I can't say things like i love you or i love/like what you're wearing or birthday compliments or generally anything that falls under "sweet talking" i just can't. I know there are people who say they can't but they actually do but in a lesser degree . But when i say I can't i mean i still can't say i love you to my best friend for 7 years or to my mom . And if i do i say it after they pressure me . I really want to say it without always feeling like I'm lying to them or faking it. I do love them a lot but why do i feell llike this? What can i do?

So let's say my sister's husband has a daughter from another marriage. What's her relationship to me?

My older guy cousin buys me gifts or buys me lunch whenever I visit him?? I just feel lucky to have a good guy in the family who takes care of me and treats me well and his taking me out buying me stuff show that he is family oriented. Does this make me selfish or evil? They say that women shouldn't take men's generosity for granted, but he insists on paying as the guest each time we visit him. Moreover, what female doesn't;t like it when men buy her stuff, even if they're her cousins? I offer to buy him stuff when he visits too, and I enjoy a guy looking after me by buying me stuff.

....without being mixed with Eastern European, Italian, Greek, Spanish, Portuguese, Black, Native American, Asian, Hispanic , Middle Eastern, Indian and Polynesian people ?

And the two females are screaming and begging me not to tell?

Like none of these people even give a **** about me. And I'm 17 you act like I'm senile. I also deal depression sometimes I feel like FML

My brother and mother have not talked in years. My brother sent my mom a letter how this was the hardest letter he had to write, she is a horrible person and failed as mother. He hopes that she knows this. He also said how he has " forgiven her and forgot her" He didnt even put Dear mom just her real name Pam. Then the sincerely heading is Dead to me, Bryan. She isn't a horrible mother she just told him if you are going to party and smoke pot and drop out of high school you need to get a job and find somewhere to live. He makes it sound like she murdered someone ...If she was a horrible person I wouldn't even be around her but she isnt. They havent talked since he was 20 he is now 30.... He just sent the letter... I don't think he has grown up still parties and is pretty evil to send something like that. What do you think about this? Oh I opened it and didnt tell my mom about it should I keep it from her? A part of me wants to make a police report about it. Advice please no hateful comments thanks!

So my bf and I had an argument.. He ended up shouting at me and punching the bed, screaming & jumping up and down. It was basically over a disagreement, something so small and stupid.. So didn't expect him to react like that. Was hoping he'd say just forget about it. It doesn't matter but instead he shouted at me, and also called me a name. It really hurt.. So I just rolled over and started crying and then he came around the other side of the bed and said 'swear you didn't want to start a fight?' Anyway I asked him to leave me alone since he was only making me feel worse and getting me worked up when I'm 5 months pregnant. He ended up going outside to make a 1 hr long phone call while I locked myself in the room.. Had no phone so couldn't talk to anyone.. When he came back in he only started talking about the argument which I didn't want to hear about so I asked him to leave me alone. After about 2hrs later after another phone call and doing stuff around the house he finally came in to talk and apologise.. Just felt like crap since then. Don't know what to do..

I m still great friends with my ex, and recently her mom offered to pay for plane tickets to fly me from Florida up to California this summer. We re moving to Florida this summer so it d take some of the pressure off of my parents if I went to stay with her. How do you think I d ask my parents and see if they d be okay with me going so far away?

I got engaged last month. The proposal went like this. Him sitting on the bed calls me in the room and says "give me your hand. He puts the ring on and says I told you I was going to marry you." Me: where did you get the ring? It was clearly old beautiful but old and need d a good cleaning. Him I loaned somebody some money they couldn't pay me back so they gave me the ring and now it's yours and we are engaged. Since then I have been turned off. Am I wrong? What should I do? I'm questioning everything now

So I love my LD friend.. we have been friends for 4years. He thinks that I love him because I want to take advantage of him... like i love him because he has money.. he even mentioned the amount that he has in his bank account.. he says that I love him because i want to take advantage of him being in another country and immigrate. It hurts me because I simply love him. Big or small I always give him gifts but when he says this it hurts! We are in our early 20s n still students. I don't know what to think. Guys do you all think this way before dating a girl?

He buys me everything and I think it's sweet. I've never asked for anything, ever. I love that he thinks about me. However, our first two years together was rough. Even now he checks girls out Infront of me. Won't hold my hand in front of friends and won't tell me he loves me either..at least I front of friends. I don't know if he's just being a man....is it normal?

Will my crush understand? I haven't left my bf yet. He would try hard to keep me. I'm not looking to rush into a new relationship. I just want to get to know him. We haven't spoken yet though. I just want to msg him

He's so cute!!!!!!! And he likes me back but how will he feel when he finds out I have a man?

Didn't find any question like this, maybe I'm just a bad searcher... My partner recently cheated on me, togheter for a few years in a semi-long distance relationship. That is: few months togheter, few months apart, reoeat. A few Days though I discovered I was cheated on, finding the two in bed with each other (not the first time just the first time I caught them) and for some reason I want to talk to the person that helped my partner cheat on me. Wondering if this is a bad idea or not? Don't know what I want to say, just want to talk. Maybe understand something, to know that person. I'm still interested in the relationship and I want to fix it but I feel that I need to both ends. Got any advice? Personal experience to go from? Urgh, noticed my terrible grammar. Can't edit it but also: We hadn't really talked about taking the relationship to a further level, it wasn't casual but it wasn't dating kind off stuff yet. We're still pretty young but... yeah...

Lately, I've noticed men hold very strong eye contact with me. They don't stare at my body (I have a good body I'm thin) which I like because it shows respect for that. They just stare with a steady gaze at my face for a long time. They look serious. I am a 24-year-old female, attractive, and I do have hazel eyes. Not sure if they just like the color or if they like me. I appreciate it just want to know the meaning behind it.

I'm very close an older friend of mine, we are very close, she is like an aunt to me. We are always messing around and having fun, although she always calls me "silly girl" why? She will be like "Where is my silly girl" or I will be doing something funny and she will just giggle and say "silly girl" why? Is it bad ?

I will probably never get a chance to 'Live' my life and even if I do, like for ex: if I get to go on vacations and such. living through all this BS just for that isn't worth it to me I believe. especially if I don't get a chance to do it while I'm young :(

A "holy grail" for sex that is.

They have not admitted to liking the girl who acts like a boy. the twins were sharing the same bed and one of them pulled back the covers and showed an Elephant between his legs but he did not have anything on.

So I've been talking to a guy on the internet for about a month, on and off. He rarely gets on which is strike one. He told me he got divorced about three years ago, and he finally gave me his number. Investigator me did a reverse phone lookup, looked him up on facebook and found out he has a knocked up girlfriend. Not sure if she's the "ex-wife" or someone new. They've been together for over two years and just found out a month ago she's pregnant. I confronted him and he automatically blocked me. I feel really bad for this woman. She has no clue, at least I think she doesn't. I want to tell her so bad, but maybe I shouldn't. Thoughts?

So my problem is that my neighbor has 3 kids, ages 2, 4, and 8 they are always in my yard, driveway, or on my porch playing. They will play basketball in my driveway and hit mine and my husbands vehicles. I can't even count the number of times that one are both of our car alarms have gone off, it doesn't seem to faze them at all. My husband and I have no kids of our own yet so it's not like they are playing with our kids. We get woke up pretty much every weekend around on later than 8am to them running on our wrap around porch. This drives me crazy, but I really don't know how to go about getting them to stop without being mean. I don't want to be mean at all, their Mom is a young single parent and I feel bad for her. I know that it must be hard to keep up with 3 kids that are so young, but it seems like she doesn't supervise them at all. Please if you have any advise let me know, it would be greatly appreciated!

His ex-girlfriends best friend works at a restaurant. This restaurant is also my fiances parents favorite restaurant. My fiance was deeply in love with the ex-girlfriend, wanted to marry her, but she broke it off. We went there for his moms birthday. This friend of his ex-girlfriend ended up being our waitress. My fiance looked at me and said to smile and make the best of it, which I did. Through the course of serving us, she asked where his parents lived. At almost the end, she said for all us to come back and celebrate our birthdays there and then asked my fiance and me when are anniversary was. She was mining for information to tell my fiances ex-girlfriend. My fiance said "We aren't married yet" in not too nice of a tone--maybe for her to tell her ex-girlfriend. She said that can be arranged, then his folks chimed in as well and said yes it can. My fiance was extra nice to her throughout the meal when she waited on us, thanking her etc. Also, through out the course of the meal, my fiance was staring at another waitresses booty every time she passed or waited on the table next to use (she had tight leggings on)...he does this all the time. Then he continually stared three young women that came in that sat at a booth together. He is always fascinated when a group of women share a booth together or maybe he sees two women at a table conversing and he will continue to look over at them. I said something to her about being older and wiser as to why we are waiting on marriage. They left a very nice tip for her. Then she noticed we got a discount for the birthday--$15.00. My fiance said she could keep it for noticing the discount. Did I hand this right by not reacting too much with the interchange between all of us. I tried to stay silent as it was a birthday for his mom. Although I did not care to share with this best friend of his ex-girlfriend our relationship status. I am rather private about those matters and why does she need to know this at all. He has a very bad roving eye. It's great when we are home, but not when we go out in public together, then it starts up. He likes to snap booty shots too of women unawares--no upskirts tho. It's a combo of the both the friend and fiance or it veered into that. I was in a very verbally abusive relationship before so I have very difficult time standing up for myself. I have a "huge" problem with his roving eye. I have talked to him about it in the past and told him to stop it. He is okay for a while, but then he starts up again. I was explaining here on yahoo, how our dinner went and in what order the events happened. I look like a fool next to him when his eyes rove, but I find it hard to stand up for myself and I don't want to make a scene at a restaurant or in a public place or with is parents there--but believe me, I'd like to and then storm off. The roving eye and the photo shoots of women's booty is why I am holding off on marriage. It is totally disrespectful.

Ok I'm 33 yrs old and I live at home. I know its not good so please don't tell me I should be ashamed I'm already ashamed of it enough. Ok my mother has been overprotective and worrier since I was little and hasn't really allowed to let me do a lot. Maybe times when I would be out with my friends she would often call me and want me to come home or demand to know what I'm doing and who I'm with and to help her anxiety I would often tell her or just come home so that I wouldn't have to deal with her anger and silnt treatments that she would often do. Sometimes if I didn't comply with her or come home when she wanted me to she would call my older brother who is kind of abusive and I'm afraid of him and he would pretty much tell me to go home and I did caus ei was scared of him and didn't want to cause my mom to cry. Well now I'm 33 I am in serious debt and I'm not independent at all. I fear that I may never be able to do things on my own because of my mother. She is emotionally dependent on me and often times emotionally manipulative to where I feel that if I move out which I very much want to do it would be like betraying my mother as she is very set on me getting married an dhaving children in the near coming future saying that I'm a loser and nothing if I don't do these things Its driving me insane, Im trying to survive in this world and she is making me crazy. I try to help her out as much as possible but we often get into arguments about the way I do things. help P.S. yes I'm a girl no I'm not a mommas boy because I'm a female