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One of the reasons my husband and I have a great relationship is because neither of us want kids. We both talked about it and we agree on that. Neither of us will change our mind at a later date. My family is totally fine with it and they say as long as we're happy. His grandmother recently asked when we plan to have kids. My response was we don't plan on having kids. His grandmother got offended. And when I say offended I don't mean clutching pearl strings I mean OFFENDED. She said it's blasphemous and selfish of us. She's encouraged my husband to divorce me and when he said he also doesn't want kids that just made it worse. Grandma's Catholic and had 12 kids so I figure it's the whole increase and multiply nonsense. My husband went to his dad for advice on how to get his grandma off our back and his response? "you should have one kid to get her off your back (mind you we got a similar response when were dating and living together for 6 years unmarried)." We're not having kids. And I'm sick of his grandmother putting up a fuss at us being unconventional. Is there a way we can be assertive and stand our ground but not insult his grandmother? She's in her early 90s and I don't see her changing her ways and we don't want to start a conflict with other family members.

I knew a old guy who said it was his 5th wife I was shocked he got divorced twice and widowed twice but how about staying married for almost a entire lifetime is that rare? Also for women too? In USA anything goes I think rather then in Say the Middle East or India

My 6 year old can´t stand silence or darkness. While working at home, she keeps coming to give me hugs and kisses. If I don´t allow her to watch TV, she brings something to play on my work room, in silence, because she is afraid. At night, if she wakes up and I´m not there, she searches for me and calls me back.

I fell sick with stress every day. I want so bad for him to give up gambling . He really scared me today but he didn't hurt me.

It is.I mean if you are going to hug someone of the opposite gender as a adult that isn't a family members,you might as well be dating them so that's why I say my son and this teacher committed adultery 5-6 months ago.She had no business hugging my son at all and she even hugged my son back in February as well.I wonder why isn't she fired yet.I mean it's wrong for her to be hugging my son because she's MARRIED!She used to hug my son because my son confiding her and I punish my son for confiding her because she's MARRIED and she's a teacher,not a counselor.If I catch my son hugging this MARRIED woman during graduation,I will make sure this MARRIED female teacher is not teaching next year and I will punish my son again.I sure her husband would be extremely angry about this.She's a 25 year old MARRIED female teacher and she should never had hugged my son.She should have sent my son to the counselor if he wants to confide someone instead of her which ended with a hug.I sure her husband won't be at the graduation and she is taking pictures with my son during graduation as well which is inappropriate as well.Why didn't she get fired for hugging my son?What has the world come to where schools don't fired MARRIED teachers for hugging opposite gender students?My son has a girlfriend who's 17.

I have a friend who married his wife because he got her pregnant. He claims that he loves her but constantly cheats. If a man is not desperate, why would he look elsewhere?

I've been married for 4 months. Tonight my husband was tickling my sides and i turned around and smacked, pretty hard, in the head. He immediately shoved me into a table. Then he went and locked himself in his room. a second ago he walked back out and told me i was welcome to sleep on the couch tonight. Then he told me if i ever hit him like that again he would hit me back, but a lot harder. Should i be concerned, or is he justified since i hit him first? just to clarify, he didnt "push away from (me), and (i) hit a table". If he would have just pushed me away i wouldnt have hit anything. He took the liberty of pushing me sideways, 90 degrees, into the coffee table next to us.

My wife and I got married very young (20's) we have been together for 5 years. Ive always been a little more mature than her. When we have arguments, I like to sit and talk them through…she tends to like to ignore a problem, wake up the next morning as if nothing happened. Ive had many convos about how this bothers me. The other night before we went to sleep I asked her if she was okay, She replied that she wanted a divorce, did not feel happy, feels like she dsn't love me. She had asked me for a divorce around two other times before. This time she has been out of the house for over a month (at her mom's). I let her cool off for two weeks before asking her to fix things, she said "no, my heart dsn't love you" she only says she feels like she dsn't love me. I am really hurt, I tried to tell her that divorce is a sin that we should work our differences that communication will help us get through the rough times. She didn't want to listen, she cried but ignored all my words. She cancelled our vacation& the purchase of our home, and asked me to give her half of our funds. I told her that I love her enough to let her go if that's what she wanted. She asked me to move on and meet new people. I don't want too, I miss her but I am so hurt by her actions and words…What should I do? Should I try to meet new folks and try to get over her? She looks so happy away from our home, her mom dsn't advise her on what to do, I do not feel backed up. Thank you and I am sorry for the long story!

It was a really bad fight. We both said and did things we didn't mean. I told him to get out. He did and is now next door with his drinking buddies (the reason for the fight is he spends at least 6 days a week drinking with them since they moved in next door). We own a house together and all his stuff his here. All the furniture is his. All his paperwork. I pay all his bills online (using his account money not mine) and have all his account passwords. I have contacted him to give him his account passwords. No response. It has been 2.5 weeks since we last spoke. I finally broke down and sent him a really nice long text telling him how I feel. That night, he texted me asking me if I want to meet him outside to see the full moon. I didn't see the text til a few hours later and he went to bed. As soon as I saw the text , I texted back "Yes, I hope it isn't too late" and I went over there and called him. The phone rang twice and hung up. I left a message that I was outside. No response. I went home. The next day I texted him saying I was disappointed I missed his text and hope you have a nice day. Later that day, I texted him that I was going to the park for a walk if he wants to meet me there. He never did and didn't response. I have not heard a single thing from him since, this is driving me nuts. What should I do? Why is he doing this? In the first phone message I left when I was outside i did tell him I "love you". and I told him that in the first nice long text where I told him how I feel about everything and how I love him and his drinking and hurting me to see him drink so much. I won't just go walk next door because it could be considered tresspassing. He says he runs to them because I yell at him a lot and it is my fault. I yell at him because he is with them all the time drinking. I did go there in person to speak with him once. He said "what do you want? Leave me alone I am working" and went into the garage and closed the door. Why would he call me to see the full moon then no contact?

Why does it make me angry knowing that my ex-husband moved on when I moved on too. It has been 2 years. I'm really happy with my new boyfriend. My ex and I were together for 14 years. I kicked my ex out because he was not working for 8 years and not helping around the house. He figured that he didn't need to work because I make good money at my job. He goes back to his family who help him get a job, a house, a car etc - everything that he never had the motivation to do with me. I have not thought about him in a long time, but I stumbled across his forum posts last night - and he finally sounds all grown up now. He sounds like he has dated and slept with a few woman, but that is all. Why does knowing he dated a few other woman bother me? I don't care about him. I don't love him. It is almost feeling like a competition now.

Im not inlove with my babys daddy but im with him because he treats me good and its my baby's dad i do care about him but im not inlove with him. Is this bad we plan on getting married soon ? Is it possible to be very happy like this? Ive always wanted to get married with the love of my life but maybe that doesn't exist idk. I dated him because he was sweet to me n was really interested in me i liked him but i don't think i actually fell for him thanku

I'm trying to figure out the best age difference for my children. I don't have any siblings so I don't really have any experience with that but I find that I am closest with my cousins who are 1 year older than me and 1.5 years younger than than me. I'm also really close with kids who are around 5-7 years younger than me. But that's just me. What do you think is the best age difference and do you have any personal stories about close bond with siblings and the difference? I just want my kids to have a strong bond. :)

my wife wants a divorce and I still love her unconditionally she says a couple of the reasons is because I don't eat her out and I don't make her orgasm enough time are not the only reasons but some of the only reasons right now that I am to say. would it be bad to go home wake her up tonite and just eat her out like crazy and make her c**. Would that be unsensitive. she has mentioned that she doesn't want me touching her now since the revelation of divorce. I kid you not this is not a scam this is not something that's made up this is dead serious I am willing to do whatever it takes to keep her to myself

Personal stories welcomed. Are Married men better in bed and more expierenced? Do they make better lovers?

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In my church some people to go teach the gospel, one time this man said don't talk to my wife about Jesus and they couldn't teach her In class my teacher said his best friend wife wanted to go to a gay wedding however since the husband didn't want to go ,she couldn't go Why does a couple have to do stuff together

we have been separated since july of last year and signed papers in march. its been very painful and even harder for me to accept the whole situation. she was in the right though. i was trying to control her and not let her breathe. that is the hardest part, admitting that. I loved her like no other person in my life. i guess you could say i felt my soul connect with hers. i truly feel that she is my soul mate. maybe its just because everything is so soon still and i havnt moved on but i feel like ill never love someone like i loved her. It hurts even more now knowing im not the man i was before. when she told me she wanted a divorce, she was deployed and i had just gotten out of the marines. i was following our plan that we set out and getting everything ready for her return and changing who i was from that asshole controlling person to who i am now. but i guess it was too late. she told me while she was deployed that she wanted to divorce me and how she really felt about me. i tried to win her back but there was nothing i could do to show her that i chanced. rather she didnt want to give me a chance to show her. she was in the right though and that is the hardest part. to admit that. so here i am. just hurting and wishing i was still with the person i gave my career up for. but anyways. guess my question is how can i cope with this and get over it. this is definitely new to me. never thought i would of divorced this woman.

we have been separated since july of last year and signed papers in march. its been very painful and even harder for me to accept the whole situation. she was in the right though. i was trying to control her and not let her breathe. that is the hardest part, admitting that. I loved her like no other person in my life. i guess you could say i felt my soul connect with hers. i truly feel that she is my soul mate. maybe its just because everything is so soon still and i havnt moved on but i feel like ill never love someone like i loved her. It hurts even more now knowing im not the man i was before. when she told me she wanted a divorce, she was deployed and i had just gotten out of the marines. i was following our plan that we set out and getting everything ready for her return and changing who i was from that asshole controlling person to who i am now. but i guess it was too late. she told me while she was deployed that she wanted to divorce me and how she really felt about me. i tried to win her back but there was nothing i could do to show her that i chanced. rather she didnt want to give me a chance to show her. she was in the right though and that is the hardest part. to admit that. so here i am. just hurting and wishing i was still with the person i gave my career up for. but anyways. guess my question is how can i cope with this and get over it. this is definitely new to me. never thought i would of divorced this woman.

Hi everyone, I feel slightly ashamed for having to ask this but I have nobody else to ask. Yesterday night myself and my husband had a big fight/argument. Not an actual fight. But there was yelling involved and things said and crying too. I won't be going into details but all I can say is that he's a stubborn person and I suffer with that because I can't seem to fix anything after an argument whether it was my fault or not which it wasn't. What should I do? How can we get back to what we were before? We love each other but I don't know how to fix it. He's not good with talking so I don't think it would be a good idea for me to try to talk to him about it tonight. It was the first time we had a big argument like this. I tried calling him today but all he would say is we'll talk about it later. And I know he won't talk about it. I also know that letting it go is not the way. I'm 27 he's 39 and I'm a very mature responsible person and we trust each other tremendously. What should I do?! I kindly await answers. Thank You.

Anybody ever felt like that ?

I dunno, but for some reason when I start thinking about cute ladies, I start imagining myself gently and softly caressing and rubbing them on their back, neck, shoulders, sides, and even their belly, before of course we go for the gold. I don't want to be a psycho perv, and I'm a virgin by choice so I'm not gonna go for it til I've got the ring on. But seriously, I'm afraid that these thoughts will end up playing out and then cute ladies won't want to date me. I've never dated, by the way. I asked this in here 'cause I kinda do want to marry an awesome lady one day, but I'm afraid stuff like this will scare ladies off. I don't make it a point to push this on them or touch them all the time since all people need personal space crazy, what do you mean by that?

I been married for 6 years with my husband we have a 3 year old son together but, for the past years I been having major issues with my in laws. My in laws constantly start arguments over anything.This past weekend we had a family get together at my in laws house, and they started to make rude comments about my son not being my husband's biological son. They have a drinking problem, and can't seem to behave after a few beers, and I'm sick of it. What hurts me the most is that my husband never stands up for me, and I'm to the point that I just want to leave. They started the nasty rumor about my son not being my husband's biological son just because I was very good friend's with my brother in law's ex wife, and they're currently going through a divorce because his wife cheated, and they believe that if she cheated I also cheated on my husband, and they believe that there's a possibility that my son is not their grandson. I'm tired of being disrespected by them I have tried so hard to get along with them for this past years, and nothing seems to work. I have gave them chance after chance, and it's always the same thing. They're always disrespecting me and I can no longer deal with it. I try to talk to my husband about it, and he does nothing but, stay quiet, and it irritates me so bad. I've made the decision to no longer visit them, and stay away completely from them because I believe that 6 years of trying is more than enough, and I don't deserve this! Any advice?

My husband and I have been married for 6 years and are currently separated because he hit me and spit in my face. On top of that he's also verbally and mentally abusive. I had to pack my suitcase secretly and flee with my 4 year old. We went to stay with my family overseas. I had to use up my savings and leave my job because of him. Now when I tell him I want to come back he says I should stay where I am and will get arrested if I come back home. Starting over in a new country isn't easy. I miss my independent life. I've been living with my mother for 3 months and need to get my life back, but my husband refuses to leave my apartment. Neither one of us are on the lease, but I was there first. My child and I are now practically homeless. I prefer the country where I was living. The only downfall is that I had no family in that country. What should I do?

hes already shut off my phone and taken away personal space.

1. I don't think it is ok for anyone in a relationship to talk to their ex's 2. I really don't think its ok to just stand by and say nothing when anyone say to leave your relationship or when they profess their love for you on a near daily bases. 3. Husband doesn't think its his place to correct them or stop talking to them Am I wrong or is he wrong? Also I would Like some feed back on how to correct this behavior and if I cannot would It be better to move out and get a divorce? This is a major issue in our marriage and we have only been married for a year! (Been together for 7). Talking about it doesn't seem to help because he just tells me he is done talking about it and isn't listening to me talk anymore about it.

My fiance and I recently agreed to help out a fellow coworker of mine (male) who was in need of a temporary place to stay rather quickly. My fiance had met my coworker on several occasions so he was not a complete stranger to him. Weekly rent would be paid to us, of which we could really use the extra money. Within 2 days of the roommate moving in, my fiance already says he "wants him gone" and threatened to leave himself - for no particular reason. I keep asking him why he agreed to the roommate if he didn't want it and he just says "I didn't know what it was going to be like". He is potentially making me look like an *** to my coworker and even threatened to move out himself if the coworker "doesn't go". My coworker has no where else to go (we are all transplants from other places and none of us have family here) and I feel that it was the right thing to do to offer him a place to stay for a month or so. I thought my fiance was on board too because he agreed to it, but apparently not. I do not want to tell the roommate to move out (to no where) only after 3 days but my fiance is being unreasonable. Any suggestions? Just to make things a bit more clear....It was my fiance who first suggested perhaps we should look for a roommate to help off set some expenses but at the time we didn't know of anyone looking for a place to stay. My fiance AGREED to this and I did not force it upon him.

i have badly messed up leaving my girlfriend hurt, sad and very angry. As mad as I have seen in the three years we have been together. To be honest we might split up. She has said she wants me out of the house so I have done that. I have apologised an awful lot for my error and I genuinely appreciate the hurt she is feeling. I accept it is my fault I have brought this on us. My question is: is it best to leave her with space and her own thoughts now? Not to text. Not to phone. It seems the more I apologise and try to put things right, the more I am repeating myself and the words feel like they have less meaning. I'm in a seriously bad place, so would love some sensible opinions and advice. Hope even..,

It's not infidelity, it's not financial troubles, but it is definitely the hardest thing life has thrown at us. A year ago my husband's mother lost a long battle to cancer. Then just last month, his father died suddenly from a blood clot. Both of his parents gone within a year of each other, and my husband was their only child. My husband and I are both in our late 30s- not that there is ever a good age to lose both parents- but I am feeling frustrated. His way of grieving is to essentially shut down and shut everyone else. He becomes zombielike- he lacks emotion. He goes to work, comes home and doesn't even want to chat about his day, he just wants to be alone either with the tv, or out back doing lawn work or gardening. If I sit down to join him, he doesn't speak or keeps his answers short. He is not particularly affectionate these days either. I know he loves me, I know this is part of "for better, for worse" but I am just very frustrated. Has anyone else gone through something similar? How can I "get my old husband" back? I completely understand grief. But At some point I need him to stop shutting me out. Update after Hurricain's answer: When his mother passed, he was withdrawn for a few weeks, but not to this extent. I think because he expected it, he had time to process things before she even died if that makes sense... After the services for his father he said something along the lines of "well that's it, I'm the only one left" of his family. So I believe that is the root of this problem.

I will almost always put my wife's needs before mine. This doesn't sound like the Mr. Overthink that I share with all of you, but I do. My wife had a rough day at work and doesn't want to go buy stuff for herself? I go for her in her place. My wife had a rough morning and wants to be late to the office and get a coffee? I let her make me late for work too and take her to the coffee house. My wife had a rough evening doing chores while I was at the store for 2 hours? I will sacrifice my personal time to let her have a nap. I'm playing a role playing game on PS3 but my wife is hungry and craves fast food but doesn't want to leave? Moments later I'm texting her to get her order while waiting in drive thru... This constant "putting her first" has done two things: (1) It gave her a sense of entitlement since she does nothing to deserve this; (2) It puts me in a position where if I don't do these things for her then she will have a temper tantrum... Well this week, after a big stupid fight over me not getting milk when we ran out, I've decided to draw a line in the sand and tell her to do "This1" if you want "This2" or else you get "That"... This isn't like me and is a bit out of character, but I did it and it SEEMS to be going okay. But I worry this isn't healthy. Do you ever have to stand your ground on things and treat your wife like a child to get something you NEED from her? Why are some women unable to compromise? I've talked to her for YEARS respectfully but got nothing. Something to consider when answering this question: While it would be "true love" giving without expecting anything in return, my wife doesn't respect me enough to honor the "Give and Take" of marriage. From 2008 to 2013 I gave, and gave, and gave, and gave but I never received anything back in return. So while it is a CUTE answer saying that I should give/sacrifice and not expect anything in return it is completely UNREASONABLE. If my needs are unmet then I must find ways of getting them met.

How many framed photos of you and your spouse would you *guess* are in your home? I am feeding a friend's chickens while they are away and oh my goodness, their home is like a shrine to them! I'm not making fun, I'm just surprised.

I no longer want to me intimate with my husband. I need to divorce him so he can find someone who wants to have sex with him. Problem is I am TERRIFIED. The problem is not financial. I make plenty of money to support myself. But I have NEVER lived on my own! Only in College, and I didn't really have any responsibilities and still had a roommate. How to I get over this? I am 40 and I can't believe I am having this problem.

The only issue my husband and I fight about is the distribution of responsibilities with our family. It seems like an unsolvable issue really because he never wants to work out a solution. My day goes like this: 6:00 am Wake up 6:30am - 3:00 pm Work 3:00 -3:45 pm pick up the kids from schools 3:45 pm-6:00 pm do homework, make dinner, clean up, run any errands 6:00-8:00 make sure the kids get their baths, help with homework pretty much from sun up til sun down I am working and taking care of the kids. My husband on the other hand works third shift. so for him, he gets home about 6:00 am from his shift. he plays video games or scrolls the internet. he wakes the kids up at 7:30 am and sits around while they get dressed. they soetmes school wearing mis matched clothing or not warm enough stuff, etc because he's too busy playing his game and not paying attention. he stays up for quite a few more hours, playing video games. then he goes to sleep from about 10:00 am-7:00 pm. by the time he wakes up, he's missed out on all responsibilities with the kids. once again he wakes up, eats any food I've cooked, watches wrestling or video games. Ive had it with imbalance of responsibilities. I am thinking about video taping some of this so he is sitting around palying video games and not paying attention. I'm wondering if this is going to far. He literally does not see how much he is sitting around. I don't even get a chance to watch a tv show and he is sitting around for hours on end. it's driving me nuts. the argument never ends. he feels like since he works third shift..he has to make sacrifices of not spending time with the kids..and he has a hard time getting to sleep right away after work so he can't get up early. theres never a solution in his eyes

Hi Yahoo, I'm sitting delayed in a JFK terminal and was thinking of a question I had. This weekend was my cousin's bachelorette party so I flew out of state to attend it, leaving my husband and 1 year old at home. My husband had no problem with me going, he travels occasionally for business and stuff. But seriously all three nights I was away, it seemed like he wanted to be in constant contact. He kept sending me picture texts, and every night when we'd have a phone call, he kept saying how much he missed and loved me and how he couldn't wait to see me... It was exceptionally sweet! But it was almost like he was guilt-tripping me for going away? Or that he didn't trust me and kept checking in? Normally when we're both home, he doesn't blow my phone up with texts and sweet messages :) so it threw me for a loop this weekend. I don't know, am I just overthinking and creating problems where there aren't any?

My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. She had two boys from a previous marriage before we met. Their father is not in the picture and they call me "Dad." Let's call the boys Mark and Matt. Mark is 12 and he listens to me when I give direction. No, he's not perfect and no parent should expect their child to be. He takes direction very well. I almost have zero issues, from my wife, when it comes to disciplining him. Matt is 10. He is not so much on board when it comes to taking direction. I love him just the same as Mark. He has problems in school with talking back to teachers and not doing his work or what he is told. At home, he will do something wrong, which I feel is intentional, and look at me then his mom. I'm not the type to put up with nonsense and disrespect. My wife is very easy going and let's a lot of things go. Too many things I feel. When I get on to Matt, he will immediately start crying without me yelling or spanking him. My wife then jumps in and tells me I'm being too hard on him. This frustrates me obviously and we start arguing. Matt will go to his room and immediately starts laughing and playing with his brother. We have been going through this for 4 years and I see no end to it. I don't claim to be perfect and I have lowered my temper levels tremendously since we got married. What should I do? I have spoken to my wife about how I feel about this and it's taken us nowhere. I love my family. I just feel frustrated and helpless. Thank you so much for the replies so far. @Vuldam: I have sat down with my wife at least 3.5 million times to talk about this situation. I have given her the reigns when it comes to disciplining the kids. Every single discussion ended up with Me having to change something about Me.

So you've probably seen me complain about my crazy schedule on here in the past. And in the past, you have told me "Yes, there is time for a romantic and/or sexual relationship". So I have taken your advice (no, it isn't a first) and I am trying to figure out how to make this work. I talked to my wife about it and she said "Yes, I'd be interested in romance and sex, but I don't have time so it would have to be all you." Now, I have no clue what her schedule looks like since I am too busy with my own. But I did ask her about it today and it has me very frustrated. I'm not going to break it down like I did with mine, but to sum up my wife's schedule, for every 1 thing I do she does 5-10 more. And this coming from a woman who does NOT wear makeup or dress up, I am actually quite dumbfounded by her rituals. Her excuse is "I have to do it this way or else I forget something. Just the other day our daughter got me off schedule and I forgot _____". So her way to cope with her scatterbrained antics is to do rituals and obsessions. Since she isn't going to MAKE time for me, I gave her a carrot/stick. "You will do _1_ daily or else _2_ and in exchange you will get _3_". This is the best I could come up with. It is our first "give/take". I'm worried she won't make time for _1_ and I'll have to _2_ and she won't get _3_ but I'm trying to trust she can work _1_ into her schedule. Do you think this "carrot/stick" could work? The reason this is such a big deal is because right now my wife dictates what we do so she can run her routines, programs, algorithms, patterns, obsessions, rituals, whatever you call it. If we aren't micromanaged to fit accordingly in her schedule and doing our role at the exact time she needs us to, then her whole schedule is thrown off and she has a temper tantrum when things aren't perfect. That's why my daughter distracting her was a bad thing; she "wasn't supposed to be doing that". @ Katie - I've reblocked you. It's just pointless letting you answer when all you do is give me a hard time and you won't even let me comment on your stuff since I'm blocked. Honestly, you are a lost cause. And with having 2 questions and a billion answers I don't think you are a real account. You could be another sock for Babehart. Lastly, I think your need for attention exceeds your actual wisdom; you are just echoing everyone else and it is a bit annoying. @ Katie - Nevermind, you finally unblocked me so I've unblocked you. But I still mean what I said, you really do frustrate me with your answers.

My spouse is very sweet yet emotionally disconnected behind closed doors and is hard to connect with at times. However when we are out in public my spouse flirts and is very chatty and smiles and makes lots of eye contact with strangers and borderline flirtatious with others. She also always tells me whenever she is being hit on when I am not around. Also whenever I fall/trip, embarrass myself, accidentally do something that hurts my spouse lugs hysterically which is a little odd and says "oh that sucks". She is recently divorced and has two young kids. Am I over reacting?

Me and my husband have recently been having issues. He's been distant. But before you assume He's cheating. He just started a new job. lost his truck he loves ( broke down) me and him and our two kids are being evicted basically and since he just started this job were in the grace period of no money. He's been very distant and has told me all sorts of reasons Why. like He's stressed. I deserve better financial wise and he feels bad were going through this and It's his fault. It's my fault He's distant. Etc. I think were both just depressed at everything going on. I worry the struggle will end us. I need advice on how We can get through this rough patch from married people. How.?? Were newlyweds and this is our first rough patch.

Just as in he's fully sure that he sowed his wild oats

The father of my child my boyfriend at the time got married to another woman he pays £2 csa a week to my child. He is working and claiming benefits csa wont do anything about it, benefit fraud won't help. He going around saying my child is not his an the real father is dead, its so sad how people can change hes 35 im 21 im thinking to remove his parental responsibility im beginning to see the man I fell in love with when I was 16 I never truly new him. Ive just found out he has a 20 year old daughter and she is pregnant. It makes me sick literally, im better than this and I cant see how I never saw through him, he also slept with 2 of my associatea and now having an affair with another young girl. Im so embarrassed. Hea putting dirt on my name and everyone is talking about me saying im a home wrecker. I thought I was the only woman... its hard to move on an be mature and leave things.. I just want to clear my name hea also asked for a dna tewt through the csa but now i have agreed he wont answee their calls. I need to have his parental rights taken hes addicted to weed and has a lot of problems with people owing them money. He dont deserve my child, he dont care for him. And tbh I dont even want him to pay, I just would like to speak to his family but im scared, I have their contact emails but hes auch a good liar he may have tarnished my name already. ?. Hmmm

Would there be a time when this worthless ,boring, useless institute known as marriage just go extinct?

He called around 5 pm yesterday but i was at work so he left a voice message i tried calling him back 12 times since then. It rings and rings and then goes to voicemail. In his voicemail he told me to call him and he would have his phone on him but,he has not answered. He went down there with his family but i don't have any of their numbers... I don't know if it's his phone or something bad has happened. I am so worried why would he not call back if he said he would IF he is okay?

First off, we will never know if she is or is not. I tried to get autistic testing 5 years ago for myself and it depended on parental involvement (something her parents would refuse to do out of pride and spite - she disowned them due to abuse). My results were just ADHD and GAD; and depending on who you talk to, ADHD could be considered the highest level of ASD (just below neurotypical). What made me suspect this is when you piece everything together something just seems "off" about her. Here are the symptoms that *I* am recognizing: *Lack of Theory of Mind - She can't seem to fathom other people have their own thoughts/feelings that are not grounded in mannerisms/etiquettes *Routined/Habitual life - Her entire day/life is dictated by lists and calendars and "the flow" *Dyslexia and other language issues - No facial expressions at all except smiling or frowning. Misunderstands others non-verbal communication and dismisses it. Gets her Left and Right mixed up. *Obsession with orderliness, perfection, roles, and predictability (absolutes) *Needing to "process her feelings" and not knowing how she feels naturally *Not understanding the purpose of social norms or how they work (I understand them, I just don't do them) *Great detail orientation, terrible long term memory *Conversations center around her and what interests her *Easily fixated on electronics and personal interests/pursuits My son has PDD-NOS and my daughter would be on the spectrum too if we got her tested.

and why does a beautiful woman make men wanna cheat?

I have a great husband but one big issue. He's a flirt. He's always with me so it's all talk but it really hurts me. I've brought it up that it bothers me but I still keep finding out he's flirting because he doesn't hide it. Do I just ignore it since its all talk or leave him because it hurts? He's a great husband besides that and a great father. But I just don't know what I want anymore. It shouldn't be an issue for him to stop right? Please help

I need some help with the following. I have been married for 4 years and in January 2015 I discovered photos on his whatsapp after a holiday we took and I had to search for the holiday photos on his phone, he have been sending photos of his penis to my best friend at that time in January 2014. He first said he didn t send the photos and then it came out to be he send it to her to know if his penis is big enough. It was also said that he spoke to her as he though I was cheating on him with someone at work as I got home really pissed the one day after a work function and according to him he found *** in my panty. Instead of confronting me he went to her and spoke to her about it all, so she saw the opportunity and took it by starting by sending him photos... (well according to him) Now my question is does anyone think they slept together and if so if you are a man will you tell your wife you did or will you just try to keep things better by just saying it was just the photos?

I only want answers from people who regret it. Why exactly did you regret it? Was your husband or wife a virgin also? This is for a statistics class, I need people who say they regret it, I already have plenty who don't.

I'm 21 and my GF is 27. She was born in Ukraine, and came to the U.S when she was 13, and now works as an Reg Nurse. I am finishing my degree in criminal justice at Seattle U. My GF and I have been together for three years now, and we have been living together for eight months. She is the most intelligent and beautiful woman I have ever met. A few days ago, we were in bed together and we were discussing our future. She believes that our relationship is ready for marriage, and children further down. She mentioned that it's custom in her culture to be married at an early age, I don't know the validity of that statement though. Personally, I am not ready for that level of commitment, at least not yet. We both have a steady income, enough for the two of us. She seems adamant about the idea which is what has been making it difficult for me to tell her how I feel. How can I tell her that I'm not ready yet? I feel that we may need a little more time.

(Not living with her, no any communications ) But delaying for the divorce . Having a girlfriend and giving her hopes for a marriage .