Friends: Question: How to be happy living a life of solitude? |
- Question: How to be happy living a life of solitude?
- Question: Why does my bestfriend keep doing this?
- Question: Why does my older friend treat me like an innocent child sometimes?
- Question: My friend is usually very blunt And straight up, she told this to me, why? It's not like her?
- Question: What are some free websites for making fake college degrees for fun.?
- Question: Opinions on friend's husband's behavior and what should I do?
- Question: How do you rid yourself of "toxic" friends? I care about my friend but this relationship is taking a toll on me.?
- Question: How do I avoid being a loner?
- Question: I m upset at almost nothing?
- Question: What do I do? Where should I sit at lunch from now on?! Am I being paranoid?
- Question: Can I ask my friend for hugs?
- Question: Why do people serve food when visitors and friends come to their home?
- Question: What do I do !!!!!?
- Question: Is it bad to ask a freshman to prom?
- Question: Was my friend being rude by saying this? Please answer?
- Question: Is it bad to ask a freshman to prom?
- Question: FRIENDSHIP HELP??
- Question: Im not good with making friends. How do i make friends?
- Question: A friend of mine is taking very dangerous drugs.. should I tell his parents?
- Question: What ethnicity does he look like?
- Question: Should I give my "ex friend" a second chance even after she hurt me this bad?
- Question: What's wrong with him?
- Question: I miss my guy friend a lot but he has not time to see me?
- Question: تخيلوا كدا معايا?
- Question: Have i been replaced?
- Question: What should I say/do about this woman I care about?
- Question: Babe Nigel is skint?
- Question: How do I make people stop teasing me?????
- Question: Is it okay to have imaginary friends at 14?
- Question: Adderall for unprescribed teenagers?
- Question: How to have friends as a loner?
- Question: Im new to musically. plz tell me how to invite others and secific person to duet with us?
- Question: Please answer! Which clique should I join?
- Question: Am I wrong to sell it ?
- Question: Have a friend whos been setting at a truck stop trying to get home nd has no money not even to eat on can they help her get home?
- Question: Hey everyone I need a big way to tell my friend that I'll miss her a lot.?
- Question: Why people annoy me so much.I have 26 mails and I don't want more why the hell they wrote to someone they don't know P.S srry but I am angry?
- Question: Depressed, addicted and lost everybody...?
- Question: I'm looking for someone manipulative?
- Question: What do I do after my best friend died?
- Question: Is the relationship I have with my friends healthy?
- Question: Why does my mom dislikes everyone who has a relation to me outside of family?
- Question: How do I know if I should break up a friendship?
- Question: Hi ruth,how are you doing?
- Question: Why do we always want the attention of those who don't care about us?
- Question: If you never touch anyone except one person, isnt that a good sign you like them?
- Question: Please rate her looks from 1-10? tks?
- Question: Am I being a crappy friend and how can I stop?
- Question: If You Hack Someone's Snapchat Can They Tell it Was You? (Revenge)?
- Question: Would you say it is a good idea to friend request or message a girl you haven't seen in years?
- Question: Any advice?
- Question: How do I deal with my best friend finding a new best friend when our kids are involved?
- Question: Does my friend secretly have a major health problem like cancer?
- Question: What should I say to this?
- Question: Someone posted this on afterschool app??? What does it mean?
- Question: Am I wrong or is my friend?
- Question: So I am pretty good friends with this one person at school and I want to ask him to hangout... What should I say? (not a relationship)?
- Question: Why cant I socialize?
- Question: I miss my best friend so much it actually hurts.?
- Question: I m going to a party with a person I do not like what do I do?
| Question: How to be happy living a life of solitude? Posted: 31 May 2017 05:39 PM PDT I want to know how to be happy being alone. Not like "dating" alone, but without friends, family, etc. I have grown up attaching my self-worth to others like my mom or my friends because I am usually wrong about everything haha. I just have never had a best friend, or I thought I did and they turned out to be fake or liked someone else better. I was the happiest when my friends were with me and we were happy and having fun, but I was the saddest when they hurt me and treated me like garbage. I just want to know if there is a way for me to be happy but not get attached to people??? my problem is that if I get happy with people I become attached. I've tried the hobby thing, the passive-aggressive thing, the drug thing. No drug, song, movie, run, bud, shot, or "talking it out" could compare to the feelings I felt when I was with my friends, but nothing compares to the utter, pure, sharp and distinguished pain I feel that feels numb and cold and paralyzing and cruel when I am disappointed. So anyways anything not mentioned above that helps with this? Can't seem to find that best friend/close family member or pet. Was just wondering how people get those same highs without getting close to people. |
| Question: Why does my bestfriend keep doing this? Posted: 31 May 2017 05:13 PM PDT So this girl I've been friends with since elementary lately I've been very busy and so whenever she asks me to hang I'm busy or when I ask her she's busy and so 2 days ago I was getting ready for school she was having a bad morning and she was ranting to me about it and I was literally rushing cause I had to catch my bus for pe and so then I replied with sorry I didn't reply I was busy so then the next day she said just left home I'm like now she's like yea so I saw it but I didn't reply back again I was rushing and she got pissed off she started saying everything in a sarcastic way im like look if I'm f##king busy and I can't reply don't get pissed off and before that she asked me if I wanted to go to party I asked who's she's like "does it matter" I'm just like wtf obviously so then that night she text me and said look I'm asking you this once do you want to go and here's the thing I didn't say no I just asked who's party is it then I was like um I never said no and then she started saying how I never time to hang it's cause I really she doesn't believe me and I apologized 4xs to her and she's making feel like I am the bad person in all of this |
| Question: Why does my older friend treat me like an innocent child sometimes? Posted: 31 May 2017 04:59 PM PDT I'm 15 years old and I have been friends with this girl since I was 11. She treats me like I'm still some innocent kid who isn't exposed to anything bad sometimes (although it's not true.. when you're an inner city kid, you tend to be exposed to lots of things). She is 20 this year and she thinks it's funny how 12 year olds are on social media twerking and trying to get guys to think they're attractive. Because they're like newborn babies in her perspective. She grew up in a foreign country from birth to early teens then moved to Canada. She also doesn't think that I know much about love or have much experience with romance. |
| Posted: 31 May 2017 04:46 PM PDT She told me "you are a blessing in my life" why would she say that, she's usually not a compliment person. She's sweet to me but not much to others. Why would she say that |
| Question: What are some free websites for making fake college degrees for fun.? Posted: 31 May 2017 04:24 PM PDT I used to do this for fun all the time but the websites I find now want you to either pay each time you do it or do it for you. there was one that didn't require payment i found but they said fake the kind I used would look 100 percent real it is stupid beyond measure to have a fake one say its fake defeats to whole purpose stuff like this is why I am not a people person. |
| Question: Opinions on friend's husband's behavior and what should I do? Posted: 31 May 2017 03:59 PM PDT I have this old best friend, we have been friends for 8 years. She got a BF and married 3-4 yrs ago. Me and my friend had a falling out around the same time they were dating in 2013. I felt replaced by him and I was immature back then. He only knows her side of the story. He witnessed her crying from me back then. I said sorry, we worked it out and everything was fixed between us. They eventually moved out of state once married in 2014. I've only met the guy 4 times so I don't really know him. Since 2015, there have been no fights between me and the friend. I've grown up and realized my mistakes from the past, so has she. We are working on getting back to being best friends. They visit here every now and then. I told her I'd like to visit her and she agreed. However, the husband is having a problem with it. He says he isn't comfortable with me visiting on my own and says to bring a friend and stay at a hotel. I would've liked to go myself so it would help us become closer friends but he still insists on bringing someone. He says he's worried I will start something with my friend due to the past(2013) even though my friend has told him I've changed. Also, my friend hasn't added me on social media for over a yr. She says it is because of her husband. She says he is iffy about us being close again even though both of us want to be close again. She has tried telling her husband the positives of our friendship but still nothing. He won't videochat me either. Help? |
| Posted: 31 May 2017 03:52 PM PDT I have a friend who i hook up with as well as connect with on an emotional and mental level. We speak to each other about our problems but him more than me. To cut a long story short, hooking up is fun but the emotional baggage that comes with it isnt. He is someone who i believe is heavily burdened by events that he has faced in his life, particularly loss and strained relationships. He is full of darkness and harbors a lot of guilt and negative energy. I have deduced that he is someone who revels in his own misery. He has many times said that he hates who he is yet he sees no solution for it. He also believes that he will never be happy because he is imperfect and incomplete. He stresses himself with things he has no control over. I have tried to suggest to him to see a specialist bt over nd over again he doesnt want to because he sees no point in it and that nothing will come of it. His presence is draining and one can immediately sense that there are underlying issues. It is a lot to deal with on a regular basis. I enjoy his company when he is in a good space but he needs help and uses physcial intimacy as some form of escape from his problems. Its hard to admit that he is using me because i care about him and he is there for me when i need him but my other friends point out that im putting more effort in than i should and that im not the person he should be going to offload his emotional baggage. How do i manage to help him get help and eliminate him as a toxic friend? |
| Question: How do I avoid being a loner? Posted: 31 May 2017 03:38 PM PDT I'm Autistic - but I'm not shy, introverted, or socially anxious. I've spent most of my life being lonely, I'll go through phases of having friends but it's short lived and it seems people easily drift away from me - last time I had friends was years ago when I was working, being long-term unemployed (due to disability) has ruined that as it has meant drifting apart. I'm working on getting back into work and I've started working in a few voluntary positions recently, hopefully I can consider trying to get back into work in a few months but still not sure what sort of work to look for and even then it's no guarantee of friends: working in a new place it can take months/years to form friendships. Being in my thirties it feels so much harder to find friends, being a woman it's tricky as there are places I can't go alone and I prefer male friends but it's tricky to show interest in guys as friends without them getting the wrong impression. Being unemployed also means no money to attempt to find hobbies or go out places. I'm so much happier when I've got friends, when I'm around large groups of people and out places like gigs or bars...I'm so lonely it's causing severe depression. As I'm Autistic I'm used to being alone, I do everything alone because I've had to, but all human beings need other people in their lives...it's getting too much. |
| Question: I m upset at almost nothing? Posted: 31 May 2017 03:15 PM PDT I left school freshman year because people were always rude to teachers, doing drugs, and constant harassment. (Not torwards me but other students) So yeah I couldn t stand being there anymore feeling like I got nothing accomplished. So today I had to take a test that every sophomore takes and I physically had to be at my school. The test was fine and I was sitting down at some sort of bench couch thing, I made sure to sit on the edge for more space for people. This fat Mexican lady (not being racist) sits down and starts yelling at me to more space for her friend in Spanish. I honestly felt like popping off so hard and calling her names but I just quietly moved over a bit. So yeah I don t know why I m so upset right now, it was such a little thing but I hate it when people are rude when they don t even know you. |
| Question: What do I do? Where should I sit at lunch from now on?! Am I being paranoid? Posted: 31 May 2017 03:00 PM PDT So at my lunch table I sit with a group of people. Only some of the most are friends of mine though. The other people that I sit with are just my friend's friends. So I don't really talk to them. So one day they all just decided to switch lunch tables. And I wasn't sure whether I should go sit at where they were now sitting. I felt kind of weird going to go sit with them since I don't even talk to them. The only reason I sat with them before was because they sat at my lunch table. But now that they switched tables there's not really a point of following them around where they sit if I don't even know most of them. So I started sitting at my other friend's table. And at my friend's table there is this girl that sits there and I don't think she likes me. I'm not sure why but I get this feeling she doesn't. So luckily the day I sat at my friend's table, the girl who I think doesn't like me was on a field trip. So it was just my friend, and some of our other friends and I that sat there. It was fun. But then the next day the girl who I think doesn't like me came back from the field trip and then everything got weird at that table. Less people started talking to me. And the table just got silent. It was awkward. I mean like it wasn't completely silent but I felt like everything I said people were thinking I was weird or something. So what do you think? Am I just being paranoid or do you think there's something wrong? And which table do you think I should sit at?! Thank you! |
| Question: Can I ask my friend for hugs? Posted: 31 May 2017 02:28 PM PDT My friend gave me so many hugs all the time, but that was when we were on break at work, and when i picked her up to bring her to work, and when i dropped her off at her house after work. But I am not going to be working with her anymore because our schedules are now different. I am just wondering if I can ask her for a visit for some hugs because I can't hug her at work anymore because we wont be working together anymore. The only reason I am questioning whether I should ask her or not is becuase she said she is "in a relationship". BUT she gave me hugs at work everytime even after she said she told me that. She says she loves hugs, and she is very friendly :) I just miss her hugs... |
| Question: Why do people serve food when visitors and friends come to their home? Posted: 31 May 2017 02:17 PM PDT I usually do it when I know I've got friends coming over but I just realized I don't know the reason why or where this culture really originates from. Another thing is that when not home I'd buy a friend something to eat but not any other thing, e.g I'd buy someone an expensive meal but wouldn't dare buy them a pair of sun glasses that cheaper than the meal. If I really loved food I'd understand but I don't have much love for food so its kinda starting to weird me out. |
| Posted: 31 May 2017 02:05 PM PDT My friend Leah is a slut everyone knows this and what she has done but she doesn't know that everyone knows about her being a slut this guy Kyle (who I like ) is like best friends with Leah but Kyle thinks she is ugly kyles best friend Barry hates Leah and Leah's best friend ailbhe but ailbhe is Barry's ex girlfriend and Leah and ailbhe are besties I am besties with them as well but am also best friends with a different group of friends Lauren Hollie Laura and they all tell me to stay away from Leah . Barry likes this group of girls Hollie has this name for Leah( warming) and Kyle found out about this name today and Barry already knew I think Kyle is mad cause he is like best friends with Leah and I am really sad cause I am friend with everyone and if I play with Leah all the boys will not like me and Barry won't but I like Kyle who is besties with leah but if I play with Leah barry will start to talk about me because he is popular and I don't want people talking behind my back I just don't know any more please tell me what to do this is real I felt like crying in school over this 😭 |
| Question: Is it bad to ask a freshman to prom? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:50 PM PDT I recently asked a freshmam girl to prom because we were friends. I am a senior. She said yes at first, but then sent a message to me that night saying that her parents said no because she is too young. I understand that age matters, but because she knew me I figured she understood we would just be going as friends. Also I am a clean student and had not intended on doing anything illegal that night. I'm not so upset about her declining, but a week later she stopped talking to me and she unfollowed me on Instagram. At first I thought it was nothing personal, but then her friend who was also my friend unfollowed me a day later. She won't even greet me in the hallways at school anymore. I am becoming concerned that our friendship is over and that these girls think I am a creep of some sort. I don't know what to do, and also does it sound like our friendship is over? |
| Question: Was my friend being rude by saying this? Please answer? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:37 PM PDT Okay so I showed my friend my polarized sunglasses I got and she asked how much they were and I told her my dad got them for $75 and they were more than that but he got that offer on them to where they were cheaper and she told me that I was spoiled. Was she kidding when she said that? Or was she being rude? I haven't gotten everything I've wanted in life anyway |
| Question: Is it bad to ask a freshman to prom? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:15 PM PDT I recently asked this girl who I consider to be a friend to prom. She is a freshman and I am a senior. She said yes initially, but later that night she sent me a message saying she couldn t go because her parents said she s too young. I did not consider age very much because I know other people who are going with sophomores and juniors. I am a clean student and had no intention to do anything illegal that night, and I figured that she thought of me in the same way. But now she and her friend who was also my friend won t talk to me anymore and have unfollowed me on Instagram. I m not sure what happened and I m a bit concerned about whether I ruined our friendship or not. |
| Posted: 31 May 2017 01:09 PM PDT My old bestfriend and I are still close friends but I wanna be bestfriends again and I have told her more then once and I just don't know what to do. If anyone has advice please leave a comment down below, I appreciate any and all help. |
| Question: Im not good with making friends. How do i make friends? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:00 PM PDT |
| Question: A friend of mine is taking very dangerous drugs.. should I tell his parents? Posted: 31 May 2017 12:04 PM PDT I recently found out that a friend of mine (I m not really close with him but we ve known each other most our lives) is taking heroin & acid frequently. ( we are both 18 year old seniors in HS about to graduate and go off to college.) if I wasn t close to him I wouldn t feel the need to want to tell his parents as much, but that being said my mom is best friends with his mom and has been for most our lives. My question is should I tell his mom or tell my mom and have her talk to his mom about this? Drug use is something that is heavy on my heart and hits close to home because I have a dad who is a major junkie and I ve seen the way drugs took over his live and how he s been in and out of the hospital and prison for it & that is something I want to prevent from happening to someone. If anything ever happens to him because of these drugs I could never live with my self knowing I knew what he was doing and never said anything that could have prevented this. All I want to do is possiably save a life. Please help me. Ive asked for advice and all I ve gotten is "that isn t your business." "Let him hit rock bottom then he ll change" but what if letting him hit rock bottom is something that could end his life.. |
| Question: What ethnicity does he look like? Posted: 31 May 2017 11:51 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I give my "ex friend" a second chance even after she hurt me this bad? Posted: 31 May 2017 10:47 AM PDT Last year, my junior year, my friend Alice met a guy, and she was instantly smitten. She fell hard for him and he fell hard for her, I was so happy for her. Then things went down hill. She started to hang out with him more than me, she started lying to me just so she could not be with me and hang out with me. It got to the point where I barely saw her because she was so in love with this guy. The guy though, saw right through me, he knew I was upset she spent more time with him and barely made time for myself or any of our other friends. He started to bully me, made me fall into a deep depression, when I expressed her my thoughts, she'd defend him, say he only says stuff when he's angry at people. One time, he was joking about me dying as saying how funny it would be if I died, I told her that made me think thoughts I had not thought in years and she said "I would not give two ***** if you died, I have John", that's when I cut her off. Last week, I learned he broke up with her because she began to bore him and s*x wasn't as magical (which she used to value a lot) she came back and begged for my acceptance to her apology, how she was sorry and stupid to let a dumb boy ruin us. Would I be an idiot to forgive her? Or should I give her a second chance? |
| Question: What's wrong with him? Posted: 31 May 2017 10:36 AM PDT Alright, so I m typing this question in regards to something Ive been wondering. I m currently in high school and there's this student in class who, I guess you can say, has a big ego. Like, a really big ego. I m being serious. He picks and makes fun of anyone hes around, sometimes even his friends. He also yells at anyone who wants to ask him a question. He also makes friends with the upperclassmen since they find him "cool" and "lit" or whatever kids say. We'll call him Joe for example. "Hey Joe, can you fo someyhong for me?" He replies "Wtf, stfu with that s***" and so on and so forth. Does anyone know what's up with this guy? Jeez, how can someone be so negative? |
| Question: I miss my guy friend a lot but he has not time to see me? Posted: 31 May 2017 10:00 AM PDT Hi! I have been friends with my guy friend since february 2016. Anyways he is the sweetest person you would meet , however he is also the BUSIEST guy you would meet. He works two jobs, one of them he works more than 50 hours a week (construction) he has always been there for me. I have anxiety and i would text him if i was feeling down, he would send long text (s) helping me feel better. Also even when i'm being annoying still is friends with me and tells me why he is annoyed when i ask. He says he is down for hanging out (i know he would but he has no time) Back when i was sick (bronchitis) in colllege i would send him snachats and he would ask back "how are you feeling?" he even on my birthday when i was sick, sent me the nicest birthday text. We facetimed once and he was smiling, asking questions about myself, talking about himself it was great. Ive tried asking a couple times to facetime again back in the sign but i din't think he wanted to. When we did FaceTime the connection was horrible and he had to keep calling me back. He is a really great friend we are just FRIENDS but i'm really upset i probably won't see him this summer. He never said that but i sent him a text about getting together with me and my best friend (we did that last year had a great time) and no answer. it's been a day. He is still a great friend but how do i get ver not seeing him? Thanks! |
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| Question: Have i been replaced? Posted: 31 May 2017 08:31 AM PDT My friend got close to this girl and now they're hanging out 24/7 its like i dont exist anymore, she doesnt ask me to join im just excluded completely. I haven't spoken to her since last Friday... |
| Question: What should I say/do about this woman I care about? Posted: 31 May 2017 08:16 AM PDT So I have this friend, and we've been friends for awhile now. I'd say 2 years tops, if not more. Lately I have been thinking about her as more of a friend, but, there's one little problem.. She is only into women, and clearly doesn't want to be with men, which I happen to be. It wasn't right away when I caught these feelings for her, I suppose it grew over time and even another friend of mine mentioned why don't her and I date, but I knew from the very start that she was into women because it was clear/she told me she was. We've spent a lot of time together over the years and still do to this day, we talk to each other everyday at least once, usually more. Our friendship is good and well.. it's overwhelming me now.. I am starting to dream about her and I together. Not a lot, but here and there.. I will have dreams.. Last night was one of the times where I did, and it's finally brought me here. I've tried to very slightly hint at an "us" reality but I am almost, if not 100 percent sure she will never see me as anything more than a friend.. which is okay, if anything you know the cliche, I want her to be happy, even if it isn't with me.. I can't think of anything else to say on this matter really.. if anyone would care enough to give me some advice, or a similar experience or.. anything really! Ha ha, I would very much appreciate it. Thank you. |
| Question: Babe Nigel is skint? Posted: 31 May 2017 08:07 AM PDT He's a hero, can we do anything to help him? Can he find himself a wonderful gf and a lucrative job? |
| Question: How do I make people stop teasing me????? Posted: 31 May 2017 07:53 AM PDT People tease me because of my looks, my voice, the way I walk. I tried telling a teacher (i'm in 7th grade), but unfortunately they couldn't punish the "bullies" since there were so many. I tried telling them to stop but ofcourse they won't, and I won't tease them back because I know that is not good, and that makes me part of the problem. Please help. |
| Question: Is it okay to have imaginary friends at 14? Posted: 31 May 2017 07:33 AM PDT I'm 14, I have absolutely 0 friends(and have had like two friends in my entire past), and I like to pretend I have this circle of friends with unique characteristics that is usually located in my high school. I have a best friend that is the most amazing person and also a boyfriend who I like to pretend I'm cuddling with instead of a pillow. Is that okay? After a long time I have finally come to accept that I will be lonely forever, so I have created this social group to keep myself entertained even though I know they are fake. P.s I don't see them or anything creepy like that, I just pretend they are there |
| Question: Adderall for unprescribed teenagers? Posted: 31 May 2017 06:36 AM PDT I have a friend who just took Adderall to help with final exams. Not prescribed, her friend gave it to her. She swears its not going to continue, but she has been exhibiting suspiciously rebellious behavior lately. Very smart person. What do I do as her friend? |
| Question: How to have friends as a loner? Posted: 31 May 2017 06:35 AM PDT |
| Question: Im new to musically. plz tell me how to invite others and secific person to duet with us? Posted: 31 May 2017 05:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Please answer! Which clique should I join? Posted: 31 May 2017 05:18 AM PDT Since the clique I'm in is really mean to me (they throw food crumbs at me and make fun of me for singing), I want to join a new clique. Which one should I join? The first clique is the popular kids. I hang out with the popular kids all the time in class, and we duet a lot. In class me and the popular kids are telling jokes to each other and basically having fun. However, there are 2 bullies in that clique, but there are a ton of popular kids who I hang out with. The second clique is the spoiled brats. I am definitely not hanging out with them; their name speaks for themselves. They do stuff like throw up in people's bags and ask people VERY personal questions. The third clique is the "loser" clique. I don't think they're losers, but I heard a girl call them losers. On Friday I hung out with them and we talked about cupcakes. Their motto is: "don't resort to violence, resort to cake". Cake is my favourite food, I don't think I'll survive without cake. Which clique should I join? |
| Question: Am I wrong to sell it ? Posted: 31 May 2017 05:07 AM PDT Hi all and thanks in advance for replying but I wanna know if I'm wrong in this situation. I got a phone for my birthday about 1 year ago and I recently bought a new one (my own money of course) but my dad bought me the previous phone I had which I sold. I didn't tell him I sold it but obviously he's gonna notice haha but since he paid for the previous phone which I sold less than a year ago was I wrong to sell it? It's not that I hated my old phone I just wanted more space. I mean technically the old phone was a gift so I kinda feel bad idk thoughts?!? |
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| Question: Hey everyone I need a big way to tell my friend that I'll miss her a lot.? Posted: 31 May 2017 03:46 AM PDT Last year I sticked a paper on my uniform saying I Love you and this time I don't know what to do, could you help me out? I want a big way to tell her how much I will miss her someway that'll make her smile a lot |
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| Question: Depressed, addicted and lost everybody...? Posted: 31 May 2017 02:59 AM PDT A couple months ago I met a girl who became my best friend. I was very numb before I met her. Meeting her and becoming close with her somehow motivated me to get really good grades in school for once, stay out of trouble, and I was always very positive and happy. Months into our friendship she started treating me very poorly and I became very depressed. When I became very depressed, everyone started leaving. I then got hooked on Triple-C's and even more friends left. Nobody talks to me anymore and I have nobody and I don't know why. I want to die and I don't know what to do anymore. I want to be that passionate, happy, motivated girl again. What do I di |
| Question: I'm looking for someone manipulative? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:43 AM PDT The type to keep somebody up late at night in an argument and refuse to let them sleep until it's solved while purposefully dragging it on The type to use and abuse others feelings The type to blame their problems on another person To ignore them on purpose To be petty and childish with the intent of hurting their feelings I'm looking for a person to utterly destory somebody, to cause long term damage. Someone who genuinely enjoys emotional suffering. |
| Question: What do I do after my best friend died? Posted: 31 May 2017 01:36 AM PDT My best friend was diagnosed with leukemia a few months ago. She started chemo and was doing fine for a bit than got sick again. I hadn t seen her in a while mostly bc she was always sleeping or getting chemo, but I spoke to her on the 18th of may for her bday and told her I loved her and she said love you too. Little did I know it would be the last time speaking to her and I regret not actually going to see her that day. I went about my day and around 11pm tonight I went to fb and started seeing comments of people saying rip and your in heaven etc. I m freaking out and haven t stopped crying but it s 1 am now and I don t know if I should call her mom now or tomorrow morning. I ve never known anyone that s died and so I don t know how to act.do I call her mom and tell her that I m coming over, do I ask to come over. I ve known this girl over 20 years and her fam is like mine. Do I take flowers when I go I don t know what to do. I already know I ll offer to help with her daughter who s 6 but Idk what people do in these situations. thanks for your answers in advance |
| Question: Is the relationship I have with my friends healthy? Posted: 30 May 2017 11:50 PM PDT I've been asking myself this a lot lately. I'm going into my last year of middle school and I've managed to gather a friend group of six other girls which is pretty decent. Before this year I would usually hang out with anyone really. We spend time at school together and hang out often, however one moment someone is gossiping behind another person's back then the next moment they're both best friends. I understand girls and their odd behavior but what we say about each other is really awful. None of us seem ok with saying how we feel. I personally begun struggling with finding out who I am because I change something much when I'm around these people. I have such a difficult time saying what I want or what my interests are. Is this ok? Is this just typical girl behavior? |
| Question: Why does my mom dislikes everyone who has a relation to me outside of family? Posted: 30 May 2017 10:42 PM PDT My mother since I was younger has never approved of more than 1 friend who moved away at a younger age. Now that I'm older (19) I have found that my mom has never tried to be nice to anyone who I call a friend even ones that have lasted 6 years. Now with my girlfriend who was a close friend before we became couple she has made even ruder remarks such as asking if she wasn't hungry before stopping by had she eaten trash instead of the meal that was at my house. Now as a disclaimer I never bring anyone over or invite them saying that it would be better if you did not meet my mother. I just want to know if this is toxic of her or what would lead her to feel this way about so many of my friend who has shown that they respect and care for me? Especially as she begins questions my relationship with my significant other after my significant other trying to develop a relationship with my mother since she was only a friend. Also, I have tried bringing it up yet she will each time switch it back on me or ignore my inquiries. I don't want my life to continue being a back and forth between my mom and the people who I care about and feeling like I have to choose one or the other. |
| Question: How do I know if I should break up a friendship? Posted: 30 May 2017 10:17 PM PDT I have a friend, the two of us consider each other BEST friends. But things went wrong, I guess. She's "obsessed" with me. It kind of creeps me out but I was fine with that part of it. She gets jealous when she sees me with people other than her. She always asks me "did you ditch me for them?" when she spots me. This happens so often that I feel unsafe, especially because sometimes I don't even know how she found out I was hanging out with those people. It got to the point where I'm scared to hang out with other people. I lie and say that I'm busy when they ask to hang out just because I'm scared that she'd get mad. She hates some of my friends just because they're my friends. Whenever I mention them, she becomes distant and scary. She's a liar too. Sometimes she lies to me that a friend of mine did something to her. Her lies are often easy to differentiate from the truth but sometimes she lies about things that seem too serious to be lies. She's actually faked domestic abuse before. She confessed that it was a lie a few weeks after it suspiciously stopped happening. I told her to stop being so needy and to leave me alone because I want to have friends other than her. She was apologetic and told me that she didn't realize that it was affecting me so badly. We've fought before and our friendship has broken before, but I couldn't live without her. I felt so small and alone that I went back to her. Because of that, I don't know what to do. Do I end it or no? I need help. |
| Question: Hi ruth,how are you doing? Posted: 30 May 2017 10:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do we always want the attention of those who don't care about us? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:50 PM PDT |
| Question: If you never touch anyone except one person, isnt that a good sign you like them? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:46 PM PDT If you saw a person who never even hugs their friends but always rubs another person and teases them. |
| Question: Please rate her looks from 1-10? tks? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:34 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I being a crappy friend and how can I stop? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:30 PM PDT My best friend has been wanting to meet people (mostly just wants a boyfriend.) I introduced her to my friends and we went dancing. At the dance I met a guy and we started hitting it off talking about cameras (We're both photographers.) Later that night I danced with another guy, really into history and we spent the night talking. My friend facebook friended every one of my friends that she met that night. (Weird but I was fine with it. I mean she wanted to meet people.) Then she private messaged the guy I stayed up with and pretty much everyone as far as I know. She's suddenly OBSESSED with cameras and history and everything we're into which she had negative interest in before and is now taking part in my posts with these guys as if she loves it. I went on a date with the history guy and the night before she tells me she was talking to him and he told her we were going out. I thought it odd as they didn't talk at the dance. She asked him to take us both for a drive in his car. I love my friend. I'm just feeling so crappy about this. I feel like she's taking my life and my friends. I realize I'm being stupid and I want her to be happy and have friends.I want to take dance class. She's a dancer too. Is it wrong for me to just take it alone? Am I a POS for even thinking about it? Or is the right thing to invite her. Truthfully I wish we could just both go together. But I don't want her taking over more of my life than she already has. |
| Question: If You Hack Someone's Snapchat Can They Tell it Was You? (Revenge)? Posted: 30 May 2017 09:27 PM PDT So there's this girl who has been continuously rude to my friend and others for no reason and we've actually gone to the school board to report her but all they had her say was sorry though she continues to harass my friend and other people. My friend kind of wanted revenge so we hacked her Snapchat account (we didn't actually change the password we just logged in with her old password) and I know nothing about Snapchat so when I opened the app and signed in with her login credentials a camera showed up and my face showed up so then I got scared because I thought somehow she will know I signed into her account because my face showed up even though I did not take a snap. Then I saw that my camera roll photos showed up in the section "your camera roll," so then I just quickly logged out of her Snapchat. Will my camera pictures be saved onto her Snapchat account? Will she know? Obviously we shouldn't have done this but she's just a really bad person. |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 09:12 PM PDT Alright, I haven't seen a former classmate in almost eight years. I wasn't quite friends with her but conversated with her every now and then. Would it be a good idea to send a request and/or send a message reminding her who I am and to perhaps, develop a friendship? |
| Posted: 30 May 2017 09:02 PM PDT Theres a high school reunion soon...most of these people I haven't seen since freshman year, we're seniors now. I really want to reconnect with these past friends that I've had. I've always been somewhat shy, what should I do to reconnect with them? Should I just say **** it, **** my shyness and do what I gotta do? #NoRegrets ? |
| Question: How do I deal with my best friend finding a new best friend when our kids are involved? Posted: 30 May 2017 08:59 PM PDT I m 24 and have been best friends with my bff since we were 17. We both have children now and they are close in age so they do most everything together, they love eachother and look forward to holiday activities together and just everything in general. I m not really sure how it happened so quickly but my bff has become close with someone else really quickly. It hurt feeling like I was being replaced but what s worse is that this new person has a child as well and more than anything it now feels like my child has been replaced. My bff seems to care more about this child, Now my child s best friend is not around and he can not understand why. He calls my bff aunt because he considers her to be family and asks me about seeing them on a daily basis and it breaks my heart. |
| Question: Does my friend secretly have a major health problem like cancer? Posted: 30 May 2017 08:46 PM PDT When my other friend asked her last week if she is coming back to our school (which is a Catholic private school) she said she isn't sure yet, but when I seemed surprised she said, kind of over-optimistically as if she didn't mean it, that she is pretty sure she's coming back. The next day we were talking about our school's end-of-the-year backpacking excursion (which is an annual thing) and this friend casually said she's probably not going. She wouldn't readily tell us why and we didn't press her on it. She always goes on these trips. My first thought was financial- our school is expensive (even though it is faith-based it's kind of for rich people and they don't have scholarships) and the backpacking trip is also expensive because of the food. But then I got the thought that she has some sort of health problem. I don't know why I think that, I have no other evidence to back it up. |
| Question: What should I say to this? Posted: 30 May 2017 07:06 PM PDT Just a bit of background. This girl is my best friend. Our friendship goes very deep and we are practically like sisters. I have had some struggles recently. It has been almost a year since my grandpa N passed away and we are still settling estates and such on that side which has been difficult for me to see and hear. It has been a month since my grandpa H passed away. He was sick with cancer for 5 weeks before he passed away and it has really been a difficult time for my family. Today I got this text from my best friend. "So with summer being crazy for both of us I believe it would benefit us both in different ways if maybe we focused on ourselves and not each other this summer." What do I say to that? She s my best friend. She doesn t understand how fragile I am right now and that I am struggling and that this is going to make me struggle even more. |
| Question: Someone posted this on afterschool app??? What does it mean? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:55 PM PDT I know for sure they were talking about me because there is only one Anne from our school but anyways they posted "Anne...hi lol" I don t know who this could possibly be but what does it mean! Why did they say lol after saying hi and why did they do a ... after Anne??! What are they trying to tell me??? Thanks in advance! |
| Question: Am I wrong or is my friend? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:40 PM PDT My best friend s daughter s birthday is the same day and time as my husband s best friend s daughter. My daughter is very close with them both but my husband would rather attend the party that is closer to us and the Birthday girl happens to be his Goddaughter as well. I am working that day so I don t really have too much say in the decision. I let my friend know the situation but she seems to be upset with me and she is avoiding me. I feel like this is beyond my control but I wish I could make her happy, I offered to drive over that night or the next day for a late celebration but she won t even respond to the text. What should I do? |
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| Question: Why cant I socialize? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:29 PM PDT I can hardly bring myself to say anything to people at school or anywhere else and when I do say anything, it is so forced and random, no one gives me a normal responce. Its not that I dont have conversation skills, because at my old school I had lots of friends, but I made them by just talking to one in elementary school, before I was so nervous in situations like that, and just got more by talking to his friends with him and so on, and kept talking with them through middle school and now in high school. However, I moved away, and now have no one to talk to at school. Im very socially awkward and am absolutely hopeless in sutuations like parties, where people just stand around and hang out. I just cant act normal around people I dont already know well. I have no friends and no girlfriend and am very depressed over it. |
| Question: I miss my best friend so much it actually hurts.? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:22 PM PDT One year ago my best friend had moved away and I hadn't seen him since then. We only knew each other for four years and we were both the new kids back in fourth grade. We got to know one another on the first day when they asked all the new kids to come in for a meeting, they just asked us about how the first day went. We were not friends until we walked out the meeting, He came up to me and introduced himself. Turns out we moved from the same country/city, our mums were there to pick us up and started talking. He invited us over for dinner and that was where our friendship began. I have not seen him in over a year and I miss him so much. I don't have a crush on him or anything he is just a really close friend. We text everyday and skype every weekend but it does not feel the same as it used to. I want to see him again, I want it to go back to the old days where we used to hike or go on a kayak and stay stranded on a nearby island for hours. I cry everytime I skype him knowing that it will never be the same. My mum once decided to fly over there to surprise them but.. they flew over here to surprise us and that tore me to pieces. I honestly need help, I have many friends here but none of them will ever have a stronger bond than Jake and I, We were legitimate siblings. I don't know how to get over this. There are too many good memories to forget and let go of. I need advice, I honestly don't think I will ever get over this. |
| Question: I m going to a party with a person I do not like what do I do? Posted: 30 May 2017 06:21 PM PDT This past year lost a friend. The kid wants to be friends but I do not want to be at all. The bad part is he knows a secret of mine that he can tell anyone. How do I not act like I m staying away from him or anything. In other words (act neutral). Thank you and this is a pool party |
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