Okay so the past few weeks i've been really worried about my looks. Yesterday I created a profile on okcupid not so much to date; more out of curiosity to see what others thought of me. The results were disappointing. Although i had chose only pics i thought i looked better (and wore more elegant clothes and had my hair done), i only got messages by guys i was not interested in, looked kinda weird... i have to note here that i rarely smile in pics. None of the guys i liked, liked me back. So i deleted my account. This made me really down on myself. I don't know what's going on or what's the problem with me.. Seriously people may say that looks don't matter but it can get you really down when you never have heard a good word from anyone in your life, not even your parents.. When you constantly live on the shadow of others, feeling hideous....

Today when I was in class a boy kept harassing me by touching me and I ended up doing something really embarrassing and after that he laughed the whole time and he went and told everyone. I watched him go around the whole class telling everyone and watched them turn toward me and laugh. I really wanted to cry. I told my mom and she was no help. I don t wanna go to school tomorrow. I m really upset about what happened. I really don t like him. I m too embarrassed to go back to school because I know he will just be there laughing at me and reminding me of what happened. I m crying right now thinking about it. I really don t wanna go to school anymore. I don t wanna be made fun of and I know he s gonna keep harassing me. He s gonna do it even more now that that happened. I m so stressed out from crying. What do I do?! And no I can t just "brush it off" especially when he s telling everyone in the whole school. He always cusses at me too and calls me a ***** and to suck his thing. I really don t like it. I m really just a child. You don t tell a child to suck your thing or call a child a effing *****. And I m pretty sure you don t lay hands on one either. I m too scared to go back to school but I ve already missed too much. I really need help.

Hello, i've recently created a profile on okc (pics included). There i started chatting with a guy. He seemed nice and we were thinking of meeting (actually i didn't intend to meet; i was just bored and spending time online :P). We had exchanged about 200 messages before i told him i'm not interested in meeting (as i don't think we have anything in common and i prefer hanging out with more educated and intellectual people). There the guy started flinging but he wasn't offensive at the beginning. But when i asked him where he studied and i told him this is a joke; he started sending the most offensive and rude messages to me.. He finally told me he only wanted to have sex with me. What? Are people on dating sites usually so creepy and unstable? @Luke emotional intelligence and IQ are 2 different things Someone maybe a genius but socially awkward or have trouble behaving in real life

sl**? They call me a sl** because I met these two guys on the internet (both different nights) and had sex with them late at night and never talked to them again. Is it bad that my own parents call me that?

My boyfriend doesn't have a bad temper or anything but he gets jealous fairly easily. The one person he seems especially angered by is my ex. We all go to the same school so it's impossible to avoid him completely but I have tried. My ex always tries to find me and talk to me. I've told him to stop, I've tried ignoring him, I would get a restraining order if I could but he isn't a danger to me so I can't do much. Well my boyfriend doesn't seem to believe that he would keep bothering me unprovoked. So every time my ex tries to talk to me my boyfriend assumes its because I had been giving him some sort of signals to flirt or that I'm actually the one going to him first. At first the threats weren't anything scary. He would say if he caught him talking to me again he would break up with me. The first time it happened he did actually leave me but asked to get back together in a few days. Then he would say he would break my phone if it happened again but he didn't. This very last time his exact words were "If I catch you talking to him again I swear I'll ******* kill you." Now, I KNOW he won't actually murder me, its not that serious. But I am worried that this whole situation is wearing his patience thin. The fact that his threats are getting more brutal and he's cursing at me make me worried that he could be losing control of his temper. Will everything just come to pass or should I be a little concerned that this will strain our relationship? What can I do?

What do I do? My dog ate my cadet boot! I put them up but I guess someone took them down and now the shoe laces are broken, the top of the boot is chewed up and the inside of the shoe is even broken! HOW MUCH DO THESE ******* BOOTS COST? OVER 100? I DONT EVEN LIKE CADETS, GODDDD THATS THE THING IM NOT A GOOD CADET I HATE THE ******* PROGRAM

I have purchased over a thousand dollars in shoes in less than a month. I didn't pay full price for any there were 4 pairs. But I have about two hundred dollars of parking tickets that I refuse to pay plus they weren't that much at first I just didn't pay. I have traffic court today but I'm not going because i just don't want to.

Don't know how to deal with this. Im 20 now and when I opened my bank account I was still a minor so my mom was on it also. After I turned 18 I stupidly forgot about taking her off. I'm now in army ait. She has been using my money since my first pay from basic training. I first noticed when I checked the ATM before our 2nd hair cut and my account went from over a grand to 13 dollars. I told the drill sets but they basically laughed told me tough **** so I wasn't able to call until our white phase phone call. She acted like it was no big deal. She said don't worry I'll pay you back. Since then she has been putting money in but I still feel disrespected. I tried calling the bank but they said they can't take her off unless we are both present.

I need to know more about my son's girlfriend, also if I could get photos of her it would be better. I only know her name and nationality

They all have thick muscular arms and legs. They wear blue jeans and a guys t shirt. The wear a black toboggon all year around, sometimes with a skull on it. They normally have a car with a frowny face markered on the back license plate. Sometimes they wear a green plad coat or jacket. They are okay with me but upfront warn me and others that they come from a family that takes nothing off of nobody. They say if you start s hit expect s hit back. They always seem to overreact and always be on their guard. Why are they like this?

I've asked this before, but I can't edit the details on my phone. It'll be just fine if there is one I can talk to by phone. And connect by media socials like Twitter, Facebook, that sorts. So I can spill my feelings and stuff..

I feel like just dying right now, my boyfriend got angry at me just now when I was just trying to have a talk about something with him. Lately I've felt a bit neglected and like he's not attracted to me, I try to surprise him every once in a while sexually. but every time he literally just says no and gets upset.. keep in mind we used to do that sort of stuff and he used to be the one wanting to do it. But now it's literally almost never "Literally never" and he gets mad for me bringing it up. He said once "If I'm in the mood i"m in the mood, If not. I'm not." but he never cared once if I was in the mood before. So I confronted him about it today politely asking if there's something wrong and if it's a bad thing to try and surprise him. he just got angry at me and it started making me stressed because he started to yell. I was still staying kind of quiet whispering but I blurted this out because of stress "If I'm frustrating you so much do you just want to break up with me or something? I really don't know what else I can do!" Then he just yelled 'NOT DEALING WITH THIS BULLSHIT TONIGHT. NO. **** THIS" and he turned off his pc throwing his headset on the ground walking away. I feel abandoned and depressed, Honestly even if it's his birthday I feel like he could have just talked to me about this rather than yelling at me and disrespecting me by hanging up and cursing me out. when he hung up I thought about killing myself which isn't normal. what do I do :( it makes me even more sad because literally right before this happened I got him a present that he picked out and now this is happening. I try so hard to make him happy but I can't even talk to him without it turning on me.

When I was 13 in 2011 I was in a relationship with my 28 year old science teacher. He was just so nice and sweet and I liked him but now that I'm 18 I found out he also molested his 3 daughters and now I see he only did what he did because he had a thing for little kids and I feel so betrayed. Does this mean rape? Statutory rape? Or just sexual abuse? Please let me know your opinion on this. http://m.tucson.com/news/local/crime/tucson-teacher-gets-years-for-abuse-of-student/article_ebd9d63c-c21f-5958-9a3e-546f999ac343.html?mobile_touch=true

Ok, I really, really, REALLY dont want to go to school and I need to think of something to get out of it.. I've already used the fake vomit a week ago, soo that wont work.. :( PLEASE!!! HELP!!! I NEED REAL GOOD IDEAS! Please, I'm so desperate! (p.s. I have a real good reason an it's already 1 in the morning!!!!!!) :(

Hi I'm 24 have been with my partner for 9 years and have 2 kids together. About 2 years ago just before i found out i was pregnant with our second, I was having a new years eve party at my house. At the end of the night i walked in on my partner and a close friend of ours. This was completely out of character for him he was on pills and i know he has no feelings for her and is very much in love with me. I forgave him and we no longer see those friends. But I just cant let it go i think about it still, i see the image in my head and still feel totally embarrassed. I feel sad that i lost my friends and it hurts so bad they did n't even try to mend our friendship. I feel like a complete loser. Just want to let go and move on! Will i ever forget about this? Its been 2 years already i just want to let go! Please any tips? Thanks :)

I am a 6'7 380 pound woman who is 73 year old retired lawyer from india. I am still a virgin, never even kissed a man. For the last 48 years(since I have come to the US) almost everyday I would go out trying to meet different men, in various places ranging from bars to bookstores. I would try things from asking them out for coffee, to one night stands at bars. I would try meeting 40 different men a day but they all rejected me due to my height and being overweight. I then met this handsome little man who is 19 year old white man and is 5'3 weighing around 120 pounds with lean and defined muscle. He was a highschool dropout who was evicted for not paying rent. We became friends and i let him stay in my house rent free, I would cook for him and clean after him. He has been staying for 6 months and he had sex with a 30 different women. I have grabbed his crotch subtly many times. Since im so much taller than him ive subtly touched my breasts against his head many times. I would always peek at him whenever he showered, changing, or even having sex, because he was so handsome. He then caught me, touching myself while peaking at him while he was showering. After 48 years this is the farthest I have gotten with any man and this might be my one chance of having sex

I live with this person and after the shower he has two towels on the floor and never picks them up they are gross and I don't understand? Is there a reason I once lived at my friends house and his mom who is a little over weight puts the towels on the floor too The person I live with us over weight Idk if that has anything to do with it Not trying to be rude just help me understand why It's gross and they get dirty and they are wet and all over the place and I'm buying towels for my self tomorrow I could just ask but I don't want to be annoying

TL;DR I meet her randomly when I don't expect it, and I can't react quickly enough to say hi when it happens... so I will never know if I'm missing out on a great relationship. There is a girl in my university which I have a crush on since first year. She hangs with a large group of persons (girls and guys), and I am hardly part of their circle. I'm somewhat introverted, although I am outgoing with people I know. And I had previous crushes with whom I regularly held interesting conversations. The problem is that all previous girls I met, I had a good reason to talk to them in the first place (we were classmates and had to work on a project, or we often met in corridors or on the bus). But I can't find any excuse to go and talk to this girl, and I rarely have occasions to just come up and say 'hi'. Sometimes I think she might also like me, because we often stare at each other when I enter a room she's in, and sometimes she walks past me and looks at me with a blank face, then turns her head away when I look at her. But everytime this happens, I freeze and can't say a word, so I've basically never interacted with her besides staring. I'm also somewhat scared she might be looking at me because she thinks "why's this creep always looking at me?" or "he seems to be stalking me..." (which is not really true, although I sometimes hang in places at campus where I often see her). She's generally outgoing, so I don't know why she'd just stare and never say anything to me.

Might be a strange question to ask. But I have absolutely noone to spent a christmas with, I am missing out on so much and I cannot take spending it alone anymore. I was looking at the road home and wondering if anyone els has been there. please do not judge.

I've been living with two girls in a triple this past semester. At the beginning of the year, we made a roommate contract, and one of my main concerns was being able to use my computer at night, and they were all for it. Of course, they quickly changed their mind. One of the girls goes to sleep EVERY NIGHT at 10 p.m. So when she went to bed, I would set my laptop light to the lowest brightness, and even I had a hard time seeing the screen. She told me immediately that I can't be in the room with a laptop at night because it bothers her and basically kicked me out of our shared living space. So for this whole semester I've hung out in the lounge area in our building, and I'm really sick and tired of it. Not only can I not get comfortable in MY bed at night and watch ONE episode on netflix (my usual routine) but I can't have ANY lights on (including my phone) when I come back in the room. So I stumble on things and make unnecessary noises because I can't see, which only pisses them off more. I'm tired of being forced out of the room we SHARE and have no compromise whatsoever. I asked her if she could turn and face the wall so she can't see the light on my screen (keep in mind it is at its lowest brightness) and she told me no. Am I wrong for feeling angry that I'm kicked out EVERY night? I want to compromise and I plan on having a talk with them tomorrow. I'm just tired of not being able to stay cozy in my bed and have time to unwind after a long day of school work.

I think i'm an normal highschool student but for some reason i just can't let anyone in or closer to me. I have lots of friends and i never like to get too close to them in an emotional level or relationship wise as in becoming close friends opening up about my self. For reason i just cant is there something wrong with me? will i outgrow this. Same with romantic relationships i would really like a girl but as soon i get closer to her i just push them away, why?

She thinks she is slick but she has been creating accounts for her kids. I can tell by the email address that it's her. Well she keeps following my social media page and in following.

So my boyfriend told me he didnt go downstairs for dinner. He eats late at night because he has a job from 12am-8pm so he wants to eat dinner like at 10pm. His sister (i should mention she is 19 and pregnant so i don't know if it was pregnancy hormones ding this) got mad my boyfriend did not go downstairs for dinner. So she started texting him saying nasty things basically being a b*tch. She texted him so their mom wouldn't find out. Then i guess cause she was mad he did not go down for dinner, she started saying mean things about me i guess to hurt his,feelings for not going down for dinner. Then my boyfriend got upset and he said some things (which i forgot what he told me), which made his sister regret what she said because my boyfriend told me she apologized saying she really didn't mean what she said and she gave him a hug. But it hurt my feelings to hear she said mean things about me because we went out before and she liked me, and then wanted to ralk to me on the phone before she went on a vacation to visit family in another country. I mean I'm glad she apologized to my boyfriend but is it wrong to feel upset still? I know she probably didnt mean it because she wondered why i wasnt over for thanksgiving.

My current girlfriend has a brain tumor and shes experiencing blackouts. When I try to talk to her about talking to someone like her mom its next to impossible to connive her. I need help with persuading her because i'm extremely worried.

for example, my boyfriend and i fight a lot, and even though I get very mad at him, i can help but smile when he gets more upset. I'm not happy that he's upset so i dont know why i smile but i cant help it. and then i start laughing and he gets so mad at me when i smile or laugh but i just dont know why i do it or how to stop it. i want to show him just how serious i am but it's hard to take me seriously when im smiling or laughing while he'a crying. why do i so it and how can i stop it?

A few people at work just look at me and passing them is akward, why is this?

So, my mom is a very loving and caring person. She is nice to everyone and likes to help people in need. She is a boss at her job and she works with this girl who was the same age as my mom. She worked there for about 5 months and she was very nice. Until this week, she stopped working on last Saturday and when my mom tried to contact her, she wouldn't pick up the phone or answer her text messages. She finally said she "changed" her phone number. The most important part is this. She then asked for $3000 to buy a car because her friend can't drive her anymore. My mom kindly gave her the money and asked her to work again because there was only 4 people on the job and there was plenty of customers so they can't keep up. The woman agreed and worked for 2 days. She bought the car, and never had been heard from again. I think of this as manipulation and I want to do something to help my mom. What should I do?

The other day my mother came by my house and noticed an elderly man running away from a Woman . he unfournatly fell down. And my mother went to try and help him up but the woman what are assuming is a caretaker told my mother that he s ok and sat the elderly man down on The curb and talked to him , my mother knowing a thing or two about Alzheimer s suspects that the elderly man had out hence the running away , I was just wondering would out be a nice thing for my roommates and I to put in for Christmas gift for the elderly man and his care taker even though we don t know all the details? Also how should I go about this ? I just want to make sure any of the goodies aren t dangerous tho him

her grandpa (which is my great uncle) had a heart attack and now he is in the hospital not doing so good. should I DM her and tell her I hope she and her family are doing OK? I really feel bad for Kate and the rest of her family! :( what should I do?

In middle school I kept to myself but I was bullied a lot, so I changed my personality, I started to flirt with girls and give them pickup lines and people started laughing with me and not at, the bullying stopped completely by 8th, but I m in high school now and I haven t changed, today I gave a girl I m always throwing pickup lines at one that was a little more inappropriate then my usual ones, my coach is usually fine with me saying them but today he said say something else like that and your off the team, I was so hurt and didn t know what to say, everyone just stopped and looked at me, I smiled and said ok but now people are coming up to me trying to cheer me up but it just makes me more upset, but I can t take it out on them because they re just trying to help, but I m really upset about it, should I go to my coach and talk to him about it because I don t think I m going get over this if I don t, the girl didn t feel any offense so I don t know why he got mad, and I feel like he should have pulled me over privately and told that, my personality has been this way since 7th grade and I don t want to say something to get me kicked off the team for real. Should I stop flirting completely or should I do it behind his back because I can t change my personality as easily as I did in middle school.

I have become more criticizing of others, a disdain, even to innocents. I don't know why this sudden baseness. Have I taken the turn for the worst? Is it really just an excuse for arrogance?

Every girl that I'm around tends to appear innocent but they try to break into old people is houses. One I was acquanted with kept staring down my grandparents for a while and got surprisingly arrested for breaking into a old persons house armed and stealing stuff. Another girl I was acquanted with likewise got in jail over breaking into an old persons house stealing their goods. Another girl I just recently became acquanted with seems to have theft involving old people. A lot of girls generally I'm acquanted with steals off of their grandparents . I dont hang with any of these girls however I just don't know why old people? Why do they have the audicaty to steal off of and hurt old people?

Okay well, all the boys like to hit girls, and I dont play like that because I just dont like rough housing with people. So, and like everybody always says im soo skinny, and all that. Like my arms are small, thats one reason why I always wear a jacket, and I tried lifting weights(size 8) so that I can gain muscles. I thought that at least if it looked like I had muscles they would stop hitting me. But, no, like this guy friend of mine, likes to hit my forehead, and rough house me. I dont like rough housing, it makes me look weak, cause I dont have muscle, and everybody else does, and I have to try hard to get them down or something. How can I start to stand up for myself,and show people that hit me that im not afraid, and that im serious. Like also, i have bad nerves, so like my hands will shake, when i get into an argument. How can I help this?

I went to see my cousin a month ago and we always have a good time since we were kids.She became vegan 2 years ago but this time I went to see her,she acted different.She blamed me and her sister for eating meat,she made me feel horrible.I don't want to lose the relationship we have,we always have a great time...What should I do?