I just got home from picking up my sister at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

I just started a window cleaning company. Most of my customers have white carpet. I don't feel comfortable wearing my shoes inside. As I was wiping my shoes on the doormat on my last job my customer said "Oh, you can just take your shoes off." I would feel more comfortable always removing them. Would it be polite and acceptable to always remove them?

"You are a blessing in my life"

I've been hanging out with this guy at work and we were suppose to hang out for a bit afterwards, but his longtime friend came back home and it was her bday too so he kinda invited me to come hang out with them and wanted me to meet her but I had already met her once. I told him I was going to go to my friends house because I already told her I would and he was just kinda like aww, and told me to snapchat him. Does it all mean anything? Or did he just invite me to be nice?

She also previously told me that she would marry me if she ever gets a divorce. What do you think are her true intentions?

I am 28 years old and am a full time nanny for a couple who got burned by their previous nanny (who was borderline abusive with their kids). Because of their history, they asked (and I agreed) me to sign a form giving them rights to record security cameras in the house. The husband has tried to make advances at me for a while, and I've always brushed him off. Yesterday he offered me some wine with lunch, I didn't think much of it, and before I knew it, I gave in, and slept with him. This is NOT typical behavior for me, before then I'd only been with two men (both ex boyfriends), but I make no excuses. It was both unprofessional and morally wrong (married man). The problem was I didn't realize we were in a room the wife had a camera on, and even if I had I wouldn't have assumed she'd watch all the tape. But she saw this happen and the crud hit the fan. I'm fired (obvi) but she's also threatening to release the movie to embarrass her husband and me. Do I have any rights over this? She says I don't have a reasonable expectation of privacy cause I was in her home and knew she had security cameras....

She is 21 and a high school dropout. He beats her, hits her, and controls her. He doesn't love her. Why can't she understand? I hope he doesn't hit their 2 yr old daughter too. I mailed him an anonymous letter saying what a pos he is and I said my name is anonymous.

What do you do?

People at my job joke that the manager and I are father and daughter. He teases me sometimes, just to get me to smile or laugh. I push it with him too. I'm a little fresh when customers aren't around, but if he makes an angry face, known to me as "the face," I behave. If he says "please" I really am on this ice. One time he joked that I was grounded. We laughed I think he likes to play Dad, but sometimes he says I have to be his niece, not his daughter. It's funny.

Can you just text a girl and ask her to hang the day of if you've never been out on a date? My crush emails me constantly to hang out the day of and I reject him because I'm super busy or I haven't seen his email until much later in the day. Wish he gave me his number. Now he doesn't talk to me anymore because he probably assumes I have no interest in him. I've suggested the weekend when we're both free but of course that doesn't fly with him. I feel so guilty.

For my sons 6th bday, his father and I (who are not together) decided to take a family trip to a hotel resort. It was me, him, our 6 year old, and our 10 year old daughter (she s almost 11). Him and I have been seperated for a few years but we still do things once in awhile as a family, not only for the kids, but we are also really good friends. So at this hotel, there is a separate "room" where the kids sleep. It has no door, but is seperated from the rest of the room. Well, it s about 1a.m. and him and I decided to fool around. We we re very quiet! Although I did make an occasional soft moan or gasp. All of a sudden I hear "Mommy?" And my heart is in my throat! I nonchalantly say, "yes, dear?" And she insists I meet her in the bathroom. Once locked in this small space with my question riddled child, she asks me if me and daddy were "doing something". I very defensively spit out, "No! Daddy is in his bed and I am in mine." (He was on the sleeper sofa when they went to bed) She said she heard us and I said we were not doing anything, that we re just friends, and we were talking. She goes back to bed, and I start crying! Of course she knows I was lying! Not to mention the fact that it took me a minute to meet her in the bathroom because I had to get dressed around the corner! And my hair was a mess! I m freaking out! Will tomorrow bring more questions? What do I say? Helppp

The first guy David i've known him off & on for two years. He is 33 and I am 24. He has a daughter from a previous relationship. Him and the mom used to do drugs together and he recently got a job a few months ago but he seems to always be on the verge of losing his apartment. I like him and i told him that BUT he sent me this long meaningful text saying He loves me or at least he wants to be and how he always thinks of me whenever it comes to big decisions. He wants to be with me. He has a habit of disappearing for a week then popping back up. I got the vibe he is using again and lying to me. The other guy Ricky is 28 working with a good job only thing is he lives an hour away and wants to be exclusive with me. Im not shy and he is shy he hardly speaks whenever we hang out. I am stuck in a bind. What should I do? I am not a terrible person...

Verán, hace ya un tiempo salía con una chica aunque nunca llegamos a nada formal. La relación se puso algo tensa y al final quedamos solo como amigos. Poco después de eso, comenzamos a hablar en la madrugada sobre cosas algo calientes hasta que un día me dijo que quería fajar conmigo, cosa que hicimos. Después de eso por algunos motivos dejamos de hablarnos.... Pero hace poco retomamos eso y yo quisiera que se repitiera lo que paso aquella vez. ¿Qué debería hacer?

I ve always been a pretty likeable person. Im extremely eccentric, but people always love me for who I am. At least I thought. It seems like whenever I let someone come closer or dig deeper, they dont like what they see. I have a couple friends, but I m never as truly as honest as I want to be. Whenever I let my guard down with someone, they don t like what they see anymore. Is the key to happiness being phony and hiding your feelings?

He keeps asking me to hang out with him last minute all through email. I've suggested a hangout time and he ignored it. He'll wake up and email me to hang at night with him for drinks. I feel bad because I work on a mountainside with no reception so I see these emails later in the day or not until the very next day if I'm super busy. After rejecting him the for the 2nd time, he ignored my emails and hasn't emailed me back since. I apologized too. It's been 2 days and no respond to my email so I assume he's mad at me?

We been messing around for over a year and I really like him. We are actually both married but I m going through a divorce and he said he was unhappy. I guess you can say I was hurting so it was easy for me to fall for him. But recently we were texting and he said his wife was laying on him while he was texting me. Now this was the first time he really talked about her and once he said that I got instantly sick in the stomach. I m not liking myself because I m now realizing what I m doing and seeing him as just a man that s just going to cheat when opportunity presents itself. What should I tell him? Imnot used to ending things.

Hace unos años conoci a una chica pero vive en otra ciudad,hay quimica, en mi perfil de facebook, le daba me gusta a todo lo que ponia, platicamos algunas veces ella ni usa su facebook, sentia que le gustaba le pedi su numero de tel, y me lo dio pero siempre le escribo yo y ella nunca escribe. Ya van dos ocasiones que platicamos de viajes y me dice que va conmigo la primera vez, dijo que se le complicaba, luego dijo que quien sabe, la ultima fue que le dije que iba a viajar a su ciudad de vacaciones obvio pretexto para ver como reaccionaba y le gusto y dijo que haria un tour conmigo. Y me dijo que cuando lo hariamos le conteste y ya no respondio el mensaje. Al siguiente día puse algo en facebook y puso que le gustaba. Que onda ¿Por que no responde? Esta jugando, se hace la interesante. Ya me canse de escribirle y ella parece que si le gusto. Pero me cala que nunca me escriba o que ya no conteste. NOTA. No soy ostigoso casi no le escribo, no creo que sea por ahi... Cuando dejo de buscarla pongo algo en las redes sociales u reacciona...

Ok I'm a college student and there are a group of college girls there also at my church. Once a week about 30 of us get together for bible study. There are these two idenitcal twins that attend and one always comes up and speaks to me at church and every time she sees me. She always comes up to me and starts a conversation with me and she always compliments me on features such as my eyes.I also overheard her tell her friends that she wants kids one day, also I'm 22 and she is 19

Would it shoot some kind of plasma weapon at it? Only room for ONE sun here, buddy!