So I will make this as short as possible because it's a long and emotionally draining story. But basically one of my (soonto be)husbands friends who never particularly liked me has wronged me a few times and made it clear he doenst like me. Especially now coming up on our wedding ceremony. A big event that occurred during the election season was that his wife didnt agree with something I had posted on facebook about the election. He was then told to text my husband and tell him to tell me to "Shut the F*** up because I was R*****ed and shouldn't talk about things I know nothing about (Despite me knowing quite a lot about that particular topic, but I digress) Then he started excluding me from group friend events by suddenly and strickly making them "guys night" (and this is not planned guys night which I never had any issues with but events that were like normal get togethers (going out for wings or to the bar for dinner) which he would text everyone and say "Lets make this a guys night". To make this even more insulting, I am the only wife/girlfriend/girl who was ever going to be going. Meaning this would be my husband, three guys, and me. So it was obviously to exclude me. When my husband would bring me anyway (because I should have been able to based on the situation, like we planned it to be on my only day off.) this "friend" would not speak to me directly at all. The whole night. to be cont. Continued No hello. No goodbye. No smalltalk. And I had never been anything but nice despite this. Then after this, he went on a rampage on my facebook. posting the "crazy girlfriend meme" on a photo of us (myhusband and I) eating out which said on it "guys night? Can I come?" I told my husband that was all I could take and I asked my husband (not forced) to stop talking to this person at least on a close basis ie he could like talk to him at a party or something but I was really beyond hurt. My husband agreeded and we also decided not to invite him to our wedding ceremony. He has continued to try and amend things but im not interested in mending fences with someone so toxic. He continues to message me on fceboktelling me how horrible of a person I am and sending my husband massages telling him to tell me to move on. Then he tried to act like nothing happened with me. My husband typically ignores him but I told him he had to make it clear that things were over . Recently I needed my video game back which we had lent him (those things are mad expensive you know!) Anyway he sent it over with a mutual friend with a letter inside telling me that im childish and a bad controling person while my husband has been making his own decisions. I may have told him that I felt very strongly but his decisions were his own. I am really emotionally broken over all of this and I'm having trouble trying to find the right words to combat this toxic situation. Thoughts? This man is 30 years old and basically picking on a 22 year old. He calls me childish then ends his letter with "P.S nobody likes you", so how mature is that

I love my boyfriend of 11 years but he is absolutely terrible with money. I worry that somewhere down the line he will run up a load of financial dept. Maybe its the pesimist inside me but I can imagine in 20 or 30 years from now finding out he owes money. You know the stories...60 year old lady finds out her husband has lost their life savings and owe the bank thousands.... I don t ever want that to be me. Things are great now, but is there a way of getting married but keeping our financials seperate, for now and forever?

Married power couples always end in divorce, getting a divorce is an easy way out. Mostly they cost too much, some of us will be probably end up in the poor house. Being single as a celebrity will be easier, you get to come and go anytime you want, if you are smart get a vasectomy so you can have sex with all the women you want without knocking them up. Mostly married couple usually complain about their schedules, if you guys break up it will be fine. Mostly being married is always having hard time with a busy schedule and people ended in divorce and wives cheating on you. So what do you think?

First off, I don t need anyone judging me telling me what a horrible person I am. I have been married for almost 4 years now, but I ve been with my husband for 7 years total. Our relationship hasn t been the same for a while. I really don t find him attractive anymore, thus leading to the lack of sex in our marriage. We have a child, too, and this makes the situation even more tricky. We have a great positive relationship, it just lacks the intimacy. My biggest problem is that I feel like I strive for attention from other men. I want to feel sexy and wanted by men other than my husband. I even had an affair a couple of years ago, but I ended it and got back on the right track with my husband again but without the sex (yes he knows about it). Now, I have recently been conversating back and forth with a guy I ve never met, and I obsess over him. I get upset when he doesn t talk to me as much, and then I remember, ok I m married so maybe he sees no potential in our friendship. It s just ridiculous, and I don t know what s wrong with me. I don t know if this is normal. I don t know what will help me get that spark back with my husband. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Do you tell them everything, as in every detail of your day or ongoing life? Or do you leave out certain things/interaction if you know it will make them mad/jealous/etc? Ive been doing the latter and I'm not sure if it's right or not. I have a friend from work that my girlfriend doesn't like that I've been going on morning runs with. Sometimes we get drinks after work too and while I do tell my girlfriend where I'm at I always leave everything else out to not make her jealous. Nothing goes on between me and this friends and I treat her just like any of my bros, but I see no point in saying anything extra. So, do you tell your spouse everything?

Honestly, this is the second time that I became heartbroken. I learned my lesson. Basically, there is no such thing as a happy relationship. It's just a myth. The Asians I see that are together aren't really happy. They will all eventually divorce and die alone. True love is just a myth. What is the point of a relationship if it always ends in heartache? Isn't it better to just be single since studies prove that single men are happier than men who are married?

I have a son who will be 3 in August. His father is married to a woman and has been since 6 months after they started dating. Her and I have not been getting along due to the fact that she is demanding to know how the child support I have just received (after being owed for over 6 months) is being used and I refused to give that information. Anyways.... So my sons father has been asking me to meet up with his wife for our swap and when I do my son freaks out and screams and I have to pry him out of my arms. He tells me she is mean. I don t try and pry out of him why she s mean but he is truley affected when he has to go with her and it breaks my heart seeing him so upset being that his dad and her have been together for almost two years now. I m wondering if anyone else has experienced this and if there is something I can do about it. We have been to court so many times that I would like to avoid it but if I have to go back I will. I would be asking a lawyer but to ask a question will cost me about $200. Thank you in advance for any help or advice.

My husband has been getting on my nerves so much. He has struggled with depression and it's something we've dealt with. But his problem is when he gets bad, he won't go to therapy. I am pregnant. And I feel bad because I don't feel like we're ready for a baby. But we talked and planned for this baby for a long time and he was doing so well but when I got pregnant, he got stresded and depressed. He gains weight when he's depressed. We both used to work at staying fit. And with this baby, I am working so hard to eat healthy, exercise, take my vitamins. And on top of everything him getting overweight, it disgusts me and makes me unattracted to him. I don't want to be intimate with him. I feel that him being fat is just so lazy, everytime I look at him, it's what I think about. Like when I have the baby, I will be running around taking care of it and he will be sitting on his *** snd it's heartbreaking because we're supposed to be a team. I want our baby to have two healtjy parents, two people chasing her around.

Most people don't believe I am a lesbian because I was married to a man for over ten years and my son just turned one bit now my marriage is over and I want to date women only. Most lesbians are reluctant to date me seriously because of this especially when I tell them my ex husband is dear to me because he gave me my son (even though he isn't the best father to his son) why don't people believe I am gay?

I met this girl online we been with each other for 2 weeks. She is totally in love with me. She thinks we're soul mates. And now wants to get married. I think it's too fast but she's really nice and loving. I believe her, she's from California and I'm from Nevada. I doubt her but wondering why she wants to get married right away. Maybe its a fool in love or maybe she has bad intentions. Assuming she's a foreigner and wants to get married I assume would be her wanting citizenship. But if she's not a foreigner what bad intentions of her wanting marriage early mean? Can she want me to have her kid so she can get child support? Or can she get child support with out marriage papper? Thanks for any info.

My husband married me without telling me he had a gambling addiction. He gambled off and on the first 2 years of our marriage and somehow this led him to other destructive behavior like a porn addiction and meeting up with another woman from tinder (nothing happened physically) but it still happened. He is recovering from these addictive behaviors and while I am really proud of him and see a HUGE change in him in every way its comong back to haunt us in the form of debt I did not know he made. He overdrafted an account while gambling and just completely forgot about it. I don't even know if this is the only one he did this to. He also barrowed money from his parents and gambled it and we are paying that back. Its really hard to deal with. Like really really hard because I am reminded of more lies and wonder why I stayed/stay. Its really hard to want to be with someone after all of this. Just the blantant lack of regard for me and our family. Hes sorry now but I dunno. Its really upsetting. I dont think he gets it. I dont know what he thinks how can ppl just do stuff ljke this?

My husband and I had to move about 10 hours away from my home state. We've been here for almost 2 months and at first it wasn't that bad but lately I've been really depressed and miss home. All my friends and family are there and I'm missing out on so much. I cry whenever I talk to any on the phone cause I miss them. I have tried to like where we are now but it's hard. Plus we are closer to his family who do not like me. So on top of being away from home I have to hear her bash my home state and her talk about how great this one. It sucks I want to feel better. I'd love to visit but I can't right now, I won't for awhile. Has anyone ever been far away from home and miss it? What did you do?

To do what ? To go bike riding shopping, exercise, or what while there husbands are at home in the bed.

would you put the arguments and feelings aside to emotionally be there or would you say you dont care and stll fight?

Is it bad enough to end a marriage if your spouse is overly friendly and flattering to other men and touches them, smiles at them etc?

I romance her do everything she wants but she still doesn't like our sex, so she said shes going to stop having sex with me we are young in our early 20's . So not sure at this point what to do.

I think its the start of it anyway, he's cheated on me before but this time he is going alone to give an ex money because she just got out of rehab and has an abusive relationship sooo she decided to to call my husband (her ex) and ask for money exchange it alone and then go on their merry ways, but here I am thinking this it it I am done with his stupid ****. He can have her but he will never see his damn kids again. Btw I have no sympathy for her because she only has bull excuses about all of this. I don't go writing my ex for ******* money. Opinion please. Is he cheating? Should I leave him? Btw I talked to him about not giving her money and he was hell bent on it. I don't even know why they were still friends on Facebook. I am pretty sure I mean nothing to him and I was just a back up. Had two kids with him, have a home with him, helped him drive and get his license and yet I am a worthless piece of garbage that he wants to get rid of, I'm pretty sure. I'm angry. Give me clear headed opinions please.

My wife stated last night that she wanted an open marriage. Its not the first time she brought it up. It goes against my beliefs and values...she states its not about sex, but isnt that what an open marriage is about? Should I give in to her? Do open marriages work? Is it just an excuse for her to screw other men and women?

I am a fat old slob and he is handsome. what can I do to fool her into thinking I am not a fat slob

My husband and I are back together but he left me and was living at a sober living home for 4 months. I found out he cheated while he was gone. But I am so in love with him and so lonely and don't want to be alone, that I take him back anyway. I feel depressed all the time, even when I am not crying and appear to be happy, I am always crying on the inside, because I know he is not in love with me, and I am not who he really wants. I cry often. I feel like he stole my happiness, my hope and my joy. I tried dating too, but no quality man that I am attracted to wants me. My ex was not the most attractive guy and he cheated and did me wrong to, so chances are, even if I decide to settle for someone lesser attractive, or that I am not attracted to, I'll still get cheated on and done wrong. I do not believe that there is some great guy waiting around the corner for me, that I will be attracted to, and will have a job and be faithful and treat me right. I have already tried several methods of meeting men while we were separated, in hopes of finding someone that would make me forget about him and save me from him. Either they are super unattractive and there is no chemistry or they just want sex. I have lost all hope of ever being happy and feeling loved, wanted and needed. People say I deserve better, I know that. Lots of people deserve better than what they get. I can't bring my self to leave him. How do I cope?

I asked my crush if she had any plans for the day and she said she was going out with friends but I thought she got the hint that I wanted to hang...I thought it was obvious? She said she didn't know that's what I implied. So today I asked her if she was free to hang and she wrote be back a day later saying she got busy and she apologized. Now I'm confused because she said she wanted to hang with me...is she actually busy. I'm I not giving her enough lead time? I kinda just want to ignore her and see if she chases me

I read it's a chemical thing and they can't control it They give signals off to the male

Several years ago, I hung out with my ex/best guy friend while visiting in another town. My husband (possessive/controlling/obsessive) found his # and called the guy up and threatened him for seeing me and said that if he ever talks to me again he will hurt him. He also forced the guy to delete me from social media and since then the guy hates me and wont speak to me. Did my husband have a right to interfere with this?