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- Question: How do I deal with my taller friend that thinks she's super short?
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- Question: Why would a friend not give gift?
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- Question: Why isn't he respecting my reqeust?
- Question: Advice on how to deal with a friend that does drugs?
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- Question: Is It ok for a 13 year old to cuss with his friends?
- Question: I had to drop my friend because of this? Is it wrong I'm angry & a bit upset about this?
- Question: Do I seem more egotistical or shy?
- Question: Getting close to girls makes me feel vulnerable?
- Question: How to ask rich friend for money?
- Question: Should I avoid this person? Need advice please!!!?
- Question: My step brother had his dick pic on his phone and I saw it ?
- Question: Should I get new friends?
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- Question: How do I deal with emotional put downs from my parents?
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- Question: How mad should I be that my bud left me at the bar?
- Question: Did I come off to strong?
- Question: Is it "creepy" or "obsessive" to add an aquaintance on snapchat?
- Question: I scanned through my step brother's pictures and found a picture of his erect penis and it aroused me ? I'm 14...?
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- Question: Why are some people so fake?
- Question: Best friend ignoring me?
- Question: How can I convince my friend not everyone has the same sense of humour?
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- Question: I realised I m manipulative, and I don t feel bad?
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| Question: Is there a way I can find someone's phone number by their home address? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:44 PM PDT like I found their home address but can I find their phone number by it? |
| Question: Will I get in trouble for being with people egging? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:41 PM PDT So me and my friends are hanging and we had to pick up his sister but her friends also came. I didn t want to be with them cause it was weird. So they had the idea for egging some kids house and I told them they shouldn t and that s my lil dude. So I didn t want to be apart of it so I stayed in the car to wait and I was the only one. And now they all got caught egging his house and his dad wants everybody to pay $70 for damage but I didn t do nothing. Can I get out of it or? |
| Question: Is it creepy for a 23 year old to be good friends with a 17 year old online? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:34 PM PDT We've been friends for years and my friends think it is weird ( I'm the seventeen year old) or they refer to it as statutory rape. Is this relationship weird? Is it okay for us to be close friends? |
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| Question: How can I make saying goodbye easier? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:25 PM PDT So I am in eight grade at a small private school. I have been going here for middle school and have made all my best friends here. I also got my first boyfriend here and we are still dating... since I'm leaving to go to my public high school and he is staying, Im gonna breakup with him on the last day. My friends are all going to new schools, so none of us will be at the same school next year. I am excited to start a clean slate, but sad about leaving my friends, boyfriend, and all the memories behind. I will try and stay friends with them all, but won't have much time because we are all super busy in extra curricular activities. Its just so hard to say goodbye to what I know, does that make sense? Its just kinda hitting me that its all over in two weeks and that super weird/sad for me to think about. What can I do to make saying goodbye to these people who've had a big impact on my life easier? Sorry if this is a lot of info. Thanks for any help!! |
| Question: Do I have to miss every person who asks me if I miss them in life? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:23 PM PDT Of course I am talking about people who have not been in my life for that long (not longer than a year). I am also talking about those not related to me. |
| Question: How do I deal with my taller friend that thinks she's super short? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:16 PM PDT I know, weird topic. I get it but SERIOUSLY it gets REALLY annoying after a while. So, in primary school, she was always the shorter one but now that we're in HS, I am now shorter than her (which I don't mind) and so are other girls that came with us from the same primary school. However, this did not stop her from still thinking that she is the 'short' one. She goes on talking about how she's super duper 'short' and goes up to taller people (mostly girls) and say "OMG I'm so much shorter than u omg im so shorrrt like whyy am i so short blah blah blah" even though most of the times, the other girl is like barely noticeably shorter than her. What pisses me off the most is that when we take group pictures at school and the person says "Short people so the front" and SHE goes up to the front and blocks other people and fuucken TOWERS over the people at the front. It gets pretty annoying. Because of her pretty much taking up my 'slot', I never get seen in any of our group photos which really sucks (When we take group pics, we have a certain amount of people in my tutorial group so only a small amount of people can go to the front). I have nothing against tall people nor do I have anything against short people knowing that they're short but after about a year of her doing this, it gets pretty annoying. She even sits with super bad posture to make herself seem shorter which makes no sense at all. I dont get why she wants to be short so badly. There's nothing glamorous about it |
| Question: I wish I was normal girl? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:16 PM PDT I have anxiety, talk to myself, always alone and maybe I am possessed. Just wish that I was a normal girl |
| Question: Why would a friend not give gift? Posted: 13 May 2017 04:59 PM PDT My "friend" and I had been exchanging bday gifts for years, with hers on the cheaper end. I've always thanked her though. I gave her a gift this year too but she didn't give me anything. I doubt she has financial troubles since she has been bragging about how she has shorten her mortgage years, going on dates, how her tax return was little, etc. |
| Question: What am I supposed to do? Posted: 13 May 2017 04:57 PM PDT I fell in love with my best friend, we were friends for over 6 years (at that time), she was the first girlI fall in love with, so it was hard for me to tell her how I felt, + I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so after 6 years of hiding my feelings, I told her how I felt (she was leaving school the next year, she moved to a different country), I always knew she didn't feel the same, I know I don't look good, I was fine with it, but anyway, when I told her, she never replied, she ignored me, I literally haven't heard her voice or even seen her since that day, another 6 years have passed, I kept apologizing her but she never answered my messages,12 years, literally for 12 years not a single day has passed without me thinking about her, I have these moments where I feel slightly better and think I can finally move on but I just end up missing her even more, I feel empty, like there's a huge hole in my heart, I feel like my life has no meaning to it. I know that most of you are gonna tell me to move on, talk to other girls and do different kinds of stuff. But none of that works, i've tried moving on numerous times but I just can't. Also i'm not even someone girls would find hot or attractive or whatever, i've been bullied about the way I look before, and she used to stand up to me when that happened. But now she's gone, and I have no idea if she hates me or not, I have no idea if she still remembers me or not. I've always known that I never had a chance, but not telling her was eating me alive, and ever since that happened i've always thought I made a mistake when I did, because I lost my friend. I really don't know what to do anymore, I feel worthless, I just keep thinking about what have I done for her to ignore me like that, I can't even find enough words to describe how I feel right now |
| Question: Why isn't he respecting my reqeust? Posted: 13 May 2017 04:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Advice on how to deal with a friend that does drugs? Posted: 13 May 2017 03:57 PM PDT My two best friends and I have been so close since freshman year (now it's the end of senior year). My one friend does weed, coke, experiments with other drugs, and now smokes cigarettes. She's Ruben off on my other friend and they now do drugs together nearly every school night (causing my other friend to miss school every other day). They've gotten closer without me due to drugs. Last night I finally went out with them at 1am because my ap tests were over. We ended up just sitting quietly in the back of a car, the two of them smoking weed. My one friend had me hold her 2nd blunt until she was ready for it, and when she asked for it I sighed as I handed it over. I have asthma and anxiety, take meda for both and was specifically told by my doctor that I sigh every minute due to these reasons. All my close friends know this, I'm not being impatient or rude. But my One friend took offense and decided to "get back at me" by pulling out a cig, which she knows I am completely against. I jumped out of the car at 3am and walked 1 mile home alone. I thought my other friend would at least walk me home, but she just told me to text her when I got home. I didn't. I want to cut these friends off until they Quit their self destructive behaviors, but I'm certain they won't and I'll just be stuck at home alone all summer and will lose my two best friends. What should I do? |
| Question: How can I fix something I did wrong? Posted: 13 May 2017 03:18 PM PDT I have a friend who is extremely depressed. She got in a fight with the smartest and most popular girl in the grade who is also my best friend (one of them). When she sat down for lunch the popular one moved, and everybody else did, and I moved too. I saw the look on her face. I looked back and she was gone. I assumed in the bathroom. I went to the bathroom and tried to explain. She yelled at me saying "I don't care!" and "Just leave me alone!". She then started sobbing. I ran out. I told my friends, but nobody seemed to care. They didn't have any guilt. She always had sat with me when I got ditched. I feel terrible. But I can't approach her. What do I do? Do I leave her alone? Can I help her? |
| Question: Is It ok for a 13 year old to cuss with his friends? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:59 PM PDT I'm talking about if he wants to say some bad words while with his friends so he doesn't get made fun of but only while with friends but not besides that |
| Question: I had to drop my friend because of this? Is it wrong I'm angry & a bit upset about this? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:39 PM PDT It was my little brother's birthday and of course, I invited my friend because her brother is friend's with mine. What I didn't know is that she dragged her boyfriend along with. He and I sort of get along and my parents were okay with it (don't know how but they were). My friend and her boyfriend sat on the couch and they started making out, in front of 8 year olds! At an 8 year olds party. I tried to tell them to quit because it's not appropriate behavior at my brother's party but her boyfriend told me to shut my mouth, well I couldn't because it is after all my parent's house, not either of theirs. I told him not to be such a jerk and to learn to control themselves but my friend stood up for her boyfriend and said "Shut the hell up. It's not my fault you're such a slut and my boyfriend will be way more important than your stupid single never gonna get married self, and it's not my fault my boyfriend is hot as hell and I wanna kiss him wherever and whenever I want", I told her to leave and never come back after she said that and she called me a *****, a whore and a pig, then made out with him again, then left. I dropped her but now she's starting rumors about me and when we were friends, everyone would pick her over me because she was the attractive friend and I was her side kick. I'm so angry and frustrated, I almost lashed out but I didn't. Do I have a right to be angry? |
| Question: Do I seem more egotistical or shy? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:31 PM PDT Around my college, I don't really talk to many people, and I keep my circle of friends small. I'm the observant type, so I look at someone when they come in the room I'm in just to see who it is, but I don't talk to many people outside my circle. But when someone I know does come through, I'm much friendlier and smile and interact much more, I get louder and our group fills the room with conversation. In your opinion, does this seem more egotistical/prideful to people that don't know me or more shyness? |
| Question: Getting close to girls makes me feel vulnerable? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:23 PM PDT Whenever I get close to a girl (or anyone in general), I feel vulnerable, as if they're only getting to know me to make everything I told them public. I hate being the subject of people's conversations, I prefer to keep to myself. I barely tell my close friends anything about my personal life, and even less to any girls that I interact with. As a result, I never try to have any heavy conversation with anyone if the topic is me. Is there anything I can do to move past this? |
| Question: How to ask rich friend for money? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:12 PM PDT It's an extreme emergency. I was being housed by my parents up till a month ago, when they lost the house and we all had to find places to live. My parents aren't the best parents; they kind of left me to fend for myself. I got a friend to agree to house me for a few hundred dollars/biweekly; and initially I wanted to stay rent free with another friend for a few weeks until I saved up the money to move in. However said friend expected me to have sex with him in exchange for a place to stay and became abusive about it, so I had no choice but to prematurely move in to my friends spot. Trouble is; rent is due today and I have nothing because of the unexpectedness of it all. I feel horrible; but it's either this or a shelter and I want to weigh all my options before packing my bags. I have a well to do friend who could probably lend me the money. I never ask people for stuff like this though and have no idea where to start. What should I say? |
| Question: Should I avoid this person? Need advice please!!!? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:05 PM PDT I have a lot going on in my personal life right now and I had shared that w/ one of my "friends" who I had met in college. We were taking a class together and I had to withdraw even though I did NOT fail the class. However, I found out that she shared my business with other people and she told this one guy that" I didn't make it out the class". She made it seem as I failed which I didn't. I'm not sure if she did it to laugh at me or if she's just fake. So ever since I found out, I've been avoiding her lately. She keeps texting me saying she misses me and she wants to hang out etc But IDK how I feel about her anymore. Also Prior to this, I've always noticed that she would always copy me and she Lacks confidence. Need advice? This person also tried to make me look bad in front of others before which confirms her insecurity |
| Question: My step brother had his dick pic on his phone and I saw it ? Posted: 13 May 2017 02:03 PM PDT I'm 14(girl) I now live with my step brother and wanted to find out a little more about him... I'm a very curious person . There's nothing I can do about it. He went out and left his phone charging. Me being me, I saw it and decided to check what he has on his phone. I went to the photos and they were mostly ordinary, but 3 of them were pictures of his erect penis... (I didn't send it to my phone or anything..) I kind of got aroused and checked them out at least 6 times. Will he find out that I was on his phone ? Is it normal that it aroused me ? (He's 8 months older than me) It's awkard to see him now.. Lol... First answer made me smile. |
| Question: Should I get new friends? Posted: 13 May 2017 01:57 PM PDT I've been friends with these guys since 6th grade but over the years I've gotten different tastes and they've gotten more bitchy. We have the same sense of humor but that's all we do just make jokes we can't do anything else because they get offended over everything. They tell me **** because I don't like video games anymore and focus more on music and my guitar playing. Maybe it's me but should I start looking for new friends. We're in the 10th grade |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 01:50 PM PDT I moved in Switzerland last June and I have been 11 months here . I miss my old life it's really hard to adjust here because at school no one really wants to speak with me and I stay alone most of the time other than that everyone speaks german and I can't really express myself well in german which makes it even more harder . I was so used to having a lot of friends around and now I'm just all alone , I've tried making friends but they just end up ignoring me and only speak Swiss German which is different from german. I do have some friends outside of school but I think they just don't care about me. I miss my old life and my friends now everyone thinks I'm just a loser . |
| Question: How do I deal with emotional put downs from my parents? Posted: 13 May 2017 01:40 PM PDT So, my parents have been putting me down a lot. Like, I had some really good ideas that I suggested, an average B+, and I also was trying my best to do things myself. So, they put down my good ideas by saying that it was horrible, no good idea, and they yelled at me that a b+ was bad, and they did better than I ever did when they were in school. I tried hard for that B+, and they said they wouldn't be mad if I tried hard, but they still yelled at me, were mad, and said that I was horrible in that subject and that I was not that smart whatsoever. That I was pretty dumb. I mean, I'm in really advanced classes, a grade higher than I am supposed to be studying (I am in 6th grade, and I am learning 7th to 8th grade math). Also, they told me that I wasn't taking care of the house good when they weren't doing anything whatsoever to clean the house except for a basket of laundry. They always put me down and I feel really bad about myself, that I am actually dumb, and that I'm not good at doing anything. What should I do? |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 01:35 PM PDT I'm just really missing her today. Even though I have a new best friend it isn't the same and I don't know if It will ever be. |
| Question: My friend won't calm down.? Posted: 13 May 2017 01:30 PM PDT So basically, she got in a fight with somebody on a forum. She said she didn't remember any of the points he made in the story he was talking about and he said to read the wiki and called her an idiot. He kept being really stubborn. She called him a petty little nine year old girl and he called her an idiot, and things escalated. He told her she was making herself look like an idiot and told her to delete her account on the forum. She stopped replying, but he kept annoying her. He told her that she was being a hypocrite and was saying she started the argument, when he really did. She said she had better things to do and he said that if she had better things to do then do them and stop replying, so she told him she couldn't do them with him pestering her. They said allot of mean things to each other, and she reported him twice. I tried to stop them, but I couldn't. They blocked each other, and my friend came over to my house crying. She's kept pacing back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. I asked her if she wanted to do karaoke, which we always do when we have sleepovers. She said no, and she said she wasn't hungry, even though she didn't eat at all today. She has a high fever, but whenever I try to help her she snaps at me. I forced her to eat a spoonful of oatmeal, but she spat out the rest. She's currently resting. I feel really, really scared for her. What should I do? Thank you for the help. I've decided that first I'll give her some space and wait for her to cool off, and if it doesn't work then I'll be extra kind and caring to her. |
| Question: How mad should I be that my bud left me at the bar? Posted: 13 May 2017 01:13 PM PDT We were at the bar The night started off well- but we ended up in separate areas of the bar. I had texted him to let him know where in the bar I was. I also saw him prior to leaving in the area where I was- but when I realized I had left he simply stated he couldn't find me... which doesn't seem to fit (I was crashing on his couch because I live in the suburbs & he lives downtown). I was able to get an Uber back- and realize these things can happen- but still. |
| Question: Did I come off to strong? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:47 PM PDT Okay, so there was this guy who transferred to my school at the beginning of the year. He was in my wellness class, which is how I came to know him. All I really know is his name and where he is from. He seems nice and chill and I would love to get to know him. I recently got his snapchat from a friend who has a class with him. (The class I had with him, is no longer in session). I added him and he added me back that day. Where as he is new he has come across plenty of new people and asked for a picture to refresh his memory. The only real contact I've had with him is when I showed him to class because he was lost. Now he messaged me back later and said that we should talk more and asked if I ever see him around. I answered that I did sometimes, and asked which lunch he has. He told me and it turns out I have the same lunch twice a week. After that he told me how he misses his hometown and sent me a video of him and his friend surfing. I responded to the video and he hasn't opened the message in two days. Did I come off too strong? I was genuinely trying to make a new friend, but I feel like I may of scared him off. |
| Question: Is it "creepy" or "obsessive" to add an aquaintance on snapchat? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:40 PM PDT I know this guy from a class I used to take. Basically I would really like to get to know him because he seems like a very chill person, and a nice friend to have. But all I really know is his name. I added him and he responded a little asking who I was again etc. (He transferred at the beginning of the year) All the real contact i've had with him in person is showing him to a class we shared, because he was lost. He responded a little bit, but then didn't open my snap for over two days. Did I come off as creepy? Because I genuinely wanted to just get to know him. Should I apologize for snapping him? |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 12:33 PM PDT I'm 14(girl) I now live with my step brother and wanted to find out a little more about him... I'm a very curious person . There's nothing I can do about it. He went out and left his phone charging. Me being me, I saw it and decided to check what he has on his phone. I went to the photos and they were mostly ordinary, but 3 of them were pictures of his erect penis... (I didn't send it to my phone or anything..) I kind of got aroused and checked them out at least 6 times. Will he find out that I was on his phone ? Is it normal that it aroused me ? (He's 8 months older than me) |
| Question: What do these comments mean? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:27 PM PDT Before science class, there was a group of fellow students bottling homemade pepper spray for a science project (long story). I was talking to them and noticed that the spray bottles that were being used weren t great for continuous spray. One girl in the group said something like, "No one s perfect, (me). Except how would you know that? You are perfect." What do these sorts of comments mean? I am a middle school student. |
| Question: Why are some people so fake? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:18 PM PDT My friend asked me if I want to go to a concert, which I said I will pay her back for my ticket. We then met few days before my bday and I had asked what was the price. She showed me the price and told me to just pay her half, but the she asked how about if she gives that as my bday present. Of course I said no to the bday present. If she was genuine, shouldn't she just gifted the ticket without asking? |
| Question: Best friend ignoring me? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:17 PM PDT Around two months ago, my old best friend stopped talking to me completely. She unfollowed my social media accounts, ignored me, and talked about me with our other friends. She stopped talking to me not because of anything I did, she just did not want to be my friend anymore and was annoyed that when we were friends, I'd call her too much to talk about our days. The friend also hated that I never opened up to her when that's all she did w/me. After all of this, I respected her choices cause you don't have to have anyone in your life if you don't want them there. But she told our friends that she would say things in class in front of me to purposefully upset me (I wasn't aware of this because whatever she was saying clearly wasn't cutting too deep) and she also told someone that I had a crush on them (when I didn't) just so that person would stop giving my old friend romantic attention. I've moved on from the situation for the most part, I just don't like that she's lied to our mutual friends, especially since they aren't too happy with her to begin with. The friend just requested to follow me on twitter again and I'm at a loss at what to do. My friends are mad and hate that she thinks she can try and "mend" things after "treating me like that". Honestly I don't know if the twitter request was her trying to mend things, I'm just extremely confused at this point. I'd really appreciate any advice on how you think she feels and maybe what I could even do about it! Thank you! |
| Question: How can I convince my friend not everyone has the same sense of humour? Posted: 13 May 2017 12:17 PM PDT Yesterday at Pet Valu she saw some big hamster ball. She was like "Oh look at that it's huge! Isn't that hilarious how big the young made that thing?!" I didn't really think that was funny so being honest said "oh I saw that before I think it's for a rat or something." I said it politely not rude. Then one day she was sending me the link to some parody videos of children's shows. She thought it was funny but fro my point of view it's not that interesting. I just said oh ok. Yeah I saw the videos. She thinks everyone is supposed to have the same sense of humour and if they don't laugh at stuff she does then apparently she says they aren't acting the selfs. That's bullshit from my point of view. |
| Question: I feel like my friend doesn't want to see me? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:53 AM PDT My friend and his girlfriend live 70 miles away from me it's an hour in the train, it's about £10 train fair. They said they was going to come up after Christmas and see me but didn't end up coming and said they have no money, so I went to see them on the 22 February my birthday. But haven't seen them since, they said they was coming up after easter and haven't come. I asked my friend why and he said he has no money to come up and can't afford it, but he could of saved up. I even said I will give him the money for his train ticket and he said ''No because I'll end up spending it on something else and don't want to take your money'' And I've said today I will buy his tickets and send them to him and he agreed to it, but he said he needs to talk to his girlfriend because he said he doesn't know what day he's free. He said I'm strrrssing him out because I kept asking him what days he is free and he kept saying ''I'm busy Tuesday and Thursday because I'm working and Saturday I'm collecting my dads lottery tickets and I'm covering for someone at work as they are off'' When I say il come and see him he goes ''We'll see because I got problems with the neighbours'' Just seems like he doesn't really wanna come? |
| Question: I realised I m manipulative, and I don t feel bad? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:45 AM PDT I ve looked up behaviours and things that manipulative people do with their friends and I match most of them. I ve even taken quizzes (Not very reliable, but still.) and I ve had high scores. I m realising I do these things with my friends and now I don t even feel bad. I m not worried but should I be? |
| Question: I am going through some jealousy. What do I do? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:19 AM PDT There is a friend I have who is a girl. We have been good friends for a long time, but I am afraid of her hanging out with other friends she has more fun with like this kid who is a year or 2 younger than me who is a total pain in the butt to me, and this guy who is close to her age who she jokes around with. How do I fix this friendship and not be jealous? |
| Question: No Friends? Bad Friends? How to find True Friends? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:14 AM PDT I'm in my twenties. I thought I had a group of friends but I'm feeling like I really don't. We always have a great time when we go out places but it's always me having to initiate conversations or invite them places. So since i'm tired of feeling like a pest, I decided to try something. I stopped. So far it's been a month I haven't texted, called, or invited them anywhere. No communication. I wanted to see if they'd actually think of me for once. They didn't / haven't. I feel like they aren't true friends because they don't ever think of me. At all. I'm talking about 6 people here that I thought were my closest friends. Why don't they think of me? I see on their facebook pages they're always doing things with other people that I don't know. So if they can make time for other friends, why not me? Anytime they have ever needed anything i've always been the first to volunteer to help or whatever. I also always remember their birthdays, which they don't mine. So I guess I should forget theirs this year. Which is coming up. I need some new friends... But i'm not sure how to start over making them? |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 11:12 AM PDT Okay so there was this really hot guy who transferred to my school. I just so happened to have a class with him, so I got to see him every week. I started to like him. I didn t say anything though because literally every girl was going through the same thing and there were way prettier girls after him. Fast forward a few months. I no longer have any classes with him, but I see him in the halls in between classes. I am way to shy to straight up go and talk to him, so I got his snapchat from a friend. Note he really didn t know me, cuz we only talked once. Anyway he added me back and asked me who I was etc. After I showed him a picture and explained he said we should talk more. Then he proceeded to talk about his home town. Now I responded to this and he hasn t even opened it in two days. (This was Thursday, it is now Saturday). Do you think I read the situation wrong, and he s trying not to answer me? Or he is just busy or something? Please help. I just want to add that no we hadn't officially met, but I had showed him the class and talked to him for a a few. And I had class with him, so it's not like I just tracked down a complete stranger in the halls. Is it that "stalkerish" ? I didn't push talking, I just casually added him, which people do all the time. So we were aquaintances. Also he said we should talk more... Not me... I know people who know him so I mean... Please tell me if I'm being creepy, or "obsessive" |
| Question: Everyone has a problem with my friends? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:09 AM PDT They say my two friends are "awkward" and "weird." I know that may be mean, but I do see it. When I bring them around my other friends, they just sit there and gives dirty looks. They don't talk or add to the conversation. They just sit there, awkwardly. If someone talks to them, they just make a weird face (a mad face, a dirty look). They also say my friends are sluts, which I also do see. They send nudes to guys quite often. I was hanging out with them once, and brought them to a party. They ended up hooking up with two guys there, which is fine except for the fact that they didn't talk the entire party. They just had sex then left. While I'm not judging my friends at all, I love them, everyone else thinks I shouldn't be hanging out with them. They say that my two friends give me a bad reputation, simply because I am friends with them. I have a boyfriend, who often has a problem with me hanging out with them. He says he constantly hears people talking about what they do (rumors, some are true). While I wish my boyfriend could be more understanding of them, I can't blame him because my friends literally ignore him. When I bring them around him, they just sit there. I have other friends besides these two, and my other friends are totally fine. It's just my two friends. We have been friends since birth, so I can't stop talking to them. I have said something to them, but they get defensive. Deep down they are funny, cool people. But they aren't themselves around others. |
| Question: I wonder if my friends care? Posted: 13 May 2017 11:01 AM PDT A drunk mind speaks a sober heart. I'm starting to suspect my friends dont really care or like me. That may not be true but I have to find out. Should I purposely get them drunk to find out the truth and record the conversation as evidence? I'm not hurting anyone. People get other people drunk to rape them or to get money out of them. I just want to find out the truth. I remember one person saying that alcohol doesn't turn us into a different person but rather reveal the true thoughts and words of a person as alcohol allows us not to restrain ourselves. |
| Question: Is it rude to stop inviting flaky friends? Posted: 13 May 2017 10:48 AM PDT I'm friends with a person who I really admire. However, they always seem to cancel at the last minute, and to some extent, it makes me feel that don't really want to be friends. I would feel like a jerk confronting the person, but I find their consistent flakiness annoying and selfish. The main excuse they give is that there cell phone is dead and they left the charger at work, which is true. I don't know, people confuse me. |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 09:47 AM PDT Today at school, she completely ignored me and now she texts me saying we should of gone somewhere together, but she didn t apologize for what she did. She always does this. Is she even worth my time? |
| Question: Why do socially awkward people make others so uncomfortable? Posted: 13 May 2017 09:44 AM PDT |
| Question: I have a huge crush on my step cousin ? Posted: 13 May 2017 09:39 AM PDT She's a very cute girl. Her body is perfect, she's smart and a nice person. She was very friendly towards me. Their family visited us a couple days ago and I couldn't stay away from her even for a minute... She's one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen(and I've seen many) I even flirted with her and she seemed to like it. She even gave me her number, skype and social media. I checked everything about her and she's single(I was very surprised about it) On last day, she got touchy and even hugged me a couple of times. After she left, we started texting. She sometimes gives me cute nicknames. I asked her "what kind of guys do you like?" and she described "her perfect guy" EXACTLY with the same features like me. Did she say it on purpose to signal me that she likes me, too ? She says that she would like to meet up again, but alone and go to woods or a lake where there are no people. I'm 15, she's 6 months younger than me(still 14) Was she hinting on anything when she said that we should go to a lake alone(or woods) ? It kind of makes me very horny just thinking about that... |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 09:23 AM PDT Help! I'm so scared my house isn't good enough! It sounds stupid but I hate inviting people over. |
| Posted: 13 May 2017 08:47 AM PDT So I screwed up. Four days ago I was talking to my best friend and I brought up that his gf and I weren t friends on Facebook anymore. I asked if she didn t like me or something and he began saying she said she didn t delete me. A couple weeks prior to this, I ended up deleting her because I convinced myself she didn t like me. So anyway, he knew I was lying when I started saying I didn t delete her and making up a story about how I was hacked and what not. He saw right through my lie, I lied because I was scared (I don t know of what, but I was). Anyway, I finally confessed and told him I lied and that I was (when I deleted her) afraid she didn t like me and whatnot but that I was wrong and just wanted to readd her. He got extremely upset and hurt over this and now hasn t talked to me in 4 days. He said we are still bros and still best friends but he just needs time. To me though, I ve been feeling like him and I have been growing distant since he got in this relationship. But my goal isn t to break them up. I ve truly never seen a better match and compatibility in my life. Can someone give me some advice? I gave the shortest, most condensed version I could while trying to give all the details I can. His gf said we are good but she is still hurt that I would do that. What do I do? How do I make this right? I need my best friend back. |
| Question: Bullied and se*ual harrassed at school? Posted: 13 May 2017 08:20 AM PDT It didn't happened in the school anyway but the guy's always bullying me at school. He used to be a jerk from the first year and I was always avoiding him but recently it seems everywhere I go he's there before me and he catch me immediately. The main problem is the last time he tried to finger me outside the school He never do such these things in school so I was too scared and embarassed to do something I just stand there shaking and begging him let me go and after a few min he slapped me in the face and yelled run you fag** I don't know what to do it's too embarrassing to tell anyone I rather die to say it aloud |
| Question: Do friends usually do this? Posted: 13 May 2017 08:12 AM PDT Before I start I want to state I fully understand that after you hang around someone for a long time you start to pick up on the small things and habits they do and do them yourself. So I have this friend who's been very close to me for a pretty long time who I'm very open with. But over time I've started to notice she's starting to do thing I do, like little habits, or talking like me, or saying stuff I would. And that's fine, but when I joke about her turning into a mini me, she gets very defensive and says she's been doing those things her entire life and that it's "her thing". My other friends have noticed this as well. I do a lot of things in my free time and I have my main hobbies. Well ever since I started talking about them she says she does those things too and she refers to them as "her things" and gets defensive and angry whenever I talk about them. Not usually in front of other people though, otherwise she acts like she doesn't care. If I start watching a series then she will, and talk about it as if it's her life. Or she just gets angry and acts as if we are fighting. She does it with everything, books (even though she was never a reader once she knew I was) favorite places to be, things I do, hobbies, tv shows, favorite foods. I hate not being able to do the things I like, and I have to be private about everything. She also hates me being involved in everything if she can't be, does anyone have the same problem? |
| Question: Like My Sisters Friend? Posted: 13 May 2017 08:05 AM PDT Hey . I am 16 , My sister is 14 and her Friend which I really like is 15 . I have liked her for quite some time now but it is a secret that nobody knows . She comes to my house rarely for birthdays and stuff . We know each other for a very long time (about 7 years) I started getting interest in her about 2 years ago . What do I do . I don t even have her number . I don t know if she dates . I have her on Instagram that s all . Please somebody help me |
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| Question: Help! Is this what friends usually do? Posted: 13 May 2017 07:52 AM PDT So it s been over a span of time but my "best friend" is starting to actually be me. For example, she will start doing things that I do, like small habits that aren t really important but my other friends have started to notice it as well. I get that because we ve hung out a lot of the years she s picked up on the things, but when I joke about her turning into me she gets very defensive and says she s been doing it her whole life and it s "her thing" Also she doesn t let me do anything that she does, like hobbies of sorts but things that I like to do are completely open for her trying. It s not like I can t do them but I just can t talk about doing them in front of her. She also hates everything I m involved in and gets very very defensive and tries making me not try out for things or do the things I love. She never likes something until she knows I do. She d start watching the same shows I do or reading the same series I do after I talk about it all of a sudden it s her favorite thing and she won t let anyone else talk about it like it s "theirs" I know I don t own a series or a hobby, but she s starting to get out of hand. Others have noticed this too. |
| Question: There's a teacher who is acting different. Idk why? It's like this teacher has changed.? Posted: 13 May 2017 07:45 AM PDT I'm not going to say weather this teacher is a female or male. So this teacher I have know for 2 years. This teacher has always been very nice until he or she started to change. We got a new teacher and every sense then the other teacher who I'm talking about now has been acting different. The new teachers room keeps being messed with and every time I see them both together they are not smiling unless they are around students. This teacher used to talk to me but now has stopped for no reason. We always have gotten along great and I haven't done anything to this teacher. Anyway just wanted to share this because it was on my mind. |
| Question: Done college for the summer, now what? Posted: 13 May 2017 07:33 AM PDT To make it simple, I've been seeing a guy at school for the past month and a half. We've gotten really close over this period of time and have hung out a lot. He's not looking for a relationship currently, so as of right now we're just friends. We just spent the last month and a half living in buildings right next to each other and getting to see each other pretty much whenever. Whether it was a quick bite to eat, sitting outside talking, or cuddling and watching movies, everything was so easy. We have also hooked up, but have not had sex (I am a virgin and refuse to unless I have commitment). The semester ended yesterday and saying bye really freakin sucked. He said he wants to keep in touch and get together soon, but I feel like everything is just going to be so different. We used to text almost daily - even if it was just to ask to go get food together. Since that can't happen anymore, I don't know how often to text him or even about what. We live an hour apart and we're both going to be working full time, but I definitely don't want summer ruining anything. |
| Question: Why does she wear the scarf I gave her? Posted: 13 May 2017 07:12 AM PDT Three moths ago, my friend/coworker and I went to the downtown area of our city to go shopping and eating. We had a nice time. I did this to help her smile more and have fun. She was the kind of person that grew up inside her house a lot and didn't have a lot of friends. I was like that, too, but I attended a university, where I traveled a lot and did moreover than the average college kid. Anyways, at the end of the night, she returned my scarf, which she was wearing to keep herself warm. I wrapped it around her neck and told her she could keep it so she can keep herself warm and happy. She hugged me tightly and kissed my cheek. She always wears it, even during work. She apologized one time when she didn't wear it, even though I told her she didn't have to. She hugs me a lot more after I did that. |
| Question: What am I supposed to do? Posted: 13 May 2017 06:54 AM PDT I fell in love with my best friend, we were friends for over 6 years (at that time), she was the first girlI fall in love with, so it was hard for me to tell her how I felt, + I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so after 6 years of hiding my feelings, I told her how I felt (she was leaving school the next year, she moved to a different country), I always knew she didn't feel the same, I know I don't look good, I was fine with it, but anyway, when I told her, she never replied, she ignored me, I literally haven't heard her voice or even seen her since that day, another 6 years have passed, I kept apologizing her but she never answered my messages,12 years, literally for 12 years not a single day has passed without me thinking about her, I have these moments where I feel slightly better and think I can finally move on but I just end up missing her even more, I feel empty, like there's a huge hole in my heart, I feel like my life has no meaning to it. I know that most of you are gonna tell me to move on, talk to other girls and do different kinds of stuff. But none of that works, i've tried moving on numerous times but I just can't. Also i'm not even someone girls would find hot or attractive or whatever, i've been bullied about the way I look before, and she used to stand up to me when that happened. But now she's gone, and I have no idea if she hates me or not, I have no idea if she still remembers me or not. I've always known that I never had a chance, but not telling her was eating me alive, and ever since that happened i've always thought I made a mistake when I did, because I lost my friend. I really don't know what to do anymore, I feel worthless, I just keep thinking about what have I done for her to ignore me like that, I can't even find enough words to describe how I feel right now |
| Question: Is it normal that I spy on my step brother while he's showering ? Posted: 13 May 2017 06:38 AM PDT I like his body and he's handsome... I stalk him on social media and even tried to take a peek when he was showering... I tried to walk in on him when he's changing, he doesn't even react or care. He just moves on even when I'm next to him. I'm just a very curious and horny person...(I'm a girl, 14yrs old and he's 15.) He once asked me , why do I walk into his room so much when he's changing. I lied, but he said that he likes it... What did he mean by that ? He always looks at my chest and butt... |
| Question: My friend says all I care about is dating? how can I fix this? Posted: 13 May 2017 06:36 AM PDT My friend is constantly saying all I care about is dating and that I constantly rush into relationships which isn't true, because I don't wait a day or two before dating again, I wait at least two or more months before thinking about it.. she says that all I care about is wanting someone to like me and that hurt me quiet a bit because she even knows every time I talk to a guy or like a guy or a guy even talks to me it's because they want to speak to her (she has a boyfriend) and that they'd prefer her over me because I'm not as pretty as she is (I've come to accept that, and I know that's usually the case because they'll tell me straight up I'm ugly and she's not) how do I handle this? I've tried to tell her it's not true because I actually am one to tell a guy we need to be friends before dating and not rushing. Is she right? If I wait a few months? I don't want to be thinking I'm not when it appears to her & everyone else that I am.. Please take this question seriously; it's a bit important |
| Question: Would you think that this person just didn't get my humour ? Posted: 13 May 2017 06:15 AM PDT Some guy I was chatting with : "I expect to get a humorous response from you." I had later made a grand joke and he said : "That's too imaginative for me." |
| Question: How can I change myself so I can make friends with people around my age? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:35 AM PDT I'm a 24 year old woman and I have been getting rejected for friendships here and there for the past three years. I've also had failed friendships and one because I was desperate. My spirit is already crushed. I already have low self-esteem and I do have symptoms of depression, such as always sleeping and gaining weight. Either every female my age already has their set of friends or just don't want to be friends with me (by ignoring me, as usual). I always kick/bash myself and blame myself for being a total weirdo and an ugly nerd growing up because if not for that, other girls and boys wouldn't have shunned/bullied me and they would have given me a chance for friendships and my social skills wouldn't be as terrible. I hate my life to the point that I find myself wishing I had other people's lives. One particular girl doesn't want to go to college, doesn't have a degree, but has a good social life. I would rather have that life because I feel like I am wasting my life. The thing is, I am getting my Master's degree, but I don't care because without a social life, I don't feel happy with myself or my life. |
| Question: What do I bring to a Bat Mitzvah? Posted: 13 May 2017 05:32 AM PDT I was invited to one its today and I wanted to know should I only bring my phone and wallet and can I skip the service some of my friends are. |
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