Family: Question: My mother reads my diary! Help i'm 17 and need privacy? |
- Question: My mother reads my diary! Help i'm 17 and need privacy?
- Question: MY MOM WISHED TO HAVE ME ABORDED?
- Question: Today my mom basically called me a whore and she's not sorry?
- Question: My dad is crazy and my parents might be getting divored? Please help?
- Question: Girls honestly no bs?
- Question: Rocky relationship with father?
- Question: My daughter doesn't leave the house?
- Question: Should I visit my developmentally disabled brother in Ohio?
- Question: My family hates me & so does my boyfriend.?
- Question: Does anyone else find this odd?
- Question: How to deal with my parents?
- Question: How do I overcome getting over guilt that my parents divorced when I was a kid?
- Question: What would be ways to get closer to adult cousins (I am 22 and have cousins ages 19 to 35)?
- Question: I can't take it?
- Question: Is this weird?
- Question: My mother undermines my parenting right in front of my daughter?
- Question: Stolen thousands from mother... who stole from great aunt, not guilty at all am I sick?
- Question: Can my mother in law kick me my wife and three kids out of her house without any warning . .?
- Question: How do I get away from my dysfunctional family?
- Question: Does anyone else have these parent problems?
- Question: Birth Mom was to contact me, but I dont like her?
- Question: My brother is my uncle and my cousin is my dad, How did this happen? Explain the process?
- Question: Eyebright instill in preoperated eyes?
- Question: BIG DILEMMA.. PLEASE HELP?
- Question: My mom wont let me wear summer clothes or cute bathing suits bc im "too fat"?
- Question: Physically abused as a teen, parents say to "get over it"?
- Question: I m 20 years old. My whole family is mad at me because I moved out. What should I do?
- Question: Moody 13 year old sister making me feel rubbish!!?
- Question: Mums kicking me out when I turn 16?
- Question: Why do people have kids with the same person they know is not responsible.In my opinion age is not a factor!What are your opinions?
- Question: What is wrong with my sister?!?!?!?
- Question: Should I forgive my father and let it go?
- Question: Sad vacations over?
- Question: Is this envious behavior?
- Question: How to tame my bully step brother?
- Question: Anyone else's parents never try to contact them, or never want to spend much time with them?
- Question: My parents are making my life hell?
- Question: How can your brother be your uncle and your cousin be your dad?
- Question: Why does my parents won't let me switch to an adult doctor? Please help?
- Question: I feel like a burden to my Mom.?
- Question: Should I tell my mom I smoke weed time to time?
- Question: Was this considered an inappropriate comment from my mother?
- Question: Do I look like my dad?
- Question: How can I make my brother stop being so LAZY?Help?
- Question: Should I sever ties with my family?
- Question: Who do you think is more bossy, Older brothers or older sisters? Asking out of boredom easy 10 points?
- Question: Was my mom manipulating me?
- Question: How long would you wait?
- Question: Why did I get cursed with such evil family? Even my grandma is evil?
- Question: My big brother is getting bullied by someone older than him!?
- Question: How to subtly hint to my uncle that my aunt wants another baby?
- Question: Really Unstable Mom?
- Question: How should I handle the situation with her?
- Question: My baby 10 year old brother is calling me mommy!!?
- Question: Is he going to make it or should I tell him to come home?
- Question: My Mom Caught Me Masturbating And Got Mad At Me?
- Question: I hate my life !?
- Question: I don't want to live with my mum anymore?
- Question: Why is my sister acting like this towards me?
- Question: My dad is cheating on my mum and I don't know what to do, she doesn't know yet obviously and my dad doesn't know that I know yet, advice?
| Question: My mother reads my diary! Help i'm 17 and need privacy? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 01:08 PM PDT So i'm 17 and yeah i do keep a diary as there are some things you just can't tell anyone and i find it a good way to calm down if i'm angry or overwhelmed. Well I know for a fact that my mother has been reading it!? I feel so angry and just arghh and now I can't right in it because she just keeps reading it!! Don't tell me to confront her because we're not close and i can't do that. Who the hell reads they're daughters diary! Thats not the only thing she's read my text messages and Facebook messages! I'm not a 5 year old anymore, i'm moving out either next year or the year after, I need my privacy i can't deal with it. With everything I do i'm treated like a 5 year old and i'm not kidding, even my father can see it and has admitted to me that she does and that she needs to let me go do things like a normal teenager. I don't know what to do |
| Question: MY MOM WISHED TO HAVE ME ABORDED? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:53 PM PDT Theres a character limit, so i took a screenshot of the paragraph |
| Question: Today my mom basically called me a whore and she's not sorry? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:47 PM PDT Today at a church gathering thing my little brother got some coffee and I asked for a sip and he hesitantly let me have some while rolling his eyes. My mom told me "you can't blame him; you've had sex. Just keep the drink bc no one wants it." I was in such shock. Yes she knows some of my past with 2 guys, but who doesn't have sex? I'm 18 now and I've been in a relationship now over a year. She lost her virginity at 14 and got pregnant with my sister out of wedlock. So what right does she think she has to tell me that? I didn't say anything and just told myself to not let it bother me. My eyes started filling up so I went to the bathroom then I decided to just leave. It's been a few hours and I still don't know what to do. I hate that she brings up the past like this.. Everyone changes and I thought I "redeemed" myself in a way. Yes there was a point in my life where I didn't care nor respect myself and was very depressed. My mom knows that. I've been totally suicide thought free for a year now and totally turned my life around. I think she truly thinks she's perfect and "holy" bc she goes to church. I don't know what to do if she doesn't apologize. This is a huge deal to me. I don't want to live with someone who puts me down like this. Advice? |
| Question: My dad is crazy and my parents might be getting divored? Please help? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:47 PM PDT My dad is really sick and cam barely take care of himself but he s constantly yelling at my mom, calling her names and basically bullying her. Occassionally, it gets violent. He doesn t work and is disabled. Everyone in my family wants them to divorce, including myself (I don t know if this matters but I m 16). I m scared for my father living by himself, if he ll be able to support himself. What should I do? |
| Question: Girls honestly no bs? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:47 PM PDT My gf graduated hs. Lately she's been liking one of her hs mate status/post/pics back to back. Example he'll write "I want a down female that won't play games" and she'll like that status. Another time my gf took a pic of her new car and he said it was nice. My gf replied "yeah we should go for a spin". He then talked about how he was going to put a custom exhaust on his car. My gf then put the "IN LOVE emoji face and wrote i can't wait till i see it dude". They don't hang out at all or talk via phone but instead just online talk but this is exactly how cheating starts/ you see it in the movies. Could my gf like this guy???? it's as if guy is too blind to see it or they are are hs buddies. I once asked my gf about him and she said he's just a friend but that's what all females say trust me/i had guy friends that got cheated on. |
| Question: Rocky relationship with father? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:44 PM PDT So last Sunday, my dad, brother, and I got into another fight with drama. I yelled at him for the first time in my life and my brother said some things like "I lost my respect for you". In my case I m in my own side since my bro and father have similar personalities. My bro is the youngest in the family so he s been acting like a brat ever since he gets to drive his "own car" and can be very prideful. My dad is a lot worse though, and he never listens to anyone but himself. He has a bad temper and would get mad at us for no reason or if something doesn t go his way. He even threatened to kick us out My mom is neutral, and its been really affecting her since its really tense in the house. Although she isn t choosing sides she agrees with the fact that my brother has to be disciplined. No one really talks to each other, my dad doesn t even look at us, and my brother eats in his room. I know we (excluding mom) have our own faults in this fight, but most of the time my dad would get away with it without apologizing and wouldn t change. I do feel bad for my brother because he is going to get more things taken away from him, but he needs to be disciplined in a way. He is 18 and is thirsting for independence so I guess that s why he s acting this way, but it also feels disconnected with us in a way like he thinks we aren t a family anymore and its all for himself. I just need some help coping with this and maybe give some insight about it. |
| Question: My daughter doesn't leave the house? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:34 PM PDT She just sits in her room, eats, and goes on her computer all day. She's 16 years old, and she's been looking for a job. She's applied to a lot of places. She actually did go to an interview a while back, but unfortunately did not get the job. She's had a few interviews after that, but she never went because she said she was "too nervous". When she's not at school, like I said she just sits in her room and eats. And it's summer break, so that's all day. She doesn't have any friends. She hasn't been out with a friend in years. There was in incident last year where she told one of her guidance counselors she wants to kill herself. She hardly ever speaks. When she does, it's very quiet. Even when she's around family, she's very quiet and reserved. She doesn't do anything. She's a lazy ****. I'm embarrassed to take her places because she doesn't talk. She just sits there and she never says anything. She always seems miserable and she doesn't appreciate anything I do for her. What should I do? I think she need medication, but she won't let me take her to the doctor. |
| Question: Should I visit my developmentally disabled brother in Ohio? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT My parents died and I have a 41 year old brother who is mentally retarded and lives in a facility. He functions at about the ages 3-5. My father died four years ago and my mother 2 years ago and I haven't been to see my brother in four years. I live about three hours away but due to his condition he doesn't really seem like a person (though I know physically he is). I thought of it yesterday when I saw my normal brother and he mentioned an old photo he found. My parents lived two hours away and visit my brother two or three times a year. He has been in the facility since he was 15. So wondering should I feel bad not seeing him or is it normal not to want to relate any further as it has been about four years and is a 3 hour drive. I saw him last in 2011 when his nurse brought him to my father's funeral. We didn't have him brought when my mother died. |
| Question: My family hates me & so does my boyfriend.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:32 PM PDT I don t know what to do. I m a 20 year old woman, Everyone in my family pretends to like me but they actually hate me. They have family gatherings & don t invite me. They never come over, call, txt, or msg me. They never ask how I m doing. We all live in the same town. They are constantly inviting my sister over, msg her, call her, txt her. They never want me around & they constantly talk about me behind my back. I know this because my sisters children tell me. I don t confront them because they will all just get mad at me anyways and quit talking to me all together. When I say all my family I mean my mom, my dad, my aunts, uncles, brothers, sister, cousins & in laws. I don t even do anything wrong. & my BF and the other hand doesn t spend time with me or his kids. He always tells me to kill myself because it would make everyone happy. He reminds me pretty much daily that my family hates me. We get along great. We have 3 kid s together. He s has treated me better than anyone else. it s just when we argue ! He gets so hurtful & tries to get me where it hurts. I can t even cry because I ll get made fun of. I m sick of living. I would never kill myself over a guy because my children mean everything to me But my family is supposed to be there to help & comfort. I m alone I can t talk to anyone If I tell my family they ll just gossip about me & laugh. My BF will just use this as fuel to our next argument. What am I doing wrong to be so hated. I don t even want to live anymore. |
| Question: Does anyone else find this odd? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:32 PM PDT The Other day, my family and I looked at a house. We removed our shoes (not uncommon at open houses). I was barefoot as I had worn sandals, and everyone else wore socks. The realtor kept asking me "Oksana, how does that floor feel?" and "Oksana, how does that carpet feel?" Later, I asked the realtor why she kept asking me that. She said that because I was the only one with bare feet (no socks), I could feel the floors/carpets better and that opinion was important because of that. Does anyone find this odd? |
| Question: How to deal with my parents? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:28 PM PDT Hi I am Nina ! I am only 14 years old but really I became SO depressed. My parents destroyed my life totally. Their rules are killing me! They're dealing with me in a very bad way, they like my little brother more than me. They wanna control me and make me do whatever they want withour caring about me! They refuse to let me staying up late, they always judge me in a very harsh way, they usually say that I am useless and failure! They're always shouting at me in trifles!! They make me cry every night and sobbing! Really my life turned to a hell and I NEED your help. P.S/ I tried to speak to them but they consider my words as trifles and as a teenager I am moody and so on. Really they made me blocked from loving them!!! help me :( |
| Question: How do I overcome getting over guilt that my parents divorced when I was a kid? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:23 PM PDT It has been over 20 years but I feel it is partly my fault as my mother says they divorced to protect us kids (myself, brother, and sister) from the fighting and financial tension. Thus, I feel it is my fault *** all my cousins have married parents. |
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| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT i seriously want to kill myself because of what my parents said, theres nothing i can do , i can't move out like my Cousin and my dad is shouting at me and my mom is abusing me |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:57 AM PDT Ever since I was born my parents always seemed like they loved my sister more than me. When I was little my sister would somewhat abuse me when my parents weren't home, but when they found out they just grounded her. When I did something wrong they would beat me constantly with a belt, chair, leg of chair etc, even if it was just I threw away the bacon by accident ( yea they have anger issues) She always got the love and emotional help she needed, while I felt neglected. My parents never went to my basketball games. In 2013, I got into the same exam school my sister got into, but it seemed like they didn't care and it was expected of me. My sister how ever, got a party with gifts and everything. Because I was so quiet, shy and really lonely, I didn't do well in school because if requires you to do group things. After months of being abused mentally and physically when I said I didn't want to go to school, they finally switched schools for me. That didn't last long though. It was a catholic school so we spend half the day learning about religion. After the school year I spent my entire summer so far in my room because all my friends are douches. Should I get help? I've been diagnosed with OCD and social anxiety disorder. All I really live for is basketball and I'm a huge Ariana grande fan. Yea not something you expect from a nearly 6 foot 200 pound 14 year old. Edit: my sister is 19 now so she's 5 years older MALE!!!! Also thank you guys for reading and answering :) |
| Question: My mother undermines my parenting right in front of my daughter? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:32 AM PDT She does this every single time I discipline my child. I need help. Today, we went out to lunch. My daughter would not eat her chicken and was playing with it. I told her she needs to start eating. My mom said "She's doing just fine, don't pick on her.". My daughter said in reply "Yeah, don't pick on me.". I ignored it because my mom watches her 2 times a month. At her house, she lets her run wild and there are no rules. Throughout the lunch, my child shot me dirty looks and I told her to stop rolling her eyes at me. My mom said "She's not doing anything to you" and "I didn't see anything, she's a good girl". My child takes these chances to get away with murder, knowing my mom will take anything I say and twist it. So, I yell at my child and my mom yells at me and my child laughs in my face. Help here? |
| Question: Stolen thousands from mother... who stole from great aunt, not guilty at all am I sick? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:31 AM PDT There's an infinite amount of detail I could go itno, but I'll attempt to keep it short. I'm 19 and still living at home, going to university near my house. My whole childhood my mom has believed in unconditional love and generally has been a pushover. I always felt the same towards her, but looking back on my high school time (13-17) I was quite manipulative about hanging out with friends, and I ended up in with the smoker crowd (which I still hang out with). Anyways, near the end of senior year I went on a trip to Colorado with my mother, which I thought was strange considering how little money she had at the time and how for months she had been complaining of money issues. Anyways I found an envelope containing almost 5 grand in cash in my moms glove box. That's when it started, and I took 200. Recently I learned this was not long after my mom became Power of Attorney for my great aunt who is extremely wealthy. Basically I stole from my mom because the company I'd been working for closed down, and I wanted money for cigarettes (pathetic, I know, not a cigarette smoker anymore). After that I found how convenient it was to have a lot of money. Long story short for the next year and a half up to this point I've acquired at least $15k in cash from these magical envelopes in my mom's purse, paying for booze, cigarettes, and most of all 420. The craziest thing to me is that she hasn't noticed. I know she makes ~75k/yr so I know it must be coming from somewhere else. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT I have found a better job and are on the verge of getting my family to a better place in our lives . . . but the threat of us being homeless before we reach that point is an ever growing horror . . . can she just say get out** or would i have thirty days or ?? |
| Question: How do I get away from my dysfunctional family? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:14 AM PDT 23 (female) no friends, no love life or anything. Been dealing with depression for a long time... I am the youngest of my family and I am the scapegoat. I have always been belittled, left out and pretty much controlled my whole life. I've been told by my older siblings that no one will ever love me... they never allowed me to have friends and made me believe something was wrong with me. I've dealt with extreme low self esteem at the age of 8. I isolated myself and withdrew from people... and its crazy because my family loved that. They loved the fact that I was always where they wanted me to be, and how they had control of everything. I used to get told some of the harshest things in the world. I was dehumanized and spent a lot of time a lone. People would tell me I'm "PRETTY" and there was boys who liked me and when my sisters learned that they liked me they would tell them how I'm weird, autistic and a whole bunch of other tasteless lies. Its so hard for me to open to men. At 23 years old, I am still living in my mom and step dad's house and is still getting bullied, controlled and brought down. My mom isn't toxic but she blames me for what they do. I have a job now, and I am saving up my checks, but I still need at least 4 more paychecks to move out of state! I want to move out of state to FL for college. How do I tough it out for another 2 more months? Also, i am terrified on moving out of state.. what I fail and have to come back? |
| Question: Does anyone else have these parent problems? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:00 AM PDT I'm just curious if anyone else has these parent problems so we can all relate. Basically my mom makes me feel like ****. Makes me feel like I'm fat and ugly. I'm 5'1 and 110 pounds. I feel pretty good about my body and then she keeps telling me that I need to lose weight because Im looking a bit chunky. I'm not! Also, I've had bad acne in the past and now it's almost gone away because I've been drinking A LOT more water. I don't feel embarrassed about my acne anymore. My mom keeps buying me crap I don't need because she thinks I'll be pretty if I don't have blemishes on my face. Everytime I wear a dress I feel confident in, she looks at me and says "no, you can totally see your chest acne and bacne. My chest and back acne aren't even that noticeable! She makes me feel **** about my body and what I look like. I know she's trying to do what's best for me but my self-esteem keeps crumbling. It feels like I'll never be good enough for her. Can anyone else relate? |
| Question: Birth Mom was to contact me, but I dont like her? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:47 AM PDT Basically I live with my Dad and step-mom, who I both love dearly. On facebook a woman that was my birth mom said she wanted to talk to me. She says she wants pictures of me, yet I dont think she cares at all. Its been a month and she hasn't even said anything but sent me a photo of her. I'm starting to wonder if she really doesnt care. She has other children. An older girl thats in her twenties (Man before m), and two twin boys with her new husband. What should i do? |
| Question: My brother is my uncle and my cousin is my dad, How did this happen? Explain the process? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:31 AM PDT |
| Question: Eyebright instill in preoperated eyes? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:20 AM PDT |
| Question: BIG DILEMMA.. PLEASE HELP? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:16 AM PDT Basically I'm a member of my school rowing team. Due to the fact that I live so far away , I find it hard to make it to training all the time, especially because there is a minimum of seven sessions a week. This summer, I did not go to training due to me living so far away, my parents being occupied with their jobs and the fact that I was away for a month. Also, I had important exams during the year and found it extremely difficult to manage to fit in rowing and my studies.next year is an even more important school year as I build up to my final exams which determine if I get into university. Considering this , I realize that it will be impossible to fit in rowing and school and have decided that I want to quit rowing. I have not confronted my parents yet but I am certain that they will not want me to quit. What should I do |
| Question: My mom wont let me wear summer clothes or cute bathing suits bc im "too fat"? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:14 AM PDT I don't really have anyone to talk to about this and it makes me feel super bad about myself So what do u guys think? I live with my mom my sister and partially my step sister, both of my sisters are really in shape and athletic, my mom spoils them a ton she takes them shopping and literally lets them do and wear what ever they want, they are 12 and 13, I am 16 and I'm 164 lbs and I'm not even allowed to wear shorts!!! Everyone i try to wear a pair of shirts that are above the knee she freaks out and says "that dosent look good if ur thinking it does" or she'll say but "everything isnt going to look as good on u as it does ur sister bc u have a little more weight" she tells me that if i loose 20 lbs she'll let me wear shorts, and I was with my ex for a year and he dumped me for some girl and my mom said it's bc she was skinney and boys think skinny girls are more feminine and attractive every time I try and tell my mom how I feel my sister buds in and says "get over it ur a cry baby" or "ur really annoying" and am I really just ugly and fat and do u guys think someone might find me not gross? What should I do? I need help |
| Question: Physically abused as a teen, parents say to "get over it"? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:12 AM PDT My father physically abused me when I was 16, though til this day my parents falsely justify his action by saying that I came at him and my father was defending himself. I was old enough to thoroughly remember that this was not the case. I have not talked to him since (5 years). Are my parents in denial? How do I make my mother of all people believe the truth? (she was there) Also, she frequently tells me to get over it. Is she playing down the seriousness of what happened? |
| Question: I m 20 years old. My whole family is mad at me because I moved out. What should I do? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:12 AM PDT |
| Question: Moody 13 year old sister making me feel rubbish!!? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT I'm a 16yo girl and I have a 13yo sister. In the past year she has gradually gotten moodier and moodier and it's slowly making me ill. In October last year I Was anaemic so I was in my room most of the time and probably got more attention from my parents than she did for a few months. Only recently have I felt normal again as I had to deal with exam stress and other family members being in hospital, I haven't had a very fun 9 months!! The stress of my sister is causing my dad to feel exhausted, sometimes ill and mum also gets tired. When my sister gets told off for being cheeky etc she's even worse. (Personally I feel mum and dad have been soft on her since she was the second born and has gotten away with more things). She always bangs on about how she is getting blamed for everything and that I'm the favourite, which isn't true or that no one sees anything from her point of view when she gets in trouble. Mum and dad are starting to be more strict but it means I'm constantly around arguments which makes me feel rubbish. I know it's mainly because shes a teenager and that she will grow out of it but it's taking a toll on my health. I get told how she hates me and that I'm the worst sister ever and that makes me really sad. She also forgets I'm older so I'm going to get different things to her (eg more high end makeup that I buy myself) which also causes arguments. Has anyone got tips on how to deal with her, mainly for me but also my parents? Also how to help her? |
| Question: Mums kicking me out when I turn 16? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT I'm turning 16 in like 6 days, me and my brother do not get along at all. Mum takes his side always, she told me I should pack my bags and leave. What can I do? Go to the council? The house is complete and utter crap anyway she doesn't get off her **** to clean it EVER. It smells and theirs loads of boxes and stuff everywhere, what are my options? And no there isn't a option where I can just get along with her and my brother, it just wouldn't happen. We've argued for years. Thanks in advance:) |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:03 AM PDT In my opinion there are young couples that have a kid and in result not all the time ,but sometimes that person becomes a single parent.Then their are older couples that are in their 30's that still have the same issue.So its not about age.What is the factor? |
| Question: What is wrong with my sister?!?!?!? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:01 AM PDT My sister grabbed my butt cheeck the other day!!!! What is wrong with her?!?! Why would she do that?!?!? Also, she keeps touching my arms, face and hips before masturbating!!!! She thinks I don't know what she's doing but I do!!!! And I'm. Sick of it!!!! ( we share a bed temporarily, and she masturbates right next to me!!!!). I know that if I confront her tell someone she will deny it and make me look like the weirdo! What do I do?!?!? I can't do his anymore! |
| Question: Should I forgive my father and let it go? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:57 AM PDT My fathers an alcoholic and he has had a problem with drink as long as I can remember. I was really badly depressed last year and the start of the year and I still have depression but not as bad as I am on meds. But In early February this year I had a really bad argument with my mother and I left and didn't come home for two night I stayed at my friends. I saw my mam leave in the car and decided to go up home to get stuff my friends came with me just in case. A few moments later my dad came home (drunk as usual). He called me downstairs and started roaring and shouting at me saying I was worthless and nobody cares about me and how I'm a failure (btw i was only 14 at the time I'm now 15) he then tried to kick me out and when I tried to leave he wouldn't at this point my two friends were standing on the stairs. I told my father I hate him and just leave me leave because I did not want to stay in the house with him that's when he grabbed me by the neck and pushed me against the wall shouting in my face. I couldn't breathe and struggled for breath I managed to get his had of but he quickly grabbed me with his other hand. Both my friends saw this as they were standing opposite me then my father turned round to them and told them leave they quickly refused to as they were frightened what he would do to me but they had no choice he pushed them out the door I ran to my room and locked myself in he finally gave up and went to bed and passed out. Will continue in comments |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:53 AM PDT We went on our annual week long family vacation that I look forward to in Rhode Island at the beach, and we had an absolutely great week as we always do. But now that we're back, I feel so sad, I miss getting up in the morning and smelling the fresh sea air, body surfing, playing in the sand, walking on the beach, hanging out with my cousins who I don't get to see that much, eating out on the huge deck, playing hard games after dinner, getting ice cream, staying up late watching tv, playing Wii, and getting to sleep in the huge room that's big enough for my brother, 2 cousins, my cousins friend, and me. I'm so sad that we're back and I don't know how I'll wait till next year again. It feels like we were just at home and that the vacation went by way to quick, even though it was so great? What should I do? Thanks! |
| Question: Is this envious behavior? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:47 AM PDT My brother changed with me five years ago. At that time he told me he doesn't like me anymore. This clearly shows since he acts like I don't exist. Since he said that and just ignores me and doesn't show any reaction for my success, accomplishments or recognition for what I do. I can tell he would rather I fail at stuff rather than succeed. I get food and stuff for my brother since he doesn't drive and is supposed to have mental illness. I feel he doesn't like the advantages I have over him like driving and working at a job. This isn't a nice way to live. Since my mom lives with us she asks him why he never talks to me but he will not tell her why. Does it sound like this behavior is being envious of me and there isn't much I can do about it? |
| Question: How to tame my bully step brother? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:40 AM PDT So me and my sister moved in with my step brother a little while ago and while my parents are looking for a bigger house me and my stepbrother have to share a room. Hes been a major pain always staring at me when I change and he smacked my butt a few times so me and my sister are gonna hit his balls and I was wondering how hard and how many times I should hit him, I want him to know whos in charge but ive only ever kicked guys once and they all fell down but hes been harassing me forever so mary is gonna hold his arms behind his back and make sure he stays up so I can get him a few times. Were gonna wait till he smacks my butt again so were not starting it but he always does this to one of us each day so itll happen soon. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:28 AM PDT My parents made me move out many years ago. I wasn't a bad person, they just figured it was time for me to fly the coop. Fair enough. I still have a good relationship with them. But I feel like I am the only one pulls the effort to keep in contact with my mother. She never calls just to see how I am. But I do call her once and awhile. I visit with her too. It's not too often. I know my parents are busy and I like to intrude. My mom waits until the last minute to invite me to family functions. If it weren't for my grandmother, I never would have even known about some of them. And trying to get them to do something with us, is like pulling teeth. We both realize that, if we want to have dinner with them, is to go to the restaurant they go to with their friends every weekend. Rarely have they gone somewhere we've invited them to. What do you suppose this is? Does anyone else go through this? *Edit, "I *DON'T like to intrude." Oops. I actually see my in-laws-to-be more than my parents. And it's because my boyfriend's parents invite us over for dinner, and make an effort to be in their son's life. |
| Question: My parents are making my life hell? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:25 AM PDT I am 24 years old. my childhood has been terrible thanks to my parents who have always been fighting, venting their frustration on me and blaming for evrything. i was their only child but got nothing from them apart from money, curses and a lot of emotional stress. i was extremely depressed and suicidal at times. however some years ago i moved out and found some sanity. but to do so i had to leave my hometown and as someone i loved behind. recently i got a job outside the country but then i received another offer which my parents nagged me into taking. so i gave up this job and took up the other. i came back home for a month before joining the other job which is also in another country. even now, they are making me miserable. it is impossible to ignore it, and i am literally imprisoned at home. i cant even go out and meet my boyfriend who has been so patient all these years. i wanted to get married to him while i am here but even that is almost becoming impossible since i dont have freedom of movement. i regret coming here now but actually i had forgotten just how bad it could be! even now they are blaming me because they wanted to accompany me and their visas are not getting approved in time..apparently i am responsible for that! i am seriously considering packing my bags and leaving in the middle of the night but i am unsure if that would be the correct thing to do as it would create a lot of unpleasantness and i am afraid it will make things worse! what to do? |
| Question: How can your brother be your uncle and your cousin be your dad? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:21 AM PDT How is this possible? explain to me what would have had to happen for this to happen? |
| Question: Why does my parents won't let me switch to an adult doctor? Please help? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:15 AM PDT I really wanted to switch to someone whose kid I go to school with, but my parents won't let me because my dad keeps saying that I am going to some kids doctor from when I was younger. I feel like if my parents gave me up for adoption to Courteney Cox, Jennifer Aniston, or Lisa Kudrow after 1998. I have told my dad that on the Friends TV show, they don't go to a kids doctor on the Friends TV show, but all my dad said that Friends is a TV show, not in real life. I wish that my life was a TV show, but it isn't. I have told my dad that Taylor Swift and LeAnn Rimes don't go to some kids doctor, but all my dad said that Taylor Swift and LeAnn Rimes are celebrities, and Taylor Swift lives in New York, not in Fort Gratiot, MI. And my dad also said that LeAnn Rimes lives in Hollywood, not in Fort Gratiot, MI. The only ways for me to move out are to go to Boarding School (which is what my parents can't afford and I wouldn't like it at), live with another relative (which is what I don't want to do), live with a friend (which is what I don't want to do either), or sue my dad for making me go to some kids doctor since when I was younger like LeAnn Rimes did when she was almost an adult. I am going to be 18 in 2 years, not 2 or 3. Taylor Swift and LeAnn Rimes don't go to some kids doctor, and Taylor Swift and LeAnn Rimes are adults. Why does my parents won't let me switch to an adult doctor? Can you help? Thanks. |
| Question: I feel like a burden to my Mom.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:12 AM PDT I feel like I'm a burden to my family. Especially my mom. She's always so stressed and I feel like half of that stress is from me. No matter how hard I try to be perfect and not mess up it happens anyways. When I sometimes get seconds she says that I'm gonna be "as big as a house" meaning I'm gonna be fat. And this has been going on forever. When I mess up she sometimes says "you need to go live with your dad from now on" she says I'm sooo selfish but when she falls asleep in the living room on the couch who do you think puts the blanket on her and gets her a pillow?! It's not fair. Once when I messed up she called me a dumb *** she's never went that far and called me that before. And when my brother or someone pisses her off she always takes her anger out on me. And then hours later she acts like everything is fine. I'm not even gonna get started with my other family members. Can someone just give my their opinion on how I can keep in my anger and let go of my depression. I've had depression since I was 9. And that's where all the anger comes from basically. I have no one to ever talk to. |
| Question: Should I tell my mom I smoke weed time to time? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:10 AM PDT I'm 16 and I don't want my mom to find out I smoke weed in a bad way, and lose her trust for not telling her myself. I just don't know if I should tell her and how should I tell her? |
| Question: Was this considered an inappropriate comment from my mother? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:04 AM PDT The clothes dryer at my mother's house isn't working. I made a comment to her about how loud it was and she said "At least it's working then dying." Then she winked at me and then went back to reading. If you knew my mother, you would know she meant that comment for me. She wants me to die. Should I fulfill her wishes? |
| Question: Do I look like my dad? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:45 AM PDT I added the mustache to make a better comparison. I'm 15 am and he's 31 in those pics. Will I look like that when I'm that age? |
| Question: How can I make my brother stop being so LAZY?Help? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:34 AM PDT Hi everyone I am 17 year old guy and brother is 13.So my brother is really lazy!I tell him to do something and he never does it!I come home from work (I'm in Summer Break) and the whole house is a mess!My mom has no time to clean cause she works at night and comes home really tired and dad works with me.All he does is play video games,watch TV and sleeps all day!How can I tell him that he needs to take some responsibility and start to clean the house?Its embarrassing how disgusting the house is!Also,yesterday the landlord was working on something outside the house and then he asked if he could use the bathroom and we let him,but then I realized how disgusting and dirty the bathroom was.I wanted to die that moment!So what can I do about this?He is needs to help around the house since my parents and I are really tired when we come home and he is here all day doing nothing!Help! |
| Question: Should I sever ties with my family? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:33 AM PDT I live about 600 miles from where I grew up and my entire family still lives there. I am now 41 with a 10 year old son. I still try to maintain relationships mainly because of my son, he stays over there in the summer. He is an only grandchild/nephew. They treat him very well. The way I am treated is a different story. This last weekend, I dropped him off over there and I felt almost suicidal when I left. I have gained weight (15 lbs) due to some health issues, my Mother repeatedly advised me that I am sooo fat and thought it was so funny. Even though, even at my fattest, I am still several sizes smaller than my Mother and sisters and I've never made fun of their weight, I've always told them they looked beautiful and meant it. During my childhood, I was my Mother's scapegoat, I guess I still am. My Mother also loves to tell me how embarrassed she is of me, she never elaborates but I'm assuming it's because I'm a single Mom and don't have a man to take care of me.I know that she talks this way to our extended family and none of them will speak to me or add me on social media. I do, however, have a great job, my son and I live in a nice area in an expensive city. I'm not on drugs, or in jail, on welfare nor do I worship Satan. I've never asked for help from my parents but I do want them to have a relationship with my son but not sure if it's worth the emotional abuse from my mother. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:17 AM PDT I am a guy and the youngest in the family and I say older brothers are more bossy. |
| Question: Was my mom manipulating me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:12 AM PDT for years she took all my pay checks , but when my brother worked a much better job, he got to keep all his money and not pay a dime in the house. She also insisted on sharing a car, but always wanted to drive me and drop me off, she'd get mad at me when I wanted a normal life and would give me the silent treatment, it got to the point she was even calling me awful names and treating my brother like gold and telling me to "shut up" when I talked to my brother. When I finally went to college she was so angry. If she saw me remotely happy she got mad or had this weird angry look on her face. I was even suicidal at times and severely depressed, she basically tried to keep me from being financially sound too, and she passed away and now I am getting money for wrongful death suit, hopefully salvage some of my life that's been so pulled from me for so long, and I want closure. Why act like that towards only me? what was wrong with her? . |
| Question: How long would you wait? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:23 AM PDT You hate living where you do and nothing is keeping you here. Your husbands job isn't even here. How long do you give your hubby to find something else? It is a comfortable job but certainly not a dream job. I think I have given him more than enough time. |
| Question: Why did I get cursed with such evil family? Even my grandma is evil? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:17 AM PDT I showed my grandma a picture of my dads abuse that he made me bleed. And she was mad. And said she gonna give him a piece of her mind when he gets home. I think that means yell at him. So later in the morning I was in my bedroom bored. So I go downstairs to watch TV and I herd my grandma and dad talking. So I listened secretly. And my grandma wasn't yelling at him at all!! She wasn't even defending me. She was just listening to my dad, saying this BS about how he has to make me a little scared of him or I will be doing even worse stuff than I do now. He was saying I'd be getting into police trouble and going to jail instead of the childish bad stuff I do. And saying how he didn't reaize he made me have bruises. Then, and this is the worst part, he act like he's some martyr, saying he doesn't like being the bad guy but he will to keep me out of jail. And my grandma just said she understands and she hasn't thought of it that way. Then I couldn't contain myself any longer. So I burst into the room and yell at my grandma that, is that her idea of yelling at him for abuse??? I may have called her a wh0re and some other names. And my dad threaten me to go upstairs and I went uptairs but heard my dad say do you see what I mean. They are evil nasty family that do not deserve me. This isnt even over. I'm gonna do some terrible things to him. |
| Question: My big brother is getting bullied by someone older than him!? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:10 AM PDT Hey, my name is Shealee and I am 13 years old. I have a brother who is 17 years old and is getting picked on by a 18 year old kid. My brother is still in high school and the kid who is picking on him has graduated from high school. My brother is a cross country runner, so when he goes on runs this kid will go ride around in his car a yell things out at him... Insulting things. My brother is 6 foot 2 and this boy is like 5 foot 5 or something. But my brother is really sensitive so he doesn't handle this well and recently came out of a deep depression because of it and is still recovering. My oldest brother who is 20 years old, has tattoos, and is a personal trainer texted him to stop it and the kid was defensive and saying that it wasn't him and he would tell the people who did it to stop. Well it hasn't stopped. We can't tell the principle because it's summer and the kid has already graduated. I can't really go around and beat him up because I'm a 13 year old girl. My parents already know just to let you know. Please help m!! |
| Question: How to subtly hint to my uncle that my aunt wants another baby? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:04 AM PDT So this morning when I was kayaking with my aunt and cousin (who's not this aunt's daughter), my aunt was talking about how she wants another kid but my uncle is hesitant. Their youngest child is five and my aunt is forty-one so if she's going to have another baby she wants to have it soon. She asked my cousin and I to drop subtle hints to my uncle but we aren't sure how. |
| Question: Really Unstable Mom? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:01 AM PDT Last night I asked my dad to tell my mom I wanted to move in with him. We've been discussing it for a while and it couldn't wait anymore. He called her and told her and, as expected, she didn't take the news very well. Shes emotionally unstable and she has really bad anger issues. She's also really depressed, so of course she went on about how she couldn't go on without me and wanted to "check out" implying that she was killing herself. I go back home in a few hours and I know it's going to be screaming, yelling, and guilt trips. So I was wondering, what are some ways to see past guilt trips or make them stop? I'm only 14, so this is extremely hard. I love my mom but she has serious issues and would rather me be depressed than her. Her happiness comes before mine so the guilt trips will be coming in and I mean they'll be coming in hard. She's going to go crazy, so someone please just give me some advice, I'm freaking out. |
| Question: How should I handle the situation with her? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:56 AM PDT My cousin and I are the same age, both college students. I am going for physician assistant and she is going for human services she wants to be a funeral director. She has always been very competitive her whole life. I have called her out several times about it and she has stopped but here recently she has been treating me awful. She told me friday night we weren't family. She is ny cousin! I invited her to my sister's birthday party and she replied back with no thanks I'll be with family. It really hurt me pretty good. She told me that she has become close with her other cousin and she wants to hang with her. She lies to me about literally everything, grades, boys, just her life in general. She will do ANYTHING for attention, fake being sick, hurt, or somebody else is sick. She's disturbing at times. I text her and she usually is really short with me or just won't answer at all. I call her and she just sits there and won't talk. She gets everything handed to her all the time from her mom dad and grandma. I'm very independent and love it. I want to do things on my own, rather than having things done for me. My mom thinks she is jealous but why? Should I just not talk to her for a couple day or should I be kind and let her knoe she didn't hurt my feelings with the whole family thing. |
| Question: My baby 10 year old brother is calling me mommy!!? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:35 AM PDT hi I'm using my moms acc but my little brother who is 10 keeps calling me mommy he turned 10 about a month ago, he's been acting like this after my little sister who was 17 died and he's been very clingy to me only he wanted me to carry him a lot my mom asked about that and he always wanted to cuddle. I'm just worried sick about him I love him so much but he's calling me mommy and he's says like I love you mommy and I wanna be carried mommy and can we cuddle mommy I say of course baby and yeah. I don't know if calling him baby is renforcing the behavior he also always sits on my lap because he's scared of loosing me and he hid all of my college acceptions and I'm already chosen one 5 minutes away. I chose that back in March before all of this. please help me I love my baby brother too much. btw my 5 year old brother is nothing like this. I love my baby brother but please help me |
| Question: Is he going to make it or should I tell him to come home? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:35 AM PDT I have a friend who, after geting his ged, decided to drive to California to basically start over. Concerned I asked if he had any help and was this job opportunity legit and he said yes saying this specific family member was of high intelligence and lived well and had a friend who worked for the company who was living well. Now he's there sleeping in a cheap motel for the third day and waiting for Monday to start training for a guard card to work for g4s. I've know one person who worked with this company and read multiple worker review which don't bode well for this company in general but he's also hoping to get into at a hospital with a great start rate, I'm not sure if he has a connection there though, he's just about broke and really hoping that once he starts his training everything will pick up from there (trying to maintain optimism ) should I continue to attempt to be optimistic with him, let him get the training and then see where it goes ( he can be bull headed) or should I tell him this is a lost cause and that he should come back. A bit more info: 1.) I've already sent him $80 bucks to hell him through the weekend 2.) family member says he has a bed for him in storage but has yet to offer him his couch ( if I told someone to come cross country for a job and etc I would at least attempt helping him get on his feet). 3.) last I spoke he's been looking for an apartment and was saying this family member might have to co-sign for him... Help!! Should I start a go fund me page for him？ |
| Question: My Mom Caught Me Masturbating And Got Mad At Me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:22 AM PDT So last night my mom caught me masturbating. She got mad and took my phone and started yelling at me. She called me disgusting and said that she was disappointed in me. I m 14 going on 15 and I don t see what was so bad about it. She won t let me see or even touch my little sister. She just walked in and said "this door can no longer be closed." I don t see why she s getting so mad at me, don t a lot of people do it? |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:21 AM PDT Hey there , I'm a 17 year old boy , and I really think my life is wasteful .I have too many problems it can't fit in the title . My parents beat me eversince I can remember , will the never forget the time when I was 7 and my dad beat me so hard that a black bruise appeared on my face , I lied to my classmates " I fell off my bike " !! The bitter memory will always remain with me . I hate my parents , but tbh they gave me quite a good living considering their financial abilities , I have a ps4 , few games , etc , but I still can't like them , I always think they are assholes beating a child . I got an elder sister , she's a nice lad tbh , but my dad thinks his only child is her . I think its main reason might be the fact that I totally suck at expressing my feelings , I lost my beloved girl because of this .My sister sends them nice pictures , kisses them ,... but I can't simply do that . I lost my girlfriend for no ******* reason , I wanted to ******* cut my self back then . I got another problem , Im not a people guy , I'd rather stay at home playing games, programming ,... . But my room has become boring for me , you know I have no real friends ( i had a few at highschool but they were all assholes ) . I really don't know what to do , feeling bored , not being able to afford a new game ,shitty parents living with me , gimme a ******* reason to live ... |
| Question: I don't want to live with my mum anymore? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:19 AM PDT My parents currently have 50/50 custody of me but I don't like my mum and I don't like being at her house. I don't know how to bring this up with either of my parents and I know my mum won't like it at all. What do I do? (i'm 15) |
| Question: Why is my sister acting like this towards me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:16 AM PDT About an hour ago, I posted "RIP Cilla Black" followed by more condolences on my Facebook after I learned she passed away. When I posted it, my sister went "STFU, you shouldn't be posting this because you didn't know anything about her." I then replied, "Excuse me?! I've watched Blind Date and Surprise Surprise. I've listened to her music. I know where she comes from. I know what her sons' and husband's names were." My sister then called me an "arrogant, self-centred b*tch" and a "f**king jerk". She actually blocked me on Facebook afterwards. Why is my sister acting like this? She didn't have any right to say to me. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:48 AM PDT My mum and dad haven't been getting along for a while and today I checked his messages on his phone (kind of a dick move) but I saw a contact in recents named a letter so I was sus and when I looked it was obvious that he was cheating on my mum with this lady, there were messages of him saying he sent money to her and that they were meeting up and I was so mad and shocked, my hands were shaking and I could feel my heart beating really fast (irrelevant). anyway, I went full detective on it and took photos of some of the messages and I took a pic of the phone number and I searched it up on Facebook and found the exact hoe that he is seeing (made me f****** furious!). and this is crazy but I was thinking to get back at him I could try and bribe him because I realised he's only staying with us so he doesn't have to pay child support so if I said I would tell mum if he didn't give me money then he would be scared because then he would have to pay $500 a week child support when they were to split obviously bc there's no chance they would stay together if my mum knew he was cheating. so if I did that then I would give my mum some money and keep some myself and then tell her anyway because that would be my way of saying f**k you dad I hate you now. that's an option, Or I can tell one or the other and see what happens. if it helps I'm 15 and I'm a girl, really stressed about this so please help asap, sorry if I sound like a full retard but I'm nervous and stressed thanks in advance xx |
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