Family: Question: My dad has anger issues? |
- Question: My dad has anger issues?
- Question: I WANT TO SLAP MY SISTER?
- Question: Tired of my sister s dirty attitude anything that can fix it?
- Question: My cousins are in town from Texas and I'm not allowed to see them. How do I stop feeling so sad about this and mad at my mom?
- Question: How do I get my parents to see what a horrible moral figure my brother is?
- Question: Is there anyway could move out on my own?
- Question: My dad has the whip out my dad has the web out help help help help help?
- Question: Since my uncle is an alcoholic do I need to avoid his children like my mom does?
- Question: My sister is a bully who never matured past 11. Is there any hope now that she's 24 that she might mature one day?
- Question: How do I overcome the agony of another weekend alone with no family?
- Question: My aunt despises her daughter with every bone and every fiber of her being. She worships her other daughter as a God. Is this narcissism?
- Question: My parents always leave me home alone with no one what do I do?
- Question: I would like help asap, if anyone would like to answer.?
- Question: Can anyone else relate? Or are the holidays a great time to be with family for you?
- Question: I am tired of my home situation.?
- Question: Am I wrong ? Be honest?
- Question: Am I a 2000's kid?
- Question: True or False., You have an American daddy?
- Question: What's the Islamic view on this?
- Question: I was so angry at my sister yesterday I finger-blasted her; now she's threatening to tell our cousin. How do I make this into a three-some?
- Question: Sister drama?
- Question: I think my older cousin stole from me? If I take it back would I be stealing?
- Question: Before my parents disown me, what's the quickest, most strategic way to become financially independent from them?
- Question: I want to kill myself because my mom makes my life a living hell what should I do?
- Question: How do I know if I m ready to have a another baby? I m 20 years old I have a 4 year old boy already, & I love being a mom.?
- Question: How do you get a kid to eat?
- Question: What are the steps for getting my 15 year old son off drugs?
- Question: When is it inappropriate for a mom to be naked around her sons?
- Question: I used my mom credit card! PLZ HELP!?
- Question: Question about Dwayne Johnsons family?
- Question: Why do my two older brothers have blue eyes but mine are hazel.?
- Question: Muslims are not your loving"father"not even related,but why do they seem to like to crush the heart and dreams of little white girls?
- Question: Can 2 fat couples have a skinny child or can 2 tall couples have short kids etc vice versa or.not?
- Question: My creepy father from hell?
- Question: I was so angry at my sister yesterday I finger-blasted her; now she's threatening to tell our cousin. How do I make this into a three-some?
- Question: My dad called me a whore and a slut and kicked me out?
- Question: Lades who can drive would you do this?
- Question: I have a narcissistic mother and a crazy control freak father?
- Question: Dad was drinking all night. Should I call Mom and tell her (she is out of town)?
- Question: My Mom is a mean person and so is my sister but in different ways. How do I not let their toxicity harm me?
- Question: When my sister goes into a rage my parents give her what she wants. Is this enabling?
- Question: How do I get my father to aim properly in the bathroom?
- Question: I have been attracted to my sisters *** and when i see them i get hard. I used to touch her *** with my dick when she sleep is it normal?
- Question: Can anyone help me?
- Question: How do I trust people?
- Question: Who should I call if I have a mentally insane person living with me?
- Question: I feel so lost after 4yr relationship with abuser?
- Question: I can't enjoy holidays and other special days anymore because of Facebook?
- Question: Could we sue someone that accused my dad of something?
- Question: What are immediate ancestors?
- Question: Do brothers and sisters actually do incest?
- Question: How do I get more comfortable saying I love you to my parents or hug them?
- Question: Why is my daughter always sad?
- Question: Is he still my brother-in-law?
- Question: Has anybody ever dated somebody younger than their son? How did your son feel about it?
- Question: How do I get sole custody of my 2 year old son in new york state?
- Question: I want to help my best friend?help?!?
- Question: If your mother had a half-sister, who had another half-sister, what would that other half-sister be to you?
- Question: How can I get my step-sister, step-brother, biological-brother, and step-cousin to include me in more things or do they just not like me?
- Question: I want to make a YouTube channel, but my both of my parents are a bit overprotective.?
Question: My dad has anger issues? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:44 PM PDT I think my dad has very bad anger issues. He gets mad over the littlest things too. One time i beat him in Monopoly and he was angry about if for the next two months and he wouldn t say a word to me and if he did it was with a very rude and angry tone. Yesterday i went to the beach with my friends and we went on this roller coaster ride that I honestly didn t wanna get on but i wasn t gonna stand alone and watch, so i joined them. It ended a little before my dad was suppose to pick us up, but before i could get out the people in front of us asked to go again so it was past the time he was suppose to pick us up, when we got off my friends ran to another ride and stood in line for about 8 minutes and then i looked at the time on my phone and we were late and my dad called me and texted me, and I already knew what was gonna happen. We got in the car he started yelling at me and then he asked if anyone was hungry and i had my earbuds in, cause he said just because wewere late we have to listen to his sh*tty old school music, and i asked him what he said and he said "not you, your friends put your earbuds back in sense you dont like to listen" and i said trying not to curse, "They already ate at the beach i had to bites of my friends pretzel and that was it!" & my dad said "Thats not food" and i was trying not to bust up laughing cause if it was in his house he would call it food, cause he always claims to have food but he really doesn't. He also verbally abuses me & Idk what 2 do |
Question: I WANT TO SLAP MY SISTER? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:44 PM PDT SHES ANNOYING ME SO MUCH |
Question: Tired of my sister s dirty attitude anything that can fix it? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:36 PM PDT My sister is 2 years older than me she s 17 and she s kinda spoiled by my parents my parents both think my sister is like intelligent which she isn t because of that reason she has a dirty attitude of cursing at me and blaming me for the things I didn t do like little things dropping her clothes on the floor she once cursed me out and yelled at me for that which I didn t do. I can t really do anything about it because she ll yell my parents yes she s 17 but im tired of her being disrespectful and cursing me out almost everyday especially when she s pmsing |
Posted: 21 May 2017 01:34 PM PDT My mom won't let me go see my cousins who are in town from Texas. All my other cousins are getting together with them this afternoon and evening and I'm not allowed to go because my mom doesn't like her brother. They are staying at her brothers house so I can't see them separately. Her brother is not the nicest person and he drinks too much beer and gets grouchy but he's not dangerous and he's not gonna hurt me. I'm being punished because her brother is an alcoholic and that's not fair and I'm sick of it. She's mad at him because he got more in my grandfathers estate then she did and she doesn't like how his mood changes when he drinks. I am so mad at my mom I could scream at her for punishing me because her brother isn't nice. How do I stop feeling so mad at her and so sad? |
Question: How do I get my parents to see what a horrible moral figure my brother is? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:31 PM PDT He has no soul because they have enabled him. |
Question: Is there anyway could move out on my own? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:30 PM PDT Im trying to move to a different room so I wont recorded by my uncle but my grandmother wont let me and I really want to run away, I may have to sleep in the basement. Is there anyway I can my out at this age. My uncle wont leave me alone I know I lost my temper in the past but why would he keep recording me and blackmailing me he probably is sending toeveryone in my family and laughing at me. They also make fun of my religion, is there anyone I can contact? |
Question: My dad has the whip out my dad has the web out help help help help help? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:28 PM PDT Don't hit me daddy don't hit me daddy daddy daddy don't hit me |
Question: Since my uncle is an alcoholic do I need to avoid his children like my mom does? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:27 PM PDT For some reason my mother labels kids this way when your parent has an issue. My mother does not believe in forgiving so should I avoid his kids? The uncle is trying to go sober and is in rehab. |
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Question: How do I overcome the agony of another weekend alone with no family? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:24 PM PDT My parents always go off on exotic trips with my siblings. They always leave me and say there's no room. I'm always alone. No friends no family no one. I sometimes wonder what the point of living is. I am age 20. |
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Question: My parents always leave me home alone with no one what do I do? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:21 PM PDT It's scary even though I'm 16. |
Question: I would like help asap, if anyone would like to answer.? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:06 PM PDT I haven t been able to get along with my parent/s for a while now, and it s getting worse. I m pretty young, so I m thinking it s just teenage angst, something along the lines of that. I struggle with generalized social anxiety and depression, but my parents refuse to let me see a doctor. My father says that everything can be fixed with a schedule, while my mom seems to literally not care. My sister was allowed to see someone, which helped her a ton, so I find it funny that I m not allowed to. I really don t know what to do at this point, even if I try to talk to them they always interrupt me. I also have a really hard time with emotions, I can t really explain them, and most times it all just turns into anger. So, I will admit, I should get my act together. I m not gonna lie, I m not necessarily a victim of anything. Anyway, if someone could help, please do. Due the first answer I got on this, I would just like to point something out. When I said I wasn't a victim of anything, I really meant it as in physical abuse. While I should have been more clear about this, telling me to 'grow up' isn't doing anything but getting me to somewhat call you out. |
Question: Can anyone else relate? Or are the holidays a great time to be with family for you? Posted: 21 May 2017 12:29 PM PDT I sometimes observe other young people like me with their families and they are so chill talking about fun stuff like their reactions to jump scares in horror movies and the latest marvel movie or something and I get jealous because whenever our family gets together I feel like I always need to sound and talk to them using big words and be so proper as if they are members of England's royal family. I feel the need to always discuss college and work with them. They have no sense of what it feels like to let lose and enjoy life or have dreams other than having **** 9 to 5 jobs and careers. My family also claims to be Christian but I'm pretty sure Jesus wants us to have fun and relax for his Birthday at Christmas time not get into any discussion about "oh well what degree do you have" blah blah the holidays are supposed to be a vacation from that. They have no sense of what it is to dream either... my brain is after a degree because that's realistic but my heart is after the impossible and that's being a famous actress, model and cosplayer. I'm the family outcast because I like to let lose while attending to responsibilities. Because of it, even my own parents make me feel like crap. |
Question: I am tired of my home situation.? Posted: 21 May 2017 12:23 PM PDT I am 15 years old. I live with a irrational overprotective mom and a alcoholic step dad. Everyday is hell for me. My mom never listens to me constantly starting arguments thinking of me nothing more then stupid bringing down my self esteem and making me depressed. My dad drinks beer comes home at 12 to rant about nothing then goes to his room to sleep like the broken english speaking asshole he is. My clothes don't fit me being double or triple my size, but my parents deny it thinking i'm crazy. Everyday is hell. I stress about school only to come home with both my parents yelling at me for no reason punishing me when I stand up to their bs. My mom is so ridiculously irrational and refuses to accept the fact that she may not always be right. She deny's anything I tell her and most of the time does not believe me. I am chubby and she overfeeds me and thinks everything I say is wrong. That everything I do is somehow wrong. I try to explain to her that she needs to relax but she only makes everything worse somehow. My step dad could care less about me flipping me off and embarrassing me by driving me to school in a old pickup truck. He wears beat down clothes drinks and gets in a lot of fights with me constantly bothering me for no reason telling on me to my mom. I am tired I feel sick everything does not feel right I don't think I can handle much more of this. I am being neglected I am poor tired lazy and have too many goals for myself. I am tired and I don't know who to go to. How can I deal with my horrible home situation |
Question: Am I wrong ? Be honest? Posted: 21 May 2017 12:17 PM PDT So let's just say I've completely lost all respect for my dad because of what he's done to my family. Couple years back in 2012-2013 he and my mom were going through somethings and they both ended up cheating on each other, but after they kind of made up for it, but he started up again that ended up compleatly destroying are family I ended up moving to my grandma's house (his mom) for a total of about 2 years didnt speak to him for about a year in between but fast forward to now him and my mom have been living together for about a year now and he continues to talk to other women when my moms at work she knows but she doesn't know what to do he won't leave because he has no money and I know not her problem but she loves him (idk why she's dumb) and they fight practicly every day and he barley pays any bills and talks to other women when he's suppse to be loyal and right now my grandma asked me to go eat with him and her and I told her no because I dont want to be around him because like I said I don't have many respect for him and she gets mad because he's her son and she feels like he does nothing wrong. Am I wrong for not going because I don't want to be around him. Be honest |
Posted: 21 May 2017 11:59 AM PDT I was born in 2008 and everyone tells me I'm too young to be a 2000s kid but I remember old shows like Austin and ally and stuff like that and I also remember the first iphone and stuff, am I considered a 2000's kid? |
Question: True or False., You have an American daddy? Posted: 21 May 2017 11:54 AM PDT |
Question: What's the Islamic view on this? Posted: 21 May 2017 11:34 AM PDT I married my husband 1 year and a half ago. Since I'm an only daughter and he had two other siblings we agreed he'd live with me and my mother in the apartment my mother bought for us. And so we started life together. The first months he didn't work and my mother helped us financially. And even now she has taken are of most of our expenses and bought all the neccesary things for our baby while my husband has done nothing beside brought from time to time some money home for eating. He doesn't pay electricity', water or other things. If I were to ask for clothes or something that's needed he'll say that he doesn't have money. That he can't gain money because there isn't much work etc. But when his mother asks for mony he's willing to give those few pounds I've managed to save. I'm becoming frustrated by that. I don't ask for him to buy me expensive stuff, in fact I haven't bought a thing for myself only for him yet he gives money to his mother although she has money and not half as many expenses as us. He jumps to buy things for his brothers yet I've borrowed things from the pharmacy for our baby and promised to return them by the end of the month. I fight with him because of that and I'm starting to dislike his family since it seems that all they care about is getting money from us. Am I wrong? |
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Posted: 21 May 2017 11:09 AM PDT My older sister and I aren't close. Sh!t hit the fan a couple of months ago. There was a huge fight between my sisters and mom over nothing. I tried to stay out of it because I was about to give birth to my first baby and I had no time for petty drama but my older sister pulled me into it in attempt to have my mom on her side of the fight. It worked. My mom didn't talk to me until I had my baby. I haven't talked to my older sister since. She didn't even try to send my a congrats text for having the baby... nothing and it's been a month. I guess I'm not surprised since I'd always send her updates about the baby and she never responded when we were good. Now my mom wants to visit (I live hours away from my family) to see the baby. She also wants to bring my older sister and I told my mom I didn't want my older sister around. My mom said that I need to apologize to my sister when I did nothing wrong. I have a feeling my mom would just bring her no matter what. How should I deal with this situation? |
Question: I think my older cousin stole from me? If I take it back would I be stealing? Posted: 21 May 2017 10:45 AM PDT My cousins like ten years older than me she's like 27 and a couple weeks ago we had a bunch of family over for dinner and I leave my makeup out on my counter in the bathroom and I know how much I have out and stuff too and I saw my cousin come out at one point and no one else that I know of went in there but I was in my room for an hour at one point but my bathroom is right next door and I'd hear the door close if someone went in and we have a guest bathroom so no one should've even used mine so like a couple hours later I go in my bathroom and come to find that one of my lipsticks and eyeshadow palettes are missing and I go to notify my mom and dad and they say I just misplaced it and no one took it but I don't misplace things I always know where my stuff is and I'm a really neat person so I start freaking out bc like $75 worth of my makeup I bought with my own money is missing and I tried to tell my parents in private I think I know who stole it and my cousin brought a big purse in |
Posted: 21 May 2017 10:44 AM PDT I was forced at the age of 12 to wear the hijab. I no longer wish to wear it 10 years later. The problem is if I take it off I become financially cut entirely alongside being disowned by my parents. I'm more concerned with the financial portion to be honest because I've had enough of my parents' lifelong emotional and financial abuse to me. I've made a decision in my head already to take it off and I cannot be convinced otherwise. I have a year of tuition payments left at a private ivy league school that my father funds. Along with that my father funds my health insurance, car, cell phone, etc., pretty much everything except my college rent. I work part-time and have 10k out in loans I need to pay post graduation. Once I take off my hijab they will demand the laptop they gave me back, my car, cell phone, everything except for clothes most likely and cut off insurance. What can I do in the meanwhile to prepare financially? And emotionally how can I prepare too? I feel guilty almost because I know my mother will be so heartbroken. But I just can't stand the concepts of their reward/punishment tactics. "We will only fund college if you study a scientific major" or "we will not claim you as our daughter if you show your hair." I need to feel happy too I can't live the rest of my life pleasing them. Thanks. |
Question: I want to kill myself because my mom makes my life a living hell what should I do? Posted: 21 May 2017 10:41 AM PDT I'm 21 in school trying to find a job.All she does is yell and be a big ***** to me.I can't take it anymore and please don't suggest moving out because it's going to be awhile before I can make that possible.She's really driving me insane I hate her and wish she would drop dead already.She makes my life a living hell with all her yelling.I HATE HER SO MUCH.I tell her I'm depressed and she just says to me " What do you have to be depressed about ?" When I have issues and I'm depressed she makes it seem like I should be happy when I hate my life. |
Posted: 21 May 2017 10:16 AM PDT Only thing that is making me hesitant about having another baby is that Im not sure what I want to do with my life. Career wise I have no idea what I want and I m nervous that having a baby will set me back. I still live in an apartment and I'm not ready to buy a house yet. I have tremendous family support and my boyfriend is amazing. Im financially stable at the moment but I dont have a career going and Idk how a baby would fit in. But I really want to have a baby before my son turns 5 next March. He s getting older and I don t want my kids to be too far apart. How do I figure out what I want? |
Question: How do you get a kid to eat? Posted: 21 May 2017 09:59 AM PDT My 4 y/o refuses to eat.he has gone days without eating anything, all he wants to eat is sweets and i dont keep sweets in my home "other then healthy sweets like fruit" he gets those after he eats a meal but a lot of the time he will go days before eating anything. His grandma is always giving him candy and now he waits to get it. How can i get him to eat? I tried letting him go without food until he will eat but he doesnt care. His 1 y/o brother eats everything i give him and hes a little fat but my poor older son is skin and bones. I dont know what to do! |
Question: What are the steps for getting my 15 year old son off drugs? Posted: 21 May 2017 09:43 AM PDT When I was a kid I took anti depressants, I took cannabis, sensi star, white dolphins, warlock, skunk, sweet tooth, sweet dreams, Stonehenge, velvet bud, power plant, ,phazzer, honeymoon, el nino, parvati, home fantasy 200, big bang, ace I also took ecstasy, I took Hash. I took Hash oil, I took ketamine. I took LSD, psilocybin, and mescaline. I took Inhalants, Inhalants are seldom. Now my sons doing drugs now that he's a teenager. I don't want him messing his life up because drugs. I stopped doing drugs when he was born. |
Question: When is it inappropriate for a mom to be naked around her sons? Posted: 21 May 2017 08:52 AM PDT I'm 24 and I honestly still see my mom naked sometimes and am unphased by it, however I am a girl. My son is 7 months and I realized I'm naked much of the time around the house. I don't care about being naked around him yet but I was wondering when it might be inappropriate. Maybe at 4 years? |
Question: I used my mom credit card! PLZ HELP!? Posted: 21 May 2017 08:46 AM PDT I went in my mom room and in her purse and got her credit card amd I download Hulu to watch some movies and I canceled the it so I could still have the free trial so then Hulu login me out and I login again with the same information and I canceled it again and it logined me out, and I think it charged me 17$ and my parents are gonna kill me, BC I went in my mother's purse I do this all the time but I cancel the stuff for the free trial but this one did not work, I have 17$ dollars but my parents gonna take my phone and beat my butt wat should I do!!? |
Question: Question about Dwayne Johnsons family? Posted: 21 May 2017 08:07 AM PDT Ok so I know Dwayne Johnsons father Rocky Johnson was born in 1944 and his mother was Ata was born in 1948 which is understandable. But is says his grandfather Pete Maivia (Ata's father) was born in 1937. So according to wikipedia he became a father at 11? Is this right? |
Question: Why do my two older brothers have blue eyes but mine are hazel.? Posted: 21 May 2017 08:04 AM PDT My mom has hazel eyes and my dad has blue. I was just wondering how I got all of my mom and both of my brothers got my dads genes. |
Posted: 21 May 2017 07:39 AM PDT they come along and tell girls of another race country and another father.. "no no you "cant" do this and that.. and they seem angry.. who the hell do they think they are? your dad? a bad one? youre not their child! nor their mother..since you wouldn't raise anyone that way... why insert themselves? |
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Question: My creepy father from hell? Posted: 21 May 2017 05:38 AM PDT I have an awful father. He is disgusting. I was going to take a shower, but my little sister decided to start hitting me with a shoe just to be annoying. When I yelled at her to stop, my ugly father came upstairs and started hitting me with a belt while I was naked!!! He is disgusting and a pervert. I hate him so much. What should I do? |
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Question: My dad called me a whore and a slut and kicked me out? Posted: 21 May 2017 04:31 AM PDT Im 18 and i have a 16 month old son and I just started seeing someone new and my dad and step mom said they weren t going to be home for the night so I invited my boyfriend to come over for a little bit and keep me company. Well we ended up falling asleep and at 3am my dad busts open the door drunk as hell, screaming at the top of his lungs telling my boyfriend to get out of his house and this and that.. Then calling me a slut and a whore.. Telling both of us to get the **** out of his house..Followed my boyfriend outside to make sure he would leave. I hurried and grabbed a few things and snuck to my car and my dad came up to my window pounding on it until i opened it and continued to call me a dumb whore and kicked my car.. (He left a dent) He also left me 2 voicemails calling me those names and called me those names about a week ago.. And said he was going to throw all my things out (my dad can be very violent when hes drunk) my boyfriend was waiting a few houses down and i was so upset and shaking and crying so bad i felt as if i was having a panic attack. Thank god my mom offered to watch my son.. Someone please help.. What should I do? Im afraid for mine and my son s well being. Im terrified. I honestly want nothing to do with him at this point. I just don t understand.. My own father.. |
Question: Lades who can drive would you do this? Posted: 21 May 2017 04:24 AM PDT I will be leaving shortly to go visit my parents for a week. I have a 5 hour drive do to be more comfortable I am going to drive in my bare feet and keep my shoes behind my seat out of the way. |
Question: I have a narcissistic mother and a crazy control freak father? Posted: 21 May 2017 04:13 AM PDT what should i do ? should i end my life? |
Question: Dad was drinking all night. Should I call Mom and tell her (she is out of town)? Posted: 21 May 2017 03:47 AM PDT He's a drunk, my Mom calls it alcoholic. |
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Question: When my sister goes into a rage my parents give her what she wants. Is this enabling? Posted: 21 May 2017 03:47 AM PDT My sister is in her 20's |
Question: How do I get my father to aim properly in the bathroom? Posted: 21 May 2017 01:39 AM PDT This is a little weird and disgusting but I dread going to the bathroom after my father has been because every time, I find urine speckled all over the bathroom floor and I have to clean it up. I've tried bringing it up politely and even asking my mother if she could have a word with him. But nothing has changed. My mother doesn't care because it doesn't involve her, so she doesn't actually say anything to him, and I can't bring it up with my father directly because he is extremely critical of me and I could say something that is polite but he would just claim that I'm being disrespectful. If I speak to him about it, he will just yell and carry on with his bad aim. It's getting to the point where my hands and feet feel dirty after coming out of the bathroom, even when I've cleaned the floor. I don't know what to do |
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Posted: 21 May 2017 12:45 AM PDT im 15 years old boy and i have a younger brother age 11. Our parent always having fight especially at night. I can handle it but im worried about my brother. I tried to put him to sleep early so he cannot hears the fight.I know i cannot do this everyday. Can anyone help about what should i do? |
Question: How do I trust people? Posted: 21 May 2017 12:14 AM PDT I have many friends but I don't trust them. They haven't done anything wrong to disrespect my trust or anything. Same goes my family members. My grandmother said it could be because my mother died when I was 6 and my dad left so I didn't have a chance to develope it. Would that actually affect how I trust people? I'd also really like to know how to but I always doubt. |
Question: Who should I call if I have a mentally insane person living with me? Posted: 20 May 2017 11:59 PM PDT My mom is having her brother live with us, but the thing is he's not normal. He says he hears voices, he threatened to stab me one day, and she's supposed to be here to take care of him but she has a full time job and usually doesn't get home till midnight. He'll stay up ALL night brushing his hair constantly, and my mom refuses to get rid of him because she's afraid he'll go homeless but I don't ******* care this guy is a danger to my two younger siblings and I and something needs to be done. Who should I call? I'm 17 and I live in Washington state |
Question: I feel so lost after 4yr relationship with abuser? Posted: 20 May 2017 11:34 PM PDT It has bn 8mons and I still have night terrors. Still hard for me to believe he ever loved me or that he actually abused me because he said he didn't. Only because he choked me, slapped me and punched me in the back of my head. Police never caught him because he left the country the same day. I feel so low, depressed and stupid. I tried getting back on social media and had a job for 2months but got let go. When I got back on social media I saw he msgd me saying he misses me and hopes I'm doing ok. I told him I was ok but never said I missed him back. He later blocked me and posted a meme towards me that was nasty then later deleted it. I'm 24 and have no idea what I'm doing with my life. I take pain pills to numb the pain. My mom has lupus and just had a stroke 2wks ago so I have bn taking care of her. I'm adopted as well so sometimes we argue and sit makes me feel worthless. My bio sisters don't talk to me unless they need someone to watch their kids. I want to kill myself.!!! I'm crying as I write this! I deleted my social sites again becuz I feel depressed. I have disappointed my parents after my abuse altho they try to help. I wanna go to college and live my life but idk how now. He really did a number on me. I have no friends anymore so no1 to talk to. Please someone help me |
Question: I can't enjoy holidays and other special days anymore because of Facebook? Posted: 20 May 2017 11:21 PM PDT Okay so it was one of my cousins birthday so I wished her a happy birthday on Facebook. I haven't seen her in a few years and I wrote something long and nice. She completely ignored me. My mom keeps asking me "did she really or are you just saying that?" My mom is getting mad at me over Facebook and putting stress on me over these people who don't even care about me. My mom has become so obsessed with Facebook that it's destroying me psychologically I can't enjoy anything anymore I hate mark zuckerberg for creating that site. |
Question: Could we sue someone that accused my dad of something? Posted: 20 May 2017 11:07 PM PDT When I was 12, my sister had a friend that was weird... i remember that she didn't want to go home one day and she cried and told my parents that her biological dad would sexually touch her and that he recorded her playing with herself once on her birthday. Her mom came over to our house to take her home and I remember she didn't want too, she held on to our recliner and her mom had to drag her to the car. Anyways my mom made the mistake of mentioning what her daughter said and she was quiet ASF and left without saying a word. My sisters birthday was a few days later and the police came to our house and arrested my dad.. That sick demented lady didn't want her husband to go to prison so she twisted everything around and falsely accused my dad of doing stuff to her daughter. All I remember is seeing my dad balling his eyes out while being put in the cop car.. I was able to find the family on Facebook and the daughter looks sad in every single picture on Facebook and she no loner lives with her parents (she lives with her aunt now) and want to know what else happened?! A few weeks ago when my dad found out he was granted parole, the daughters mom sent a letter to the ******* prison saying she doesn't want him to get out and that she's afraid he will come after her daughter. Like wtf!! My father is the greatest guy ever. He attends church every Sunday and he's a man of god. Could we sue these people for what they've done to my family and I? We plan on getting a good lawyer |
Question: What are immediate ancestors? Posted: 20 May 2017 11:04 PM PDT |
Question: Do brothers and sisters actually do incest? Posted: 20 May 2017 10:35 PM PDT I'm talking about now. Like from recent times not ancient Egypt. I've learned about it from the internet and I'm surprised. Siblings actually do it. I'm only showing interest for siblings and hat do it because, why?? What drives them to do it? Why do they do it? And do they really go on to switch from a sibling relationship to a couple? |
Question: How do I get more comfortable saying I love you to my parents or hug them? Posted: 20 May 2017 10:31 PM PDT We've never really hugged before or say I love you. I never do it because I find it really sexual and uncomfortable. My parents are divorced. When I see people doing saying I love ou or hugging them to their parents it's so weird like I did not know that was considered normal. I just don't want to regret it when my mom ends up leaving back to her country because she wants to go back in a couple of years and end up regretting that I never had good memories. I don't know if it's social anxiety that makes me feel uncomfortable. With my dad, I'm not really close to him so it's awkward when I go to his house and talk to him. I get really anxious showing my true self except for my mom though since I've been living with her my entire life. How do I get used to doing stuff like that? Also could it be because I get refused from them . I mean not really refused but I remember one time I said I have OCD Timmy dad and he said he doesn't believe in disorders and it's really mostly my dad but still like I don't want to end up regretting not having good moments with my parents. |
Question: Why is my daughter always sad? Posted: 20 May 2017 10:13 PM PDT I hate to say it, but it's been so annoying. She never seems happy like she used to be when she was younger. She's been like this since she was 12. She is 14 now. She doesn't talk to anyone, and she never wants to hang out with her friends anymore because apparently, she thinks that she will hurt them? I thought that was a little funny and silly. Yet it is also annoying because she is always saying negative things about herself like "you think I'm a freak?" or "I'm so tired of hurting others for being alive" I don't know where this is all coming from. I understand that she is stressed because of school because she is bullied a lot, and her friends have been avoiding her and she has been dealing with self harm but I don't know why it's such a big deal. Any ideas of what I could do? Why is she acting like this? |
Question: Is he still my brother-in-law? Posted: 20 May 2017 09:43 PM PDT So I have a boyfriend. And he has a brother, and I call him my Brother-In-Law. But I kinda confused myself. Is he still my brother-in-law or not until my boyfriend and I get married? |
Question: Has anybody ever dated somebody younger than their son? How did your son feel about it? Posted: 20 May 2017 09:24 PM PDT I am a 45 year old woman. My son is 25. I've been divorced for a while. I am with a guy who is 24. Been with him for six months. I can tell it kills my son. My son has always told me how pretty I am and all. We have had a great mom son relationship. Since I've been with Jack, my son clearly has anger towards me. He's yelled to me that he cant believe his own mom loves another guy who is younger than himself more than him. My son has always been the intelligent type who did really well in school. My ex always paid for my sons schooling so im grateful for that. He is a financial advisor. Jack is a blue collar guy so I don't know if he's angry because he thinks I'm not with somebody that's good for me? I really don't know. We never talked about it but I can tell our relationship has changed since I started dating Jack. My son has never really said a word to Jack either. I have to be nervous when they are around each other.jack has tried to be friendly but my son has not reciprocated. He's been disrespectful at times. I've pleaded with my son to be nice and he won't be. We had the best son mom relationship possible so this is why it's so hard.Jack has been really cool about the whole situation but I always worry about my son saying the wrong the thing to Jack or even me in front of Jack.jacks the type that if pushed to far, he will throw a punch.Jacks a really big guy. My son is very petite like me.what should I do? |
Question: How do I get sole custody of my 2 year old son in new york state? Posted: 20 May 2017 09:20 PM PDT Im a single mother and i am currently working 2 jobs. I work overnights and a 3-11 shift. My son stays with my mom or a family friend and rarely stays with his dad. His dad wont work, not sure why. He is an alcoholic and that is the biggest reason we arent together anymore. Im trying so hard to get my **** together i just bought a new car in amazing condition and im saving for an apartment but my ex has no notivation what so ever. I know i need to take him to court because i need child support because im struggling and also, whenever my son is with him, he threatens me i cant see my son for long periods of time (which never happens) as a way to manipulate me. He still wants to be with me but he isnt stable and is very immature. He is very impatient with our son and in the last 5 months has had problems with the cops 2-3 times, i cant have that around my son! And he smokes pot i dont want that around my son. I want to take him to court so i feel safer knowing that my son has to be with me but im soooooo scared. I know my exs father has a lot of money and can get a good lawyer but im dirt broke. How can i get full custody? |
Question: I want to help my best friend?help?!? Posted: 20 May 2017 09:02 PM PDT Ok so my best friend has been dating her step brother for 2 months now who is going to be 19 in a few months and yea.She had sexual relationships with her step father like last year she was 14 when it they started and her step father was 44 when they did it. Shes 16 now ..Her mother didn't know about anything till the cops found out and took her away from her mother to go live with her dad for a while ,who's pretty much an asshole but seems more responsible than the mother. She has depression sometimes and stress.She hates her dad cuz he would cuss at her and stuff she showed me a recording of it so now she lives with her mom again and stepfather..plus her two younger siblings.She likes her step brother only cuz he's cute but not.. and a **** boy she wants to sleep with him too, he drinks smokes weed,ignores her all the time but has time to make out with her and went to jail too like his dad sometimes.The mom and step father knows about them and don't care its like they want them both to move out and live together in the future.I told her not to be with him cuz I don't want to see her get hurt or worse again,she won't listen to me it's like she's obssessed with him all the time!im soo frustrated rn she seems like she enjoys the bad life sometimes i swear.What do u think. |
Posted: 20 May 2017 08:55 PM PDT I.E. Your mom has a half-sister who shares a father with her. That sister, your aunt or half-aunt, has another half sister, who shares a mother with her. What would this person be to you, if anything? |
Posted: 20 May 2017 08:15 PM PDT I guess what triggered this question was... The other day I found out that my younger step-sister and I will have to share a room. At first I wasn't such a fan of the idea because I like my privacy and she wasn't that into it either because she also likes her privacy. I never really said anything to her about not wanting to share a room. But now I actually want to share a room with her. But tonight about an hour or two ago. I found out that she is considering sharing a room with our brothers instead. Which I absolutely do not get. Because she would have less privacy sharing a room with them then she would sharing a room with me. But anyways I thought of her picking them over me just kind of hurts. But anyway that situation got me thinking about my entire relationships with my younger step-sister, younger step-brother, younger biological-brother, and my younger step-cousin. And how they never really want to include me in things. They always seem to leave me out of the loop and that really hurts. It honestly feels like they don't really care about me or my feelings. They never include me in anything in fact I don't even think they even consider inviting me when they're doing something. They always leave me out of discussions and anytime I try when time with them they act like it's really awkward and eventually I end up being ignored almost completely. I want to address this issue them but I highly doubt they'd listen. I don't even know how I'd bring it up. |
Question: I want to make a YouTube channel, but my both of my parents are a bit overprotective.? Posted: 20 May 2017 06:36 PM PDT I want to make a YouTube channel where at most I would do things like vlogs and I'll also be doing covers of songs I listen to. I have been thinking about this for over six months, and it is something that I really want to do. I want to do this because it's one of the only ways that I know of where I can express myself doing the the things I love(Singing and music). And I am scared to ask them because I have no clue as to how they will react. I have gone through multiple scenarios in my head of how I would ask them, but none of them seem to be the right way to ask them. And the one that would probably take the most convincing is my dad. And my mom, well, there is a 50/50 chance that she will say yes, but it is my dad that I am most worried about. And like i said, it's not like I am going to post anything inappropriate, at most I would do some vlogs and also I'll be doing covers of songs I listen to. I understand why they are overprotective, but sometimes it can be a bit annoying and sometimes they can be a bit overbearing. And before you go ahead and say "Listen to your parents" or "You are living under their roof, so you have to listen to what they say" or anything like that, I already know that they are my parents and whatever they say goes. But all I am asking is to get a bit of help on what I should say or what I should do. Or even any advice. Thanks so much! |
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