Marriage & Divorce: Question: Do you get extra taxes for a new marriage? |
- Question: Do you get extra taxes for a new marriage?
- Question: Do you ever have an off day when you're having sex?
- Question: Is this so terrible?
- Question: Poll for Guys: Do you actually love your girlfriend/wife?
- Question: Is getting remarried a good or bad idea?
- Question: Physical contact when your husband/wife is sick?
- Question: Do you and/or your spouse enjoy cuddling at night?
- Question: Why does my husband joke about bossinge around?
- Question: Relationship advice?
- Question: Paying Ex's Cell Phone Bill?
- Question: How tall are you? How tall is your spouse? Has it ever had either a positive or negative bearing on your marriage?
- Question: I want him to me suck my toe?
- Question: (men only) Do you feel that marriage is a major risk? Do you trust women enough to marry them?
- Question: Married Men: 1) How often (if at all) do you watch porn and masturbate? 2) Why do you feel the need? (assuming you have sex with your wife)?
- Question: Why would my husband dismiss my thoughtfulness?
- Question: Wife gets mad at me when she messes up?
- Question: Am I expecting too much from my husband or it reasonable to expect him to put more thought into special events?
- Question: My wife loves to have sex with me and my frind and i do not mind?
- Question: Married, drunkenly cuddled someone who wasn't my SO?
- Question: Husband doesn't appreciate anything, should I just give up?
- Question: Is this appropriate to send when I am married.?
- Question: My husband hurled a racial slur at me. Does he still love me?
- Question: My wife literally talks to me while sleeping yo is this normal?
- Question: Staring at husband while sleeping. Is it weird?
- Question: Would it have been a deal breaker if your spouse didn't believe in manners, etiquette, political correctness, or being "proper"?
- Question: How important do you think having similar childhoods are in relating to your spouse? Do you think difference causes divorce?
- Question: Would you stay if your wife/husband did this?
- Question: Bad wife??
- Question: Is he crazy? I'm tired of fighting! Should he let it go? Is it me that has the problem?
- Question: Help! Am I weird for this URGENT!!!?
- Question: Why do married/taken men hit on single women even if they aren't looking to cheat?
- Question: My husband always belittles me?
- Question: Which is worse between a married couple: Caring too little about anything (overall apathy) or caring too much about yourself (self empathy)?
- Question: Is your partner so sensitive?
- Question: Is divorce or marriage counselling the better option in this situation?
- Question: Should I let my wife have friends?
- Question: What happens to couples after marriage?
- Question: My dad is asking me to borrow $60 till friday. Should I consult with the wife first or give him the 60 and then tell her?
- Question: How do you know if your wife is cheating?
- Question: What would you do? Would you confront your husband/wife before he cheats, or after?
- Question: I found an ovulation kit in my pregnant wife's medicine bag.?
- Question: Would you feel uncomfortable if your bi wife told other females I love you and made hearts in the texts.?
- Question: My husband is maintaing illicit relation with so many fulltime onwordsep abnormal behaviour at home always looks unhappy what to do?
- Question: A person marries a married woman before she gets divorce. is the marriage legally valid?
- Question: My husband doesn't disclose his finances to me.?
- Question: Is marriage really worth it?
- Question: She married but not in love with her husband. love me. what do i do.?
- Question: I Don't Know What To Say- Me and my husband went to a local fast food place and ran into a gentleman turns out he knew my husband from some?
- Question: Why does my husband play with his self every night?
- Question: My Husband And I Are Trying To Get Pregnant?
| Question: Do you get extra taxes for a new marriage? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:02 PM PDT Just wondering if you get a tax credit for new marriage like you do new children. I've heard you do and you don't so I'm not sure... |
| Question: Do you ever have an off day when you're having sex? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:49 PM PDT Like normally when I'm having sex with my girlfriend I have a full erection and last for a long time. Yesterday however I couldn't keep an erection and when I finally got one I came really fast |
| Question: Is this so terrible? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 08:32 PM PDT I wish my husband would look at me the way Justin Ward looks at his wife. Man is so obviously in love, his eyes just completely light up around her. I hope she knows how lucky she is... |
| Question: Poll for Guys: Do you actually love your girlfriend/wife? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:24 PM PDT Bonus question: Have you ever had the urge to hit her or abuse her? |
| Question: Is getting remarried a good or bad idea? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:07 PM PDT Share your experiences. WHat do you think of marriage. Why getting remarried is a bad idea if you have divorced before. |
| Question: Physical contact when your husband/wife is sick? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:37 PM PDT 1. Do you still hug and kiss your spouse when they are sick? 2. Do you still sleep in the same bed when they are sick? 3. Would you be put off if your spouse requested no physical contact while you were sick? By sick I mean cold/flu sick |
| Question: Do you and/or your spouse enjoy cuddling at night? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:16 PM PDT I'm a cuddler, but my husband is not. When we go to bed at night I am not allowed to touch him at all. Even when we make love, I'm only allowed to pull his hair and touch his bottom and private parts. We just go to bed, he on his side and I on my side. It's a king size bed so it feels like we're miles apart. I often ask him to fiddle with my hair and back, just to get some intimacy at all. But I can't touch him back. Now our daughter has the stomach flu and she threw up over the comforters and blankets. I gave her mine so she wouldn't be cold. My husband doesn't really use his except just when he's falling asleep and after he keeps it between his legs. I thought maybe he would let me cuddle just a little to get warm and then he could have it for himself. When I first started sleeping over he didn't have an extra comforter so he would reluctantly share his until we fell asleep. Then he took it and put it between his legs and I'd be shivering through the night until I started bringing my own comforter with me. So now I asked him if he would share for just a bit and he said no. He was tired, so he turned his back on me and went to sleep. Not even a kiss goodnight. I'm lying here with a big stuffed animal and two pillows over me to keep warm. We live close to the north pole. It's still winter and freezing cold here. But he needs his space. Don't get me wrong. He's a good husband in every other way. You take the good things with the bad, you know. How is it in your relationship? |
| Question: Why does my husband joke about bossinge around? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:04 PM PDT when we are with his parents he tells me to take his plate to the since and snaps his fingers and says that s an order , i told him he was a male shovnistic jerk and he said im joking . now he has been doing this alot lately . i had his phone and he said put my phone down and thats an order , i said ur being a jerk and he got mad . im tired of being bossed around even if its a joke . idk what to do |
| Question: Relationship advice? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 05:27 PM PDT I am a single mom of three children. I was pregnant with my oldest when I married my ex husband. My oldest isn't biologically his but his name is on the birth certificate and he has raised him as his own as his bio dad has not attempted to contact him(he is 7 years old). He knows he is not biologically his. I am currently seriously dating a guy who has no children and would eventually like some. He has not met them, only seen pictures. I haven't told my now boyfriend about my oldest, though he has made a comment about my sons hair color (much darker than my other two children). I'm trying to figure out when a good time to tell him about the situation with my oldest, or if I should have already told him or if he needs to know at all. Thanks! |
| Question: Paying Ex's Cell Phone Bill? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 04:43 PM PDT I know this sounds crazy but my husband has been paying his ex wife's cell phone bill for years. It was an arrangement made partly because she's irresponsible and her phone kept getting disconnected and he couldn't reach her when he needed to talk about his kids. His youngest has just turned 18 and will be going to college near us in the fall. Maybe it's petty but it bothers me a little that she's on our plan. The only time I ever met her she bragged to everyone in the room that she uses my husband for money and sometimes uses child support to treat herself. So I admit it's not really about the money. It is about how I feel. I have kept my nose out of child support issues but since child support is no longer due would it be snotty for me to remind him to tell her she needs to get her own cell plan by fall? It may be worth mentioning that she left him (for a man she thought was wealthy but wasn't) many years before I met him. It's not as if I broke them up! |
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| Question: I want him to me suck my toe? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 04:03 PM PDT I really want my husband to suck my toes , but im embressing of telling this to him , do you have any ideas of what i can say to him? |
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| Question: Why would my husband dismiss my thoughtfulness? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 02:58 PM PDT I often try to do sweet things for my husband to show my love and appreciation. Things like planning fun dates (concerts, sporting events, comedy shows, dinners out), cooking meals he likes, doing the majority of his shopping for him, etc. I work as a personal assistant for someone else, so this is kind of just a role I've taken on in all aspects of my life. But yesterday after I cooked what I considered an elaborate Easter dinner, he didn't say thank you or compliment the food- he had a face like something was bothering him so when I asked him what was wrong he said "I just really wish you would stop trying so hard to impress me, it's too much" and I couldn't help but feel offended. Would you consider what I mentioned above as trying too hard? And if so, why would that ever be a problem? |
| Question: Wife gets mad at me when she messes up? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 02:18 PM PDT How do you deal with a wife who takes her frustration out on you and gets mad at you when SHE messes up? Shell be the one to break something or just cause us another bill and she gets mad at you? You don't say anything negative about it, just a little damnn at most and she just wants to bit your head off and me mad....is this what's suppose to happen? Or am I being a pussy? What can I do? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 01:45 PM PDT Today is my birthday and my husband didn t give me anything. We had agreed to go on a picnic together because I suggested it would be something nice to do together. I thought for sure he would do *something* on his own that I didn t have to ask for and spell out to him. I sincerely didn t want him to buy anything (we have no money). If he had put a ribbon on a wheelbarrow of manure for the garden, I would have been delighted. He said that he shows me he loves me by spending time with me. He didn't post anything on Facebook, no card, nothing. He wishes his ex-girlfriend happy birthday on her Facebook. He puts ribbons and bows on gifts for friends. But says he doesn't value those things and that's why he didn't do it for me. I feel worthless. |
| Question: My wife loves to have sex with me and my frind and i do not mind? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 01:28 PM PDT |
| Question: Married, drunkenly cuddled someone who wasn't my SO? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:18 PM PDT Not too long ago I went to have some drinks with a girl friend of mine (first time going out alone since getting married, I hated it), we ended up meeting up with some old school friends at a friend's studio apartment. I'm really good at controlling my drinking, I wasn't wasted, but I guess the drinks were too strong. A lot of drama happened that night with my friend and a guy she brought over, after the guy left and after the drama I don't remember much except a blur of laying next to my guy friend. I think we cuddled or I just had my hand on his stomach before I passed out. Anyway, I went home, I told my husband. He was hurt and angry, he said things, and I totally understand why. After a whole day of hell, he told me he forgave me and that he loved me too much to end our marriage over something that could have been a lot worst, and to forget about it. He's been okay and back to normal, back to hugging and kissing me, and loving me, but I can't shake the guilt. I hate myself so much. This wasn't suppose to happen. I told him about this, and he said it's just a bump on the road to get over it. I love him so much, he didn't deserve this. I was so happy, we both were so I don't understand. Him and I have a crappy past before marriage so I don't know if maybe the memory of what happened in the past, and how close this reminds me of it is what is making me not move on? Idk what's going on in my head, but I can't stop. I feel like such a horrible person. |
| Question: Husband doesn't appreciate anything, should I just give up? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:10 PM PDT My husbands birthday is coming up and we usually go all out for birthdays, the two of us. We take one another out for dinner and a movie, we may go do something different like one year we went to an opera for my birthday in NY and then went to eat at a gourmet Italian restaurant. Last year, for his birthday, we went to an art museum and had a bite to eat out on the town. He was in a bad mood the entire time and didn't even seem to appreciate it, yet he always wanted to go. This year, I was excited about his birthday coming up in a few weeks and he made a rude comment and said "well, I think I wanna do something with just my friends this year", and I asked him why and he couldn't give me a straight answer. He never appreciates what I do for him ever! I go out of my way at times to make him happy and he acts like his friends are the only people in his life. They can buy him a beer and a deli sandwich and apparently they're anazing friends. Should I even bother? |
| Question: Is this appropriate to send when I am married.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:08 PM PDT Okay so I emailed a guy this was it appropriate and should I expect a response? Safe travels tomorrow. Sorry we weren't able to catch up. Although I am happily married even after all this time and sparse communication I still dig you and didn't need my emotions clouding my better judgement. OAN I'm riding with Duke tomorrow. Take care! |
| Question: My husband hurled a racial slur at me. Does he still love me? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:04 PM PDT We got into a disagreement about some traveling directions. He claimed I misled him, began shouting at me, and called me a dumb ngger. He wasn't using it as a term of endearment. Anytime someone adds the suffix -er to the N word, it's a racial slur. I can't just divorce him because of one comment he made. We're getting ready to start a family, so what can I do to rectify this situation. |
| Question: My wife literally talks to me while sleeping yo is this normal? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:58 AM PDT Hey I was messing with my wifes hair while she was sleep and the weirdest thing happened she told me to stop then immediately she started snoring so I changed the channel on the tv and she told me to turn it back then she randomly tells me to go get her some water bro I was so creeped so I did it a few other days and I asked her how her day was and she says fine and junk and she asks me about mine but she doesn't remember anything when she gets up she just knows I've been messing with her.. Is this normal? She stops snoring to talk and then immediately starts back |
| Question: Staring at husband while sleeping. Is it weird? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:43 AM PDT I just like staring at him while he's sleeping? but he doesn't like it at all and says its weird and creepy ? Is it really weird or is it normal..? I stare at him for hours sometimes.. |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:41 AM PDT Would you have taken them as they are? Or was part of the reason you liked them because they adhered to your beliefs of acceptable social behavior? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:29 AM PDT I've asked this question before but people down played it like it wasn't a factor at all, but I am going to explain it differently this time. Imagine you were raised in a southern family where walking around barefooted and eating with your hands was pretty standard. Imagine that you never had these behaviors "corrected" and this is just who you grew up to be. Now imagine falling in love with a person who grew up in the North who believed that socks and shoes should be worn at all times and silverware should be used for everything except breads. Now imagine that, by some odd circumstance, the two of you fall in love. Do you think this marriage is going to last? Why or why not? I know that they say that opposites attract, but are opposites suitable spouses? Like genes in the gene pool, wouldn't one person have to be recessive and the other be dominant? How can two equals with very different beliefs live together (let alone maintain their love with each other) without becoming apathetic to keep them from arguing? And if you don't like my South vs. North example, try it with any difference in beliefs. Christian/Agnostic, Liberal/Conservative, Republican/Democrat, White/POC, Poor/Rich, LGBT/Anti-Gay, Emotional/Logical, Orderly/Disorderly..... You decide the extremes, just answer the question. |
| Question: Would you stay if your wife/husband did this? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:28 AM PDT imagine if your wife or husband got spinal cord injury and they became crippled on life and depend on wheelchair to move, and they wont be able to go to bathroom alone, and then the husband/wife tells you that he/she cheated on you and she/he regrets it would you stay and help him/her or leave? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:10 AM PDT I have been married for couple months now but I don't know if I'm a bad wife. I am currently a full time nursing student and I work part time on weekends and I also attend church service on Sunday. I clean the house, do laundry, try to make diner once in a while and try to get my school stuff in. My husband only work full time and I always tell time if he can do some house chores if he has time but he always tell me he is tired. Idk if I should be piss at him or understand him? Im also tired and yet I try to make time to do house chores. Also we have been fighting a lot because I up to the point of overly tired. He tries his best but I feel its just not fair. We are not both well off so we r trying to not get a child but every time he wants to do sex he gets it but when I want it he push me away. He just keep saying hes scared of me getting prego. I understand what he means but I feel like he keeps pushing me away I might lose interest in him and he does't understand. I work 10 hours on sat to try to make some cash so I can buy food or help him pay some rent fee. but he always complain that I dont know how to save why I only make $150 biweekly. I have to use money that money for shopping for food or pay for gas and within a week I used everything up. I just been really stress with my life with school, work, and being a wife. I don't know If i have the right to complain since he pays for rent and once in a while do some chores. I just want some peoples honest opinion. thanks I try to explain everything but he always takes it as I'm complaining and it always lead to an argument. thanks |
| Question: Is he crazy? I'm tired of fighting! Should he let it go? Is it me that has the problem? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 11:03 AM PDT My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 6. We started dating at 16. We've been fighting about the SAME two things over and over and I want to know if he should just get over it or if I'm truly to blame. He belittles my past choices, treats me poorly and says I don't care about his feelings on them, doesn't seem to understand that I can't change them. Wants to discuss them constantly and wants to dissect it all. When I provide him honesty and frankness, it's met with emotion and turmoil and we end up fighting and I feel attacked. When I was 15, I was with a guy who was 19, lived on his own. We made out & smoked weed. That was our regular thing. We eventually broke up due to an unfortunate event. After that, I went through a very depressive phase, self harmed, took pills etc etc. I also befriended someone much older than me. It was a friend of my moms, a woman, who watched my brothers when my mom was at work. I would hang out with her at night sometimes. She was 24? And I was 15. We made out twice and I went down on her once. We stopped before she finished and nothing else ever happened. I never let her touch me. I have never slept with any man but my husband. I currently don't smoke weed nor have I since I was 15. When I met my husband I didn't tell him I used to smoke, because he didn't like weed and I knew he was the one, I didn't want to lose him. I told him about the weed about 1.5 years ago. I had stopped smoking *before* I dated my husband. |
| Question: Help! Am I weird for this URGENT!!!? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:24 AM PDT I was laying in bed bed and I screamed "GOD HELP ME TONY ROMO IT HURTS SO GOOD" and I got up and flipped a chair over and sat on one of the legs that is ~19inches long and it went most the way up my butthole and my wife saw me. For people who think this is a troll just go im very worried she might leave me |
| Question: Why do married/taken men hit on single women even if they aren't looking to cheat? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 10:20 AM PDT Before anyone gets upset, I'm sure there are married women guilty of this too, but I can only speak for women because I am one myself. I'm 22 and I've been hit on my married or taken men. I know the difference between friendly and "too friendly". A few of the comments I received were "beautiful" or "gorgeous", a head to toe look. Once I was told any guy who is with me is a lucky man or once a friend my age (not married but taken) made a comment about how I had a nice as*. I told him how I was upset over a guy who wasn't interested in me but only looking for a hookup and he said: "The guy wanted to screw you? I don't blame him! Haha just kidding!" I was uncomfortable. However nearly ALL these men also talk highly about their girlfriends and wives. Not one of them ever tried anything and sometimes it almost seems like they make it clear their flirting is just for fun. But I still feel its wrong. I feel kind of guilty, I didn't do anything besides thank them but I feel like I should have stopped them in their tracks, instead of feeling flattered and forgetting about it. Anyway, why do men do that for the hell of it? P.S. If I sound cocky, please know I am not. These are comments made over the course of a couple years, not a few days. |
| Question: My husband always belittles me? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:45 AM PDT I recently just graduated as a Dental Assistant. Since then, we moved to a different state and obviously it's pretty hard to find a job when the only experience you have is your internship and was in another state. So with that being said, my husband is constantly belittling me about not having a job. I've tried looking elsewhere, but with me having very little experience anywhere, it could be extremely hard in California. He also doesn't just belittle me about jobs, he does it about me exercising as well. I used to be very active before we moved, but since we moved and me not having a job I sort of let myself go a bit (which of course is something I'm not proud of obviously). When he gets ticked off about something, he always brings up the question "So, are you going to run today?" To which I would usually reply "I'm not sure" or if I say "I'll try to" he always says "No you won't" which really bugs me because I feel like he just asks me that out of anger or to get some sort of a rise out of me. I try to ignore him when he gets upset or starts to belittle me but he takes that as me not wanting to talk at all and thinks I'm "Treating him like an annoying parent". Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:22 AM PDT They both suck. One creates overall lack of productivity, and the other creates a hostile/competitive relationship. But which in your opinion is worse? |
| Question: Is your partner so sensitive? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 09:03 AM PDT When my husband comes home from work, he sits all the time on the couch reading news on his laptop. He would never allow me to sit on the same couch, if I do he would get up and sit on the single person couch. So I do know he is that sensitive because he has lived by himself w/o a gf for 8 years before we got married. Yesterday he tells me that sometimes he needs more space he means sometimes you look at me and I feel comfortable. I mean how can I completely avoid him while he is around me, so sometimes I just look cause your eyes basically go anywhere. Then he tells me that makes him feel uncomfortable. Is this me? It makes me feel so bad. I have decided to go spend time in the bedroom while he is sitting in the living room from now on. I mean, is this my fault or is he too sensitive? Ok once in a while it happens you are looking at someone but you are actually thinking about something else or you just look at someone to see what they are up to. Isn't it? Anyone else having this sort of issue? I doubt he does not love me though, he always puts me first in all other ways. He is a very gentleman and I know he is not cheating but this space issue makes me feel so bad. Makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. |
| Question: Is divorce or marriage counselling the better option in this situation? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:30 AM PDT Suppose the husband doesn't like having sex with his wife and they both have been married for more than just an year. Should the husband just get a divorce or try marriage counselling? The husband doesn't want to even touch her, but doesn't hate her, just not interested in her sexually. |
| Question: Should I let my wife have friends? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:21 AM PDT |
| Question: What happens to couples after marriage? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 07:14 AM PDT I've been with my bf for almost a year now and we've been friends for almost 6 years and we're planning to get married soon but during this whole year he kept saying he wants to lose weight but still didn't really start. It frustrates me and makes me think that he won't do a lot of things he talked about but he tells me things will be different after we're married because we'll live together and he'll have something to motivate him though I try my best now but he's a lazy person. He's an amazing guy, he treats me in a beautiful way and my family loves him and his family loves me and he shows me off and we have a great connection but I'm worried he'll not stick to his (sort of) promises after marriage. Sometimes I think, he had a year to do things and didn't, so he won't after another year but I feel that I do have hope in him but I don't wanna be disappointed. Sorry I made it long I just have mixed feelings and maybe I'm just making it a big deal because well, it's marriage not a game. Please help, tell me your experiences or stories about people you know. He has all the features of a good partner but his laziness kills and scares me. Thanks in advance. |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:46 AM PDT Sorry but I meant consult with my wife. Both of them are my parents but only my dad is asking me, we have lent money to my wife's mom as well. |
| Question: How do you know if your wife is cheating? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 06:31 AM PDT What are some of the signs that your wife is cheating and what are some ways to find out on your own. She obviously isn't going to tell you. Her phone is locked so going through it is not an option. Thanks, Joey |
| Question: What would you do? Would you confront your husband/wife before he cheats, or after? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 05:57 AM PDT My husband and I have been goin. Through a rough patch. We both know it, and have been trying to make it work... I'm going on a road trip in a month with my sister and my husband randomly accused me of going on this trip to cheat on him! I've never cheated on him or anybody in my life, I've gave him no reason to think that I would, and I wouldnt. I told him he has to be able to trust me if this is going to work.. This morning his phone beeped and there was a fb message from his friend, I opened it up, and my husband was talking to his friend about this "hot chick" he met that's interested in him. His friends like "don't do it unless you and your wife are actually divorcing" my husband didn't say much to that and said "I haven't asked her out on a date yet, but I am so excited, I can't believe she's interested in me!" I'm not sure if I should pretend I've never read the messages and see what happens or if I should confront him. If he wants to cheat he will, it's just a matter of when. He's cheated In his past relationships. I just don't want to sound like a hypocrite because I told him he needs to trust me... But he gave me reason to not trust him. If he cheats that will be the end. What would you do?? |
| Question: I found an ovulation kit in my pregnant wife's medicine bag.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 04:18 AM PDT So, yesterday I was looking for some headache medicine in the bathroom, and stumbled upon a box for an ovulation prediction kit. This seems rather odd, as the whole reason we got married was because her birth control somehow failed and she got pregnant. There's no reason for an ovulation prediction kit AFTER she was already pregnant, so the only thing I can assume is that it was purchased beforehand. A little background... she was a Chinese exchange student, and we met through a mutual friend. We tried dating, but the feelings weren't going anywhere, so I said let's just be friends. She says ok. After a few months I notice she's still showing interest in me, so I tell her it's not a good idea for her to hang out with me. I go to California for a month to help my brother move into his new house, and have a change of scenery. She sees a post about my brother and I driving down to LA for a haunted house. She decides to plan a trip at the same time to visit one of her friends in LA. We meet up after the haunted house, and both are a bit drunk. Stuff happens, both go back home, then fast forward a month and she tells me we need to talk. I try to be a responsible man and have her move in and set a trial engagement. After a month I can see things are seriously not working out, and I tell her that we shouldn't get married, but I'll still help support her. Ultimately, I'm forced to marry her, and she files citizenship papers immediately. What do you guys think about the situation? |
| Posted: 06 Apr 2015 03:08 AM PDT My wife just started a new job a few weeks ago. She is bi. Recently she's been distant. So I read her messages (I know it's bad I get jealous thow and can't help it. Also first time) she just met this person and she's already saying I love you <3 to her it makes me really kinda mad. I feel that you should only say those words to your spouse or family. I told her it really bothers me and she said it's how I am. She spends all her time with this girl she just met always stays the night over there when I'm at work (I work night shifts) I love her more then anything but this is really bothering me.. |
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| Question: A person marries a married woman before she gets divorce. is the marriage legally valid? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 01:50 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband doesn't disclose his finances to me.? Posted: 06 Apr 2015 12:19 AM PDT We've been married for 12 years. He makes decent money and he gives me $1200 for our groceries or our kids activities. The rest of it I save(I don't spend much).. He takes care of the bills and is a very good provider. However, I don't have any idea on how much is our monthly expenses as he has his own bank account and separate credit cards. I've made money on jobs that I had so I contributed most of it to our retirement account and my kids college savings plan. My big problem is he gets mad when I pry about our finances. Should I shut my mouth? I don't see bills coming in or if I see one and I open it. I get called nosy. Would you be alright with this? He said he signed up for life insurance but I never saw any policy (not even a home owner's policy). Help! It's causing marital strain. |
| Question: Is marriage really worth it? Posted: 05 Apr 2015 11:27 PM PDT |
| Question: She married but not in love with her husband. love me. what do i do.? Posted: 05 Apr 2015 11:22 PM PDT she's married but not in love with her husbands. loves me. we been seeing each other for two months. what should i do? |
| Posted: 05 Apr 2015 10:22 PM PDT Me and my husband went to a local fast food place and ran into a gentleman turns out he knew my husband from somewhere anyways turns out this guy sleeps in his car in the area. To make a long story short turns out my husband use to sleep in his car before he slept in his car. I asked him why because I know he had like 300 K in the bank and could have easily got a house or apartment. He told me that he couldn't do that because he wanted to have as much money as possible and even if u were to get a house with no one to call his wife it was just be a empty house and that he wanted if anything were to happen to me is to have as much money as possible so that I would be taken care of and if he had got some apartment he would just be spending my money. Keep in mind my husband worked since he was 16 and said he would always know when he had meet the one and he always saved his money thinking for his future. I didn't know what to say either it was like the sweetest thing ever or I should be like u crazy why did u sleep in your car? What do you women out there think if ur husband did this or went out of their way for u like this? |
| Question: Why does my husband play with his self every night? Posted: 05 Apr 2015 10:21 PM PDT I'm tired of him doing it are we going to make it |
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