That he made a mistake, that his whole life is one big lie, that he never loved me (we were together 14 years and he was very much in love), that he shouldn't have gotten married, that he is not meant to be with anyone, that he feels nothing at all, etc This came out of nowhere. Yes he has been stressed at work for a full year but he never mentioned how he didn't like being a doctor and we were very close, we are best friends but out of nowhere this happened.... And now he left and is living in a hotel for 2 weeks now... I texted him and told him he would be alright soon and to see a therapist and he texted back "sorry for leaving you but i am a mess of a man and I don't feel a thing. I don't plan to ever come back. I don't want to live in this country and i don't know why im doing this but i know i need to be alone forever. Goodbye." I have no words. We were happy for our entire marriage up until a few months ago he was getting really defensive over tiny things. I know this is a nervous break down but what do I do? I'm obviously upset that he left but im also concerned for him.

I'm in a situation where I'm not sure if I should stand my ground to make a point or just be the bigger person and apologize. So Thursday my friends called to tell me they were able to reserve a lake house rental and invited me and my girlfriend to go along with everyone. I called her to let her know and asked her to go. She told me that she didn't want to spend the entire weekend with THEM and that she made plans with her friends. Mind you this wouldn't have bothered me but I have spent the last few months hanging out with her friends without question. I don't like her friends in particular (most of them are snobby rich kids who have been handed everything and in large live off of daddy) and while I don't like them I've put on a brace face for her. When she told me that I just lost it and let everything out, I was only asking for a weekend to be able to sit by the lake with her and the people important in my life and she told me that. We argued and I told her to forget it and hung up on her. I drove out yesterday and right now I'm starting to think about it all and I'm not sure. I'm just here by myself and she hasn't texted or called me. She doesn't like my friends and couldn't even give me a weekend but am I wrong? I get that she might not want to spend time with them but shouldn't she want to do it for me?

I'm not really sure what to do. So, I had this boss who I couldn't stand for many months. Everybody knew I couldn't stand him, nobody could stand him. But it was well known that I "hated" him. Once I started trying to get to know him, I realized he was actually a great guy. He is just a tough guy to work for because he takes work way too seriously. Well, in the last few months, we've gotten closer. I stopped getting an attitude with him and we even started flirting (harmless, innocent flirting). I stupidly have started enjoying the attention and it has caused me to feel infatuated with him. He had his last day at work last weekend, as he's gotten a new job. I was pretty convinced I'd probably never see him again (I didn't think he'd want to stop by). I wrote him once I found out he left and he told me it's been on his mind a long time to ask me and another friend if we could come to his church for main service one Sunday. I told him we would. The friend said she had other plans today, so I told him we'd just go next Sunday. He said I could always come by myself or bring another friend/former coworker. We ended up going this morning and my former boss had us sit with him (his wife and kids sat elsewhere for some reason). Afterwards, we all talked and he referred to us as his "friends" when introducing us to people, which was sweet. I'm falling pretty hard for him out of nowhere and I don't know what to do because I really like the church, too. I'm 26, he's 37. Also, when we were all talking, he kept looking at me more and facing me with his shoulders and pelvis. When his wife and kids were around, he wasn't even paying them any attention. Seemed strange to me. When we were walking out of the room church was held in, he walked out first with me and my friend following and his wife and kids behind us and they showed no affection to each other and didn't even stand next to each other at all. I saw something on his Facebook from years ago where he mentions having more female friends than guy friends and that he's always been like that. I think his wife is used to him having female friends and talking to other women in her presence.

And that she will peobably marry you in the end How to figure that out after going out on a couple of dates. I am interested in getting married to a nice woman and I am not interested in the excruciating process of dating a humongous amount of women and taking them out for like 2-3 years before settling down. I am not even sure why people wait more than a year to decide if someone should be their life partner. No one is perfect and we all need to compromise on things to make a marriage work.

I got married a year ago, a little after I turned 19. We had been together for a while, and I don't think I was exactly ready to get married, but I couldn't make myself tell him no. I do care for him a great deal, but I'm just not sure I want to spend my life with him now, after being married to him. He kind of changed his whole demeanor after we signed the marriage certificate and I just feel like I'm missing out on what could be potentially great experiences, because he can be very controlling at times.. Thoughts?

I don't wanna be alone forever but my boyfriends havent had forgiveness for me to love me despitethe areas I couldn't be the best they wanted from me. I am close to losing all hope because I try so damn hard in relationships. I don't know if anyone else tries as hard as I do. O see other couples and they seem to have it easy, there isn't this huge emotional struggle for them or one of them to keep themselves together for the sake of loving or another and staying together. This latest man I'm talking to, I of course I don't want to be apart from him but despite my learning from paat relationships and trying hard now to be compromising and diplomatic... It just seems to be hard to keep it up this far. Because it seems to be not enough for him. We of course don't know one another that well, so I can understand why there is this misunderstanding. I just break down emotionally so hard at times like this.

I got a text message a friend sending me his brothers number so i highlight the number to call and when i do it dials a completely different number than what i highlighted to dial what is this?

Because when a husband wants to make her wife feel a little bit better she just crushes with all her strenght his hand that I guess it could make him lose his whole arm...

Have you kept any sentimental belonging from a previous relationship? Would your spouse be upset if they knew of it, or have they been? I still have a romantic teddy bear holding a heart in one of my old memory boxes, which a previous admirer gave me. I don't know whether I should get rid of it or not. I tend to keep everything I've ever found sentimental, and it's also probably the cutest stuffed animal I've been given. I don't like to get rid of things. But I don't want to cross lines in my new marriage. Thoughts?

Your partner cheated on their ex with a good friend of theirs and cheated on them then night before their wedding but married them anyways. The marriage didnt last and they got divorced shortly after the wedding. They have only been divorced for two years and they are talking about marriage again. Would you trust them?

2 boys together ages 7 and 16 Married for 13 yrs He left me and moved in with another woman Divorced for 2.5 yrs and the pain is still raw

Me and my husband are in constant fights, he argues about everything . he is always checking his phone,wouldnt let me have it which he normally doesnt ! i know that he is cheating on me because he has done it before and i "forgave" him! it was all the same symptoms !. he keeps deleting the messages so i wont see them again. i need something to prove so he wont call me paranoid! i just need an app or someway to find out . please help me ...

My wife has asked for an open relationship again. We have been happily married for 6 years, she had many lovers before we married and I think her eye is wandering again. I said once jokingly we should go open, but it was a joke this is the second time she has asked

My husband and I are back together but he left me and was living at a sober living home for 4 months. I found out he cheated while he was gone. But I am so in love with him and so lonely and don't want to be alone, that I take him back anyway. I feel depressed all the time, even when I am not crying and appear to be happy, I am always crying on the inside, because I know he is not in love with me, and I am not who he really wants. I cry often. I feel like he stole my happiness, my hope and my joy. I tried dating too, but no quality man that I am attracted to wants me. My ex was not the most attractive guy and he cheated and did me wrong to, so chances are, even if I decide to settle for someone lesser attractive, or that I am not attracted to, I'll still get cheated on and done wrong. I do not believe that there is some great guy waiting around the corner for me, that I will be attracted to, and will have a job and be faithful and treat me right. I have already tried several methods of meeting men while we were separated, in hopes of finding someone that would make me forget about him and save me from him. Either they are super unattractive and there is no chemistry or they just want sex. I have lost all hope of ever being happy and feeling loved, wanted and needed. People say I deserve better, I know that. Lots of people deserve better than what they get. I can't bring my self to leave him. How do I cope?

She snatched it off me and was so mad she said 'keep out of my old stuff it's non of your business!' And started crying Whsts this all about? I thought she was done with him it hurt me to think she secretly watches this.