Please view the photo as not everything was able to fit. Any advice is greatly appreciated, I have never felt so lost....

I emailed him from CL for the arrangement with benefits. We both agreed our arrangement by email and made the date to meet at coffee shop near my place the past 2 week. He is disability and single according to conversation with him. It was raining that day and he emailed me he would be late 30 mins due to train messed up. I replied him I'm totally fine if we move the other day since the rain was so heavy and he is not easy walking due to limp. He replied ok, we will do the other day. At night he emailed me like that he is done thinking that he doesn't want to be a sponsor with financially for someone that is not financial part but emotional part. He wants relationship. If we would do this arrangement, he might have feelings for me and he can never know what is my real feelings for him as long as we have this arrangement. I replied him I'm totally understand and we have never have experience for this thing. Currently I'm not interested in relationship because my school financial. I wished him that we will find someone what we need. Then we disconnected for one week. Last week, he started emailing me that thanks for my blessings and if I change my mind let's meet up. he asked me to find a girl for him for marriage and he offered me $$$$. I don't like match maker that complicated. As mentioned above, he is disability and not easy find a girl. He has been tried so many dating site but no one wants to meet him up. I really feel bad and hate discrimination on disability. I replied him its not big deal meeting up as a friend not for what you want and dun expect anything in return from me. Now my question is should I meet him or not? I feel uncomfortable meeting him due to the arrangement that we can't even make it. I don't know what is his real intention. Can someone please advice me? I'm confused now. Thanks in advance. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 It is Long term arrangement.

My mother in law posted happy birthday to my brother in law so i said something to him on her post . I am not blocked i can see him answering everyone else . He didnt say a word to me oh he liked every elses too . I dont get why he has such a problem with me ,he hardly knows me . I offended him on fb with a dumb maxiene joke and i relaly think that is why he wont answer me ,it was 4 years ago ,why cant he get over it ? Maybe i should say happy anything anymore or get gifts ,he doesnt get us anything we only got him one because his dad told us to which i wasnt happy about .

Okay, so the pastor is about 5 years older then,we are both in our early twenties. And he has been dming me about how he appreciates me coming to church, and events, and that my "presence is felt". And at church we always hug as I exist(casual) and he always calls me "sweetheart" and says, "it s great to see you again, and good to see your face". I def. have a crush on him, so why isn t he initiated a date maybe? Obviously, it s "he who finds a wife" I m going to let him initiate more. And about 2 weeks ago he asked me out spontaneously, but I had to take a raincheck, so he got my number(didn't text me for a whole week).... And he was preaching at another church yesterday, but still txted me last night, to ask how I liked the guest speaker, and to say good night? ..Is he interested, or just being nice?

I mention going to hawaii, he responds with "Why, there are plenty enough things to see here in the USA"....he like driving, I have driven every road with him for miles ad miles around where we live...Redwood, drove to see the Grand Canyon, but all of these road trips were done WELL over 12 years ago...He is a very boring person anymore....selfish also. If I do plan a vacation in Hawaii or ?...all the while getting there, being there, he will complain...yes, he drives me nuts...he just wants to hang around the guys...we have a tree business....that is ALL I hear about alllllll day long, all year long, I need a break...what would YOU do...I take him I absolutely know he would ruin my vacation, yet if I vacation without him, he will be pissed right before I leave, will state I will be sorry...what now? Yes, don't tell me he is an azzhole, (hate calling him that) he does work hard, but...there are more things in life to do....I need a break, he knows it, but yet does nothing, shows NO interest in taking a vacation, IT HAS BEEN YEARS....please no smart *** answers, don't need that, need a solution....leave him how do you do that after being married for over 25 years. His daughter got married in Hawaii, he of course went and paid for that, unfortunately, my husband was on crutches, all we did was SIT in the ROOM for a week....

I have pretty bad anxiety, and I attach and everything, which ik isn't good but it's hard to control. Especially with all that has happened. Anyway, I have a boyfriend of 7months, I met him through my moms boyfriend (my boyfriend is not old hes 19.) I was okay with the fact they were friends and everything, but me and my mom boyfriend had a bond, like I could tell him things and he was basically a father figure. But since I got with my boyfriend, which is also like his friend, he stopped. He lies, and holds things off, and tells me to remind him but gets mad that I remind him "too much." He ALWAYS brings my boyfriend over to help, and hangout with him, my boyfriend will say a few words to me and totally leave me shut out. He will go out and hangout or help with my moms boyfriend ALL day. Sometimes he will ask my to join them, but when I do, neither of them ever talk to me. And they walk faster than me, totally leaving me behind. I feel like the third wheel and everything. I'm very anti social so i'm not fond of talking, but I hate feeling and being alone. And I dislike the fact he is friends with my sisters, and my sisters friend on snap-chat, I do NOT trust them, because they lie and steal and stuff like that. My boyfriend NEVER opens ANY of his snap-chats in front of me, and sometimes when he goes to look through his photos, he will turn his phone to find it.. I've been having alot of breakdowns and been very depressed and idk what to do. And they say I'm over-reacting :(

My husband has never had a backbone. His mother is a monster in law. She claims that they have "never done anything wrong" to me and have "never said anything hateful unless I have started it first". They are "unblemished lambs", according to them. His father told him that I am not allowed @ their house on account of how evil I am. He did not say a word to them. Last week, I called his mom (@ his insistence) to apologize (for texting her asking if her husband taught my husband to be emotionally abusive, which he is) and she went ballistic defending her husband. She was acting psychotic on the phone, accusing me of being an abuser my own self, yelling @ me to shut up and not interrupt her, and just overall acting like a psycho (insert choice word here). What can I do? Since they are perfect, never start anything unless I start something first (according to them), and eh wont defend me?

I meed some help. Today my family was cleaning the kitchen and my mom was emptying the top shelf of the spice cupboard. The shelf levels are very deep on the right side so nobody really reaches there for that stuff. That's usually for the rarely needed spices. My mom reached and found three mini jars. One with red or brown dyed rice. One with green dyed rice. And another with a lump of what looked and smelled like poop. First she said it was mold on a mushroom. I checked but it was brown and smeared like a ball of dirt and smelled like dog poop but stickier and moist. The rice was wet with the dye. Its my parents and brother and I. We have a camera and alarms on all windows and doors which sound when open and close. Nobody is here alone. Just us four and our housekeeper who is here once a week but we have known her for years and we have helped her and she is our close friend. Her family is close with us too. The jars were from my masters graduation party in May. So its someone who has access to the jars. We have some stored in my house amd we also have dye near the cupboard for baking. My mom is also sick with cancer and I'm worried because people have said the jars mean for someone to get sick to take away one's possessions or curse their property. What does this mean? Why would someone do this?

My boyfriend has been refusing to go to crowded places like tourist sites and themeparks like Disneyland. He says he just can't and I don't understand why. I've looked up depersonalization and tried to understand it. Is it even a serious thing? If any of you have it does it prevent you from going to places like themeparks? Why does it happen in public places?

There is this guy I knew from high school (we weren't actual friends) but we are Facebook friends. We didn't even really talk in school, he actually knew my friend more. My profile picture is me in sunglasses and I have had that up for a while because I don't log on as much as I used to. I notice that this guy, he has a profile picture too with sunglasses. It caught my eye and I remember we did talk before a high school grad night which was years ago on Facebook. I decided to go back to my posts and I posted something about being excited about going to the high school grad night. I was surprised that he was talking to me. He randomly told me to have fun, I then asked him if he was going and he said nah. I then asked him "why not, it's fun," and he said "no regrets.." with two dots at the end. How can you tell if someone had secretly liked you all along? I have a feeling he might have liked me but I am not sure.

If that's not what he's into? I just had a baby 6 months ago, and me and my babys father got into an argument tonight over the phone, and when i told him bye he said "you need to say bye to some of yout weight". Now he usually treats me like im the sexiest thing alive, especially when we have sex it's amazing. He never makes me feel disgusting, but now he's pretty much admitting that he's disgusted. I am very overweight i will admit, ive had 3 kids and my stomach is really flabby and im just not in the best shape i could be in, but ive brought 3 lives into this world so i dont beat myself up about it. But anyways, if a guy thinks a woman is fat and ugly, why would he continue having sex with her?

met this guy on tinder, he started calling me doll , he told me I'd make a good wife and that he would propose to me very soon. today I asked him if we can be friends / we are friends and he said " friends don't do these things that we do." am I dating him? i think we're together now right? thanks. he's pisces I'm aries

Most Fridays he ignores my phone calls and texts because he's out with his friends which is fine but I'd like to know so I'm not worried all night and morning. When I asked him where he was, he says he's on chat sites pretending to be a women Talking to guys....oddbehaviour. Another Friday he said he was too busy talking to his friends girlfriend and thus why he couldn't write me back.....another night he says he was trying to make his brother feel better after a breakup....so why did it take the next day for him to shoot me a text that he's fine and alive..

Talked to a guy for a couple of months and went out for a while. We stopped talking about a month ago and sometimes well send each other random things. Yesterday he asked if i still had feelings for him and before i could say anything he asked why he i didn't just forget about him but before i could say anything he went on about how I'm always going out and posting things since we stopped talking then he sent me old videos of us and asked if i missed him so it made me feel like he still cared but I'm confused because he also made it seem like he wants me to forget about him...

I'm so incredibly sad and mad at him. I constantly get ignored on Friday when he goes out with friends. It's fine but just tell me so I'm not worried where the heck he is. He constantly checks girls out infront of me! We're on a date...I'm to blame for it of course (he says)

I've never been in any other relationship so I'm not sure how I should be treated or if I'm asking for much. He ignores me on Friday nights because he's out with friends but I get worried and don't find out until the next day. I don't care who he's with but it would be nice to know he's okay. i feel he compares me to others as he's always looking at other girls when we are together. He likes all his girl friends photos on Instagram but never will he like mine...

Im with this women who i love but lately i feel inscure about my penis size so i dont really like having sex with her. (im 24) im black and i have a 6.5 inch privite part. recently she told me i am small for a black person and so also made a joke about me not satisfyinh her. also she told me she told her friends that i dont have a blk guys penis. she says im tthe second person shes been with and i am bigger then her prevoius partner and im the best she has been with but i am still insecure. i have been with abbout 30 diffrent women. i have been told i was big many times (mostly durning a one night stand) so im a confident peson well i used to be untill she said those thigns to me. she told me she was sorry and did know what a big penis is she olny uses porn so know sexuly things. but im still inscure and i worry about it all the time now and it changes how i feel about having sex with her. it even worse becuase i am supposed to marry her soon. but i dont know about this now. any advice ??

So in the morning at breakfast time our mom decided to look through her phone I already knew this but she's bisexual, she said it's because-- "I don't really care for the gender or looks, as long as thier a human being" And our mom found out she came out to her best friend Our mom's a mormon, so she was completely outraged After breakfast she hasn't come out of her room, she just kind of sits there. Not doing anything. Can I help her?

I love giving people my health advice but 70 percent of my diet is considered unhealthy to vegans. We still both eat a lot of nuts, coconut oil, avocados, and veggies but they are allowed to eat unhealthy foods like sugar which cause you to gain weight. whereas the beef patties i eat, may be labeled as unhealthy but actually don't cause weight gain unless you are eating beef patties in the presence of buns