egged house. How to get them back in a subtle yet effective way? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:12 PM PST So my family is going through difficult times right now and two of my so called friends thought it would be funny to egg my house while they were drunk. I pretended not to care but I really think it was a complete a****** move. How do I get them back in a way that s way worse and will permanently mess something up? |
| Question: Why I keep attracting friends who use me and throw me later? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:11 PM PST This is occurring right from my childhood till now...All those friends,I get ,they are so nice to me initially.I give them my love,my time,my money at times..They are so good till they realize that I'm no longer needed,they just ignore me,some started talking behind my back and making fun of me.. I feel so sad that I'm 26 and I dont have any real friends..I'm not a loner.I love the company of friends.I dont know why they keep using me and then hurting me...I've had instances where I stood up and defended my friend from another person and he used to rant about him all day,only later,they joined and humiliated me publicly once..I've helped few of them financially when they had a need but then they just forgot that.. I feel jealous of some people who have friends for years...Is there something written in my forehead that I can be used and thrown like a tissue paper?? |
| Question: Should I tell my best friend? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 03:01 PM PST Yesterday I sent a message basically telling him I'm glad we're friends. He just sent me a message saying he's glad to because im the only friend who's completely honest with him... but I've Been lying about going to school and haven't told him I've been depressed. |
| Question: Do people find me boring? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:56 PM PST I really don't know, because I seem like an interesting person to myself but I have like 2 friends and they exclude me from everything. They found a new crowd of friends that are foreign exchange students and they never introduced me to them or anything and now all they do is hang out with them and talk about how much they're going to miss them when they have to go back home and I can't help but think they wouldn't miss me. They're going to Chicago this weekend and they didn't even invite me. I don't even hang out with the other any more, and the one I do hang out with only hangs out with me when the other one has to work. I really want to be an interesting person that people want to be around but I don't know how to hold a conversation or react to things. I don't sing in the car because I am insecure about my voice. I'm not loud and outgoing (but I wish I was.) how do I become more interesting? I'm tired of being left out. |
| Question: I hate everyone. What do I do? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:56 PM PST I don't want to hate everyone but they are just so deserving. There's a lot of things I haven't forgiven people for and now I'm forced to live with these people. I guess what I'd like to know is how do you forgive someone that's broken your ******* heart in two |
| Question: How do I tell my close friend that she might want to start wearing a vest or bra? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:34 PM PST My close friend and I were out with my two boy best friends, she was wearing a swing vest, it has a low down arm hole. This meant the boys and I could see her boobs quite a lot. We started to mess around and one of the boys jokingly pushed her and she fell over, causing the top to come up. Therefore we fully saw them. Also at school, her shirts (and most shirts) are quite see through so people can see the majority of her nipples and boobs. She can be very sensitive so I don't want to hurt her feelings at all. However lots of people are now talking about the fact they can see her boobs. Any ideas on how I can bring up the situation? I have tried telling her but she keeps changing the subject (oh and the shirts are not fully see through but you can make our her nipples quite a lot). |
| Question: Why does my best friends little brother dislikes me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:23 PM PST We are much older in college, he's still in high school and everytime I come over he greets me but then sometimes can be borderline rude. Which can be really confusing at times because my friend tells me out of all her friends I'm the only one he likes to play with yet the only one hes rude to also. |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:19 PM PST My guy friend just bought the house next to my parents. He asked me to come over to help him pick out "paint" for the walls. I went over there and he was completely shirtless and in jeans. He came to the door and we looked through wall colors. I asked where the bathroom was and I went in the bathroom through his bedroom and I found a photo of us together, sitting on the beach with me in between his legs looking at the camera. He came in to see if I was alright and I said, I love this pic of us at the beach together. He come by me and put his hand on my upper arm and said, Probably because I'm with the most gorgeous girl in the world in that photo. I turned around and we caught each other's eyes, then he put his hand on my cheek and started rubbing it. I said that I had to go, but if he needed to talk that I was not far to get ahold of. He texted me that night asking me I would come over and I really didn't want to, so I just walked over and he was still shirtless and I asked him what he needed and he said you. We started kissing and now I feel like he wants something more. We've been hanging out a lot more than we usually do and every time we are together, we are either cooking or kissing. We haven't gone "all the way" but I think he thinks we might go in that direction. We laid in his bed facing one another, then we kissed over and over again, but then we fell asleep. I'm 26 and he's 27. I went over there because he needed me to come over, but I didn't want to be rude. We didn't have sex with one another or anything like that. We just kissed and fell asleep in one another's arms. |
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| Question: My best friend chose another friend over me.? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:14 PM PST Ok so my best friend chose her other friend that is a boy over me and im really upset. She even picked him to go to Florida with her next summer and im really sad. This boy that is her friend is super ugly and mean and he called my little brother a jackass. What should i do?please help! |
| Question: Should I move back home or stay where I am?? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 02:01 PM PST 5 days ago I moved out of my mom's house and moved in with my friend that I work with. My friend and I had been talking about it, how fun it was gonna be, but once I moved I realized that she had no furniture, TV, food, cable, or Internet! My friend is also barely here, she's with her gf 24/7 I've only see her once since I moved in. Since I don't have a car I have to ride with her and so far I've had to ask other people at work for rides because she ditches me! On top of that I am extremely homesick to the point where I burst out into tears when I'm home alone and at work. My bf came over once and since then he's barely talked to me, so he isn't here to keep me company :( what should I do :( |
| Question: No friends, bored..at home...Friday night. Teens help? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:35 PM PST So, I don't really have any friends I can talk to, since I only have like one. She's busy. I pretty much lost all my other friends. So pretty depressing. What should I do tonight? Like, for fun? Thanks :) |
| Question: Does my friend in my friend group like me more than a friend? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:33 PM PST |
| Question: Looking for new friends to make my life fresh to my broken heart ? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:25 PM PST Can anyone suggest to make good friends am Indian guy who lives in USA ... am really feeling alone here :( Looking for new friends to make my life fresh to my broken heart ? am at age 33 now... |
| Question: I have a huge problem What should i do...? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:20 PM PST So i moved to this new school and i thought i made a lot of friends (i thought) and then iknew they were only using me ... I don't know what to do they are using me for homeworks and quizes. I started hating my best friend i made up reasons in my mind too. I cant just stop talking with the, because i will become hated and stuff. Fml 😪 |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:13 PM PST They are so fake. I can't believe I've been this blind. They exclude me then ask why I don't hang out with them. Today they went to go smoke and they know how much I love that, so I was walking w/ them cause of a couple of closer friends I was with. Then I ask if I can join and she goes "hold on lemme go talk to C real quick." As she's talking they keep turning around and giggling at me and it just hit me that I don't belong, as they walked away laughing and left me in the cold. They didn't even bother walking w/ me cause I was limping. What should I do to these sneaky filthy disgusting b*tches? |
| Question: Why do I feel like I'm really annoying? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:09 PM PST So basically, I made friends with a new group of people and I really like them but I constantly feel like I'm annoying them and saying annoying and stupid stuff and that they secretly wanting to me to go away, I know I'm probably being paranoid because of my anxiety but please help |
| Question: Please help me i hate it when people call me annoying what can i do? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:06 PM PST i am 17 year old senior guy tbh i am prob the weirdest guy you ever seen in a funny way people make fun of me because i dont know anything in school because i guess i have adhd and cant focus and i am really sad because of my poor grades :( and people dont want to talk to me because so called annoying because i am mean to everyone but the thing is people are mean to me and i just laugh at it never take it serious but you know what if i be mean to people even in not serious way they take it waay to far and people call me the most annoying person and everyone tells me to shut up everything i dont understand why me if someone else tries to be funny no one tells them to shut up just me :( and it hurts me i have few friends and they know me well enough think i am pretty cool dude |
| Question: How could i stop from hating a friend? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 01:06 PM PST |
| Question: How do I deal with disrespectful friends? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:56 PM PST I have a few friends that I care a lot about but they've been pretty disrespectful lately. For example I asked my friend, (lets call him nick) if he wanted to hang out and he said he had to go to church. I found out the next day that he went and hung out with my other two friends (lets call them Ryan and Luke). Also, my friend had a birthday party and I gave him $5 dollars and a Rubik's Cube because that's what I like to do and that's all I had at the time (which I gotten made fun of by them before) and they are now saying "it wasn't enough" and "Your not that good of a friend". These friends have pretty wealthy parents and they don't understand what its like. I have also caught them talking about me behind my back a few times. I know that I shouldn't really be friends with these people if they make me feel bad but I have nowhere and nobody left to turn to if I stop being friends with them. Also I've known these people for a long time. |
| Question: Is she trying to make me feel guilty for not going? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:50 PM PST My friend & I had plans today to hang out after work. I'm not feeling well at all & just want to go home & rest. We had planned to go to the mall & do some Christmas shopping. We agreed to reschedule for Sunday. Her: I'm just going to go to the mall by myself tonight. Me: ok I'm sorry I really don't feel good today I've been sick all day at work Her: like I said, I'm just going to go on my own Me: that's fine. Her: if I go on my own then I'm not going back to the mall Sunday. Me: ok so we wont hang out Sunday then? Her: Yeah not happening. I prob can't hang out next week either given our schedules. Oh well...I'm just going to cancel plans period & say screw it! Ok? What's her problem?!? To me it seems she's acting childish because she didn't get her way. Thoughts? |
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| Question: I need an sincere apology? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:48 PM PST Someone who I greatly trusted and admired has hurt me and they have continued to do it for a while until I got fed up and removed them from my life. But I started to hate the person and have since sincerely forgiven them so that I can be free. But they in 6 years have never apologized but expects us to be civil. They live life as if they've never hurt me. I try but I am sick of it because I want an apology. So I've written a letter explaining why I want an apology but was wondering should I even be asking for one if they haven't volunteered? |
| Question: Is it normal to not want to go out? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:35 PM PST Hey everyone. I'm 15 year old guy. It seems I always rather stay in than go out. It doesn't matter if I have nothing to do at home, I always find something to do & kill time, and I so much rather stay at home doing practically nothing then going out & socializing with people. The weird thing is, I use to LOVE going out to places. But now I don't. Is this normal behavior? |
| Question: I feel like a tedious person, how to improve my self confidence? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:19 PM PST I am 18 years old. I am enduring the pain of being an outcast, especially that I am in college now and far away from my family and few close friends who were "compassionate". I guess that the real world just welcomed me with open arms and I am starting to see how immersed I was in my comfort zone. I mean I am not unfriendly, I just don't have anything interesting or funny to say (most of the time), and all people in my school don't share my interests and in turn avoid me because I seem boring to them. Most of my family are very popular, outgoing, witty, and they talk non stop. An exception would be one of my uncles, who is VERY quiet. My best friends used to be "awkward", like me, but I think they grew out of it. I met them at grade 6, and before that I do not recall having any best friends (outside of school) because I would just be with my cousins. I always had a problem with speaking, I do not feel comfortable with my voice, and therefore I end up stuttering and messing up my speech. I do not follow the latest trends (because I am not interested), and consequently be out of touch with the rest. So how to be exciting and more likable? I don't like going out with people and having nothing to speak about! I do have topics but I don't have the attitude and tone with it, which do affect how people react to me. I've been called a "zombie" because I seem so dead when speaking. It's nothing to do with my appearance or body, as I am assured that it is because of my attitude. |
| Question: Hi my name is jimsly how are you doing? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 12:18 PM PST |
| Question: People think I hate them? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:55 AM PST Almost everyone in my grade ask my best friend why I hate them. But I don't. I smile at them even sometimes. My friend told me that I'm beautiful so it can't be because of my looks. Sometimes I give off bad impressions though. I always hear people talking about me in a bad way, I'm a quiet shy girl in school and when someone talks to me in a bad way then I will reply back and speak for the first time. So how do I stop giving bad impressions and a bad vibe? I have a small circle of 3 friends and somehow people that I don't even know think I hate them. |
| Question: Why does this little twit want my attention? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:43 AM PST In all honesty I hate teenagers she's 16 and I'm almost 20, she copies the style of my selfies, makes up crap about my ex who I don't care for anyway and claims to know a Korean singer I like. It's childish and stupid. |
| Question: How to get him to talk to me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:30 AM PST Basically, this guy at my college tried getting my number a few months back but i didn't give it to him and i didnt see him since. I've been seeing him around lately and i find him cute and want to talk to him, he smiles at me but doesnt say anything and i get a bit nervous when hes around so i avoid looking at him and look somewhere else. How can i get him to come and talk to me again? |
| Question: I think my bff is keeping secerts from me what do i do? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:23 AM PST |
| Question: What should i do about my life long bff? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:22 AM PST okay so we are both 15 and our moms were pregnet together. and we have always been like best freinds and told eachother everything! like we have been sooo close and now she is just a try hard and a fake. and she is so so so prideful. and iv always tryed to be a good freind to her and i just feel like she is never there for me. and i feel like she is not a true freind. |
| Question: Girls are talking behind my back, and friend is telling me, what should I do? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:11 AM PST I'm a freshman in high school and the girls in athletics are saying that how slow I am makes them feel good, and calling me fat and you know the norm, I've wanted to be skinny for a while, but it hurts to know my "friends" are mean to me behind my back, and address things like "we should be faster and remember our stuff" and they direct it always to me. they always leave me out if there is a partner activity... I'm alone. and I'm getting really sick of it. My friend told me today some real de things that they say. What should I do? |
| Question: I m jealous of my friend but I m happy she s suffering? I feel guilty? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:05 AM PST My friend has really bad anxiety and an eating disorder, but you wouldn t even be able to tell if you didn t know her well enough. She has perfect grades, she s going to a top college, she always finishes her tests before me (like the first person to finish) and gets a lot better scores than I do. Teachers love her, she s super nice to people and it bothers me and I know it shouldn t but she s so annoying!!! She has everything and I hate her :( She was popular too and she didn t hang out with a specific clique like everyone loved her and she was just a generally outgoing and social and friendly person, and my "friends" would always talk about how she s the "life of the party", or how she "brightens up the room." I want to throw up but it s not fair because people don t realize she was abused by her dad growing up and that she has major daddy issues she s so pathetic. All these guys think she s "pretty" or "cute" and hit on her/ flirt with her but that s probably only because she has daddy issues. And she acts like such an angel, her brother is autistic so she fights for autism and tries to "help" other people who have depression or eating disorders but I can t wait to ruin her life. She just moved to a new school and she has no friends and she just texted me. I m so happy she s suffering she eats in the library like the loser she deserves to be. I know it s wrong for me to think all this but I can t help but hate her!!! |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 11:00 AM PST Or when they ask, is this thing or this action good or bad? I mean, the whole good/bad thing, it's a very simplistic, childish way of looking at the world. But it's like, so many people on here seem to need other people to tell them what's okay for them and what is not, when it's all just other people's judgments, not some unalterable reality or societal law. |
| Question: Having trouble making friends at secondary school? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:45 AM PST Hello everyone! I am 12 years old and I have just started secondary school and I have a really good friend from primary school. (We are not in the same form tho) so she has made these new friends and I have started to have interest in them and my friend doesn t like that. So ever since she made her new friends, she will always make sure I get blanked or left out. Also there was an incident when on what s app there was a group convo. They were all having dirty minded convosations and then my mum found out and told the school to deal with them. Ever since they, will never get over with it and are still made at me, thinking I was the one who snitched to the school. Please help! I have a low self esteem status and I really find it hard to fit in. I am a loner : ( nobody likes me. And the thing is, I am a naughty girl I get into loads of trouble. Is that why I don t have friends. (But they are naughty themselves too) please help me make friends and fit in and keep them. Thanks! Louise-Mae Stuart Also btw convo means conversation |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:35 AM PST We wouldn't do anything I feel iffy because he asked me to hang out and I don't want to flake out on him or the lady I'm house sitting/dog sitting for. He's super friendly and polite and loves dogs. My morals are getting to me....do you think there are cameras? Do you think it's morally wrong? Am I reading too much into it? |
| Question: Is my friend being mean to me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:32 AM PST For the sake of this question, let's call my friend Aria. Aria wouldn't be my best friend but she would be a close friend and I've known her for about eight months. A few weeks ago, we were at school. I was sitting on a bench in the hallway and she walked over and she was like 'Wow, Amira, you really need to pluck your eyebrows!" It was a few weeks ago, I thought it was kind of rude but I let it go. Today she walked over right beside me and she said 'it smells over here.' She may have meant nothing by it but to me it kind of seemed like she was sayingI smelt. Thank you in advance. |
| Question: Gift suggestions for a friend going to Asia in the near future.? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:29 AM PST She will be going over to teach English and so I thought a travel guide of some sort would be best. I am not sure if she will be in Japan or China at the moment and she will most likely be going in 6 months to a year. She has actually been to China before and we have a friend she is close to that actually lives in Japan. I was hoping for a little help in the type of guide I might be able to get her. |
| Question: Is chippedales good for a friend's birthday? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:23 AM PST |
| Question: How can I prank them back? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:15 AM PST I'm going to a summer camp next week with a mixed group of boys and girls (though we camp on opposite sides of the grounds). Last year the boys used cable ties to bind our zips and trap us in our tents :/. How can we get them back? 10 points for the most creative answer - no shaving cream or destruction of property |
| Question: Why are other girls so quick to hate me? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:10 AM PST I'm a really quite and chill person and I'm not the type to go around causing drama and talking **** but some chicks just automatically hate me and I'll never understand why |
| Question: My best friend moved schools? Posted: 04 Dec 2015 10:03 AM PST We've been friends since 3rd grade and we're both in 11th now, so we've been friends for a while. She moved schools & she was the only person I hung out with because everyone else is real preppy or fake. I'm by myself the majority of my time even though I do have friends here, it's all guys & all the girls are pretty fake or they have a best friend already, sooooo. I know we can met up but that doesn't help me 5 days of the week. Also there is a college trip happening next week and I don't want to go for multiple reasons. A. I won't have anyone to hangout with, nobody who I usually do you know? Like they're friends but not close friends. B. one of the teachers going on there doesn't like me but she acts like it, C.I'll miss school & already have so much other work that needs to get done. They keep hounding me about the trip & one teacher said it's because my security blanket is gone & I should take a chance or whatever. |
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