Family: Question: Am i wrong for feeling like I've got enemies?

Question: Am i wrong for feeling like I've got enemies?

Posted: 17 May 2017 01:27 PM PDT

I don't even acknowledge the situations but my dads family disowned me for being mixed my dad is an asshole to my mom and I. My moms family doesn't really mess with me like they did in the early 2000's. Older women who broke my heart. I've been women's side guy before. People who make racist comments at me. But I got God and my few but real friends. I just need a wifey. I'm almost 18. I'm lonely angst depressed

Question: How can i earn the respect of my grandma and my mom?

Posted: 17 May 2017 01:15 PM PDT

I am 18 and my mom and I just got evicted. we had to move in with my grandma.they think i am lazy and stupid. also i asked them if we could do groceries and they both said no. i am going to get a job but they dont pay much. i have to buy some stuff i can not buy myself food. what should i do? they cant acleast buy me a few snacks and stuff.

Question: My sister is pregnant what should I do ?

Posted: 17 May 2017 01:10 PM PDT

My 14 year old sister told me she's pregnant. The scariest part is the father is a 71 year old prisoner. He's been in and out of jail for murdering someone he's been there for 50 years I don't know how or w. They've only been together for 3 months. He don't look he's that age but he said he works out and doesn't eat much. She has him come over a lot. They had sex a few times now she's pregnant. Our parents are dead it's just me and her our oldest sister moved out.im really scared she said she's not killing or giving her baby away she hates it when people do that she hope she'll never have to go through that. One of my older sisters friends got pregnant at 13-14 she has two little girls now. How can I help my sister through this ?

Question: Child screams whenever she is in a car and screams curses!!!?

Posted: 17 May 2017 01:01 PM PDT

Recently, my sister has asked me to start watching her almost 2 year old daughter because she says she "cant deal with her anymore" she drops her off in the morning and comes back around night. I know that my sister is not well with asthma and she is extremely bipolar and as far as i know she doesnt have a stable relationship. Doesnt know who the father of her daughter is while she has 3 other boys all from different dads. The thing is her daughter whenever we go near the car she starts screaming so loudly thats its deafing and she will do it the entire time in the car intil we are out. We will go out to a restaurant with me and a friend and she sat there in the restaurant screaming and also she screams swear words! like b*tch, f*ck, f*cking, etc over and over again. I asked my sister how she knows them and wont answer me. I want to call CPS but she is also my sister and i dont know what to do, i just knke that this isnt normal. Please help me

Question: How to connect with someone you aren't like?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:56 PM PDT

My mom and I have no connection. We are two totally different people and we just met about six months ago so there aren't even memories we can bond over. I want to have a good relationship but we just clash. What do i do?

Question: Girls .... SEXUAL problems (help)?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:36 PM PDT

I'm having a lot of trouble and difficulty because I'm 19, and so at a very hormonal age. But due to a dirt bike accident I had when I was 16, I am medically unable to have sex. I needed surgery and no longer have a penis (not to shock anyone, but seriously). But I am still attractive and very attracted to girls, and went on a date the other night. I could tell the girl wanted sex though, which got me so nervous. I often think back to the very nice feelings that I got from imagining girls and rubbing myself, and I cannot feel like that anymore. I at least want to make a girl feel good though. But I'm frustrated, because I still have lots of hormones at my age, but no way to channel that. And I feel jealous watching people have sex in movies, porn, etc. Surgery to correct this is simply NOT an option, so: 1. How will girls react, to seeing my 'situation'? 2. How important is a penis, to girls? Honestly? 3. Why do my testicles ache so much when I'm around pretty girls now? (They didn't used to hurt so much)? 4. What will future girlfriend honestly want? Will I have to do extra, or even let them see another guy for sex? 5. I get jealous watching sexual pleasure in movies now. I really miss how things felt before the accident, but do you think I'll ever be able to "bust" again? Or feel that same pleasure and orgasm I miss? Please, these are serious questions I have (but be honest too)

Question: I need help psychic or future seeing?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:08 PM PDT

i want to know what are the winning numbers for the powerball tonight i really need to win i know one day im going to win and i also have some problems in my life my mom is in a forced relationship with my step dad and he always yells at everyone including my step brother and step sister and my real dad is in debt also my aunt lost her job. i really want to help everyone and of course i would share my winnings and give to some charities i do have a little autism in me so i give some to disability and the homeless please i really just want to help everyone and travel GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Question: What's the closest family you can get accept from parents and siblings ?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:08 PM PDT

Question: My parents are giving me horrible anxiety that's holding me back. How can I keep this from getting to me?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:56 AM PDT

So, my parents are going to meet my boyfriend in a few days here, and I'm really nervous about it. My parents are very critical and twice as overbearing, so I'm a little worried. The problem is, I'm thinking about what my parents have said so much, I'm starting to think there is a problem with my boyfriend. I know there isn't a problem, but I can't stop thinking there is. They've done this my whole life. Made me so anxious to the point where I end up holding myself back. Like "I shouldn't get in the car with you because my parents say we'll get in a crash and die" and stuff, you know? My mother said so me that I shouldn't get too invested in the relationship because we probably won't last forever and I'm going to get hurt. Before she even met him. My entire life, they've filled me with their opinions in a really manipulative way where I think they're my own, then I have anxiety about everything I do. I'm so tired of living through the fear that my parents have instilled in me. It's so much harder than just not caring about what they say. I can't live like this. I've tried talking to them, but they are both very manipulative, and they ALWAYS make me think they're doing the right thing and I'm just acting irrational. I DO feel irrational, but I don't think I'm necessarily wrong here. Maybe I'm just being immature, but this is really holding me back. What can I do to try to keep my parents' worries and anxieties from continuing to rule my life? 1) I'm 20 2) I don't live with my parents. I still keep in contact with them, though.

Question: I m adopted and hate my parents.. anyone else?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:50 AM PDT

I was adopted from birth, I ve lived with my parents and siblings my whole life and have never known anything different. I love them all to death, but we re just SO SO different, despite growing up the same way. I just have a completely different personality and worldview than everyone else in my family, it s like something that I was born with.. I don t know how to explain it. Anyways, I really don t get along with my parents and it s putting a strain on our relationship and I feel bad. Anyone else?

Question: I have a niece who has three daughters. I know her daughters are my son's second cousins, but what are my nieces children to ME?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:48 AM PDT

Question: My mom makes me feel guilty for having a social life?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:37 AM PDT

I have a sister who does not have friends or a social life and everytime I hang with friends (which is not super often but will be more because the summer months) she says things like You always go out, or be with your sister. It makes me feel selfish which I m not????

Question: Are you like "awww"?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:26 AM PDT

Question: I was really mean to my sister?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:15 AM PDT

hi well i had an argument with my older sister (which happens sooo often lately, we fight almost every day) and after some time it was just annoying me and you have to know i get frustrated very quickly and say things that i actually dont mean when i argue with others. so i wanted to end this stupid argument and finally go and do something else... i was really angry and said "gosh why cant you just die?" then my sister became silent and she looked like she was about to cry. i started to feel bad and told her that im sorry and didnt mean to say that but she just left the room and doesnt say a single word to me anymore? help what should i do now?? im 13 (guy) and shes 16 btw

Question: Am I being unreasonable?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:05 AM PDT

My boyfriend and I are going to be having a baby in 5 months and I will be moving into the house that he owns. The problem- His parents have been living with him for almost 2 years because they were evicted from their house for not paying bills. To make a long story short the mother likes to buy expensive things and is a bit of a hoarder because they have been poor for quite some time. My boyfriend had let them live with him so they could get back on their feet but they have basically taken over his house. He was okay with it because he was a single dad and has a 3 bedroom house. (His mom also had gotten in a fight with the dad and moved the young son out of his bedroom and into the master bedroom with my boyfriend. So that each of his parents has their own room and he has to share with his son in HIS house.) I digress, after my boyfriend told her and his dad that they have 3 months to save money and find somewhere else to live. The dad was fine with it but the mom threw a fit & cries every time she sees my boyfriend at the house. They have already requested to keep a bunch of their things which we told them no, because we have to start building our family and have our own things (also it would be a pain in the a** to take care of an 80 gallon fish tank). They have 2 weeks left before they have to be moved out and they are just starting to pack small boxes. Is it too much to say we will throw whatever they leave behind away? (which will just cost more $ for us)

Question: Why the **** my 13 year old sister havin sex?

Posted: 17 May 2017 11:04 AM PDT

So my parents were out for the night at a party thing or some ****, and they left me in charge. I am 16 btw. My parents said that her little friend, lets call him Matthew was coming over for a sleepover.A little backstory, he is basically my moms friends son. (They have known eachother over 9 years). So at like 6pm he comes and they go into the room and are just playing minecraft or some ****. Now it is 10pm, I told them to be in bed by 1am because you know, I'm the "cool sister". Yes they both are homeschooled, so its not like they have school in the morning. Anyways I start hearing a bed creaking and I'm honestly just like "tf?". So I'm laying in bed working on homework and I basically hear my little sister and her friend having sex. She. Is. THIRTEEN. Why? Why why why why why. Should I tell my parents? What do? Help? Help?! It lasted atleast 20 minutes and I was so ******* mortified I didn't want to walk in because. you know. His parents as well are at the party so I can't call them to come pick him up. What the **** do I do? Help!

Question: My parents are gone and I drank a shot of whiskey and smoked their Cuban cigars, am I going to die? I feel uneasy.?

Posted: 17 May 2017 10:44 AM PDT

Question: I can't call my dad "dad" ???

Posted: 17 May 2017 10:19 AM PDT

Ever since I was 6 I remeber never being able to call my father "dad" or "daddy" We've never had an affectionate relationship till this day. I'm in my 30s. He indirectly complains about it by being rude to me when I talk to him without using the title. I cannot stomach the words coming out of my mouth because it's extremely uncomfortable and almost makes me angry. Any advice?

Question: Is it ok to not have children?

Posted: 17 May 2017 09:37 AM PDT

Question: Why is my mom always so mad at me?

Posted: 17 May 2017 09:34 AM PDT

i'm a 17 year old girl, and i am not trying to be vain, but i consider myself a very kind and gentle person. my mom is always mad at me for some reason, and everything i do makes her mad. right now i failed my drivers test, but i studies super hard for it. i was very nervous which i think made be do worse. i want to take it again tomorrow but my mom won't take me. she says i am always failing at life and that everyone else's kids are better. but aside from the driving, i do very well in school and work hard in everything. my mom is constantly mad at me. all she does is judge me and point out my flaws. i have tried talking to her calmly but this just makes her more mad. she complains all the time. i know she is straased but she takes all her anger out on me. my brother is 6 and my sister is 15. they don't work hard and all they do is watch tv. all i do is read. but my mom never gets mad at them and feels guilty if she does. she never feels bad for getting mad at me. even if i go to harvard or become president i am never good enough in her eyes. what should i do??

Question: How can I get my daughter's high school to do the right thing?

Posted: 17 May 2017 09:20 AM PDT

My daughter is graduating from high school. She took a multiple choice test in one of her classes. After she got her grade we were reviewing the test and found one of the questions with NO correct answer. If that question were not in the test her grade for the course would be high enough that she qualified for a college scholarship. We went to the school to asked that she get a new grade on the test after throwing out the question that did not have a correct answer. Both the teacher and the principal refused. They told us that once a grade is recorded, it can not be changed for ANY reason. We are considering our options. We are talking about a LOT OF SCHOLARSHIP MONEY riding on the outcome of this. Here are some of the things we are thinking about. Post the whole story on YOUTUBE and hope it will go viral and change the schools mine about changing the grade. OR Contacting the local newspaper and TV stations to see if they will give this some publicity. OR Contacting other parents whose children may have been victims of the same test. OR Suing the school board. Any advice on how to proceed will be greatly appreciated.

Question: Should i get a job that offers 30 hours a week if my mom is threatening to leave me homeless if i dont get. I already work 12 hours a week.?

Posted: 17 May 2017 09:12 AM PDT

Question: My dad said never date a woman with kids. But my mom had kids (ME) when he married her. Why he say this?

Posted: 17 May 2017 08:06 AM PDT

They got married when my mom was 27 and he was 31. My mom already had me when they met, and I was 10. I thought he liked me. Until today when I was talking to him about girls (I'm 19 now) and he said this to me. When I challenged him on it, he said it was a lot of hassle to come into a situation where there's already a kid. Also one who's not far from being a teenager and has a bad attitude and rude. Then he backtracked, saying it worked out okay and he "changed my attitude" so I wasn't bad as a teenager. He said he still would have had an easier time with a woman without kids and there were a lot of them he could have chosen. I've never heard him talk like this. Wtf is wrong with him? I'm mad about this and on the verge of telling my mom. He's treated me like his son all these years, treated me no different to my 2 little sisters and then he says things like this to me at age 19.

Question: Was I wrong?

Posted: 17 May 2017 07:43 AM PDT

I was at a club with my friends. I was having a conversation with one of my male friends and this woman that he is supposedly seeing walked over and started to talking to us. I barely know her but I speak when I see her around. I shook it off and didn't take it personal at the time. The next day after talking to a friend about it she agreed with me when i said it was a little rude. I put a status on fb saying that I didn't like it when people interrupted my conversations that them and the person that allowed them to do it is likely to get cussed out. I was talking about that situation but was just venting on fb. About a week later at another party I noticed that she was avoiding me. I went to speak to her and she just walked away. At the end of the night I walked up and was just standing next to. She turned to me and said hey, so what's up with that message you put on fb about interrupting your conversation. I was caught off guard but I got a little loud and said that it was rude. She said why are you so loud. My guy friend came over and said what's going on and pulled me away. He walked me to my car and said he was going to keep his distance from me because I was starting mess but I told him that it was her who started it. Was I the one in the wrong here? She started it by bringing it up.

Question: Should I tell my dad I got my belly button pierced before my sister does?

Posted: 17 May 2017 07:33 AM PDT

My sister knows our mom pierced my belly button last month when we were staying with her and she recently got in a lot trouble with our dad after he caught her hiding something from him he didn't want her to have. I have a feeling she's going to rat me out about my belly button ring just so she's not the only one in trouble because that's just how she is. Should I fess up to my dad before my sister does? I know he won't be happy and might even make me take it out.because he hates piercings. He'll probably figure out my mom was the one who pierced me too since she used to do piercings for a living. I'm also worried it will put them at odds again and they've been on friendly terms for a while now.

Question: What should I do about my sister in law who hates me?

Posted: 17 May 2017 06:37 AM PDT

My sister in law(sil) use to like me and we got along very well. It wasn't till last year right before the Fourth of July she started to hate me. My husband said we could go to my family's for the holiday because we never have. Well the day before he started to get upset and said he wanted to go to his family. I got upset and told him how we always go to his familes for every holiday and he knew it was true and promised me Christmas. I said whatever thinking the problem was gone. Then I received two messages one from his mom and one from his sister telling me how awful of a person I am to take him from his family or even try and that I'm worthless and I don't love him and a lot of other hurtful stuff... I didn't respond because they obviously didn't know the entire story they just knew what my husband told them out of anger. Well it's been a year now and the mom got over it and moved on because she got her way and always does but the sister has always called me mean things to my face and behind my back and she makes other people in his family not like me either and I want it to stop. I care what his family thinks about me and we are about to renew our vowels and I'm not looking forward to seeing them there if they even go and they aren't happy to be going. I don't know if I should talk to her and tell her I'm sorry if I hurt her or if I should keep my mouth shut? She's making life around his family uncomfortable and I don't wanna feel this way anymore

Question: Ever since my great nephew was little he has been extremely hard to deal with. He is the 2nd child out of 5 and became such a danger that?

Posted: 17 May 2017 05:56 AM PDT

my niece and my sister have sent him back and forth between them since he was 7. He is 14 now and my niece was to the point of putting him in a mental hospital or calling them police on him. My sister decided to permanently keep him (which has caused major problems in her home life but that's another story). I would never let him come over because he was always mean to my son. Hitting him, breaking his stuff and just not a behaved child. In the past he has chased his siblings with a knife, pushed his baby sister down the stairs, and hung his younger brother out of the car window. He is in therapy, and on medication, but it doesn't seem to help. Currently he staying with my Mom, who lives next door, because my sister is now in the hospital with high blood pressure from stress. My son is 16 and was trying to play with him and be nice to him b/c we all feel sorry for his situation of being bounced back and forth his whole life. While playing basketball, my son said all of the sudden his cousin threw the ball extremely hard and hit him in his chest. He also told me that when he was trying to turn his video game on that his cousin grabbed the controls and messed it all up to where he had to turn it back off and start all over again. Another thing I have noticed is that my nephew's voice is strange now....like an overly sweet tone that just sounds fake. I am wonde if this is something that was learned in therapy in an attempt to try and fool others he has empathy. Suggestions?

Question: Can I marry my grandmother's sister's son?

Posted: 17 May 2017 05:43 AM PDT

I have only so much to say. But most importantly, Can i?

Question: Freeloading aunt won't leave?

Posted: 17 May 2017 05:02 AM PDT

Almost 8 weeks ago my aunt (on my deceased father's side) had asked if she could stay with us for a week. She used to live at her partner's house, but she had died and her partner's family kicked her out. She had been living in her car for a while. My mum and I live in a 2 bedroom apartment and my brother had started living with us a couple weeks prior to her. After the first week, she had asked if she could stay another week. She hasn't asked since and wouldn't ever say anything about leaving. This morning my mum had asked her if she heard anything back from Disability and she said she got denied and was going to get a lawyer to see if she could get social security. That could take a couple of more months or even years to get, and she isn't actively searching for a new, better paying job. What are we supposed to do? How do we get her to leave?

Question: My girlfriend doesn't want to have children ?

Posted: 17 May 2017 04:52 AM PDT

My girlfriend is 21 years old and I am 20 , I always wanted to have kids and I told her , I do love her a lot but I want to have a family with her . She doesn't want children she keeps telling me she rather work than stay at home mom , she also loves her 3 dogs which is weird for me . She refuse to live with me since I told her i want to have family with her and only want 1 dog not three she got mad . How can I encourage her to have kids ? She also tells me she is young , not want to rush , want to have job etc instead of being like a normal woman .

Question: Plese help. its my life?

Posted: 17 May 2017 04:52 AM PDT

I am a screw up. And an idiot. I'll start from the beginning: So I am online schooled because I train professionally as a ballerina. I don't want to give out too much info about my life. But anyways, I finished my year's math early. My mom and I decided that I should start the next year's math early. Not knowing what would come next I started it. 7 assignments of math a day!! Each of them take me like 2-3 hours. It would be fine if I didn't have piano or ballet class. But I do. I wasn't able to catch up easily at all. It was very difficult catching up. Yesterday the course ended for me. I had 3 final exams left and a practice test. Now I can't take it. I feel like I messed up really bad. I did slack a bit and it is my fault. But to be honest, I am depressed about what happened. It may seem like nothing, but to me grades are more important to me. On top of that my mom and dad are very extremely disappointed at me. And I am not complaining because I know what I did is unforgivable. Please help. I really need someone to help me.

Question: Boyfriends parents seem annoyed at me?

Posted: 17 May 2017 04:45 AM PDT

Me and my boyfriend are 21. We've been together 3 years and have saved 20,000 for a house deposit. We are still planning to save more in the next 2 years. He got a new van 2 years ago and wanted another one. It was 23,000. His parents said that they would lend him the money. I said he could get the van as it would be his money but I said to him that I find it rediculous as we are saving together! In the end he decided to not get the van. Ever since his parents have been strange with me. When I came over they shut the living room door. I took that as I sign they didn't wish to speak to me so went straight upstairs. When I came over the 2nd time no one was in. So we went upstairs. His mum came back from somewhere and shouted up the stairs 'hi (and then said my boyfriends name). My shoes would have been by the door when she came in. My boyfriend asked if I would like to go down and say hi, I would have liked to but I feel like his parents are being off with me for just having an opinion about our future. The longer this goes on the more I am worried about it. It's gone on for 3 weeks now. Usually we cannot escape his parents as they are so involved and so talkative and follow us upstairs. It doesn't seem right

Question: I want to change a head stone. everything was grand and the family were fine with it and had no problem as my mom is buried there.?

Posted: 17 May 2017 04:31 AM PDT

I want to make it nice as the stone is there for over 100 years. and no room for names. now all of a sudden the 2 family members don't want it touched. they didn't buy the plot my dad did. I have saved up hard for this and looked at head stoned and have it all picked out and I showed it too the family and they were happy with it, I'm very upset and mad. have I a right to be. I'm only 25 and have worked day and night for this.

Question: I think I'm a bad son and a bad brother.?

Posted: 17 May 2017 03:35 AM PDT

Hi guys, I'm 14, my mom, she loves me, and I love her too. I'm now in my tough days and I get really depressed hours ago, that I punch my little sister. I really regret it and I swear and swear to my mom and I regret it. And now, shw dowsnt speak to me. I think Im evil, I cant stop crying and prayong to god that I'm sorry and I know everything is gonna be fine. Any tips?

Question: Teenager wants to be a child not a adult.?

Posted: 17 May 2017 03:31 AM PDT

My brother is 15 he cries all the time when he hear that he will be an adult in 3 years he freaks out. I'm 17

Question: My sister is a hypocrite !!?

Posted: 17 May 2017 03:22 AM PDT

She hears about my hoe tragic drunken behavior and judges me, even though she does the exact same things (and worse ) why does she think she can do all that stuff but I'm ratchet if I do. Seems ******* hypocritical

Question: Why is my child rebeling?!?

Posted: 17 May 2017 03:22 AM PDT

So my daughter Samantha is 14 and she is turning 15 next weekend. I had a surprise party planned for her but I doubt she'd appreciate it.. she doesn't seem to appreciate anything anymore.. yesterday I told her I would take her to that wet shark place to get some pretty clothes but she wants to go to hot topics and look like a complete goth, she's also been begging me to let her get a septum piercing for her birthday, nooooot happening. Anyway, she's been sneaking around a lot with friends and I've even caught her with a boy in her room when I left her alone at the house so that I could go shopping with a friend, of course I invited her but she said that my friend and I were "ratchet" and she wanted to stay home.. so I let her. All of a sudden I come home heading for her room to bring her some Chinese I brought home and then when I open the door I see this kid with a septum ring and lip ring sitting there with no shirt on, and this horrid music blasting.. when he left I had asked her about it and she said it was called "Blood On The Dance Floor" and it was so inappropriate i told her how upset i was. I try to tell her it's a faze but she tries so hard to convince it's not. Oh and I need to mention this, which is why I'm considering on taking away her birthday party and she could sit home and do nothing, she used my credit card and bought $145 worth of makeup.. the creator was called Jefree Star or something.. she also bought shirts from Spencer's, one says "O** donor" advice?

Question: My mom is spending the rent $?

Posted: 17 May 2017 02:03 AM PDT

My mom can't work because she's disabled and my sister and I help her out on rent and lights. We give her $500 a month. My mom has not paid the rent not the light bill. She has taken the money blowing it on herself. I know we will be out for eviction next month now I have to find somewhere for me and my kids to be. My mom doesn't care if the lights get cut off on my kids not if we get put out. I don't want her to have anything to do with me and my kids at this point Do you think I give a foh about how my mom feels right now. She blew $400 on herself. I'm not obligated to clean up her mess. She said she does not care of my kids and us get put out. She does not care if the lights get cut off - she's use to hear. Told me yesterday she's not obligated to tell us - me and my sister what's going on with the bills when we are the ones paying it. I am done with my mother. I am done with her house. She loses her home that's her problem. I am a single mother of 3 with a set income. I can't afford to blow bill money. Unlike her she has no responsibility because two people are taking care of her- me and my sister. Than turns around and asks me to ask my school to help her find somewhere to stay. She must be ******* crazy!! What income doofus? She has 0 income and ruled disabled I can assure you when I find a new home she won't be there. I wish her the best of luck

Question: Brother saw me naked?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:43 AM PDT

So to start off I'm 15 and my bother is 22, earlier I was taking a long shower, once I got out my brother came back and he didn't know I took a shower and went into the bathroom while I was still in there and saw me, so of course I yelled at him and covered up and he ran out, after I got my clothes back on I was gonna go out there and apologize for yelling because he didn't know I was in there but I backed out last second because it was awkward. What do I do, should I talk to him and apologize or not? He saw me naked which makes me feel really weird so I still don't want to talk to him.

Question: My dad blows everything out of proportion, Dealing with an over dramatic parent?

Posted: 17 May 2017 12:11 AM PDT

There has been so many occasions where my dad has blown something way out of proportion. Like just today he started yelling at me because I used his towel to get my towel since I forgot it after I took a shower, but I soon returned it to him. He started getting super defensive and saying he was going to cut my allowance if it happened again. I even asked him why it's such a big deal to him and he kept saying "because it is." There was also this other time when he brought this leaf into the house since it was stuck to his shoe and I told him about the leaf and he said ill pick it up later so I just jokingly put it in his shoe and he got extremely mad. Like he was yelling at me at the top of his lungs and everything. These scenarios make zero sense (srry about that) but that's what happens in this household. Any advice on dealing with a parent like this or why he does this?

Question: Would it be weird if I dated my cousin? Hear me out...?

Posted: 16 May 2017 10:17 PM PDT

Im 27 male, my cuz is 23. We are like super tight. hes a good friend you know but i have liked her and she has liked me for a while. She actually has said wish we werent cousins to me before..i didnt say anything but i wanted to...i love her a lot and am very attracted too... The only problem is how society sees it as wrong and our parents probably wont agree being that our moms are sisters but we are all cousins if you think about it. We are all brothers and sisters. Like im related to you reading this.. Shes a good friend*******************

Question: Is my mom's cousin's son my cousin?

Posted: 16 May 2017 10:14 PM PDT

Question: What can I do?

Posted: 16 May 2017 10:04 PM PDT

My mother died when I was 13, I live with my father now and he's emotionally abusive. He buys me everything I need but we don't have a realationship at all. He'll say I'll never get anywhere in life, and constantly calls me names. He gets drunk every night and goes to the bar and stays out late every night. I know he's not gonna change, I just need some help coping with how I can live with him. Any advice?

Question: Sooo.. I Have A Serious Question Please No Trolls?

Posted: 16 May 2017 09:43 PM PDT

So I Wanna Move To New York City To Chase My Dreams Im 15 Im About To Be 16 In A Couple Of Months And i Wanna Move To New York City Cause I Wanna Be A Model For IMG Models Im Willing To Put In The Work I Really Am!!!! And I Could Stay At My Grandmas House And My Grandma Said Its Fine But My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Go Last Year When I Was Like Dying To Go I Was 14 So Last Year She Used Excuses Like "She'll Be Gone All The Time" And Your Just Too Young I Believe In Myself I Really Believe I Can Do This And To Be Honest The Person That Really Made Me Believe In Myself Is Kanye West Even Tho i Dont Know Him But He Has Said Stuff Like "You Can Do Anything You Wanna Do" Or NEVER Give Up On Your Dreams And Please Dont Say "Just Wait Till Your 18". No i Wanna Do this Now I dont Really Think She Believes In My Greatness And Since ill be 16 i Could Finally Stay Home Alone Mulitple Days So My Question Is How Do i Convince Her In Letting Me Go and Please Dont Comment About My Grammar I Know Its Bad im Working on Improving It

Question: What is the best way of handling this with my sister who has special needs?

Posted: 16 May 2017 08:49 PM PDT

My youngest sister is special and only has one really good friend. Most of the times when she starts texting people she keeps texting them until they either reply or get mad and tell her to stop messaging. I feel horrible and I have tied to explain numerous times that sometimes people don't reply or they are busy but it doesn't look like she understands. Perhaps she is needy. How do I handle this and what should I do that she stops this behavior? Thank you

Question: I want honest answers please?

Posted: 16 May 2017 08:07 PM PDT

Is it ok that I want to see my stepsister naked. She is older then me and she is my moms daughter and both my parents are my real parents. How would I ask her

Question: Can my parents monitor my phone and other tech?

Posted: 16 May 2017 08:03 PM PDT

1. My father is acting very rash, and absurd. he has decided that since my sister exposes her personal life too publicly on social media, I do too. he has decided I , and her, can no longer go on any social media. I think he'll cool down in a few days, weeks or months. Will he? I mean, he had me reset my settings on my iphone, saying that now he'll be able to find out if I go on any social media. is this true? My dad isn't the type of person to spend money on anything like a monitoring... app or whatever. He just has this frontier security thing. he went on my tablet too, and did something. I wasn't interested in watching him. do you think it's possible for me to stop him from being able to invade my privacy, and prevent him from tracking my whereabouts online. Really, all I freakin do is post my crappy artwork. He's all like "you just do it for the likes1!111!!" . If I did, I might as well have bought my likes, and posted things people actually like. Anyway, any answers are appreciated, GREATLY. I have an iphone 5, a laptop, and a tablet.

Question: Is my dad being inappropriate with me?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:46 PM PDT

I'm 15 and my dad sometimes rubs and squeezes my thighs. Sometimes he puts his hand under my shirt and rubs my back up and down slowly. When I was in the hospital one time and he was checking my infection i was wearing a tank top with no bra and he was checking under my arm and he moved my shirt and my boob pooped out and he saw it and all the sudden he was like oh sorry I didn't mean to and he was embarrassed. Also sometimes he comes in my room and asks if he can come in bed with me and sleep with me. Do you thinkmy dad being inappropriate with me and if you think so why?

Question: My mom is always putting me down?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:38 PM PDT

Me and my mom don t really get along. She is always putting me down by saying that I m a slut because I m always on the internet (which in most cases, just watching youtube videos and chatting with my FEMALE friends and playing games) but she thinks I talk to men. She never believes me when I m in a tough situation. She always believes someone else before me and when I try to help, she tells me I m slow and I can t do anything. She also says this in front of my aunts and cousins, my siblings and everyone starts laughing at me and sometimes they agree and I just run inside the bathroom and start crying. I have so many thoughts about how much I really hate my mom. Then, the next day everything is fine. Until she screws it up again and I get those feelings again. I know I love my mom, but her constantly bringing me down and calling me all these names and me running into the bathroom so many times to cry to myself for at least 30 minutes everyday. It s just too much. I m only 14 years old and I don t think I deserve this. I ve heard of emotional abuse but this is just crazy! I m typing while locked in my room because she just put me down right now. I was helping my brother study and when he was goofing around, I just hit him with the paper on the head and he ran away to my mom and she called me all these harsh and terrible words. I don t know what to do anymore. It s gotten to the point where I might have feelings of suicide. Can someone help me? Sorry if this was loooong! xD

Question: Why does my mom expect me to grow up when she doesn't even LET me grow up?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:33 PM PDT

I'm 16, almost 17 years old (and I'm a guy); I'm not gonna even mention my ethnicity as trolls will come in and use it as an excuse not to help me with my problem. My parents, especially my mom, expects me to grow up; learn how to cook, learn how to put dished away, etc (I know how to do all these things, but when I cut a little bit more food for my dog than I was supposed to, she said "you need to stop cutting like a child and grow up" and she lectured me for no ******* reason) I don't care anymore; I just can't wait until I'm 18 and if they try to stop me from doing anything, I can just call the cops on them. Right now, I'm 16, no driver's license and annoying-*** parents who are always on my case, as well as friends who don't even acknowledge my existence sometimes. So she expects me to grow up when she doesn't even allow me to take Driver's Ed until I'm 18, she doesn't let me hang out with African American people (because she despises black people for some reason), she doesn't let me get a part-time job, and she wants me to live with her forever. She legit doesn't want me to move out when I'm 18. When the **** is she going to let me learn to drive? I really need my license because it's a milestone if I get one and it's part of life. Why won't she let me get a part-time job when I need to save up for college? I'm in 11th grade for Christ's sake! She's telling me to grow up, yet she's being racist about everyone I hang out with. The hell?

Question: Should daughters move out of the house at age 13 so that their fathers do not get lustful thoughts?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:28 PM PDT

Question: Are we making enough?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:26 PM PDT

dad makes 85k before taxes. mom doesn't work. 3 kids, one 16 one 13 and one 4. my dad already payed off his 70k college debt in 6 years, and his car. Are we making enough to afford things such as a vacation, a new iPhone every year, a new car etc?

Question: I feel like my parents care more about money than me ?

Posted: 16 May 2017 07:08 PM PDT

Question: My dad is seeing a woman secretly but i know about it. i hate her because before when they were married, her son touched me innapropriately?

Posted: 16 May 2017 06:37 PM PDT

my dad didnt care that he had touched me, he belived her son. now hes secretly seeing her again and he never got a divorce with her. i found out and now i dont know what to do. please help

Question: Passive aggressive stepmom.?

Posted: 16 May 2017 06:23 PM PDT

I m 24 years​ old & sick. My dad has never been around when I was a kid, he told me if I wanted to go back to school he would help me. My dad met a woman almost a year ago. At first it was fine. She has a 30 year old son who dropped out of college, and spent the last 4 years living with his mom doing nothing.He has had one job about 6 months ago and lasted​ 2 months before walking out And how he has another job for one month. I m a full time college student, I worked up until fall. I don t ask for money. My dad pays my phone and car insurance, But I use my school money and what I saved from working for everything else. My step brother "borrows" money all the time for fast food, cigarettes, and his phone. This past year I have had a emergency surgery, 3 procedures when I was put under anesthesia, started hormonal chemotherapy, I still kept my grades up, went to class (even in a wheelchair) and passed every class. I have just finished finals about a week ago, and I have been applying to summer jobs. Yet all week my stepmom has been super passive aggressive towards me. Today she told me I didn t deserve any dinner and the two peices of chicken strips I was going to eat should be put on the plate she already made for my step brother. Or telling me I need to "get over being sick and learning to just deal with it" like I m not dealing not & didn t fight all year to go to school even the day after surgery. What do I deal with a person like this? Her son "does no wrong"

Question: My father is an alcoholic and won't stop even though he knows it upsets me. Why does he do this? Does he not love us kids?

Posted: 16 May 2017 06:21 PM PDT

My mother even left him due to it and she says he doesn't love us or he would have gotten help. She says he picked alcohol over me. Is she right? It hurts to hear this but I am scared she might be right that he simply doesn't love us.

Question: My sister likes to demand and our parents always cave to her demands. She is 23. Is this immature or normal at 23?

Posted: 16 May 2017 06:21 PM PDT

Our parents, mainly our mother, are the kings of enablers.

Question: Am I a bad person? I hate my parents for giving birth to me because they're poor and I had a rough life. So I cut all communication?

Posted: 16 May 2017 06:07 PM PDT

I wore second hand clothes all of my life until i got a part time job at 14 years old washing dishes. I was always jealous that other kids had things I couldn't afford and it made me jealous/angry/depressed. I was suicidal since age 16. I wish I could have gone to college but couldn't afford it. I worked and saved my money. Moved out, changed phone number, and didn't tell them where I live now. My mom showed up at my job and said she wanted to have lunch so I refused and she almost cried and said to not forget her. I blame my parents for all the suffering I endured tho. Everything I have i worked for and was given not one thing by my parents, not even good advice.

Question: Un problema con mi primo, ayuda? Sin juzgar ni ofensas, necesito ayuda?

Posted: 16 May 2017 05:55 PM PDT

Mi primo y yo somos muy unidos y la verdad lo aprecio más que a nada. Y necesito ayuda con algo que paso recientemente. Estábamos en el cuarto de sus padres con la puerta cerrada, acostados mientras nos abrazábamos (solo era un abrazo, no hicimos nada más) Entonces escuchamos venir a su papá y el fue a abrir justo cuando entró. Nos vio algo raro y le pidió a mi primo que le dijera qué hacíamos en su cuarto y el le dijo que solo hablábamos, pero el creyó que estábamos haciendo algo mas (algo malo, sexual o cosas así) y así hasta que lo convenció de que solo hablábamos. Ya estando solos me dijo que deberíamos dejar de vernos por unas tres semanas. Pero yo creo que es mala idea porque siento que su padre podría pensar que estábamos haciendo algo malo y que por eso dejamos de vernos. ¿Creen que debamos dejar de vernos un tiempo o que es mejor seguir como si nada? Por favor, necesito ayuda urgente! :(

Question: Should my parents give me back my phone to do homework with it?

Posted: 16 May 2017 05:16 PM PDT

So my parents took my phone. They took it because I have a lot of late work in health class. I can't do any of the work without it. I took pictures of the book on it because we can't take the book home. I told my mom that I have the pictures on it and I can send it to my email and use the computer to do it. She said no. Should I tell the health teacher the problem? Or just try to take my phone back for a few minuets to send myself the work?