1. Getting pregnant by your husband whom you dont love and suspect he is gay. Jus becase ha can support you financially. 2. Getting pregnant by man you love but know he will probably wont take care of the baby. 3. Never have children Ps: i dont believe there a perfect lofe anymore where love marry and have children and be happy like my parents did. So I have to choose the less worse, im old now im 27 running out of time.

Once abusive always abusive?

My husband cheated on me and he wants to see the kids but he is not a hard worker who would take the time to take me to court. If I keep my kids from him (biologically our kids) can his family take me to court or would it only be a problem if he took me? The kids don't care anyway as they are 6 and 9 and no he cheated and is a liar. I hope to find a new Dad for them by the time they are teens.

I blame my low income on being the #1 reason why I never have anyone. I used to think it was American girls only who were this way (given they are still the worst) but it is all of them! Women only marry men to have kids, divorce and get child support money. Asian women do it to get a free ride to the US, become a citizen and have cash in their pockets. Every man who gets women to come over to the US and marry them are loaded with money. I'm not. That's why I can not never do that. Every man who even marries someone here loses the woman with finances being one of the biggest issues. I firmly believe that love scientifically does not and can not exist. Greed has been proven to be a stronger aspect on the human condition so therefore it is more real. Women only care about money. Give a woman a million dollars and no dick is ever going up her vagina. She has no practical reason for it! In fact people in general only have kids in hopes to get more money. Everyone knows it's money that makes the world go around. Love is an illusion. It's a marketing tool to make money. My parents only gave birth to me just to make money and so did yours. The government needs re-production to keep the economy going so it all makes sense. I have it all figured out!

I got married a year ago and there was an option on my marriage license for "new last name" I put my husband's last name. Since then I never updated my last name on my id's, social security card, with my job or anything. I just never got around to doing it but I do want my husbands last name. I would now like to change my first name to my middle name and drop my first name altogether. In order to do this I have to file a petition with the court. When it says to list my current name...is it my maiden name which is on all my identification or is it my married name which is on my marriage certificate? I don't want to have to change my last name with this court petition because as I understand it, if I do that and I ever need to go back to using my maiden name in the event of a divorce I'd have to go back to court to do it. I think? Any insight on this matter would be helpful.

A ranking pic on this site of me got posted. Some sadists said I looked average, ugly, and rated me a 5. Then I get someone who said I was smoking hot and liked when another user said I looked like goddess. So who is correct? Am I smoking hot and were the ones that rated me not as high sadists?

...dream of being like Trump when they grow up?

She wants a divorce, and has told me she realizes she is a ***** and she drinks too much, but our marriage is very unhealthy and counseling has not worked.I don't believe in divorce and do not want to lose half of my stuff. She yells too much ,is a huge liar and complains about my driving. We usually fight bitterly in the car , to the point she doesn't like to drive places with me.She said she wouldn't yell if I would stop hiding her stuff for work mocking and criticizing everything she says and does driving recklessly and making her late and trying to control her all the time.I am not trying to control her, that is all a fabrication of the mind.I just am trying to help her because she is kind of dippy and the way she does things is weird. Also it annoys me when she really gets mad and gives me the silent treatment, which makes me start needling her and then she ends up exploding. I did accuse her of having an affair, because she had botox , and lost 40 pounds. Also, I read what I thought was her diary, but was actually a short story her hairdresser wrote I still love her , and think we can make it work !

correction; their What would you do..what would you choose to do If your answer is no..please elaborate on why you would not. Its a life decision,all thoughts help.

So my husband and I have have been married for exactly eight and a half months now. We were engaged for nearly six years on and off prior to the ceremony. We would have gotten married sooner but I was unable to formally divorce my previous husband due to his extended incarceration in an El Salvador prison. Over the past two months, however, I've noticed significant changes in my husband's outward appearance. His hairline has retreated nearly an inch and half on his forehead. I even took pictures if him in his sleep and compared them to our wedding photos to confirm my suspicions. He's also gained probably at least 5-7 pounds. It shows mostly in his face/chin area. The weight doesn't bother me so much, but how can I convince him to style his hair like he used to? He looks at least 10 years older with his current hair job. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and God bless. :)

I met someone some months ago and I haven't seen someone like him until now and I really don't want to leave him. He told me he wanted to marry me and I'm thinking about it. I really want to marry but I'm scaring also. Marriage means responsibility and sometimes I feel like a child. And I want to marry also... I like him so much. I hope girls to understand how I feel and show à way to me :/

I ll try my best keep this short and sweet. We were already engaged and young. I got pregnant even trying to prevent it. And same with the second child. We are married now 4 years. He never helps work with them. He ll feed and em and play. But never works on social skills or learning. My oldest is now 4 the other is 9 months. He drinks 2 to4 beers a day and sits in front of the tv. Yes he helps with the bills and works a lot I get it. But so do I and now the oldest is needing tested to see if he possibly has autism. I m kept up with him up too 24 hours at a time along with a baby. And of course the oldest has other symptoms and actions that mimic autism. Such as not sleeping or eating and "throwing tantrums", etc. There s a lot of other issues I won t get into. But I as well as family have tried to get him to listen he doesn t care what do I do? I never sleep and its a wreck, I work, we live away from family and switch off with the kids and he gets mad that he comes home too a mess... Please help me.

In a town that we never lived in, far from our home and everyone else's what do I do? I think a fair compromise would be to go somewhere that neither family is buried to not pick sides.