Less than a year ago I decided to move to a big city with my girlfriend. We used to live in a smaller city, but we decided to move here mainly to find better opportunities especially while we are still young (early 20s) and don't have children. So far things have been going fairly well. I've gotten a new job, and my girlfriend and I have been able to do a lot more stuff in the city. But lately I've been second guessing our decision. There's been a lot of stresses. We really aren't liking our jobs and we are always tight on money. We were a lot more comfortable where we used to live. We had a great apartment that we loved. We had decent jobs and were comfortable financially. And even though there wasn't too much to do since it was a smaller city (about 100,000 population) we were never unhappy. We were never really stressed living there. I miss that lifestyle already. All of my family and friends I grew up with live there, and I made close friends at my job as well. There was nothing wrong with our lifestyle, but I wanted to try and take a risk by coming to the city to try and see if it could bring more excitement and better opportunities to our lives, but so far things haven't really been going as planned. I was just wanting to get some advice from those who have maybe been in the same situation. Did we make the right choice so early in our lives?

Ok I like the conservative laws in Texas and I am a white Christian. However it seems that Texas women are only after money and drugs you try to be yourself in this state you are judged and put down basically if you are not rich or a drug dealing criminal texas women avoid you anyone else agree with me

So basically I was hired as a file clerk at a dealership. I sit in a file room all day and do anything but file and watch movies. They're pretty laid back here. You can walk around , take as many breaks as you want, go for a walk. Nobody really micro managements you. But if I do all the filing in one day I won't have anything for the rest of the week. I also normally cover my boss for lunch who works receptionist. She is almost on maternity leave so for 3 months I will be working her job. (Thank god, I love working the receptionist desk) I also cover her when she takes a day off or her lunch. I've only been here for 4 weeks but I'm so bored when I get caught up with all the filing. This job also has had my anxiety up the roof and I have actually gotten panic attacks from this job. ( I am medically diagnosed with anxiety and panic attacks) . My therapist says I should find another position where I can keep busy. But I don't want to job hop. I already asked if the ladies upstairs who I work with needs help, they won't let me help. They don't realize how boring filing is. Should I just stick it out at least for a year?

Im going to give myself a hanging wedgie in public. Any suggestion where I could do it or what should I hang on? Also, you can Tell me how to make stranger pull down your legs in a hanging wedgie to make the wedgie worse? I am using 1-2 pair if panties

It was a year ago. My wife and my sister became close friends. They both hunted for guys to have affairs with. They found two. One for each. My sister was also married. But she never loved her husband. Anyway they both continued their affairs for more then six months. When it was about to start one day my wife told me to go out and find some place to live because I won't be able to study my masters from home. I became a fool and followed her say. I had two daughters then. What my wife was doing, she went out exactly at 11:00 AM and go to a airconditioned hotel and stays their all day leaving my daughters home with their grandparents. And she comes back at 9:00 PM with my sister. They both were doing the same. She fell in love with that guy because of the relation or that was love at first sight. Anyways, that man betrayed my wife and secretly had an affair with my sister. So he banged both my wife and my sister. When my wife found out she told me then about her affair. Otherwise I was to know after my death. My sister is still with that my wife's boyfriend / guy. My sister brokeup with her guy during second month of starting of their affairs. And from onward only my wife was meeting her boyfriend and my sister was providing them room in hotel. The expenses were on these guys. They afforded all outings and stays at hotel rooms. They even drink Vodka and Smoke their. They were fully enjoying their SINfull time. I forgave her but I can't forget. She never loved me, NEVER. and.. and she had an old boyfriend before marriage also. But she said they never had sex. Or... who knows. She continued talking to that old boyfriend for all these years till she found this other guy. She was never happy in her marriage with me. So she told every bit of things to her before marriage boyfriend. And who knows they both were meeting up also in hotels or what, all this time. Ok. If I believe her that these two never had sex but still she betrayed me with the second one. I can't forgive.

For instance, telling somebody who has lost a loved one that things happen for a reason.

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i'm 15, i always wanted to kill myself, but i'm scared, i'm like jailed in my room for 6 months, i don't go outside bcz there's nothin' to do there, i don't have friends, they are useless, i don't even talk with my family, they just ruin my life, do you realise how lonely i'm? i hope so, n' why my mom does nothing? she wake up and pray/eat/read quran/go shoping/sleep and nothing else! why? is this islam? why not to travel, do sports, feed us well, work, study, and all those stuff, she has diploma.. alright, lets stop talkin' bout my mom, so i'm like jailed myself, i don't study, bcz i live in algeria, and most of algerians are franch, i don't want to study franch, i want English its the global language, so now i have nothin' what should i do? i want to move to uk and study in private school, what do i need? and i don't even speak english very well, i'm still learning, i'm suicidal, sad, depressed, lonely. help me..

I work in a huge call center and recently started working from home. Since I work from home now I'm getting a work from home supervisor. I would see her from time to time when working in the building. She slammed doors on my face, refused to help me when she was the only supervisor available. One time my internet crashed for 25 seconds to be exact and she messaged me asking why I wasn't online and if I do that again she will have to take action. I've been with this company for two year almost and have had many supervisors, even ones I didn't like much weren't as rediculous as her. She's also racist towards white people and she only treats white people this way. I mentioned something to my manager about the way I'm feeling and she said she'd consider it but she still places me on this girls team and not the other work from home supervisor. I'm a little scared as well because this women fired 10 people out of 23 people on her team a month ago for no reason... all of them were white or Latino. I didn't want this to be a big deal but I don't want to get fired and who wants to be harassed or felt picked on in the work place. And let's say she doesn't particularly pick on me... shes still racist and I don't feel comfortable asking her for help. If I say one wrong thing I might not beable to pay my bills next week...

My crush has liked me since semptember and is so shy to the point he turns red when looking at me so I made the first move. However it's all been through text because we no longer see each other. He Won't tell me his age but I assume he's younger. I'm 24. Anyways he persists on asking me out the day of. Honestly? For a first date...I mean, I've told him my available days and he won't take it. He continue to wake up and ask for hang out. I'm super busy and rejected him 3 times. He's being so inconsiderate. Now he's not talking to me....I have not flirted with him once because I can't tell his intentions..

Hi everyone, I'm a 31 year old blonde woman and I run a beauty/ fashion blog online, some of my photos/videos are quite racy and provocative but it attracts clicks and business. Recently I attended a special school reunion type event and many students and parents from my grade in high school attended. Many of the people there were in the business or tech industry so I also saw it as an opportunity to network and promote myself. However things have taken a twisted turn. Some of the Dads there had considerable business experience and industry contacts so I decided to chat them up and gave them my website details. I used some flirting to gain their interest and it seems this was a major mistake. A short time later I started receiving private messages from a few on my sites which at first were innocent enough (complimenting me on my beauty) but then degenerated into creepy messages (From asking me out on dates, to saying how much I turn them on). The worst ones even asking if I'd like to meet at a classy hotel in the city 'for some fun' like I'm a hooker. I'm so shocked and disgusted by this. I went to high school with their daughters (though never friends) and they are all around 57 - 58 years old and still Married. I have saved all their messages to use against them. Should I send these to their daughters and wives to let them know what kind of men they really are?

Im dating an illegal immigrant for 1 year. I say illegal immigrant to put out all.info not because im racist. He seemed so nice. My family doesnt accept him because they say he is possesive. Sometimes i feel under pressure. Now i got closer to my ex who is the father of my child. He supports me when i feel so bad. Now this immigrant is going crazy. Everyday for long hours even up to midnight he tells me do something so we be officially together and family accept etc. I told him am working hard so i move out from my family and we can have our own life. But he keeps pressuring and pressuring. He told me am fed up waiting for u at his home. Last saturday while i was workig he went out up to early hours of.morning. saying hes frustrated. Sometimes i feel mentally tired and at my breaking point. Sometimes i think i want to just change my phone number and disappear. What advice do you give me?

I am realizing now that I'm 30 that I've always thought these people were like this only to me. Mean and toxic and like I did something wrong to deserve it. But nowadays I am starting to see that there's a lot of them out there, even from others stories or the sheer fact there's BOOKS about them. And yet, I still blame myself for them being jerks. I still consider it to be something I'm doing wrong. I try to be kind to everyone. I smile a lot. I ask those closest to me if I smile too much and they say no and mean it. I don't know. I'm a girl that tries her best at what she does. Kind to others and show interest in them. But I meet such jerks along the way that are horrible to me but nice only to everyone else. Just what the heck did I do? I almost notice them more than the ones kind to me because it hurts. I guess I am looking for a reminder that there's a lot out there. Just jerks. What's your experience with this?

There will never be another girl like her. And she walked out of my life and broke my heart.

First of all, sorry for my bad English. Okay so i have a boyfriend for 13 months now, it's a long distance relationship. We call almost everyday. But he's too obsessed with his ps4 lately. It's okay to play games and stuff but sometimes he doesn't talk to me and wants me to go to sleep so he can play some games. He even calls me and like 2 minutes later he tells me that he wants to game. we argue about this a lot. He says that he doesn't want to call me everyday and he wants to have some time for his own. But he already has a lot of time for himself because he plays games everyday for hours. I mean is that not enough?! I told him it's okay to play games, but he does it too often, we can't even talk to eachother because of that (he sucks at multitasking). I told him i feel ignored and it's kinda mean and i don't feel loved. But he gets mad and tells me he loves me more than anything. I don't even know why HE gets mad, because i'm the one who feels terrible but i always stay calm. I also bought a ps4 so i can game with him, but no he wants to play with others or at night till the morning which i can't do. It sucks when it feel like u're ur boyfriends second choice and his playstation is his first. I never thought i would be jealous of a gaming console Lol. Sooooo i don't know why he does this or of i'm doing something wrong. I need some advice because it's driving me crazy. This is goin on for a couple weeks now btw. xo

I live in a lower middle class neighborhood. If they come to the door, they will knock on the door, ring the doorbell or turn the knob and push on the door and the deadbolt will keep it from opening. Sometimes they would turn the knob and rattle the door, sometimes they would yell 'open the door' I onced laid a key that didn't fit the door locks in front of the door in a common hiding spot and they even took the key (knew where it was at) and tried the locks though it didn't work. My neighbors would go to the window and start knocking on the window or talking in the window or even go to trying to pull up the window. My neighbors go around looking for activity in the window. Our lawn mower would disappear and reappear in a couple of days -so would our other lawn tools, the gas tanks in our shed will magically become empty. We decided to pad lock the shed. Why are my neighbors so nosy?

My fiance' and I got engaged in March and decided to take a year to enjoy our engagement before getting married. I also have been recently thinking about people who smoke and how short their life span can be especially for our kids in the future. How can I bring this up to him without being offensive? I want him to be around for a very long time especially in our children's lives.

I have this former manager that I've really come to admire. For several months in the beginning, I couldn't stand him. There were times I wanted to cuss him out and quit on the spot. Even one time, I felt like he was too much in my face and I was about to walk out, but I didn't. Over the past few months, I've learned to get to know him better. It started when, around the holidays, some of us employees started getting off work early because work was too slow and we'd all be eating at work off the clock and my then-boss would come sit next to me in the group and we'd all talk, but he always sat next to me. It made it hard not to get to know him. We also had off-sight training together with a few others for a whole month and we really bonded. We even added each other on Facebook and he said it was a blessing how positive and encouraging I was. Apparently, his last day was Saturday and he was very flirty and sweet towards me. I had no idea it was his last day or that he was even planning to resign. He hasn't been at work the past few days. My friend and former co-worker "Vicky" called me and asked if I knew "Dave" didn't work there anymore. I asked who she heard that from, she said she heard it from him. I sent him a message asking about what happened. He explained he just needed a change. He also went on to say he never felt like we didn't get along and that I should continue staying positive and encouraging people. He also said he had been meaning to ask me and Vicky if we go to church or what church we got to. He said it's been on his mind "a long time" to at least invite us to his church and that we're welcome any time, he said "I'm glad I at least finally asked" and that he'll stop by and see us (me and work team) often. Why does he care so much about us going to his church, that he thought about it for a long time? Something to consider, he's married...hence this being in M&D.

He keeps asking me out to hang and last minute too. I'm like, I'm I not worth a planned date or some time to prepapre? he has no respect for my busy schedule. I've suggested my free time but he doesn't care. it would be our first date...after brushing him off, he hasn't written me back. He's such super shy guy so his behaviour is so odd...

Long story, much going on. Still, I feel... well... empty. We're about to move into his sisters house out of necessity, so well be around others technician, but it isn't the same. What do I do now?

A girl in my living room looks at me a lot and flirts with me but I feel nervous every time I want to talk to her. I do not know what to do .. if I do the right thing or not ... Apart she has some friends that I think do not want her to be with her, she has been looking at me for more than two weeks and if I think I'm going to talk to her, I'm afraid her friends will bother her and not anymore He liked me..

Una chica de mi salón me mira mucho y coquetea conmigo pero siento nervios cada vez q quiero hablar con ella. No se q hacer.. si hago lo correcto o no... Aparte tiene unas amigas que creo no quieren que este con ella,lleva mas de dos semanas que me mira y si pienso hablarle tengo miedo que sus amigas la molesten y deje de gustarle..

e não tem como ignorar essa pessoa nem se eu quiser,além de que,mesmo eu pensando em esquece-lá,toda hora eu penso que ela ta olhando pra min,e por algum motivo eu ligo pra isso,mesmo querendo esquece-la

I think I'm a straight girl, I've never been interested in a girl, but when ever I have like a sex dream, it's always me dreaming about having sex with another girl. I've only ever slept with men before? Last night I had a dream where a few guys where trying to pick me up, there was a girl with them, and I told them no, but I'd take her. And the next thing I know in my dream I've haven't sex with this girl. And they're always such intense dreams that feel so real. Am I like subconsciously attracted to women?

We have known each other for awhile. I used to catch him staring at me and I approached him. We have gotten to know each other well and have become friends. But it has never gone beyond friendship. I have asked him to hang out a couple times and he said no. I thought for sure he didn't like me and I tried to move on and kind of ignore him but now he comes up and hugs me at times and sits really close to me and lights up when he sees me especially if it's been awhile but still has not asked me out. This has been going on for over 2 years.

So I asked her what he plans were for the day and she said she was hanging with friends. Thought it was obvious I wanted to hang but she said she didn't know I implied that. So again I woke up one morning and asked her if she would hang and she wrote me back the next day saying something came up and appologised. I'm confused because she has mentioned she wanted to hang. Is she really busy those days... I'm I not giving her enough lead time?....should I ignore her appology and see if she chases me?

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It's chalk and cheese I had one who was married to a colleague he kept moaning she never wanted sex wouldn't do this wouldn't do that yet with me she was the wildest or I ever had? Had a few over the years. Think it's a release of pent up feelings and frustrations, which was nice to free them of.

I don t know if I should be positive and invite those I am friends with to a dinner out. I don t have any other friends, and I wanna have fun. What should I do ? I was also thinking to tell them how I feel when they leave me out all the time